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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
  • What it means and what you should do when she says I need space because I don’t think I’m ready.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 30 year old viewer who started seeing his best friends younger sister. They didn’t tell her brother they were dating. He says he became attached after they started sleeping together and acting needy. Her brother finds out and she started responding to him less and less. Then she tells him it’s not a good idea to keep the plans they had to spend time together with her sisters. She told him she didn’t think she was ready for anything and needed space despite the fact she came on really strong to him in the beginning and a few weeks earlier she told him she wanted to work towards something. He has been in no contact for 5 days now and is totally confused.
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Комментарии • 88

  • @DavidZMH
    @DavidZMH Год назад +18

    I don’t got time to be waiting, life is short. If a girl says that to me, imma tell her byeee

  • @christianchannel8755
    @christianchannel8755 Год назад +21

    Proverbs 31:3 Don’t give your strength to women, nor thy ways to that which destroys kings.

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 Год назад +17

    One thing i learned that i like to remember is to never get in a rush to "label" the relationship. Simple reason because it may be days where she wants space and, if you are still a free agent, you're still not in a commitment (with someone who still not 100% there yet)! Dont be in a rush to lock the girl down to a comittment (like a serious relationship). Take your time, you'll get there eventually!

  • @martincolton32
    @martincolton32 Год назад +55

    Mate don’t be sitting around waiting for her to come back. Get yourself out there and go meet other girls. It’s her loss.

    • @danielmeans9539
      @danielmeans9539 Год назад +1

      I agree mostly, but it sounds like he's the one that messed up! He pushed her too hard too soon, and probably smothered her a bit. He really seems to like her, and she really liked him until he messed up! So, he should just work on himself (READ Coreys book 10 to 15 time lol), and wait a couple weeks or so to see if she reaches out. If she doesn't after a few weeks, then maybe start dating other women until she reaches out. If she reaches out, he should act more like a man with masculine qualities rather than a women with feminine qualities!

  • @dillfunk9479
    @dillfunk9479 Год назад +22

    All that means is she still looking for something better, if there’s no better offers and she resort to you.

  • @ElevatedChillz
    @ElevatedChillz Год назад +10

    Give her the gift of missing you!!

  • @taiwanontwowheels8214
    @taiwanontwowheels8214 Год назад +16

    Man, Corey says EXACTLY what you need to hear at the right time 🇺🇸☯️🇹🇼

  • @loganblack4885
    @loganblack4885 Год назад +34

    Move on bro. There’s too many females to be hung up on one. Remember guys have abundance mind set.

    • @tomkrueger6556
      @tomkrueger6556 Год назад

      Can u explaine what u mean?

    • @ADRIANxXxP
      @ADRIANxXxP Год назад

      @@tomkrueger6556 Abundance mindset is when you just act okay whatever happens and is best. Sometimes its just not it and you have to let it go knowing that if something is destinated for you it will definitely be

  • @MattCassCook
    @MattCassCook Год назад +3

    Happened to me once. After 10 months she still wasn’t ready to put a label on it even though we were essentially a couple (I admit I messed up at first but also fixed a lot of the issues). At that point I was out. You can’t wait around forever. The train gotta leave the station at some point! 🚂

  • @tonythegreat4275
    @tonythegreat4275 Год назад +8

    I'll tell her hey take your time baby, and then invite over my other girl. That simple.

  • @TrueHandProductions
    @TrueHandProductions Год назад +3

    Hi I'm the lucky guy in this video! Thanks for the video newsletter. I am currently on day 16 of no contact with her. Not gonna lie, don't wanna lose this one but I have been trying to stay busy.

    • @davidaustin8424
      @davidaustin8424 4 месяца назад

      How’d it work out for ya?

    • @TrueHandProductions
      @TrueHandProductions 4 месяца назад

      @@davidaustin8424 on 3rd read of Corey Wayne's book mate, been on multiple dates and honestly doing swimmingly now lol

  • @scottp8214
    @scottp8214 Год назад +2

    Don't let her back in Bro! NEXT!!

