Do This When She Backs Away...
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2012
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses what to do when women you are dating or trying to re-attract start acting distant & less-interested in you.
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I love how women say on their dating profiles "no games" yet they're the ones who start playing them from day one.
EgyptianDragon /Exactly
That's the truth!!!!!!
Haha yeahhh bro
@I'm Your President yes they certainly ARE!!!!!!!!! Prolific liars too!!!!!!! I'm 46 nearly, if I'd known as a younger lad what I know now, jeeeees!!!!!!!! Never believe or trust a woman. Fing ever!!!!!!!!!!!!
Facts
Watching this guy temporarily cures depression 😂
Most underrated comment
Same dude
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I agree bro...
Well said.
I think we are all dating the same woman 😂
Bruh, you right about that 😂
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Nope. It's because all women act the same :)
When she “backs away” ditch her and find a woman who doesn’t play these games, period
VoiceOfAmerica best advice here. This guys advice is terrible if you are dealing with a grown woman
They all play these games, man. it's biology
Ian Shillina If she is mature it just means she needs space..
Yep. And that is exactly how a woman lost my respect and love for her FOREVER as of one day ago. And she will never gain my respect back. Actually, to make matters worse, she used me as a scapegoat which means she used me to her advantage to do things for her. Lets just say, she wasn''t very good with the concealing part of it.
fucking right
I'm starting to feel like that getting a beautiful woman attracted to you and keeping her attracted to you is more complicated than operating a space ship rocket on a space mission.
rocaho001 give her the d
Right lol
it is
Its really hard if you have no mission in life and if you are doing nothing else. But if you have a mission in life and are passionate about something it just comes naturally. Experienced both myself.
I have emission in life.
"Share this with your friends and family." Yeah, let me tell the whole world I suck with women.
working and reading on it now.
BigGeekEmpire Damn, you made laugh! Good luck anyway!
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BigGeekEmpire ahahahaahhah
LOL
“A woman needs to feel the space and experience the silence of not talking to you and in those moments of your inaction, it will cause her to realize that if I don’t do anything then this relationship will completely dissolve.”
ISLAM I wise wise wordsss
So strange I read this comment right as this portion of the video plaued
@@jakeoswald8017 me too
Yes I tried that and it really did dissolve ok buddy I'm laughing I did no contact and she married a Asian guy named chin pan ok bro but its only because I don't use my real name in social media I use profit fires and she didn't know that so she couldn't find me because she did call me when she had my phone number and told me that if I love her she would come back if I let her go and that happened after months maybe a year of no contact then I changed my number and she couldn't find me it does work if they now where to contact you facts
@@profitfires2934 That was a long mf sentence.
She backs away, you walk away! It’s actually pretty simple.
Thank you!
As a woman I agree but same goes for us 😊
Its not so simple if you have strong feelings for her...
Marius J they know that shit. That’s why every guy is watching this video.
Belinda S we know that’s what this video is about 😂
It's true, "Women are like a shadow; if you follow them, they flee. If you flee, they follow you." Women are cool, but they shouldn't be the gears that make your world revolve. You make your own life revolve. Focus on yourself, respect yourself, build yourself - this positive energy creates a natural attraction. Dayyummm, i should write my own book :-) lol
Danny, your the only other person, besides the man who told me about the shadow theory, that I have ever heard say it. Excellent, bro
nice i think you should be my personal dating coach
Danny dude!! these are the most gripping words I have read!
awesome dude!
your shadow is not with you on cloudy days, though (metaphor for when you're broke)
speak to more than 3-5 women at a time that'll create instant indifference
+MrMusicdot truss it makes you less needy
true
it may make you more indifferent but if she finds out, it could backfire. it makes you look like a player, and like she's not your first pick.
+ash mcfeely tf. that creates massive attraction. I act like a player but don't use the label. shows the I have balls, won't change myself and makes her feel like she's won me over. which she has. adds so much mystery and gets her dreamin "what ifs" so hard lol
I hear one out of fifteen will be a positive "touch-down"
Doing nothing is the best option. When she pulls back she is hoping you will chase her to validate her worthiness. When you don't chase, she's terrified that you won't contact her again and they always come back. It might take a month or 2. Hold strong.
