I heard my voice in a recording yesterday and today I'm researching how to change it. I grew up with serious emotional neglect and I've never learned how to communicate effectively. I've always felt like nobody listened when I was talking and now I know it's because I wasn't using my real voice. I'm so stressed out and afraid when I speak that I sound like a child still... this video was a transformative experience for me.
I was also neglected as a child. I got the message that emotions were unimportant; hence I spoke in a monotone. I mistook appearing serious for maturity. I'm Slatina Massey on Facebook. Feel free to add me. I care.
Gina Young same here. Turned me into a very soft spoken woman. Im already petite so my voice makes me feel completely invisible sometimes. But this video opened my eyes.
Omg me toooo I sound like a kid I'm 30 and to this day I feel like noone takes me serious noone wants to hear what I have to say all because I haven't found my authentic voice
Good talk, thank you Roger. Here are my notes if it helps anyone else :) - Find your real authentic voice, not the voice you take on from someone else. - 3 Key insights from Roger Love - Your voice is the most powerful communication tool that you possess - There is no difference in voice between singing and speaking, once you realize your voice is musical instrument, it changes the game. - All speaking is public speaking and should be treated that way, whether you are talking to one person or a group - How To find your voice that connects with people and move them emotionally. - Your voice is not designed for you, it is a gift that you give away - Sound waves are interpreted by the other person by thoughts, emotions and memories. - Your voice is to make them others feel something. - Breath in through your nose so that the air becomes moist and not dry your throat. - Chest up, shoulders back and down to not restrict the rib cages. - Breath in through your nose and pretend you have a balloon in your abdomen. When you speak let your abdomen come back in. - Myth: The words matter - The words only account for 7% if a person believes you - 90% of has to do with the sounds of your voice. Pitch, Pace, Tone, Melody, Volume and Body Language - Don’t speak on the same note becasue listeners will think they know what you are going to say and they will disconnect. (Mix it up) - When you go down on volume at times, it sounds like you are apologizing. - Three ways to use melody - Walking up the stairs (Lower to higher) Makes people happy - Walking down the stairs (Higher to lower) Makes people sad, don’t use it. - Spend less time staying on the landing (Boring)
I used to mumble and had to grow out of it through immense frustration and even then i have had to learn how to communicate and even then i had to learn how to listen and know when something is NEEDED to be said. My brother is a mumble but very loud in gaming and it gets me aggravated that he cant have the same passion when talking casually and he is be taught through gaming that they only way out is thorugh frustation but hes a slow learner so i cant blame him.
Everyone here complaining about how he over-emphasizes each sentence.But I find It useful ,because I have a very short lived attention span,so his way of speaking compells me to actually listen again. :D
You are on the mark and money my friend. How does any person convey a lifetime of experience to an audience in a short moment of time; well Roger Love is the guy to do it. The tools that Roger implanted into and onto the audience in attendance and those watching on the screen of any form, will be transformed in such a subtle manner, that in spite of themselves, will benefit them over their lifetime. He had me at the sentence about "when I was 16, my first student was Brian Wilson of the Beach Boys". From that point on, the rest is certainly history. We are lucky to have such a master vocal technician.
I have been depressed for years and I was not used to talk much due to which I lost my voice. This Ted Talk was literally a life changing for me. Thank u Roger
@@oussemafarhat4 I got the same issue dear, unclear voice and people not understanding what I'm trying to say; did this work for you in the past 7 months.?
@@zeeshanhaider9741you should talk louder as if the person is standing 6 feet away from you. Practice that and it will train your vocal muscles to talk better.
Oh my goodness he was just captivating with his voice The intensity, inflection, rate, frequency and quality of his voice throughout his presentation was like life- a fresh breath of life burst out so gently that it filled my senses and practically my lungs oh it was breathtaking
This is great. For those of you who think he speaks "over the top", honestly, if he wasn't speaking about voices, you'd not pay attention to his style enough to get annoyed.
