Do Women Know If You're an Alpha or Beta Male? | One Powerful Hack to Become Alpha + 3 Examples

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
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    Why do bad guys have all the fun? If there’s one thing that separates the attractive bad guy from the unattractive good guy, it’s that attractive men are never weak around women.
    If you’re weak around women, even if you’re rich, successful, and handsome, women will lose attraction for you. If a woman smells weakness, she’ll pull away. If a woman feels she can control and manipulate you, she’ll abuse you and try to control you. If a woman feels as though you’ll do anything to please her, she’ll lose respect for you.
    It’s at this point that you must ask yourself two important questions: first, how can a man be perceived as strong by women (or become what is commonly known as alpha)? And second, is a man born alpha or does he become alpha over time?
    Is alpha, in other words, a result of nature or nurture? In my own experience, alpha, as I’ve come to see it, is a trait that’s mostly developed over time through conscious effort and awareness.
    Alpha versus Beta is strength versus weakness. The beta male is weak; the alpha male is strong. The alpha male consistently chooses strength over weakness; the beta male chooses weakness over strength. The alpha male takes the strongest course of action; the beta male takes the weakest course of action.
    But how do you know what actions are strong and what actions are weak? Let’s take a look at some different scenarios that better demonstrate this point in more detail:
    Scenario #1: Your girlfriend tells you she wants to break up with you. What is the strongest course of action you can take and what is the weakest course of action?
    The weakest course of action is to beg and plead with your girlfriend to stay in the relationship. The strongest course of action is to walk away with your head held high-this is the path of the alpha male.
    Scenario #2: A woman doesn’t respond to your text messages.
    The weakest course of action is to send more messages. The strongest course of action is to walk away and ignore her until she gets back in touch with you.
    Scenario #3: Your girlfriend tells you she just wants to be friends.
    The beta male accepts the offer of friendship, hoping things will change in the future. The alpha male, again, walks away and ignores his girlfriend until she changes her mind.
    Whenever you’re in any doubt about how you should interact with women, ask yourself one important question: what’s the strongest course of action I can take? If you’re being honest with yourself, you already know the answer.
    Strong actions and behaviors are actions and behaviors that make you feel good about yourself. If you choose the strongest course of action in all areas of life, it won’t be long before you project an alpha mindset without even thinking about it.
    If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.
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Комментарии • 182

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 года назад +361

    Confidence is not walking into a room thinking you’re better than everyone, its walking into a room not comparing yourself to anyone at all.

    • @lordvenus7999
      @lordvenus7999 3 года назад +5

      you nailed it son

    • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
      @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 3 года назад +7

      110% a true "alpha" sets aside his ego. Salute my dude!

    • @robin-vt1qj
      @robin-vt1qj 3 года назад +13

      Dont act like the boss, act like there is no boss

    • @maysumraza8198
      @maysumraza8198 3 года назад +2

      Confidence comes from the act of pushing yourself through doubt, fear, procrastination and perfection.

    • @robin-vt1qj
      @robin-vt1qj 3 года назад +1

      @@maysumraza8198 allowing too

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 года назад +283

    My brothers you don’t become the king by chasing after the queen, The queen comes naturally as a by product of you being the king. Chase the crown not the cheeks.

  • @wellingtonrodrigues7654
    @wellingtonrodrigues7654 3 года назад +203

    More alpha tips:
    >Rarely compliments the girl.
    >Never get out of your way to please the women.
    >If a women throws an attitude, simply ignore her and pull away.
    >Never appologise (this one can be hard sometimes)
    >Never respond her too quickly, and never double text.
    >Make her feel jealous of other women.
    >pass her shit tests simply by ignoring or making fun of the test.
    >if she gives you an order, refuse to obey.
    >Don't be afraid to be more sexual with her
    >never tells about your feelings for her, be mysterious. (i failed on this one once)
    >be cold, never be emotional.
    >hit the gym
    Cheers from Brazil !

