Make sure you are comfortable being alone before you look for anyone else to add to your mix again. A true appreciation for solitude and alone time is a powerful thing. Having a strong sense of self and self love makes it easier to not settle for things that don't align with your values. Thanks again, Jay, another wonderful conversation, wonderful guest and advice 🙏❤️
Spend time loving yourself and with loved ones. Go on adventures, delve into your hobbies and find new ones. Explore new experiences, give love to others and be kind to yourself. With time you will heal ❤
The first step is to acknowledge that the relationship has ended. It is difficult, but tell yourself as much as you need to. Give yourself some grace, do not blame yourself (you can accept responsibility if you were the cause of the breakup or did something that caused the relationship to crumble), and wish things had turned out differently. Move forward after appreciating the relationship. Moving forward by allowing yourself to love and be loved, and above all, by loving yourself. Allow yourself time alone to assess what you want in a relationship and to consider what you will and will not compromise on.
Nessa looks younger than her years but speaks decades wiser, i hope people listen to her and not understimate some very well spoken points on self awareness
@@louiskwizera The thing with God is that you don't need anything. You just need to run to him. His love is unconditional and nothing you do would make him see you as worthless. You are his masterpiece.
Nessa is so insightful for her age, very articulate, and gifted with expression. I listened to this podcast on my morning walk, and I had to repeat certain parts.
This was a great interview. I didn't know much about nessa or her music but this showed a lot about her. She is such an intelligent young woman that grew up fast. It amazes me how in tuned with her emotions she is, and how fast her mind works. She is so young yet so connected with herself I've been binge watching episodes and this is one of my favorites
nessa has shown a lot of growth since when she started doing social media this definitely made me an official nessa barrett fan I adore her, I wish nothing but blessings towards her she has gone through so much for just a 20 year old
Nessa checks every box for me as an artist. Her music is the words I think but cannot write on paper. The perspective and views on life she now has is incredible and makes me so proud. It's so cool to see me in such a cool artist. Makes me feel more comfortable and less alone with my BPD through her music. A blessed soul
I enjoyed this interview so much. I am trying to recover from a 35-year marriage breakup, and it touched my soul! Who said young people can not teach you a thing or two!!! Thank you NESSA!!! GOD Bless!😢😊❤
my love & respect for nessa grows more & more each time i hear her speak. she’s such a light to our generation & world. i’ve seen her twice in concert (yay burn box) & have met her once, which have impacted me forever. truly a gem to our society & i wish nothing but the best for her. thank you for having her on
the fact that she’s so open about her struggles especially with anorexia it’s so hard for someone to come out and say they have that and that’s why they’ve lost weight not like many people in LA who just wanna be skinny and consider it the standard
omgg this felt so open, honest and real. this interview felt like a warm hug i will always love nessa’s honesty and vulnerability it makes me feel so seen and connected and jay’s insight on the things she says it just felt like such a genuine conversation 🤍
I’m 20 and I also struggle with my body and she explained exactly how I feel. Even talking about the words you use, my mom told me a few days ago I look healthier and more fuller than before and since then I’ve just been spiraling thinking about those words “healthy” and “fuller” making me change my ‘healthy’ trajectory. I’ve been staring at my food labels and I felt crazy. I’m just glad I’m not going through these things alone, and there must be so many other people going through this. I’m getting the help I need btw so it’s ok, I really am trying.
What a beautiful interview. Nessa is so insightful for her age. Me at 21 could never sit down and have this conversation with myself let alone a interview about trauma and heartbreak. She is growing into herself and it’s beautiful to see.
best podcast i ever watched, Nessa is just so honest and real. she really helps so many people including myself, by talking so open about her struggles with an eating disorder. it really makes me feel so understood
Before this interview with Nessa, I didn’t know of her. After listening to Nessa speak, I’ve fallen in love with her heart! What a wise and mature queen 🩷 sending love. Thanks for the episode x
She may be struggling, as most are, yet her honesty and self-awareness make her an amazing role model. Wishing her full recovery (which i know is a journey) so she can inspire many for decades to come.
I give this young lady all the credit in the world. She is beyond wise for her age and her honesty is so RAW. I pray she will get blessed with all the healing she deserves.
