when your man is cheating on you, you will know ..... EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM CHANGES , you just have to know your man and pay close attention to everything!!!!!!!!!!
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Being a guy myself I can easily tell you 3 things most guys will do during cheating, 1. Guys will likely be less talkative and needy of you or seems like they are always busy 2. Guys will oftenly seem to repeat Smal things they said or randomly get sweeter or nicer st times randomly 3. Guys will ask if you been cheating
1) stop caring about sex 2) stops arguing about things that used to piss him off 3) when public things become private. Such as his cellphone, social media 4) stops hanging out with his old friends 5) becomes more independent 6) works late hours 7) texts more than usual 8) mood suddenly changes 9) constantly accusing you of cheating on him
Dating a man for over 2 years now and he is doing all of 9reasons of them.. that's why I'm letting him go.. I only live once and I deserve better... thanks.... much easier for me to move on...
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My Ex started acting some of these Signs and I just packed up and leave. I didn't even bother asking why. I wont waste my time on a Cheater and a Loser....
Jing Carlos might actually do that if this ever happens just pack up and leave just too much time to argue and yell over something that he done when he could just tell you the reason
Even if she does NOT give him everything that she can and that he needs, it's still HIS fault to a 100% if he cheats! Cuz not getting from her what u need is NEVER an excuse to cheat but instead a reason to let her KNOW what ur missing and either work it out or leave her.
Well, that sounds good but doesn't really help anybody. There's a reason for anything and if you know what may trigger a person to do a certain thing then you can have the ability to avoid it. Saying it's his fault or her fault may make you feel better for a few minutes but that's it.
askchazzellis Sorry, but I disagree with u on that. It seems like ur giving men excuses to cheat. The ACT of cheating is the sole responsibility of the cheater, cuz ,instead of chosing the other, ALWAYS available, option of letting her KNOW that hes missing something,(and by that giving her the chance to change it), he's taking the easy way out. So yes, cheating itself, is completely his fault. The reason WHY he feels his needs are not met, might not be his fault. Depending on what it is he needs,it might be completely her responsibility, completely his or both of their responsibility. (If he ,for instance, has the need, for new P*** theres not much she can do about it. Also if he feels the need to be admired,she can try her best to do so, but he has to give her sth to work with and not constantly do "non-admirable" shit, cuz it's not her responsibility let him get away with everything forever and ignore it just to fulfill his need for admiration)
Linda B I look at this issue the same: love me or leave me. If you want to love me we should work the stuff together, if you don't love me you'd better leave me for my and your sake. Not getting something might be a trigger,but there's always someone who's pulling it. In the end cheating is the problem of cheater.
13:55 that's that 80/20 rule. men cheat because the woman they have is ALMOST perfect. but she's missing one or two little things. so, when he finds a woman who fills that void, he THINKS he's struck gold. but the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
Every guy i have dated in the past would cheat on me and i asked one of my ex's and he said it's because you are to sweet so forgiving and i thought you would never leave. So when my men now do something instead of always saying it's okay baby i say okay or something of the sort so they knew it is not always okay and lastly i never settle and i learned to let a man miss me if i have to work for 5 hours and got busy and can't reply to bad i don't owe him an explanation and i will text him when i can, and lastly i learned to love myself most and put myself first. No more cheaters.
If you cheat on your wife or girlfriend without discussing with them your feelings as to why you feel the need to be with or pursue or be with someone else, then you'll probably be single for the rest of your life. That would work only if the girl was insecure and didn't value herself enough to leave you.
Yeah. My husband guarded his phone like a soldier. Multiple layers of security and I still refused to believe that be could actually do what he did to me. After 14 years of marriage, he slept with 3 of our neighbors. I got him good though. Had an hacker break into his phone and expose him to his bosses. Men aren't shit!!
Brittany D that's not true. it all depends on the kind of person.. I mean there is no reason to cheat but sometimes good people cheat and it can be based on peer pressure or influence by a friend or insecurities but however is not good but when it happens and the person realizes their mistake and stop talking to bad friends and make up their mind they are gonna change because in the first place it wasn't their lifestyle, they will definitely stop! I'm speaking from experience..Anybody can cheat but it's left with you to stop and change.. Alot of things leads to cheating.. It is not good to cheat however.
All reasons why i dont even date anymore so much more at peace and happy since i dont have to go thru anymore BS. damn i sleep good at night #teamsingle
and you are denying yourself the gift of closeness with another person. Maybe you could date people that are different than youd normally go for. There are jerks but there are some amazing people too
Yeah but they’ll call you crazy if you solely rely on your “woman’s tuition”. You have to have some type of evidence. I have a feeling right now. But I can’t figure out his password for the light of me he’s super protective of it. Idk what to do how to catch him. Anytime I confront him using my “woman’s tuition” he says I’m sick in the head & insecure.
@@anditsreyna020 haha He should be with my bf as their words are totally the same.Calling me insecure all the time.But when my guy friends would say hi to me.Hes face totally wrinkled like hes saggy balls
i could be wrong be i dont think relationships with cheaters arent salvageable. the person cheated on will always have doubts and the cheater may always be tempted. if you dont have what they want, let em go.
Men are rarely monogamous unless they are super religious or no one wants them. I feel if you been with someone for years at some point you may be faced with infidelity and it doesn't have to be sexual. As women we can not control what a man chooses to do and if he cheats we cannot sit there and blame ourselves. We have no possession over another human being and their actions. If you dont want to be cheated on be single.
I told this to someone and they told ne i had issues. But i was speaking generally. I worked in a company and found out all the married men had girlfriends.
It's easier to leave when you don't have kids together .. Once there are kids involved it's kind of difficult especially if he adores his kids and they adore him...
I love your honest-straight to the point perspective! Unfortunately, EVERYTHING you listed is a red flag. Your video was only a confirmation brother! thank you for posting-cause most men aren't honest! Even when you-I mean I confronted him about it! Sigh I was breaking it off today anyway.
1. A man wants to be "appreciated." What that means is you should praise him. You might work hard, clean up after him, hold a full time job, too. Doesn't matter. What man says to his mate, "Baby, I love how you keep this family running and work so hard." But you sure better be saying that to him. A lot. 2. Do not ever criticize him, even in private. No matter how ridiculous or painful or detrimental his actions are. The MINUTE you tell him something he's done is wrong you are in trouble. And never try to have a grownup discussion with him about a problem in your relationship. He "doesn't want to talk about it." He is not interested in fixing it. Not with you, anyway. Once he knows you are not worshiping him all the time (see #1) he starts looking for somebody who will. He is on his way out. 3. Remember that a man rarely ever leaves just to leave. He has to already have someone else waiting to put up with him.
oxford14 sounds like a big ass kid to me. A relationship is 50/50. if I do all of that, he damn sure has to do it back. plus the part about having a grownup convo about the relationship? What? if we can't talk like adults then dude. ...maybe you don't need to be in a relationship lol. This Sounds like a guide to kissing a selfish man's ass.....
Sierra bro It wasnt meant to be instructional. Just a warning to any woman who expects a give-and-take relationship. The wife or girlfriend who finds a man who doesn't act the way I described is very, very lucky. The rest of us get nowhere trying to have any discussion to work out an issue in the relationship. How often do we hear, "I don't want to talk about it right now." or "Now don't start that." or (my favorite) "I don't want to hear it!" Whoever said "Every married woman has at least one child" got it absolutely right.
oxford14 this is interesting..i do believe that a women should take care of her man just like a child but in different way ... because men are providers i guess some women want her man to do the full job
Sweet Candy. Men are providers? Most of the women I know go out to work at a job. The only way to call men providers in these cases are that their paychecks are usually bigger.
If he is cheating. .then why don't he just leave ! Just pack his bags and leave!...because if he stays...then both will just be miserable !I believe... once a cheater always a cheater!...He will never be happy with one woman...sorry ladies...that's just the way it is..
In response to his comment about if your constantly being cheated on, its not because of u it's actually a karmic thing & a lesson is to be learned from it. Learn to not care when someone starts cheating on u & let go, don't blame urself and don't go cheat to get back at them just learn to walk away & learn self love so the next person will love you the way u deserve & the karma may not be ur karma, but the person ur with, but the best advice I ever got was we all deserve to be happy, if ur not happy then leave no matter how hard it is, because nobody deserves to be mistreated or unappreciated unless they are narcissistic, sociopathic or psychopathic then sorry but they deserve nothing! Please do your due diligence on researching narcissists/sociopaths & psychopaths it will help you to avoid being a victim of fraud love, they love to future fake. Love to all who have a conscious & beautiful HEARTS!