    • @SiriusLeeMusic
      @SiriusLeeMusic 3 года назад +25

      And never tell her about your problems or situation coz she doesn’t give a fuck!

    • @canm7157
      @canm7157 3 года назад

      what do you mean by throw an attitude

    • @SiriusLeeMusic
      @SiriusLeeMusic 3 года назад +4

      @@canm7157 if she acts bitchy

    • @marcosgbarajasg548
      @marcosgbarajasg548 3 года назад +3

      >Rarely compliments the girl. ✅
      >Never get out of your way to please the women.✅
      >If a women throws an attitude, simply ignore her and pull away. (i probably fail this a lot)
      >Never appologise ✅
      >Never respond her too quickly, and never double text. (sadly sometimes I do, must do less)
      >Make her feel jealous of other women.(shes so jealous so this one can be easy)✅
      >pass her shit tests simply by ignoring or making fun of the test.✅
      >if she gives you an order, refuse to obey.(i probably failed this one the last time I saw her)
      >Don't be afraid to be more sexual with her✅
      >never tells about your feelings for her, be mysterious. (i failed on this one once, too)✅
      >be cold, never be emotional.✅
      >hit the gym (its my purpouse or my body, so it's my purpouse). :c

    • @tinoghebre2765
      @tinoghebre2765 3 года назад

      Amen

  • @FreedomLocs
    @FreedomLocs 3 года назад +81

    In summary: walk away and just don't care 👑

  • @darkblade7858
    @darkblade7858 3 года назад +256

    i'm happy that you bring back this animated content of yours.

    • @milanpaudel9624
      @milanpaudel9624 3 года назад +6

      Yea these are the best

    • @renanlinard7
      @renanlinard7 3 года назад +1

      Me too

    • @Hamzak786
      @Hamzak786 3 года назад +1

      same

    • @ashimdhingra08
      @ashimdhingra08 3 года назад +1

      You are raising a bunch of narcissists
      It's good to walk away but that's inhumane
      Even if you are alpha and ur girlfriend tells she is breaking up
      You should atleast discuss what are the reasons to see of u are wrong at someplace
      If u think no u are not wrong then walk away
      Straight walking away is like having no human tendencies
      Alpha males never let anyone play with their self repect
      But what u are teaching is 'just walk away'
      How will u sustain a relationship by just walking away
      Do u want to be Charlie harper?

    • @shoveitdown2349
      @shoveitdown2349 3 года назад

      exactly

  • @vanwilder1101
    @vanwilder1101 3 года назад +63

    Chris= the only channel that explains what you need to know in the most simplistic/explicit detail, in under 5 mins! Absolute champion

  • @NiceOne1706
    @NiceOne1706 3 года назад +89

    Women can’t handle being with an Alpha these days because they are so used to interacting with Betas. Betas have ruined women and their outlook on men and relationships in general.

    • @jms0313
      @jms0313 3 года назад +8

      There is truth to this

    • @ismellpizza7202
      @ismellpizza7202 3 года назад +1

      That's a beta male statement lol

    • @sandwich-breath
      @sandwich-breath 2 года назад

      @@ismellpizza7202 truth be told

    • @fuurson
      @fuurson Год назад +1

      naah. If You're beta you will lose anyway

  • @TheItYo
    @TheItYo 3 года назад +46

    Also being able to cut off people is another alpha trait. Never let anyone take advantage of you rather if their your woman, friends, family or coworkers. Dignity and self respect always comes first.

  • @iqbal_pradana
    @iqbal_pradana 3 года назад +9

    back then i was misleaded by being jerk to be an alpha, but then i realize its wrong, today i believe being an alpha its about prioritize myself over an unfair situation

  • @awan266
    @awan266 3 года назад +5

    When you hit like before the vid begins

  • @ubersoldado
    @ubersoldado 3 года назад +29

    i begged and accepted a friendship that lasted a few weeks because i kept begging for her to come back. a mistake i only made once... thanks for your help, my man.

