Half of big dog problems start with "oh he's a puppy, that's so cute!" Yeah, it might be cute when he's 15 pounds. When he's 100, it's a different story. Always think ahead. If it's not something you want the dog doing when they're older, set the foundation when they're young.
I deff agree I learned that eight my doggy but thankfully I nipped it in the butt quick before it progressed but I hadn’t this man would’ve stepped all over me lol 😂
I agree I have friend who let her puppy nip and would laugh and say he's a baby. 7 month's later she isn't laughing and saying he's a baby any more the dogs still a shark and im like well you trained him to be like that, its going to be double hard training him to stop now
It’s nothing to do with size. It’s all dogs. They all grow into adults and if not given boundaries and clear direction from a young age they will most probably become problematic.
What bothers me is the hypocrisy.... Victoria is preaching force-free training while IMHO there is force throughout this video. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET THIS BALL UNTIL YOU DO WHAT I TELL YOU!!! Is that not force??? Don't get me wrong... I'm all for force. What annoys me is the brainwashing that she's doing force free training when it's far from it. This positive-only force-free training narrative is a FARCE!!! It DOES NOT WORK!!! Even in their own videos, they prove that their methodologies don't work and they use the methods that they preach against! With a balanced dog trainer that understands YES and NO, this same training can be accomplished in 10% of the time, with no hypocrisy and no apologies. And the relationship with the dog will be 1000% better.
The fact that Victoria is highly aware of Jill the cats quality of life shows she loves all animals. It warms my heart ♥ It's the same beautiful approach as jackson galaxy. You look at the entire dynamic of the home. Love this so much!
Jack could have chased Jill right out of the house and had both of them bolt up a hill which could have caused someone who was carrying a pail of water to tumble down the hill, then Jack could have fallen down said hill and had a rather serious head injury, with Jill tumbling down right behind him😎
I enjoyed seeing Victoria use the ball as a motivator instead of food. Lots of people have the idea that positive training is all about food but Victoria clearly demonstrated here positive training is about working with what the dog finds most rewarding.
@@timjohnun4297 they didnt say dont use food they said other thigns can be used for positive reinforcement its about finding what a dog values most and using that
Discipling a dog - or a child-- is not punishing them or " being cruel." Discipling a child or a dog is an act of love and is first modeled, as being self disciplined oneself. Teaching proper behavior to keep a child or a dog from both destroying their home and to avoid dangerous situations, is the greatest act of love that you can do.
That's exactly what people dislike nowadays. They treat children and dogs like tiny house cats and are afraid to set up boundaries, because they just want to please instead of guiding into adulthood. 😢
I can't believe she allowed him to bite herself and the cat. She even puts her hand towards his mouth like it's a chew toy. Training a puppy is absolutely a lot of work and necessary. An untrained dog is dangerous.
yeah, and when he was jumping to bite Jill in her arms, she didn't even tried to turn away and was so slow with pushing him away. actually bending down like she wanted to put Jill more in his reach tbh. almost like she was telling him to chew them or something. it was so annoying to see
When my wolf dog was nearly full grown & still puppish, he was still nipping ,he already weighed 130 lbs. , he topped out at 150 lbs. when he got his full growth. I knew that he was only going to get bigger, I nipped the nipping in the bud. I jumped on top of him, flattening him & bit his ear so hard, he screamed. He NEVER , EVER nipped at me again. EVER. NOBODY WANTS A 150 LB WOLF NIPPING AT THEM, DO THEY? RIGHT?
When I had a cat and a dog together, I just fed the cat on a higher level, like a shelf, so the dog couldn't eat the cat's food. I would never have thought to make the cat hide behind a stove to eat O_o
2 cats and a puppy here and they all have their own special place to eat with the cats higher up, everyone is in the same room and the older cat can get his spoon by spoon feeding (he is ready for the pearly gates, 15.5 years old and can't eat all his food at one time anymore) without anyone being stressed. Younger cat (5 years old) and puppy (8 months old) play chase together too, puppy had to learn impulse control but she learned well thus knows her rules and she's a doodle too.
I never had to train my car specifically.. She's naturally good, a few corrections when she did some unwanted behaviour (a simple "no") and that was that. She's couch potato, doesnt get into mischief
Problem is there are sooo many different ways to tackle dog training and honestly not everything works for everyone and every dog. That's why it's pretty difficult to have some kind of "training" before having a dog. Also the quality of the training wiuld have to be homogenous which is... Difficult to achieve.
I feel like he should have been on a long training line at the beach so he couldnt be reinforced for running off and she could still maintain a bit of control and safety. Long lines are awesome for practicing your recall skills but keeping the dog safe.
I am legitimately getting pissed off at this woman who has absolutely no idea about how to own a dog and how to own a cat, and even doesn't know how to be disciplined about any single thing I am surprised that the dog is still safe and the way she just kind of grinned when she heard the dog might get flattened absolutely pissed every single cell out of mine.
It's already obvious the moment the dog storms out of the house, this is terrible. I am already pissed the firs minute of the video. If you know your dog doesn't listen, then why is he walking around free in the house, while opening a door. I already dont want to watch the rest, this borders on animal cruelty, or even is.