I never had a relationship but I still I've seen like other relationships and people are just constantly getting hurt like what's the point of having a relationship if your going to cheat if that's the case just stay single :/
I know my husband patterns he knows mine we are happy married and I promised him if he doesn't cheat I want but if he does I will but the difference is I won't hide it
Well, it's good that you could admit those things and that will help you in the future because most people don't seem to be able to take any responsibility for their lives.
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The thing with cheating that upsets me so much is that I have a hard time telling the difference between my own paranoia and my intuition and I’d HATE to leave someone who really was innocent over an assumption and/or speculation but at the same time my intuition has never been wrong. I have no problem leaving a man it’s just annoying and selfish when they try to cheat and still keep you around. Like just let me go. Clearly you not feeling it so why not just be upfront and admit your cheating. Why do I have to find out about it.
I honestly disagree with you on some points. If you feel as though your partner is not meeting up to your standards to where you have to go out and get it from someone else, then just LEAVE. Changing myself to meet your standards is wrong. You should love the person for who they are; personality wise and physically (whatever you look to first), and if you feel as though their not putting enough effort, than why stay with them anyways? There's absolutely NO reason or excuse to cheat. And you DEFINATELY can't blame it on the "victim" for just simply being who they are. Cheating is for low-lives who don't have the guts to end a relationship they're obviously not happy with. Sure, I'll be heartbroken and depressed for awhile, but the cheater dumping me is giving me a closer chance to finding my better match and maybe even my "Prince Charming", if THAT even exists...
Sucks I'm going thru this right now I haven't caught him up yet but it's just a gut feeling irrational work hours and not letting me see his phone..forget feeling sad if he doesn't value me I know there someone out there who will
lovelyonedeuce ..go through his cell i have sweetie youll be surprized @ what youll find! I almost shit😢😢💣dont be afraid! Just keep in mind ( they never know whats missing until its gone) i was like you i had a gut feeling and went with my intentions they were correct!!
Listen to your gut feeling that's what you have it for do not cut him any slack he is cheating you do not need a cheater in your life and to feel the way that you are feeling right now
I agree nowadays it is not a good thing to cheat on anyone, just leave. There are too many STD risks involved so why take that chance? I don't get it, my ex was online having sex w females, we had a great sex life, I have a big heart, personality, intelligence, nice looking & i have a sense of humor so I dont get why he cheated on me. But its his loss and someone else's gain. To all women who have been sent down this path, you deserve more. Much love & blessings to all!
the voice beautiful words yes all women with a heart of gold should have a man with a heart of gold praying and dreams or signs sometimes give women the answers if there man is cheating sometimes it is best to say nothing at all till you get some answers you don't want to false accuse him women and men go threw this spiritual war so please all stay in prayer wait for God in heaven he will answer you
+TheVoiceovertalent4u thanks the voice I keep to myself with him and all I lost my apartment so I have to stay with him as I said he has to do a STD test but he keeps avoiding it I just stay in prayer because eventually God will send me where I need to be I still love him this is what is hard for me we been together for three years off and on when he doesn't take off I always get compliments from men and sometimes women iam straight and very confident in myself to be honest I believe he has no confidence in himself people tell me all the time I look like Marylin manroe iam not a person looks are everything what counts to me is loyalty and a heart of gold God will show me soon everything he is doing but for now waiting on surgery and silence is best at this time in my life besides I just told him today iam turning on my phone when I need to use it I don't really care to be bothered with him and his lies
Well, hopefully you have gotten the insurety under control or this relationship will fall apart also. You can't expect a man to make you whole that is something that you have to do yourself and a man will eventually get tired of having to reassure you all of the time. I hope that what this guy has done so far will be enough for you to trust him and I also hope that you are working on your own issues and not just expecting him to be a "good man" and deal with them.
Couple minutes ago i found out that my "boyfriend" was playing me.....i made my sister text him saying that a mutual friend on facebook gave her his number....she asked him if he was single....he said no....he sent a pic of his gf.....and it wasn't even me.....im not hurt, just disappointed because i expected too much :'(
TRUE about the sheets. I came home from a short trip and my ex had the bed stripped! I asked him what was up. He said the headboard needed to be tightened, so he stripped the bed to get to the bolts. LOL LIAR!!
Thanks for the advice my man def isnt a cheater but it took many cheaters to find this one ladies dont give up when youve truly had enough things will fall perfectly into place because there is a reason people are in our past and to be future. We dont except the bs therefore they are gone until we find the right one
This honestly reassured me. I have anxiety and will worry about things even if they don't make sense. Tonight i just happened to be wondering what if he is cheating on me, but my boyfriend hasn't shown any of these sign so this video helped me calm down
Lissa Milbradt He doesn't mention buying a new wardrobe, suddenly knowing new sex techniques, being way more concerned about his appearance or working out a lot all of a sudden. So if he's not doing any of those things either, you're good.
WOW!!! These are extremely familiar signs!!!!!!!! The being happy all of a sudden, the excessive texting and the "no longer getting pissed off"are hitting home. This was very informative, thanks for this video.
Is it called cheating when your boyfriend adds other women in facebook and tell them that there cute and call them sweety with a smiley face and tell her he works out that's why he looks like that
Jamie buis that is called cheating plus you should do it to him and show him how it feels he sounds like he needs his ego blown up just walk out don't take it let someone else deal with him and she will find out who he is and what he's about and what kind of person of a woman would want someone else's husband I wouldn't want another woman's husband think of what you would tell your sister or daughter if you have any and you give yourself the same advice
I work very hard for my husband and 75% of my money goes on him I pay the bills take care of our apartment and take care of my kids. He gets mad if I don't have money to buy him what he wants.I go straight to work and straight home. He started taking his phone to the bathroom with him.I figured he stopped making love to me cause he said he was depressed, but One morning at 2am I went on my break at work decided to come home and check on my kids only to find him naked and hard with his phone in his hand. And he denies everything I saw.I do everything for him so why would that give him a reason to go to someone else for something im willing to give? This is my 3rd cheater I think I'm cursed.
Sherry Ramos you are not a curse woman you are a kind person and a loving person most women would kick his lazy ass out you sound like you're giving it all and he's giving nothing it's all about the excitement ending the new relationship in the fantasy but when the fantasies over Karma on them when you have to to do everything in the relationship and it's not working for you he should be trying to please you and to do things for you instead of you doing it all for him when you have to give too much of yourself and not get anything in return it's time to kick him out you probably should have done it a long time ago I hope you have find somebody that's worthy of you
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Chaz, I love your commitment to your people and really asking them to dig deeper and even if you only have you..but to give it all you got and really that is true blue. I realize that when you stay in a crumpled situation for longer than you should it becomes a dual dynamic and two blind and bitter people are feeding the Domestic Monster. I couldn't see it when I was deep in it..I'm so embarrassed of my rediculous aggressive investment..i was not hearing others warn me that stuff was beyond beyond. Now I can't even be in hearing range of that Hell. I love how truly HONEST and SELFLESS that you are for the greater good. I am recognizing and playing your "nine signs your man is cheating on you" to every girl I consider mines. I'm subscribing and frankly I'm already giving thumbs up to every piece to publicise,.. because it's totally true and I feel the love. Another thing real quick..I want you to know that while in the midst of the mud slinging you will come across people who truly are so ensnared deeply in this Domestic Dynamic, They aren't willing ,Able,or Ready to face anything about the truth..but don't let them ruffle your feathers in the fight to "felony elude" from the truth. Hopefully with practice..awareness and Real Sincere Truth and Genuine Support..They will eventually come round at their own pace,when it's meant to be and not a second before. So please keep spitting the truth. I wish there were more real and caring guys like you ...Lucky lady who is in your life! THANK YOU CHAZZZZ, Rachael
1. A man wants to be "appreciated." What that means is you should praise him. You might work hard, clean up after him, hold a full time job, too. Doesn't matter. What man says to his mate, Baby, I love how you keep this family running and work so hard. But you sure better be saying that to him. A lot. 2. Do not ever criticize him, even in private. No matter how ridiculous or painful or detrimental his actions are. The MINUTE you tell him something he's done is wrong you are in trouble. And never try to have a grownup discussion with him about a problem in your relationship. He is not interested in fixing it. Not with you, anyway. Once he knows you are not worshiping him all the time (see #1) he starts looking for somebody who will. He is on his way out. 3. Remember that a man rarely ever leaves just to leave. He has to already have someone else waiting to put up with him.
