The Woman's Guide to Girl Code | Spot a Friend or Foe | What to Know
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- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
- As women our power as a collective is indescribable. I think our ability to connect deeply and cooperate with each other is one of our greatest and most powerful traits. But it’s tough to come together and make things happen if we fall into the trap of being selfish, competitive or downright treacherous to each other.
We regularly talk about and put a lot of emphasis on meeting good people and finding good friends. Rightly so. But it’s always worth the reminder that it’s just as important to be a good person and to be a good friend.
So today I want us to dive into a little bit of girl code and go over a few guidelines on how to interact with, respect and support other women so our friendships can flourish, we can live better lives, keep doing big things, and changing the world. 
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Viewing other women as competition and being jealous only perpetuates the patriarchy. As manifestelle said, “if you devalue other women you devalue yourself”
It's so hard to trust women again but one thing about me that would never change...UPLIFTING THEM! You'll never have an insecure day around me!!
It has to be reciprocated on both sides. I had many one sided relationships I recently ended. Great to have a code ethics to instill that everyone respects
For sure! One of the best things about a list like this is that it not only gives a guideline of how we should behave but also what to look for in other women. That way we can make smart choices about who to let into our lives.
I've watched about 3 minutes and am almost crying. I've been bullied all my life, had no true mother figure and no father at all in my life. I've never had friends nor anyone i could really turn to, I've always been alone. I mean sure it made me independent as hell but I have always longed for that connection but for some reason I just can't connect with people (I guess the whole ADHD thing I have been told I have doesn't help.) but there was this one group of really pretty girls in a pub, once when I was for once invited to something, when I was in the toilet on my phone for like 10 minutes trying not to cry, (turned out I was only invited so three guys could grope/footsie me because they were interested in me sexually) those girls asked me if I was ok and I nearly broke down but that was a huge bit of kindness that I haven't had before. so since then I try to be really attentive if I see teens or girls or even women that seem lonely or in need of help and I will point out little things or just randomly compliment them. I do it with guys too but more girls as I have noticed that some guys think its for different reasons.
Did those girls invite you for that reason?
Girl, thank you for these videos. I’ve been following you all the way from Zimbabwe since last year and I must tell you this, by cultivating my femininity I have started something that has caught fire. Advanced femininity is a foreign concept here and because I have been putting in the work, I stand out a lot and I’ve been receiving a lot of HATE. Everything I do is scrutinized and criticized, I’m harshly judged, people always have something nasty to say about me. Even when I’m quiet minding my own business it’s a problem. For a while it took a toll on my mental health but I then realized that all this hate is just compliments. They see me!!! But I wouldn’t have it any other way sis. Thank you for holding us up and helping us become 2.0 versions of ourselves. Please do a video on how to deal with the jealousy and hate towards feminine women.
I've lived in South Africa, I kinda get what you mean, youre doing great. People usually hate on things 1. they can't achieve on their own 2. don't have the guts to do 3. they don't have but (secretly) want etc. in general, if you recieve hate because you change for the better, its because they fear you will become better than them and they cant risk that since they measure their worth based on how sh!t you are doing at least thats my experience in this world. so if you are happy with the person you have and or are becomming and youre not actively causing misery for others, then you go girl!!!
Thank you girl ❤
The voice behind these videos... She sounds so calming. And everything said here is truth. 💯💯
Wonderful message for women of all ages!❤🤗❤
Sisterhood is priceless at every age! Glad you enjoyed it, love 💕
I use her videos to teach my high school students (all girls) things like soft skills and communication😊
This is definitely my community. I’ve once ended a friendship because she couldn’t hold my private life to herself. She would tell her husband. She thought it was normal to share her friends personal lives with him. Apparently that doesn’t count as betrayal because “they are one.” She thought it was cute and funny. I left her. She thought I was being dramatic. I feel vindicated by this post ❤
As a wife, I am one with my husband, but you are entitled to your boundaries. If she violated them and the relationship couldn't be repaired (with perhaps you not sharing everything with her) that was the right call for you to make.
This was very refreshing. In my community I feel that we lack in embracing our sisterhood and a lot of us are out to out-do each other. As a mum, I genuinely thought other mum's had it all together and I was the only one that struggled. Little did I know that I was too honest about my struggles and that its an unspoken thing that all mums struggle and that 95% of mums are just good at putting on a front.
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this is the second time i was almost in tears by the end of one of your videos. it's so touching the way you teach how to function in a way that is upstanding, healthy and productive. we be out here NEEDING this cuz the world or wherever you grew up can definitely make you an ice queen or masculina or wtv other names twitter came up wit to describe the sistas whose mama had to struggle. but thank you again. thank you again and again.
