I am hanging on to zero change and breadcrumbs. You have helped me Dr I am saying goodbye to this individual. When you said focus on the evidence that is the way I want to live as a Christian. I don't want to be living in a fantasy that someone is other than who they are. Thank you
Questions: 1. On points 3, 4, the Narc always attracts people to them with their manipulative, coaxing, persuasive ways, however and many times, they trap people into these relationships with them via outright “grooming”. As a result, these prey they’ve caught are trapped just like the primary victim. They never let them go and use them exactly the same way. Narcs rarely show their dirty face for their flying-monkeys to see and wake up, they are careful to keep a good face, so it seems unlikely that their “friends” ever “leave” them. What, therefore, triggers a narc to show their bad face to scare away their flying monkey victims?
A guy and I strung each other along for years, not because we were narcissists, but because we were both anxious avoidant. He’s married now, and it’s still hard to process.
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This is spot on. They can't help themselves, even after you leave. They continue to promise change, but their actions tell another story.
I am hanging on to zero change and breadcrumbs. You have helped me Dr I am saying goodbye to this individual. When you said focus on the evidence that is the way I want to live as a Christian. I don't want to be living in a fantasy that someone is other than who they are. Thank you
Thank you for this work and the videos you put out. It's so helpful.❤
Questions:
1. On points 3, 4, the Narc always attracts people to them with their manipulative, coaxing, persuasive ways, however and many times, they trap people into these relationships with them via outright “grooming”. As a result, these prey they’ve caught are trapped just like the primary victim. They never let them go and use them exactly the same way. Narcs rarely show their dirty face for their flying-monkeys to see and wake up, they are careful to keep a good face, so it seems unlikely that their “friends” ever “leave” them. What, therefore, triggers a narc to show their bad face to scare away their flying monkey victims?
Accountability usually turns narcs off big time.
Thanks for the very useful information. 👍🏻
Dr. D you are the best
Wow!!!!! Love this information!!!!!❤
TY 4 this!
This is exactly right!
A guy and I strung each other along for years, not because we were narcissists, but because we were both anxious avoidant. He’s married now, and it’s still hard to process.
Was he your friend first ? How did u first meet him?
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