  • @polkacaty
    @polkacaty Год назад +7

    Coach Corey doesn’t age at all. Still looking fresh and young. Cheers!

  • @zrotek
    @zrotek Год назад +4

    I'm watching the video now....thank you so much Corey

  • @ibanez2010
    @ibanez2010 Год назад +1

    A random, dumb text that she doesn't respond to will easily be forgotten by her in a couple of days. You can get away with that and still be good. However, a demanding, insecure, and butt-hurt text will NOT be forgotten. My point is, if she doesn't respond to your random silly text - play it cool and don't panic!

  • @неостанавливаемый

    Give her a break and go hang out with someone else or go to the gym. That fear of losing you will drive her to you.
    "Why isn't he calling? Why isn't he texting? Did he find someone else?"

    • @неостанавливаемый
      @неостанавливаемый Год назад +1

      @@blair5475 no time to care if you're too busy hooking up with someone else

    • @неостанавливаемый
      @неостанавливаемый Год назад +1

      @@blair5475
      • I never said every ex comes back.
      • If you don't end things like a complete weirdo or if you don't act like a complete weirdo AND she actually had "REAL feelings" for you there's a good chance she will come back.
      • Over the years I've had dozens of ex's come back, even years later, multiple times.
      • If you live in the Northern hemisphere this is the perfect time to have an ex come back because winter is coming and they don't want to be alone for the holidays and the summer relationships they got wrapped up into are beginning to fall apart.
      • Most people will be single by spring. This happens every year. Most relationships fall apart during the holidays and Christmas, this continues into early spring. The weather starts warming up and the clothes start coming off, women are ready to start dating again, they don't get all depressed and stay in their bedroom and cry. I've noticed this pattern since I was in Intermediate/Middle/Jr High School.
      • I've had three ex's come back in the last 6 months.
      • I was talking to an ex today, she was texting me, I asked her if she wanted to get together and she blew me off but she's the one who reached out to me.
      • This girl is nothing but problems but I was hoping to at least hang out have fun and hook up, she is not wife material. And as a matter of fact I'm getting ready to tell her my final goodbye because she's not worth my time.
      • I've met random women hooked up and they flaked and I never saw them nor heard from them again, but they weren't girlfriends or girlfriend material anyways.

    • @неостанавливаемый
      @неостанавливаемый Год назад +1

      @@blair5475 I reject your mindset. I'm an old pickup artist guy from the 2010s I've been with over 300 women. Go out and date as many women as possible. Treat them like your little sister, don't act like a total nutcase when the break up happens. Take care of your physical appearance work on yourself get a good job put money in the bank. Joke around have a good time, build a social circle of like-minded individuals and Men, women are attracted to this. I'm not talking about some unrealistic alpha mentality I'm talking about acting like a Man.
      Read 3% man he knows what he's talking about. This is about a lifestyle change.

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 Год назад +1

      Bro...the woman that says "I need a break" it's taking a break to give someone else a chance

    • @fj4731
      @fj4731 Год назад +1

      @@неостанавливаемый
      hi I need advice if can help me out.. How to make her earn my gf back.. I try not to show anymore love to her as she put little effort saying we already a couple she dont need to proof and sex once a week is a Proof
      So I didnt want to invest on her on reply to her text and this love become fake when I want to lead by telling her what to do she say no ..she say she feel stress doing what I want her to she feel force i felt she no longer love me as much and does not respect me enough to listen like before
      How to not be her Text Buddy only... as she dont want to see me more than once a week
      For past 2 month she text me everyday Goodnite kiss and Good morning kiss without any message on what she doing everyday I have no clue what she doing..
      I didn’t reply I love u when she did and I didnt say I miss u she was confront me why I dont love her anymore i told her because it was her fault she broke up with me twice..
      Our conversation mainly become text but
      I only set dates with her without any pet name..though she called me as Honey
      She is upset and she will not text me if I dont reply
      I told her it was her who took me for granted
      This become a fight
      I don't know what should I do

  • @bisimedia
    @bisimedia Год назад +2

    This video is for me. Thanks coach

  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 Год назад +1

    Every Man have to learn how to be cool calm and collective with any woman and be ready to let her go

  • @3DMachines
    @3DMachines Год назад +2

    So funny how these stories can hit home lmao

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 Год назад +7

    She needs space she's not ready

  • @noblewolf9364
    @noblewolf9364 Год назад +2

    I forgot to tell you that the next day I was riding the Harley with her daughter that's 20 and we got her her first tattoo. I don't think the mom will be back But the daughter is way more fun, and looks better on my bike. What's ironic is the daughter spends more time at my place than her mom did

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 Год назад

    Very important video, full of fundamentals of the book!

