It's heartwarming to see the mother and daughter escape, but the father can and will take it out on the innocent dog. It's cruel and brutal how shelters won't allow you to save your pets as well.
cruel? brutal? yes, it's sad that they don't allow pets, but they're already doing alot for abused and traumatised women, child and even men..for the young and elderly.
It doesn't even have to get that bad. My parents yelled, threatened and accused - I vividly remember one night when my mother stormed out of the house threatening to kill herself and leave my dad with a house full of upset kids - but there was rarely hitting. All you need is the threat of violence and the possibility that it could get turned on you, a small defenseless child with nowhere else to go. I can relate to the flood or fear that comes with a door opening, in case it's them. If it's them, even if they're in a good mood, you don't feel safe when they're present.
I was taken away from my mother at 13 after her severe abuse, my father is a good man and has always been loving and supportive of me. I wish these videos showed the mother as the abuser more often.
My mother would start fights and constantly provoke everyone whenever something didn't go her way, she abused me emotionally, physically and verbally constantly. I also wish they'd show mothers as abusers more often
@@dash0myshit literally is not. Thats what society wants you to think, and it’s working. Men may be more PHYSICALLY abusive (sometimes) but women are often the emotionally abusive psychopaths.
The reason why they dont show it often is because statically its not often that its happens. 9 out of 10 cases of severe domestic abuse is man propagating it against women and kids, so... I'm sorry for what happened to you, really i am, but you have to recognize that your case is an exception. for the vast majority of time it is male violence, so its only fair that its the portrait that's seen more oftenly. advoce for more representation of women abusers, well there IS representation, just not as much (in accordance to reality) wont help because it pretends like it a "both sides" thing when its just not rhe case, and it work for villainizing the groups thata more likely to be the victim.
Woman can be just as abusive as men, but men are more likely to be the abuser. That's probably why a lot of PSAs show a man in the abuser role. Condolences for what you went through. Anybody can be an abuser sadly.
My household didn’t have that, fortunately, but my friend’s one did, her father was physically and emotionally abusive towards her and her mom may didn’t hit or yell at her but she didn’t do anything to stop the abuse so she’s an accomplice by inaction !
I’m glad I left when I did. My son was about 9mos in 2015. We’ve endured nothing but Peace since then..it feels amazing ✨🌱💛 No one deserves to feel belittled or small. A fresh start can be a blessing. New beginnings are good. It’s okay to start over, this time do it for YOU.
I was 4 when I had the first of many memories of my father hurting my mother. I stepped in front of her to protect her. This scene has been repeating in my head for years. This is traumatic, for sure.
I am so sorry for you! Sending healing virtual hugs. You seem to have had a sense of bravery and justice from a very small child. I hope life has treated you well ❤
When the girl looked down at the dog's collar, that really hit close to home. When i was yunger my dad in a drunken rage, Beat and hit our family dog to death💔
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. That must have been absolutely heartbreaking, I hope you're in a better place now. 😥 If you haven't already, maybe it'd help to get another dog? That way, you can shower it with all the love you wanted to give to the other one. 🥰 At least, that's what helped me when my dog passed away. Much love to you. Also, cute profile picture. :)
Billy Graham, as well as myself believes that our pets are all yes in heaven waiting for us. If we go to Heaven and our pets will be there. I believe all animals actually go to heaven, of course.
I have abusive uncle. His name is Scott. Despite his age, he is physically violent towards his wife and children. My cousin, his daughter, even got two black eyes from him. When I was just a newborn baby, I immediately knew that there was something wrong with him. When I was 5 years old, I was playing on the stairs after church. Scott came up to me and said, "Howdy," in a chilling tone. I asked him if he could go to another location, which he did. I ran up to Daddy and said, "That guy scares me!" Daddy then said, "He's just your uncle Scott. He won't hurt you." When I was 6 years old, I was studying the Greek alphabet after I saw it in a dictionary. When I went to church, Scott wrote the Greek alphabet from alpha to omega on paper and gave it to me. I was still deathly afraid of him, though. When I was 7 years old, Scott drove me and my little brothers home from church. He drove through the backyard, literally driving on the grass. I was still deathly afraid of him. When I was 8 years old, I asked my aunt Susan, Daddy's older sister, Scott's wife, where Scott was and why he didn't preach church anymore. Susan said that her husband has always been such a mean and abusive man and physically violent towards her and their children. I last saw Scott when I was 22 years old at his oldest daughter's funeral. I was still deathly afraid of him. When I saw him, I nearly got a heart attack. He just said, "Howdy," in that same chilling tone that always gave me nightmares. He then offered me to sit next to him, which I refused. Just in case you're wondering, Scott didn't beat his oldest daughter to death. His oldest daughter died of breast cancer. Anyway, Scott just said, "Hannah, you're my niece. I feel so alone. I'm an old man." He was only in his mid 60's, which isn't even old at all. Except for Scott had already looked like an old man when I was a newborn baby. He was only in his early 40's, which is considered extremely young nowadays. I am 27 years old and will be 28 years old in August. I am still deathly afraid of Scott, who is 70 years old now. Despite his age, he is still physically strong and physically abusive. I'm so glad that his wife, children, children-in-law, and his unborn granddaughter, are safe from him. My aunt Susan and her kids are all kindhearted. Her children-in-law are kindhearted, too. Because of Scott's abuse, his children are all very shy. The daughter he gave two black eyes to neglects her appearance. His oldest son often claims that he is way too shy to talk to people and teach Sunday school. Thanks a lot, Scott. You permanently destroyed your children's confidence. You will never get to meet your granddaughter. You are just a big bully, you know that?! I am ashamed to call you my uncle!