@@kae9341 when she said he picks the cat up etc I was horrified poor Jill! I also have a cat and dog and never would we allow this to happen its animal creutly allowing a dog to do that to a cat
Our fox hound/coon hound mix was absolute hell to train in recall outside of our house. He would dash out the door, his nose overrode his brain and he'd be gone gone for hours. We tried treats, toys, people foods, everything we'd used on our other dogs with no success. We were getting complaints from all over town about him and he'd even started coming home with minor injuries. We began using an electronic collar, utilizing high pitched beeps and vibration settings. Using this and praise, we discovered he's not food or toy driven at all, he's attention driven. He lives to be made much of. This hound literally begs for hugs and kisses! If he gets out now, he now comes when called cause we give him loads of loves instead of treats and he now ignores his nose in favor of the attention he gets. Never had a dog choose praise over treats before!
I think Jack wants to be a good boy but was never taught clearly how to be that good boy. I am halfway in and he looks so responsive and interested in the training. ^-^
@katphish30 okayyyy what is wrong with you? Got up with the wrong foot today?^^ For me to comment on something I don't have to have original ideas. For my original ideas I am in my lab and not on RUclips HAHAHA! So loosen up. Relax. If you want to read original ideas you might have to look elsewhere than in the comments on a dogtraining video of Victoria.
@@katphish30 Not everyone thinks that Jack wants to be a good boy and was never taught. It's not a fact, it's a thought and opinion. Please be nicer about it next time if you don't know what you're talking about.
I grew up with dogs and cats. That cat is so scared to walk around its own home. I don't blame the dog he was just never taught how to interact with cats. It is sad how much suffering on the cats part could have been stopped with just a little bit of consistency.
Title of this video should really be “Owner Can’t Handle Labradoodle’s normal dog behavior because she knows nothing about dogs or training whatsoever and probly shouldn’t have got him in the first place”
I read comments about Victoria being kinder, but in my experience with people kindness can be confused with a less serious matter. When she delivers a message to a person it is clear and concise just like she communicates with dogs. I love how she explains what the dog is looking for and how rewards are received. Attention=reward. Love it! I have cats so I have to speak in cat mojo with Jackson Gman!! But I used some of Victoria’s training to work with my friends mastiff!!! It was beautiful!! The mastiff becomes scared with the owner isn’t present, so I approached in a non aggressive manner, and sat down about 5 feet away and had my back to her, and she came to me, and we were friends again. With this I believe we have a good foundation to go on. As long as I read her signals correctly. 🤞 Thank you Victoria for training dummies like me!!!
Training a dog does not equal breaking a dog's spirit. With training, both the owner and the dog (and the poor cat) will be happier (and safer). This owner needs a lot more training and will probably need refresher courses every few months! She also needs to watch some Jackson Galaxy videos on how to "catify" her house.
This is why I love the full episodes, I didn't realise, during Jack's door dash from Bruce, they cut the recording when he dashed that second time! My heart jumped! I would not be able to live with that kind of fear because of how attached I'd be to my dog! Thank goodness Victoria was able to save Jack from what would've been a devasting catastrophe!
What an ineffectual woman. I can't get over the way she lets the dog control her. She shouldn't have a dog and as for letting Jack maul that poor cat, well what can I say. I wonder what her children are like.
How can you be so oblivious to the danger your dog poses to other people? Can you imagine someone swerving into a pole to avoid hitting that giant dog that ran into the street? Ugh.
@@anonymoose116 for sure, they aren't intentionally bad dogs at all. The problem is that MANY owners are similar to Darla, and don't understand how to train their dog, or that their dog needs to be brushed in between appointments. They bring in large, matted, misbehaving dogs that have clearly not ever been brushed, and then the owners insist that they want their dog to "still have cute, fluffy long fur".
Would you want to continue living with your best friend if they stole your cat's food, distracted you while driving, and physically hurt you when you didn't pay them enough attentnion at home?
@@wholeshebang1 Yeah exactly! You go to the beach together, have a good time, but you're tired now, or you've got somewhere else to be, it's time to go home. But if you say "let's go home now" they won't listen and refuse to leave the beach unless you chase them and physically drag them away. That's not a friend I would want to go to the beach with again.
How can you not secure your dog in the car? That is not just downright dangerous, I’m in the UK and it is also illegal. How can you get a dog and not invest any time into training even the most basics? It is an ongoing journey and commitment. Educating and training your dog never stops.
There are so many way this owner could have caused accidents on a daily basis. I refuse to blame the dog, it's all on an owner who did not live up to her responsibility.
Not all dogs need it. My puppy (nine months) is great in a car. She just lays down in the back seat. When I open the car door and tell her to wait, she knows she needs to wait until I clip the leash before she can jump out of the car. There's no reason for me to restrain her.
@@blueflare3848 It is still illegal in the UK not to restrain your dog - needed or not. An unrestrained dog can turn into a lethal projectile in the event of an accident.
@@blueflare3848 Your reason to properly secure her in the car should be that she doesn't fly straight through your windshield in case you have to break real hard or are in an accident. Kids and adults can also sit on their seats without jumping out, you still put a seat belt on them.
