What do the old timers say. Familiarity breeds contempt... Absence makes the heart grow fonder.. There's nothing new under the sun. It's always been this way..
My Dad doesn’t even treat my Mom like this. I am fortunate to have a Dad that focuses on his mission and purpose to keep the marriage alive. My Dad even taught me this. Attraction grows in space. He told me to never be a pest.
Hi American Lefty I need advice about getting women into emotional and rollercoaster with us Yesterday I was nearby my ex gf gym ...I pop in and take a look if she is there.....she saw me and unhappy saying I dont trust her that she is there for exercises and felt I was there to check if she with man in the gym.. She said she feeling stress if I dont trust her.. I told her if this goin to be our 3rd breakup ..I will not look back again and if me as The Man always listen to her ..I wouldn't like I am bound to her rules ... such as meeting her once a week for sex because she feel stress meeting me 4 times a week previously in our 7 years relationship it was only natural we text everyday but now she want to change the dynamics to what she want Yesterday morning she text me to cancel our plan to go out I didnt like it and I didnt reply her She text me in the night that she Miss me..I didnt reply She text me Honey Good Nite I didnt reply She text me Good Morning..I replied ... I think she is upset I didnt reply her last nite... I will meeting her tonite ... What should I do .. Because last week she told me she broke up with me because I focus too much on her...she wanted me to focus on my job and told me she can text me but I cant text her ...she even told me reply her immediately... I dont want another argument which cause our 2nd breakup... So I let her say whatever she want... If I dont reply or reply late is this going to make her love me more ? It was a good get back together we went to eat and happy hour but now she want to only meet her once a week and I Ban from going to her gym or near her house ... I think I will Not Care anymore on our 7 years relationship if she dont want me to grow the love .. If I walk away I am depressed...and if I take her rule I am depressed I am not Man enough
This is extremely important to understand female nature and a man must remain on his purpose and provide space even in a committed relationship in order to gain and continue attraction as well as respect
Never understood that. I always provide space and give myself purpose when ever am not in a committed relationship. But when ever am in a commitment relationship I see myself been too relationship focus which is not good for me thanks
These are great lessons! Watch a man run after and please a woman it soon leads to disrespect and eventually getting dumped. Then watch a man who is focused on his mission and doesn't let a woman side track him, there is simply no choice but to follow. Men follow your Dreams!
Hey Chris I did the exact same mistake..a girl in a relationship with someone else left him n came into my arms.. we had great moments together(coz I was not giving her too much attention) she dumped that guy without even a single effort from my side.. then I became needy and insecure and she threatened me to leave.. I begged her not to go and finally she left me.. then I fixed the relationship with one of your technique and thereafter dumped her now she sometimes msg me to come back to her..but I am talking to multiple women of my choice with full confidence ! This Channel is really helping a lot of guys out there!
He turned into a simp for her. Also, he stopped working on his purpose. If he had kept working on his purpose, then that would give her time to miss him. Scarcity creates value.
They didn't mention his job whatsoever. Just that he was getting food for her while she was preggers. Then she got a secret, super late term abortion after all that waiting on her and buying a family home lmao. Most retarded story I've ever heard of.
There are allot of dating coaches and pick up artists out there, however this guy is different, this isn't dating advice, this is life advice, no tricks or manipulations just truths. Thank you for the upload.
This is spot on. I lived it first hand except she had the kid and didn't abort. Make friends, do things you love and never make her the center of your universe. No matter how much you think she loves you.
I mean all her decisions are based on emotions and women’s emotions fluctuate Can’t imagine taking a bad boy and releasing him I mean it will be even harder for her to have a marriage and a baby down the line with a previous bad boy
To further add to Chris great content, sometimes when a woman needs space or gets distance, it has nothing to do with you. Personal issues may cause some women to withdraw their emotional involvement with you.
I’ve had this exact thing happen in my last 3 relationships. Start off as a playboy seeing multiple women. They give me their absolute best, catch feelings with one and eventually become exclusive. Once she knows she’s my only sexual option the treatment drops off drastically. Eventually we grow to resent one another and breakup. It’s one of the greatest disappointments in life that women don’t want to stay in the honeymoon stage forever like we do
What most guys fail to understand is that what a woman NEEDS, is a man who DOESN’T need her. New girl I am seeing told me this (in her own words) yesterday. She said the thing she loves most about me is that I am my own man. No matter what she says or does, I stand my ground, and my position doesn’t change. I.e. as much as I like her, she KNOWS that I don’t need her, and this makes her want to be around me even more.
I'm so thankful for the fact that men can now learn this from the internet. My date has recently pulled away from me after everything going very well between us. That came as a shocker to me. I would be lost and make all the typical mistakes if I hadn't been able to learn this. Thank you!