I have to say your videos are very informative and helpful. I wanted to say thank you for even putting up relationship videos without the psycho babble and giving great solutions!❤
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But when you lack things in a relationship you don't go running off into someone else's arms you communicate. I think cheating happens when one person is not in it for love and they don't have too much respect in their marriage /relationship. But let me ask you this... What if the spouse is putting the mistress first priority(talking from morning until almost midnight and spending more time with them? Is that a sign that they are willing to leave the spouse for her? Or...
Thank you for the insight. I was about to be mad at you when you said we (women) need to change ourselves, but then I thought about and really listened to what you said. I agree, that if we have been cheated on by EVERY man that we have been serious with, then we might consider that we are a part of the problem. Be willing to at least consider it, and ask one of your exes what it was (one that you trust, not one that you know cheated on every woman he was with). Be real and don't get defensive. Just hear it. If we choose not to change, that's on us. Hopefully this will be the right step toward learning from the mistakes we may have made. Some people who cheat, just always cheat, and that's on them. Just be open and when you meet the next Mr. Right, you will have more success.
Clearly since I have viewed this video means I'm going thru it in my marriage.. right . Well I've viewed multiple videos by different people on similar subjects/ topics. . And here are my thoughts on this video . Now 4 me I wholeheartedly feel this is the most honest hard hitting insightful video I have came across so far... He is very and I do mean knowledgeable and brutally honest on this video... he is hands down the best.. Now as for what i plan to do in my marriage of 11 yrs plus + 8 years prior to our marriage best friends I mean strictly best friends for me idk just yet.. it's just hard because as a woman we just luv on a whole different level as a man does .. An him being such a huge part of my life for so many years is what honestly makes it so hard picturing my life without him I just ..... I just don't know how... but what I do know is that I deserve better...I just wish he cared enough to keep his promise he made in order to convince me to marry him... all i wanted and have given him and our marriage is always been 125% so if it fails I won't have any regrets or doubts or second thoughts once in strong enough to leave... But I love this video he is the real deal... thank u a million times for posting this...
I am still going thru it ... He is about to go on vacation on Dec. 22 ND for 3 weeks without me . Be told me I didn't need my passport for him to book my ticket yet when he booked his he didn't mine. Then 2 weeks later gives me the money for my passport and I didn't get it then cause he said even if he paid for expedited services it was too late my ticket would cost way too much .. so I told him if he did it intentionally why he didn't book my flight when he did his... Not to mention this year he crushed me beyond belief... That he possibly gave me an STD he knew about and didn't give me the option to treat until 4 yrs later after he thought my possible medical issue may have been cause of the STD he thought he gave me.. that is why he decided to finally come clean.. then following that opened a whole bigger issue. But first thank God I didn't have the STD.. but I found out he has a 4 year old son which is when he believes he got the STD.. he apparently planned to conceive a child with a lesbian couple.. who is now been raising him.. claims that's everything. No more secrets. But see we had the talk before I married him being my best friend he knew I couldn't he swore me and my 3 children would be all he ever needed for the rest of his life he was sure ... I honestly ended up so so broken hearted it hurt to even breathe... For a while he seemed sincere and promised he was done with all his deciept & he is sorry and really loves me .....I feel at fist he was sorry but just like his broken promises this one is probably no different cause again he is going on vacation without me.... I guess I just need to grow to hate him enough to leave.. I just don't know how to just yet..
@@TeeEff I am still going thru it ... He is about to go on vacation on Dec. 22 ND for 3 weeks without me . Be told me I didn't need my passport for him to book my ticket yet when he booked his he didn't mine. Then 2 weeks later gives me the money for my passport and I didn't get it then cause he said even if he paid for expedited services it was too late my ticket would cost way too much .. so I told him if he did it intentionally why he didn't book my flight when he did his... Not to mention this year he crushed me beyond belief... That he possibly gave me an STD he knew about and didn't give me the option to treat until 4 yrs later after he thought my possible medical issue may have been cause of the STD he thought he gave me.. that is why he decided to finally come clean.. then following that opened a whole bigger issue. But first thank God I didn't have the STD.. but I found out he has a 4 year old son which is when he believes he got the STD.. he apparently planned to conceive a child with a lesbian couple.. who is now been raising him.. claims that's everything. No more secrets. But see we had the talk before I married him being my best friend he knew I couldn't he swore me and my 3 children would be all he ever needed for the rest of his life he was sure ... I honestly ended up so so broken hearted it hurt to even breathe... For a while he seemed sincere and promised he was done with all his deciept & he is sorry and really loves me .....I feel at fist he was sorry but just like his broken promises this one is probably no different cause again he is going on vacation without me.... I guess I just need to grow to hate him enough to leave.. I just don't know how to just yet..
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Let's be real the reason so many people have infidelity in their relationships is because we try to find a half to make us whole instead of trying to find a whole and being whole together. Yall want to bash this man when he is answering honestly about a situation, play victim and point fingers get out your damn feelings. How yall gonna ask the man a question then get mad when he tell you a honest answer. See that's the problem no one really wants to hear the truth anymore. Man every one that comes in our life is either a lesson or a blessing and most of all the people we attract are a direction reflection of ourselves. I.e if you think low of yourself you will attract someone who thinks the same. See the problem with most women is that most of us cry wolf and act like children want to be pacified and want to play damsel in the distress all the time. The sooner yall can except that ok maybe it is me and work on it and stop pointing fingers the better it will be. Love yourself enough to fix whatever is broken in your life so you can attract the right man and stop being so damn bitter saying all men are the same no boo boo they're not it's just that you haven't changed anything about yourself. I already know yall gonna jump on this post and talk shit but the truth is the truth it had to be said so it is what it is
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I liked everything u had to say and all though he is my ex now u just showed me that my gut feeling about what I was seeing and going threw was on the money I wish I either seen this yrs ago or followed my gut
I like your outlining and summing up of stuff. I like your honesty of the basic logic within a Man who's in a relationships. The solution was like 'shhhiiii' when you offered a solution (a correct solution theory tho), cuz i thought you'd have a 'special op' plan to catching a sucker. However, i did find your video valuable. And appreciate ya. Actually. 1 note- I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT ---"THE SADNESS WITHIN THE MOOD-SWINGS." AREN'T THE GIRLFRIENDS FAULT EITHER- -- AS IN, "ask yourself, whats making him happy and/or SAD TOO." cuz sometimes these boys be sad for no reasons to your knowledge; bring the happy mood the chick was in, DOWN. like what the hell damn bro."
My friend said that they have free period with my boyfriend and saw him with another girl. I asked my other friend and he saw him w/ another. I am so sad. Thinking that he loved me...😭😢😣😞😔
I gotta a question though... If a man's woman is NOT a creature of habit and very care-free and does not keep a rigid schedule is that particularly irritating to a man in general if I do not plan my chores and activities and so forth in any kind of OCD type of a way? I don't mean to seem to be or come off as rude. And I am not joking or teasing either, I am sorry if it may seem that way, But this is serious question for me because my guy is incessantly saying that I am too carefree with my time and lifestyle choices or lack there-of... like I don't have certain times thought-out for when I do stuff. I just choose to do things mainly when ever I have enough free time away from the kids, I guess I'm not consistent. Is that an issue for most men to not be able to adapt to? or should I consider changing my idosyncrasies?
Finding out why he cheated is always a waste of time. Once trust is gone it always replaced by doubts. Which always leads to accusations again and again. Better to stay out of messy relationships.As there is always the one that truly belongs to each one of us.Life is much easy without drama.
So what ifbyour bf starts off texting u constantly and then all of a sudden just text u less and less and says hes busy doing chores at night around 9pm? What does that mean...?
I think he's cheating... ;( I'm sorry...I was with my BF today and he kept getting texts...at around 3AM and he was pretending to sleep then suddenly gets up at answers...what do i do
Hate to say this but he is more likely cheating got a wife at home or live in gf. No man aint doing no chores at 9pm at night unless he got female company coming over later that night!
Thank you for your very insightful statement. Yes, I am working on myself and so is he. In my case he isn't ready for a relationship yet and for now I not ready either. Being with him has taught me that there's more out there to discover in dating. There's many options I want to explore and I am going to do just that. I can continue to enjoy his company until he's ready or I encounter someone better than him that's going to give me what I want. Life is too short to stress the small things so I am good for now in protecting my heart. May God bless you to continue helping us women out.
As a woman the first time I cheated I felt as though the relationship was not going anywhere and it frustrated me so I cheated. The second time I cheated I felt the same way but I really did not like the person I cheated with and I still loved my boyfriend so I went back to him and I did not cheat again because it was really senseless..I can forgive a man for cheating on me depending on circumstances because ive gone through it
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Why do people cheat? why can't we all just be faithful and love the one we're with and just that one. This is so unfair. I'm so not for cheating or lying. I don't care if it's a "Cry for help". I cry for help would be opening your fucking mouth and telling me your problems. Not going out and fucking someone else.