It's so true , I speak with a monotone voice, and have the deepest voice of anyone I know on top of that. I listen to my voice and it sounded like rocks freaking grinding together
This make sense, my voice is horrible, I'm constantly spoken over, ignored, or dismissed, it's happend ever since I was a young child, it's so bad that I'm practically a mute these days because I know I would be wasting my breath if I tried to speak. and it's so depressing.
There was a time when my voice was higher. And it’s because I was happier. I’ve been speaking monotonously with a low pitch for years because of depression. Now that I have recovered, I’m looking forward to a change in my voice!
No wonder your name ends with Love. I have been following your work for years, which is inspiring. I love your joyful, playful presence and how naturally you give voice to your vision and share your incredible life's work with us all. "Make the world a better place one voice at a time." Hallelujah!
The Main thing is be not PASSIVE when you speak to others be Proactive. Take your time. Listening is part of it all as well in that how you speak could be effected by what or how they spoke! Have Fun! Thank YouRoger!
I literally make people yawn when I speak. I bet I can make a person who is wide awake yawn within 2-4 minutes of me talking with them. It's a gift that I possess.
The National Lottery granted me to pay for on-line singing lessons with Roger Love and I was so pleased with the course, which was both packed with knowledge and tips but excellent value for money! so great to see this session and learn skills for the speaking arena! Excellent communicator and teacher. Thank you so very much. I especially love what he said about the 'voice being a gift for others'! Thank you. Natalie Ng. Luton, UK.
Although I have no technical knowledge on this subject, it's intuitive to me that lower tones do not ALWAYS make people sad. By my perception, lower tones can evoke TRUST and can also be soothing. However, always speaking in a lower tone can be boring and indeed make people sad. As I truly believe it's not just me to have this opinion, I would dare to say that we should make good use of our entire vocal range, instead of just focusing on mid-to-high pitch.
You're right. I think its more then just sad and happy. Both high and low voices can show trust, authority, calmness, and many unspeakable feelings if said in required situations. But i do understand him though.
@@kshitijguleria8594 Folks, it appears that living in the world of duality, it is always the same: speakers like Roger state a generalization and the listener and commenters, as in this comment, tend to never allow the obvious "wiggle room" of common sense to be present. You hear one small segment of Roger's lifetime living experience, and voila, you state your opinion as "lower tones do not ALWAYS make people sad". My question to you both reply's, what are you trying to convey to the audience right now... Here's my opinion on the subject for this TED Talk HEADING: "Is you voice ruining your life"... I watched it, and I have been taught by Roger, so here is my question to you? Are your responses to anything, "ruining your life?" Where the (your) thoughts go... so does the voice. As a thought is really a silent vocal inflection from the voice; whether you believe it or not...meaning whether you even like it or not... a thought is a silent subtle soft inaudible whisper that instantaneously involves the voice. Therefore, It is the owner or possessor of the voice, who controls the volume... on a scale of 0 - 10, and in this specific case silence is golden. Saying nothing with words, may be interesting for the moment, but becomes nothing.
He didn't say that lower tones make people sad, but that lowering the tone makes people sad. It's the direction of the change of pitch he's talking about.
What happen, the voice open the throat chakra, the chakra the communicate with the world, so as you change with practice, th e chakra open, your body feel great cause it receive and give.
This was a successful Ted Talk just for everyone that had the chance to pay attention and learn. i've laughed so much, even teared up a little because it gave me hope that my speech can improve and it will improve. I am bilingual and in Spanish I can't roll my Rs for example, and I NEVER speak when my ''stomach is coming back in''. Definitely will master this technique. Thank you Roger Love!!!!!!!!!
1. Voice is the powerful communication tool you possess 2. There is no difference between speaking and singing 3. All speaking is Public speaking You voice is for other people. Roger only wants me to speak while my tummy is getting back in. Words don't matter much. Only 7%. What matter is - Pitch, Taste, Melody, Volume. Spend more time walking up the stairs of your voice.
This is my first time watching a video of Roger Love; as a matter of fact, this was my first time reading about him. He was recommended from a sales book and I am glad that I watched this video. This will help me with communicating my ideas and emotions effectively. I will definitely watch more of his videos.
