Kylie doesn’t talk about her former self because she doesn’t want to acknowledge the work she’s had done. She tries to take as much attention possible away from the fact that she has had surgery from head to toe
I can’t wait for one of the Kardashian/Jenner babies to grow up, expose and denounce the family’s lifestyle, then move off the grid and do volunteer work haha
I did a lot of surgery, really a lot. Pretty sure more than Kylie. Also started early, maybe a year or 2 later than she did, at almost 21. Although I can understand what you mean, I never thought about it that way concerning myself. The face I have now is mine and I am very glad and grateful to have it. Don´t want to advertise surgery here though. It is not only rainbows and unicorns. I managed it without very serious complications till now. There are people who weren´t so lucky.
Kylie pretty much stole her dripping lip logo from vladamua and has even done campaigns ripping off the same makeup artist and had to credit her (but didnt pay her) she got popular because she was young and into the instagram trends, she did good by making her own line, however, the quality isnt always the best and i wouldnt call her creative. Her makeup artists/hair stylists/fashion stylists, are creative. Same with Kim, after Kanye started dressing her she levelled up (he still dresses her btw 😂) My POINT is, none of them are creatives. Business savvy (kris) certainly, but they are not artists/creative.
@@LaDimplez91 excuse me? white people don't have culture?!?!? you love to eat pizza, kebab, pasta THATS FROM WHITE CULTURE, eastern europe's folklore and native outfits, from scandinavia there's vikings etc, russia has SO MANY different white cultures some are even mixed/fully asian, come to europe and you'll drown in culture, also white american's ancestors are also from europe, so stfu if you haven't done no research and stop discriminating white history and culture only because our ancestors decades ago discriminated african culture 😐 ALSO many religions and the bible,that so many live by, greek mythology and british royalties etc. I could go on for weeks...
@@Sandra-pg4ls I'm not saying all white don't have any culture but half of them just like some black people don't. White people are getting fake tans and wearing darker foundation, get plastic surgery on their ass, lips, breast and hips. They use botox, hyilaronic acid collagen and any creams trying to look younger and better than what they are. Their hair styles, doing what black people would say and do all the time. Black people do get plastic surgery to but not as much as white people do. They are lighting up their face with foundation and some bleach their skin. Some use creams and get botox but they need shea butter, coconut oil or a moisturizer and collagen.They both try to change their race by saying that they are mixed with both race or another race for whatever reason but it's dumb ass fuck. The mixed people are doing all of this trying to fit in somewhere. They will choose, latin or white but will choose to be black around some race sometimes. There are wiggers and there are blackish both trying not to be what God made them. I blame this all on celebrities, social media and the majority of the confused people that hate themselves and wanting to be anyone but themselves. Bottom line is we all are mixed with something but are too proud or stupid to just be ourselves
Im a nurse and hopefully soon a midwife. I left (droped out) of school in year 10 (I'm Australian, so that translates to my 3rd year at highschool with two to go) I was failing all my subjects and being told I needed to be held back. my biggest reinvention was taking what we call the stats test, getting into uni, getting good grades and then being an RN in a new town in the middle of the Australian outback. 90% of my patients are Aborigonal Australian, and you dont know privilege vs poverty until you live and work here. Best thing I've ever done. If youre lucky you can find a career that lets you give back every single day. Love my job and my life. Best thing I have ever done.
That's awesome girl, glad to hear your level up story. I'm in a second degree rn program too from a 2.1 college average (including retakes of over 20 f credits)
I do agree with Kylie bossing up spreading her wings but she will regret how she did it in the future. Some reason I think she’s very unhappy at least she looks that way. Glow up with taking care of the outside and inside, that includes reading a lot, exercising, etc
Now that you bring it up none of the "Kardashians" seem happy. Just consumed and busy staying relevant. But despite all the travel, beautiful children, having family/eachother there is no JOY. No smiles no real laughter. Just competition and "work".
@@NS-st4lx Angelina has given millions away, adopted children from third world countries and has worked with the U.N for 18 years. That's some serious amount of commitment and effort. ur just a hater
She is a classical case of daddy issues. Her choice of men proves it, her being a harbour for a myriad of children and her charity work scream "I want to feel loved, respected and recognized"
Hey shallon! Maybe make a video on “pick me” girls/ pick me mentality??? This has been going on FOREVER and is something I noticed other people calling out a lot recently - finally lol
a pick me woman is one who tries to distinguish herself from other women with the intent of making herself appear more appealing to other men Just in case I’m not the only one who wasn’t sure what it meant lol
Honestly I wish it had occurred to me as a teenager to have Shallon’s mentality about changing her status in high school. I didn’t even know that was possible- and so my entire experience in high school was me YEARNING and DYING to go to parties and have experiences with guys and whatnot. Even all these years later, I’ve been out of high school for well over a decade, and it’s a time I regret not having made the most of. Because now as a 29 year old I realize I’m hot af and super desirable- especially when I put myself together and get the right look going on. And I had that in me the whole time, I just didn’t know. No matter how much fun you have out of high school, finding ways of being wild and having adventures within the confines of being a teenager and parents and all that- that’s honestly one of the most exciting times of life, and I will always miss not getting to experience enough of that raw, wild energy of youth, before we had it all figured out and everything really was new and “experimentation.”