I guess they don't know what it is that they are doing in love matters. What hurts most is that they break the other persons ability to trust and love again.
Chaz, i love your vids man, i'm a new listener, I have a question on this vid in particular , what if a man shows all of these signs but he's not cheating at all , maybe he just feels stuck and exhausted and wants to leave, but just hasn't gotten the gusto to do so yet. because i've known guys in that situation, where they , for example stop arguing about certain things they use to, just because they're just tired and it never gets anywhere or changes, so they give up. But they aren't cheating at all. this is also possible am i right?
that's like the calm before the storm. Ever notice that when it's about to cut loose with a bad storm that the wind dies down and the birds stop singing and making noise?
Don't worry about breaking up any happy homes love. A home with a cheater isn't happy and I need your advice more than I need his s**t! 😘 And!.... now I know why he doesn't hang out with his boys anymore lol. Good video sir!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏
Can you do a video on men and porn? I'm not sure what is your opinion but I'm curious how done women are accepting and others feel like their being cheated on.
Perla Vazquez don't feel bad sweety. We all don't have that body type. someone will come to u and treat u how u deserve. love yourself. find your beauty and own it. don't let fakeness over rule your authenticity
Jul ofDenial I agree! And porn is such bullshit and such negative thing! People try to act like it’s not but that is one of the reasons why I broke up with my boyfriend. Porn is bullshit and it makes you ungrateful for your partner and what your love has to offer. People will say porn can be a “good” thing... it’s toxic to the mind and actually scientifically creates the same neuron connections as a drug addict. Like let’s be real what fucking girl is like yeah I don’t care that my “man” watches other naked girls get pounded like fuck them its bullshit!
And I am SO sick of people saying that men are “wired” this way or that way! It sounds like a ton of fucking excuses to me. Just because you are “wired” a certain way doesn’t mean that you can’t change behavior! We can change our brains! All this fucking wired bullshit’
Almost every one of the points you mentioned really hit the nail on the head. I caught my partner of a year cheating on me yesterday when I found some steamy picture swapping in his inbox. I felt the love leave our relationship a while ago, following this was the odd sleep pattern, and a week ago he became disinterested in having sex with me.
My thoughts on this is : One, asking the person to be very honest and fest up. What made them do it ? Why did they not Express their feelings with you first ? How come it was so easy for them to screw someone else and comes back home to you ? Why cheat ? Why not move on or get a tattoo ? When he or she cheated did it change the situation? Every time I do or don't do something they expect, will they cheat again ? We also have to face the facts that some ppl are born cheaters.
I just came across your video and basically everything you said was like WOW...you hit the nail on the head... I decided to do a little investigation and just found"my" man on something called BADOO... WTF IS BADOO?!...... WHY!!..... I've been such a good faithful woman to him and I actually hate myself cuz I never cheated on him not once...never even chatted up anyone.... So I can be as great a girlfriend as ever but it won't matter cuz the man will always cheat?..... Fuck relationships.. I'd rather be alone instead worrying.. wondering and stressing all the damn time.. a relationship is just not worth the fucked up rollercoaster ride..
Wat about ur boyfriend of 7yrs decided he wants to done with da relationship and said to u I wants to done with it but I want u to break up with me he don't wants to do da break up wats up with dat?definitely needs ur take on dis
I need someone to answer this for me, so my husband is laying on the couch and we just got done eating dinner ,he kept saying how sleepy he was ,then he falls asleep on Facebook in a chick's profile so I saw it i got pissed and said what the hell is this, he told me that was a school mate and he was just checking her out to see how much she aged, then called her a fat and ugly, if she fat and ugly then why are u checking her out anyway, I told him he's already cheating, we haven't had set in years he blames on work that he's always tired, my guts tell me he up to something, I'm ready to leave. Been together 20 years I got a lot of anger because of this he's insulting my intelligence which makes me more mad
Why do people cheat in the first place? I'd much rather a man just be honest and leave. I know it'll hurt but it's better than being cheated on. 😞
because they get bored with the person
Renee Turner yeah but that doesn't mean they should cheat on them do they get how much that hurt
Renee Turner but hey you're probably a guy who's like all those guys
Renee Turner and you probably cheated on your girlfriend
luvfunnyflix there’s something missing between you guys ，he’s not sufficient with you
when your man is cheating on you, you will know ..... EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM CHANGES , you just have to know your man and pay close attention to everything!!!!!!!!!!
Even the smell of your man changes.
He picks up the spirit of the other person
Yesss did and he would say l was crazy 🤔
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Being a guy myself I can easily tell you 3 things most guys will do during cheating,
1. Guys will likely be less talkative and needy of you or seems like they are always busy
2. Guys will oftenly seem to repeat Smal things they said or randomly get sweeter or nicer st times randomly
3. Guys will ask if you been cheating
1) stop caring about sex
2) stops arguing about things that used to piss him off
3) when public things become private. Such as his cellphone, social media
4) stops hanging out with his old friends
5) becomes more independent
6) works late hours
7) texts more than usual
8) mood suddenly changes
9) constantly accusing you of cheating on him
All FACTS!
Dating a man for over 2 years now and he is doing all of 9reasons of them.. that's why I'm letting him go.. I only live once and I deserve better... thanks.... much easier for me to move on...
So how are things now? One year later...?
crystal vouse like they’re gonna admit it lol
do it now if its only been 2 yrs bc it gets worse
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My Ex started acting some of these Signs and I just packed up and leave. I didn't even bother asking why. I wont waste my time on a Cheater and a Loser....
PRAISE!!!!😀😄😃😭😭
So you left and you weren't even 100% sure he cheated on you? smh
Amen! Intuition. My trust is not easily earned, and once it's broken it's done. Im loyal, and I expect the exact same in return.
Jing Carlos might actually do that if this ever happens just pack up and leave just too much time to argue and yell over something that he done when he could just tell you the reason
Jing Carlos Go you
Even if she does NOT give him everything that she can and that he needs, it's still HIS fault to a 100% if he cheats!
Cuz not getting from her what u need is NEVER an excuse to cheat but instead a reason to let her KNOW what ur missing and either work it out or leave her.
Well, that sounds good but doesn't really help anybody. There's a reason for anything and if you know what may trigger a person to do a certain thing then you can have the ability to avoid it. Saying it's his fault or her fault may make you feel better for a few minutes but that's it.
askchazzellis Sorry, but I disagree with u on that. It seems like ur giving men excuses to cheat.
The ACT of cheating is the sole responsibility of the cheater, cuz ,instead of chosing the other, ALWAYS available, option of letting her KNOW that hes missing something,(and by that giving her the chance to change it), he's taking the easy way out.
So yes, cheating itself, is completely his fault.
The reason WHY he feels his needs are not met, might not be his fault.
Depending on what it is he needs,it might be completely her responsibility, completely his or both of their responsibility.
(If he ,for instance, has the need, for new P*** theres not much she can do about it. Also if he feels the need to be admired,she can try her best to do so, but he has to give her sth to work with and not constantly do "non-admirable" shit, cuz it's not her responsibility let him get away with everything forever and ignore it just to fulfill his need for admiration)
Linda B I look at this issue the same: love me or leave me. If you want to love me we should work the stuff together, if you don't love me you'd better leave me for my and your sake. Not getting something might be a trigger,but there's always someone who's pulling it. In the end cheating is the problem of cheater.
Katarzyna Hałka
Exactly!
askchazzellis Why would anybody want to fix their relationship with a cheater? Gross.
13:55
that's that 80/20 rule.
men cheat because the woman they have is ALMOST perfect. but she's missing one or two little things.
so, when he finds a woman who fills that void, he THINKS he's struck gold.
but the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
Wow...well said youre on point
if a man cheats he don't want you if he begs and act like he do it's because he really need you. YOUR support and comfort zone
terry smith I agree with u...I exp this, I was his comfort zone and shortly after realizing that I started distancing myself until I broke away
I believe cheating and lieing is something a coward would do
Amanda Cooper I agree!!!
Thank you
Every guy i have dated in the past would cheat on me and i asked one of my ex's and he said it's because you are to sweet so forgiving and i thought you would never leave. So when my men now do something instead of always saying it's okay baby i say okay or something of the sort so they knew it is not always okay and lastly i never settle and i learned to let a man miss me if i have to work for 5 hours and got busy and can't reply to bad i don't owe him an explanation and i will text him when i can, and lastly i learned to love myself most and put myself first. No more cheaters.