"If you want you wife to listen to you, then talk to another women and she`ll be all ears"-Sigmund Frued
Yessir
stay away, read, go out with friends, find a hobby. life is to short my friends.
AMEN!
I'm a woman, I so agree with you!
True who needs this bullshit playing these high school games yes or no grow up
I m stucked to my 2month old relationship, she dominates me, I am behaving like a poor man now. What should I do ?
@@hello2saurav freeze out. Do your daily routine and say hi and bye to her. You have no time and things to do. You own your own life and she is just a another human but not your air to breave.
there is probably a female coach out there telling girls to be distant to men in order to attract them
the key to all of this is to be independent, do not expect nothing from no-one
Joseph Agosto Bong ✊
Woman do not like to chase men .. there are plenty of videos on that . Without a doubt .. contacting is like tennis if the ball is hit in your court throw the damn thing back .. when Woman chase there told they look desperate ..
All coaches for girls tell us to be indifferent!
Yeah after watching this guys advice...hahaha
Big facts
If someone really wants to stay, they will. Sometimes they are just waiting for a reason to leave.
Fear of commitment is too common alright
i gave her space for three years
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My father never had to do any of this shit
He surely did to a certain extent. Women's rights and their place in society changed a lot over the years (which also changed the dating game, for sure), but what they respond to emotionally and what they crave on a biological level will always be the same. So I'm sure your dad had to go through some bullshit as well.
MrYeldoom Fucking amen, brother.
MrYeldoom believe it or not, he did. he just didn't have the luxury of youtube to tell him when he was still a teenager. he had to talk to other guys or figure it out himself
Oddly hilarious
I agree I think 3rd wave feminism and instant messages adds a lot more dimensions of bullshit to the mix but we can't go back in time so I'll leave you with this.
"Do not pray for easy lives my friends. Pray to be....stronger men." -JFK (I think)
I gave her so much space... She thought she was Neil Armstrong.
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When she backs away I'll move on immediately. My lifetime is too precious. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
Fresh Fish
You use plenty of fish?
Good mindset
But who wants to date a fish? 🤷🏻♂️
Why does a relationship have to be a chess game?
Brent Garvey because a woman mind is like a chess game that's why therefore make the right moves and don't get checkmate by a woman period.
muzikdc people are going to play games regardless. Your best bet to find someone’s doesn’t which slime to none
Cuz bitches are retarded and need to be played even if you're unwilling and wish it wasn't
It just means that's not the right one for you.
@@bigpimping15 it's some good ones out there,It's just bad apples fuck it up for the the good ones
This guy must be the saviour of so many relationships out there. This is fucking solid advice.
There's more women on earth than men yet we over here acting like they're scarce. The thirst has gotta stop fellas value yourself
How about attractive ones?
Lol
AJ Truss yeah, but what’s the percentage of attractive one compared to the average over weight dog? Probably 1 - 9.
dawg she’s the fish i want man it’s just so hard to get over something you thought would happen but nothing ever does and ugh idk
Amén
When a girl goes cold it usually means she is talking to another guy she finds more interesting.
Chasing women who don't like you is beta AF. Always have options and go where you're appreciated.
When women try to put me in the friendzone, one thing that often works for me is I walk away, and tell them to call me when they come to their senses.
+Comet Jockey Dave im in that boat right now. she wants to see me but only be friends. i said no way and ceased all contact today. now the waiting game, lets see if she flinches.......
+r4ym1n13 Doing that is never fun, and it really sucks. As a friend of mine once said, "Being in a relationship is great, but the process of getting into one can really suck because of the way you get tested,". I think maybe he invested too much too soon. I had one girl I got into the waiting game with, and after I told her to call me when she came to her senses I moved on because when I thought about it something just felt a little off about her. Two weeks later she started calling me, but I moved on, and didn't bother returning her calls. a fee weeks later from a mutual friend I found out that while we were playing the waiting game she fooled around with an old friend, and contracted Herpes......I doged a bullet there. The moral of that one is if it doesn't work out you never know what kind of headache, or nightmare you are getting out of.
