Postpartum depression and anxiety is no joke. I feel like as a society, women frequently feel alone in their suffering because new mothers are "supposed" to be joyful and happy and in love. There's also so much fear about being a "bad mother", but unfortunately, so many of us feel so much stress that can sometimes be dismissed but is very serious and real.
I just subscribed to your channel. As a 51 year-old mother with a 22 year-old daughter, I was just so motivated by your cleaning videos. I suffer from depression and anxiety and am just coming out of a serious episode. My house right now is a depression house as my family had been focused on supporting me and my husband is building a new business. Both my husband and daughter have ADHD and struggle with executive function, as do I because of my poor mental health. I am so glad to have found your channel, and so amazed by your mature thought, your kindness, and your incredible attitude toward life. I will be tuning in regularly- thank you so much for your inspiring videos!
I'm right there with you, Tracy! I'm 65, lifelong depression, with several long depressive episodes. I've recently realized that I have some executive function issues, which make it very difficult for me to initiate tasks and to keep things neat. Best wishes!
Have you heard the saying 'Grow Where You Are Planted'? I think your attitude about being grateful for what we have and the blessings we experience is you, BLOOMING where You are planted! Thank you for sharing this as it is one of the thoughts which helps me keep my balance and see the positive aspects of daily living. Enjoy your sharing of ideas. please keep it up!
Remi, I was like you when I was younger. Now I am old and tidy. The habits you have to force yourself to do now will eventually become things you do with out even thinking. You are right - happiness is a decision not something you get eventually. “If you are not happy in the here and now, you will never be happy in the if and when.” Best wishes from the old lady in Alberta, Canada.
I discovered you about a month ago through RUclips Shorts. This channel has helped me so much. I have been "messy" my whole life. I can clean someone else's home without issue. But when I come home and see my own mess I feel overwhelmed and completely drained. Your videos have been just what I have needed. I recently tried timing myself cleaning in each area of my home like you did in one of your videos and it was amazing how much I was able to do in 3hrs. Thank you so much for your transparency and attitude of gratitude. Thank you for helping me feel that I am not alone in this struggle. And please continue your, as you call them "ramblings" and "rants", because it is during these times that you say the most profound and relatable things.
Don't let people get u down you are the best never forget that 💯 percent load more videos it helps me so much to keep me house clean and tidy i watch u on bad day as u keep me motivated so big thank you 😊 ❤❤
Try soaking some cloth with vinegar and let them sit on the floor for a little while. The vinegar will break down the rust. Also light blue walls will show stains a lot more. Try a medium blue 💙. Love your honesty and your ability to show yourself. I am so happy to have found someone who understands the pressure of juggling all the hats a Mum needs to wear. ❤❤
I am a new subscriber. I want to thank you for your videos. Your videos are so refreshing and so nonjudgmental. I struggle with depression and my home has suffered for it. You give me hope that I too can improve my environment. Thank you.
Wow I usually have to mute the voice over cause I can't stand them but this was surprisingly refreshing to listen to. Real talk. Real mess. Real life, not some stupidly already clean house with over the top organisation. Realness. Thanks for being real. Subscribed 😊
I'm having trouble adulting tonight and when you said 'I was meant to be a little sprite living in a forest somewhere' I totally agree! You made me laugh and cry, thanks xx
Hi love, just a tiny tip for the dog’s crate. I have 2 dogs that are inside most the time and they too have their own crates they sleep in at night. It does get hairy fast! However, because of that same rust issue, I now put small rugs (same size as the crate), just under them to save my floors.
This video was so comforting to watch. You sound like such a kind and wonderful person to be around, I just know your kids are going to be proud of the community you're building and the positivity you're spreading. I'm 20, not planning to get pregnant any time soon but your talk about being a mom and how it's changed your view on the law of attraction really stuck with me. You've encouraged me to have a more positive mindset!
I'm 71 years old and I still worry about my middle aged childrens' health and wellbeing. You're so wise and grounded. Enjoying every day, giving out love and not feeling dissatisfied but appreciating what you have, That's the root of happiness and contentment in life❤❤
I like you a lot. Your voice over made me feel like you were talking to me specifically, like a friend chatting. You’re so realistic and positive. Keeping it real but with a positive mid set to switch it around. I get the feeling you’re someone special in this world.
Omg the best cleaning videos I've ever seen ... I used to feel so worthless not being able to be spotless every day but omg the amount of times I've cleaned this kinda stuff lol ... I love how u understand it and the love you show from that understanding is beautiful
I've only watched 2 of your videos so far, but I can tell I'm going to binge watch the rest as soon as I can. The way you talk about mother hood, and just everyday things is so relatable, and then saying things to make us laugh, I'm just loving it. Keep it up! You're doing a great job and I hope your channel continues to grow.
I really love how honest and down to earth you are. I wish more people on RUclips were like you. I love long cleaning content and it’s refreshing that you are cleaning a normal house. And I learned in this video I have been waiting for the right conditions in my life to live. And I’m realizing I haven’t been appreciative of what I have. Thank you for helping me be more appreciative of my own life and creating REAL content. Thank you
You are a very wise woman. I am 70 and I would love to sit down and have a cuppa and a good talk with you. You are doing such a huge job so well and with compassion and understanding .❤
Hi ! As a mom I 'll give you an advice ! Use swiffer with a wet microfiber cloth to clean the cabinets and the walls ! Even walls in the bathroom ! And yes I am a smoker so I know what a pain in the butt is to clean yellow walls all the time !