Always love your videos…you truly capture the essence of inner beauty.🌸
Thank you, Julia! Your presence and your comments are always appreciated, love💕
Something I often say or think “I’d be jealous if I wasn’t so happy for you.”
Cause I’m genuinely happy that she has that.
That's beautiful! 💕
I never really grew up with a strong mum structure in my life. I imagine if I had one she’d lay down these teachings for me and sound like you❤ I’m absolutely grateful for what you’re doing and I love the videos you put up!
Ugga mugga, sister! ❤ This is hardly enough, but a start!
Megan, you're a gem! I appreciate all the love you've shown me this past year. So glad you're part of this family/sisterhood. Ugga mugga! 💕
I just keep loving your videos and advice! Thank you!
This video is so refreshing. How amazing that you give this loving and compassionate pieces of advice, not like so many other content creators promoting selfish behavior.
You are so considerate. Sometimes I need a script to pull out in the moment and the one to say when a women is crying is so thoughtful.
I love this channel so much! Thank you for this amazing content!
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Love this. Needed this❤
You're welcome, love! It's so important to be able to cultivate _true_ sisterhood 💕
Smooches 💋, I am so glad that you did this video. I believe that some of us forgot all about the girl code. It's a very good reminder to always be your sister's keeper 💋
I'm definitely so in love with this video. Sisterhood is so important.
I appreciate the positivity.
I LOVE this! A kudos for all the support you've been racking up. That makes me so happy. 🥰
Thank you Suzanne! I love this community 💕
Thank you for this great message. We should help eachother and be supportive toward eachother.
This message nourrishes my soul.
Really great content. 🥰
I absolutely look forwards to listening to your videos everytime !! You have been such an inspiration for me. I would definitely love to hear your ideas about girl code even more! It has opened my eyes on so many things I had forgotten about. A Part 2 of this series would be even more helpful If you have the extra time❤️❤️ Thank you so much!!
And yes, please write a book! I would totally buy 10 to share to my friends and family.
I absolutely love this video.
I love this video so much! And I love have a safety was one of the top ones yeah, make sure your girl is safe even if you don’t even know them keep those eyes open, ladies
Thank you for this video ❤ the content is a super necessity for me right now ❤❤❤
I just love all your videos. Such good advice!!!❤❤
I teach all girls. Thank you for another insightful video. These help me with the soft skills the girls in my high-risk community need most.❤
Ive been writing thank you comments on all the channels for teaching me femininity, so i want to THANK YOU!
As we speak, im learning and applying everything you ladies (also high value male coaches) have taught me. I have a very toxic family so im teaching myself all my life to be a feminine woman and Im making alot of mistakes BUT I am wayyyyy better than younger me. Please dont stop!!! Us ladies with emotionally absent moms need you!!!❤❤❤❤
I love this video so much. Your influence is top tier ❤
Great video! Too many tragic stories in the news and social media about women getting too catty with each other! Unfortunately, some of our sisters have lost their lives over jealousy and envy! 😢
Wow! This made me reflect in a really good way.
Blessings! Great tips. Always respect each other when talking. Always remember we can sing together but we can't all speak at the same time. Let a sis finish talking before start speaking. Definitely, do not ask personal questions in public. Please do not share your friends business with your man. 🙏
This channel is so calming and encouraging! God bless! :)
This channel came to me at the perfect time. I was not in a good mood this morning, but this videos sending me the signals I absolutely need to act on. Thank you for your amazing channel. I'm looking forward to feeding my feminine 🥰
Really appreciate you 😍
Back at you, love! 💕
She speaks with so much knowledge and peace words can't even describe. Thank you for the video ♥️
Love it! This is great. There are so many hyenas out there trying to feast on your spoils that finding other lionesses is always a pleasure. Blessings always. ❤
I love this channel. I always watch this ❤❤. Love it
Happy to have you here, love! Glad you're enjoying it 💕
You really add value to my life. Thanks
I appreciate your golden rule tailored into the girl code.
I had a difficult time at work when a male friend suddenly started ignoring me. I was mad about and was trying to figure out what I did wrong. And got no response but after watching this video I started going out with the girls at work and all of a sudden I cared no more for his friendship and attention. It’s true we women have super powers and can connect on deeper levels.
These videos have so much valuable information ❤😊 ..!
If I were to choose only one channel for the rest of my life I would def chooses this one
Really needed this video. Love from Ghana
This is the video i needed . Thank you
Cheers to sisterhood! 🥂
I love this!
Love it 😍 said it best
Priceless gems♥️♥️♥️
love how u catered to all types and ages of women🎉
I am in the journey of embracing female friendships again. I have had bad experiences before that i had to distance myself, but that woun't stop me from being a better human or support other women ❤
Thank you so much. I always follow. I am learning a lot.