  • @user-tg9qv9qq3h
    @user-tg9qv9qq3h Год назад

    This video is pretty on spot even for my culture

  • @elsquibbs
    @elsquibbs Год назад +1

    I was the guy who had my friends chasing my sister around. Sucks.

  • @josephm6242
    @josephm6242 Год назад +9

    She was only into it because of the brother

    • @emptysoul2757
      @emptysoul2757 Год назад

      Ahh, the ‘ol.. “rush of emotions & “danger”

  • @futbolistazurdotricks229
    @futbolistazurdotricks229 Год назад

    The Chocha jokes are the best coach

  • @epycedits
    @epycedits Год назад +1

    He got a little taste of the chocha 🤌.. you're fkn hilarious 🤣🤣

  • @k_dash99
    @k_dash99 Год назад +1

    Wise words coach. I am in the exact same position as this guy in the letter. Glad I watched this video before going into my feelings and do something I'd regret in the future.

  • @noblewolf9364
    @noblewolf9364 Год назад

    I'm like that's crazy I was thinking the same thing.

  • @alberik666
    @alberik666 Год назад

    I just invited a girl to come to my house while watching this video. Happy to come and see me...

  • @StRock-wz6yx
    @StRock-wz6yx Год назад

    "the dam kitty cat didn't sit in my lap!"

  • @davidaustin8424
    @davidaustin8424 4 месяца назад

    9:00

  • @davidaustin8424
    @davidaustin8424 4 месяца назад

    13:55

  • @traderblackgoat
    @traderblackgoat Год назад

    what if im not pursuing and she needs space i dont underrstand

  • @robertsutton2974
    @robertsutton2974 Год назад

    Great video!

  • @ianlewis9923
    @ianlewis9923 Год назад +1

    Hi Coach!

  • @cr3d294
    @cr3d294 Год назад

    I miss the intro song.

  • @bluesmoke8826
    @bluesmoke8826 Год назад

    That's what happens when you are sneaky. Should told his best friend how he felt about the sister

  • @rickysbrutal
    @rickysbrutal Год назад

    i got a situation similar to this but different was seeing someone for a few months and then we basically lied to each other last convo we had was a few hours 2 weeks ago we worked together she quit (she was leaving anyway) and basically left off where the girl asked me if i loved her i said idk and that she didnt want us to block each other but just doesn’t wanna talk right now to me this sounds like bs but what do you guys think last time we talked was 2 weeks ago

    • @rickysbrutal
      @rickysbrutal Год назад

      @Ron Star we talked about each other on the job and we both said we didnt

    • @rickysbrutal
      @rickysbrutal Год назад

      @Ron Star funny that you said that because that was the first thing i asked and she denied she also left off by saying that she has a stronger bond and connection with me then her ex she was with for 6 years and kept asking me if i love her that was 2 weeks ago lol

    • @rickysbrutal
      @rickysbrutal Год назад

      @Ron Star it was the last time we talked 2 weeks ago also the night of the day she quit and we had an hour long convo basically another girl we work with im friends with well was i was telling our business to and she went and showed the girl i was talking to our messages so the girl i like got mad (understandable) and we lied to each other because she called me out then i called her out we both admitted it and left off on i guess okay terms so before we hung up the first time she was like do you like like me and i was like what do you mean do i love you and she was like yes do you and i said i dont know so we hung up i called her back and asked why she asked me that and she said because i really wanna know so i said i dont know and she was like i didn’t want to hang up the phone before then told me out bond/ connection was stronger then her and her ex she was with for 6 years