Jill is such a calm cat, my dad's dog lunges at my cats (she won't hurt them but she sounds very threatening and likes to open her mouth around their heads) but she is restricted to the kitchen and yard while my cats get the living room and garage. Out of 7 of my cats only my female cats feel comfortable enough to come to the kitchen despite my dad's dog's bluffing threats. If I carry any of my male cats near the kitchen they start to squirm because they know the dog is there. The fact that Jill is so calm despite being carried towards her terrifying agressor...she's amazing.
@@AnnaP-uh3mc The one-handed rowing. 😂 And just before that, around 7:04, when Victoria is talking to the friend and Darla and Jack are just running in the background. TV comedy gold.
I have had dogs together with cats for more than 25 years, and they have always got along well. Sometimes the dogs even formed a friendship with one of the cats. And I made sure from the get-go that the dogs never chased or bullied the cats and that the cats respected the dogs when they were still small!
I love this show and I love watching Victoria My name is Christine and I'm 23 years old and I have autism lost of love to Victoria I love it when people calls dog's and kid's kiddo on your next show could you call the dog or dog's kiddo or kiddo's?
@@WalterEliuk-ur6gethese shows were recorded in 2008-2013. Victoria wouldn’t use “kiddo” because that is associating dogs and humans as being similar. Part of her teaching is that dogs are not humans and they are not children. They are dogs and they are pets .
Please, for the love of god groom him! Doodles need to be brushed down to the skin almost every day. If you don't they get mats so bad and often need to be shave or go through painful grooming. They are a lot to take care of and people underestimate how much work they can be, let alone being a puppy and all that entails.
I wish my mom could meet Victoria and receive her help :( her relationship with her 90 pound Pitbull is the exact same, maybe even worse because he's aggressive now.
Victoria thank You so much. My cat Pablo also thank you. Our puppy very quickly learned with your super method how to leave our poor cat alone. I watch your work and I think You are awsome and great at your work. I can’t thank you enough. Greetings from Croatia.
Nothing worse than an obnoxious Dog especially a smart Dog🫣! Great job Victoria getting through 👍. Darla did well getting Jack under control 😊. JO JO IN VT 💞
Yeah and honestly it's also not fair for _Jack_ to live like this because Darla's not helping him become a good pet that she and by extension her family and friends can enjoy. It's not right that Jack _hates_ having to come back and listen to Darla. Jack should come back and listen to Darla because he _wants to_ and Darla should get to praise Jack because she loves him, not just to pacify him.
ALL dogs large and small need to be trained.A friend I know has a dog rescue/pound in the UK and she has been inundated with Labradoodles that the owners can`t deal with due to their hyperactive behaviour!
That is hilarious. They don’t have a relationship at all. People who don’t restrain their pets in the car, who don’t put life jackets on them, who let them bold into the street don’t actually love their pets. She is the mother who wants to be buddies with their children.
Anyone else find it disconcerting that while talking about "door dashing" when Victoria tells Darla and "thats when Jack will get flattened" that Darla looks down and away and smiles. Can anyone tell me what is that about?
The touch collar trick I did with my dog from our very first walk, I got questioned quite a lot but it worked ... unless she was scared and over threshold then nothing brought her back :( I now pay someone to walk her as I am unable but she does so well. She has a long line that I give to my walker whenever I feel she might get spooked, mainly around fireworks season.
Nah I’m mad at Darla she put those animals in seriously dangerous situations and I’m kinda pissed that Victoria wasn’t as harsh with her as she is with a lot of male clients
As an avid boater, I really have to stress the importance of NOT tethering the dog during the boat trip! It can get dangerous for the dog extremely fast.
Also not once have I seen a well maintained doodle coat. They're either shaved or a total brillowpad. It's the highest maintenance coat possible. And that alone means that there should be far fewer bc so many people don't train or exercise their dogs adequately let alone groom them regularly.
Yes! Many groomers won't even accept them because they nearly always come in matted and they're terrible and sometimes aggressive for grooming. Last year my 77-yo mom's dog passed and my wretched cousin (a backyard breeder🤦♀) was nagging Mom to take one of her doodle puppies 🤬 I sent Mom about a dozen Girl with the Dogs videos featuring doodles and she thought better of it 😂 She wound up getting another senior mut from the shelter who's very sweet and chill.
Wow, Darla was very annoyed the entire process and you can tell by her unwillingness to follow instructions with any amount of dedication. The only things she succeeded in are things that involved a physical object restraining Jack, not her. Check her expressions whenever Victoria corrects her. She hates it. And that's why she's such a bad pet owner. She sees it as some sort of power conflict with the person she asked to come help instead of seeing it as help. I'm so sad to see she has pets. They're going to get hurt because of her.
Yes. This dog is in desperate need of professional grooming. I don’t know why people get poodle mixes and then don’t groom them. I say that as an owner of a poodle mix.
My dog, also named jack, absolutely despises water. Will climb on your head if you try to give him a bath, but he loves boat rides! He did not make the connection that boats are in water, however, and tried to jump out of it once. He always wears a life vest, is leashed, and monitored around any water after that. Some of my relatives think its overkill but I would rather be over vigilant than dogless.