I adore this pod, i come back to it so often. As someone who suffers with an eating disorder who doesnt necessarily ‘look’ like an ed sufferer - i really appreciate nessa talking about how eating disorders dont have a look. You both expressed such empathy and genuine emotion and understanding. I truly loved this episode. Youre both so important and the way and fact that youre even talking about topics like this with such an open mind is so refreshing. 💌
Love getting to know people intimately like this before actually getting to know what they do. Gives me a very special view point of their personality. Nessa is a beautiful soul. ❤
I absolutely love her music. I discovered Nessa through my daughter who is a huge fan of hers and became a huge fan myself. Her music resonates with me. She really is awesome. Can't wait to see what comes next.
I am happy that she is able to ask and get the help at such a young age and doesn’t need to wait a life to learn all these. I hope she breaks the stigma around going to therapy, looking for healing the inner child. ❤
This interview by far is one of the best I have ever seen on jays show. She is so intelligent and mature. I do not know who she is however I will be following her and her music from this point on. Prayers going up for you young lady. Best interview. Your parents must be very proud of you.
Thank you for having Nessa and thank you Nessa hearing you talk about your eating disorder helps me so much, to know that someone know exactly what I'm going through
I admire people who can talk about the pain they felt and went through, I’ve been through so much bullying in my life and just got off an abusive relationship, i am not able to share my feelings it breaks me every time i try. People who are able to share their pain, it’s an inspiration to help others to do the same. Thank you 🙏
This one made me cry I have a very deep connection to nessas music hearing her talk so openly and the way she is able to process understand and express and turn her struggles into beautiful art is so amazing and inspiring seeing her growth made me so emotional and proud she is such an Angel 😇
I must say, this is my first time watching a Jay Shetty video and perhaps I’ve just been missing out on a great community- but this interview in particular was exceptional and so full of presence and awareness. Hearing Nessa articulate such conscious ideas, pains and struggles is so refreshing. I do believe you two were right in saying we forget media is still real life and we are all conscious and on our own journeys. Something I live by and have come to realize is that our own perspectives are singular and we are all at different levels of awareness. Knowing that this isn’t just another “social media” person but a conscious and aware individual, even with her struggles, who is working on evolving and growing and bringing her career along with it. It just feels like her career, influence and her mindset is in the right place. I can only have faith that this world is growing and we are all evolving to be as self aware, empathetic and compassionate as these two people in this video.
I started crying right from the start because I can relate to Nessa in so many ways. I've known her since the first song, and she's become my fav singer over that time, and a person whose music I'm always waiting for. This interview just made me realise that I love Nessa even more than I thought. Hearing her talking about these things and being so mature makes me admire her so much. Thank you, Nessa, I'm so glad that you and your music came to my life. I will support you always
Nessa is so genuine and honest. She articulates so well. I did not know her before this interview, but I am now a fan. Let go and let God…always stands
She is such a beautiful person in and out. I am so grateful to have her in my life whether she’s physically in it or not. She has such a strong voice and she’s uses it for good and I don’t see many influencers or artists advocating for it this much. Really enjoyed this podcast♥️♥️
This was actually my favorite podcast episode ever! I love Nessa & everything that you talked about during the interview was so instructive and accurate. Thank you for creating this safe place for her to be able to express herself honestly and help others who are struggling too.
41:34 jays reaction to that comment was everything. EVERYONE NEEDS SOMEBODY IN THERE LIFE THEY CAN LOVE PERIOD ITS THE VERY REASON WE ARE HERE ON THE PLANET AFTER ALL.