I’m a junior in high school and so far my whole experience has been completely boring because of my strict parents. I wish i could do more stuff like go out with my friends go to parties but they just won’t let me
Im saving money to get out of this narcissistic relationship, I'm celebrating 5 years Methfree today and he won,I'm in tears ,alone, and hoping he stays away
Interestingly, even make up lines of Kylie and Rihanna are very telling. IMO Kylie mostly puts out basic and boring makeup and her brand lacks cohesion, from what I know you can’t even return products you buy on her website, which is a very unusual practice in the US (she doesn’t want to give back even in this situation). Rihanna, on the other hand, freaking revolutionized the beauty industry with her inclusive shade-ranges. I honestly love her products and not just because it’s Rihanna (tbh I didn’t know much about her before fenty beauty, not my preference in music). I think, her brand will continue to do very well in the future.
Omg! I couldnt agree more about Kylie not giving back. Her recent launches she went on extravagant holidays for "promotion" and it would have been a great opportunity to give back to her fans and have a kylie skin boutique or whatever. I notice Kylie NEVER speaks out about social issues, because they might hurt her deal$$$.
@@tanyaleynov5413 😂 and rich and spoiled. Just like Kendall when she did that travesty of a pepsi commercial making light of protests that happened just months before where people were seriously injured by police smh.. And instead of taking responsibility, she cries and blames pepsi.
LMAO I’m pretty sure that whole family knows nothing about social issues. Idk if you’ve seen this but there’s an episode on khloe’s cocktail show where they talk about white privilege and the only one who actually answered was a RUclipsr cause the rest didn’t know shit.
I love how you keep mentioning Rihanna as the total “warm blooded animal” because Rihanna also has charities that she an active member of, as well as humanitarian projects where she goes over seas for and that does build character. I bet it makes her feel good to know she makes a difference in someone else’s life and not just her own. ❤️
This one of my favorite videos you've done. Everything you've discussed made so much sense and clicked. Why wouldn't any of them, especially Kylie and Kendall, who are at the prime age of being in college, give back to struggling students? Help pay for people's tuitions, or do something that gives back to the young folks, who happen to be the majority of their audience. Esteemable things... I love that idea.
I LOVE when you spoke about society pressuring us to monotize our hobbies!!! Sometimes it nice to do things bc you love it not bc it can bring you money or recognition.
Madonna did Reinvent Herself about 7 different times from 1985 to 2008 and ALL of these Reinventions were Very Successful. I Love Madonna but the last 7 years she is not doing well. I think she is Tarnishing her Career becuase she is STILL trying to be in the Spotlight and it is Really Back-Firing on her Bigtime! So many of the young people today do not like her and think she is Wierd. So many of her former fans have also jumped ship within the last 5 years. She need to Stop trying to be In the Spotlight. She is tarnishing her Career which is Sad to see becuase She has had one of the Biggest Careers EVER in the Music Industry.
StormyWeather That’s the thing tho. She doesn’t give a fuck what people say or think about her despite how she dresses and acts. I lowkey wanna be like that. Not caring what people have to say and doing my thing. She’s always been like that.
@@stormyweather9570 I think she is Trying Too Hard to Be in the Spotlight when its clearly Not Working. She has been doing this for the last 6 years and it's embarrassing. She needs to Stop.
If she ever call someone unattractive, she need to be reminded a surgeon did it NOT GOD himself! Then when caught in her lies play the insecurity card!!!
Omg why did I tear up once I got the notification...i get so happy when shallon posts😭❤️❤️❤️ ur insights are so refreshing and such beautifully worded! It’s super engaging and I could listen to you all dayy (actually explains today😂)
I recently started a hobby that i wanted to do when i was a kid, I started playing D&D it is great because i get to be someone else and I don't have to talk about my personal life as an anxious person. Also i volunteer it is nice and fulfilling for me.
ive been learning so much about human behaviours with your podcasts and your videos!! ive been taking everything into account and its working 💜 thank you so much shallon
Huh. I'm almost 40 and this video I clicked on for some cheap entertainment- really included some gems of wisdom that I can use, thank you pretty lady!
Speaking of bleaching your teeth, I used Crest white strips about 3 times, the last time was more than 5 years ago. They made my teeth very sensitive to cold things and that sensitivity seems permanent because it's been years. I can't even eat fruits like cherries or watermelon that have in stored in a refrigerator. A word of caution that it might not work for everyone
I appreciate that you acknowledge your privilege, Shallon! I hope your kindness continues to bring many blessings into your life💗 You’re beautiful inside & out!
I think it's very telling that now that Jordyn Woods has walked away from the Kylie and the Kardashian Klan, she's become a lot more interesting, accessible, real, and wayyy more successful.
I would also like to point out that there are whitening gums out there and they work decently. I know some whitening products are expensive. Trident makes a good one.