My thoughts are, ‘immediately’ get a crate for the dog and a crate for the cat, so the cat has a safety space while eating. This will take lots of time.
So many of these owners have wicked cases of denial. It's as many of you have said, most of time Victoria is training the owners. Seems like they could all benefit from some human therapy.
Half of big dog problems start with "oh he's a puppy, that's so cute!" Yeah, it might be cute when he's 15 pounds. When he's 100, it's a different story. Always think ahead. If it's not something you want the dog doing when they're older, set the foundation when they're young.
I deff agree I learned that eight my doggy but thankfully I nipped it in the butt quick before it progressed but I hadn’t this man would’ve stepped all over me lol 😂
Yep, neighbors dog bit me 3 times and her owner said “she’s just a puppy”.
Yep, neighbors dog bit me 3 times and her owner said “she’s just a puppy”.
I agree I have friend who let her puppy nip and would laugh and say he's a baby. 7 month's later she isn't laughing and saying he's a baby any more the dogs still a shark and im like well you trained him to be like that, its going to be double hard training him to stop now
It’s nothing to do with size. It’s all dogs. They all grow into adults and if not given boundaries and clear direction from a young age they will most probably become problematic.
Jack's not a bad boy, he just lacks impulse control. Happy that Darla has friends who are there to tell her such. Cute dog and cat.
Absolutely! He was not possessive of his toys and didn't growl when she tried to take them away. He just didn't have enough guidance 😊
What bothers me is the hypocrisy.... Victoria is preaching force-free training while IMHO there is force throughout this video. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET THIS BALL UNTIL YOU DO WHAT I TELL YOU!!! Is that not force??? Don't get me wrong... I'm all for force. What annoys me is the brainwashing that she's doing force free training when it's far from it. This positive-only force-free training narrative is a FARCE!!! It DOES NOT WORK!!! Even in their own videos, they prove that their methodologies don't work and they use the methods that they preach against!
With a balanced dog trainer that understands YES and NO, this same training can be accomplished in 10% of the time, with no hypocrisy and no apologies. And the relationship with the dog will be 1000% better.
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The fact that Victoria is highly aware of Jill the cats quality of life shows she loves all animals. It warms my heart ♥ It's the same beautiful approach as jackson galaxy. You look at the entire dynamic of the home. Love this so much!
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You must be a cat lover too 😻 Victoria and Jackson have very similar approach. Both dog and cat lovers 🐶😻
Don't kid yourself she's there for the dog
Jack could have chased Jill right out of the house and had both of them bolt up a hill which could have caused someone who was carrying a pail of water to tumble down the hill, then Jack could have fallen down said hill and had a rather serious head injury, with Jill tumbling down right behind him😎
I enjoyed seeing Victoria use the ball as a motivator instead of food. Lots of people have the idea that positive training is all about food but Victoria clearly demonstrated here positive training is about working with what the dog finds most rewarding.
It doesn't work with all dogs though. My 2 would turn up their noses if I tried to use anything but food as a reward lol
I agree. My dog isn't food motivated at all. Things like the balls work on her.
Yep! My beagle mix loves treats, but he's honestly more praise motivated than anything
@@timjohnun4297 they didnt say dont use food they said other thigns can be used for positive reinforcement its about finding what a dog values most and using that
I learned that the dog I was working with enjoyed praise more than treats, so I stopped using them
Discipling a dog - or a child-- is not punishing them or " being cruel." Discipling a child or a dog is an act of love and is first modeled, as being self disciplined oneself. Teaching proper behavior to keep a child or a dog from both destroying their home and to avoid dangerous situations, is the greatest act of love that you can do.
That's exactly what people dislike nowadays. They treat children and dogs like tiny house cats and are afraid to set up boundaries, because they just want to please instead of guiding into adulthood. 😢
I can't believe she allowed him to bite herself and the cat. She even puts her hand towards his mouth like it's a chew toy. Training a puppy is absolutely a lot of work and necessary. An untrained dog is dangerous.
I completely agree.
Oh absolutely. This dog was completely out of control, and it was all her doing.
yeah, and when he was jumping to bite Jill in her arms, she didn't even tried to turn away and was so slow with pushing him away. actually bending down like she wanted to put Jill more in his reach tbh.
almost like she was telling him to chew them or something. it was so annoying to see
When my wolf dog was nearly full grown & still puppish, he was still nipping ,he already weighed 130 lbs. , he topped out at 150 lbs. when he got his full growth. I knew that he was only going to get bigger, I nipped the nipping in the bud. I jumped on top of him, flattening him & bit his ear so hard, he screamed. He NEVER , EVER nipped at me again. EVER. NOBODY WANTS A 150 LB WOLF NIPPING AT THEM, DO THEY? RIGHT?
I've been working with one of my dogs for 9 years and i still have to stay on top of his training. Training never stops!
I agree and it's the same way with my 8 year old dog
Yes! Training is a lifestyle...not an event.
When I had a cat and a dog together, I just fed the cat on a higher level, like a shelf, so the dog couldn't eat the cat's food. I would never have thought to make the cat hide behind a stove to eat O_o
Right? That was absolutely bizarre.