This is going on right now with me. My GF is acting like her....before she told me I did not give enough attention...now I gave too much attention. She told me she needed space and I AM GOING BACK TO THE OLD ME! Back to the playboy she fell for and trying to outdo other women for my attention. I am the prize she must win.
i can assure that it happens to me right now,last year she complained that i 'm neglecting her and i did not even noticed that as i was acting naturally then i gave a try to be more of a boyfriend material and now i am on NC (1 week+) because she needs space and she doesnt know if our relationship is going to work.
Same thing happened to me. She complained I wasn’t texting her enough. She said she needed to re-think the relationship. The penny didn’t drop for me at this point though because I felt so comfortable with her and knew I wasn’t chasing. I’d been pretty quiet with her and decided I’d been too quiet, so next few days I sent a few texts saying I was giving her space as she’d asked and was letting her know she was in my thoughts. No response. A week later after still hearing nothing I was getting p’off as nothing had actually happened between us it was ridiculous, so rang her. No answer. It was at this point I thought oh sh*t what am I doing. I didn’t even realise I was chasing her. Went NC. 10 days later receive text saying I was dumped. A few more texts exchanged by us both. Didn’t beg, said I didn’t agree with it but accepted her decision and told her to get in touch if she changes her mind. That was almost two months ago now and all is quiet. Women are bloody nuts!
I have to admit Chris you put a lot of work into this videos to us guys you don't know out there I think I speak for everyone when I say thanks keep on doing what you're doing we appreciate it 🤞👌
Imagine you're a passenger on a large ship. Knowing nothing about seafaring but being on good terms with the Captain, you ask him if he can steer the ship in that direction because it looks interesting over there. The weather is good and you're making good time, so he says yes, which makes you happy. You then see something else interesting, and so he takes you over in that direction. Yet again, you see something else, and to your surprise, he starts steering the ship in that direction too. What fun this is. You sort of feel like a Captain yourself! He even lets you take the wheel for a little while. But after some time, the waters start getting choppy and the skies begin to darken. Is this really a good idea? The Captain is standing back and says it should be fine, even though you now detect a hint of nervousness in his voice as the wind starts picking up. Before you know it, the wind is howling and the ship is lurching from side to side. You're not sure if you like this anymore, and you'd rather not be here, if only you knew where 'here' was. You look around for the Captain, expecting that he will steer you away from the storm, only to realise you are the one holding the ship's wheel and have been for the last 4 hours. The waves are now crashing over the bough and flooding the bridge. Then, through the rain and mist, you realise you are rapidly approaching a rocky coastline. You spin the wheel as fast as you can, but the waves and the currents are too strong. How did you get here? Where is the Captain? You turn around and scream out for assistance, only to find the Captain standing with his back against the wall screaming back at you! "It's your fault", he says, "you wanted this, you took the wheel, you got us here!" He runs around the bridge frantically, looking for a solution, but is clearly unequipped to deal with the situation. Only then do you look at him and realise he's not a Captain at all. He's just some guy in a uniform who doesn't actually know what he's doing and gave away control of his own ship to some random passenger. You know that your only chance of survival is to jump in a life raft and abandon ship before it hits the rocks. Fuck this Captain, fuck his boat, you're outa there. The last thing you see is the man in the uniform crying out into the wind at you. Look what you did to me, look what you did to my boat, and now you're just gonna abandon it all, he says. Guys - women are survivors first and foremost. Never forget that.
This is why it's extremely important to unlearn what you've learned and apply these basic but primal tactics. If you're not programming yourself, the system will program you. And the system, by default, is designed to make men weak, become anti-family. It's a spiritual battle and you have to be cognizant.
So although women say they want this this and this. Ignore that nonsense. (Logically she may say what she "should" want, but we all know that they want whats illogical.) If she didn't like who you were at first she would have NEVER given you a chance in the first place. So you must stay true to yourself and stay you no matter what she says.
Yep couldn't have said it better. Same with men, as men we "should" want to remain loyal but if a hotter younger woman is making herself available, logic goes out the window and we pursue for sex, its illogical but its just how we are programmed.
OKAY.. Both of them are at fault.. I do not understand where and how you are coming up with these stories.. she shouldn't be swearing at him.. she should be communicating in a better way.. ABORTION... REALLY?? Wow she should be single.. if she liked the idea of a challenge to get him while he is sleeping with two other women then that just means she has low value and doesn't want anything too serious.. please.. if you want a low quality woman then go after girls like Irene.. high quality women wouldn't do that.. I get that the man in this story was being simpish but comon dude.. the girl has got some serious issues...