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH for what you said about having a hobby. My passion is sewing and it just pisses me off that I "should" make a business of it! It's MY self-care and people can't seem to conceive of this concept, especially when they learn that I have a whole entire sewing room all for my hobby. No, NOT a guest room, not a home office, ONLY a sewing room for ME!!! #sorrynotsorry
Shallon, I know you call yourself “evil” Bc I’ve heard you say that about urself a couple of times, but I think you are a wonderful person who stands for all the right things in this world, and you live in your truth. Even the fact that you are here giving us advice tells me that you want other women to be their best version, thank you! Hearing you this past week every day has been like therapy for my soul. Im never leaving ur channel!
You’re a overachiever... which has never been a bad thing... you’re goals AF!!!! I came across you a couple weeks ago and I’m addicted and I’ve learned SO much! Like this has been life changing!!!
Only God knows how I found this channel! I'm already hooked. I'm moving to Atlanta in a few months. So as of now, I'm cleaning out my life at 25 and starting over. I just finished paying off all my debt, now I'm working on making amends with myself and other people and then I'm out of here. Finding this channel is perfecting timing!! This is great! Thank you!
ive been thinking about how your essence is so youthful. you dont look 22, 24 in my eyes but your aura really feels like it to me and i find it so fascinating
Shallon, I have reinvented myself in one month. Quit drinking, not a drop and powerwalking, meditation and new fashion sense. I'm being a lady not a party girl, it's not a good look after 40
I love your videos about self-worth, self-esteem and self-growth. I'm in grad school working on my Master's in Social Work, and I'm doing my internship at a dual diagnosis mental illness/drug addiction clinic. While I'm still unsure of myself because I'm learning, my confidence has never been higher because I'm utilizing my passion to help others, it's really the key.
Hi, Shallon. Can you talk in one of your next videos about your experience of being sexually harassed and how to get over the trauma and overcome the tragic memory. And mainly if you should tell your parents/ friends about this or keep it to yourself. Should a girl feel guilty for being paralyzed in the moment and not being able to defend herself? Should a girl try to blame herself for the way she was dressed/her appearance? How to prevent a sexual harassment from happening again? Is it normal for our brain to unconsciously erase the memory of being sexually harassed as a defense mechanism? Will it ever get better? Is there anything you can do as a woman to feel safer being alone in the public space because since then I started realizing how dangerous is this world for a woman. Thank you 🙏
Lmao yeah that was like three years ago notice how she doesn't something nice every two years just to make people like her. She's as transparent as glass.
I'm 50 and reinventing myself again! Am also a trained relationship counsellor and you speak so much wisdom. I've also got 19 and 17 yr old daughters and am going to get them to subscribe. Also my hobby is cycling which I took up at 48, and I love it! 😘
Honestly, you're amazing, especially to young women that just became adults and don't know how to navigate life yet when it comes to social relationships and dynamics, you're like a cool older sister or young aunt that just wants to help while being very honest
OMG what you said about hobbies. YES!!!! I am really good at drawing. And literally all my family tells me I should make money out of it🙄 I hate it!! I don't want to make money from it! I want it to be just for me. Some people just don't get that.
Besides the point but Shallon when you said your hobby is baking I literally squealed because I LOVE baking too. And you’re RIGHT, we do NOT have to monetize our hobbies, otherwise they are not hobbies anymore
I’m actually struggling with this now. I was bullied in school and frankly very awkward and weird. I ended up moving away when I was 15, and now, almost 10 years later, I might be moving back for job opportunity. I know that was a long time ago but I’m cringing thinking if I run into my old classmates/work with them so this video is perfect for telling me to not mention my past self.
You are the freaking best. I see people on other channels comments saying “omg you are an inspiration you changed my life” and I feel a wee bit skeptical sometimes... But for you it’s TRUE. You really have inspired me to reinvent myself again and face the things I’m scared of doing to create the life I want. 🥰
I need to hear this thank you..I'm going through the biggest life change of my life rn including cut off family,ex friends, moving on my own where no one knows me and having a re-invention emotionally and outward glow up. Side note you have a point about Kylie in comparison to Rihanna. Apparently when fenty beauty launched Kylie unfollowed Rihanna. Says a lot about her character and esteem
I didn’t know what to expect from this video, but woah. I’m blown away. I’ve had probably the hardest year of my life this year and everything you said really resonated with me. Thank you so much!
Hey Shallon! I watch a lot of your videos and this one is true gold. There is a lot of deep advice in this video that you wouldn't get anywhere else. Really made me think about a lot of social issues and the state of our country right now while talking about pop culture. Love you!
Omg you must be psychic cuz literally just yesterday I was wondering if Kylie ever donates since she's so rich and all esp towards the Amazon rain forests. And there was an column that I read that just said what you just mention, that she doesn't help the poor cuz she thinks they're lazy. But I'll just mind my business and sip my tea..
Giiirl, i just found you and i am so glad, not because you talk about famous people but because you use those examples to address many psychological problems and I just feel very inspired by listening to you!! thank you!❤
you are so right. we need to get away from our past self and focus on who we are here and now. thanks for the clarification and thanks for your videos you are speaking knowledge!!