    • @jms0313
      @jms0313 3 года назад +4

      An emotional man turns a woman’s p u s s y into the Sahara desert

    • @ubersoldado
      @ubersoldado 3 года назад

      @@jms0313 true lol

    • @rajurastogi610
      @rajurastogi610 3 года назад

      @@jms0313 🤣

  • @NazmulHasanOpu
    @NazmulHasanOpu 3 года назад +6

    That animated content is masterpiece

  • @ngliscsaxon6128
    @ngliscsaxon6128 3 года назад +2

    I love the animated videos. Were all on our journey to become 'Alpha', I think journeying through life, choosing the wrong choices and learning from mistakes is the key to the door of knowledge

  • @pablocaldeira1802
    @pablocaldeira1802 3 года назад +13

    Your work has helped me a lot in my relationships, thank you. Your Brazilian fans wish you the best.

  • @FDx8500
    @FDx8500 3 года назад +4

    So much pain to be the alpha, its just natural now, she doesnt respond ghost her, she pulls back ghost her, she creates drama from the air ghost her, walking away its like a drug now, it feels good, more time on your business and friends and yourself!

  • @kobinsadvance
    @kobinsadvance 3 года назад +17

    This channel is a blessing for many guys out there.

  • @the_lobster
    @the_lobster 3 года назад +3

    Love these types of video because of the examples. What other channels lack are concrete examples.

  • @mikeklyderedpalmer6914
    @mikeklyderedpalmer6914 3 года назад +16

    If she friendzone you, tell her I dont want to be friends, if she asks, just simply tell her I want us to be nothing just a guy you knew and had little conversation with and thats all it could ever gonna be.

  • @Citizen-by9vw
    @Citizen-by9vw 3 года назад +9

    Chris: I miss these animated videos of yours. These have been some of my favorite videos of all-time on RUclips. I love seeing this, and this video's really good.

  • @rahulrajmurmu9595
    @rahulrajmurmu9595 3 года назад +10

    Chris you are helping a lot of men around the world a lot more than you could imagine. Now i can see all the mistakes and patterns my friends make in their relationships and I make them aware of it. Thank you Chris.

  • @egemensuzgun4208
    @egemensuzgun4208 3 года назад +9

    alpha is a mindset and how you handle yourself in difficult situations.

  • @oppahadventures114
    @oppahadventures114 3 года назад +9

    So underrated channel. Give Chris a million subscribers

  • @marcosgbarajasg548
    @marcosgbarajasg548 3 года назад +4

    So now I must walk away from the girl I like in order to become alpha again so she will see me as an alpha male... f*ck, this is twisted, but I need to let her miss me and reach to me... even when we date with great passion and sexual energy... is hard to tell what should I do, but as you say in the end, I must be honest to me.

  • @aaronsteven3366
    @aaronsteven3366 3 года назад +7

    I have learned so much from your videos and your book. Thanks for changing my life. Im so happy now.

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 3 года назад +9

    Exceptional topic & exceptionally explained for that matter

  • @nofear6296
    @nofear6296 3 года назад +8

    One of the best animated videos I ever watched from you 👍🏼

  • @ThePatriots010304
    @ThePatriots010304 3 года назад +3

    Alpha is a state of mind.

  • @Ticcio96
    @Ticcio96 3 года назад +5

    Basically don't be a simp

  • @noseefood1943
    @noseefood1943 3 года назад +5

    Never be needy or clingy never beg plead or try to please buy gifts just act like you don’t give a shit = alpha

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 3 года назад

      Funny because they then settle for the whimp and his resources because he gave them validation

  • @aodh5966
    @aodh5966 3 года назад +7

    When you like a woman but realise she's no good for you. She likes attention from men a little too much.