Adriana Vonjo I really need to do that!
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Yes that's why. And i just bitten my ex partner so hard i took the flesh out and blood. Why because i ain't sweet no more.
Maybe need to tighten under there
amen sister !
A guy will tell on himself eventually, wait for it...piss him off bad enough he'll blurt it if you push that right button
FACTS LMAO. MEN CANNOT WAIT TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE
Thats true lmao
Facts
If you cheat on your wife or girlfriend without discussing with them your feelings as to why you feel the need to be with or pursue or be with someone else, then you'll probably be single for the rest of your life. That would work only if the girl was insecure and didn't value herself enough to leave you.
Yeah. My husband guarded his phone like a soldier. Multiple layers of security and I still refused to believe that be could actually do what he did to me. After 14 years of marriage, he slept with 3 of our neighbors. I got him good though. Had an hacker break into his phone and expose him to his bosses. Men aren't shit!!
Hannah Shaw pls how do I get hacker pls
Hannah Shaw mines do too
i Am happy you could do that my ex also cheated on me for over 5 years hackzeetz.tk helped me hack into his phone that helped me so much
How do i get a hacker?
@Haze yes it's legal
You've got this. Ugh, I know my man has been cheating. It just hurts to know I've got to go...
Paula Ingraham no offense fuck him find someone else your are beautiful☺
Same
If you do your best, there's nothing you can do about it. It's a decision between him and God. He can cheat you but he can't cheat God. Period.
ax
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God is not real
once a cheater always a cheater
Brittany D that's not true. it all depends on the kind of person.. I mean there is no reason to cheat but sometimes good people cheat and it can be based on peer pressure or influence by a friend or insecurities but however is not good but when it happens and the person realizes their mistake and stop talking to bad friends and make up their mind they are gonna change because in the first place it wasn't their lifestyle, they will definitely stop! I'm speaking from experience..Anybody can cheat but it's left with you to stop and change.. Alot of things leads to cheating.. It is not good to cheat however.
Amen sister, true, true
I think so too
right dont take him or her back.trust issue
no true ppl learn from their mistakes especially when that person doesn't take them back!
All reasons why i dont even date anymore so much more at peace and happy since i dont have to go thru anymore BS. damn i sleep good at night #teamsingle
Latosha Lester girl speak!!! whew omgggg toooo much
and you are denying yourself the gift of closeness with another person. Maybe you could date people that are different than youd normally go for. There are jerks but there are some amazing people too
64maxpower like finding a needle in a haystack at times but im not giving up😉
im gonna do the same lesotho im tired of all the bullshit
Bout to do the same lol this shit too stressful
I've always been independent. My mother taught me to pick up for myself, wash my own clothes,cook for myself.
"Amen' #
You missed the point
Some good advice here ladies..... take it from a leading private investigator
Trust your gut instinct, it will never fail you, stuff playing detective.
Womens intuition it lets you know and is correct
Facts. I trusted my gut and went digging. I found out I was the other woman smh.
Yeah but they’ll call you crazy if you solely rely on your “woman’s tuition”. You have to have some type of evidence. I have a feeling right now. But I can’t figure out his password for the light of me he’s super protective of it. Idk what to do how to catch him. Anytime I confront him using my “woman’s tuition” he says I’m sick in the head & insecure.
@@anditsreyna020 ask the cell phone company for an itemized list of numbers called. Or follow him. In my case I hired a private detective.
@@anditsreyna020 haha He should be with my bf as their words are totally the same.Calling me insecure all the time.But when my guy friends would say hi to me.Hes face totally wrinkled like hes saggy balls
i could be wrong be i dont think relationships with cheaters arent salvageable. the person cheated on will always have doubts and the cheater may always be tempted. if you dont have what they want, let em go.
Men are rarely monogamous unless they are super religious or no one wants them. I feel if you been with someone for years at some point you may be faced with infidelity and it doesn't have to be sexual. As women we can not control what a man chooses to do and if he cheats we cannot sit there and blame ourselves. We have no possession over another human being and their actions. If you dont want to be cheated on be single.
Wrong.......I know pastors that are currently cheating on their wives.
I told this to someone and they told ne i had issues. But i was speaking generally. I worked in a company and found out all the married men had girlfriends.
@@mialaciel8176 being a pastor doesn't mean your religious
wish they never sold us the lie about love....id rather have just known that love is not real than believe that maybe it is out there
LEAVE HIM QUIETLY!!! that's what to do..smh..ppl are so stupid that it stuns me!
I agree!
Yes
Yessss, yusssss, mama always told me to leave quietly & never let them no good bastards know wha ur thinking 🤔
It's easier to leave when you don't have kids together .. Once there are kids involved it's kind of difficult especially if he adores his kids and they adore him...
Haze Thank you for your advice. That’s very kind of you.
I love your honest-straight to the point perspective! Unfortunately, EVERYTHING you listed is a red flag. Your video was only a confirmation brother! thank you for posting-cause most men aren't honest! Even when you-I mean I confronted him about it! Sigh I was breaking it off today anyway.
Is it possible that maybe a person could not be doing anything wrong A person cheats because they're just comitting a selfish act ?
right
SORRY.......THEIR CHEATING
1. A man wants to be "appreciated." What that means is you should praise him. You might work hard, clean up after him, hold a full time job, too. Doesn't matter. What man says to his mate, "Baby, I love how you keep this family running and work so hard." But you sure better be saying that to him. A lot.
2. Do not ever criticize him, even in private. No matter how ridiculous or painful or detrimental his actions are. The MINUTE you tell him something he's done is wrong you are in trouble. And never try to have a grownup discussion with him about a problem in your relationship. He "doesn't want to talk about it." He is not interested in fixing it. Not with you, anyway. Once he knows you are not worshiping him all the time (see #1) he starts looking for somebody who will. He is on his way out.
3. Remember that a man rarely ever leaves just to leave. He has to already have someone else waiting to put up with him.
Yeah and if I did all of that and he still cheats. then what.
oxford14 sounds like a big ass kid to me. A relationship is 50/50. if I do all of that, he damn sure has to do it back. plus the part about having a grownup convo about the relationship? What? if we can't talk like adults then dude. ...maybe you don't need to be in a relationship lol. This Sounds like a guide to kissing a selfish man's ass.....
Sierra bro It wasnt meant to be instructional. Just a warning to any woman who expects a give-and-take relationship. The wife or girlfriend who finds a man who doesn't act the way I described is very, very lucky. The rest of us get nowhere trying to have any discussion to work out an issue in the relationship. How often do we hear, "I don't want to talk about it right now." or "Now don't start that." or (my favorite) "I don't want to hear it!"
Whoever said "Every married woman has at least one child" got it absolutely right.
oxford14 this is interesting..i do believe that a women should take care of her man just like a child but in different way ... because men are providers i guess some women want her man to do the full job
Sweet Candy. Men are providers? Most of the women I know go out to work at a job. The only way to call men providers in these cases are that their paychecks are usually bigger.
If he is cheating. .then why don't he just leave ! Just pack his bags and leave!...because if he stays...then both will just be miserable !I believe... once a cheater always a cheater!...He will never be happy with one woman...sorry ladies...that's just the way it is..
He has not left because it's not convenient for him
They stay because it’s convenient. Completely selfish
In response to his comment about if your constantly being cheated on, its not because of u it's actually a karmic thing & a lesson is to be learned from it. Learn to not care when someone starts cheating on u & let go, don't blame urself and don't go cheat to get back at them just learn to walk away & learn self love so the next person will love you the way u deserve & the karma may not be ur karma, but the person ur with, but the best advice I ever got was we all deserve to be happy, if ur not happy then leave no matter how hard it is, because nobody deserves to be mistreated or unappreciated unless they are narcissistic, sociopathic or psychopathic then sorry but they deserve nothing!
Please do your due diligence on researching narcissists/sociopaths & psychopaths it will help you to avoid being a victim of fraud love, they love to future fake. Love to all who have a conscious & beautiful HEARTS!
9 things were happening I still trusted .. today caught him ... I'm broken
Hugs
I never had a relationship but I still I've seen like other relationships and people are just constantly getting hurt like what's the point of having a relationship if your going to cheat if that's the case just stay single :/
Dont think that. The fact that youre thinking and believeing that youre gonna attract that. There are GOOD men out there and GOOD women
This is hell later but I hope ur happy and u changed ur mind.
Just date many but don’t sleep with any!!!!
you forgot if he starts working out and buying new clothes....including underwear.
When he suddenly starts wearing new cologne. It's her favorite scent not his.