+Comet Jockey Dave thanks man. The last sentence is the most important I have heard in a while.
+r4ym1n13 did she ever text you back brother
Iman Myers damn sorry for the late reply. she did contact me 1 more time asking "blah blah blah how are you doing" so i give a no bull shit reply saying "call me so we can get together" then she say "oh i am actually dating someone" hahaha what a fucking bitch ! i erased her & moved on with my life
"The key to remember, is that when she backs off, is not to become unglued, but actually expect it, because that's just the way it is. And a woman needs to feel the space, and she needs to experience the silence of not talking to you, because it's in those moments of your inaction that will cause her to chase you and pursue you more and cause her to realize that: Hey, if I don't do anything, this relationship is going to completely dissolve. And if she has interest in the 50% range [~5/10], she won't let that happen." -- Corey Wayne, 2012
Almost been a week she ain't saying shit to me n I neither
Usually takes Beeteeen 1-2 months in the meantime go on vacation with friends and post some if it on social media
@@lordfeeda9627 true especially if they really like u, just do u in the meantime
@@wasupman777 What happended?
@@cesarg4328 I gifted her a phone n ended up taking back! Lotta shit happened it'll be too long to put it up here but after I took back the phone I'm done with this bitch
Stay strong and give her space. Alpha male
Self procaimed lol
@@empressqi1722 not exactly, could just be stating that its a natural trait of an Alpha, not that he in fact, is one.
im currently doing this with a girl at work, she's become distant and cold, saw her at work the last 2 days and there was MULTIPLE times i could've easily started a conversation like I use to before but I didn't, I walked right past her each time and went about my day with a smile.
@@mohamedadan6678 Keep it up
One bald head is trying to fill the gap when i make space. It's really annoying. That guy head looks really shiny reflecting head. I am just like wtf going on lol
What he says at 2:20 -2:40 is right on the spot. "you are the same whether she chooses you or not." Really knowing yourself and who you are is essential to life anyway, let alone a romantic relationship with a woman. A relationship is the Icing on the cake of a life being lived well. Life will throw challenges at you that will make a woman backing away insignificant.
It’s simple. Don’t give a shit about what she thinks and genuinely mean it. And rule number two. You are the most important person in the relationship.
FACTS!
Fax
Conclusion; do everything opposite to what you’re mind wants you to do 😅
No, you need to find someone that resonates with you. Don't pretend to be someone you're not (example: if you want to text often then go for it). If you're genuine then you'll eventually you'll find someone that truly likes you, rather then attracting people you like the persona you put up.
I think if I did that I'm gonna be a millionaire 😂
Spot on-they are the opposite of what we believe
You’re mind wants to do
@@jaboi7709 try texting someone youre dating every day, you‘d be surprised how fast they are going to dissappear from your life my guy, thats just how it is
I got dumped once. I ignored her, then 7 months later she wanted me back, but after 7 months alone I discovered the single life was better than having a winging wining demanding woman. Go MGTOW.
Sun Rise 🤫😂😉
Oh no, 2nd serve is in tennis only! No time for that!
MGTOW is the most bitter way to go with women, no thanks, I enjoy having sex with women.
The marriage probably would have been a disaster...I know 3 marriages ...
@@se7ensiinz MGTOW you do have sex too !!
Never chase after women or buses, you’ll always get lost in the dust
This dude is one of the reason I got over my ex who dumped me. Thanks Coach, you change and saved me.
Most people put more thought into maintaing their cars than who they date and marry. I teach guys how to be their best selves so they can attract the highest quality women. You've got to become the kind of person you want to attract. Meeting women is easy when you are happy and loving life doing something you love for a living. Women will seek you out. They will want to share in your happiness. It's up to you to decide if it's for an evening, a week, a month, year or a lifetime ;)
Well you have a male fanbase but the things you teach are working the same as they do for women. If a women shows that much interest into a man he also ends up losing interest cause it has to be a balance of giving and taking. Once one person is always chasing the other one won't get the opportunity to step up or even reflect to see what they'd be missing without that person and end up feeling suffocated.