Hey Shallon, I just wanted to thank you for your time and for sharing your incredible wisdom. You’ve really just made me an overall more confident person. I’m young and am currently in my first relationship and thanks to you I know what I should expect from my boyfriend. And more importantly: what I should expect from myself. Thank you so so much!
This video must be my most favorite from you so far. I feel so much better about myself! I volunteer a lot with foster children and I struggle still with my self worth but I know for a fact that I am a great and noble person that deserves a lot. Thank you shallon
Giving back/Charity/job preparation classes/creating jobs/supporting causes close to you...are great ideas for all of us to find a place to participate and grow in our character and love for humanity as well as for ourselves. Great advice on that Shallon. (Greed is gross).
Easy way to reinvent yourself as a WOMAN educate yourself, clean up your diet, and workout. Makes anyone feel better lol
PREACH
yasssss ✨💫💕
Facts!!!!!
Yep. The food you eat, ignorance of the world and lack of activity genuinely does affect your mood.
Exactly the three things I started doing this week and I already feel so much better!
Kylie doesn’t talk about her former self because she doesn’t want to acknowledge the work she’s had done. She tries to take as much attention possible away from the fact that she has had surgery from head to toe
She actually did acknowledge it in her show on E
you all stink
Like honestly who gives a fuck😭
Anyone else feel like Shallon is that cool aunt you go to all the time for boy advice? Haha
I feel like she’s more of a cool older sister, but yeah i see what you mean!
Yes! Lmao
Or the big sister 😉
Yassss but I feel like she's the cooler older sister tbh cause my oldest sister is a shit show and jealous narcissistic female
She reminds me so much of my American 'aunt' (im british and shes a close friend of my mum)
I can’t wait for one of the Kardashian/Jenner babies to grow up, expose and denounce the family’s lifestyle, then move off the grid and do volunteer work haha
I doubt it
None of the females will go against the family. They are already being conditioned.
I wonder what it does to a person's psyche to look in the mirror & not even see their own face anymore because of all the surgery. So odd & sad.
Especially when you have a child inheriting things you may not have liked about your previous self
I did a lot of surgery, really a lot. Pretty sure more than Kylie. Also started early, maybe a year or 2 later than she did, at almost 21. Although I can understand what you mean, I never thought about it that way concerning myself. The face I have now is mine and I am very glad and grateful to have it. Don´t want to advertise surgery here though. It is not only rainbows and unicorns. I managed it without very serious complications till now. There are people who weren´t so lucky.
It’s the “Michael Jackson” syndrome!
Kylie pretty much stole her dripping lip logo from vladamua and has even done campaigns ripping off the same makeup artist and had to credit her (but didnt pay her) she got popular because she was young and into the instagram trends, she did good by making her own line, however, the quality isnt always the best and i wouldnt call her creative. Her makeup artists/hair stylists/fashion stylists, are creative. Same with Kim, after Kanye started dressing her she levelled up (he still dresses her btw 😂)
My POINT is, none of them are creatives. Business savvy (kris) certainly, but they are not artists/creative.
@@LaDimplez91 excuse me? white people don't have culture?!?!? you love to eat pizza, kebab, pasta THATS FROM WHITE CULTURE, eastern europe's folklore and native outfits, from scandinavia there's vikings etc, russia has SO MANY different white cultures some are even mixed/fully asian, come to europe and you'll drown in culture, also white american's ancestors are also from europe, so stfu if you haven't done no research and stop discriminating white history and culture only because our ancestors decades ago discriminated african culture 😐 ALSO many religions and the bible,that so many live by, greek mythology and british royalties etc. I could go on for weeks...
@@Sandra-pg4ls I'm not saying all white don't have any culture but half of them just like some black people don't. White people are getting fake tans and wearing darker foundation, get plastic surgery on their ass, lips, breast and hips. They use botox, hyilaronic acid collagen and any creams trying to look younger and better than what they are. Their hair styles, doing what black people would say and do all the time. Black people do get plastic surgery to but not as much as white people do. They are lighting up their face with foundation and some bleach their skin. Some use creams and get botox but they need shea butter, coconut oil or a moisturizer and collagen.They both try to change their race by saying that they are mixed with both race or another race for whatever reason but it's dumb ass fuck. The mixed people are doing all of this trying to fit in somewhere. They will choose, latin or white but will choose to be black around some race sometimes. There are wiggers and there are blackish both trying not to be what God made them. I blame this all on celebrities, social media and the majority of the confused people that hate themselves and wanting to be anyone but themselves. Bottom line is we all are mixed with something but are too proud or stupid to just be ourselves
I think Kim dresses terrible. I'm allergic to latex and basically get hives from any of Kim outfits.
@@lindseybailes2706 at least she knows how a Dick feels like wearing a condom
Why I am not surprised kylie stole someone else's idea 🤔
Im a nurse and hopefully soon a midwife. I left (droped out) of school in year 10 (I'm Australian, so that translates to my 3rd year at highschool with two to go) I was failing all my subjects and being told I needed to be held back. my biggest reinvention was taking what we call the stats test, getting into uni, getting good grades and then being an RN in a new town in the middle of the Australian outback. 90% of my patients are Aborigonal Australian, and you dont know privilege vs poverty until you live and work here. Best thing I've ever done. If youre lucky you can find a career that lets you give back every single day. Love my job and my life. Best thing I have ever done.