For real, dude should've given his wife some space, but still been there for her, that's what marriage is about. It takes a next level psycho bitch to just up and go get an abortion because her husband gave her 'too much attention'. Clearly bad communication all around here.
@@marth_6126 If you want space then don't get married. There is no excuse for what she did. He should've filed divorce papers the minute she started acting crazy.
Commitment should never be perceived as a bad thing. It was the woman's mentality that ruined the relationship. Love isn't competition, she obviously was solely sold on the trill of the Chase. She found more fulfillment in journey instead of the achieved destination.
Those orbiters will only end up being in a friendzone women love those orbiters only to seek validation.and the chad who is diggin her guts out is the one who is distant and unemotional to her.
@@bravemotivation naaah, only the chad in the mind. Didn´t you see that the man who was repsosnsible for her killing even her own baby... was a CHAD?!?!? He is more handsome than most men but was only a 4 in sexual market value.
Usually that's low quality women that do that, high quality women don't use dating apps, same with high quality men, they go out and hunt, not ogle and swipe
I HAVE GIVEN SPACE TO A WOMAN I REALLY MISS HER ...MY GUT FEELING SAYS SHE DO MISS ME BUT SHE IS NOT TALKING TO ME BCOZ SHE IS IN FINANCIAL TROUBLE BCOZ OF COVID 19 .........I DONT KNOW HOW OUR CHEMISTRY WILL BE ..........BUT I PRAY EVERYDAY TO GOD TO MAKE HER AND HER FAMILY HAPPY AND BLESS FOREVER.
Attention w h o r e s are only seeking validation. They aren't usually interested in you in a romantic sense. Attention is their fuel just like oxygen to breathe.
@@paintendo2713 I HAVE GIVEN SPACE TO A WOMAN I REALLY MISS HER ...MY GUT FEELING SAYS SHE DO MISS ME BUT SHE IS NOT TALKING TO ME BCOZ SHE IS IN FINANCIAL TROUBLE BCOZ OF COVID 19 .........I DONT KNOW HOW OUR CHEMISTRY WILL BE ..........BUT I PRAY EVERYDAY TO GOD TO MAKE HER AND HER FAMILY HAPPY AND BLESS FOREVER.
Hey Chris, I like your work. I recently bought and read your book. I wanted to know your input about feminism and how it affects the polarity between masculinity and femininity. Can a relationship ever work if the woman is a hardened feminist?
SO IT'S BETTER NOT TO GET MARRIED! the problem being married is once the girl started to lose attraction and acting bitchy, it's difficult for the man to GIVE SPACE by LEAVING THE HOUSE. Because the two of them are leaving together. What the man is going to do??? tell her wife "ok, i'm going stay at my parents place for a week or 2, i'll comeback until you cool off your bitchy attitude"..
The problem is how society taught us from the young age. It is very contrasting to what they teach and sucks to altering the other path like swallowing the (you know) haha
U have to listen to this guy fellaz! I nearly lost hope i swear, jus purchase his book and follow it step by step and believe me it works like magic !!! And stay strong brothaz ! She will come bacc to you n become even more affectionate than before !
I like what you have said. And it's true, I personally had the experinced the same issues and yes giving a woman her spave is super important. But i do think that people can take this tge wrong way, when a woman is pregnant, there are changes to her body. And her attitude changes because of what she's going through physically and mentally. So as the time for pregnancy increases their attitude tends to change. The way this was presented was weird because it feels like you are expecting the woman to remain the same during her pregnancy but not expressing that the mental and attitude changes could have been caused by pregnancy.
It's already one month since my girlfriend pulled away from me. We were texting sometimes after this, but now she didn't respond to me 4 days. During our texting I was cold, I mirrored her and follwed every move you said by building attraction. By the way she is from China, and I am from Europe. Now 4 days passed and she hasn't written any message yet. I'm doing everything what you said, but now we have 0% contact
We broke up and we live together as of now she’s going through something right now , she recently lost a high school friend and she was recently pregnant and she lost the baby should I be there for her ? Or give her space and pull away ?
ben lost a woman that had an abortion just because she might have lost attraction, which means that there were no bases in the first place to have a child together. Also, she values her child nothing more than a puppet she can get rid of, to make a point or to express her feelings. She had very likely psychopath traits. Ben is very lucky. (no , i am not against abortion)
Getting a baby before the first "I love you but I´m not in love with you"-phase? Wow, good luck with that... Ben actually did the right thing to focus on his wife and unborn child in that situation. But their relationship wasn´t ready for it.
Stick to your path and purpose. Do not make the woman the center of your universe. 💯
Exactly
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Somebody read "the rational male"
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@The Shocker For me, its the practicing having kids without actually following through that's been the clincher.