Here's a reality check for the ladies. If you play hard to get he'll just move on to someone more receptive. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
The problem with formulas is that this kind of relationship will not last for many years. Whenever you have to act in a way different than you are, at some point you'll forget and act normally again. Thus, causing conflict, and separation. Think in terms of finding the right person for you, and not just playing emotional games all the time.
It is fucking frustrating
Do not chase her, and only text when she does it
What if she thinks the same way? 😂
Jaquie Br then we’re all fucked up
I fucked up with that.
How many txts from women have u received lately?
@@phanaticz me too.
I think it would be easier just to remember this: Your need for her wasn't what attracted her in the first place, so why expect it to do so now?
i was living with a girl for 10 years....
we had 2 kids.... honestly i wish i had this guys frame of mind back then....now at the age of 39 i finally get it.... women chase me now, not vice versa....
I hate that we have to act like we don’t care to get them to care. It’s so stupid.
Wow, I'm currently in a similar situation with a co-worker and what you said is exactly how our interaction went down today! I didn't text or talk to her all weekend and just kept to myself this morning and she kept asking me "what's wrong? Are you mad?" And with a straight face, I said "No, I'm good" and asked her about her weekend. We kept getting interrupted by customers and so I would just walk away, but she kept coming back every chance she got. I realized the less I said (without being cruel or butt hurt about it) the more she wanted to interact…so bizarre! Thanks for this video!
I swear you saved me from giving up on everything. Thank god you put these videos up.
Never chase or give anyone your time which is precious... to those who do not appreciate it.
A woman who is interested wont make it difficult for you.
Respect to men who don’t play these dumb games ..real men looking for a real connection x
star24y sorry but you’re wrong. No offense I thought the same until I was forced to see an objective perspective and the undeniable positive results my brother was getting
star24y Back then I saw games designed for immature women. Now I see an analysis of the female mind and explanations for so many of their irrational behaviors. It’s all just a scientific look of the patterns the majority of females have and understanding them for better results.
If u don't play games it won't work
But when you really sincerely want a girl who play these dumb games(and most likelyshe will, because she'sa female), then what?
The honest guy fails
I do that too Corey. Whenever a girl I was interested in chooses another guy, I don’t get upset over it. I maintain my confidence, continue to see other women, and I just let whoever I was into go for a while until the woman wants to talk to me again. It is more logical than what many men think. Desperate is always negative and being confident, positive, and happy all the time will always be better. I have your book, but I do still need to read your book several more times to master it. Keep up the good work Corey. Besides, chasing after women will become a wasteful time for any man.
I've dated loads of birds over a couple of decades. Not one type either, all different. Looks, personalities, same age, a little younger, a little older, the whole show! I can tell you now, they're all the same. They all lie, all mess you around, all go hot and cold, all try to coerce you, all change their minds, all try to use you for money and (nearly) all cheat in one form or another.
When it's ran its course and she starts to disappear, just turn away. Cos you'll have another just the same in a couple of weeks guaranteed..
Best advice I’ve read in a long time and I agree
@@WaynePhilmore It's true. Every word of it.
I agree...but, ALWAYS make sure to have more women in your pipeline. You HAVE to have options/backup plan in life. ALWAYS! It makes the pain much less.
Lol...this is funny..having more women in the pipe line is exactly why a woman backs up, goes no contact, or places u in a friend zone the game has been discovered..the sneaky crud and lies is obvious...some woman will confront this, some will go ghost, some will back off hoping u get the hint and some wil friend zone u..depends on the woman..but the goal is the same..he is a player and no self respecting woman will tolorate that...just being honest
@@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 I’m fascinated by your bad manners...
Disagree. Dating other women if she dumps you? Sure. But having other women in the wings when you're supposedly with someone? Not cool. I'm no saint but I do know that's not doing right by the lady you're with. It's just insecurity if you have to keep other women around in case you lose one. That's all it is.
True also it gives off a good vibe that you’re not desperate for one girl
This is all games, im so tired of being hurt, yes im a guy and I have cried, the pain of heartbreak is so unbearable for me, I just dont have it in me to chance it anymore, but I am human and I still would like to interact with women, I just dont know how, I need to feel love and affection, im just not convinced that there is any good left in this world anymore, the odds are stacked against me, because im just to loyal and a good guy, my biggest fear is dying alone.
