I think Disney princesses show that being girly and being feminine are two very different things. They're not afraid to get their hands dirty and they have integrity. Cinderella is a great example of that.
I was once asked how I maintain a Disney princess demeanor after heavy trauma and my answer has stuck with me - I am soft because the softest hands have held the most grit. If life abrasions tear into you, keep moving. Lean into it and you'll take away all the hard edges.
One of the first things my now husband said when we were dating was he LOVED how soft and feminine I was; that I could take care of myself and was strong but allowed him to do things for me! You can be strong in some areas and still be feminine and womanly!
From a MASSIVE classic disney princess fan. THANK YOU. I feel I constantly have to defend my love for classic princesses like Cinderella or Snow White in our modern feminist world. They are shining examples of what it is to be a truly feminine woman (as are you). I only wish I could go back and tell my younger self what I know now. So happy I am comfortable in my femininity and proudly married to a wonderful masculine husband. We both enjoy your content so much. Thank you for all the work you do. Keep spreading the message! ❤️
This is exactly how I feel about Disney princesses. People overlook the positive traits such as kindness, forgiveness, and compassion. In my opinion that is true strength and harder to do than most would think.
I love that you have picked this topic! Classic femininity has been shamed for too long. You are very courageous for standing up against this "dragon/ evil witch" and teaching women their true power
I grew up in a household that was very hateful towards women and any type of femininity. I was taught that being a “princess” was pathetic. Being a wife was pathetic. Being a woman was pathetic. I am so grateful for you and your channel, for teaching me how to embrace my feminine power, my gift of womanhood. This is really teaching me how to love and appreciate myself as a daughter and a sort of proverbial ‘princess’ of the kingdom of God.
Girl yes. "It is not wrong for women to need help." Could not have said it better! Exactly how i feel. It is so refreshing to see other young women on here that hold similar values.
Condemning Cinderella for not saving herself is a way of oppressing victims of abuse and neglect. She maintained her dignity and strength even when there was nothing she could do against her step family, proving that sometimes no matter what you do you can't make everyone treat you well.
Something Jordan Peterson points out: the stories of men rescuing women are metaphors for inner journeys. For example, sleeping beauty being "rescued" by the prince is a metaphor for the unconscious feminine being awoken by the concious masculine. The prince is also rescued from the dungeons by the conscious feminine in the form of the good fairies. This happens in a healthy marriage between a man and a woman, but it also happens on a smaller scale inside of every individual, no matter your gender. It's true the male roles do appear more active on the outside, but that's just because the stories are old: back in the day women were either pregnant and breastfeeding or waiting to be so. So their adventures were much more found in the trials of birthing and raising babies, rather than roaming around on horseback. Everyone knows that inner journeys are no less harrowing and important!
What a fun topic! When I think of a princess I think of elegance, grace, kindness, strength, beauty, and bravery. Of the Disney princess variety, I most identify with Belle and Jasmine... bloom where you are planted! 🌹
I always thought of Merida (one of my fave princesses) as a young girl going into womanhood who is fighting her feminine energy. She is struggling with massive life changes, and often tries to deal with them purely with masculine energy. But by the end of the story she realizes the power of being a women, a daughter and a mother and comes to appreciate that gorgeous energy that her mamma has as Queen♥️ She begins to learn how to handle things with grace and poise. 💕
Why does a woman who isn’t nurturing or poised have to be struggling? This branch of the femininity movement (or maybe it’s the whole movement) comes off not as a lifestyle choice but as something you feel women SHOULD be doing. Let them be their best selves instead. That doesn’t merely project an image of sweetness, but is the truly kind and nurturing action.
@@bubbledreams6382 Poise doesn't just mean posture. It means dealing with tricky situations with careful thought, levelheadedness, and confidence. Grace is not only movement; another party of it's definition means having charity. Being able to do this consistently just naturally gives you a classy and feminine air. 💕
She was actually a lot like her Mom who was SO STRONG but also submissive to her husband which is a bad word these days. She was a good supporter to her husband. He was the brawns, she was the brains! 😂
During this quarantine your Channel has been a true gem. I always tel my daughter that being a princess is to be kind, strong in heart, noble in character, and hard working. It’s not just about being beautiful outside it’s about being beautiful inside. I love that you stood up for these princesses because they truly are so underrated! Bravo!
I totally agree. I think that so many people are making the idea of feminism about being so independent you don't "need a man in your life"; she talked about how if there is a good man you love (and similar to these Disney princes) who fight for you and care about you, you shouldn't think that you need to push them away for any reason! I love what she said around 10:20-10:40 about the beauty of men and women together!! This is something so many people have forgotten
Wow I really loved how you dove deep in the character and inner realities of the princesses and not just the aesthetic! You are most thoughtful RUclipsr out there!
I can’t help but cheer when a strong girl who defies expectations wins in the end. But I totally agree that it doesn’t always have to be the “cool tomboys” that are praised for their strength. Cinderella was a hustler, as was Tiana. Rapunzel denied laziness for self-improvement and studies, as did the extremely confident Belle and the curious Ariel. Feminine women like Grace Kelly’s character in High Noon and Elle Woods are other perfect examples of women who don’t lead with masculine characteristics and instead embrace their femininity, then go on to take control of their destiny on their own terms. 👑🌹
What I love about you is your elegant, ladylike, princess personality and habits are so achievable for anyone. I’ve watched other youtubers who aim to teach femininity and elegance but they say we need to wear designer clothes and in short, spend money to make us LOOK like an elegant women. You reminded me what being a lady REALLY means.