Meaning he’s about to loose the weight and loose you or gain weight and gain a new womwmm
Shit!! I’m screwed! 😳
What about the ex's calling and they keeping in touch and claiming their all friends?
A ex is just what it is...... History.... If he love u he would not be entertaining a ex or any other females
I know my husband patterns he knows mine we are happy married and I promised him if he doesn't cheat I want but if he does I will but the difference is I won't hide it
Well, it's good that you could admit those things and that will help you in the future because most people don't seem to be able to take any responsibility for their lives.
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The thing with cheating that upsets me so much is that I have a hard time telling the difference between my own paranoia and my intuition and I’d HATE to leave someone who really was innocent over an assumption and/or speculation but at the same time my intuition has never been wrong. I have no problem leaving a man it’s just annoying and selfish when they try to cheat and still keep you around. Like just let me go. Clearly you not feeling it so why not just be upfront and admit your cheating. Why do I have to find out about it.
I honestly disagree with you on some points. If you feel as though your partner is not meeting up to your standards to where you have to go out and get it from someone else, then just LEAVE. Changing myself to meet your standards is wrong. You should love the person for who they are; personality wise and physically (whatever you look to first), and if you feel as though their not putting enough effort, than why stay with them anyways? There's absolutely NO reason or excuse to cheat. And you DEFINATELY can't blame it on the "victim" for just simply being who they are. Cheating is for low-lives who don't have the guts to end a relationship they're obviously not happy with. Sure, I'll be heartbroken and depressed for awhile, but the cheater dumping me is giving me a closer chance to finding my better match and maybe even my "Prince Charming", if THAT even exists...
Sucks I'm going thru this right now I haven't caught him up yet but it's just a gut feeling irrational work hours and not letting me see his phone..forget feeling sad if he doesn't value me I know there someone out there who will
lovelyonedeuce ..go through his cell i have sweetie youll be surprized @ what youll find! I almost shit😢😢💣dont be afraid! Just keep in mind ( they never know whats missing until its gone) i was like you i had a gut feeling and went with my intentions they were correct!!
Listen to your gut feeling that's what you have it for do not cut him any slack he is cheating you do not need a cheater in your life and to feel the way that you are feeling right now
I have the same gut feeling. Im trying to be strong and detach myself
lovelyonedeuce I’m same feelings too but I’m pregnant I don’t no which decision to take so confused
I agree nowadays it is not a good thing to cheat on anyone, just leave. There are too many STD risks involved so why take that chance? I don't get it, my ex was online having sex w females, we had a great sex life, I have a big heart, personality, intelligence, nice looking & i have a sense of humor so I dont get why he cheated on me. But its his loss and someone else's gain. To all women who have been sent down this path, you deserve more. Much love & blessings to all!
+TheVoiceovertalent4u Girl I just had to say Thank you because your statement just hit the spot. Blessings to you and prosperity.
the voice beautiful words yes all women with a heart of gold should have a man with a heart of gold praying and dreams or signs sometimes give women the answers if there man is cheating sometimes it is best to say nothing at all till you get some answers you don't want to false accuse him women and men go threw this spiritual war so please all stay in prayer wait for God in heaven he will answer you
+Janine Arvayo Yes we are in spiritual warfare, but so many don't understand or believe this. Blessings to you!
+PRECIUZ739 Thank You, same to you! We all deserve love, but the first person to love is ourselves. Stay blessed
+TheVoiceovertalent4u thanks the voice I keep to myself with him and all I lost my apartment so I have to stay with him as I said he has to do a STD test but he keeps avoiding it I just stay in prayer because eventually God will send me where I need to be I still love him this is what is hard for me we been together for three years off and on when he doesn't take off I always get compliments from men and sometimes women iam straight and very confident in myself to be honest I believe he has no confidence in himself people tell me all the time I look like Marylin manroe iam not a person looks are everything what counts to me is loyalty and a heart of gold God will show me soon everything he is doing but for now waiting on surgery and silence is best at this time in my life besides I just told him today iam turning on my phone when I need to use it I don't really care to be bothered with him and his lies
I think 💭 I'll remain celibate too much trouble 🤷♀️
Hell fucking yeah
Good thought 😭😭😭😭😭
Fidelity is just an unattainable desire, hope, dream.
Mmmmm, not so. You start with things like, having standards & dignity. Don't just settle, and go from there. Ijs
Well, hopefully you have gotten the insurety under control or this relationship will fall apart also. You can't expect a man to make you whole that is something that you have to do yourself and a man will eventually get tired of having to reassure you all of the time. I hope that what this guy has done so far will be enough for you to trust him and I also hope that you are working on your own issues and not just expecting him to be a "good man" and deal with them.
Yeap! All those signs were there and I chose to ignore them.
Some men cheat by habit.
Couple minutes ago i found out that my "boyfriend" was playing me.....i made my sister text him saying that a mutual friend on facebook gave her his number....she asked him if he was single....he said no....he sent a pic of his gf.....and it wasn't even me.....im not hurt, just disappointed because i expected too much :'(
TRUE about the sheets.
I came home from a short trip and my ex had the bed stripped!
I asked him what was up. He said the headboard needed to be tightened, so he stripped the bed to get to the bolts. LOL LIAR!!
Don't forget always calling you to see where your at,and when you'll be home
Thanks for the advice my man def isnt a cheater but it took many cheaters to find this one ladies dont give up when youve truly had enough things will fall perfectly into place because there is a reason people are in our past and to be future. We dont except the bs therefore they are gone until we find the right one
Am very lucky I only go for good men..and am very independent..if he cheats..he is not into you..
This honestly reassured me. I have anxiety and will worry about things even if they don't make sense. Tonight i just happened to be wondering what if he is cheating on me, but my boyfriend hasn't shown any of these sign so this video helped me calm down
Lissa Milbradt He doesn't mention buying a new wardrobe, suddenly knowing new sex techniques, being way more concerned about his appearance or working out a lot all of a sudden. So if he's not doing any of those things either, you're good.
WOW!!! These are extremely familiar signs!!!!!!!! The being happy all of a sudden, the excessive texting and the "no longer getting pissed off"are hitting home.
This was very informative, thanks for this video.
Is it called cheating when your boyfriend adds other women in facebook and tell them that there cute and call them sweety with a smiley face and tell her he works out that's why he looks like that
yes Jaime! Like Chazz said, it's a pre-cursor.
yes!!!!!my man does it
Jamie buis Yes
Jamie buis that is called cheating plus you should do it to him and show him how it feels he sounds like he needs his ego blown up just walk out don't take it let someone else deal with him and she will find out who he is and what he's about and what kind of person of a woman would want someone else's husband I wouldn't want another woman's husband think of what you would tell your sister or daughter if you have any and you give yourself the same advice
Yes of course
This is one of the best if not *the* best video out there. Thank you!
I work very hard for my husband and 75% of my money goes on him I pay the bills take care of our apartment and take care of my kids. He gets mad if I don't have money to buy him what he wants.I go straight to work and straight home. He started taking his phone to the bathroom with him.I figured he stopped making love to me cause he said he was depressed, but One morning at 2am I went on my break at work decided to come home and check on my kids only to find him naked and hard with his phone in his hand. And he denies everything I saw.I do everything for him so why would that give him a reason to go to someone else for something im willing to give? This is my 3rd cheater I think I'm cursed.
Sherry Ramos you are not a curse woman you are a kind person and a loving person most women would kick his lazy ass out you sound like you're giving it all and he's giving nothing it's all about the excitement ending the new relationship in the fantasy but when the fantasies over Karma on them when you have to to do everything in the relationship and it's not working for you he should be trying to please you and to do things for you instead of you doing it all for him when you have to give too much of yourself and not get anything in return it's time to kick him out you probably should have done it a long time ago I hope you have find somebody that's worthy of you
Chazz, you aren’t getting anyone in trouble. They’re the selfish jerks choosing to cheat on their partners. Thank you for the info! 😊
I know that this is a older viedo but I really like how you broke it down .