@beckys.8897 It's okay now because Scott lives very far away from the family. He and my aunt Susan, Daddy's older sister, are still married. Scott believes that divorce is evil and that couples must stay married up until the day they die. He even believes that leaving your spouse is evil. He and Susan got marriage counseling in 2007. One of Scott's daughters, my cousin Martha, is pregnant. She's married and pregnant with a baby girl.
agree. i also i feel like the unreported thing, while it’s important to state, also ignores how reports also aren’t properly dealt with due to a lack of understanding on what abuse is too, e.g. “of course my mummy and daddy want the best for me” when asked if they think the parents care for them. or not clarify what counts as severe physical or mental abuse. same with stigma of police arriving to neighbourhoods, which may escalate the abuse.
Been there , threw him out , so me and kids were safe , took my pets when moving, all happy and grown up kids . And grandkids , tell someone, get help if in an abusive relationship, hiding it makes it continue.
Not the case … My theory: Yes I’ve heard story’s bout this: The man was a violent man… He killed the dog… Without them knowning (sounds deep but it’s my theory)
when you're being abused by both of your parents and your dog is the sole comfort you have in life id want to know where my dog is too, why you would mock that i do not know
Why is this so deeply disturbing to me? It feels so personal, but I can't remember anything like this happening. I can't even remember anything before I was 12, and everything before 15 is foggy because of an unrelated traumatic incident with mental "hospital" staff being very abusive.
@@asscheeks69240 Anyone with a dog got that from this. Mom and daughter are obviously fine/in a better situation. Dog is obviously not. Unnecessary collateral for an ad.
I asked my dad if I could go to therapy, he asked why, and I said sometimes I feel like when I tell him how my inner feelings or struggles are, he'll either get mad, say to deal with it, dismiss it and say its normal or just completely don't care.
I feel it same with my parents They love me but they never regulated their emotions and traumas so they can’t deal with mine. They just thought I would turn out fine (but I didn’t, I started hu**ng myself) even tho a doctor said I’ll have emotional cognitive problems in my life. He said I wouldn’t be able to realise nor express my emotions properly. So I’m here now many years later that I follow cognitive behavioural therapy
When my father came home from work, everybody went out of sight. To hear the key turning in the lock, was fearful and it was unpredictable what might happen.
@CanadianMonarchigst I think violence in families in Germany in the fifties and sixties was quite common. All the men, those who survived the war and fascist regime, were mentally messed up, and nobody wanted to hear about the mess, they were coming from
I remember the day that my Mom and Dad got into it and broke up while me and my brother had to watch the WHOLE thing unflod. The question I'm striving to find answers to, all the way to this day was and only was "Where did it go all wrong?"
In Australia they recognised that people stayed in violent relationships to protect the pets. The RSPCA began a program to assist to save the animals too.
This is horrifying… it makes me sick that thousands of people, especially kids have to go through this. Home is supposed to be a safe place where you don’t have to hide in fear :(
0:43 ... oh. this was exactly what i experienced. Hiding under the blankets, crying, hearing yelling. im now actually easily frightened by yelling. I wasnt abüsēď but my mom was, by her disgusting, ugly-ass boyfriend. and this happened for three years, monthly i think
this kind of reminds me of my parents. my dad never hit my mom but my mom sometimes would hit him. only recently did my dad start to yell back at my mom when she did it to him. me and my 4 younger siblings still live at home and have to hear their fighting almost every other day when my dad is home. i grew up with the yelling so im used to it, i dont want my siblings to have to do the same
@@xerixfiles Still, if something happens, she might try to use you against your father and claim he was the violent one. Always remember he wasn't and that he deserves to be treated with respect, say the truth when you are asked about it in the future.