2 cats and a puppy here and they all have their own special place to eat with the cats higher up, everyone is in the same room and the older cat can get his spoon by spoon feeding (he is ready for the pearly gates, 15.5 years old and can't eat all his food at one time anymore) without anyone being stressed.
Younger cat (5 years old) and puppy (8 months old) play chase together too, puppy had to learn impulse control but she learned well thus knows her rules and she's a doodle too.
Very ridiculous!! It can’t be safe there either.
Same! I watch a lot of Jackson Galaxy too 😂 my brother though, has his dog and 2 cats all crate trained! They all go into their crates to eat.
I would always pu my cats first 😊🎉
Darla is raising her dog as if he’s a cat. No guidance, and letting him “be” 😂
You don't even raise cats that way I'm training my kitten
Um...you shouldn't even be raising a cat that way....🤯
I never had to train my car specifically.. She's naturally good, a few corrections when she did some unwanted behaviour (a simple "no") and that was that. She's couch potato, doesnt get into mischief
Cats need boundaries too.
As Jackson Galaxy would say, She also need to Catify her house for the cat's sake.
Ha, ha. I just wrote a reply suggesting that further up. 😊 🐾
Jackson Galaxy you mean? 😉
Absolutely!!
There really should be mandatory dog training for people prior to owning.
Yes! I feel the same, for all pets because they each have different needs that people are often unaware of which can have very sad results .
Likewise, for people planning to have children.
Problem is there are sooo many different ways to tackle dog training and honestly not everything works for everyone and every dog. That's why it's pretty difficult to have some kind of "training" before having a dog. Also the quality of the training wiuld have to be homogenous which is... Difficult to achieve.
Kinda wish people would research their animals before they get them...
For sure. Companion animals and KIDS.
I feel like he should have been on a long training line at the beach so he couldnt be reinforced for running off and she could still maintain a bit of control and safety. Long lines are awesome for practicing your recall skills but keeping the dog safe.
He should have, but Victoria was still observing the owner and trying to get her to actually understand the situation.
I am legitimately getting pissed off at this woman who has absolutely no idea about how to own a dog and how to own a cat, and even doesn't know how to be disciplined about any single thing I am surprised that the dog is still safe and the way she just kind of grinned when she heard the dog might get flattened absolutely pissed every single cell out of mine.
She was the visage of cluelessness, omg. And there is this nagging feeling that she did not understand the idea of training a dog, not really.
It's already obvious the moment the dog storms out of the house, this is terrible.
I am already pissed the firs minute of the video.
If you know your dog doesn't listen, then why is he walking around free in the house, while opening a door.
I already dont want to watch the rest, this borders on animal cruelty, or even is.
I really hate how she just let the dog chew on her poor cat and still had the audacity to say he's cute.
@@kae9341 when she said he picks the cat up etc I was horrified poor Jill! I also have a cat and dog and never would we allow this to happen its animal creutly allowing a dog to do that to a cat
If she wasn't a pothead, she's doing a great imitation.
I'm sorry but I am LAUGHING at the silliness of this dog owner so hard....
Same. The running on the beach & the rowing in the dingy & holding the leash as dog is in the water, did it for me.
Dogs should always wear a life jacket on a boat. The jacket will have a handle on the top so it can be fished out with a boat hook.
Yep - that one did.
As well as _people._ I saw them in the observation and I was like, _"Why_ are _none_ of them in life vests?"
Our fox hound/coon hound mix was absolute hell to train in recall outside of our house. He would dash out the door, his nose overrode his brain and he'd be gone gone for hours. We tried treats, toys, people foods, everything we'd used on our other dogs with no success. We were getting complaints from all over town about him and he'd even started coming home with minor injuries. We began using an electronic collar, utilizing high pitched beeps and vibration settings. Using this and praise, we discovered he's not food or toy driven at all, he's attention driven. He lives to be made much of. This hound literally begs for hugs and kisses! If he gets out now, he now comes when called cause we give him loads of loves instead of treats and he now ignores his nose in favor of the attention he gets. Never had a dog choose praise over treats before!
The key is to figure out their drive.
For some dogs, it's attention or their favorite toy over treats.
I think Jack wants to be a good boy but was never taught clearly how to be that good boy. I am halfway in and he looks so responsive and interested in the training. ^-^
I love when people come along and summarize the video as if they're having original ideas. 😆
@katphish30 okayyyy what is wrong with you? Got up with the wrong foot today?^^
For me to comment on something I don't have to have original ideas. For my original ideas I am in my lab and not on RUclips HAHAHA! So loosen up. Relax. If you want to read original ideas you might have to look elsewhere than in the comments on a dogtraining video of Victoria.
@@katphish30They’re just stating their opinion
@@alisondye7372 They're just summarizing the video for some reason, you mean.
@@katphish30 Not everyone thinks that Jack wants to be a good boy and was never taught. It's not a fact, it's a thought and opinion. Please be nicer about it next time if you don't know what you're talking about.
I grew up with dogs and cats. That cat is so scared to walk around its own home. I don't blame the dog he was just never taught how to interact with cats. It is sad how much suffering on the cats part could have been stopped with just a little bit of consistency.
Poor Jill. I really hate the owner let him terrorize her like that. I’m glad Victoria made a point to fix that.
