How To Stay Positive About PREGNANCY Even When It's HARD!!
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- Опубликовано: 21 фев 2022
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Today I want to talk about how to stay positive about pregnancy even when things are hard. Pregnancy is not always the easiest process, but a perspective shift can make all the difference! Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!
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As someone who had EXTREME pain during my entire pregnancy, it was so hard to be positive. So, if you’re reading this and wondering why it’s SO HARD to be positive right now, it’s understandable! I had heartburn so bad that I was going to the ER with extreme chest pain only to be told “you’re pregnant, it’s normal” and itching all over my body to the point where I literally couldn’t sleep at all & had to be put on medication (that didn’t help). In the third trimester, I had extreme Carpel Tunnel in both hands and was unable to work or do anything!!! Before this, I was a healthy 26 year old! It was crazy! I’m beyond grateful for my healthy baby girl but man, I never want to be pregnant again! If it’s in God’s plans for my future, I hope and pray it’s smoother the 2nd time around! My husband and I actually think adoption may be a better option for us in the future. (I know my case is rare but it was REAL)
Lets not move into toxic positivity. We can be appreciative of our babies growing in our tummies and still complain that we are unwell as a result of it. For me the last months were really rough, my pelvic grindle pain was extreme, I was non stop overheating and swollen due to summer. There is no way to flip the perspective that my limps were swollen so much. I couldnt close my fists well 😭 yes I am in awe of how I grew this baby, but it did it hurt to grow it, and the birth was a nightmare out of the worse horror movie. But yeah my baby worths it all, and even more!
Exactly Queen, like its okay to acknowledge your exhausted, sick, in pain. Like these things are important to speak about so it dosen't become overwhelming and stops you from seeking treatment or help in general. You cant just keep switching mindsets to pretend like it dosen't hurt mentally or physically because it does! And if you need help there's no reason to go it alone. Humans help humans, dont suffer alone.
That’s not toxic positivity that’s just gratefulness, if you treat most things as good things you will generally be happier in life there’s no such thing as toxic positivity
@@yonko7401 If you are getting 1 hour of sleep with a newborn, they wont eat, cry constantly its okay to say "Hey Im overwhelmed doing everything myself, i need time to rest as i am recovering from giving birth as well as taking for baby 24/7 I need help" see this 'you should be greatful mentality' is why i see alot of new moms end up in the hospital from exhaustion/sleep deprivation , its not something you should take lightly at all. Get some rest, eat something, get some help, youre not a bad mom for asking for basic human needs.
Oh stfu. You just want to disagree.
Literally no one said that moms shouldn't get basic needs met. Only that there is no such thing as toxic positivity, its an oxymoron and logically makes no sense.
Your brother Ben keeps telling people “I wish she’d just get a reduction. I’m so embarrassed to be seen around those.” So fucked up that he would say that.
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You people are vile. You lack empathy if you're willing to make a joke at another person's expense.
Ben is going to get the same implants
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Thanks for this! I needed help reframing - I'm having a summer pregnancy and it is ROUGH because I can never feel cool. Looking forward to autumn ☺️
Great attitude and perspective.🙏🏽💕
I know this is late, I'm a bit behind on your videos. But that lamp is so pretty!! Do you mind sharing where you got it?
LOVE THIS 💗 I totally resonate with this!
I'm glad you're happy, Abby, and that your baby dreams are coming true. Best Wishes! 🙂
I love that mindset shift from “I hate this” to “my baby is working so hard to grow.” I think you could apply this to the fourth trimester too; if you have a fussy, colicky baby, going through sleep/eating changes, instead of saying “this sucks, when will this end??” We can say “my baby is working so hard towards those milestones.” Doesn’t make it less hard to wake up several times a night, but it’s a much healthier perspective.
I've had 4 beautiful children, and I can attest to this! There were days when I was just absolutely thrilled that I got one whole dish washed. You are just a beautiful person, inside and out! God bless you and your little family!
I wish you would just talk about your experience instead of framing it as advice
I'm taking notes for when me and my hubby decide to take our marriage to the next step, I can't wait!💕💕 Thank you for this abby, and I'm so sorry for your loss, glad your doing better now 💕 amen 🙏🏻🙏🏻
the fact that your pfp is abby's face- do you not find that weird at all-
I can really relate on the being tired. I’m pregnant with my second, so this time I don’t have the luxury to rest when I need to. I have a 1 year old to care for, even when I’m tired. And of course I love my son and love taking care of him, but sometimes, I need to rest. In general, I am not big on screen time, but in this season of fatigue, my son and I will watch tv together, read books on the couch and just rest. I know there are more exciting things I can do with him, and we still make time to go on walks and go to parks. But right now, I genuinely am tired, and for good reason, my body is growing another human. So, when we need to rest we do, and if slowing down means watching more tv for now than normal, well that’s just where we are in life right now. I have a hard time being ok with that, but what else can you do? Just be grateful for my health babies and enjoy the extra shows.