Bro, don't be sad over women. If being the way you currently are is not working, have a vision of what you'd rather be and try to change gradually.
Chidi Akara To be honest I lost all my family and friends of the new year of 2008, Ive been trying to find and meet new people, ones that could possibly be my friend, but for some reason nothing is working, its now 2017 and im still single and still have no family or friends, thats why I said that im going to die alone, not only does it suck not having a girlfriend, it sucks in general not ever having anyone to talk to.
Anthony Bocook I know exactly what you are going thru. I feel like there is no good guys out there (I'm female. my profile pic is a singer) I've all but given up completely on love, it hurts too damned much.
fire pantheress The pain hurts somtimes so bad it feels just like drowning, I dont know if I will ever recover from my last heartbreak, all I know is that im now afraid to keep trying, because it really does hurt, I have almost completely given up myself, my heart may literally break if it gets broken again, everyone needs love, I just dont know how anymore, also why im on RUclips trying to reach out to the public to try and figure things out, because what im doing isn't working anymore, plus im tired of feeling like its just me and im the only one
Anthony Bocook I know that feeling. I can't really tell you it gets better bc I'm so broken up over my ex I can't function. If you like we should message each other. It's better to be able to talk it out with someone and I do like listening and offering support.
its difficult if u love somebody but she does not love u back,man its hard .
Guys fall fast dude just learn to not give a shit
Don't love someone who doesn't love you. Find better
Tis
Oh, to unrequited love. *sigh*
Von Q absolutely agree, just hard to implement when she gets in your head hella
When she backs away, keep doing your own life and your own purpose. Don't waste energy thinking about her or doing anything for her.
If she comes back, great. If she doesn't come back, great, you can find a new one.
Live your life for you, not for her. And yes, this is coming from a guy who has done it the wrong way by worrying about whether I was losing her or not. I put my life on hold, thought about her all day, thought it'd show how much I loved her to journal to her while she didn't want to talk for two weeks. Then I presented my token of love (journal and flowers) when we were to talk again. Weak man. That was a wonderful waste of two weeks of my life.
Don't be a me, learn from my stupidity. PERIOD
Thats called unrequited love my friend. Stay away from toxic women like that.You end up second guessing yourself....run!!!
THANKS BRETT FARVE!
The Red Wolf BRUH LOL
The Red Wolf 😂😂😂😂
Woooooooooooow doppelganger 😀😀😀
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Holy shit I'm coughing LOL
This is literally fucking what I needed right now I was starting to feel suicidal but now this is helping me so much
It ain’t worth a bitch to fucking die you became attached to her snap outta it
I recommend to watch AMS on RUclips
We are the price and good enough!
Fuck putting these bitches on pedestals we taking this shit back if they want our validation they gotta come chase it
Bro, same.
@@brzrkh7948 I was "chasing" it and after one month he still never made a date. It felt ass backwards... He's trying to take up too much of my time before ever meeting face to face. I don't want an artificial attraction that neglects touch, sight, taste, smell and hearing. At this point, I have to believe that he has no intention to ever date me. 💔
Dont kill yourself over a woman
I love the analogy comparing women to cats. This actually helped me to understand them immensely. I love cats and have had many in my time. I am used to their behavior and do not get offended by their bullshit cat behaviors. Some ladies, like my ex, behave like bedraggled alley cats. Others, such as my mother, are much more like lions. I have learned to be indifferent to cats and let them come to me. Applying this to women should be easier for me now.
Mother are like lions. Very true.
"All greatest, prominent conquerors in the history are mama boys"
-Mike Tyson
Time to call my mom.
You nail it
@@padrinozerocool😂
When she says she needs space, tell her you still need sex, so you'll be texting some ex's while she's making up her mind.
LMFAO....Just do the opposite of being needy. Imagine your personal harem with 72 virgins in paradise.