That's awesome girl, glad to hear your level up story. I'm in a second degree rn program too from a 2.1 college average (including retakes of over 20 f credits)
I do agree with Kylie bossing up spreading her wings but she will regret how she did it in the future. Some reason I think she’s very unhappy at least she looks that way. Glow up with taking care of the outside and inside, that includes reading a lot, exercising, etc
Now that you bring it up none of the "Kardashians" seem happy. Just consumed and busy staying relevant. But despite all the travel, beautiful children, having family/eachother there is no JOY. No smiles no real laughter. Just competition and "work".
Angelina Jolie does a ton of charity work but still seems really damaged. Shallon I need ur thoughts on her.
@@NS-st4lx Angelina has given millions away, adopted children from third world countries and has worked with the U.N for 18 years. That's some serious amount of commitment and effort. ur just a hater
She is a classical case of daddy issues. Her choice of men proves it, her being a harbour for a myriad of children and her charity work scream "I want to feel loved, respected and recognized"
She is diagnosed with bpd. Personality disorders come with a lot of instability.
Hey shallon! Maybe make a video on “pick me” girls/ pick me mentality??? This has been going on FOREVER and is something I noticed other people calling out a lot recently - finally lol
a pick me woman is one who tries to distinguish herself from other women with the intent of making herself appear more appealing to other men
Just in case I’m not the only one who wasn’t sure what it meant lol
Honestly I wish it had occurred to me as a teenager to have Shallon’s mentality about changing her status in high school. I didn’t even know that was possible- and so my entire experience in high school was me YEARNING and DYING to go to parties and have experiences with guys and whatnot. Even all these years later, I’ve been out of high school for well over a decade, and it’s a time I regret not having made the most of. Because now as a 29 year old I realize I’m hot af and super desirable- especially when I put myself together and get the right look going on. And I had that in me the whole time, I just didn’t know.
No matter how much fun you have out of high school, finding ways of being wild and having adventures within the confines of being a teenager and parents and all that- that’s honestly one of the most exciting times of life, and I will always miss not getting to experience enough of that raw, wild energy of youth, before we had it all figured out and everything really was new and “experimentation.”
I’m a junior in high school and so far my whole experience has been completely boring because of my strict parents. I wish i could do more stuff like go out with my friends go to parties but they just won’t let me
you can still do all that shit if you go to uni, especially abroad
I'm 18 in my first year of college. Help me!!!!!! lol
I just want to become An adult. Being a teenager is super boring
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Im saving money to get out of this narcissistic relationship, I'm celebrating 5 years Methfree today and he won,I'm in tears ,alone, and hoping he stays away
Happy 5 years ❤️❤️❤️
@@AdrianaKupresak So sweet of you thank you!❤
And remember, you are 5 years clean today... YOU WON ❤️❤️ Keep on going
♥️
If you can overcome a 5year meth habit, you can do anything you set your mind to. That’s an amazing accomplishment.
Interestingly, even make up lines of Kylie and Rihanna are very telling. IMO Kylie mostly puts out basic and boring makeup and her brand lacks cohesion, from what I know you can’t even return products you buy on her website, which is a very unusual practice in the US (she doesn’t want to give back even in this situation). Rihanna, on the other hand, freaking revolutionized the beauty industry with her inclusive shade-ranges. I honestly love her products and not just because it’s Rihanna (tbh I didn’t know much about her before fenty beauty, not my preference in music). I think, her brand will continue to do very well in the future.
Omg! I couldnt agree more about Kylie not giving back. Her recent launches she went on extravagant holidays for "promotion" and it would have been a great opportunity to give back to her fans and have a kylie skin boutique or whatever. I notice Kylie NEVER speaks out about social issues, because they might hurt her deal$$$.
@@tanyaleynov5413 😂 and rich and spoiled. Just like Kendall when she did that travesty of a pepsi commercial making light of protests that happened just months before where people were seriously injured by police smh.. And instead of taking responsibility, she cries and blames pepsi.
LMAO I’m pretty sure that whole family knows nothing about social issues. Idk if you’ve seen this but there’s an episode on khloe’s cocktail show where they talk about white privilege and the only one who actually answered was a RUclipsr cause the rest didn’t know shit.
@@wig804 to be fair Kim does talk about Social issues e.g. the criminimal justice system
i don't think she feels the need to care about social issues because most of them don't and have never pertained to her
@@edagulnur7028 she literally JUST started to educate herself after 10years of not speaking out incase they hurt her endorsement deals
My mom always told me: “Happiness doesn’t come from from what you have, but what you can give back.”
Something Kylie should start taking notes 📝 💕
I love that statement
Can we all stop glowing up and try actually growing the eff up.
kuripan frfr or do both bc I've been growing up and glowing up.
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kuripan YES! Thank you for some real talk.