I would love to take elocution lessons from Roger. In the meantime, I’m happy to have stumbled upon this video and will search for more content from him.
With more Love we will change the world... it's already begun... You will love this voice of yours.... SHARE THIS & #WeAllWin #TED #LivefromEarth Thank you Roger.
Thanks so much for this informations, I was really struggling with this, I have had anxiety and depression for years, I preferred to stay silent and that makes my voice so weak, that's really was so helpful
Wow! I think Roger Love is Awesome! I also just bought his book and CD Set your voice free. I've been singing for a quite awhile but in one day his tips have helped me immensely!
Great speech, my voice is something I been trying to work on the longest and being able to understand why I’m talking in such a way really helped me understand the problem and look forward to the solution and practice more so that I may connect with people in a much better way where they want to listen and can understand what I’m saying. So Thank You Roger Love much appreciated
To everyone asking why the speech is being translated into sign language. What if its just interesting. I think my voice is fine since I d what he taught already, but i still watched it because I was interested. If i was deaf/couldn't articulate well, I would still watch it because it would intrigue me more. Ya'll think you're smart for noticing, but really, it just shows you are itching to find flaws in other's works.
Roger Love, you are amazing, I have benefited in so many ways ever since I came across your book "SET YOUR VOICE FREE" I quickly looked for you on RUclips and I'm so glad I found you 😩
Thanks to Roger Love, his teaching and his coaching, I have control over my voice that I did not have before I took his UCLA Extension class, many years ago.
Yes, my voice ruining my life... So sad when I recalled the days I made my presentation, lecture and classmates can't hear my voice from the back even I have tried so much to do exercise everyday to speak louder in order to improve my voice. But my voice still not get any improvement and oftenly get blamed by my lecture since they felt annoying to my voice. Classmates felt annoying to my voice too... After this series of situation, I have diagnosed social anxiety whenever I present something in front of my classmates... Felt scared and terrified to talk to people most of the time...I felt disappointment to my current state..😞
I'm in the same position pal😭😭 whenever the teacher asks a question in class I can't answer even if I know the right one. I'm just so scared to speak up with my low voice. My whole life I have faced this and I want to improve so badly
Enchanting comes from "cantar" which means "to sing". Wizards, back in the day, sang their spells. This is why people pay $300 a ticket to see Madonna or U2. Music, and voice, are hard core magic. Don't be fooled. The proof is in the pudding. Thanks Roger. You nailed it. I love your message.
woah when he was talking about ascending the steps, I was like, is he about to tell us to do upspeak, which most people say not to do? But the ascending the steps he shows is different! When he said "I really like golf" in the ascending way, it didn't have that questioning sound that upspeak has. - I agree with him that it sounds nicer than his example of descending the steps. When I examined why, I saw that while the sentence overall is ascending, the word "golf" has a bit of a descending tone at the end of it. Whereas if I say it with the word "golf" fully ascending, it sounds like a question, and more like examples I've heard of upspeak.
Roger, such an amazing presentation. Your message is a light for the planet and the idea of joining you on your quest is a no brainer. Just say Yes. Congratulations on an elegant solution to heal the world. Marvelous, simply Mah vel us. I am of course being serious. Count me in.
HOW FASCINATING, ROGER! I'll surely have you as my coach once I saved up! Here are my key takeaways: 1. Your voice is a tool and a musical instrument-a gift 2. Practise diaphragmatic breathing (breathe in through your nose -> pretend to have a balloon in your abdomen -> say and do "roger only wants me to speak while my abdomen is coming back in") 2. When introducing yourself, don't sound like you're apologizing for your name (going down in melody and volume). At least stay on the same note! Cheers!
What he is trying to say is speak in mixed voice :D It works real well with the ladies. Ok, so get a phonation device such as a singing straw or a breath ball. Then what you do is learn how to do Bel canto which is what the straw teaches you from back pressure. You use that back pressure as you phonate and there is your natural voice.
