I usually don’t comment and I admit I don’t watch all of your videos, but I call you my Asmr mom. You’re always so wise and gentle. So having you in my subscriber feed is a must. Even if I don’t get to watch them all seeing you upload makes me smile. You’re awesome I just wanted you to know that! Keep on making those vids mom! :)) love you.
Normally I don’t comment on RUclips videos, but that really makes me feel better, even towards depression, specially when I’m trying to sleep, that takes all the stress out of my mind... thank you so much haiying :)
Hello Haiying, I was reading this video about disliking yourself,I have read many of your videos on this subject and it begins to make me feel sad.🙁 I cannot understand why you feel this way so often, You are so wise,pretty,Your love for humanity is unique and beautiful ✨ Oh Yes ,All of us feel this ‘self disgust’ many times and our tears will fall to wash our toxic feelings away 😢 Some of us have had things to happen to ourselves that have changed our lives for the worse yet ,we Must come to terms with it and learn to cope! I have mentioned that I have become crippled and have diseases that I have been told are robbing my life from me..I Cannot get out of bed, or wheelchair, and yet I used to be a wonderful dancer and sang in the night clubs! Loved taking care of the Elderly People and Children...so sense I have lost my ability to move I now feel dependent on others for my getting through life! But yet, I can still write my poetry, still like the beautiful seasons ... Autumn 🍁through Christmas are my favorite 🎄, I spend much time alone and that is very trying to the soul , In any case I can still look at my pictures of happier times and remember the times I spent doing my gardening and just little things like you said Haiying, cleaning and decorating... how I loved just to create and make my house lovely! Now I must find contentment in the smallest things... and I will continue trying!🧚♀️ Thank You Haiying for the lovely trips, beautiful shops, and lovely things that you allow people like me who cannot leave home to Still Enjoy! Bless you Dear Friend 🌺
I so enjoy your unique perspective on daily life and the way you show us how you do things. It is totally different than I've ever seen. Please keep making your videos. I enjoy them very much!
Your videos make me so happy. I always feel like I'm listening to a good friend. Thank you for spending your time to create these videos and conversations for us. Sending my love and support to you always ❤️
I'm slightly shocked by the title of your video as your messages always seem to be upbeat and positive. I definitely don't see you as a loser but a beautiful, creative soul. Also people do not lead the 'perfect' life, that is an illusion so please do not compare your uniqueness, style and talent to someone else. You stand above and beyond in your own merit.
I think the "loser" part has been a running joke when she does an unboxing type video. She said before that she is a "loser" because she had to buy it with her own money, it wasn't a free gift like a lot of unboxing videos are.
I’m usually asleep by the end. Love your videos. My suggestions would be to do something you are good at and do something you enjoy. Do something you are good at should help you feel better about yourself. But also, think people work too hard and get themselves into an anxious state. Take time to relax and do things you enjoy and don’t be afraid to do things just for fun. Not everything has to be practical or productive all the time.
Thank you so much for making these videos. I try to listen to you everyday and feel so relaxed, it's really helped me with my anxiety. I sleep so much better too!
I haven't had much time lately to visit RUclips, but I always make it a point to come back and catch up on your videos. Thanks so much for sharing that lovely talent of yours with me.
I think the most important thing to come away from with this video is that literally everyone feels like you do from time to time (regarding hating oneself). It's just no something people generally talk about. But than you so very much for bringing this in to light.
I was just catching up on some of your videos and saw this. I got an ice cube tray today in the mail too! 😂. My daughter actually got some coupons somewhere for free spherical ice trays- basically perfectly round ice balls. They aren’t for ME though, they’re for Kitty-Leela. On the rare hot days here in the northern Poconos, I make large ice cubes and put them on a cookie sheet-she LOVES batting them around and rubbing up against them; so we figured the round ice balls might even be more fun for her. I got a tiny pool from one of the companies I’ve worked with, (NOT one she can puncture like she did last year...although THAT was MY fault for putting a small pool in the middle of my kitchen. 🙄😖😂 Talk about making a mess!), last week and they even included some lifelike plastic koi that float. Even though this one is actually made for cats, I plan on putting it out on my back porch. Just in case. 😊 Thank you as always for your positive, uplifting advice, as always! I have to get busy with my Chinese homework; I’ve procrastinated long enough tonight! 😂
What a lovely video. I really liked your tip about doing something you were good at. As soon as you said that, I thought "I am not good at anything" and then you demonstrated that this is not good. I am very good at organising my taxes and so I did that and I am now feeling much better and proud that in June my taxes for the year are all up to date! I don't have to hand them in for another 7 months and I will have to add the rest of the year but it is very satisfying that they are up to date up till today. Thank you for that advice. You were also very very good company while I did my tax administration tasks so thank you for that too!
I like how you have your own unique words and titles that you use and I think they carry different meanings to you than people realize. I like when you say loser! Lol. I always saw it as playful!
I usually don’t comment and I admit I don’t watch all of your videos, but I call you my Asmr mom. You’re always so wise and gentle. So having you in my subscriber feed is a must. Even if I don’t get to watch them all seeing you upload makes me smile. You’re awesome I just wanted you to know that! Keep on making those vids mom! :)) love you.
F.F. I feel the same way about her. What a wonderful person
you are a hidden gem on youtube
Preach
don't let empty, soulless people make you think differently about yourself. then they've won.