Lol 😂
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Man I love hearing this guy explain my life. I've sometimes achieved the results with women that he's talking about but did it by accidentally confusing women that I only felt half-assed about. If I could use it purposefully with girls I actually care about that would improve my life so much. Its so easy to get thrown off your game by your genuine love of girl
So true
I just broke up with a heroin addict who relapsed, her nursing license is suspended, she has no car, a fucked up family and is emotionally unstable. I’m in amazing shape, make over 100k, am handsome and train martial arts...and I miss her. Hahaha
I have met amazingly attractive women that were heroin addicts. It's a shame.
I've actually done this before. She said "you're too nice for me and I just want to be friends" I said "I don't feel the same way let me know if you change your mind" and she kept bugging me trying to push the friendship and I just stopped replying lol. She couldn't stand being told no. So if a woman continues to push your buttons after you tell her you don't want to be friends I think you just have to stop replying and walk away. Women that aren't mature enough to accept an indifferent response are not worth your time.
This is all true, and it makes me want nothing to do with serious relationships with women. It is simply too much of an energy drain to have to think on this level all the time.
All a woman has to do to keep most men interested is: 1. don't let your looks go to heck (e.g. don't gain 50 lbs), 2. be nice, 3. don't cheat, 4. have enjoyable sex reasonably often.
But men can't relax for a second.
And most can't even do #3
This is why at the end of the day, men respect men. Women have to earn it moreso.
Nailed it with that comment. So fucking true!
Solution to women problems: Get a PS4 and Call of duty. Immerse yourself and forget women exist. if they want you, let them come find you.
best advice ever
This is terrible advice. Cod sucks. Buy battlefield instead haha
Kombo20 But my playstation loves me
Kombo20. HaHaHa
Woooorrrrd!!
This guy's a fuckin genius, props to him for figuring this shit out and helping others. Smart man. I strive to be more like him.
Wao I remember 6-8 years ago when I first started watching Corey. You’re the GOAT of dating & majority of dating coaches came after you even if the new generation doesn’t know about it. My life changed when it came to women & dating after listening to you & for that, I am grateful.
I knew that I have to be indifferent to keep a girl interested. I just came looking for some sort of confirmation, I guess. But I have to say this: I fucking hate having to be on this side of the fence. Having to pretend that I'm indifferent to a woman I truly care about as to not seem too needy. It feels like women have it so much easier when they don't have to be the one trying to win a guy over.
Sure, people keep saying that "women love a good chase" and all that blaa blaa. But men are honestly just creating an illusion that the chase actually exists, at least that's what I do. It's becoming so frustrating at this point. I hate having to be indifferent to women's attention. I wish relationships were more simple.
Its the same in woman world too! I'm glad to see so many authentic, decent guys on here when I was just starting to think that men are all about games and never want anything real. It restores my faith in Humanity and that, at the end of the day and at our core, we all want to love and be loved!
I'm doing this right now. Ignoring every text that isn't interesting. Short responses. And I haven't heard from her in a week. Since her last message was a complete waste of time to respond. She brought up a memory from years ago that was so irrelevant that I didn't respond. She is liking every post on fcbk. I don't put too many posts up. But she's the first one to like it. So I'm staying clear till she asks me out. I'm not asking her out. I was already rejected before 2 years ago. So 2 years later she's been contacting me and I've been as cold as ice. I used to be the pushover. Not anymore.
Especially when she's a narcissist. Those chicks need to be avoided completely. These tricks don't work on them. It works to get them wondering about you but they want reaffirmation that you still want them. Once they get that, they back away. Pick your women wisely.
Completely agree
It doesn’t have to be an illusion. The reason you feel like you’re faking is because you are. Most likely, you’re not that naturally attractive to women.
However if you worked on yourself and gave yourself a ton of options with women, you would NATURALLY act indifferent because you have many options. That is REAL indifference and the reason indifference attracts women in the first place. Because a man who is indifferent is a man that has options. It signals that you must be a high status guy.
You complaining about having to pretend to be indifferent to appear high status is like a girl complaining about having to wear makeup to appear pretty. If she were naturally pretty, she wouldn’t have to worry about makeup, and you wouldn’t have to worry about being indifferent if we’re actually high status had lots of options.