"We were made to breathe in through our noses." "Now, close you're mouth and breathe in through your nose." Me, with a deviated septum: "So...can I just come back to finish watching this video after my septoplasty next month? I'm...I'm just gonna come back then."
Wonderful video. Never thought there will be so many people like me who has same problem becuase of not knowing the power of their voices. Thanks a lot Roger Love & TedX for this nice video.
he's right that what we say (words) is only 7% however he's not correct saying that over 90% of communication is through how we sound/how we say what we say.. that's actually confirmed to be 38% of the way we communicate .. yet still much more than what we say.. but actually the greatest, most influential way we communicate is through physiology.. body language.. how we breathe, move, hold our body, posture, facial expressions, gestures etc which is actually 55% if the way we communicate (visual cues).. though of course if limited to audible only ways of communicating (eg. over the phone) where physiology can't be seen then how you sound/how you say what you say.. tempo, volume, pitch, melody etc becomes the most influential.. but otherwise in person or in video etc physiology rules
11:00 Learning how to improve my voice for streaming and content creation, and this is really helping. But its funny to me that the interpreter is still interpreting at this part.
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that's so true, i hate my voice when i hear it from a recorder so i stopped speaking anymore.
I heard my voice in a recording yesterday and today I'm researching how to change it. I grew up with serious emotional neglect and I've never learned how to communicate effectively. I've always felt like nobody listened when I was talking and now I know it's because I wasn't using my real voice. I'm so stressed out and afraid when I speak that I sound like a child still... this video was a transformative experience for me.
I was also neglected as a child. I got the message that emotions were unimportant; hence I spoke in a monotone. I mistook appearing serious for maturity. I'm Slatina Massey on Facebook. Feel free to add me. I care.
Gina Young same here. Turned me into a very soft spoken woman. Im already petite so my voice makes me feel completely invisible sometimes. But this video opened my eyes.
Omg me toooo I sound like a kid I'm 30 and to this day I feel like noone takes me serious noone wants to hear what I have to say all because I haven't found my authentic voice
@@dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099 what you said about mistaking monotone speaking for maturity, I completely relate. Trying to break out of it now
Gina Young NOW THATS WHAT I CALL FUCKIN RELATABLE
Good talk, thank you Roger. Here are my notes if it helps anyone else :)
- Find your real authentic voice, not the voice you take on from someone else.
- 3 Key insights from Roger Love
- Your voice is the most powerful communication tool that you possess
- There is no difference in voice between singing and speaking, once you realize your voice is musical instrument, it changes the game.
- All speaking is public speaking and should be treated that way, whether you are talking to one person or a group
- How To find your voice that connects with people and move them emotionally.
- Your voice is not designed for you, it is a gift that you give away
- Sound waves are interpreted by the other person by thoughts, emotions and memories.
- Your voice is to make them others feel something.
- Breath in through your nose so that the air becomes moist and not dry your throat.
- Chest up, shoulders back and down to not restrict the rib cages.
- Breath in through your nose and pretend you have a balloon in your abdomen. When you speak let your abdomen come back in.
- Myth: The words matter
- The words only account for 7% if a person believes you
- 90% of has to do with the sounds of your voice. Pitch, Pace, Tone, Melody, Volume and Body Language
- Don’t speak on the same note becasue listeners will think they know what you are going to say and they will disconnect. (Mix it up)
- When you go down on volume at times, it sounds like you are apologizing.
- Three ways to use melody
- Walking up the stairs (Lower to higher) Makes people happy
- Walking down the stairs (Higher to lower) Makes people sad, don’t use it.
- Spend less time staying on the landing (Boring)
Thank you so much, this is really excellent note.
Joseph Rodrigues thanks so much for this
Joe! Legend, thank you for this, you rock!
Joseph Rodrigues thank you
Thank You. ^^
Why are people insulting this guy? He's giving crucial information for people who suffer from a horrible situation.
I agree with you. He's making some good sense I'm a vocal music graduate. Your voice holds the key to success!