    • @SiriusLeeMusic
      @SiriusLeeMusic 3 года назад +3

      Not all but most women are like this

    • @aodh5966
      @aodh5966 3 года назад +5

      @@SiriusLeeMusicnothing turns me off quicker.

    • @danielsimmonds7934
      @danielsimmonds7934 3 года назад +1

      Literally experienced this and so I left 🏌🏾‍♂️

    • @aodh5966
      @aodh5966 3 года назад

      @@danielsimmonds7934 good man. Once it's tainted there's no going back.

  • @XavierY828
    @XavierY828 3 месяца назад +1

    Why do women assume that when a man accepts her offer of friendship that the man is hoping her feelings will change in the future?

  • @mannyp295
    @mannyp295 3 года назад +7

    I love Chris he's an amazing teacher

  • @kezicss
    @kezicss 3 года назад +2

    I'm handsome and pretty much a beta and girls still make the first move. But I know I wouldn't be able to satisfy them at all so I don't bother.

  • @gavinblakeway
    @gavinblakeway 3 года назад +1

    As Patrice O Neal used to say often ‘ the Queen is the kings bitch ‘

  • @ThroughBirdEye
    @ThroughBirdEye 2 года назад +1

    But they never know if you are sigma 😁

  • @aaronsteven3366
    @aaronsteven3366 3 года назад +2

    I love your videos. Thank you

  • @littledev09
    @littledev09 3 года назад +4

    Could nt agree more. Everthing you said is true. Great content.

  • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
    @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 года назад +5

    Science has shown that to some degree women can detect the level of our alphamaleness on our face by subconsciously measuring our jawbone strength which is an indicator of the ultimate alpha hormone Testosterone. But ultimately women don’t find our physicality important for our alpha-maleness but much rather if our energetical vibration in our internal body shouts: “ I have found my passions and work to become excellent at them and am already significantly progressing”. It is more important than testosterone because a man with a lot of Testosteron could still be learning disabled. She needs to be sure that the man has enough mental potential for success...

  • @argievarona8463
    @argievarona8463 3 года назад +2

    I'm from Philippines and i love your videos❤️

    • @whodoes4947
      @whodoes4947 3 года назад

      Daming Beta sa pinas par nag kalat

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII 3 года назад

    Chris did the pullback on us. Where’ve you been bro?

  • @Chris-um7ye
    @Chris-um7ye 3 года назад +4

    I'm happy being sigma male

  • @ledfed1912
    @ledfed1912 2 года назад +1

    Forget about the alpha beta concept. That is just a healthy mindset to have in general.

  • @Hamzak786
    @Hamzak786 3 года назад

    All too often is that we know the answers yet dont follow it through. Like always ask yourself if your best friend came to you for advice, what would you say? That would be your answer right there, following it through is a different thing.

  • @fbsouza
    @fbsouza 3 года назад

    In situations like this, imagine your father looking at you. What attitude he would pride of his son? Take this way.

  • @oblivionsweeper
    @oblivionsweeper 3 года назад +1

    Sad but all true, the Beta mentality was more appreciated by women over 500 years ago but now in this century you will get swallowed whole, gotta remember all men have different archetypes such as Beta, Delta, Gamma, Alpha, Omega and Sigma. But we all shift our archetypes depending on what we're doing either Work, Significant other, Social gathering etc.

  • @abelgodinez4044
    @abelgodinez4044 3 года назад +2

    Great video. Currently working consciously on this

  • @swallikinspires9523
    @swallikinspires9523 3 года назад +9

    Man Chris your content is one of a kind with important revolutionary message cheers bro

  • @iankiprono5305
    @iankiprono5305 3 года назад +1

    Your videos usually ends without me noticing. You've got a huge edge on harnessing attention.

  • @amine_d
    @amine_d 3 года назад +1

    Thanks

  • @loudbark6963
    @loudbark6963 3 года назад

    This is GOLD

  • @mattb1100
    @mattb1100 3 года назад +1

    I just got your book in the mail and read 75 pages in one sitting. One of my favorite topics. I appreciate your work in the field of attraction.