I went to college with her Dad who was/is a very ambitious rapper. It’s surprising to hear that her parents didn’t support her desire to want something more outside of the traditional path of college & a 9-5. However, many times when our loved ones don’t “support” our dreams, it’s a trauma response to their own fears. Their own way of protecting us. She has grown into such a beautiful young woman. I’m excited to see all that she’ll accomplish with music and more. 🙌🏾
Why haven't i come across your channel sooner? Must be because im going through a breakup and suffering from the ultimate betrayal. I listen to your videos everyday at work my friend. Thank you!
i’m currently going through the worst heartbreak i’ve ever experienced and i feel so alone even though i know i’m not and i would do anything just to talk to nessa about it because i feel like she could rly connect with my situation
I promise it will all be ok. Spend this time to date yourself, go on solo dates, talk to yourself. Invest every single second in yourself bc in the future you will look back and be so thankful for going through heartbreak as it unleashed a version of you that you didn’t know existed. This experience will shape you, build you and unlock a new path in your journey. Self love is needed and necessary and once you learn to love you, you won’t ever seek relationships, they will seek you.
having a girl like this with her platform speaking so candidly about her struggles with mental health, specifically anorexia, is going to help so many people. so grateful for this pod and for nessa.
Nessa, you are an amazing human being! I listen to full podcast and enjoyed every second of it. Thank you both for sharing your wisdom and spreading love.
What an amazing chat this was. Nessar - you deserve all the happiness in the world for you are a great human being. I wish you much love Jay - perfect as usual
this is definitely the best Interview nessa has ever done. she is so raw and honest and really emotional but in a really good way. I already really liked this podcast and last week's episode with Tom holland was already really good but this one is my new favorite.
Nessa is so insightful and wise with her words. I hope to articulate my thoughts gracefully and as fast as she does someday. Everything she says blew my mind with her introspection. Love this interview! New subscriber!
0:29: 🏃 At 17, the speaker ran away from home to pursue her dreams of being a singer and living in California. 6:43: 💔 The artist discusses their challenging upbringing, healing through therapy, and the loneliness they feel in the music industry. 15:04: 💔 The speaker discusses how her music is focused on her struggles and how she chooses to deal with them rather than being unhappy with her life. 22:31: ❤ The speaker discusses the challenges of performing on stage while dealing with an eating disorder and shares insights on how to support someone going through it. 28:28: 💔 Public breakups are more difficult due to the scrutiny and constant reminders, with the desperate stage being the most challenging. 36:09: 💔 The longest stage after a breakup is the recovery from codependency, where one has to learn to love themselves and enjoy their own company. 42:27: ❤ Self-love is crucial for giving love to others and finding happiness in oneself. 54:45: ✨ Being open, honest, and vulnerable is key to creating a stable support system in the music industry. 56:05: 💡 The artist values authenticity and being true to oneself in creating music, rather than chasing commercial success. 1:03:06: ❤ Nessa suggests that a law should be implemented where people are encouraged to give love and hugs to those in need, in order to combat hatred and separation in the world. Recap by Tammy AI
You’re so strong and so mature at such a young age. You’re beautiful Nessa inside and out. I do listen to and watch Jay’s podcast regularly but I never really felt like I needed to comment but today I have to for you my beautiful angel Nessa. May you be happy and well.
I'll never get tired of people interviewing her she's so well spoken and seems like such a beautiful person. I relate so much with her when she said when you have a big heart it's hard to see red flags in other people💯
I’ve heard of that after show loneliness before. It’s such a high to perform and do what you love in front of a bunch of people so excited to see you and then going back to the hotel room all alone. It’s hard to adjust to the energy shift
If anyone believes humanity is lost,only needs to listen to you amazing human beings!! :) we are in a ride as humans for sure, and i believe we need more of such honesty and transparency - and we will have it, because you two are such great examples of authenticity (and insane talent)
What is your post-breakup advice?
Make sure you are comfortable being alone before you look for anyone else to add to your mix again. A true appreciation for solitude and alone time is a powerful thing. Having a strong sense of self and self love makes it easier to not settle for things that don't align with your values. Thanks again, Jay, another wonderful conversation, wonderful guest and advice 🙏❤️
Set yourself a time to cry it, talk about, scream about….after that fix your face and be the boss you know that your are and they lost. 🫶🏼🫂
Spend time loving yourself and with loved ones. Go on adventures, delve into your hobbies and find new ones. Explore new experiences, give love to others and be kind to yourself. With time you will heal ❤
The first step is to acknowledge that the relationship has ended. It is difficult, but tell yourself as much as you need to. Give yourself some grace, do not blame yourself (you can accept responsibility if you were the cause of the breakup or did something that caused the relationship to crumble), and wish things had turned out differently. Move forward after appreciating the relationship. Moving forward by allowing yourself to love and be loved, and above all, by loving yourself.