I used to mumble and had to grow out of it through immense frustration and even then i have had to learn how to communicate and even then i had to learn how to listen and know when something is NEEDED to be said. My brother is a mumble but very loud in gaming and it gets me aggravated that he cant have the same passion when talking casually and he is be taught through gaming that they only way out is thorugh frustation but hes a slow learner so i cant blame him.
its jealousy thats why
What??!! How can someone insult this awesome guy??
I feel like giving him a hug and say thank you for the help he is providing us with..
Because He speaks like a guy who likes guys. His business
Everyone here complaining about how he over-emphasizes each sentence.But I find It useful ,because I have a very short lived attention span,so his way of speaking compells me to actually listen again. :D
That's exactly why people are speaking in monotone voices
Yeah! If anything, his trick works!
You are on the mark and money my friend. How does any person convey a lifetime of experience to an audience in a short moment of time; well Roger Love is the guy to do it. The tools that Roger implanted into and onto the audience in attendance and those watching on the screen of any form, will be transformed in such a subtle manner, that in spite of themselves, will benefit them over their lifetime. He had me at the sentence about "when I was 16, my first student was Brian Wilson of the Beach Boys". From that point on, the rest is certainly history. We are lucky to have such a master vocal technician.
I have been depressed for years and I was not used to talk much due to which I lost my voice. This Ted Talk was literally a life changing for me.
Thank u Roger
same
same, i hade depression for the past 5 years, now my voice is so weak, blurry and unclear,... so did this video help?
@@oussemafarhat4 I got the same issue dear, unclear voice and people not understanding what I'm trying to say; did this work for you in the past 7 months.?
@@zeeshanhaider9741you should talk louder as if the person is standing 6 feet away from you. Practice that and it will train your vocal muscles to talk better.
"and yet that voice that you do not like, is what everybody hears" ! Awesome !
Oh my goodness he was just captivating with his voice
The intensity, inflection, rate, frequency and quality of his voice throughout his presentation was like life- a fresh breath of life burst out so gently that it filled my senses and practically my lungs
oh it was breathtaking
This is great. For those of you who think he speaks "over the top", honestly, if he wasn't speaking about voices, you'd not pay attention to his style enough to get annoyed.
That's kinda true
This video is a waste of my time
It’s awesome. I’m ADHD soo
It's so true , I speak with a monotone voice, and have the deepest voice of anyone I know on top of that. I listen to my voice and it sounded like rocks freaking grinding together
This make sense, my voice is horrible, I'm constantly spoken over, ignored, or dismissed, it's happend ever since I was a young child, it's so bad that I'm practically a mute these days because I know I would be wasting my breath if I tried to speak. and it's so depressing.
Same here!😢💗
that has nothing to do with your voice
There was a time when my voice was higher. And it’s because I was happier. I’ve been speaking monotonously with a low pitch for years because of depression. Now that I have recovered, I’m looking forward to a change in my voice!
Same here
He has made a big difference in my life. I just loved the way he explained it. Now I'm going to change my voicemail immediately.
This is definitely one of the best most because this dude clearly just loves what he does, very awesome.
No wonder your name ends with Love. I have been following your work for years, which is inspiring. I love your joyful, playful presence and how naturally you give voice to your vision and share your incredible life's work with us all. "Make the world a better place one voice at a time." Hallelujah!
This man understands that it's very unrepresentative of my true self that my voice doesn't ominously echo
The Main thing is be not PASSIVE when you speak to others be Proactive. Take your time. Listening is part of it all as well in that how you speak could be effected by what or how they spoke! Have Fun!
Thank YouRoger!
Holy shit, this is amazing. Vocal couches so far have done nothing but mislead me into not letting our anatomy do its own job.
i love my vocal couch
God I lay on mine and sing all day
dont be a coach potato!
@@SSJ32Gohan mermaids sing with a vocal conch
I literally make people yawn when I speak. I bet I can make a person who is wide awake yawn within 2-4 minutes of me talking with them. It's a gift that I possess.
Worked for Bob Ross and Mel Zabel. Make it work for you.