Victoria Stilwell is a true dog whisperer ❤✨️👍
Love those long episodes! It allows development and comprehension.
"Jack will nibble on me when I wont give him the cat-" im sorry what-
saw Jack jump off the little rowboat and WOW hes like me with my attention span o-o
It doesn't seem she cares for the cat. I was shocked she said that.
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Victoria really is a very brilliant dog and human trainer, I have a lot of love and respect for her!! 😃🐕👏👍👍
Title of this video should really be “Owner Can’t Handle Labradoodle’s normal dog behavior because she knows nothing about dogs or training whatsoever and probly shouldn’t have got him in the first place”
This was a great example of the safety that comes from proper training.
Thanks for the reminder.
I read comments about Victoria being kinder, but in my experience with people kindness can be confused with a less serious matter. When she delivers a message to a person it is clear and concise just like she communicates with dogs. I love how she explains what the dog is looking for and how rewards are received. Attention=reward. Love it! I have cats so I have to speak in cat mojo with Jackson Gman!! But I used some of Victoria’s training to work with my friends mastiff!!! It was beautiful!! The mastiff becomes scared with the owner isn’t present, so I approached in a non aggressive manner, and sat down about 5 feet away and had my back to her, and she came to me, and we were friends again. With this I believe we have a good foundation to go on. As long as I read her signals correctly. 🤞
Thank you Victoria for training dummies like me!!!
Victoria is super kind and loving. Her training is an act of love. Being stern does not = unkind
33:44 I’m glad she was able to see in real time why it’s important to discipline him. That could’ve been a tragedy.
Training a dog does not equal breaking a dog's spirit. With training, both the owner and the dog (and the poor cat) will be happier (and safer). This owner needs a lot more training and will probably need refresher courses every few months! She also needs to watch some Jackson Galaxy videos on how to "catify" her house.
This is why I love the full episodes, I didn't realise, during Jack's door dash from Bruce, they cut the recording when he dashed that second time! My heart jumped! I would not be able to live with that kind of fear because of how attached I'd be to my dog! Thank goodness Victoria was able to save Jack from what would've been a devasting catastrophe!
What an ineffectual woman. I can't get over the way she lets the dog control her. She shouldn't have a dog and as for letting Jack maul that poor cat, well what can I say. I wonder what her children are like.
Darla doesn't seem to care about her dog getting killed by a car. Seriously! How can she not see how dangerous his behavior is.
She also didn't seem to care her cat getting killed by her dog
Jill should be rehomed
How can you be so oblivious to the danger your dog poses to other people? Can you imagine someone swerving into a pole to avoid hitting that giant dog that ran into the street? Ugh.
Darla and Jack is exactly the reason why many groomers will not work on doodles.
They're not bad dogs, they're just hyper.
Even this dog isn't a bad dog - he's just being a dog and his owner never had a firm hand on him.
@@anonymoose116 for sure, they aren't intentionally bad dogs at all.
The problem is that MANY owners are similar to Darla, and don't understand how to train their dog, or that their dog needs to be brushed in between appointments. They bring in large, matted, misbehaving dogs that have clearly not ever been brushed, and then the owners insist that they want their dog to "still have cute, fluffy long fur".
Would you want to continue living with your best friend if they stole your cat's food, distracted you while driving, and physically hurt you when you didn't pay them enough attentnion at home?
Exactly! I try to show respect for my dog’s space and absolutely expect the same from him. I feel like everyone is happier that way.
...and ran away from you every chance they get! 😁 A quality friend!
@@wholeshebang1 Yeah exactly! You go to the beach together, have a good time, but you're tired now, or you've got somewhere else to be, it's time to go home. But if you say "let's go home now" they won't listen and refuse to leave the beach unless you chase them and physically drag them away. That's not a friend I would want to go to the beach with again.
Victoria: I want to see you try and get him back
Darla: 🏃🏼♀️💨
*comedic music intensifies*
Darla’s Friend: That’s hot..
Me: 💦💀💦
Hahaha! 😂
Watching her running on the beach had me in tears laughing. I'm even laughing now as I'm writing.
Poor Jill needs cat furniture
Victoria Stilwell. The BEST human trainer.
How can you not secure your dog in the car? That is not just downright dangerous, I’m in the UK and it is also illegal. How can you get a dog and not invest any time into training even the most basics? It is an ongoing journey and commitment. Educating and training your dog never stops.
There are so many way this owner could have caused accidents on a daily basis. I refuse to blame the dog, it's all on an owner who did not live up to her responsibility.
Not all dogs need it. My puppy (nine months) is great in a car. She just lays down in the back seat. When I open the car door and tell her to wait, she knows she needs to wait until I clip the leash before she can jump out of the car. There's no reason for me to restrain her.
@@blueflare3848 It is still illegal in the UK not to restrain your dog - needed or not. An unrestrained dog can turn into a lethal projectile in the event of an accident.
Illegal in Australia as well and just plain common sense.
@@blueflare3848 Your reason to properly secure her in the car should be that she doesn't fly straight through your windshield in case you have to break real hard or are in an accident. Kids and adults can also sit on their seats without jumping out, you still put a seat belt on them.