    • @rickysbrutal
      @rickysbrutal Год назад

      also she suggested the no contact thing saying she didnt wanna talk right now but insisted that we didn’t block each other because i told her when im done with a girl i block on everything and theres no going back she did unfriend me on insta earlier that day and removed me from following but this phone call that we had was 2 hours later that night so im not reaching out to her

    • @rickysbrutal
      @rickysbrutal Год назад

      @Ron Star i’m pretty sure shes not gunna contact me anytime soon lol we left off okay but unclear at the same time so even if she does in the future i probably wont answer like i said its been 2 weeks since we last spoke shes gone from the job and im about to leave myself but which is the video you have with corey this video we’re commenting on?

  • @djthelegend3716
    @djthelegend3716 Год назад

    Hey Coach, what's your opinion of Andrew Tate?

  • @AndreKordasti
    @AndreKordasti Год назад +2

    What should you do if you have dated a girl for 4 months, doing the HHH 10 different times, she pursued 90-100% of the time than suddenly stopped and canceled date because she thought I didnt like her. She said she started to get feelings for me but didnt feel I was on the same level. Now she wants space and its been a week since we talked and about 3-4 weeks since we have seen eachother. I told her I respect that and I was sad that she felt that way. Because I do care. Also she asked about if I dated others before and I didnt really confirm her. Now is No Contact correct here? On one side she said I need space, but on the other said I never reached out, so if I dont contact her she will think she was right, that I didnt care right?

    • @chrisgurera3354
      @chrisgurera3354 Год назад +1

      Yeah she doesn’t feel like you care because you’re not reaching out to her every so often , and showing her that you care by telling her that you hope she has a great day etc. and you said you’ve went out 10 different times for four months. I guess my question would be how many times she reaching out to you in a weeks time?

    • @chrisgurera3354
      @chrisgurera3354 Год назад +1

      And when she does reach out do you make a date with her on the spot

    • @MrDavezd
      @MrDavezd Год назад +2

      if she said she needs space go date other girls do something else u chasing is desperate and is gonna turn her off

    • @chrisgurera3354
      @chrisgurera3354 Год назад +2

      And for four months she’s never brought up about wanting to be exclusive at all?

    • @josephm6242
      @josephm6242 Год назад +1

      Date other ppl

  • @yakcrew_Fl
    @yakcrew_Fl Год назад +1

    🐺

  • @kgzdelivery
    @kgzdelivery Год назад

    😂 I remember when some men needed a little space nowadays women want to men so bad

  • @Patsworldbaby
    @Patsworldbaby Год назад +6

    Dating and relationships. You men are still falling for this scam?

  • @jordankilby6305
    @jordankilby6305 Год назад

    What if she says she wants a 6 month break considering she has two kids and business to run, she’s broke up with me a few times now and I’ve gone back she now wants a long break… I bumped in to her today and we had a good chat about it all she’s hurting and so am I we do have a really tight bond but I can’t seem to get over this one

    • @christianchannel8755
      @christianchannel8755 Год назад +1

      I feel for you. But just stick to the program bro

    • @crnivuk7092
      @crnivuk7092 Год назад

      Say ok and date another women. Enjoy your life ,she is obviously better without you than with you so you should do the same

    • @jordankilby6305
      @jordankilby6305 Год назад

      @@alexanderthegreat3106 man thanks for this I haven’t returned and don’t plan to, time to work on myself for a change

    • @zipeto
      @zipeto Год назад +1

      If she is not ready and goes in and out of your life and play this stupid games let her to kick rocks.I had this situation for 6 months now,girl was with me for one month then without any reason break up with me and three times like this.This is huge emotional damage and you need to save your piece of mind

    • @jordankilby6305
      @jordankilby6305 Год назад

      @@zipeto your so right, I lost weight and couldn’t move forward with my life it screwed me up she even tried to blame me for everything I’ve never treated anyone with so much respect and love like it did with her and her kids, I’m slowly getting better and moving forward, thank you for your time to message