I'm trying to find my authentic voice and this talk really inspired me, I'd love to speak with the same confidence as him one day
Thank you so much, Roger Love. Your's words did have a significant impact on me. I wish you all the very best for the people that you'll inspire.
The National Lottery granted me to pay for on-line singing lessons with Roger Love and I was so pleased with the course, which was both packed with knowledge and tips but excellent value for money! so great to see this session and learn skills for the speaking arena! Excellent communicator and teacher. Thank you so very much. I especially love what he said about the 'voice being a gift for others'! Thank you. Natalie Ng. Luton, UK.
You won the lottery?
Although I have no technical knowledge on this subject, it's intuitive to me that lower tones do not ALWAYS make people sad. By my perception, lower tones can evoke TRUST and can also be soothing. However, always speaking in a lower tone can be boring and indeed make people sad.
As I truly believe it's not just me to have this opinion, I would dare to say that we should make good use of our entire vocal range, instead of just focusing on mid-to-high pitch.
Absolutely agreed
You're right. I think its more then just sad and happy. Both high and low voices can show trust, authority, calmness, and many unspeakable feelings if said in required situations.
But i do understand him though.
@@kshitijguleria8594 Folks, it appears that living in the world of duality, it is always the same: speakers like Roger state a generalization and the listener and commenters, as in this comment, tend to never allow the obvious "wiggle room" of common sense to be present. You hear one small segment of Roger's lifetime living experience, and voila, you state your opinion as "lower tones do not ALWAYS make people sad". My question to you both reply's, what are you trying to convey to the audience right now... Here's my opinion on the subject for this TED Talk HEADING: "Is you voice ruining your life"... I watched it, and I have been taught by Roger, so here is my question to you? Are your responses to anything, "ruining your life?" Where the (your) thoughts go... so does the voice. As a thought is really a silent vocal inflection from the voice; whether you believe it or not...meaning whether you even like it or not... a thought is a silent subtle soft inaudible whisper that instantaneously involves the voice. Therefore, It is the owner or possessor of the voice, who controls the volume... on a scale of 0 - 10, and in this specific case silence is golden. Saying nothing with words, may be interesting for the moment, but becomes nothing.
He didn't say that lower tones make people sad, but that lowering the tone makes people sad. It's the direction of the change of pitch he's talking about.
What happen, the voice open the throat chakra, the chakra the communicate with the world, so as you change with practice, th e chakra open, your body feel great cause it receive and give.
This was a successful Ted Talk just for everyone that had the chance to pay attention and learn. i've laughed so much, even teared up a little because it gave me hope that my speech can improve and it will improve. I am bilingual and in Spanish I can't roll my Rs for example, and I NEVER speak when my ''stomach is coming back in''. Definitely will master this technique. Thank you Roger Love!!!!!!!!!
His voice has a sing-y trait to it. Makes him appear more charismatic than he would had he not used this style of speaking.
1. Voice is the powerful communication tool you possess
2. There is no difference between speaking and singing
3. All speaking is Public speaking
You voice is for other people.
Roger only wants me to speak while my tummy is getting back in.
Words don't matter much. Only 7%. What matter is - Pitch, Taste, Melody, Volume.
Spend more time walking up the stairs of your voice.
This is my first time watching a video of Roger Love; as a matter of fact, this was my first time reading about him. He was recommended from a sales book and I am glad that I watched this video. This will help me with communicating my ideas and emotions effectively. I will definitely watch more of his videos.
I would love to take elocution lessons from Roger. In the meantime, I’m happy to have stumbled upon this video and will search for more content from him.
Man this is such a great TED TALK
WOW so powerful. I've just been listening to Roger Love on the Kevin Trudeau Show, and he is amazing!!!
Just recorded a new voicemail message after watching this!
Thank you Roger Love for the amazing conversation with me. God bless you!
With more Love we will change the world... it's already begun... You will love this voice of yours.... SHARE THIS & #WeAllWin #TED #LivefromEarth
Thank you Roger.
Thanks so much for this informations, I was really struggling with this, I have had anxiety and depression for years, I preferred to stay silent and that makes my voice so weak, that's really was so helpful
Such a wonderful talk by Roger Love, one of the best I've seen!