Allow yourself time alone to assess what you want in a relationship and to consider what you will and will not compromise on.
Don’t go back to what made you leave in the 1st part.
"A voice for the voiceless" that is exactly how I would explain Nessa's music!
Oh yes thought i was the only one that think about that
Nessa looks younger than her years but speaks decades wiser, i hope people listen to her and not understimate some very well spoken points on self awareness
For those feeling lonely, know that you are not alone.
🥺🫶🏼
How so?
Jesus❤
@@TonyStark-xz2nd I just wish I had everything to make him proud
@@louiskwizera The thing with God is that you don't need anything. You just need to run to him. His love is unconditional and nothing you do would make him see you as worthless. You are his masterpiece.
Nessa is so insightful for her age, very articulate, and gifted with expression. I listened to this podcast on my morning walk, and I had to repeat certain parts.
Yes she is so amazing
This was a great interview. I didn't know much about nessa or her music but this showed a lot about her. She is such an intelligent young woman that grew up fast. It amazes me how in tuned with her emotions she is, and how fast her mind works. She is so young yet so connected with herself I've been binge watching episodes and this is one of my favorites
So glad you enjoyed the interview! Nessa is amazing.
She ran away as a survival mechanism. She was afraid she was going to die. Maybe not physically, but in every way that mattered to her.
And she made her own opportunities. So much respect for that
an avoidant? its fun, isnt it..
nessa has shown a lot of growth since when she started doing social media this definitely made me an official nessa barrett fan I adore her, I wish nothing but blessings towards her she has gone through so much for just a 20 year old
Nessa checks every box for me as an artist. Her music is the words I think but cannot write on paper. The perspective and views on life she now has is incredible and makes me so proud. It's so cool to see me in such a cool artist. Makes me feel more comfortable and less alone with my BPD through her music. A blessed soul
I enjoyed this interview so much. I am trying to recover from a 35-year marriage breakup, and it touched my soul! Who said young people can not teach you a thing or two!!! Thank you NESSA!!! GOD Bless!😢😊❤
So many beautiful lessons from every walk of life. So much love as you are navigating your own new path.
No but same! I’m 36 and I’m listening to this!! 🥲
Who initiated the break-up?
Thank you for having Nessa on the podcast, she’s so strong
Agreed!
Oh yes she is love hearing from her
my love & respect for nessa grows more & more each time i hear her speak. she’s such a light to our generation & world. i’ve seen her twice in concert (yay burn box) & have met her once, which have impacted me forever. truly a gem to our society & i wish nothing but the best for her.
thank you for having her on
Oh yes likewise me
Clarity is like a breath of fresh air. This is why conversation, even if it feels confusing, can be healing. Thank you for the clarity.
the fact that she’s so open about her struggles especially with anorexia it’s so hard for someone to come out and say they have that and that’s why they’ve lost weight not like many people in LA who just wanna be skinny and consider it the standard
Oh yes she is such a great
omgg this felt so open, honest and real. this interview felt like a warm hug i will always love nessa’s honesty and vulnerability it makes me feel so seen and connected and jay’s insight on the things she says it just felt like such a genuine conversation 🤍
I’m 20 and I also struggle with my body and she explained exactly how I feel. Even talking about the words you use, my mom told me a few days ago I look healthier and more fuller than before and since then I’ve just been spiraling thinking about those words “healthy” and “fuller” making me change my ‘healthy’ trajectory. I’ve been staring at my food labels and I felt crazy. I’m just glad I’m not going through these things alone, and there must be so many other people going through this. I’m getting the help I need btw so it’s ok, I really am trying.