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Chaz, I love your commitment to your people and really asking them to dig deeper and even if you only have you..but to give it all you got and really that is true blue. I realize that when you stay in a crumpled situation for longer than you should it becomes a dual dynamic and two blind and bitter people are feeding the Domestic Monster. I couldn't see it when I was deep in it..I'm so embarrassed of my rediculous aggressive investment..i was not hearing others warn me that stuff was beyond beyond. Now I can't even be in hearing range of that Hell. I love how truly HONEST and SELFLESS that you are for the greater good. I am recognizing and playing your "nine signs your man is cheating on you" to every girl I consider mines. I'm subscribing and frankly I'm already giving thumbs up to every piece to publicise,.. because it's totally true and I feel the love. Another thing real quick..I want you to know that while in the midst of the mud slinging you will come across people who truly are so ensnared deeply in this Domestic Dynamic, They aren't willing ,Able,or Ready to face anything about the truth..but don't let them ruffle your feathers in the fight to "felony elude" from the truth. Hopefully with practice..awareness and Real Sincere Truth and Genuine Support..They will eventually come round at their own pace,when it's meant to be and not a second before. So please keep spitting the truth. I wish there were more real and caring guys like you ...Lucky lady who is in your life! THANK YOU CHAZZZZ,
Rachael
1. A man wants to be "appreciated." What that means is you should praise him. You might work hard, clean up after him, hold a full time job, too. Doesn't matter. What man says to his mate, Baby, I love how you keep this family running and work so hard. But you sure better be saying that to him. A lot.
2. Do not ever criticize him, even in private. No matter how ridiculous or painful or detrimental his actions are. The MINUTE you tell him something he's done is wrong you are in trouble. And never try to have a grownup discussion with him about a problem in your relationship. He is not interested in fixing it. Not with you, anyway. Once he knows you are not worshiping him all the time (see #1) he starts looking for somebody who will. He is on his way out.
3. Remember that a man rarely ever leaves just to leave. He has to already have someone else waiting to put up with him.
oxford14 it's two ways.
oxford14 . God is the only one that I will give all praise too. If he wants to leave. Bye 👋
@L It's something to consider.
I have to say your videos are very informative and helpful. I wanted to say thank you for even putting up relationship videos without the psycho babble and giving great solutions!❤
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But when you lack things in a relationship you don't go running off into someone else's arms you communicate.
I think cheating happens when one person is not in it for love and they don't have too much respect in their marriage /relationship.
But let me ask you this... What if the spouse is putting the mistress first priority(talking from morning until almost midnight and spending more time with them? Is that a sign that they are willing to leave the spouse for her? Or...
Thank you for the insight. I was about to be mad at you when you said we (women) need to change ourselves, but then I thought about and really listened to what you said. I agree, that if we have been cheated on by EVERY man that we have been serious with, then we might consider that we are a part of the problem. Be willing to at least consider it, and ask one of your exes what it was (one that you trust, not one that you know cheated on every woman he was with). Be real and don't get defensive. Just hear it. If we choose not to change, that's on us. Hopefully this will be the right step toward learning from the mistakes we may have made. Some people who cheat, just always cheat, and that's on them. Just be open and when you meet the next Mr. Right, you will have more success.
Clearly since I have viewed this video means I'm going thru it in my marriage.. right . Well I've viewed multiple videos by different people on similar subjects/ topics. . And here are my thoughts on this video .
Now 4 me I wholeheartedly feel this is the most honest hard hitting insightful video I have came across so far... He is very and I do mean knowledgeable and brutally honest on this video... he is hands down the best.. Now as for what i plan to do in my marriage of 11 yrs plus + 8 years prior to our marriage best friends I mean strictly best friends for me idk just yet.. it's just hard because as a woman we just luv on a whole different level as a man does .. An him being such a huge part of my life for so many years is what honestly makes it so hard picturing my life without him I just ..... I just don't know how... but what I do know is that I deserve better...I just wish he cared enough to keep his promise he made in order to convince me to marry him... all i wanted and have given him and our marriage is always been 125% so if it fails I won't have any regrets or doubts or second thoughts once in strong enough to leave...
But I love this video he is the real deal... thank u a million times for posting this...
so....how did u handle it?
I am still going thru it ... He is about to go on vacation on Dec. 22 ND for 3 weeks without me . Be told me I didn't need my passport for him to book my ticket yet when he booked his he didn't mine. Then 2 weeks later gives me the money for my passport and I didn't get it then cause he said even if he paid for expedited services it was too late my ticket would cost way too much .. so I told him if he did it intentionally why he didn't book my flight when he did his... Not to mention this year he crushed me beyond belief... That he possibly gave me an STD he knew about and didn't give me the option to treat until 4 yrs later after he thought my possible medical issue may have been cause of the STD he thought he gave me.. that is why he decided to finally come clean.. then following that opened a whole bigger issue. But first thank God I didn't have the STD.. but I found out he has a 4 year old son which is when he believes he got the STD.. he apparently planned to conceive a child with a lesbian couple.. who is now been raising him.. claims that's everything. No more secrets. But see we had the talk before I married him being my best friend he knew I couldn't he swore me and my 3 children would be all he ever needed for the rest of his life he was sure ... I honestly ended up so so broken hearted it hurt to even breathe... For a while he seemed sincere and promised he was done with all his deciept & he is sorry and really loves me .....I feel at fist he was sorry but just like his broken promises this one is probably no different cause again he is going on vacation without me.... I guess I just need to grow to hate him enough to leave.. I just don't know how to just yet..
@@TeeEff I am still going thru it ... He is about to go on vacation on Dec. 22 ND for 3 weeks without me . Be told me I didn't need my passport for him to book my ticket yet when he booked his he didn't mine. Then 2 weeks later gives me the money for my passport and I didn't get it then cause he said even if he paid for expedited services it was too late my ticket would cost way too much .. so I told him if he did it intentionally why he didn't book my flight when he did his... Not to mention this year he crushed me beyond belief... That he possibly gave me an STD he knew about and didn't give me the option to treat until 4 yrs later after he thought my possible medical issue may have been cause of the STD he thought he gave me.. that is why he decided to finally come clean.. then following that opened a whole bigger issue. But first thank God I didn't have the STD.. but I found out he has a 4 year old son which is when he believes he got the STD.. he apparently planned to conceive a child with a lesbian couple.. who is now been raising him.. claims that's everything. No more secrets. But see we had the talk before I married him being my best friend he knew I couldn't he swore me and my 3 children would be all he ever needed for the rest of his life he was sure ... I honestly ended up so so broken hearted it hurt to even breathe... For a while he seemed sincere and promised he was done with all his deciept & he is sorry and really loves me .....I feel at fist he was sorry but just like his broken promises this one is probably no different cause again he is going on vacation without me.... I guess I just need to grow to hate him enough to leave.. I just don't know how to just yet..
I love how this video is SO INSIGHTFUL and includes things that people wouldn’t normally think of as signs of cheating. Good stuff to know, thanks!
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Let's be real the reason so many people have infidelity in their relationships is because we try to find a half to make us whole instead of trying to find a whole and being whole together. Yall want to bash this man when he is answering honestly about a situation, play victim and point fingers get out your damn feelings. How yall gonna ask the man a question then get mad when he tell you a honest answer. See that's the problem no one really wants to hear the truth anymore. Man every one that comes in our life is either a lesson or a blessing and most of all the people we attract are a direction reflection of ourselves. I.e if you think low of yourself you will attract someone who thinks the same. See the problem with most women is that most of us cry wolf and act like children want to be pacified and want to play damsel in the distress all the time. The sooner yall can except that ok maybe it is me and work on it and stop pointing fingers the better it will be. Love yourself enough to fix whatever is broken in your life so you can attract the right man and stop being so damn bitter saying all men are the same no boo boo they're not it's just that you haven't changed anything about yourself. I already know yall gonna jump on this post and talk shit but the truth is the truth it had to be said so it is what it is
The fact that you're watching this stream....You already know he's cheating.
Exactly
Periodttt
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Ok!!
My boyfriend always chat to other girls in social media ,he like to go girlie bar and he never bring me where ever he go .i don’t why ???
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Covert narcissist operate in secrecy hide their relationships and partners...
If I suspect my man is cheating I'm not going to ask him I will just hire a private I.
I liked everything u had to say and all though he is my ex now u just showed me that my gut feeling about what I was seeing and going threw was on the money I wish I either seen this yrs ago or followed my gut
I like your outlining and summing up of stuff. I like your honesty of the basic logic within a Man who's in a relationships.
The solution was like 'shhhiiii' when you offered a solution (a correct solution theory tho), cuz i thought you'd have a 'special op' plan to catching a sucker.
However, i did find your video valuable. And appreciate ya.
Actually. 1 note- I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT ---"THE SADNESS WITHIN THE MOOD-SWINGS." AREN'T THE GIRLFRIENDS FAULT EITHER- -- AS IN, "ask yourself, whats making him happy and/or SAD TOO." cuz sometimes these boys be sad for no reasons to your knowledge; bring the happy mood the chick was in, DOWN. like what the hell damn bro."