I love sleeping beauty cuz girls got a beautiful voice, gets to sleep all day, the man goes straight to his father and tells him about the girl (no wishy washy behavior, knows what he wants), and she's so elegant.
Sorry I judged you when I saw this title...I assumed it'd be about being sweet and smiley all the time. How wrong I was! This actually touched me. I loved Disney as a kid! Always have. :) My favorite princesses are Belle and Jasmine. I love their individuality and how they picked great men that match their shine.
I have a huge book recommendation for my feminine family! 💕 It’s called “The Privilege of Being a Woman” by Alice von Hildebrand. She is a Christian, so she does use heavy religious comparisons which is great for those who are religious. Even for those like me who aren’t, it’s still a wonderful read! She points out our strengths and weaknesses and how we shouldn’t resent being a feminine women! Changed my life ♥️💕❤️💕
Wow, thank you. I was just thinking I would really like to see book recommendations about this. I don't agree with everything Caitlin preaches but I like how thoughtful she is, and how she lives her values. And I would like to see deeper dives and longer more analytical expositions on this topic. I will check that book out :)
your message is so much different than what I thought it was gonna be. SO SO SO GOOD. It's so great to see a young woman (I'm nearly 40 okay LOL I'm not precisely a young woman anymore) to be so mature, well spoken and most importantly understand the distinction of being a woman, being a little girl and how being feminine in itself is a GREAT strength. Women are so strong in their femininity and its the perfect counterpart for the masculine energy of men, who often need rough edges softened by a good woman or you know, just a little bit more attention to detail lol! I loved the part where you said that finding your partner in life is a blessing. It has been for mine, and nothing is more fulfilling to me now, that my role as wife and mother. Thanks for your positive messages!
first time here! I've always been very feminine, innocent, vulnerable. But I've often been made fun off for even by close friends family. I've always been told to be more stong, independent, cry less. But fater many years I've learned to appreciate myslef. It's something beautiful I love.
True femininity is a form of artful beauty, mesmerising and hypnotising. That's where a woman's power lies and not by competing with men in masculinity.
Women can do both actually, masculinity is an energy that is accessible to both men and women and being traditional in your disposition based on biological sex isn’t fundamentally necessary
I disagree because I think people are most powerful when they are their true self, no matter what mix of feminine and masculine traits. What I get from this channel is helping women to be true to themselves in this certain way. Being princess-like isn’t always the best every woman can be necessarily
I think it's a spectrum, but like Caitlin said all women are feminine in some regard and that's important to acknowledge no matter how masculine you are.
I love that you didn't only bring up princesses such as Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty but also Mulan and Pocahontas, showing that there's no one way to being a princess, you can still take matters into your own hands while also channelling their femininity :)
Wow i really liked this different take on Disney princesses and how they were resilient and had virtue amongst other things! I literally never thought of it that way before. I was used to think along with my friends that growing up watching these Disney princesses meet their prince charming was actually damaging becuz it makes you think you have to sit around and wait for a man to save you but when you actually notice the princesses characteristics and you pay attention to what they go through you realise that is totally not true! Now i think about Disney princesses in a whole new light! Thanks mrs.midwest for this God bless you 😊
This is probably my favorite video you've made. I idealized Belle from a very young age, and only now as an adult realized that was because I saw a reflection myself and the qualities I desire to have in her character. Belle is unconditionally kind, empathetic, and has an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. She's selfless and family oriented and desires to fully understand even the things that frighten her (like beast). She's always authentically herself and gives compassion to the underdogs and the demonized who rarely receive it. Regarding this belief that women don't need help from men and should avoid asking for help, this belief which has been developing for a few decades now, I have to say that I understand such a sentiment. But that is because historically men that aren't your relatives or husband offering you help want something in return e.g. sexual "favors". This has been my personal experience, whether it be help from a classmate in tutoring me in statistics (I have a learning disability that affects my ability to perceive numerical relations so I am constantly requiring help for my math classes) or going on a date, where I am willing to pay for my half of the bill, and them insisting they pay, only to shame me for refusing to have sex with them afterward. But women just refusing all help from men isn't going to fix this issue, we should be strong women that know our worth and reject this behavior from men. I am a feminist but I disagree with the current raunch culture that encourages women to use their bodies to get that they want from men, just because we can or because we're trying to "stick it to the man". Such a culture doesn't lead to true equality where men and women can help each other in a genuine and personable fashion as human beings, it just just leads to people being used for anothers benefit, whether it be men using women for their bodies or women using men for their status. Rant over, now I am going to make some dinner and watch beauty and the beast again
The way you’ve extracted these qualities from Disney princesses impresses me a lot! This new perspective emphasizes the fact that Disney can inspire us throughout our lives, depending on how we perceive its animations. Thank you very much dear 🌹
Such a unique and refreshing take on Disney! I personally loved Disney adaptations growing up because I also read the original Grimm versions as well as Andersen's. I read a lot of books growing up! So Belle was my fav princess because she was smart and loved books. I love this so much. 💕
Haha my boyfriend always tells me I'm like a Disney Princess cause I literally go around singing non stop and am bubbly and energetic. You literally look like a Disney Princess and have the same mannerisms as Cinderella or Aurora.
