How to be popular : Bring a lot of gum to school and ask the popular kid if she wants gum :) Then later on y’all will start talking a become friends Your welcome.
That’s a good technique. You have to find a way to interact with them, and something as small and sweet as offering gum is a great way to build a connection. Although if you do it to eagerly, it can be seen as desperate to please. Be wise :)
Mostly everyone that's popular at my school is really basic and just like a clone. I always assumed people didn't want to be popular cuz of this reason
In the past, I used to want to be part of the popular group so badly. But then when I went into the popular group a few years back, I found out I had almost nothing in common with a lot of them, and they couldn't relate to me or the things I was saying. So in my opinion, I'd much rather have a few friends that I can feel like I can talk to all day then a whole circle of people who I literally just smile and wave at cause that's all I can do to them
I don’t agree with what you said about not accepting a friend back when they ditch you for their boyfriend. I don’t have many girl friends- just 3 close ones and we have always had an understanding that if someone gets a new boyfriend there gonna go off the map for a while. It’s normal when you’re getting to know a new boyfriend, you can be obsessed when you fall in love first, so you shouldn’t blame anyone for it. X
I agree. My friend got married and is basically stuck with a maniac husband who tries to isolate her from everyone. Initially I was upset that she ditched me but it wasn't like that. My friend was literally going through difficult situation and now she does connect to me and we hangout and basically our friendship only got stronger and we appreciate each other more.
@@chanellover2143Shallon is so good at pretending to live the best life but if you see, there are no real bonds in her life aside from her mother. Friends and boyfriends come and go.
this is true and helpful lol your personality is so funny and bubbly. though i do recommend to not be so manipulative and strategic with everything.... friendships should happen organically. otherwise youll attract people who are also strategically placing you in their lives. like attracts life. life is not a game, we're dealing with real lives. drama free and peaceful life is wealth.
lol good thing I never gave af about popularity, I have always been kind of doing my own thing, and kind of a loner I guess. Never really cared about belonging to a group or being friends with specific people. Still, always find interesting why would people want to be "popular" and what would be your advice to achieve it. To be honest, charisma, personality and witty is something you cant really fake. Being beautiful is something anyone can achieve imo, but a talent or a gift is something that you are born with.
When I was in high school, I don't think I even understood who was popular. There were certain people more geared towards sports/cheerleading and then there were the smart people in my accelerated classes. While I was going through high school, I thought maybe the cheerleaders were popular. And sure they were pretty and nice, but later on, I realized that the smart, motivated people were popular, and I should have made friends with them.
What happened for me, basically in 8th grade I was really popular then in 9th grade a bunch of new people joined my grade and there was a big group of girls who already knew each other from a previous school and they were considered the popular girls because they were a big group and they knew each other. And when the girls from 8th grade tried to break in they wouldn’t let them, overall I dont think it’s worth it to be popular, some popular girls are really exclusive and they will just talk bad behind ur back.
In high school someone asked me y r u really friends with that unpopular girl. That was the reason. And d popular high school girls are still there hating, loving changing faces😂 And I like how real u are about friendships😍
The popular ones in my high school are all arrogant but most importantly, they gossip and talk bad about everyone and they are fake at everything they say and do. It’s not like I can’t be in their group, I just don’t want to. The message is: The most famous ones aren’t the best ones. There’s a difference.
How to be popular :
Bring a lot of gum to school and ask the popular kid if she wants gum :)
Then later on y’all will start talking a become friends
Your welcome.
That’s a good technique. You have to find a way to interact with them, and something as small and sweet as offering gum is a great way to build a connection. Although if you do it to eagerly, it can be seen as desperate to please. Be wise :)
So true lol
This helped more than the video 😂
People cant afford gum or what?
Shallon I’m loving the detailed advice and the longer videos
Mostly everyone that's popular at my school is really basic and just like a clone. I always assumed people didn't want to be popular cuz of this reason
In the past, I used to want to be part of the popular group so badly. But then when I went into the popular group a few years back, I found out I had almost nothing in common with a lot of them, and they couldn't relate to me or the things I was saying. So in my opinion, I'd much rather have a few friends that I can feel like I can talk to all day then a whole circle of people who I literally just smile and wave at cause that's all I can do to them
I don’t agree with what you said about not accepting a friend back when they ditch you for their boyfriend. I don’t have many girl friends- just 3 close ones and we have always had an understanding that if someone gets a new boyfriend there gonna go off the map for a while. It’s normal when you’re getting to know a new boyfriend, you can be obsessed when you fall in love first, so you shouldn’t blame anyone for it. X
She is allowed to have standards that are different ( and higher ) than yours ❤
I agree. My friend got married and is basically stuck with a maniac husband who tries to isolate her from everyone. Initially I was upset that she ditched me but it wasn't like that. My friend was literally going through difficult situation and now she does connect to me and we hangout and basically our friendship only got stronger and we appreciate each other more.
@@chanellover2143Shallon is so good at pretending to live the best life but if you see, there are no real bonds in her life aside from her mother. Friends and boyfriends come and go.
this is true and helpful lol your personality is so funny and bubbly. though i do recommend to not be so manipulative and strategic with everything.... friendships should happen organically. otherwise youll attract people who are also strategically placing you in their lives. like attracts life. life is not a game, we're dealing with real lives. drama free and peaceful life is wealth.
“Assess your friends”
I don’t have any lmfao
lol good thing I never gave af about popularity, I have always been kind of doing my own thing, and kind of a loner I guess. Never really cared about belonging to a group or being friends with specific people. Still, always find interesting why would people want to be "popular" and what would be your advice to achieve it. To be honest, charisma, personality and witty is something you cant really fake. Being beautiful is something anyone can achieve imo, but a talent or a gift is something that you are born with.
When I was in high school, I don't think I even understood who was popular. There were certain people more geared towards sports/cheerleading and then there were the smart people in my accelerated classes. While I was going through high school, I thought maybe the cheerleaders were popular. And sure they were pretty and nice, but later on, I realized that the smart, motivated people were popular, and I should have made friends with them.
What happened for me, basically in 8th grade I was really popular then in 9th grade a bunch of new people joined my grade and there was a big group of girls who already knew each other from a previous school and they were considered the popular girls because they were a big group and they knew each other. And when the girls from 8th grade tried to break in they wouldn’t let them, overall I dont think it’s worth it to be popular, some popular girls are really exclusive and they will just talk bad behind ur back.
In high school someone asked me y r u really friends with that unpopular girl. That was the reason. And d popular high school girls are still there hating, loving changing faces😂 And I like how real u are about friendships😍
The popular ones in my high school are all arrogant but most importantly, they gossip and talk bad about everyone and they are fake at everything they say and do. It’s not like I can’t be in their group, I just don’t want to. The message is: The most famous ones aren’t the best ones. There’s a difference.
I don’t even care if I’m popular. I just want to be popular in my group of friends
Being popular is totally overrated. Unique and interesting people are usually not popular. Why be like everyone else trying to fit in?
super true
Honestly everyone that’s popular is rich
i did. worst decision i’ve ever made. don’t do it y’all
Yeah same
I'm in love with you.. my sister from another mother