1) I’m glad the girl and the mother are okay now. Abuse is a horrible thing. 2) What will happen to the father? Will he go to jail? Intensive therapy? A psych ward…? Pay a fee?? :0 3) Is the dog still alive ??
@@humanlydum_b281 The argument doesn't make any sense in the context of the video, people aren't upset the humans are safe/not dead, they're upset about the dog. Why exactly do the two need to be mutually exclusive? Dog haters see any concern for an animal as an affront to humanity.
I was the child in the situation. I promised myself after we left I would never tolerate hitting not even in the context of ‘discipline’ because I knew it would never just be about me.
LIVED THRU THIS AS A CHILD WITH SMALLER SIBLINGS. IM 80 NOW AND STILL HAVE NIGHTMARES. MY SIBLING TOOK TO DRINKING. WE FINALLY RAN AWAY BUT THE DAMAGE WAS ALREADY DONE.
doesnt always work out like in the video there wasnt someone at our doorstep one day who helped us out my mother was an abusive manipulative alcoholic and my father a severely broken man with serious mental illness my sister was manipulated by my family (from my mother) into moving there where she remains to this day shes not allowed to have contact with us and if theres contact its mostly our mother insulting me or trying to further pick on my father ive seen pictures of my sister she looks empty and i took care of our father he has almost as many physical problems as mental ones still trying to help him
So ? Parents argue all the time. Yes, sometimes, parents don't have to agree with each other on everything. However, that's only like sometimes when they are struggling to find some kind of common ground in order to resolve it. If the arguments happen at an extremely frequent rate and those almost constant arguments tend to escalate into violence then that's when the family situation finally becomes unsafe to the point where it's bordering on real domestic violence.
@@emeraldmoon209 what if they argue and shout but never get physical? just. lots of loud shouting. and attempts to defuse?: Stay out of it!. (nevermind: 'oh we are scaring our child, we should tone it down or talk later)
My mother and I spent many nights in hotels. But she stupidly always went back to him for more (meaning I had to go back too). I’m 56yo now and still struggle with terrible CPTSD.
For all that are asking, while the dog could be dead, it could also just not be at the shelter. These types of shelters often don't allow dogs or other pets (which can be a problem as it could turn people off from leaving an abusive partner).
Please, know you're not alone. Also, if you have a pet, charities like cats or dogs protection can help you with your pet too. Please, remember you're not alone ❤
ever since I was 3 my parents have been arguing every single year and to mention it’s been 10 years now. There has been hitting and abuse that this has led to the police 2 years ago but no matter what happens you know what they say “family sticks together” and to mention it’s been very severe but my parents are still married which I’m happy to see. Thankfully 2 years ago after my dad going to therapy for being abusive and going to court. He was good to stay with us and still loves us which I am thankful for.❤❤❤ so guys please take a think of what u do before u do it. My parents are currently married for 14 years and there has been so much arguing but also forgiving. I don’t know where I would be right now if they divorced but I’m happy for my dad and my mum because they figure out things in a day or three❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ so please guys divorce isn’t the right path it’s love 🥰
That maybe ok for some, obviously your Dad wanted to change his ways, and chose to accept help, unfortunately a lot of people don't want to change or take responsibility. In that case, it's better to divorce.
how tragic that the little girl had to part with her beloved furry friend; that’ll be another level of trauma, not to mention the poor dog pining away for her. these DV and homeless shelters need to start allowing domestic pets… they’re family too.
I took was a victim. Fortunately I got out while my boys were still in diapers. And it's true, while starting over is hard, it's THE best thing u could ever do. Both for yourself & your children. 😊😇🙃
Sometimes the dad will direct it towards the child too. In some families, there's even a sibling who will be laughing in the background. Even copying the father as well.
Что ж я надеюсь ситуация с домашним насилием в Бедфордшире за эти пять лет улучшилась, то есть по попросту была решена. Вот... ну и видео мне попадаются.
Ohh me they will fight me fake laughing soo my sibling Won't get traumatised bringing him to an room & play a Game ❤️❤️ ( they still fight I got used to it.)
Oh this is wonder. I am a little dissapo though, the story, it didn't say anything except what we are already aware of. I belive if we started seeing more of the affects of abuse. What if looks like afterward people would also be made even more aware.
Yeah. Not always that easy. Plus she still will have to see him still on regular basis, to co-parent with him, unless she has evidence and a solid one. Otherwise, he can lie to make the truth sound like a lie too, and kids will be alone at his half the time. We advice women to leave bit from what I’ve experienced, support isn’t much there.
Know this b.s. well. But I was not crying in my bed. I was in the middle, fist fighting and trying to break it up. Needless to say, it has had permanent effects on my mentals. So unnecessary.