I need to find the lecture I was listening to but here in breath what I remember. This is based on the original fairytales not the Disney version. Belle - Usually women who like Belle as a character has a cold father so they’ll usually go for a strong masculine man “cold” type that is more logical and not so romantic. (I’m in the Belle category lol ) The little mermaid. Absent mother, she will pick a man who won’t love her back (in the original by Andersen he left her for another woman) and will scarify something about him. Cinderella / Snow White (same category) Both have Absent mother. Weak father. Evil step step mother. Suffering. They are waiting for someone to save them. (It’s great a man to support you I welcome it but they are passive victims in the original fairytales). Jazmin - You chose bad boys that are a little more edgy. Rapinzel (Tangled) strong relationship with the mother she may be a little more controlling she’s looking for someone to help her “run away” from a situation she doesn’t want to be in. Snow White, Little Red Riding Hood, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty: What’s common about them is that they have missing mother or father figures or both. They are all victims SW to her step mother. LRH to the wolf. Cinderella to her step mother. The sleeping beauty to the witch. They hustle and struggle because they are forced to. Their mentality is I will struggle I will hustle I will be saved by someone because I put the effort. That’s all I remember. Usually the fairytales program our subconscious mind if you don’t like what you’ve read you can always re-write the fairytale also if I miss any of the fairytales I’m sorry I’m not familiar with all of them. I hope it’s was helpful. ❤️
Love this so so much! I hate how there is a lot of negative stigma against the Disney Princesses. They are STRONG women who endured a lot, but also had a loving man who wanted to protect them and help them along their trials. ❤️
When I first read the video title I thought it was going to be about having so much energy that you sing with birds and dance in the street while singing. Ha ha! Great video!
Oh my goodness I am LOVING how you are touching on resentment - something I really struggle with when feeling overwhelmed with life's responsibilities. My husband and I both work full time, and it is very difficult to keep up with everything else around us. I am so inspired by your choices, and I hope to work to a more feminine, balanced place. Keep up the good work Caitlin!
WAY TO GO girl! I've always thought this about the Disney Princess. That they are STRONG in kindness and gentleness. The recent Cinderella film was a perfect way to show how strong you can be without being loud or aggressive. You are a gem sweet lady! Keep guiding the young women and you will be blessed indeed. :)
The last few days I was feeling very sad and depressed, even today I woke up very sad, and for you to upload this makes me so happy, I really needed your words of wisdom, thank you Mrs. Midwest 💕 I love your channel so much💕 you are a role model to so many women including me!!
mulan was my favorite growing up! i come from an asian background and it was great to see a character with similar traits and an environment i grew up with aswell, pocahontas too cause i like the idea of adventures and learning new things from other people
Blessed Love Empress, This is a beautiful and refreshing perspective on Disney's subliminal messages to children that have lost its meaning in these last days. They have perverted that which was once clean and now must be held accountable for their crimes against humanity. You carry the title with grace and honor through the experience of life and speak so many wise truths. For a Princess to gain that title, she must come from a King and Queen. Royalty shines through your eyes and aura. Royal blood lines still do exist in these days and many of the world tend to forget that the original children of The Most High walk these streets and bend the skies of Earth to protect this 3-Dimensional realm, to educate the masses and show them the truth. The children are no longer safe in this world. One child dead is one youth too many. The intricate way that you break down the value system is incredibly detailed and easy for all ages to understand. This is extremely beneficial for younger girls to see. Blessed Love Queen, For just as a Princess will be a Princess for a certain time, she must carry on the responsibilities of the Queen in time, just as her Queen did, from a Queen, one can then rise into an Empress. A divine goddess of The Most High JaH. Anointed by his hand. Thank you for all these truths and beautiful presentation. May The Most High Supreme Source Creator of All, bless you and your family for the rest of days. I will be sharing this with many to come. Blessings - JudaH
What a wonderful topic. Cate, you don’t know how blessed I am to have found you. My brother and I both grew up in Christian homes and the past few years have dealt with peer pressure and eventually totally changed who we were. Which never felt right to us. I made a commitment to myself and God this year that I would return to church and return to my true self even if that meant returning to being an outcast. Talk about perfect timing 💕❤️
I love how your videos are an intelligent defense of femininity and overcome the stigma that feminine qualities are weakness. Also, your blouse makes you look like the exceedingly gorgeous iridescent blue morpho butterfly and I am HERE FOR IT! :D
I love how you said that they accepted their trials instead of holding on to grudges. I know for a fact I struggle so much. My favorite princess is Jasmine. Her voice actress Linda Larkin said so herself that Jasmine has spirit and that she’s not a victim. So I like to think of princess jasmine especially in my times of need. 💙🌺
Love this way of thinking about princesses. I'm old enough to be your mom plus, but still love the princesses. As I went through difficult times in life and happened to be watching a Disney movie, I noticed how they were handling difficulties although not quite realistic for our lives, but still difficult and they remained calm, caring, and nurturing. I always admired that and I thank you for this video and point of view.
Pocahontas is my favorite princess! She was strong, interdependent, and feminine in her own unique way. She didn't change her beliefs and what she wanted out of life. I just love her story! You spoke on this topic so well Cait ❤❤
I cannot even begin to explain how much your blog posts have made just such a huge impact on my life. God has certainly worked through you to reach women, so thank you for doing what God has asked you to do! 💗
I always dreamed of being a princess in my everyday life. I want to thank you for defending these girls.they mean a lot to me. My favorite is Jasmine cause I struggle to go out and see more of the world than I would see in books.
I used to view Disney princesses as ridiculous damsel in distress... but you just shattered that point of view. Wow, I never thought of Disney princesses like that. Thanks so much for opening my eyes to a new point of view. It got me feeling strangely emotional. So much truth in this video!!! A sister from Canada ;)
HALLO🙋🏾♀️ I am a 20 year old woman from the Netherlands and I love your videos, I am also om my feminine journey and I want to ask you if you could do a video about how you started your journey to feminity and where do you get your inspiration from. Please never stop making videos😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
What you are describing is known in mythology as the feminine journey. It’s super cool you caught on to that. I just learned about it yesterday. The feminine journey is different from the hero’s journey that we learned about in english class. The woman faces a cataclysmic event, and eventually comes out in the other side transformed and better.