My heart stopped when he ran out into traffic and we heard the screetch of brakes and a carhorn. It's my biggest fear as I lost a dog that way.
This is so frustrating to watch, this woman has no clue how to keep her dog safe
She should stick to other fashion accessories and have gotten a new purse instead.
She's not fit to be a pet owner
I was literally yelling at the screen 😅
Presenting training as safety for the dog is so smart. This lady loves her dog and keeping him safe is important to her
SO glad I saw this episode. I have a 1 yr old Aussie-doodle and he's similar in size, behavior, and distractibility. These techniques really help.
Jill is such a calm cat, my dad's dog lunges at my cats (she won't hurt them but she sounds very threatening and likes to open her mouth around their heads) but she is restricted to the kitchen and yard while my cats get the living room and garage. Out of 7 of my cats only my female cats feel comfortable enough to come to the kitchen despite my dad's dog's bluffing threats. If I carry any of my male cats near the kitchen they start to squirm because they know the dog is there. The fact that Jill is so calm despite being carried towards her terrifying agressor...she's amazing.
Yes, JiLL is “AmaZing!” ❤
Surely a dog gate at the entrance or just inside would help for safety… I wouldn’t want to risk a front door straight onto a road like that
exactly what I was thinking. Why wasnt a second gate suggested?
That dog would easily jump one of those baby gates. It's not even fully grown yet.
The worse a dog is trained, the more stressed and unhappy it is...
She bonked his head with the ball😂
So happy victoria saw and advocated for jill!! Shes a rock star!
That poor kitty
Her chasing him though 😂
Ikr 😂 When she was trying to row the dingy and hold his lead while he swam 😂
...while yelling at him in a distressed voice. He ain't coming back to _that!_ 😁
@@AnnaP-uh3mc The one-handed rowing. 😂 And just before that, around 7:04, when Victoria is talking to the friend and Darla and Jack are just running in the background. TV comedy gold.
I have had dogs together with cats for more than 25 years, and they have always got along well. Sometimes the dogs even formed a friendship with one of the cats. And I made sure from the get-go that the dogs never chased or bullied the cats and that the cats respected the dogs when they were still small!
As it should be. Well done.
@@mryan1836 , thanks 😀 And , yes, that's just how it should be handled. And it's nice to watch how cats and dogs interact with each other.
What a smart beautiful boy! Loved to see how much he was able to relax when he had some rules.
I love this show and I love watching Victoria My name is Christine and I'm 23 years old and I have autism lost of love to Victoria I love it when people calls dog's and kid's kiddo on your next show could you call the dog or dog's kiddo or kiddo's?
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These episodes are pre-recorded she's not godnatt do what you ask because she can't. 🙄
What do you mean of that
@@WalterEliuk-ur6gethese shows were recorded in 2008-2013. Victoria wouldn’t use “kiddo” because that is associating dogs and humans as being similar. Part of her teaching is that dogs are not humans and they are not children. They are dogs and they are pets .
Please, for the love of god groom him! Doodles need to be brushed down to the skin almost every day. If you don't they get mats so bad and often need to be shave or go through painful grooming. They are a lot to take care of and people underestimate how much work they can be, let alone being a puppy and all that entails.
Dog with no boundaries
If this is how this woman is with her dog imagine what any children in her care would be like. What planet has she been on.
I know she has good intentions, but I truly hope she never has kids.
I wish my mom could meet Victoria and receive her help :( her relationship with her 90 pound Pitbull is the exact same, maybe even worse because he's aggressive now.
Victoria thank You so much. My cat Pablo also thank you.
Our puppy very quickly learned with your super method how to leave our poor cat alone. I watch your work and I think You are awsome and great at your work. I can’t thank you enough.
Greetings from Croatia.
Poor Jill!
I'm so in love with Victoria and her skills her patience is phenomenal specifically with the dog owners
Nothing worse than an obnoxious Dog especially a smart Dog🫣!
Great job Victoria getting through 👍.
Darla did well getting Jack under control 😊.
JO JO IN VT 💞
Labdoodles are so sweet and good dogs just need to trained ❤
Yeah and honestly it's also not fair for _Jack_ to live like this because Darla's not helping him become a good pet that she and by extension her family and friends can enjoy. It's not right that Jack _hates_ having to come back and listen to Darla. Jack should come back and listen to Darla because he _wants to_ and Darla should get to praise Jack because she loves him, not just to pacify him.
@@rogue7723 Darla has total no personality. What a empty shell. I would run or swim away as well.
ALL dogs large and small need to be trained.A friend I know has a dog rescue/pound in the UK and she has been inundated with Labradoodles that the owners can`t deal with due to their hyperactive behaviour!
Horrible dogs.
Destiny Teran sorry I have to disagree. I have a super chill service Labradoodle. Granted he has never been hyper like this.
That is hilarious. They don’t have a relationship at all. People who don’t restrain their pets in the car, who don’t put life jackets on them, who let them bold into the street don’t actually love their pets.
She is the mother who wants to be buddies with their children.
Anyone else find it disconcerting that while talking about "door dashing" when Victoria tells Darla and "thats when Jack will get flattened" that Darla looks down and away and smiles. Can anyone tell me what is that about?