Orrrrr do both
I think they go hand in hand
I love how you keep mentioning Rihanna as the total “warm blooded animal” because Rihanna also has charities that she an active member of, as well as humanitarian projects where she goes over seas for and that does build character. I bet it makes her feel good to know she makes a difference in someone else’s life and not just her own. ❤️
You’re literally Jlo you get hotter as you grow up Shallon 🔥 you’re a badass
I was thinking the same. I used to watch her howcast videos on how to kiss 🙈🤭
Jasmin96961 omggggg only realising where I recognise her from 😂
This one of my favorite videos you've done. Everything you've discussed made so much sense and clicked. Why wouldn't any of them, especially Kylie and Kendall, who are at the prime age of being in college, give back to struggling students? Help pay for people's tuitions, or do something that gives back to the young folks, who happen to be the majority of their audience. Esteemable things... I love that idea.
I've NEVER heard anyone say Rihanna is hideous 🤦🏾♀️ lol never
I LOVE when you spoke about society pressuring us to monotize our hobbies!!! Sometimes it nice to do things bc you love it not bc it can bring you money or recognition.
I’m 22 and even I know Madonna is the queen of reinventing herself
martini I know right?
Confidence too! And not taking shit from anyone and not giving a fuck what people say about her. Especially in the 90s
Madonna did Reinvent Herself about 7 different times from 1985 to 2008 and ALL of these Reinventions were Very Successful.
I Love Madonna but the last 7 years she is not doing well. I think she is Tarnishing her Career becuase she is STILL trying to be in the Spotlight and it is Really Back-Firing on her Bigtime! So many of the young people today do not like her and think she is Wierd. So many of her former fans have also jumped ship within the last 5 years. She need to Stop trying to be In the Spotlight. She is tarnishing her Career which is Sad to see becuase She has had one of the Biggest Careers EVER in the Music Industry.
StormyWeather That’s the thing tho. She doesn’t give a fuck what people say or think about her despite how she dresses and acts. I lowkey wanna be like that. Not caring what people have to say and doing my thing. She’s always been like that.
@@stormyweather9570 I think she is Trying Too Hard to Be in the Spotlight when its clearly Not Working. She has been doing this for the last 6 years and it's embarrassing. She needs to Stop.
If she ever call someone unattractive, she need to be reminded a surgeon did it NOT GOD himself! Then when caught in her lies play the insecurity card!!!
Soberliscious is my new way of life. You connect spiritually with ppl where alcohol puts a barrier and numbs your true spirit
Yes, "Everywhere you go, there you are." It's a quote I live by. ❤️✨✨
Kylie really needs therapy. That whole family needs healing.
Omg why did I tear up once I got the notification...i get so happy when shallon posts😭❤️❤️❤️ ur insights are so refreshing and such beautifully worded! It’s super engaging and I could listen to you all dayy (actually explains today😂)
I said the same thing , its the reason why i don't like them anymore , so flashy but never giving back
She dose give back did you not see her birthday line all that money went to people who needed it ...
I recently started a hobby that i wanted to do when i was a kid, I started playing D&D it is great because i get to be someone else and I don't have to talk about my personal life as an anxious person. Also i volunteer it is nice and fulfilling for me.
Someone once told me ‘your the average of the 5 people you hang around with’ ... and it’s so true. Friends / family either help you level up or down.
ive been learning so much about human behaviours with your podcasts and your videos!! ive been taking everything into account and its working 💜 thank you so much shallon
Huh. I'm almost 40 and this video I clicked on for some cheap entertainment- really included some gems of wisdom that I can use, thank you pretty lady!
Speaking of bleaching your teeth, I used Crest white strips about 3 times, the last time was more than 5 years ago. They made my teeth very sensitive to cold things and that sensitivity seems permanent because it's been years. I can't even eat fruits like cherries or watermelon that have in stored in a refrigerator. A word of caution that it might not work for everyone
Same
I appreciate that you acknowledge your privilege, Shallon! I hope your kindness continues to bring many blessings into your life💗 You’re beautiful inside & out!
I've been binge watching Shallon when I get home for the last week. so glad I found you!!!
I think it's very telling that now that Jordyn Woods has walked away from the Kylie and the Kardashian Klan, she's become a lot more interesting, accessible, real, and wayyy more successful.
I would also like to point out that there are whitening gums out there and they work decently. I know some whitening products are expensive. Trident makes a good one.
I'm so happy that you are telling people to give back
LOVE your confidence and it’s a healthy kind of confidence. Thanks for sharing your mind with us!
Shallon is my lifeblood, deadass she’s the energy I was missing in my life ❤️🔥
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH for what you said about having a hobby. My passion is sewing and it just pisses me off that I "should" make a business of it! It's MY self-care and people can't seem to conceive of this concept, especially when they learn that I have a whole entire sewing room all for my hobby. No, NOT a guest room, not a home office, ONLY a sewing room for ME!!! #sorrynotsorry
Shallon, I know you call yourself “evil” Bc I’ve heard you say that about urself a couple of times, but I think you are a wonderful person who stands for all the right things in this world, and you live in your truth. Even the fact that you are here giving us advice tells me that you want other women to be their best version, thank you! Hearing you this past week every day has been like therapy for my soul. Im never leaving ur channel!