Attraction grows in SPACE
NOT in close proximity
-Chris Canwell, MANY years ago
Haha true
What do the old timers say. Familiarity breeds contempt... Absence makes the heart grow fonder.. There's nothing new under the sun. It's always been this way..
My Dad doesn’t even treat my Mom like this. I am fortunate to have a Dad that focuses on his mission and purpose to keep the marriage alive. My Dad even taught me this. Attraction grows in space. He told me to never be a pest.
Hi American Lefty I need advice about getting women into emotional and rollercoaster with us
Yesterday I was nearby my ex gf gym ...I pop in and take a look if she is there.....she saw me and unhappy saying I dont trust her that she is there for exercises and felt I was there to check if she with man in the gym..
She said she feeling stress if I dont trust her.. I told her if this goin to be our 3rd breakup ..I will not look back again and if me as The Man always listen to her ..I wouldn't like I am bound to her rules ... such as meeting her once a week for sex because she feel stress meeting me 4 times a week previously in our 7 years relationship it was only natural we text everyday but now she want to change the dynamics to what she want
Yesterday morning she text me to cancel our plan to go out
I didnt like it and I didnt reply her
She text me in the night that she Miss me..I didnt reply
She text me Honey Good Nite I didnt reply
She text me Good Morning..I replied ...
I think she is upset I didnt reply her last nite...
I will meeting her tonite ...
What should I do ..
Because last week she told me she broke up with me because I focus too much on her...she wanted me to focus on my job and told me she can text me but I cant text her ...she even told me reply her immediately...
I dont want another argument which cause our 2nd breakup...
So I let her say whatever she want...
If I dont reply or reply late is this going to make her love me more ?
It was a good get back together we went to eat and happy hour but now she want to only meet her once a week and I Ban from going to her gym or near her house ...
I think I will Not Care anymore on our 7 years relationship if she dont want me to grow the love ..
If I walk away I am depressed...and if I take her rule I am depressed I am not Man enough
He went from being an Alpha male to a needy doormat and it completely turned her off. Nice guys really do finish last.
Good guys finish first, Pussys finish last lool 😂 🤣
Seeing multiple women doesn't make you alpha, it's how you treat yourself and how the women see you, is what makes an alpha
Im a sigma male idgf about anything myself matter most....
Story of my life
Any man that validates himself or his value through how females see him....finishes last.
Space is good in relationship.
The moment you give all you're time and emotion in women they get bored
When women said I need a space run run run that's mean she is getting a big sauce on the side.....
@@lestercampos46 it's simple man focus on his dream, goals ambition , freedom and project .. and you're women gonna focus on you
@@humbleb2333 mean to keep a women you need to do all this thing....
@@lestercampos46 you do this not for the women but for yourself. And women gonna find you interesting Ang mistery
It's sad how many men have gone through this same experience. As soon as you give her everything she says she wants she pulls away.
@@muskeldeutsch4769its going to get even worse
Thanks for the heads up. I'll make sure I give my woman nothing. Fuck all not even a Valentines Day Card.
Said it before, will say it again. "INDIFFERENCE" is the key!
100%. That’s what it is all about.
Indifference mixed with some other things surely. If you just don't care at all then that won't work, has to be some seduction
Diamond Solid Statement✍🏽👁👃🏽👁
This is extremely important to understand female nature and a man must remain on his purpose and provide space even in a committed relationship in order to gain and continue attraction as well as respect
Never understood that. I always provide space and give myself purpose when ever am not in a committed relationship. But when ever am in a commitment relationship I see myself been too relationship focus which is not good for me thanks
Why understand female nature but won't understand male nature..?? std
Relationship focused men will always be unattractive. Focus on your PURPOSE instead, and women will naturally be a by-product of that...!!!
You are correct. It always works like that.
@@johnmessick9946 Indeed it does, since women are only interested in what you can provide them.
Big facts bro.
Can't blame him for being relationship focused when you're married though really can you 😅
@@mreverybody1150 That's literally everyone tho, don't hate that aspect of people learn to use and control it
It’s 2:00 AM, but what the hell? Nothing beats one of Chris’s videos.
In Europe Germany its 08:00 AM Bro
Its 13:13 in India mate !
3:40 p.m. over here in Mars
Yeah you know that one.
DAMN SAME HERE MATE
My uncle told me growing up that it’s healthier when the woman is more attracted to the man, I understand why now
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only if movies would show it. They show opposite. making most guys weak.
Irene is a metaphor for many women. Irene is clinically insane.
😂😂😂
They ALL are, it's just varying degrees of it
whenever my insecurity sickness strikes again... i always watch these videos again and again.... 💯
These are great lessons!