What a beautiful interview. Nessa is so insightful for her age. Me at 21 could never sit down and have this conversation with myself let alone a interview about trauma and heartbreak. She is growing into herself and it’s beautiful to see.
best podcast i ever watched, Nessa is just so honest and real.
she really helps so many people including myself, by talking so open about her struggles with an eating disorder.
it really makes me feel so understood
she grown so much. i remembered saw her first ever interview. forever proud of her
Before this interview with Nessa, I didn’t know of her. After listening to Nessa speak, I’ve fallen in love with her heart! What a wise and mature queen 🩷 sending love. Thanks for the episode x
Love her vulnerability and her honesty ❤ Thank you
i love this sm. i’ve been dealing w anorexia since i was 11 years old ,, it’s nice to have someone speaking up a. the issue without denying it
nessa barret shows that struggles are real in life & with strong willpower we can get through this!
this interview just brings me comfort idk how to explain it
Blown away by her self awareness and all that she has been through ❤
She may be struggling, as most are, yet her honesty and self-awareness make her an amazing role model. Wishing her full recovery (which i know is a journey) so she can inspire many for decades to come.
I give this young lady all the credit in the world. She is beyond wise for her age and her honesty is so RAW. I pray she will get blessed with all the healing she deserves.
I adore this pod, i come back to it so often. As someone who suffers with an eating disorder who doesnt necessarily ‘look’ like an ed sufferer - i really appreciate nessa talking about how eating disorders dont have a look. You both expressed such empathy and genuine emotion and understanding. I truly loved this episode. Youre both so important and the way and fact that youre even talking about topics like this with such an open mind is so refreshing. 💌
thank u so much for having ness on the podcast, she has helped so many of us and she is so strong.
She has grown so much and I’m so proud of her. I hope she does get treatment soon for her E.D, she deserve calmness and peace
Love getting to know people intimately like this before actually getting to know what they do. Gives me a very special view point of their personality. Nessa is a beautiful soul. ❤
I absolutely love her music. I discovered Nessa through my daughter who is a huge fan of hers and became a huge fan myself.
Her music resonates with me. She really is awesome. Can't wait to see what comes next.
I am happy that she is able to ask and get the help at such a young age and doesn’t need to wait a life to learn all these. I hope she breaks the stigma around going to therapy, looking for healing the inner child. ❤
This interview by far is one of the best I have ever seen on jays show. She is so intelligent and mature. I do not know who she is however I will be following her and her music from this point on. Prayers going up for you young lady. Best interview. Your parents must be very proud of you.
Thank you for having Nessa and thank you Nessa hearing you talk about your eating disorder helps me so much, to know that someone know exactly what I'm going through
Nessa is so incredible. She has such incredible advice and is so real. I love her so much
I admire people who can talk about the pain they felt and went through, I’ve been through so much bullying in my life and just got off an abusive relationship, i am not able to share my feelings it breaks me every time i try. People who are able to share their pain, it’s an inspiration to help others to do the same. Thank you 🙏
This one made me cry I have a very deep connection to nessas music hearing her talk so openly and the way she is able to process understand and express and turn her struggles into beautiful art is so amazing and inspiring seeing her growth made me so emotional and proud she is such an Angel 😇
nessa is such a beautiful person inside and out, whenever I listen to her talk I will cry she has such a pure soul
you are such a good interviewer. thank you for letting her speak. and not cutting in! great interview
I must say, this is my first time watching a Jay Shetty video and perhaps I’ve just been missing out on a great community- but this interview in particular was exceptional and so full of presence and awareness. Hearing Nessa articulate such conscious ideas, pains and struggles is so refreshing. I do believe you two were right in saying we forget media is still real life and we are all conscious and on our own journeys. Something I live by and have come to realize is that our own perspectives are singular and we are all at different levels of awareness. Knowing that this isn’t just another “social media” person but a conscious and aware individual, even with her struggles, who is working on evolving and growing and bringing her career along with it. It just feels like her career, influence and her mindset is in the right place. I can only have faith that this world is growing and we are all evolving to be as self aware, empathetic and compassionate as these two people in this video.
if you have the opportunity to get your ex back will you get your ex back be honest
It's amazing how our perspectives can shape our judgements. I love when I'm proven wrong.
NESSA IS A FREAKING QUEEN!!! i sturgeon with about that same thing as her and he explained things so well
I did not know who this was, but what a great interview bringing many topics that are so important. Jay Shetty did an excellent job interviewing her.
Thank you very much!