  • @sehzaadkhan7129
    @sehzaadkhan7129 3 года назад +3

    Love your animated content

  • @kyioma
    @kyioma 3 года назад +3

    how to express my feelings towards women? every time i do that it just push them away

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  3 года назад +10

      You don’t need to express your feelings to them. Let them express their feelings to you.

    • @nothingreallymatters7530
      @nothingreallymatters7530 3 года назад

      Don't express your emotional feelings in women they find it weak behavior.

    • @kyioma
      @kyioma 3 года назад

      @@DevelopAttraction alright thanks!

  • @gameinfoxz8213
    @gameinfoxz8213 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for putting a video on Alpha male .. 👍❤️

  • @palindrome06
    @palindrome06 3 года назад +1

    I walked away. Never getting any returns but that’s ok.

  • @jpbart1390
    @jpbart1390 9 месяцев назад

    I'm neither Alpha, nor Beta, Mostly have Sigma traits.

  • @johnspivack
    @johnspivack 2 месяца назад

    Brilliant. Will share this with my son. Thanks.

  • @junaidahmed6486
    @junaidahmed6486 3 года назад +2

    Walk away in any point of time

  • @gohan3448
    @gohan3448 3 года назад +2

    Great video brother. Keep up the good work

  • @arthurtheking1292
    @arthurtheking1292 3 года назад +1

    I am reading your book right now. It is brilliant. 👍

  • @GeoffMaxwell
    @GeoffMaxwell 3 года назад +2

    pur gold this is

  • @АйгабылИхсанов-и2я
    @АйгабылИхсанов-и2я 3 года назад +1

    Super advices. Be strong, be brave.

  • @ricflair4052
    @ricflair4052 3 года назад

    The Strongest Alpha...
    ENTER THE KING OF PUMP AND DUMP, LEONARDO DICAPRIOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Once his GF reach 25 yo , he dumps her for a newer GF so much younger than the previous when they first met!!
    Dumping 25 yo is the most Alpha thing ever for a man to being an Alpha!!

  • @renanlinard7
    @renanlinard7 3 года назад +1

    Thanks coach! Your job is amazing!

  • @Ali-ro6ch
    @Ali-ro6ch 3 года назад +2

    How to express your alpha_mood through texting? I think it's an important topic to make a video about

    • @adarsha5908
      @adarsha5908 3 года назад +7

      Really don't text.
      If you are alpha, you dont keep hanging around her dms all week
      You should rather meet her.
      If you are far away from her, why do you even need her?
      You can't fulfill your physical needs.
      So text less, meet more
      Thats what alphas do

    • @Ali-ro6ch
      @Ali-ro6ch 3 года назад

      @@adarsha5908 thank you. I just wanted to make it clear because we were under lock_down and barely could meet in person.

    • @tekiero
      @tekiero 3 года назад

      @@adarsha5908 she will lose interest, no?

  • @sincerelyme7423
    @sincerelyme7423 Год назад +1

    2:14

  • @_noname2032
    @_noname2032 2 года назад

    The more you date, the more you develop this kind of thinking/feeling. Just go ozt and approach them kings

  • @nbayoungboy8529
    @nbayoungboy8529 2 года назад

    I have a question about the “weakness” part , some couples say that they are eachothers “weakness” but in the video you say showing weakness to the girl is bad . I don’t get it

  • @globalsetdarkpool8276
    @globalsetdarkpool8276 3 года назад

    Why don't humans speak of the other personality traits!!! It's more than just Alpha & Beta

  • @alanh7247
    @alanh7247 2 года назад

    whenever you're in any doubt about how you should interact with women ignore them...

  • @iamheatsin
    @iamheatsin 3 года назад +1

    Everyone is saying first in comment but they stand 2nd in their gf life

    • @nekotfarmer
      @nekotfarmer 3 года назад +1

      "Everyone" literally just 1 guy...

