Ask Shallon: How To Build Confidence & Self Esteem

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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2024
  • Never had a boyfriend? Want to be popular and make friends? Can't get over an ex or breakup? The key: CONFIDENCE! Here's how to boost your self esteem!
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Комментарии • 28

  • @lli85
    @lli85 9 лет назад +92

    You're so amazing to keep putting out videos like this, it's like hearing the secrets of life from a cultured, wiser, sassier older sister I never had. I love it and your advice is always spot on without failing to at least crack a smile on my face every time. Thank you!

  • @booksboardsbich
    @booksboardsbich 6 лет назад +29

    “It made me into a man.” 😂 love her!

  • @Erika_-ze5ml
    @Erika_-ze5ml 6 лет назад +15

    There's a club at my school that is specifically just for community service. They volunteer at soup kitchens, the rake leaves at the Senior center, things like that. I just joined that club the other day after watching this video and I'm doing my first volunteering Sunday. Thank you Shallon!

  • @eveekitty4185
    @eveekitty4185 9 лет назад +40

    This helped me so much. I was having so much trouble with my self esteem and confidence, but this really made me get back on the right track. Thanks.

  • @ajaypalsingh4313
    @ajaypalsingh4313 5 лет назад +5

    I am more than my past. I have value and Worth.

  • @madisonelizabeth4956
    @madisonelizabeth4956 9 лет назад +6

    Thanks shallon!! This is perfect timing, my ex told me yesterday that I have low self esteem so yeah. Thank you!!

  • @michelleingvaldsen7105
    @michelleingvaldsen7105 9 лет назад +4

    I love your videos so much! You deserve way more followers. Thank you so much for you advices, they really help! :)

  • @suzilein11
    @suzilein11 9 лет назад +2

    This is excellent, very intelligent advice, it recently helped me get through a crisis, thank you very much & hi from Germany!

  • @danamuller5016
    @danamuller5016 4 года назад +1

    This really opened my eyes. I Love being by The beach. I Need to do more of What I want.

  • @jamaican0721
    @jamaican0721 4 года назад +1

    Omg all I could think of was roller blading at the beach 😩🤣

  • @mjanedavis
    @mjanedavis 8 лет назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this video, yah you're right I need to find my passion. Is not really my looks are my problem, I really lack of confident and self-esteem and I really need to boost it. I hope, I can really do it. Thank you, your video is really helpful. Xoxo

  • @michellegiorgi106
    @michellegiorgi106 9 лет назад

    Shallon, you are very deep and thoughtful.. I love your philosophy of finding your passion and helping others. For myself, that means traveling around the world specifically to less fortunate areas and helping families and children out so that they are provided with necessities. My passion is for the world and its beings. thank you for your perspective :)

  • @Katspearl
    @Katspearl 7 лет назад +4

    You're really such an interesting person. I feel like you'd be an awesome person to have around, so your commercial works! I'm going to send this to my friend.

  • @PARISTheSpanishSinger
    @PARISTheSpanishSinger 9 лет назад +2

    I love you and your videos!! If only you were at my future school,,, You are an awesome role model girl!! I love you!!! please keep making videos!!

  • @karolenarubio3319
    @karolenarubio3319 8 лет назад

    So much has happened and I'm a good person. I'm trusting of my parents. I get great grades. As a freshman, I don't expect so much to happen to me. I don't know what to do. I mean my nana and grandpa helped me when I was a little kid. Took care of me. And now their gone and no one is there to say "hey, I love you, and I am here for you to listen." No one. Not my friends because nana died last year in 8th grade and I was so upset. I took it out on my friends, was in a bad place, very bad. Then they went to a teacher and I had to talk to a crisis counselor. Let me say my parents did not know. Because they never approve of counseling or therapy. They say "stop acting like your sad and depressed your trying to make people feel bad for you". And attention. Like my nana barely passed, my dad is a drunk, an my stepmom is so rude to me. Like my mom and me don't get a long she's on drugs and selling. They never know what's been happening. They never know what's actually going on.

  • @raganmoody3480
    @raganmoody3480 9 лет назад

    indoor sky-diving might be fun and it would boost my confidence because its a rush :3 and im confident when it comes to talking to my friends crushes

  • @cocokich
    @cocokich 6 лет назад

    I love your videos so much! Thank you for sharing your personal stories 💕

  • @TheRockangel1995
    @TheRockangel1995 6 лет назад

    I laughed out loud when she said “My product is shitty”

  • @thehungrycatherpilla6427
    @thehungrycatherpilla6427 5 лет назад

    'Buy my product, it's shitty!' 😂😂

  • @KathleenTheodora
    @KathleenTheodora 9 лет назад

    Thanks for the video shallon!! :)

  • @verysmarrname
    @verysmarrname 5 лет назад

    I love this!

  • @avianabennett5925
    @avianabennett5925 9 лет назад +1

    Hi shallon, I like this boy and he said he likes me to but im new to the school and he think right now we should be friends because he also likes this other girl he has known for a while and she likes him to I don't want them to date because I like him, what should I do? Shallon Lester

  • @booksnstuff8280
    @booksnstuff8280 9 лет назад

    I am more of a class clown I am a guy and I want to move on from being a class clown but it is hard because I get into trouble a lot and I don't want people to look at me as a trouble make and people will say "hey Jordan piss off this teacher" or something that will get me into trouble and it is hard not to when you have your friends egging you on do you have any tips

  • @emeraldpeony
    @emeraldpeony 9 лет назад

    How to speak to a guy on a blind, double date? I'm meeting this guy for the first time in a couple of days, because he's my best friend's boyfriend's best friend. And they wanna hook us up. How do I make my first impression a good one?

  • @RainySunday26
    @RainySunday26 9 лет назад

    Good video.

  • @sadiehampton8113
    @sadiehampton8113 9 лет назад

    I love you!