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It's heartwarming to see the mother and daughter escape, but the father can and will take it out on the innocent dog. It's cruel and brutal how shelters won't allow you to save your pets as well.
In some cases they won’t, but that’s rare 😞
Craigslist pets. It's not a guarantee of a good home, but it's better than them getting left behind or euthanized at a shelter 🐕
cruel? brutal? yes, it's sad that they don't allow pets, but they're already doing alot for abused and traumatised women, child and even men..for the young and elderly.
@@SK-rs1huRight, you live in a country were animals get euthanized at a shelter. We don't do that here.
But imagine trying to stay at a shelter full of dogs too
It doesn't even have to get that bad. My parents yelled, threatened and accused - I vividly remember one night when my mother stormed out of the house threatening to kill herself and leave my dad with a house full of upset kids - but there was rarely hitting. All you need is the threat of violence and the possibility that it could get turned on you, a small defenseless child with nowhere else to go. I can relate to the flood or fear that comes with a door opening, in case it's them. If it's them, even if they're in a good mood, you don't feel safe when they're present.
Agree
Don’t say that alll it needs is forgiving and loving. God damn ur so negative. HAVE SOME LOVE KID❤
@@AliHAWLI "oh its okay!! Its so fun hearing my parents argue!!" Ahh comment
i feel you. i hope you're doing better now and you are away from all that.
@@AliHAWLI bait
I was taken away from my mother at 13 after her severe abuse, my father is a good man and has always been loving and supportive of me. I wish these videos showed the mother as the abuser more often.
My mother would start fights and constantly provoke everyone whenever something didn't go her way, she abused me emotionally, physically and verbally constantly. I also wish they'd show mothers as abusers more often
I think the reason they generally show the mother as the victim is because it is statistically more probable, but you’re completely right
@@dash0myshit literally is not. Thats what society wants you to think, and it’s working. Men may be more PHYSICALLY abusive (sometimes) but women are often the emotionally abusive psychopaths.
The reason why they dont show it often is because statically its not often that its happens. 9 out of 10 cases of severe domestic abuse is man propagating it against women and kids, so... I'm sorry for what happened to you, really i am, but you have to recognize that your case is an exception. for the vast majority of time it is male violence, so its only fair that its the portrait that's seen more oftenly. advoce for more representation of women abusers, well there IS representation, just not as much (in accordance to reality) wont help because it pretends like it a "both sides" thing when its just not rhe case, and it work for villainizing the groups thata more likely to be the victim.
Woman can be just as abusive as men, but men are more likely to be the abuser. That's probably why a lot of PSAs show a man in the abuser role. Condolences for what you went through. Anybody can be an abuser sadly.
I can’t believe people still think hitting your child is a form of discipline…people are sick !
My mom ☹️
Bro that's normal wdym
@@ChawKyalsin so hitting Your child is ok but hitting your Partner isn’t ?!
@@ChawKyalsin"ermm ackshually its norma-"
*the dozens of studies proving the negative effects of physical abuse or "discipline" on children*
@@ikeda-renand the kids grow up to be good, right? It works.
My household had hundreds of unreported domestic abuse…
My household didn’t have that, fortunately, but my friend’s one did, her father was physically and emotionally abusive towards her and her mom may didn’t hit or yell at her but she didn’t do anything to stop the abuse so she’s an accomplice by inaction !
My home had cases that were reported, it didn't make it any better when i saw both parents taken from me..
@@violettepastel7198 u are so lucky
Mine too. Terrible.
Same girl
I’m glad I left when I did. My son was about 9mos in 2015. We’ve endured nothing but Peace since then..it feels amazing ✨🌱💛
No one deserves to feel belittled or small. A fresh start can be a blessing. New beginnings are good. It’s okay to start over, this time do it for YOU.
Yas KWEEEEN!!! ❤
No. Do it for your child. If you have children, they're more important than you.
@@J05TI Yourself and your child. I don’t believe in neglecting myself. My child will be good if I’m good. That’s my personal take.
@@J05TI they're doing it for them and the child
@@J05TI?
I was 4 when I had the first of many memories of my father hurting my mother. I stepped in front of her to protect her. This scene has been repeating in my head for years. This is traumatic, for sure.
I am so sorry for you! Sending healing virtual hugs.
You seem to have had a sense of bravery and justice from a very small child. I hope life has treated you well ❤
@junkabella6324 thank you so much. ❤️
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@❤junkabella6324
When the girl looked down at the dog's collar, that really hit close to home. When i was yunger my dad in a drunken rage, Beat and hit our family dog to death💔
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. That must have been absolutely heartbreaking, I hope you're in a better place now. 😥
If you haven't already, maybe it'd help to get another dog? That way, you can shower it with all the love you wanted to give to the other one. 🥰 At least, that's what helped me when my dog passed away.