Watch a man run after and please a woman it soon leads to disrespect and eventually getting dumped.
Then watch a man who is focused on his mission and doesn't let a woman side track him, there is simply no choice but to follow. Men follow your Dreams!
Hey Chris
I did the exact same mistake..a girl in a relationship with someone else left him n came into my arms.. we had great moments together(coz I was not giving her too much attention) she dumped that guy without even a single effort from my side.. then I became needy and insecure and she threatened me to leave.. I begged her not to go and finally she left me.. then I fixed the relationship with one of your technique and thereafter dumped her now she sometimes msg me to come back to her..but I am talking to multiple women of my choice with full confidence ! This Channel is really helping a lot of guys out there!
Ha ha ha. I love this. Way to go.🤣🤣🤣
He turned into a simp for her. Also, he stopped working on his purpose. If he had kept working on his purpose, then that would give her time to miss him. Scarcity creates value.
He might be simping for the baby and not her 🤔🤔
They didn't mention his job whatsoever. Just that he was getting food for her while she was preggers. Then she got a secret, super late term abortion after all that waiting on her and buying a family home lmao. Most retarded story I've ever heard of.
Very true never let a women move you off center they will come around
There are allot of dating coaches and pick up artists out there, however this guy is different, this isn't dating advice, this is life advice, no tricks or manipulations just truths. Thank you for the upload.
This is spot on. I lived it first hand except she had the kid and didn't abort. Make friends, do things you love and never make her the center of your universe. No matter how much you think she loves you.
I’m glad that she didn’t abort! : )
You can’t make a woman happy so make yourself happy, the world is yours 🌎
These female animations always cracks me. 😂😂😂
WOW, Irene is Savage AF...Ben is better off without that bird.
@Southwestern comfort dayum! and yeah ive met an irene
Lmao fr
😂😂😂😂
I mean all her decisions are based on emotions and women’s emotions fluctuate
Can’t imagine taking a bad boy and releasing him
I mean it will be even harder for her to have a marriage and a baby down the line with a previous bad boy
Irene becomes irate 🤣
Lmao... I'm glad to know I wasn't the only one who caught that line
Irene means "peace" in Greek lol
To further add to Chris great content, sometimes when a woman needs space or gets distance, it has nothing to do with you. Personal issues may cause some women to withdraw their emotional involvement with you.
True, but how you react to her pulling away has everything to do with you.
@@wolfman231 same with life… It’s not what happens to you, it’s how you react. Being reactional can fuck a lot of things up.
You said it all !
I could so relate! always made this mistake in the past. This is the most underrated channel in youtube. Thanks Chris.
I’ve had this exact thing happen in my last 3 relationships. Start off as a playboy seeing multiple women. They give me their absolute best, catch feelings with one and eventually become exclusive. Once she knows she’s my only sexual option the treatment drops off drastically. Eventually we grow to resent one another and breakup. It’s one of the greatest disappointments in life that women don’t want to stay in the honeymoon stage forever like we do
What most guys fail to understand is that what a woman NEEDS, is a man who DOESN’T need her.
New girl I am seeing told me this (in her own words) yesterday. She said the thing she loves most about me is that I am my own man. No matter what she says or does, I stand my ground, and my position doesn’t change.
I.e. as much as I like her, she KNOWS that I don’t need her, and this makes her want to be around me even more.
Yes, update
@@unlimitedhorizon2459 update he became needy and overly emotional towards shawty
I laughed when Irene eagerly got on all fours and Ben went in head first
😂
That's what Jesus would do.
This is p*rn
Thought he was giving her an oil change
Tounguing that as$hole
For women familiarity breeds contempt just 1000x stronger when married
I'm so thankful for the fact that men can now learn this from the internet. My date has recently pulled away from me after everything going very well between us. That came as a shocker to me. I would be lost and make all the typical mistakes if I hadn't been able to learn this. Thank you!
Irene belongs to the streets 🤣👌🏽
My mind blew at the Abortion part
seriously .....WTF?
Ditto.
Savage!!
It's normal nowadays. They're treating babies worse than dogs. Hard truth. 😥
Watch "Revolutionary Road" the movie.
This is going on right now with me. My GF is acting like her....before she told me I did not give enough attention...now I gave too much attention. She told me she needed space and I AM GOING BACK TO THE OLD ME! Back to the playboy she fell for and trying to outdo other women for my attention.
I am the prize she must win.
i can assure that it happens to me right now,last year she complained that i 'm neglecting her and i did not even noticed that as i was acting naturally then i gave a try to be more of a boyfriend material and now i am on NC (1 week+) because she needs space and she doesnt know if our relationship is going to work.