I practice with his CD anytime I do a gig. Thank you, Roger!
He's got one of the most beautiful surname on earth !!
Wow! I think Roger Love is Awesome! I also just bought his book and CD Set your voice free. I've been singing for a quite awhile but in one day his tips have helped me immensely!
Great speech, my voice is something I been trying to work on the longest and being able to understand why I’m talking in such a way really helped me understand the problem and look forward to the solution and practice more so that I may connect with people in a much better way where they want to listen and can understand what I’m saying. So Thank You Roger Love much appreciated
I bought his book when I was in 3rd grade. He changed my life
Hey i am excited about the book, could you please let us know the book's name,it would be very helpful , Thank You ❤️
Yeah, it'd be great if you could drop the book's name!!
Where tf did u get the money for that when u were 8 or 9 years old?
This man is just amazing... nothing more to say
To everyone asking why the speech is being translated into sign language. What if its just interesting. I think my voice is fine since I d what he taught already, but i still watched it because I was interested. If i was deaf/couldn't articulate well, I would still watch it because it would intrigue me more. Ya'll think you're smart for noticing, but really, it just shows you are itching to find flaws in other's works.
One of the best videos I have seen on voice control.
RUclips knows me better than anyone else ,this got recommended on my page after 5 years😢
I actually really like his presentation style. It’s great for his message which was awesome too
One of the best, easiest and quickest ways how we can improve our vocals .... keep up Tedx and Roger...
Roger that has to be the best presentation on how to use your voice I have ever heard. It was concise and enthralling. Thank you.
2:30 begin
4:50 breath in through nose to diaphragm
5:25 moist
8:20 words and emotions
11:00 nugget
Roger Love, you are amazing, I have benefited in so many ways ever since I came across your book "SET YOUR VOICE FREE"
I quickly looked for you on RUclips and I'm so glad I found you 😩
A fantastic speech. Thank you, Roger!
I found myself smiling just listening to his voice n i was like wait ... this thing works !
this video is pure gold thank you Roger
Thanks to Roger Love, his teaching and his coaching, I have control over my voice that I did not have before I took his UCLA Extension class, many years ago.
I love the fact that there is a sign language interpreter.
Thank you Roger LOVE
Yes, my voice ruining my life... So sad when I recalled the days I made my presentation, lecture and classmates can't hear my voice from the back even I have tried so much to do exercise everyday to speak louder in order to improve my voice. But my voice still not get any improvement and oftenly get blamed by my lecture since they felt annoying to my voice. Classmates felt annoying to my voice too... After this series of situation, I have diagnosed social anxiety whenever I present something in front of my classmates... Felt scared and terrified to talk to people most of the time...I felt disappointment to my current state..😞
I'm in the same position pal😭😭 whenever the teacher asks a question in class I can't answer even if I know the right one. I'm just so scared to speak up with my low voice. My whole life I have faced this and I want to improve so badly
Just search for "SLP Sanjay Kumar-Voice therapist" on RUclips, your problem will ne solved 👍
@@miteshhatkamkar3445 thanks😊😊
@@moonchild6303 😊
I get polyps on my vocal cord and often my voice gets reduce up to 90% I get self conscious and nervous when I have to speak to a client :( .
Enchanting comes from "cantar" which means "to sing". Wizards, back in the day, sang their spells. This is why people pay $300 a ticket to see Madonna or U2. Music, and voice, are hard core magic. Don't be fooled. The proof is in the pudding. Thanks Roger. You nailed it. I love your message.
Exhaling from my mouth: this is One of the best Ted talks, I have ever watched 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙂
woah when he was talking about ascending the steps, I was like, is he about to tell us to do upspeak, which most people say not to do? But the ascending the steps he shows is different!
When he said "I really like golf" in the ascending way, it didn't have that questioning sound that upspeak has. - I agree with him that it sounds nicer than his example of descending the steps. When I examined why, I saw that while the sentence overall is ascending, the word "golf" has a bit of a descending tone at the end of it. Whereas if I say it with the word "golf" fully ascending, it sounds like a question, and more like examples I've heard of upspeak.
best Ted speech ever watched
Thank you so much Roger Love ! This is in an ascending volume and note !