Much love to you. Also, cute profile picture. :)
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I’m so sorry 💔 hopefully they’re in a better place now, and you too
Billy Graham, as well as myself believes that our pets are all yes in heaven waiting for us. If we go to Heaven and our pets will be there. I believe all animals actually go to heaven, of course.
I hope the police catches him this time it was his fault because he is drunk
What happen to the dog is it still alive I want to know?
Same the sad thing is sw dont allow pets 😢😢😢
Yes somebody replied!!1!1!1!11!!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1
I have no idea, you guys.
Did dad kill the puppy? 😢
@@amithakumari58 I sure hope not
I have abusive uncle. His name is Scott. Despite his age, he is physically violent towards his wife and children. My cousin, his daughter, even got two black eyes from him. When I was just a newborn baby, I immediately knew that there was something wrong with him. When I was 5 years old, I was playing on the stairs after church. Scott came up to me and said, "Howdy," in a chilling tone. I asked him if he could go to another location, which he did. I ran up to Daddy and said, "That guy scares me!" Daddy then said, "He's just your uncle Scott. He won't hurt you." When I was 6 years old, I was studying the Greek alphabet after I saw it in a dictionary. When I went to church, Scott wrote the Greek alphabet from alpha to omega on paper and gave it to me. I was still deathly afraid of him, though. When I was 7 years old, Scott drove me and my little brothers home from church. He drove through the backyard, literally driving on the grass. I was still deathly afraid of him. When I was 8 years old, I asked my aunt Susan, Daddy's older sister, Scott's wife, where Scott was and why he didn't preach church anymore. Susan said that her husband has always been such a mean and abusive man and physically violent towards her and their children. I last saw Scott when I was 22 years old at his oldest daughter's funeral. I was still deathly afraid of him. When I saw him, I nearly got a heart attack. He just said, "Howdy," in that same chilling tone that always gave me nightmares. He then offered me to sit next to him, which I refused. Just in case you're wondering, Scott didn't beat his oldest daughter to death. His oldest daughter died of breast cancer. Anyway, Scott just said, "Hannah, you're my niece. I feel so alone. I'm an old man." He was only in his mid 60's, which isn't even old at all. Except for Scott had already looked like an old man when I was a newborn baby. He was only in his early 40's, which is considered extremely young nowadays. I am 27 years old and will be 28 years old in August. I am still deathly afraid of Scott, who is 70 years old now. Despite his age, he is still physically strong and physically abusive. I'm so glad that his wife, children, children-in-law, and his unborn granddaughter, are safe from him. My aunt Susan and her kids are all kindhearted. Her children-in-law are kindhearted, too. Because of Scott's abuse, his children are all very shy. The daughter he gave two black eyes to neglects her appearance. His oldest son often claims that he is way too shy to talk to people and teach Sunday school. Thanks a lot, Scott. You permanently destroyed your children's confidence. You will never get to meet your granddaughter. You are just a big bully, you know that?! I am ashamed to call you my uncle!
Dangggg 🤯
I’m so sorry to hear that 😢
Also unborn granddaughter,huh?🤨
@beckys.8897 It's okay now because Scott lives very far away from the family. He and my aunt Susan, Daddy's older sister, are still married. Scott believes that divorce is evil and that couples must stay married up until the day they die. He even believes that leaving your spouse is evil. He and Susan got marriage counseling in 2007. One of Scott's daughters, my cousin Martha, is pregnant. She's married and pregnant with a baby girl.
I wonder if his daughter's breast cancer was precipitated by his abuse, or maybe was a direct cause.
Aw that’s nice!,i bet her baby’s gonna love you 🥰
@@beckys.8897 She most likely would because babies usually love me.
This triggers me and I have a daughter who also witnessed shouting like this 😢
Are you Okay?
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son❤️
I had this to
I hope your daughter is okay now ❤
@@shayladeshawnn5807 If I see one more religious comment on a post about trauma, I'll riot
0:21 this videos starting off fake, they don’t knock or bother to hide it from their kids lol
agree. i also i feel like the unreported thing, while it’s important to state, also ignores how reports also aren’t properly dealt with due to a lack of understanding on what abuse is too, e.g. “of course my mummy and daddy want the best for me” when asked if they think the parents care for them. or not clarify what counts as severe physical or mental abuse. same with stigma of police arriving to neighbourhoods, which may escalate the abuse.
Why always showing men abusing and not women they do it to
Domestic abuse isn’t always physical. It can be financial, psychological, mental, verbal, etc.