Same thing happened to me. She complained I wasn’t texting her enough. She said she needed to re-think the relationship. The penny didn’t drop for me at this point though because I felt so comfortable with her and knew I wasn’t chasing. I’d been pretty quiet with her and decided I’d been too quiet, so next few days I sent a few texts saying I was giving her space as she’d asked and was letting her know she was in my thoughts. No response. A week later after still hearing nothing I was getting p’off as nothing had actually happened between us it was ridiculous, so rang her. No answer.
It was at this point I thought oh sh*t what am I doing. I didn’t even realise I was chasing her. Went NC. 10 days later receive text saying I was dumped. A few more texts exchanged by us both. Didn’t beg, said I didn’t agree with it but accepted her decision and told her to get in touch if she changes her mind.
That was almost two months ago now and all is quiet.
Women are bloody nuts!
Me: God I want to know everything about woman.
God: contact Chris
I have to admit Chris you put a lot of work into this videos to us guys you don't know out there I think I speak for everyone when I say thanks keep on doing what you're doing we appreciate it 🤞👌
Gave my girl 3 weeks of space. She's been on me like never before!
This woman is wounded and in her masculine energy...Ben is an amazing Man
Yet we get punished for being amazing men and not jerks??
Nas album Is out ya'll its called "king's Disease"... it's the best album out right now🔥🔥🔥🔥👑
Irene is dumb for killing the innocent baby!
I once waved at Nas and he waved back...True story!
Irene is just dumb- period
@@kingdavid772 Lol where? I'm not talking about lil Nas I'm talking about the real Nas
@@walkstall8390 just dumb bro. She will remember this relationship when karma hits her hard.
AdamAndEve AAE there’s a lil Nas?
Moral of the story, just keep being a player.
I’m happy that Irene left 😂
This channel has changed my life...for the better.
Imagine you're a passenger on a large ship. Knowing nothing about seafaring but being on good terms with the Captain, you ask him if he can steer the ship in that direction because it looks interesting over there.
The weather is good and you're making good time, so he says yes, which makes you happy. You then see something else interesting, and so he takes you over in that direction. Yet again, you see something else, and to your surprise, he starts steering the ship in that direction too. What fun this is. You sort of feel like a Captain yourself! He even lets you take the wheel for a little while.
But after some time, the waters start getting choppy and the skies begin to darken. Is this really a good idea? The Captain is standing back and says it should be fine, even though you now detect a hint of nervousness in his voice as the wind starts picking up. Before you know it, the wind is howling and the ship is lurching from side to side. You're not sure if you like this anymore, and you'd rather not be here, if only you knew where 'here' was.
You look around for the Captain, expecting that he will steer you away from the storm, only to realise you are the one holding the ship's wheel and have been for the last 4 hours. The waves are now crashing over the bough and flooding the bridge. Then, through the rain and mist, you realise you are rapidly approaching a rocky coastline. You spin the wheel as fast as you can, but the waves and the currents are too strong. How did you get here? Where is the Captain?
You turn around and scream out for assistance, only to find the Captain standing with his back against the wall screaming back at you! "It's your fault", he says, "you wanted this, you took the wheel, you got us here!" He runs around the bridge frantically, looking for a solution, but is clearly unequipped to deal with the situation.
Only then do you look at him and realise he's not a Captain at all. He's just some guy in a uniform who doesn't actually know what he's doing and gave away control of his own ship to some random passenger. You know that your only chance of survival is to jump in a life raft and abandon ship before it hits the rocks. Fuck this Captain, fuck his boat, you're outa there.
The last thing you see is the man in the uniform crying out into the wind at you. Look what you did to me, look what you did to my boat, and now you're just gonna abandon it all, he says.
Guys - women are survivors first and foremost. Never forget that.
Great channel and advice. I’ve just bought your book, can’t wait to read it! Thanks for the life changing advice!
Chris, I read Atomic attraction twice already. Amazing book buddy. I recommend each and every1. Thank you Chris!
Vids like this is the reason why I’m red pilled
Your book is top 5 on dealing with women and videos are stellar! I can't wait for the next book.
This is why it's extremely important to unlearn what you've learned and apply these basic but primal tactics. If you're not programming yourself, the system will program you. And the system, by default, is designed to make men weak, become anti-family. It's a spiritual battle and you have to be cognizant.
So although women say they want this this and this. Ignore that nonsense. (Logically she may say what she "should" want, but we all know that they want whats illogical.) If she didn't like who you were at first she would have NEVER given you a chance in the first place. So you must stay true to yourself and stay you no matter what she says.
Yep couldn't have said it better. Same with men, as men we "should" want to remain loyal but if a hotter younger woman is making herself available, logic goes out the window and we pursue for sex, its illogical but its just how we are programmed.