My car won’t wake up one day and tell me it doesn’t love me 😂😂
Gage Paulman Until it breaks down on you 😩😩
Haha Gold 🤣
I spent money on my car too 😂
It will.if your boyfriend buys it
Oh Corey! You really changed my life to better. Right there is still some struggles, but they are now less than they were. Especially when it comes to self development, your emotions and power. THANK YOU SO MCUH!
You're a genius. Applied your technique and the one woman asked me why I was ghosting her. I explained just been really busy. But another woman asked me out, so hell with her. I'm going on a date.
King
Ignore her. Take a trip to Vegas ànd post a couple of pics on social media showing how much fun is happening. Then watch what happens.
Rodney Richards exactly lol
True
I get the advice but go to Vegas because you want to go to Vegas. Don't go there just to play games with a girl and hope she comes back.
Only works on weak bitches
Corey Wayne got me through tough times everything he says is on point.
This doesn't work if she's already in another guy's arms. If so, just move on...
If you find yourself doing any of this to attract the girl you want then she is not for you, because when you find the right one, you will never have to go through these mind games. She will love you, your personality and will appreciate you for you and you won't have to do a damn thing. When you run bumps in the road you'll do what normal people do and talk it out.
To atract her. Just ignore her. Works for me all the time 😁
Bet your not getting quality
I’m ghosting her now…permanently! She started the ghost game, now she can live with it. I pity the next guy she chooses.
Only give a woman the equal amount of your energy she gives you fellas..All about that balance.
I think what it all comes down to is having self-confidence in yourself and knowing what your worth. So many people hold onto relationships for dear life thinking that there’s no other way for life to go on without her. These people usually don’t have the confidence in themselves to go find someone better in the sea. Those who are never afraid to be single are usually the happiest kinds of people. When you live a life like this, you will have a better chance at spending the rest of your life with the right girl.
I absolutely agree with what Coach says in this video and there's other dating coaches that teach that stupid 30 day no contact bullshit, then start contacting their ex again and it just doesn't work and even worse, one dating coach even says to continue to ignore your ex even when they are reaching out to you as long as it's within the 30 day no contact and I've seen so many guys do this and then when they out to their ex by day 30, guess what? She was dating some new dude, so the way Corey teaches is way better.
HappyStrengthJonah
Well, if you're the one that got dumped and after 30 days, you're the one doing the contacting, that alone should tell you that there's a reason they aren't making any effort and you don't hear from them but people will humiliate themselves by doing this type of covert pursuing.
Baby Nuts
You're dealing with a very insecure female. If she was secure in herself, she wouldn't see a simple text from another girl as a threat to her. I wouldn't dare reach out to her at this time, the reason you're not hearing from her is that she's holding a grudge against you and if you reach out, more than likely you'll be met with harsh resistance, so don't put yourself in that position because it will be weak also.
If the girl that text you was just a friend and nothing is going on behind your girls back, then you have absolutely nothing to apologize about. Let her get over it first. It's only been since Sunday since you last heard from her and just let her come to you in her own time. Patience with females will be the No. 1 thing you absolutely have to have in dealing with them.
Baby Nuts
Yeah you're welcome, just don't give in to her power games and you'll be fine.
A Mugger, what was the outcome with this girl, if I may ask? Did she end up coming back to you?
Once a woman leaves let her go for life. In fact you should dump her before she has a chance to dump you.
Normally I let them leave first or "dump me"....because over time they will regret it and then they will hate themselves for it...if you dump her shell get over it..like "he's was a douche, omggg whateverrrr" lol....but if she walks away and then over time its like "wow....I walked up from a very good situation...I'm so stupid" they will live in regret....its like sports. The teams that passed on Michael Jordan regretted it. It will always be a "what if" in their and will eat at them
@@badddd That´s very true brother :)
@@badddd Exactly! And also she can't tell her girl friends you broke her heart and you are an asshole because she's the one that left
Pump and let her dump you
I've been seeing this girl, pretty casually, slept with her a couple of times. She started backing away, acting like she's too busy and short text. Kind of depressed me. This cheered me up. Thanks Corey.
Same situation as me Dude. Did She ever reach back out to you?