Mrs. Midwest, you express your sentiments so eloquently and intelligently. In the small town which I live, I'm a bit of a social outcast. I dress super femininely and am bubbly and cheerful nonstop. Some of the women here have accused me of being flirtatious or wanton, but I've already found my 'prince' and we're engaged. Thank you so much for your defense of all things feminine. What would we be without that soft, serene energy in our world?
I looooved the part about relationships. ❤️❤️❤️ Never heard of it in that way, but you are so right. There is beauty in men and women working togheter. I really hope this spreads 💕
I have been called a Disney princess multiple times (especially recently in the past 2 years since I have begun my own feminine journey) it’s such a compliment ❤️😂
I like that you pointed out the Princes helped those Princesses with all their problems eventho he could have picked other women with less problems. This confirms the right man will do anything to be with you.
Would love to see a video on your feelings about self-care. Doing things in our spare time (hobbies) daily self-care, "luxurious" self-care (spa night) etc.
I LOVED THIS!!!! I GOT CHILLS 💃💖💘😍 I love how you are making being a Princess beautiful and glorified instead of a negative thing. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU DO!
Also, in reference to Cinderella, has anyone ever noticed that in the original 1950 animated film, the prince wasn’t even present for Cinderella’s escape? Cinderella saw an opportunity to save herself, so she took it. THAT is strength!
I don't know how to say thank you enough. I really needed this right now. I'm sure there are so many people out there who loved this message and appreciate your bravery on youtube not only sharing about femininity but also your christian faith. Thank you! :)
I feel like I can have journal sessions on your videos. Because your videos and make me think and reflect a lot. Thank you for sharing your light with the world. ❤️, Kimberly
Very insightful take on Disney princesses! So many people give a surface level analysis and say the princesses are weak women "waiting around" to be "saved." Not the case!!
I loved this video and I agree that choosing to share your life with another individual is not a sign of weakness. This video will really help me grow. Thank you 🌼
Oh my I still remember how excited and overwhelmed I felt when I had 1,000 subscribers! It’s a little odd to realize how big it’s grown, but it makes me really happy to know that we still have so many feminine women in the world! 😍🌸💓
Love this video. This is the most in depth I’ve heard anyone talk about Disney Princess movies. Now I have to go back and watch them all lol! ❤️ My favorite princess is Belle.
It is absolutely lovely to hear this, sometimes society makes me think I'm wrong or that my expectations are silly. Thank you so much for this video❤️❤️❤️
I think Disney princesses show that being girly and being feminine are two very different things. They're not afraid to get their hands dirty and they have integrity. Cinderella is a great example of that.
True
Which one is this tho?
Wow YES!!
Tiana too a very feminine princess
Yeah
I was once asked how I maintain a Disney princess demeanor after heavy trauma and my answer has stuck with me - I am soft because the softest hands have held the most grit. If life abrasions tear into you, keep moving. Lean into it and you'll take away all the hard edges.
Go girl!👍
One of the first things my now husband said when we were dating was he LOVED how soft and feminine I was; that I could take care of myself and was strong but allowed him to do things for me! You can be strong in some areas and still be feminine and womanly!
I got your point but letting people do smt for you is not a feminine energy lol It has nothing to do with gender
From a MASSIVE classic disney princess fan. THANK YOU. I feel I constantly have to defend my love for classic princesses like Cinderella or Snow White in our modern feminist world. They are shining examples of what it is to be a truly feminine woman (as are you). I only wish I could go back and tell my younger self what I know now. So happy I am comfortable in my femininity and proudly married to a wonderful masculine husband. We both enjoy your content so much. Thank you for all the work you do. Keep spreading the message! ❤️
I agree! :)
Bless your heart! ❤
Thank goodness for people like you!
I’m so glad that there are still people who love the classic princesses!
This is exactly how I feel about Disney princesses. People overlook the positive traits such as kindness, forgiveness, and compassion. In my opinion that is true strength and harder to do than most would think.
I love that you have picked this topic! Classic femininity has been shamed for too long. You are very courageous for standing up against this "dragon/ evil witch" and teaching women their true power
I love this, Sophie 💘 your comment is so true!
I grew up in a household that was very hateful towards women and any type of femininity. I was taught that being a “princess” was pathetic. Being a wife was pathetic. Being a woman was pathetic.
I am so grateful for you and your channel, for teaching me how to embrace my feminine power, my gift of womanhood.
This is really teaching me how to love and appreciate myself as a daughter and a sort of proverbial ‘princess’ of the kingdom of God.
Girl yes. "It is not wrong for women to need help." Could not have said it better! Exactly how i feel. It is so refreshing to see other young women on here that hold similar values.
You are totally channelling your inner Cinderella today!
Cinderella is such an icon 😍 Thanks for being here!
To me she looks more like Aurora! That is just my opinion though.
@@raspberrysoda372 I'm seeing Aurora but I'm hearing Rapunzel!
Condemning Cinderella for not saving herself is a way of oppressing victims of abuse and neglect. She maintained her dignity and strength even when there was nothing she could do against her step family, proving that sometimes no matter what you do you can't make everyone treat you well.
You are a beacon of light in a confusing, dark time for women. Thank you!!
Girl...wait until you are 51...you'll be Queen status! That is the way my husband treats me. Great topic!