I started crying right from the start because I can relate to Nessa in so many ways. I've known her since the first song, and she's become my fav singer over that time, and a person whose music I'm always waiting for. This interview just made me realise that I love Nessa even more than I thought. Hearing her talking about these things and being so mature makes me admire her so much. Thank you, Nessa, I'm so glad that you and your music came to my life. I will support you always
Nessa is so genuine and honest. She articulates so well. I did not know her before this interview, but I am now a fan. Let go and let God…always stands
i am so proud of her, i hope she knows how loved she really is
She is such a beautiful person in and out. I am so grateful to have her in my life whether she’s physically in it or not. She has such a strong voice and she’s uses it for good and I don’t see many influencers or artists advocating for it this much. Really enjoyed this podcast♥️♥️
This was actually my favorite podcast episode ever! I love Nessa & everything that you talked about during the interview was so instructive and accurate. Thank you for creating this safe place for her to be able to express herself honestly and help others who are struggling too.
nessa gets it, the way she say and worded her problems touchs my soul every time
the way that she became more mature and well spoken is beautiful. she’s so down earthy and sincere about her mental health. keep going Nessa 🫶🏻
this is why i love nessa barret. she just gets it.
I love this podcast the talker is very respectful let’s the other person speaks and listens and is always super kind with his questions and answers ❤
41:34 jays reaction to that comment was everything.
EVERYONE NEEDS SOMEBODY IN THERE LIFE THEY CAN LOVE PERIOD ITS THE VERY REASON WE ARE HERE ON THE PLANET AFTER ALL.
Awww 🥰 Amazing interview
Thank you!!
So much wisdom for such a young woman, love to see it, really loving this episode! Thanks to you both 🙏❤️
wait i remember u
omg i love your videos😆
I love this interview as well! No matter what challenges we face, we need to have the courage to overcome all these.
I struggle with several disorders and having Nessa talk about them makes me feel so so less alone
I went to college with her Dad who was/is a very ambitious rapper. It’s surprising to hear that her parents didn’t support her desire to want something more outside of the traditional path of college & a 9-5. However, many times when our loved ones don’t “support” our dreams, it’s a trauma response to their own fears. Their own way of protecting us. She has grown into such a beautiful young woman. I’m excited to see all that she’ll accomplish with music and more. 🙌🏾
Why haven't i come across your channel sooner? Must be because im going through a breakup and suffering from the ultimate betrayal. I listen to your videos everyday at work my friend. Thank you!
i’m currently going through the worst heartbreak i’ve ever experienced and i feel so alone even though i know i’m not and i would do anything just to talk to nessa about it because i feel like she could rly connect with my situation
You will get through this. Keep talking to anyone, it will make all the difference.
I promise it will all be ok. Spend this time to date yourself, go on solo dates, talk to yourself. Invest every single second in yourself bc in the future you will look back and be so thankful for going through heartbreak as it unleashed a version of you that you didn’t know existed. This experience will shape you, build you and unlock a new path in your journey. Self love is needed and necessary and once you learn to love you, you won’t ever seek relationships, they will seek you.
, very good advice
Nessa is so mature ; loved this interview. I am impressed with her outlook in life considering all she has been through 😍😍🥰
I had never heard of her or her music; I have now become a fan.
this interview is so amazing. I'll def watch it twice a week from now ahah so comforting i'll forever love nessa
Props to the interviewer for his insightful questions - shows depth of research. Seems like a v down to earth and respectful guy.
having a girl like this with her platform speaking so candidly about her struggles with mental health, specifically anorexia, is going to help so many people. so grateful for this pod and for nessa.
Never heard of Nessa until this. Really great to watch
Haven’t been this excited about a guest for a long time! Nessa is a real life angel. She’s so beautiful internally as well as on the outside!
Such a down to earth gorgeous authentic human being. I love her and always will. She’s so mature and has a great outlook on life ❤
if you have the opportunity to get your ex back will you get your ex back be honest
Much needed.... thank you so much jay for the podcast ❤
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Generate the pain you are feeling into becoming a better version of who you want to have.
I feel such a deep connection with Nessa. We have so much income, and i appreciate her being so vulnerable
Having gone through a painful breakup less than a year ago, the way she articulated how I felt about the breakup was amazing.