I don't understand people, if your dog has no recall, why let it off leash?
Love the gate. We have several. I would never be without them.
The touch collar trick I did with my dog from our very first walk, I got questioned quite a lot but it worked ... unless she was scared and over threshold then nothing brought her back :( I now pay someone to walk her as I am unable but she does so well. She has a long line that I give to my walker whenever I feel she might get spooked, mainly around fireworks season.
I kinda feel bad for this woman she thinks of jack as her best friend and jack seems to barely care or notice her cuz why would he
You are wonderful Victoria❤
Nah I’m mad at Darla she put those animals in seriously dangerous situations and I’m kinda pissed that Victoria wasn’t as harsh with her as she is with a lot of male clients
Males are tougher than females so ig they go harder on the males ig?
@@LunAr_1nkgirl/or boy what- makes no sense
This the funniest episode I seen yet 🤣🤣wen she was chasing the dog on the beach bruh 😮😂😂
They should also install shelves and cat-towers so the cat can get up from the floor and away from the dog more.
She sending out high energy signals to jack. She’s making him excited.
As an avid boater, I really have to stress the importance of NOT tethering the dog during the boat trip! It can get dangerous for the dog extremely fast.
Why? Will the dog choker something if it jump into the water?
Ever since i was older than 12, i havent been able to make that squeal sound, but i find a dramatic "OWWUHH" fares well
Also not once have I seen a well maintained doodle coat. They're either shaved or a total brillowpad. It's the highest maintenance coat possible. And that alone means that there should be far fewer bc so many people don't train or exercise their dogs adequately let alone groom them regularly.
Yes! Many groomers won't even accept them because they nearly always come in matted and they're terrible and sometimes aggressive for grooming. Last year my 77-yo mom's dog passed and my wretched cousin (a backyard breeder🤦♀) was nagging Mom to take one of her doodle puppies 🤬 I sent Mom about a dozen Girl with the Dogs videos featuring doodles and she thought better of it 😂 She wound up getting another senior mut from the shelter who's very sweet and chill.
poodle is very smart. it is so easy to train them actually.
Yes. PUREBRED poodles!
Poodles yeah, any doodles= questionable
Who gave a dog to this woman ?😱
That POOR kitty. And she saw no issue with what Jack was doing.
Miss you on TV. Good I found you. 😊
Wow, Darla was very annoyed the entire process and you can tell by her unwillingness to follow instructions with any amount of dedication. The only things she succeeded in are things that involved a physical object restraining Jack, not her. Check her expressions whenever Victoria corrects her. She hates it. And that's why she's such a bad pet owner. She sees it as some sort of power conflict with the person she asked to come help instead of seeing it as help. I'm so sad to see she has pets. They're going to get hurt because of her.
She even smirked when Victoria said he's gonna get squished.
Oh, yikes. She has set absolutely no boundaries for that dog. He doesn’t respect her at all. My 9 month old puppy listens better than this.
How can the dog see properly with hair in his eyes all the time? I can't imagine going through life like that. Isn't it supposed to be trimmed?
Yes. This dog is in desperate need of professional grooming. I don’t know why people get poodle mixes and then don’t groom them. I say that as an owner of a poodle mix.
Jup, this dog is also probably matted. Long haired dogs and especially doodles need to be brushed every day. The is obviously not doing that.
My dog, also named jack, absolutely despises water. Will climb on your head if you try to give him a bath, but he loves boat rides! He did not make the connection that boats are in water, however, and tried to jump out of it once.
He always wears a life vest, is leashed, and monitored around any water after that.
Some of my relatives think its overkill but I would rather be over vigilant than dogless.
Your a genius always Victoria ❤❤
Get tht lady a house line lol jack definitely runs the show
@16:31 and @16:57 I kept laughing when she bounced the ball on Jack’s head 😂
Absolutely pitiful and extremely dangerous. Somany people who SHOULDN'T BE PERMITTED TO OWN PETS....PERIOD. 😤
My thoughts are, ‘immediately’ get a crate for the dog and a crate for the cat, so the cat has a safety space while eating. This will take lots of time.
The person that is watching I wanna tell u that it starts in a little over an hour
Darla is a track star. She's pretty quick on her feet.🤣
Hey Victory, kudos to you and your abilities!!!
Jack gives Darla a hell of exercise every day. WOW!
can you imagine what a child of hers would be like!???
Thankfully, a child doesn't have to be in her home.
Mauled by Jack, maybe?
Menace to Society
Spoiled..entitled & disobedient
At 12:15 she looked like she was silently telling Victoria to F off 😂😂
That woman needs training too. Absolute melted candle of a Brain.
21:58 That will onoly work when human is around. Once you leave the dog and cat alone, the dog will attack because no one is telling him no.
Jack loves running and wow Darla can run too so much better than I can they should do cani Cross together 🐕🦺🏃♀️💨
🤣
Jack is so sweet and and adorable ❤
So many of these owners have wicked cases of denial. It's as many of you have said, most of time Victoria is training the owners. Seems like they could all benefit from some human therapy.
Darla even after training don't seem to get it. It's her not the dog
YES YES IT IS finally someone gets it. I don’t think she needs dogs