Something Jordan Peterson points out: the stories of men rescuing women are metaphors for inner journeys. For example, sleeping beauty being "rescued" by the prince is a metaphor for the unconscious feminine being awoken by the concious masculine. The prince is also rescued from the dungeons by the conscious feminine in the form of the good fairies. This happens in a healthy marriage between a man and a woman, but it also happens on a smaller scale inside of every individual, no matter your gender. It's true the male roles do appear more active on the outside, but that's just because the stories are old: back in the day women were either pregnant and breastfeeding or waiting to be so. So their adventures were much more found in the trials of birthing and raising babies, rather than roaming around on horseback. Everyone knows that inner journeys are no less harrowing and important!
Blew my mind, thank you, my favorite comment!
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Yeah and it makes me kinda sad :( I wish those storytellers were alive today and could write stories about exciting adventures of women :(((
What a fun topic! When I think of a princess I think of elegance, grace, kindness, strength, beauty, and bravery. Of the Disney princess variety, I most identify with Belle and Jasmine... bloom where you are planted! 🌹
I always thought of Merida (one of my fave princesses) as a young girl going into womanhood who is fighting her feminine energy. She is struggling with massive life changes, and often tries to deal with them purely with masculine energy. But by the end of the story she realizes the power of being a women, a daughter and a mother and comes to appreciate that gorgeous energy that her mamma has as Queen♥️ She begins to learn how to handle things with grace and poise. 💕
Beautiful
I need to re-watch that movie.
Why does a woman who isn’t nurturing or poised have to be struggling? This branch of the femininity movement (or maybe it’s the whole movement) comes off not as a lifestyle choice but as something you feel women SHOULD be doing. Let them be their best selves instead. That doesn’t merely project an image of sweetness, but is the truly kind and nurturing action.
@@bubbledreams6382 Poise doesn't just mean posture. It means dealing with tricky situations with careful thought, levelheadedness, and confidence. Grace is not only movement; another party of it's definition means having charity. Being able to do this consistently just naturally gives you a classy and feminine air. 💕
She was actually a lot like her Mom who was SO STRONG but also submissive to her husband which is a bad word these days. She was a good supporter to her husband. He was the brawns, she was the brains! 😂
During this quarantine your Channel has been a true gem. I always tel my daughter that being a princess is to be kind, strong in heart, noble in character, and hard working. It’s not just about being beautiful outside it’s about being beautiful inside. I love that you stood up for these princesses because they truly are so underrated! Bravo!
I totally agree. I think that so many people are making the idea of feminism about being so independent you don't "need a man in your life"; she talked about how if there is a good man you love (and similar to these Disney princes) who fight for you and care about you, you shouldn't think that you need to push them away for any reason! I love what she said around 10:20-10:40 about the beauty of men and women together!! This is something so many people have forgotten
Wow I really loved how you dove deep in the character and inner realities of the princesses and not just the aesthetic! You are most thoughtful RUclipsr out there!
Awh yes! Yes I feel like any woman of any age or means can have DPE! That’s why Cinderella in rags was still Cinderella 🥰😍
I can’t help but cheer when a strong girl who defies expectations wins in the end. But I totally agree that it doesn’t always have to be the “cool tomboys” that are praised for their strength. Cinderella was a hustler, as was Tiana. Rapunzel denied laziness for self-improvement and studies, as did the extremely confident Belle and the curious Ariel. Feminine women like Grace Kelly’s character in High Noon and Elle Woods are other perfect examples of women who don’t lead with masculine characteristics and instead embrace their femininity, then go on to take control of their destiny on their own terms. 👑🌹
Yes, too many people think femininity and strength are exclusive, thinking only the best man can win...
Mrs. Midwest + Disney Princesses?? Yes!! 😍
What I love about you is your elegant, ladylike, princess personality and habits are so achievable for anyone. I’ve watched other youtubers who aim to teach femininity and elegance but they say we need to wear designer clothes and in short, spend money to make us LOOK like an elegant women. You reminded me what being a lady REALLY means.
Yes! A lot of these feminine women advisors are so cold and stoney. A feminine woman has soft edges!
I love sleeping beauty cuz girls got a beautiful voice, gets to sleep all day, the man goes straight to his father and tells him about the girl (no wishy washy behavior, knows what he wants), and she's so elegant.
Sorry I judged you when I saw this title...I assumed it'd be about being sweet and smiley all the time. How wrong I was! This actually touched me. I loved Disney as a kid! Always have. :) My favorite princesses are Belle and Jasmine. I love their individuality and how they picked great men that match their shine.
I come back and watch this video often. I adore "Disney princess energy" and I agree that it's so important to embrace it!
I have a huge book recommendation for my feminine family! 💕 It’s called “The Privilege of Being a Woman” by Alice von Hildebrand. She is a Christian, so she does use heavy religious comparisons which is great for those who are religious. Even for those like me who aren’t, it’s still a wonderful read! She points out our strengths and weaknesses and how we shouldn’t resent being a feminine women! Changed my life ♥️💕❤️💕
Wow, thank you. I was just thinking I would really like to see book recommendations about this. I don't agree with everything Caitlin preaches but I like how thoughtful she is, and how she lives her values. And I would like to see deeper dives and longer more analytical expositions on this topic. I will check that book out :)
your message is so much different than what I thought it was gonna be. SO SO SO GOOD. It's so great to see a young woman (I'm nearly 40 okay LOL I'm not precisely a young woman anymore) to be so mature, well spoken and most importantly understand the distinction of being a woman, being a little girl and how being feminine in itself is a GREAT strength. Women are so strong in their femininity and its the perfect counterpart for the masculine energy of men, who often need rough edges softened by a good woman or you know, just a little bit more attention to detail lol! I loved the part where you said that finding your partner in life is a blessing. It has been for mine, and nothing is more fulfilling to me now, that my role as wife and mother. Thanks for your positive messages!
first time here! I've always been very feminine, innocent, vulnerable. But I've often been made fun off for even by close friends family. I've always been told to be more stong, independent, cry less. But fater many years I've learned to appreciate myslef. It's something beautiful I love.