Such a pure heart! She is so young yet still extremely self aware. ❤❤❤
This young woman is amazing. Loved the interview.
Nessa, you are an amazing human being! I listen to full podcast and enjoyed every second of it. Thank you both for sharing your wisdom and spreading love.
Oh she's so amazing
Nessa, you did so well articulating your struggles in such an adult way. Proud of you!
Jay Shetty just brings so many different amazing people ❤
That's my goal!
girly keeps giving us interviews i love it
What an amazing chat this was. Nessar - you deserve all the happiness in the world for you are a great human being. I wish you much love
Jay - perfect as usual
She is really good at describing alot of things i think but not know how to say. Really genuine soul. She seems super nice
this is definitely the best Interview nessa has ever done. she is so raw and honest and really emotional but in a really good way. I already really liked this podcast and last week's episode with Tom holland was already really good but this one is my new favorite.
Nessa is so insightful and wise with her words. I hope to articulate my thoughts gracefully and as fast as she does someday. Everything she says blew my mind with her introspection. Love this interview! New subscriber!
I love nessa so much. This was an interview I didn’t know I wanted until I clicked on the video.
0:29: 🏃 At 17, the speaker ran away from home to pursue her dreams of being a singer and living in California.
6:43: 💔 The artist discusses their challenging upbringing, healing through therapy, and the loneliness they feel in the music industry.
15:04: 💔 The speaker discusses how her music is focused on her struggles and how she chooses to deal with them rather than being unhappy with her life.
22:31: ❤ The speaker discusses the challenges of performing on stage while dealing with an eating disorder and shares insights on how to support someone going through it.
28:28: 💔 Public breakups are more difficult due to the scrutiny and constant reminders, with the desperate stage being the most challenging.
36:09: 💔 The longest stage after a breakup is the recovery from codependency, where one has to learn to love themselves and enjoy their own company.
42:27: ❤ Self-love is crucial for giving love to others and finding happiness in oneself.
54:45: ✨ Being open, honest, and vulnerable is key to creating a stable support system in the music industry.
56:05: 💡 The artist values authenticity and being true to oneself in creating music, rather than chasing commercial success.
1:03:06: ❤ Nessa suggests that a law should be implemented where people are encouraged to give love and hugs to those in need, in order to combat hatred and separation in the world.
Recap by Tammy AI
I wish nothing but the best for her. She is gonna be a SUPER STAR!!
she has grown up so much it’s amazing to see
She is so wonderful and real. Great podcast
Oh yes she is
Wow, she put words to something that I knew was happening or feeling but never knew how to explain. Such a great podcast!
“When someone tells me I look healthy , I want to spiral. “ Bpd screaming inside of me. Accurate.
shes so well spoken
This truly is a powerful interview. Hope the best for everyone in this world. You are not alone ♥️
i could listen to her for hours she’s precious
You’re so strong and so mature at such a young age. You’re beautiful Nessa inside and out. I do listen to and watch Jay’s podcast regularly but I never really felt like I needed to comment but today I have to for you my beautiful angel Nessa. May you be happy and well.
Day is made, another Nessa interview! :)
what a beautiful, touching and warm interview! x
I'll never get tired of people interviewing her she's so well spoken and seems like such a beautiful person. I relate so much with her when she said when you have a big heart it's hard to see red flags in other people💯
if you have the opportunity to get your ex back will you get your ex back be honest
she is doing amazing, i wish i was this self awareness. Thank you for sharing your story.
I love the burn box idea, you’re burning away negativity!
After watching this interview with Nessa, i think Tana would make an incredible guest because shes so wise and has grown so much
This is a young woman wise beyond her years! Much love and respect…
take a shot everytime she says “ya know”
we’d be dead 😂😂😂😂😂
I’ve heard of that after show loneliness before. It’s such a high to perform and do what you love in front of a bunch of people so excited to see you and then going back to the hotel room all alone. It’s hard to adjust to the energy shift
If anyone believes humanity is lost,only needs to listen to you amazing human beings!! :) we are in a ride as humans for sure, and i believe we need more of such honesty and transparency - and we will have it, because you two are such great examples of authenticity (and insane talent)