I have to agree, Domestic Abuse is one of the most traumatizing and shocking crimes ever seen.
@@TommyBurd-e5mRight nothing hurts more than being abused by your own parents
this
Physical is still the worst I know cause my parents would fight each other badly and our mother would hit us as well
@@neonice « Physical is the worst »
Sexual : Am I a joke to you ?
Been there , threw him out , so me and kids were safe , took my pets when moving, all happy and grown up kids . And grandkids , tell someone, get help if in an abusive relationship, hiding it makes it continue.
98% of child sexual abuse is by a person the child knows. 60% by family
What about physical abuse and emotional abuse ?! People only care about that when it’s done to an adult or partner that’s sad…
@@violettepastel7198 100%- by carers
That don't add up to 100 percent
@@violettepastel7198fr no one speaks about PA and EA much
@@RileyHighBergThat’s because family members are people the child knows
Video:literally trying to make us aware of domestic abuse.
Comment section: WhErE's ThE DoG?
Yea
The dog got put in a shelter probably
Not the case … My theory: Yes I’ve heard story’s bout this: The man was a violent man… He killed the dog… Without them knowning (sounds deep but it’s my theory)
@@terrycross5589 And Doggy Deserved It Lmfao
when you're being abused by both of your parents and your dog is the sole comfort you have in life id want to know where my dog is too, why you would mock that i do not know
99,8% of dogs quit before reaching the end of the video
The heck 💀
Can confirm; I tried to show my dog this video and he left the room before it ended
Where’s the doggy
Probably in a new home or at a shelter. Or the abuser did something to the dog
He Hides Bedroom.
@@PolarExpress04 NOOOOOOOOOOO
Bro ded
He got removed due to being pumpkin wolf cuz the family feels bad,he bitten a balloon
Why is this so deeply disturbing to me? It feels so personal, but I can't remember anything like this happening. I can't even remember anything before I was 12, and everything before 15 is foggy because of an unrelated traumatic incident with mental "hospital" staff being very abusive.
Not remembering anything before you were twelve is a sign of trauma
@@JaeIBecan be a sign of trauma, not always.
I was abused by my stepfather, my mother was also being abused by him.
I’m glad both of us escaped his wrath.
Hopefully you two have much better life later and you will get the happiness your mom wasn't lucky enough to have in her marriage.
What happened to the dog?
Sadly went to a better and calmer place just not with his owner
That's what you got from this?
Don't be racist you fucking cow there are problems whi die to domestic abuse every day
I can tell you're a domestic abuser
Cunt
Probably murdered by the ex husband
@@asscheeks69240 Anyone with a dog got that from this. Mom and daughter are obviously fine/in a better situation. Dog is obviously not. Unnecessary collateral for an ad.
I asked my dad if I could go to therapy, he asked why, and I said sometimes I feel like when I tell him how my inner feelings or struggles are, he'll either get mad, say to deal with it, dismiss it and say its normal or just completely don't care.
I feel it same with my parents
They love me but they never regulated their emotions and traumas so they can’t deal with mine.
They just thought I would turn out fine (but I didn’t, I started hu**ng myself) even tho a doctor said I’ll have emotional cognitive problems in my life. He said I wouldn’t be able to realise nor express my emotions properly.
So I’m here now many years later that I follow cognitive behavioural therapy
When my father came home from work, everybody went out of sight. To hear the key turning in the lock, was fearful and it was unpredictable what might happen.
I’m so sorry that was your experience.
@CanadianMonarchigst I think violence in families in Germany in the fifties and sixties was quite common. All the men, those who survived the war and fascist regime, were mentally messed up, and nobody wanted to hear about the mess, they were coming from
Hits home
Im sorry that happened to you :(
I remember the day that my Mom and Dad got into it and broke up while me and my brother had to watch the WHOLE thing unflod. The question I'm striving to find answers to, all the way to this day was and only was "Where did it go all wrong?"
In Australia they recognised that people stayed in violent relationships to protect the pets. The RSPCA began a program to assist to save the animals too.
That’s wonderful!
This is horrifying… it makes me sick that thousands of people, especially kids have to go through this. Home is supposed to be a safe place where you don’t have to hide in fear :(
Commenting to spread awareness!!! The animation and rhe storytelling is amazing and i hope it reaches more people ♡
0:43 ... oh. this was exactly what i experienced. Hiding under the blankets, crying, hearing yelling. im now actually easily frightened by yelling.
I wasnt abüsēď but my mom was, by her disgusting, ugly-ass boyfriend.
and this happened for three years, monthly i think
I’m so sorry for you and your mother :( I hope you’re doing fine…
@bebe_choco its been getting better actually, so dw :3
@@H41rdy3dr1nk3rXDD I’m very glad things are going better !! ^ ^
What his name of the dog
Snoopy
brian griffin
You care more about the name of the dog than abuse?