@@redman6790 I agree 💯 %
OKAY.. Both of them are at fault.. I do not understand where and how you are coming up with these stories.. she shouldn't be swearing at him.. she should be communicating in a better way.. ABORTION... REALLY?? Wow she should be single.. if she liked the idea of a challenge to get him while he is sleeping with two other women then that just means she has low value and doesn't want anything too serious.. please.. if you want a low quality woman then go after girls like Irene.. high quality women wouldn't do that.. I get that the man in this story was being simpish but comon dude.. the girl has got some serious issues...
Exactly this is thethought i was actually thinking about ...teach men to respect themselves...women come afterwards
For real, dude should've given his wife some space, but still been there for her, that's what marriage is about. It takes a next level psycho bitch to just up and go get an abortion because her husband gave her 'too much attention'. Clearly bad communication all around here.
Indeed she's a horrible person
this channel is blue pilled
@@marth_6126 If you want space then don't get married. There is no excuse for what she did. He should've filed divorce papers the minute she started acting crazy.
I went no contact for 4 months and she texted me back lol.
Hurray!
Commitment should never be perceived as a bad thing. It was the woman's mentality that ruined the relationship. Love isn't competition, she obviously was solely sold on the trill of the Chase. She found more fulfillment in journey instead of the achieved destination.
I love that cat in the background manically eating his kibbles
The same happened to me when i fall in love with a girl, such a perfect video. Thank you
Excellent content as usual. Can’t stop watching these animated videos.
Treat her like actress...she will treat you like a fan !!
Wat? It’s Celebrity you fool
@@easyxyg in India we all call actress you bloody bugger
Anup kumar 🤣🤣 ok my bad man
@@easyxyg okay buddy 😂😊😊
No, its treat her like she hot and she will treat u like a fan
By far, your best video. This one is all I need to remind myself not to simp over women.
This Channel Is GOLD !
LOVE the female animation. Such a great example of the female strop.
Love these videos! I'm currently reading your book! Love it, and thank you.
Great video my man😎🙂 This will really help me😁
This video should be mandatory watching for men
Now a days if we are giving space in that space she is used to see some beta orbitors because of these dating Apps..
Those orbiters will only end up being in a friendzone women love those orbiters only to seek validation.and the chad who is diggin her guts out is the one who is distant and unemotional to her.
@@bravemotivation naaah, only the chad in the mind. Didn´t you see that the man who was repsosnsible for her killing even her own baby... was a CHAD?!?!? He is more handsome than most men but was only a 4 in sexual market value.
Usually that's low quality women that do that, high quality women don't use dating apps, same with high quality men, they go out and hunt, not ogle and swipe
Give them space and they find another dude in 57 minutes.
Yes, and she will still come back to you...🤣🤣🤣
They always come back though because you were the one who stood out because you had the balls to walk away.
If your afraid a woman to be taken by other guy then you are fucked up
@@KeenApolloexactly!
They always talk to other dudes anyways. Remember, you aren't the first, you aren't the last and you aren't the only one
You have changed my life realistically
I HAVE GIVEN SPACE TO A WOMAN I REALLY MISS HER ...MY GUT FEELING SAYS SHE DO MISS ME BUT SHE IS NOT TALKING TO ME BCOZ SHE IS IN FINANCIAL TROUBLE BCOZ OF COVID 19 .........I DONT KNOW HOW OUR CHEMISTRY WILL BE ..........BUT I PRAY EVERYDAY TO GOD TO MAKE HER AND HER FAMILY HAPPY AND BLESS FOREVER.
Are caps necessary? Are you yelling at someone?
@@K9amilo90 no im not yelling ......lol
I gave the last two girls space and they were both offended.
Narcissistic and attention seeking girls. Keep them in background, find someone else for date.
@@rrrrrrraaaa9 they are so many... ;(
Jannie Schlüter spin the plates. If many then why worry about who get offended?
@@rrrrrrraaaa9 how do you come to the idea that I was worried?
Attention w h o r e s are only seeking validation. They aren't usually interested in you in a romantic sense. Attention is their fuel just like oxygen to breathe.
His book 'Atomic Attraction' is a gem! I used to be simping, but now I am ready to go pimping..sending love from India.
Hahahaha
@Wilfrid Joseph He might just end up behind bars since he's from india....
Bumbada be like "Maa ami simping korini"
@@mreverybody1150 why so?
Damn this story is so relative to me besides the marriage part but man it felt like I was in a marriage.
So keep juggling multiple broads
Imagine how much more one could accomplish if that juggling energy was used elsewhere...
This is my story 😂 but am 28 !
This WAS my story back when I was 20 years old.