I LOVE this video! I am 7 weeks pregnant with my third baby and sometimes catch myself complaining about the nausea but having a positive attitude and a grateful heart towards God is key. Congrats on your bundle of joy and prayers for your birth and delivery!!
It can really change your perspective!! So glad you enjoyed :)
Thank you, Abby! I’m not pregnant and never have been, but I have struggled with anxiety around the potential challenges of pregnancy, body changes, and a “how could I possibly handle this” mentality. You have brought me comfort!
I'm so glad! I think you will find it's all much more special than you think, even when it's not easy! 💗
I've always been a very positive person about pregnancy. It's honestly a gift from God. I understand is painful and uncomfortable, but the pain is for a reason. It's all for your baby. Completely worth it.
Wow says the one who call me overweight with out even knowing me how rude of you to fat shame overweight people not cool but this is something i learn from the right wing y'all always shaming punishing does who y'all consider different
chances are about 100k guys a day "stay positive" about your pregnancy so congrats
Hi Abby
I'm 41weeks right now and watching your video in the early labour. Even though it hurts and I'm nervous about the birth, I've been waiting for so long for this baby that I'm just glad it's going to be over soon and I'll get to finally hold my baby. (probably today!)
Something midwives say is that every contraction brings your baby closer to being born. The more painful the contraction is, the more progress you're making.
Happy to report a healthy birth. No complications but oh my goodness it was difficult. Somehow, we did it.
Best of luck, Abby. You're about to go on the most amazing journey of your life! X
You know adoption is always an option, right? Does it have to be “your” child in order for you to love him/her?
Options mean choices and choosing pregnancy over adoption doesn't make it the wrong choice.
Must it be mine? No. Should it be? Yes. We all chose which aspects of life matter to us, so to each their own. Biological link may not matter to you, but it does to me.
I have no idea how you came to this conclusion. It sounds very anti-natalist to me. Yes, adoption is an option but it isn't an option for everyone. It also isn't as simple as everyone on the internet seems to believe. Adoption is an insanely expensive and lengthy process. Also, adoption candidates are put under intense scrutity and expected to live up to a standard that the average parent wouldn't meet. Furthermore, it is natural for a woman to want a child with the man she loves. I don't see why anyone would demonize a woman's choice to have her own child, especially a woman who suffered a miscarriage.
What if she and her husband CHOSE to have a child from their own instead of adopting? Shocker, right?
Good respectable woman, glad as soon as the memes about her (🍊 )(🍊)’s lead her to crop her camera cutting off the fake viewers from the true ! Now that’s takin marriage seriously!
God bless you and your baby Abby. I hope the last few weeks go quickly for you!
So proud of you Abby! Your always so positive and the best!!!
People in the comments cherry picking as always
sorry about the internet as a whole, classically abby
They know, we know, they know they're lying. And they still lie. So it's time to authorize forceable detainment. Way overdue.
I love your positivity. You are amazing.
You are glowing! Beautiful woman! Your husband is very fortunate to have you by his side. You are an outstanding lady!
It's great to see a channel focused on family values these days. As a fellow mom, thank you for getting your message of family and traditional values. ❤❤
Hi I’m pretty new to the channel and found you after watching Ben. I just wanted to say that I love your content, but mainly I wanted to say that you have a beautiful warm energy about you. You can tell how kind you are as it just radiates through the screen. Thank you for being an image for girls to see which will uplift them.
Loved this ❤. Thank you Abby 😊!
I needed this video as year and 2020 lol. It's 12 months in since I had my baby and I still need it. Came late for me but on time lol.
Yes girl. I just cleaned the kitchen and now I'm melting into the couch and giving my back a rest! 4 weeks to go! We can do this! 🤣
I'm glad I haven't been pregnant, because I'm too old for kids. But I do have a baby.... Skittles, my orange domestic short-haired cat. I am so happy for you and your hubby.
I'm not going to lie; I am terrified of potentially being a parent, but I also want to be a father.
Take parenting classes, telling ya bro, best thing i ever did, it gets you confident and ready to take on kids/babies because you get experience and knowledge 👌
Please don't circumcise your son. I'm Jewish, and I hate that I was circumcised.
Lol in our country we call the uncircumsied men, putyong 😂
I thinks it pretty wrong to force you religion onto your child no matter what the religion. When the child is old enough they should get a say.
Not even pregnant but I loved this
What’s your fav roller coaster?
The Hollercaust!
In fairness it shouldn’t be difficult for you to stay positive because you always look amazing.
Lol, your intro music reminds me of this old house.
I hope more woman can see your point of view
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