You're welcome - I'm happy to hear that! More to come 😊
Great tips I love this channel!
I love these videos. A book or course is a great idea!
Thanks, love! We'll see what the future holds 💕
Quality content 🎉
You give such amazing perspective on all important aspects related to woman...infact woman of substance kinda. It can come only from an alpha woman like you. Thank you for such a wonderful content 🎉
Congratulations to this phenomenal video. 💕
love this ❤
Love this
wow, I am really impressed with this channel
Thanks!
You're very welcome, love! ❤️❤️
LOVED this❤❤❤❤
Cheers to sisterhood 🥂
Thank you so much!
You're very welcome! 😊
I have no luck with women including my own sister and i know folks who know it all including dusties who find their way to this channel will say that i must be at fault too. Some women even go behind my back to sabotage when they see a decent man showing interest in me.I have been people's greates cheerleader because naturally i'm a caring person. I now actively switch off my goodness and mirror the behavior. I do not go out of my way to make friends with anyone either. I'm still happy for women who can get along with eachother though.
It's soo sweet you want to help sisters thank you sincerely 😊
Of course, love! I believe true sisterhood is extremely important.
This video is the foundation of "LEVEL UP"
I think adding to the definition of envy is "not wanting that person to have the things they want"
What a great channel!
You never miss! ❤
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Great advices. There are not a lot of women, who supports womanhood.
We are so lucky to have you
I’m a firm believer in girl code.Women are powerful when we all come together.
I just love being apart of The Feminine Universe ❤
I love it here 😊😊
I think that's how sisterhood should feel!
Amazing, i would love to hear more about girls friendship
We'll definitely be talking more about this as we go along!
My dad taught us #6 heavy!!
I'm going to be honest. I appreciate this video. I was hesitant to watch this because I didn't want to see or hear the truth about it. I'm aware of the Girl Code, but the ladies I've been friends with over the years never really included me in this really. I'm the woman that got black-balled just for being a good person...you know, the one who's always cheery (which I can't help, cause it's my nature). You would think other women would want to hang with someone like that. But these ladies didn't apparently, and saw me as a downer (which I don't understand). When I was super unhappy with relationships and needed advice from them, no one comforted me at all or told me things to help me out. I was alone to "Figure things out, eventually.", or "Maybe that'll stop her from being so freaking cheery all the time." I'm now learning from this video that, like you mentioned, that not every woman follows the code or has your back. So, I'm re-prioritizing my friendships now because I simply don't need the judgment anymore.
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@@jlina ❤️...thanks
I want this ❤
I wish u were my friend to be honest. Your friends are lucky
i heard a different definition for jealousy and envy
jealous being you admire what someone else has and you want it
envy being you don’t want the other person to have what they have
Exactly what I understand about the difference!
Thank you for this! My worries is that recently found some friends who don't believe in the same code. I.e. dating life. I have a rule, if at one point my friend liked the person it's a no go. But not getting the same. I understand my previous friends kept stepping over my boundaries and I don't want to tolerate it. Thoughts?
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Thank you so so much for your amazing video as always. This is a safe place for every woman, and I love all your works so much, that I listen them every morning like a podcast because they make me feel better and give me the hint to be a better version of myself. so thank you so so much!!
I don’t usually comment on videos but PLEASE DO A COURSE OF ANYTHING ILL BUY IT !!!!
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7:30 this is me
I started my MS last year and never in my life I've seen such an unnecessary competition and scheming among girls. I literally had to scold and brush off few girls to get my peace so i can focus on my research. It's very disappointing when your girls circle have people like this.
I want you to be MY friend! 😂💕
What if the “Sister’s Keeper mentality” to help or safe someone has drained one so badly that they decide to limit that?
Did i just see sintamei from the single kiasi kenyan showmaz series💃
I am my sisters keeper got me tearing up
At the end of the day these people are strangers
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Hey I’m Jacqulin and I’m a big fan of your videos. So I see you said you would do one on your period…r u going to still going to do that
I must say, I stopped watching shows like RHOA because of the ugly behaviour the ladies exhibited towards each other. Great for TV ratings. Bad for building women's relationships😢
The "my sister's keeper" point hit me hard.
During the first night at uni, I was at the campus club and met cool girls. We drifted apart and went talking to other people. I was talking to a guy and then I left alone.
Half an hour later the same group of girls tracked my room down and knocked on my door to make sure that I was okay.
It was the most shocking and sweetest thing ever. I will remember that generous act for as long as I live.
I'm going to work on being more open and forgiving. These are my two pitfalls.
Great video and a really interesting topic ❤
Love this ❤ I know of women who have that “ I can steal your man “ energy and it’s frustrating to say the least
I can’t wait til you have a Course or online community Connect ❤