Can you do a video on how to flirt/talk to powerful people or celebrities? I’d love your take on how to handle situations like this!
You’re a overachiever... which has never been a bad thing... you’re goals AF!!!! I came across you a couple weeks ago and I’m addicted and I’ve learned SO much! Like this has been life changing!!!
Kylie Jenner- Queen of Reinvention
Caitlyn Jenner- Hold my beer honey
I’m dead😭😭
I love that you take pop-culture topics and turn them into so much more. Love you, Shallon.
"Learn how to blow your hair out"
Laughs in curly hair.
You can have both
@@Sara-9865 Yes, you can, but you don't have to in order to have a "glow-up." Just learn how to take care of your hair.
@@sailork8848 Jesus Christ, she was just giving quickfire examples.
Only God knows how I found this channel! I'm already hooked. I'm moving to Atlanta in a few months. So as of now, I'm cleaning out my life at 25 and starting over. I just finished paying off all my debt, now I'm working on making amends with myself and other people and then I'm out of here. Finding this channel is perfecting timing!! This is great! Thank you!
In Germany school started 2 weeks ago! My kiddo is already back to the grind
Self confidence and changing your mentally make the biggest difference in your life , I've learnt the hard way
please do a video on lana del rey! I would love to see a video on her daddy issues, reinvention, and why she uses a persona on stage, etc. love you!
ive been thinking about how your essence is so youthful. you dont look 22, 24 in my eyes but your aura really feels like it to me and i find it so fascinating
That's my girl Shallon. Deep and grounded. Applause, please!
when she said big gifts were a red flag, DAMN I wish I new that a year ago. big mistakes. this is why I love you you always say what I need to hear.
Shallon, I have reinvented myself in one month. Quit drinking, not a drop and powerwalking, meditation and new fashion sense. I'm being a lady not a party girl, it's not a good look after 40
I love your videos about self-worth, self-esteem and self-growth. I'm in grad school working on my Master's in Social Work, and I'm doing my internship at a dual diagnosis mental illness/drug addiction clinic. While I'm still unsure of myself because I'm learning, my confidence has never been higher because I'm utilizing my passion to help others, it's really the key.
Hi, Shallon. Can you talk in one of your next videos about your experience of being sexually harassed and how to get over the trauma and overcome the tragic memory. And mainly if you should tell your parents/ friends about this or keep it to yourself. Should a girl feel guilty for being paralyzed in the moment and not being able to defend herself? Should a girl try to blame herself for the way she was dressed/her appearance? How to prevent a sexual harassment from happening again? Is it normal for our brain to unconsciously erase the memory of being sexually harassed as a defense mechanism? Will it ever get better? Is there anything you can do as a woman to feel safer being alone in the public space because since then I started realizing how dangerous is this world for a woman. Thank you 🙏
I feel your glow up. I changed so much from middle school to high school, and from high school to now (23). It is crazy how much we can change.
I think Kylie teamed up with some organisation to give free cleft palate surgery. I saw some video about it long back. :/
S M yes ! I think she either made a dedicated lip kit that all the proceeds went to for a limited time or something like that
Lmao yeah that was like three years ago notice how she doesn't something nice every two years just to make people like her. She's as transparent as glass.
Yes she doesn't do enough and it's sad.
I'm 50 and reinventing myself again! Am also a trained relationship counsellor and you speak so much wisdom. I've also got 19 and 17 yr old daughters and am going to get them to subscribe.
Also my hobby is cycling which I took up at 48, and I love it! 😘
I didn’t realize how much I needed to listen to my 9years old self, thank you for that advice
Honestly, you're amazing, especially to young women that just became adults and don't know how to navigate life yet when it comes to social relationships and dynamics, you're like a cool older sister or young aunt that just wants to help while being very honest
Let’s be real, Kylie reinvented herself a into racially ambiguous person.
Kalki C have you seen the article saying that she’s “all your favourite Latinas in one” cos it’s a damn mess
Doesn't look ambiguous to me. I just see a pure whitie.
@@TributesAndUnique she is Armenian
Marie Quin No she’s not. Her parents are white - Kris Jenner and Caitlin Jenner (formally Bruce Jenner). Rob Kardashian Sr. is the Armenian one.
Queen Mo oh my gosh, i didn’t know about that. But now I will. Thank you, sis.
‘Every where you go there you are’ I love that
OMG what you said about hobbies. YES!!!! I am really good at drawing. And literally all my family tells me I should make money out of it🙄 I hate it!! I don't want to make money from it! I want it to be just for me. Some people just don't get that.
Besides the point but Shallon when you said your hobby is baking I literally squealed because I LOVE baking too. And you’re RIGHT, we do NOT have to monetize our hobbies, otherwise they are not hobbies anymore
Just starting this video and it’s such perfect timing and I’m so excited to be so early!!!! And also so excited to see you getting so close to 200k!
