I remember having a fever and cough and sick for days; my parents still had me go to school. I was the embarrassed kid in the back coughing and disturbing other kids
My middle son is the lost child and the youngest the golden child. the oldest is the odd man out...he has beat himself up for 50 years attempting to win his Dads love and affection and never got it..Long before I heard any of this I knew this..I thought I was doing the right thing by divorcing but my children have suffered .. My family is irrevocably broken...and not at my doing..my ex broke the family and my oldest finished us off...
I have listened to and read various descriptions of the Lost Child role and this one fits my original family system perfectly. Missy describes how the Lost Child is left out of the narcissist's family system because her needs are being met by the others (the Golden Child and the Scapegoat). I think Missy must have experience herself as a Lost Child!! Thanks, Missy!
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Oldest and definitely the lost child. I once walked around with a broken foot for months as a kid because being uncomfortable was so normal.
I remember having a fever and cough and sick for days; my parents still had me go to school. I was the embarrassed kid in the back coughing and disturbing other kids
It seems like I am the lost child. Youngest. Does anyone else here remember very little of their childhood and what should I do about that?
I agree, I don't remember much. I didn't have a lot of a childhood, to be honest. I spent a lot of time alone.
I'm definitely the lost child but also the scapegoat. I've always got attacked and/or rejected if I spoke up
Same here, I experienced both roles
Dang girl!! You are so freaking annointed in this area. I have been noticing these symptoms but I couldn't figure out what it was
My middle son is the lost child and the youngest the golden child. the oldest is the odd man out...he has beat himself up for 50 years attempting to win his Dads love and affection and never got it..Long before I heard any of this I knew this..I thought I was doing the right thing by divorcing but my children have suffered ..
My family is irrevocably broken...and not at my doing..my ex broke the family and my oldest finished us off...
Your videos are always helpful . Thank you for sharing the knowledge with us Missy !
I appreciate you watching Ahmed!!
I have listened to and read various descriptions of the Lost Child role and this one fits my original family system perfectly. Missy describes how the Lost Child is left out of the narcissist's family system because her needs are being met by the others (the Golden Child and the Scapegoat). I think Missy must have experience herself as a Lost Child!! Thanks, Missy!
Ex golden child here. Demoted to lost child