No
why would it matter oml.
this kind of reminds me of my parents. my dad never hit my mom but my mom sometimes would hit him. only recently did my dad start to yell back at my mom when she did it to him. me and my 4 younger siblings still live at home and have to hear their fighting almost every other day when my dad is home. i grew up with the yelling so im used to it, i dont want my siblings to have to do the same
Report your mom, film it if you can. People often assume the man is the aggressor, when it's not the case.
@Artemisarrowzz she doesnt do it anymore though
@@xerixfiles Still, if something happens, she might try to use you against your father and claim he was the violent one. Always remember he wasn't and that he deserves to be treated with respect, say the truth when you are asked about it in the future.
who noticed the dog looks like brian griffen
Is that what you took out of this💀
I made a snot bubble over this joke 😭
I can't unsee it and the girl was holding a red collar
1) I’m glad the girl and the mother are okay now. Abuse is a horrible thing.
2) What will happen to the father? Will he go to jail? Intensive therapy? A psych ward…? Pay a fee?? :0
3) Is the dog still alive ??
The father is in the slammer!
As a child i thought this was normal.
One of my besties at the time told me was the same at her house so i didnt wonder much more...
😢
Dog lovers will do anything but grant another human being compassion.
Dog haters will say anything to make dog lovers sound like bad people.
@@Sarklaserno one hates dogs but y’all need to show compassion for humans.
Some people do, dunno what you're on about@@humanlydum_b281
@@humanlydum_b281 The argument doesn't make any sense in the context of the video, people aren't upset the humans are safe/not dead, they're upset about the dog. Why exactly do the two need to be mutually exclusive? Dog haters see any concern for an animal as an affront to humanity.
I was the child in the situation. I promised myself after we left I would never tolerate hitting not even in the context of ‘discipline’ because I knew it would never just be about me.
LIVED THRU THIS AS A CHILD WITH SMALLER SIBLINGS. IM 80 NOW AND STILL HAVE NIGHTMARES. MY SIBLING TOOK TO DRINKING. WE FINALLY RAN AWAY BUT THE DAMAGE WAS ALREADY DONE.
doesnt always work out like in the video there wasnt someone at our doorstep one day who helped us out
my mother was an abusive manipulative alcoholic and my father a severely broken man with serious mental illness
my sister was manipulated by my family (from my mother) into moving there
where she remains to this day shes not allowed to have contact with us and if theres contact its mostly our mother insulting me or trying to further pick on my father
ive seen pictures of my sister she looks empty
and i took care of our father he has almost as many physical problems as mental ones still trying to help him
The dog most likely is at a foster home and once they get a new stable place, they’ll take them back in.
Im use to hearing my parents argue
Damn :(
@@AbdAlHakamJunaid neh it might be scary but its very common for them to fight after a few days they act like notting happened
So ? Parents argue all the time. Yes, sometimes, parents don't have to agree with each other on everything. However, that's only like sometimes when they are struggling to find some kind of common ground in order to resolve it.
If the arguments happen at an extremely frequent rate and those almost constant arguments tend to escalate into violence then that's when the family situation finally becomes unsafe to the point where it's bordering on real domestic violence.
@@emeraldmoon209 oh sorry my bad I thought they said about parents arguing 😅
@@emeraldmoon209 what if they argue and shout but never get physical? just. lots of loud shouting. and attempts to defuse?: Stay out of it!. (nevermind: 'oh we are scaring our child, we should tone it down or talk later)
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Yes
My mother and I spent many nights in hotels. But she stupidly always went back to him for more (meaning I had to go back too). I’m 56yo now and still struggle with terrible CPTSD.
For all that are asking, while the dog could be dead, it could also just not be at the shelter. These types of shelters often don't allow dogs or other pets (which can be a problem as it could turn people off from leaving an abusive partner).
Allow pets to come with the rest of the family!
Taking it one step at a time-refund details and expected actions
0:52 feels like home
What happened to that poor dog? He's just going to abuse the dog now...
Sometimes I can't believe how lucky I am to have such a good mother. ❤ Unfortunately, this is not the case for all children.
its LITERALLY luck based. you cant control who birthed you or raised you. you can only hope for help
Where is that kid's dog?
Please, know you're not alone.
Also, if you have a pet, charities like cats or dogs protection can help you with your pet too.
Please, remember you're not alone ❤
1:29 not only women men too
people think thats not true because men are stronger
Well yeah.
no one said otherwise
You need to be kiding right?