@@TVinmyEye actually, she hasn't. I moved on. Her loss. Lol
By viewer request, I'll be doing a review video of this video! Great stuff (as usual) and I'll be adding a few bonus tips I'm sure you've mentioned in other videos and will appreciate. Read your book twice. Highly recommend! :)
Women species, such an enigma.
the female species are a egnima
Monkey D Garp Vegeta quote ?
Female species*
They're not an enigma. This generation of women is so self absorbed and social media exacerbates it with all the ego boosting, along with the "grass is always greener" mentality. I wish I was in my parents or grandparents generation, to be quite honest.
StillAtMyMoms man i wish as well i'm tired of all these mind games girls put on ya😣
Corey has very informative and helpful videos. One thing that stands out above all.. it appears that men have to do all the work. By this i mean.. if we have our emotions invested in a female.. we have to appear detached enough to not seem clingy but at the same time be ready to be attentive loving and available when the female decides she wants some attention. I can`t believe how many women these days are high maintenance and demanding. I believe in equality.. and that means women need to meet men around the halfway mark in the dating game. No bullshit and or power play games.
you both said the same thing but in different words ....
aladinin i think the mistake men make is seeing women as such precious angelic beings. you really shouldn't be too invested in someone. not at first at least.
Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on
Eventually. I got tired of playing this game. I no longer care
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Hello Coach I just bought your book, I'm currently in a relationship, it's kinda rocky but I want to keep my game fresh with her and any other women because I was in a relationship for 4 years and came out of it broke, needy, and no game and I'll be damned if I got back to the old me, trust me guys what he says is 100% correct. Keep up the good work Corey!!
This guy knows his stuff. I have watched many videos so far and I'm recognising a lot of standard behaviours in girls I have been dating. I'm gonna buy his book.
If she backs off, let her. She's saying he isn't her first choice.
I’m dealing with this right now. Thank you for this talk/message.
I listen to Corey all day every day. It's the best therapy to get my self respect and focus on my dignity and purpose. Guys don't be a puppy. Be busy and find purpose in your life. Women love a man who doesn't lose direction in their life.
Don't chase a woman let her work for it don't be so available be on your purpose consistently this is a mantra I use everyday I want to be with her but I don't need to be with her she's not the only woman on this planet don't give yourself away so freely it's time for you to play hard to get
Ive bought your work and watched many of your videos. Change for me has happened over the course of 4 years. I still have a far way to go. But after you my life is completely different. Not just in women, but in work and around people. I’ve become a respected, popular and influential person, among my pears and my current girlfriend keeps attraction at 9-10. Thank you Coach.
Indifference. Your happy if you have her. Your happy If you don't. Attracted to men who are not clear about feelings. Attracted when men are not clear
this guy is the man. hes spot on. definitely got my support
Listen up men. Never ever ever take a woman back after she leaves because you already know how it ends. She gave you a sneak preview.
Yes sir. And remember: The only, ONLY reason she ever comes back in the first place is because things with her new dude went south. And she needs emotional support (friendzone). Yeah no g'bye
After reading the book, and hearing this honestly I'm very direct and to the point. I always either way I'm going to enjoy life with a woman or without one. I'm grateful for my last experience where I learned alot from it.
This is awesome. I saw this in college, this advice is still very much relevant. Congratulations on your success man, I remember knowing you’d be hitting a million views!
I really let myself go and really haven't made any life progress....she told me that she couldn't see herself being with someone like me in the future.....but she wants to be friends and be here for me
This video was sent from God.. I'm going through the exact same shit right now this really helped me bro
The silence is the key 🔑 that little space will make her think soooo much 👏🏼
As a married man of 20 years to the same wife I can tell you marriage and life is often about balance. Some days you win and some days you lose but you stay in the game and always look to learn from your mistakes and improve yourself. Sometimes it means you do things you don't want to do for the benefit of the family. That's just life. Beyond that have faith in Jesus and have faith in yourself.
Her: I don’t think I’m in a good place to be in a relationship right now.
Me: Ok, sure
Her:...
3 weeks later
Her: Hey...can I come over
Me: Ok, sure
Best strategy ever
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thor 110 sad state of noncommittal relationships anymore.