True femininity is a form of artful beauty, mesmerising and hypnotising.
That's where a woman's power lies and not by competing with men in masculinity.
Being feminine does make me feel powerful, classy, and poised.
Women can do both actually, masculinity is an energy that is accessible to both men and women and being traditional in your disposition based on biological sex isn’t fundamentally necessary
I disagree because I think people are most powerful when they are their true self, no matter what mix of feminine and masculine traits. What I get from this channel is helping women to be true to themselves in this certain way. Being princess-like isn’t always the best every woman can be necessarily
I think it's a spectrum, but like Caitlin said all women are feminine in some regard and that's important to acknowledge no matter how masculine you are.
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me Do you think the movie of Clamity Jane is right with what attracts men? I think it is.
Wow hearing you speak about how being feminine isnt weak...I really needed that😭💜
You just embody femininity and beauty inside and out, that’s why you’re probably my biggest role model!
wow thank you! I am so happy you’re here my love 🥰😍
I love that you didn't only bring up princesses such as Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty but also Mulan and Pocahontas, showing that there's no one way to being a princess, you can still take matters into your own hands while also channelling their femininity :)
Wow i really liked this different take on Disney princesses and how they were resilient and had virtue amongst other things! I literally never thought of it that way before. I was used to think along with my friends that growing up watching these Disney princesses meet their prince charming was actually damaging becuz it makes you think you have to sit around and wait for a man to save you but when you actually notice the princesses characteristics and you pay attention to what they go through you realise that is totally not true! Now i think about Disney princesses in a whole new light! Thanks mrs.midwest for this God bless you 😊
This is probably my favorite video you've made. I idealized Belle from a very young age, and only now as an adult realized that was because I saw a reflection myself and the qualities I desire to have in her character. Belle is unconditionally kind, empathetic, and has an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. She's selfless and family oriented and desires to fully understand even the things that frighten her (like beast). She's always authentically herself and gives compassion to the underdogs and the demonized who rarely receive it.
Regarding this belief that women don't need help from men and should avoid asking for help, this belief which has been developing for a few decades now, I have to say that I understand such a sentiment. But that is because historically men that aren't your relatives or husband offering you help want something in return e.g. sexual "favors". This has been my personal experience, whether it be help from a classmate in tutoring me in statistics (I have a learning disability that affects my ability to perceive numerical relations so I am constantly requiring help for my math classes) or going on a date, where I am willing to pay for my half of the bill, and them insisting they pay, only to shame me for refusing to have sex with them afterward. But women just refusing all help from men isn't going to fix this issue, we should be strong women that know our worth and reject this behavior from men.
I am a feminist but I disagree with the current raunch culture that encourages women to use their bodies to get that they want from men, just because we can or because we're trying to "stick it to the man". Such a culture doesn't lead to true equality where men and women can help each other in a genuine and personable fashion as human beings, it just just leads to people being used for anothers benefit, whether it be men using women for their bodies or women using men for their status.
Rant over, now I am going to make some dinner and watch beauty and the beast again
The way you’ve extracted these qualities from Disney princesses impresses me a lot!
This new perspective emphasizes the fact that Disney can inspire us throughout our lives, depending on how we perceive its animations.
Thank you very much dear 🌹
Love this just like I love all your videos. 😄I would love to see a video on
🌸how to remain classy in stressful situations
🌸dealing with rude people
Leave a like for dealing with bullies/rude people!!
Such a unique and refreshing take on Disney! I personally loved Disney adaptations growing up because I also read the original Grimm versions as well as Andersen's. I read a lot of books growing up! So Belle was my fav princess because she was smart and loved books. I love this so much. 💕
Haha my boyfriend always tells me I'm like a Disney Princess cause I literally go around singing non stop and am bubbly and energetic.
You literally look like a Disney Princess and have the same mannerisms as Cinderella or Aurora.
The favorite fairytale of a woman reveals what kind of man she is attracted to.
Belle here
My favorite ‘princess’ is Pocahontas.
My favorite princess is Merida 🙄 this should be harsh lol
It sounds good except the princes in fairy tales all seem to have the same hot physic and charming but one dimensional personality .
I need to find the lecture I was listening to but here in breath what I remember. This is based on the original fairytales not the Disney version.
Belle - Usually women who like Belle as a character has a cold father so they’ll usually go for a strong masculine man “cold” type that is more logical and not so romantic. (I’m in the Belle category lol )
The little mermaid. Absent mother, she will pick a man who won’t love her back (in the original by Andersen he left her for another woman) and will scarify something about him.
Cinderella / Snow White (same category) Both have Absent mother. Weak father. Evil step step mother. Suffering. They are waiting for someone to save them. (It’s great a man to support you I welcome it but they are passive victims in the original fairytales).
Jazmin - You chose bad boys that are a little more edgy.
Rapinzel (Tangled) strong relationship with the mother she may be a little more controlling she’s looking for someone to help her “run away” from a situation she doesn’t want to be in.
Snow White, Little Red Riding Hood, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty: What’s common about them is that they have missing mother or father figures or both. They are all victims SW to her step mother. LRH to the wolf. Cinderella to her step mother. The sleeping beauty to the witch. They hustle and struggle because they are forced to. Their mentality is I will struggle I will hustle I will be saved by someone because I put the effort.