It's a example of abuse domestic...
ever since I was 3 my parents have been arguing every single year and to mention it’s been 10 years now. There has been hitting and abuse that this has led to the police 2 years ago but no matter what happens you know what they say “family sticks together” and to mention it’s been very severe but my parents are still married which I’m happy to see. Thankfully 2 years ago after my dad going to therapy for being abusive and going to court. He was good to stay with us and still loves us which I am thankful for.❤❤❤ so guys please take a think of what u do before u do it. My parents are currently married for 14 years and there has been so much arguing but also forgiving. I don’t know where I would be right now if they divorced but I’m happy for my dad and my mum because they figure out things in a day or three❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ so please guys divorce isn’t the right path it’s love 🥰
That maybe ok for some, obviously your Dad wanted to change his ways, and chose to accept help, unfortunately a lot of people don't want to change or take responsibility. In that case, it's better to divorce.
Call on to the Father he will help guide out of a difficult situation ❤❤❤
00:43 tears in my eyes
Dont you love it, when sometimes in a relationship people dont try to resolve everything between each other, but rather decide to make a kid instead?
Que droga! Onde está o cachorro? 😢
IS THE DOG DEAD?!
youtube algorithm what does this mean
1:09 is that you?
THIS ANIMATION IS FIREEE🗣🔥🔥🔥
how tragic that the little girl had to part with her beloved furry friend; that’ll be another level of trauma, not to mention the poor dog pining away for her.
these DV and homeless shelters need to start allowing domestic pets… they’re family too.
I hope they help fathers who are victims of domestic violence as well, but those cases tend to be even more unnoticed
I took was a victim. Fortunately I got out while my boys were still in diapers. And it's true, while starting over is hard, it's THE best thing u could ever do. Both for yourself & your children. 😊😇🙃
But where did the dog go???
My classmates: 😂😂
Me: *crying like Neuvillette*
Tears like rain.
Indeed. Tears like rain…
Sometimes the dad will direct it towards the child too.
In some families, there's even a sibling who will be laughing in the background. Even copying the father as well.
I was a victim from my mom and this was when I was an adult now she's at her AA meetings.
Wheres the dog ?
Omg I’ve been living like this and I’ve never realized how bad this was until I started getting suicidal thoughts bc of my parents and stuff..
What happend to the puppy
WAIT where’s the dog? Btw I feel for people who are in this kinda of mess
child abuse must STOP. FULL STOP.
Is everyone just gonna ask where’s the dog?
The angry husband probably killed it or it ran away!
❤....I wish we had something like this in Mumbai, India when me and my sister were kids. You are doing divine work 🙏
Brian ?
Of all the things the algorithm could've wanted to show me, this might be the strangest.
i remember hiding under a chair while my parents shouted at each other :(
yo what happened to the dog?
Was that a recording of a real case?
Where dogy?
Where is the dog? 😢
Exact situation for me, and yes the dog and many pets were always thrown away after inconvenience
Make the abuser leave.
My dad wasn't showed me again please everyone help me from my evil mother😢
Что ж я надеюсь ситуация с домашним насилием в Бедфордшире за эти пять лет улучшилась, то есть по попросту была решена. Вот... ну и видео мне попадаются.
Yk whether i still need to question if it is or isn't abuse is probably a good sign to know it is
Ohh me they will fight me fake laughing soo my sibling
Won't get traumatised bringing him to an room & play a
Game ❤️❤️ ( they still fight I got used to it.)
Oh this is wonder. I am a little dissapo though, the story, it didn't say anything except what we are already aware of. I belive if we started seeing more of the affects of abuse. What if looks like afterward people would also be made even more aware.
Yeah. Not always that easy. Plus she still will have to see him still on regular basis, to co-parent with him, unless she has evidence and a solid one. Otherwise, he can lie to make the truth sound like a lie too, and kids will be alone at his half the time. We advice women to leave bit from what I’ve experienced, support isn’t much there.
HOME START 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
poor doggie 😢
She went away without me as I was 7
What happen to the dog!?
In my family there is constant screaming and fighting. Luckily no one has been actually hit yet. I cant wait till im old enough to leave tho.
What about the dog 😢
Why would you take this video of my childhood ? Smh
Know this b.s. well. But I was not crying in my bed. I was in the middle, fist fighting and trying to break it up. Needless to say, it has had permanent effects on my mentals. So unnecessary.
Not only fathers can abuse. Mothers can abuse to. Its not alwayd the father.
yesss I’ve been looking for this comment !
@itsme_brookie np, I've been through abuse from my mother and know that it's never always the man and that women can be abusive too.
Yes but it is significantly higher likelihood that it’s the dad.
@BrightElk Yes but it can be the mother.
Noooo, where's the doggie? ;
I love when I get recommended weird shit like this