I’m actually struggling with this now. I was bullied in school and frankly very awkward and weird. I ended up moving away when I was 15, and now, almost 10 years later, I might be moving back for job opportunity. I know that was a long time ago but I’m cringing thinking if I run into my old classmates/work with them so this video is perfect for telling me to not mention my past self.
I think Kylie donates to operation Smile. That’s about it.
I didnt realize, but it's sad to think she donated to smile because it has to do with lips and that'll help her lip kit at the time, in my opinion
Actually it as before her whole lip kit thing. Why do I even care about this stuff ha.
@@cailiebetz8490 right, me too, shows how much I don't keep up
@Sofia Aberdein cleft palates
You are the freaking best. I see people on other channels comments saying “omg you are an inspiration you changed my life” and I feel a wee bit skeptical sometimes...
But for you it’s TRUE. You really have inspired me to reinvent myself again and face the things I’m scared of doing to create the life I want. 🥰
Kylie Jenner doesn't "work hard" lmao. It's just given to her.
TributesAndUnique She runs a business. That’s not easy and it’s very hard work. Whether it was “given to her” or not
Remy Killunmg It was only through her famous connections. Besides her make up is not even good quality. Just something a basic white girl would buy.
@@remykillunmg8832 she sold it
14:57 literally helped me get out of myself so much and realize so much. Thank you so much
Please do video on Kris Jenner! 🙏🏻 ultimate matriarch.
And you can spill a bit of tea while on it 🍵
I feel so much better with myself after watching your videos!!! ❤️
I love you shallon!!!! Your podcast and RUclips keeps are such a highlight to my week!
I need to hear this thank you..I'm going through the biggest life change of my life rn including cut off family,ex friends, moving on my own where no one knows me and having a re-invention emotionally and outward glow up.
Side note you have a point about Kylie in comparison to Rihanna. Apparently when fenty beauty launched Kylie unfollowed Rihanna. Says a lot about her character and esteem
Your picture from highschool really gives me hope. You have definitely gone from caterpillar to butterfly.
Damn, the way you talk about why people should give back and what it says about you is * mwah *, you're incredible.
The Kardashians could save the Amazon...
I loved how you said, "There are plenty of seats at the table for everyone to be successful"!!!!!!!
Girl I came as soon as I heard
I didn’t know what to expect from this video, but woah. I’m blown away. I’ve had probably the hardest year of my life this year and everything you said really resonated with me. Thank you so much!
can you do a video on what to do when receiving a gift from your partner you don’t like?? ❤️
Hey Shallon! I watch a lot of your videos and this one is true gold. There is a lot of deep advice in this video that you wouldn't get anywhere else. Really made me think about a lot of social issues and the state of our country right now while talking about pop culture. Love you!
Omg you must be psychic cuz literally just yesterday I was wondering if Kylie ever donates since she's so rich and all esp towards the Amazon rain forests. And there was an column that I read that just said what you just mention, that she doesn't help the poor cuz she thinks they're lazy. But I'll just mind my business and sip my tea..
As an insecure man, this is the first time I'm joining in on this channel and what an unexpectedly eloquent lesson it was! Thank you so much for this!
I'm so glad I found your channel! Your advice is brilliant
Giiirl, i just found you and i am so glad, not because you talk about famous people but because you use those examples to address many psychological problems and I just feel very inspired by listening to you!! thank you!❤
Shallon has really reinvented herself since her WikiHow How to French Kiss days
you are so right. we need to get away from our past self and focus on who we are here and now. thanks for the clarification and thanks for your videos
you are speaking knowledge!!
In my opinion, she was prettier before.
Hajj Ali i agree, i really didn’t see a problem with her body or face at all. Now she looks fake :(
@@melmel-xt5lf true.
She had personality before
You can’t be serious
Original and natural will always look better because it authenticates your identity
Omg Shallon I love you. You are keeping it soooo real. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us all 💜
I'm gonna find some hobbies as if I'm 9 years old!! Thank you!!!
Hey Shallon, I just wanted to thank you for your time and for sharing your incredible wisdom. You’ve really just made me an overall more confident person. I’m young and am currently in my first relationship and thanks to you I know what I should expect from my boyfriend. And more importantly: what I should expect from myself. Thank you so so much!
Your hair is gorg
YOU are gorg! Seriously, very pretty!
This video must be my most favorite from you so far. I feel so much better about myself! I volunteer a lot with foster children and I struggle still with my self worth but I know for a fact that I am a great and noble person that deserves a lot. Thank you shallon
Thankyou !!!!! Finally someone said it
Kylie is selfish
She's still young and insecure. In ten years time with more life experience, she might draw other conclusions.
Tanya Delmar I hope so :/
Giving back/Charity/job preparation classes/creating jobs/supporting causes close to you...are great ideas for all of us to find a place to participate and grow in our character and love for humanity as well as for ourselves. Great advice on that Shallon. (Greed is gross).
Please do a back to school video, like first day advice on how to be confident and give a good first impression
Kristenggg 001 Mrs. Midwest is a good RUclipsr for that stuff
This advice is golden! Reminds me of when I reinvented myself after I stopped drinking and started working out/eating well.