That’s all I remember. Usually the fairytales program our subconscious mind if you don’t like what you’ve read you can always re-write the fairytale also if I miss any of the fairytales I’m sorry I’m not familiar with all of them. I hope it’s was helpful. ❤️
You have to be one of my FAVORITE people on youtube. Truly intelligent and warm hearted.
I recommend a video called, “Cinderella: stop blaming the victim” it’s really good
Who's gonna have a Disney princesses movie marathon after this video? 🖐🖐🖐🖐
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hahaha, me.
Im stuck watching tangled ... im tempted to find the script and print it out
Love this so so much! I hate how there is a lot of negative stigma against the Disney Princesses. They are STRONG women who endured a lot, but also had a loving man who wanted to protect them and help them along their trials. ❤️
When I first read the video title I thought it was going to be about having so much energy that you sing with birds and dance in the street while singing. Ha ha! Great video!
And the forest animals help with housework!
Oh my goodness I am LOVING how you are touching on resentment - something I really struggle with when feeling overwhelmed with life's responsibilities. My husband and I both work full time, and it is very difficult to keep up with everything else around us. I am so inspired by your choices, and I hope to work to a more feminine, balanced place. Keep up the good work Caitlin!
I needed this so much! I always say that I want to be just like a disney princess but I didn't know how. It's like you read my mind!
WAY TO GO girl! I've always thought this about the Disney Princess. That they are STRONG in kindness and gentleness. The recent Cinderella film was a perfect way to show how strong you can be without being loud or aggressive. You are a gem sweet lady! Keep guiding the young women and you will be blessed indeed. :)
The last few days I was feeling very sad and depressed, even today I woke up very sad, and for you to upload this makes me so happy, I really needed your words of wisdom, thank you Mrs. Midwest 💕 I love your channel so much💕 you are a role model to so many women including me!!
I am sorry you are struggling Kari!! Life can throw so much pain our way. So happy that you’re here! Wishing you love and blessings my sister 💕
It happens! Don't give up hope, keep following good role models like Mrs. Midwest it helps in today's confusing society. I'll say a prayer for you ❤
mulan was my favorite growing up! i come from an asian background and it was great to see a character with similar traits and an environment i grew up with aswell, pocahontas too cause i like the idea of adventures and learning new things from other people
I can literally sing like a Disney Princess that is one of my greatest strengths lol
my friend just told me yesterday that i have a Disney Princess vibe😂
I'm smitten with your channel❣
Love from India🇮🇳
What a compliment!! I am so happy you’re here. Sending you love back from America! 😍🥰
@@MrsMidwest ❤❤
Blessed Love Empress, This is a beautiful and refreshing perspective on Disney's subliminal messages to children that have lost its meaning in these last days. They have perverted that which was once clean and now must be held accountable for their crimes against humanity.
You carry the title with grace and honor through the experience of life and speak so many wise truths. For a Princess to gain that title, she must come from a King and Queen. Royalty shines through your eyes and aura. Royal blood lines still do exist in these days and many of the world tend to forget that the original children of The Most High walk these streets and bend the skies of Earth to protect this 3-Dimensional realm, to educate the masses and show them the truth. The children are no longer safe in this world. One child dead is one youth too many. The intricate way that you break down the value system is incredibly detailed and easy for all ages to understand. This is extremely beneficial for younger girls to see. Blessed Love Queen, For just as a Princess will be a Princess for a certain time, she must carry on the responsibilities of the Queen in time, just as her Queen did, from a Queen, one can then rise into an Empress. A divine goddess of The Most High JaH. Anointed by his hand. Thank you for all these truths and beautiful presentation. May The Most High Supreme Source Creator of All, bless you and your family for the rest of days. I will be sharing this with many to come. Blessings - JudaH
What a wonderful topic. Cate, you don’t know how blessed I am to have found you. My brother and I both grew up in Christian homes and the past few years have dealt with peer pressure and eventually totally changed who we were. Which never felt right to us. I made a commitment to myself and God this year that I would return to church and return to my true self even if that meant returning to being an outcast. Talk about perfect timing 💕❤️
I hope you've found your place back in the church. I know there is such a community there, you shouldn't have to be an outcast!
This video is so fun and pure. I love this take on Disney princesses
Unfortunately, I think I have the natural energy of Jafar and Mushu from Mulan combined 🤷
Great video though!
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😂 That's awesome! Jafar always cracks me up. 😂 As someone who's not great at being funny, that's a great gift you have. 🙂
@@joyfulmaerose8933 Everyone on this whole channel, even the people commenting are so nice, wow 💕💕
Ahahahahaha same girl 😂😂
LMAAOOOO NOT JAFAR
I love how your videos are an intelligent defense of femininity and overcome the stigma that feminine qualities are weakness. Also, your blouse makes you look like the exceedingly gorgeous iridescent blue morpho butterfly and I am HERE FOR IT! :D
It’s always a good day when you upload😊😊 You truly are a Disney princess, have courage and be kind!✨
I love how you said that they accepted their trials instead of holding on to grudges. I know for a fact I struggle so much. My favorite princess is Jasmine. Her voice actress Linda Larkin said so herself that Jasmine has spirit and that she’s not a victim. So I like to think of princess jasmine especially in my times of need. 💙🌺
I love how enthusiastic you are about Disney princess energy!
Love this way of thinking about princesses. I'm old enough to be your mom plus, but still love the princesses. As I went through difficult times in life and happened to be watching a Disney movie, I noticed how they were handling difficulties although not quite realistic for our lives, but still difficult and they remained calm, caring, and nurturing. I always admired that and I thank you for this video and point of view.
I've never looked at Disney princesses this way, really interesting!