Normally I don’t comment on RUclips videos, but that really makes me feel better, even towards depression, specially when I’m trying to sleep, that takes all the stress out of my mind... thank you so much haiying :)
Hello Haiying, I was reading this video about disliking yourself,I have read many of your videos on this subject and it begins to make me feel sad.🙁 I cannot understand why you feel this way so often, You are so wise,pretty,Your love for humanity is unique and beautiful ✨ Oh Yes ,All of us feel this ‘self disgust’ many times and our tears will fall to wash our toxic feelings away 😢 Some of us have had things to happen to ourselves that have changed our lives for the worse yet ,we Must come to terms with it and learn to cope! I have mentioned that I have become crippled and have diseases that I have been told are robbing my life from me..I Cannot get out of bed, or wheelchair, and yet I used to be a wonderful dancer and sang in the night clubs! Loved taking care of the Elderly People and Children...so sense I have lost my ability to move I now feel dependent on others for my getting through life! But yet, I can still write my poetry, still like the beautiful seasons ... Autumn 🍁through Christmas are my favorite 🎄, I spend much time alone and that is very trying to the soul , In any case I can still look at my pictures of happier times and remember the times I spent doing my gardening and just little things like you said Haiying, cleaning and decorating... how I loved just to create and make my house lovely! Now I must find contentment in the smallest things... and I will continue trying!🧚♀️ Thank You Haiying for the lovely trips, beautiful shops, and lovely things that you allow people like me who cannot leave home to Still Enjoy! Bless you Dear Friend 🌺
I so enjoy your unique perspective on daily life and the way you show us how you do things. It is totally different than I've ever seen. Please keep making your videos. I enjoy them very much!
We need more beautiful souls like you in this world. :)
Your videos make me so happy. I always feel like I'm listening to a good friend. Thank you for spending your time to create these videos and conversations for us. Sending my love and support to you always ❤️
I have always loved your unboxings of teas, makeup, and any other little hauls you have from your favorite stores. They are one of my favorites.
I'm slightly shocked by the title of your video as your messages always seem to be upbeat and positive. I definitely don't see you as a loser but a beautiful, creative soul. Also people do not lead the 'perfect' life, that is an illusion so please do not compare your uniqueness, style and talent to someone else. You stand above and beyond in your own merit.
Thank you for your kind thought. I am changing the title now. I deleted the loser part.
yanghaiying Believe it or not you are an inspiration to your subscribers, thank you for changing the title.
I think the "loser" part has been a running joke when she does an unboxing type video. She said before that she is a "loser" because she had to buy it with her own money, it wasn't a free gift like a lot of unboxing videos are.
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I’m usually asleep by the end. Love your videos. My suggestions would be to do something you are good at and do something you enjoy. Do something you are good at should help you feel better about yourself. But also, think people work too hard and get themselves into an anxious state. Take time to relax and do things you enjoy and don’t be afraid to do things just for fun. Not everything has to be practical or productive all the time.
Your videos are helping me be restful before sleep
I enjoy your banter x
Thank you so much for making these videos. I try to listen to you everyday and feel so relaxed, it's really helped me with my anxiety. I sleep so much better too!
Nothing is tedious with you, yanghaiying.
You’re videos make me so happy
I haven't had much time lately to visit RUclips, but I always make it a point to come back and catch up on your videos. Thanks so much for sharing that lovely talent of yours with me.
I think the most important thing to come away from with this video is that literally everyone feels like you do from time to time (regarding hating oneself). It's just no something people generally talk about. But than you so very much for bringing this in to light.
I totally agree about buying with in your budget. I have items I’ve never used because they costed much above my budget.
Your videos are my favorite! I love that you make these for us. Thank you so very much.
You are so appreciated and special. Thank you for being you.
Thank you ❤️
I was just catching up on some of your videos and saw this. I got an ice cube tray today in the mail too! 😂. My daughter actually got some coupons somewhere for free spherical ice trays- basically perfectly round ice balls. They aren’t for ME though, they’re for Kitty-Leela. On the rare hot days here in the northern Poconos, I make large ice cubes and put them on a cookie sheet-she LOVES batting them around and rubbing up against them; so we figured the round ice balls might even be more fun for her. I got a tiny pool from one of the companies I’ve worked with, (NOT one she can puncture like she did last year...although THAT was MY fault for putting a small pool in the middle of my kitchen. 🙄😖😂 Talk about making a mess!), last week and they even included some lifelike plastic koi that float. Even though this one is actually made for cats, I plan on putting it out on my back porch. Just in case. 😊
Thank you as always for your positive, uplifting advice, as always! I have to get busy with my Chinese homework; I’ve procrastinated long enough tonight! 😂
What a lovely video. I really liked your tip about doing something you were good at. As soon as you said that, I thought "I am not good at anything" and then you demonstrated that this is not good. I am very good at organising my taxes and so I did that and I am now feeling much better and proud that in June my taxes for the year are all up to date! I don't have to hand them in for another 7 months and I will have to add the rest of the year but it is very satisfying that they are up to date up till today. Thank you for that advice. You were also very very good company while I did my tax administration tasks so thank you for that too!
I like how you have your own unique words and titles that you use and I think they carry different meanings to you than people realize. I like when you say loser! Lol. I always saw it as playful!
Hi Haiying! I believe the ice cube tray might be for making cold brew coffee from frozen coffee cubes. I could be wrong , but just an idea. 😘
That's interesting. Thank you.
We love you and we love your videos. Keep your chin up!
I smiled while going to sleep when you said loser box because you got it yourself 😁
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I really appreciate your insights.
Been going through issues feeling disappointed and feel like a failure .Thank you
You sound like my childhood violin teacher. Literally every tone of your voice.
Wow! I love your videos
NNOOOOO the title of this vid made me scream. No need to be your own hater
fantastic
you are so interesting and cool... thanks for making videos
New Subscriber ❤
Would love to hear you do a whispering video.
Thank you.
Thank you so much for the video and talking about my topic ❤️
Myte Myteo so sweet, thank you, I appreciate the support 💞
I struggle also
Wow, the title made me sad