  • @TWX27
    @TWX27 3 года назад

    Fascinating. This channel really changed my life man. I'm really gonna make a change. Not just to get women, but for myself.

  • @bobbywright2927
    @bobbywright2927 3 года назад +1

    Thank you.. Really helpful

  • @roko8580
    @roko8580 3 года назад +1

    Always love your video chris

  • @Stockmarkettelugu25
    @Stockmarkettelugu25 3 года назад +1

    Very Useful.!

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 2 года назад

    I took the strongest course of action with all 3 of those scenarios :)
    Alphaesk

  • @shahrahman904
    @shahrahman904 3 года назад

    U NEED to do MORE of these scenarios comparisons of how Alphas behave and betas is BRILLIANT Please more

  • @svenk5221
    @svenk5221 Год назад

    Seems like I have a lot of walking to do in the future. Thank god I have a dog.

  • @varmaamla
    @varmaamla 3 года назад

    Good 👍

  • @youngjezy23
    @youngjezy23 3 года назад

    How the fuck can I be alpha when I’m only 5,6

  • @jayaramraja1986
    @jayaramraja1986 3 года назад +1

    Animation is best

  • @melvinnicholas39
    @melvinnicholas39 3 года назад

    Make a video on brother zoned. What if she says your my brother and not a friend?

  • @marquesgeiger11
    @marquesgeiger11 3 года назад

    Every beta group has an alpha out of each group. Sigma leads no one or care to be in high power but can possess dominant force when neccessary.

  • @bombaycrow
    @bombaycrow 3 года назад +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @jbulanier
    @jbulanier 3 года назад

    I told this in a group and they all get triggered. You will lose the girl once you become a simp.

    • @mo-ab7315
      @mo-ab7315 3 года назад

      In my experience it’s better to not tell people about this cause most men are beta and get insulted

  • @oliviercote-barclay6165
    @oliviercote-barclay6165 2 года назад

    Thanks for the tip! Magnificent as always.

  • @hundumac1037
    @hundumac1037 3 года назад

    "What's the strongest course of action I could take"??? 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @hafidrihani3621
    @hafidrihani3621 3 года назад +2

    One more alpha male make her spend and invest in him beta provide and pay for everything hoping that she stay for long.

  • @livingvision8658
    @livingvision8658 2 года назад

    In short :
    Alpha - is his own boss
    Beta - is the woman's pet

  • @Tane77
    @Tane77 3 года назад

    Fuck i was a beta almost all my life

  • @yonylopez2480
    @yonylopez2480 3 года назад

    Thanks .buddy.
    I need friends. Like .you.buud...

  • @CatalinEnache1502
    @CatalinEnache1502 3 года назад

    Hey Cris. More vids please and also a follow-up book. Thanks

  • @aravindr5581
    @aravindr5581 3 года назад

    Feeling light and clear.A like from India

  • @tuanirshanpalomar8302
    @tuanirshanpalomar8302 3 года назад

    Does the guy who have tattoo is much attractive?

  • @infinityGtd
    @infinityGtd 3 года назад

    Great content chris Ill will use this as a guide

  • @_noname2032
    @_noname2032 3 года назад

    Wow, I never knew I was Alpha..

  • @scottdunn2178
    @scottdunn2178 3 года назад

    Fortune Favors The Bold...

  • @MadTwozOfficial
    @MadTwozOfficial 3 года назад

    That's a fact. Props to you.

  • @mkowboy13
    @mkowboy13 3 года назад

    Ya is strength involved

  • @stefaniamandi6897
    @stefaniamandi6897 3 года назад

    my ex wears our bracelet with my name on it i m in no contact is this a sign? pls help

    • @hadriusreznor3247
      @hadriusreznor3247 2 года назад

      Sure it does, sign of robbery, been there before, for some women its loot that they think they earned it!!!