I once saw a meme that said “I don’t get my expectations of men from Disney. I get them from Tolkien” That resonates A LOT for me. 😂
Elizabeth Anne 👏👏👏
I agree with you it’s OK to be a damsel in distress I’m so glad I’m not the only one who doesn’t mind
Pocahontas is my favorite princess! She was strong, interdependent, and feminine in her own unique way. She didn't change her beliefs and what she wanted out of life. I just love her story! You spoke on this topic so well Cait ❤❤
1. Resilience
2. Feminity
3. Relational
4. Individuality
5. Virtue
I cannot even begin to explain how much your blog posts have made just such a huge impact on my life. God has certainly worked through you to reach women, so thank you for doing what God has asked you to do! 💗
I always dreamed of being a princess in my everyday life. I want to thank you for defending these girls.they mean a lot to me. My favorite is Jasmine cause I struggle to go out and see more of the world than I would see in books.
my fav princess is Giselle from enchanted
I adore this video!!! And your top is fantastic! Would love more fashion guidance videos 💙
I used to view Disney princesses as ridiculous damsel in distress... but you just shattered that point of view. Wow, I never thought of Disney princesses like that. Thanks so much for opening my eyes to a new point of view. It got me feeling strangely emotional. So much truth in this video!!!
A sister from Canada ;)
HALLO🙋🏾♀️ I am a 20 year old woman from the Netherlands and I love your videos, I am also om my feminine journey and I want to ask you if you could do a video about how you started your journey to feminity and where do you get your inspiration from. Please never stop making videos😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lala Bla heyyyy Nederland!!
What you are describing is known in mythology as the feminine journey. It’s super cool you caught on to that. I just learned about it yesterday. The feminine journey is different from the hero’s journey that we learned about in english class. The woman faces a cataclysmic event, and eventually comes out in the other side transformed and better.
Mrs. Midwest, you express your sentiments so eloquently and intelligently. In the small town which I live, I'm a bit of a social outcast. I dress super femininely and am bubbly and cheerful nonstop. Some of the women here have accused me of being flirtatious or wanton, but I've already found my 'prince' and we're engaged. Thank you so much for your defense of all things feminine. What would we be without that soft, serene energy in our world?
this channel is so important and educational and your voice is soo beautiful I love it
Even like Nancy Drew! She's feminine but she does a man's job even when she was doubted! Ahhhhhh love this!
She’s my favorite!
I love your energy! It’s so refreshing and I’m so glad there’s women like you on RUclips for young women!
I looooved the part about relationships. ❤️❤️❤️ Never heard of it in that way, but you are so right. There is beauty in men and women working togheter.
I really hope this spreads 💕
Your message is inspiring and I wish there were more people like you on this earth. May God bless you and your husband
I'm seeing Disney princesses in a completely different light. Love this. Handle life with grace ❤
I LOVE that shirt! The color is gorgeous
I love that you don’t just focus on the superficial, a reason for which is why I tend to hate videos like this. As great as always :)
I have been called a Disney princess multiple times (especially recently in the past 2 years since I have begun my own feminine journey) it’s such a compliment ❤️😂
I like that you pointed out the Princes helped those Princesses with all their problems eventho he could have picked other women with less problems. This confirms the right man will do anything to be with you.
Would love to see a video on your feelings about self-care. Doing things in our spare time (hobbies) daily self-care, "luxurious" self-care (spa night) etc.
I LOVED THIS!!!! I GOT CHILLS 💃💖💘😍 I love how you are making being a Princess beautiful and glorified instead of a negative thing. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU DO!
Also, in reference to Cinderella, has anyone ever noticed that in the original 1950 animated film, the prince wasn’t even present for Cinderella’s escape? Cinderella saw an opportunity to save herself, so she took it. THAT is strength!
I don't know how to say thank you enough. I really needed this right now. I'm sure there are so many people out there who loved this message and appreciate your bravery on youtube not only sharing about femininity but also your christian faith. Thank you! :)
I feel like I can have journal sessions on your videos. Because your videos and make me think and reflect a lot.
Thank you for sharing your light with the world.
❤️,
Kimberly
I loved it how she even showed adventurous Disney princess. ♥
Very insightful take on Disney princesses! So many people give a surface level analysis and say the princesses are weak women "waiting around" to be "saved." Not the case!!
I loved this video and I agree that choosing to share your life with another individual is not a sign of weakness.
This video will really help me grow.
Thank you 🌼
OMG you are a real princess, thanks god I found your channel, I’m so excited to start my feminine journey ♥️♥️♥️👑👑
I have a gut feeling that you'll become very big on RUclips (please remember this comment when you got there ;) )
I feel the same way :) hopefully she remembers her original followers :)
Oh my I still remember how excited and overwhelmed I felt when I had 1,000 subscribers! It’s a little odd to realize how big it’s grown, but it makes me really happy to know that we still have so many feminine women in the world! 😍🌸💓
Love this video. This is the most in depth I’ve heard anyone talk about Disney Princess movies. Now I have to go back and watch them all lol! ❤️ My favorite princess is Belle.
Your voice is such a breath of fresh air! 💕 Thank you so much for all your inspiring videos like this!
I just liked the video l didn't even watch it yet.
Awh thank you!! 🥰😂
I absolutely adore your take on Disney princesses. There is such a negative view toward them and you showed them in such a positive light!♡
Your dress/shirt? is sooo pretty!! Love that color on you!
Absolutely incredible video, all little girls should watch this. Your perspective and way of communicating is extremely unique
It is absolutely lovely to hear this, sometimes society makes me think I'm wrong or that my expectations are silly. Thank you so much for this video❤️❤️❤️
Facts! I love this. The world needs sooo badly to hear these things. 😘🤗