My friend said that they have free period with my boyfriend and saw him with another girl. I asked my other friend and he saw him w/ another. I am so sad. Thinking that he loved me...😭😢😣😞😔
Dont be sad, Im sure he missed out on something really good-and good for you, meaning your Mr Right is about to find you :)
Hugs been there.
I'll just pray and ask God to find me the right man. Everything happens in due time. God's got my heart my front and back! 😉 🙏🏽 God bless...
I gotta a question though... If a man's woman is NOT a creature of habit and very care-free and does not keep a rigid schedule is that particularly irritating to a man in general if I do not plan my chores and activities and so forth in any kind of OCD type of a way? I don't mean to seem to be or come off as rude. And I am not joking or teasing either, I am sorry if it may seem that way, But this is serious question for me because my guy is incessantly saying that I am too carefree with my time and lifestyle choices or lack there-of... like I don't have certain times thought-out for when I do stuff. I just choose to do things mainly when ever I have enough free time away from the kids, I guess I'm not consistent. Is that an issue for most men to not be able to adapt to? or should I consider changing my idosyncrasies?
If a man is cheating on his girlfriend that means he does not love her anymore is that true !?
Sweet Candy A man can love you and still cheat.
@@obinnaStudio Not true. That is only true with people who don't know what love is. LOVE works no ill to his neighbor.
Finding out why he cheated is always a waste of time.
Once trust is gone it always replaced by doubts.
Which always leads to accusations again and again.
Better to stay out of messy relationships.As there is always the one that truly belongs to each one of us.Life is much easy without drama.
Been going through it for years
Dean Shaw being cheated on?
So what ifbyour bf starts off texting u constantly and then all of a sudden just text u less and less and says hes busy doing chores at night around 9pm? What does that mean...?
I think he's cheating... ;( I'm sorry...I was with my BF today and he kept getting texts...at around 3AM and he was pretending to sleep then suddenly gets up at answers...what do i do
Hate to say this but he is more likely cheating got a wife at home or live in gf. No man aint doing no chores at 9pm at night unless he got female company coming over later that night!
Charzsi 3am? Booty call hours. Unless your bf is a doctor or drug dealer an even that is far fetched!
You should be a psychotherapist, I am but didn't know this shit! Very insightful baby!
joann turner He really should be!!
I stumbled across him on RUclips. Now, I'm listening to everything!
Fascinating.
Thank you for your very insightful statement. Yes, I am working on myself and so is he. In my case he isn't ready for a relationship yet and for now I not ready either. Being with him has taught me that there's more out there to discover in dating. There's many options I want to explore and I am going to do just that. I can continue to enjoy his company until he's ready or I encounter someone better than him that's going to give me what I want. Life is too short to stress the small things so I am good for now in protecting my heart. May God bless you to continue helping us women out.
As a woman the first time I cheated I felt as though the relationship was not going anywhere and it frustrated me so I cheated. The second time I cheated I felt the same way but I really did not like the person I cheated with and I still loved my boyfriend so I went back to him and I did not cheat again because it was really senseless..I can forgive a man for cheating on me depending on circumstances because ive gone through it
No one likes you.
+Mande Peer I agree
And Yet Yu say it with such Pride 😏
What if I ask him and he says it's nothing I'm doing wrong? His cheating is inappropriate texting and he kissed a girl at the bar recently.
Loved it. It is accurate, and the solutions part is great advice. Hugs!
What if your man has a work email you can’t see everrr?? Not to mention a lot of the signs and you have been married 18 years.
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Why do people cheat? why can't we all just be faithful and love the one we're with and just that one. This is so unfair. I'm so not for cheating or lying. I don't care if it's a "Cry for help". I cry for help would be opening your fucking mouth and telling me your problems. Not going out and fucking someone else.
u're so true Idk why do people do that it's so fucking bad I'm so faithful and I would never even think about it 😡
I guess they don't know what it is that they are doing in love matters.
What hurts most is that they break the other persons ability to trust and love again.
so true mary i find it difficult to trust my trust has been betrayed so i decided i rather be alone then be unhappy
I did the same after my husband got involved with some lowlife POS woman. I am much happier by myself.
Daiquan Blunt thank u
Chaz, i love your vids man, i'm a new listener, I have a question on this vid in particular , what if a man shows all of these signs but he's not cheating at all , maybe he just feels stuck and exhausted and wants to leave, but just hasn't gotten the gusto to do so yet. because i've known guys in that situation, where they , for example stop arguing about certain things they use to, just because they're just tired and it never gets anywhere or changes, so they give up. But they aren't cheating at all. this is also possible am i right?
that's like the calm before the storm. Ever notice that when it's about to cut loose with a bad storm that the wind dies down and the birds stop singing and making noise?
Kendahke M yes you are very right sir
Ma'am. Notice the high heels on my ninjette?
Kendahke M wooops my apologies :-/
om sick of cheaters
Don't worry about breaking up any happy homes love. A home with a cheater isn't happy and I need your advice more than I need his s**t! 😘
And!.... now I know why he doesn't hang out with his boys anymore lol. Good video sir!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏
Can you do a video on men and porn? I'm not sure what is your opinion but I'm curious how done women are accepting and others feel like their being cheated on.
Jul ofDenial omg I feel like m not worth it and feel so bad bout my body when I seen all them girls w big buts and twerking and stuff :'( sucks
Perla Vazquez don't feel bad sweety. We all don't have that body type. someone will come to u and treat u how u deserve. love yourself. find your beauty and own it. don't let fakeness over rule your authenticity
I feel cheated on :/
Jul ofDenial I agree! And porn is such bullshit and such negative thing! People try to act like it’s not but that is one of the reasons why I broke up with my boyfriend. Porn is bullshit and it makes you ungrateful for your partner and what your love has to offer. People will say porn can be a “good” thing... it’s toxic to the mind and actually scientifically creates the same neuron connections as a drug addict. Like let’s be real what fucking girl is like yeah I don’t care that my “man” watches other naked girls get pounded like fuck them its bullshit!
And I am SO sick of people saying that men are “wired” this way or that way! It sounds like a ton of fucking excuses to me. Just because you are “wired” a certain way doesn’t mean that you can’t change behavior! We can change our brains! All this fucking wired bullshit’
Almost every one of the points you mentioned really hit the nail on the head. I caught my partner of a year cheating on me yesterday when I found some steamy picture swapping in his inbox. I felt the love leave our relationship a while ago, following this was the odd sleep pattern, and a week ago he became disinterested in having sex with me.
My thoughts on this is : One, asking the person to be very honest and fest up. What made them do it ? Why did they not Express their feelings with you first ? How come it was so easy for them to screw someone else and comes back home to you ? Why cheat ? Why not move on or get a tattoo ? When he or she cheated did it change the situation?
Every time I do or don't do something they expect, will they cheat again ?
We also have to face the facts that some ppl are born cheaters.
I just came across your video and basically everything you said was like WOW...you hit the nail on the head... I decided to do a little investigation and just found"my" man on something called BADOO... WTF IS BADOO?!...... WHY!!..... I've been such a good faithful woman to him and I actually hate myself cuz I never cheated on him not once...never even chatted up anyone.... So I can be as great a girlfriend as ever but it won't matter cuz the man will always cheat?..... Fuck relationships.. I'd rather be alone instead worrying.. wondering and stressing all the damn time.. a relationship is just not worth the fucked up rollercoaster ride..
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Wat about ur boyfriend of 7yrs decided he wants to done with da relationship and said to u I wants to done with it but I want u to break up with me he don't wants to do da break up wats up with dat?definitely needs ur take on dis
he is telling the truth....
I need someone to answer this for me, so my husband is laying on the couch and we just got done eating dinner ,he kept saying how sleepy he was ,then he falls asleep on Facebook in a chick's profile so I saw it i got pissed and said what the hell is this, he told me that was a school mate and he was just checking her out to see how much she aged, then called her a fat and ugly, if she fat and ugly then why are u checking her out anyway, I told him he's already cheating, we haven't had set in years he blames on work that he's always tired, my guts tell me he up to something, I'm ready to leave. Been together 20 years I got a lot of anger because of this he's insulting my intelligence which makes me more mad
Men will always be men. Are there really men who don't cheat? Yet to meet one
Tantoh Sheila exactly!!
They are there.... They know God...
You are so real about this topic.. Everything you said is on point! 👌 I'm new to your channel and so far I'm loving it.
ok I'm seriously fucking crying now
This guy is wrong & not an expert or anything. It's not your fault @}'~,~~
Meghan Whitman ..me too all day for weeks
10:33 LMBO 😂😂😂 Plus you looked like Dave Chappelle when you said it!
Thank you sooo much for posting this, it helps more than most of the popular videos with 3 millions views