Thank you! That was a great SPEECH! wonderful message!
Roger, such an amazing presentation. Your message is a light for the planet and the idea of joining you on your quest is a no brainer. Just say Yes. Congratulations on an elegant solution to heal the world. Marvelous, simply Mah vel us. I am of course being serious. Count me in.
Brilliant. Entertaining. Funny. And... so very much helped me understand concepts & practices to help me to better use my voice. Thanks!
HOW FASCINATING, ROGER! I'll surely have you as my coach once I saved up!
Here are my key takeaways:
1. Your voice is a tool and a musical instrument-a gift
2. Practise diaphragmatic breathing (breathe in through your nose -> pretend to have a balloon in your abdomen -> say and do "roger only wants me to speak while my abdomen is coming back in")
2. When introducing yourself, don't sound like you're apologizing for your name (going down in melody and volume). At least stay on the same note!
Cheers!
this prolly the single best video on the planet
This is one of the most useful things I've ever heard.
This has to be one of the best ted talks
One of the most useful prescription material I have ever heard and needed badly.
The audience is amazing
Thank you so much! 💜
Such good vibes with this guy
Honestly, I was feeling like you are just describing the way i talk hahaha, Amazing, This is one of the best Ted talk i have ever listened to
What he is trying to say is speak in mixed voice :D It works real well with the ladies. Ok, so get a phonation device such as a singing straw or a breath ball. Then what you do is learn how to do Bel canto which is what the straw teaches you from back pressure. You use that back pressure as you phonate and there is your natural voice.
"We were made to breathe in through our noses." "Now, close you're mouth and breathe in through your nose."
Me, with a deviated septum: "So...can I just come back to finish watching this video after my septoplasty next month? I'm...I'm just gonna come back then."
Thank you for an excellent and insspiring talk. I loved it because I needed it. Aad I will use it, and will use your advice.
Wonderful video. Never thought there will be so many people like me who has same problem becuase of not knowing the power of their voices. Thanks a lot Roger Love & TedX for this nice video.
Wow! One of the best presentations ever. Thanks!
What a brilliant speech! 👌🏾✨
this guy's book, Love Your Voice, is brilliant.
I remember Phil Dunphy in his face and Evan Baxter by his voice hahaha but I love this talk! Thank you for this❤
The sign language interpreter is my favorite part of this.
Hahah
he's right that what we say (words) is only 7% however he's not correct saying that over 90% of communication is through how we sound/how we say what we say.. that's actually confirmed to be 38% of the way we communicate .. yet still much more than what we say.. but actually the greatest, most influential way we communicate is through physiology.. body language.. how we breathe, move, hold our body, posture, facial expressions, gestures etc which is actually 55% if the way we communicate (visual cues).. though of course if limited to audible only ways of communicating (eg. over the phone) where physiology can't be seen then how you sound/how you say what you say.. tempo, volume, pitch, melody etc becomes the most influential.. but otherwise in person or in video etc physiology rules
best speaker ever!!
Wow, some excellent advice here for speaking.
Speechless...
Great talk
Great talk and advice! I am changing my greeting now.
Excellent video, thanks to Roger.
Roger Love, you're awesome!!!
Great TED Talk Roger!!
He's a genius
That is just beautiful 👏👏👏
You just changed my life
The world is now a better place, the secret to make an impact and make people remember it is in how you say your message. Not what you´re saying.
11:00 Learning how to improve my voice for streaming and content creation, and this is really helping. But its funny to me that the interpreter is still interpreting at this part.
that's so true, i hate my voice when i hear it from a recorder so i stopped speaking anymore.
love this! person on purpose!!
Richard you are the man!!
This was SO helpful - thank you
GREAT JOB ROGER !!!
Well done Roger, excellent as always!
this was so so so incredible and insightful
After watching this i will be keeping my mouth shut and just listen to you all singing