This is I usually do with my crush giving space and time being a mystery
Did you get her?
Yeah and she's still attracted to me since November 2019
How much space do you give?
@@paintendo2713 I HAVE GIVEN SPACE TO A WOMAN I REALLY MISS HER ...MY GUT FEELING SAYS SHE DO MISS ME BUT SHE IS NOT TALKING TO ME BCOZ SHE IS IN FINANCIAL TROUBLE BCOZ OF COVID 19 .........I DONT KNOW HOW OUR CHEMISTRY WILL BE ..........BUT I PRAY EVERYDAY TO GOD TO MAKE HER AND HER FAMILY HAPPY AND BLESS FOREVER.
@@immortalaktunes7702 well just gave her space. After the financial problem subside talk to her
Reminds me of will and jada😂….Will went from fresh prince to fresh simp😐
Hey Chris, I like your work. I recently bought and read your book. I wanted to know your input about feminism and how it affects the polarity between masculinity and femininity. Can a relationship ever work if the woman is a hardened feminist?
SO IT'S BETTER NOT TO GET MARRIED! the problem being married is once the girl started to lose attraction and acting bitchy, it's difficult for the man to GIVE SPACE by LEAVING THE HOUSE. Because the two of them are leaving together.
What the man is going to do??? tell her wife "ok, i'm going stay at my parents place for a week or 2, i'll comeback until you cool off your bitchy attitude"..
The moment you become needy it’s not if it’s when your gone
All women can't be like this. I think irene has some issues developed in her earlier life. But definitely space is important.
Chris usually makes it an extreme case to sell the point he's making
@@Hhhh22222-w I see. I just hope it's not giving men the wrong idea of women. Probably is for some.
All women are. Except lesbians which don't want to date you
This simple ass video is GOLD
You are truly right Sir. I have done the same mistake.
The world is so fucked up that..finding true love is rare
The problem is how society taught us from the young age. It is very contrasting to what they teach and sucks to altering the other path like swallowing the (you know) haha
That's why you don't ever move in with a woman. And you'll be mysterious too
U have to listen to this guy fellaz! I nearly lost hope i swear, jus purchase his book and follow it step by step and believe me it works like magic !!! And stay strong brothaz ! She will come bacc to you n become even more affectionate than before !
I like what you have said. And it's true, I personally had the experinced the same issues and yes giving a woman her spave is super important. But i do think that people can take this tge wrong way, when a woman is pregnant, there are changes to her body. And her attitude changes because of what she's going through physically and mentally. So as the time for pregnancy increases their attitude tends to change. The way this was presented was weird because it feels like you are expecting the woman to remain the same during her pregnancy but not expressing that the mental and attitude changes could have been caused by pregnancy.
Have several women by your side to fill up the void when she's demanded for that space.
Thank you bro for your useful product!
It's already one month since my girlfriend pulled away from me. We were texting sometimes after this, but now she didn't respond to me 4 days. During our texting I was cold, I mirrored her and follwed every move you said by building attraction. By the way she is from China, and I am from Europe. Now 4 days passed and she hasn't written any message yet. I'm doing everything what you said, but now we have 0% contact
Bro, dont chase. If she wants you she will pursue you!..
A great video as usual!
old video. why are are reuploading ?
Learning new things and it's fun to watch those animated stories, please carry on with your animated videos
Thanks 4 the tip man
Was jst wondering how to get rid of some girl for a while now
Cat is the king observer
you have helped me a lot to deal with her now 😛. thankx bro ..you are superb
Is crazy how it works, I’m cold with women now and I get what I want, when I was nice in my early 20s it was a struggle
I wait for your video all day all night.
Bought your book and read it within one day , greetings from germany
Do you need your ex back
There's a better way to get your ex back to you now I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster
@@peggydickson4431 no
We broke up and we live together as of now she’s going through something right now , she recently lost a high school friend and she was recently pregnant and she lost the baby should I be there for her ? Or give her space and pull away ?
Woman dose always change after a while
ben lost a woman that had an abortion just because she might have lost attraction, which means that there were no bases in the first place to have a child together. Also, she values her child nothing more than a puppet she can get rid of, to make a point or to express her feelings. She had very likely psychopath traits. Ben is very lucky. (no , i am not against abortion)
You're right.
She's likely a psychopath and God just saved Ben from some unforseen contingencies
Getting a baby before the first "I love you but I´m not in love with you"-phase? Wow, good luck with that... Ben actually did the right thing to focus on his wife and unborn child in that situation. But their relationship wasn´t ready for it.
He didn't do everything right. When Irene told him she needed space, he should have seen it as a HUGE red flag.
A rather brutal way of saying "I need space" (in my belly)
Can u make more videos a week please, thanks