The kitchen looks beautiful! I'm praying your channel grows quickly, you deserve it! Thank you for your talks that deal with subjects that probably affect a lot of people.
You encouraged my to clean so much yesterday without any guilt! Thank you! I have a 5 week old and and two and a half year old, so I've been feeling quite a bit overwhelmed.
I have binged your videos lately. I love them. I feel like we would be such good friends. You are so positive and motivational. I love how grateful you are. When we are aware of the things we have to be thankful for, I think we tend to take better care of it. ❤
I love you're voice, its soothing. And the rambling home made filosofi and thoughts are at a pace that feels peaceful. You can just clean and talk about life and I love it!
Just found you, why did it take me so long? I love your attitude, im 42, your outlook is perfect. Had an unexpected baby with a 17 year gap between my two. Theres no way im wasting a precious moment of my toddler, worrying about the fact my hpuse is less than instaworthy 😅😅 youre so right i love your attitude. Live in the moment because even the tough moments make great memories. Npbodys life is perfect. My skirting boards are absolute shit so i just ignore them 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 xxxxxxxxx
'source of comfort' , reassurance, motivation, confidence & encouragement. I've always said that there's a reason for everything -- & there your channel was 👍
I watch your videos when I need motivation or encouragement. I'm retired and still struggle to clean sometimes. I love that you are real. You say what you feel. Keep up doing the videos. I love them.❤
Great video. You are such a lovely soul. I learnt a really good rubbish bin hack recently. I leave a bunch of bags at the bottom of the bin so it can be replaced a soon as the full one is removed. Stay safe & well!!
I used to be suicidal about 6 years ago. The one thing that helped was blasting my favorite band’s music and imagining what it would be like to see them in person. Two months ago I was lucky enough to buy 2 of 12 VIP passes to not only watch from back stage and meet the members, but to be a part of the show for one song. The one song was my favorite six years ago (still is). The band is called “In this Moment”. I told the lead singer (through some tears) how much her music saved me, and she grabbed my hand to tell me how lucky she felt to be a part of my survival. Truly healing. Mindset is everything.
I absolutely love that you allow/encourage your children to write on the fridge! That's marvelous parenting. Your children are very blessed to have you as their mom!
I do like the longer videos rather than shorts!! I would watch whatever the video was about!! Love your voice and the advice and not feeling so alone!!! Thank you Remi you are truly one of a kind very beautiful inside and out!!! ❤💯❤✌🏼
I raised my 4 children and yet now find myself with full custody of my now 4 year old ASD grandson. I was always practically raising him doing everything and yet I still kidded myself that one day my daughter was going to get it altogether. In the end she almost got him killed before I had to just completely take him away! I had so many plans for my “golden years”, lol. I was so looking forward to turning that page into a new chapter beyond raising children and yet….here I am. I feel so blessed to have my grandson. He is one of my greatest joys in life. Still, I just get so overwhelmed and anxious of the future and what it holds. Motherhood is never easy and it never ends. It truly does require maintaining a positive mindset thru the good and the bad ❤
Cost of living where you live, budgeting , living paycheck to paycheck. And continued cleaning videos! This was so relatable. My youngest just left home but brought back so many memories. I loved the voice over in this video,so raw, relatable and inspirational.
Thank you for sharing. I'm deep cleaning and decluttering after my hus ands death and it's overwhelming, so thank you. I have 2 teenage boys and a toddler so it's even more over whelming. Thank you for being there ❤ xxx
Hi, only subscribed today and loving the videos. I love the fridge, I’m a reception teacher and it’s so lovely to see children mark making and being creative. If you did want to protect the fridge a little more though, you can buy sticky back white board paper quite cheaply, sticks on and blends in with the fridge but you then can peel it off and replace when it gets too stained. Thank you for the videos though, very reassuring and motivating! 😊
Hi from Long Island New York. Love your videos and look forward to them. I'm 72 now and raised 3 daughters virtually on my own and with all the worry, self-doubt and lack of money I wouldn't change a thing. They are 3 wonderful women today, I'm so proud. From time to time I wish I could go back to the days when my girls were younger even with the mess and chaos. You're doing a great job on those little guys. Crack on!
I never comment on people’s videos but I just had to say The gratitude you practice is inspirational. The world needs more people with your kindness and understanding. You deserve the absolute world!
You know what, I’m old enough to be your Mum but I tell you what else, I blooming love you to bits. I am so *proud* of the strong, beautiful, inspiring, amazing Mummy you are and you really are a beautiful person with a heart of gold. Yes, definitely film the rest of your deep cleans. There’s far too many “cleaning” videos out there of pristine homes that are obviously staged and they’re not at all inspiring or relatable. You’re “real” and a lot more realistic and your story times are the best. Keep smiling sweetheart. You really are the best! xxx
I really enjoy your positive attitude and reminding us to be happy with what we have and to work with what we have. You really are an inspiration, not only cleaning but attitude too! Thank you for your content.
Love your videos; your transparency. You would be a wonderful person to sit and have coffee with and have a chat. Keep up the terrific videos, I can totally relate!
Great job. Live watching good down to earth moms cleaning. No gorgeous homes, no chandeliers, no cleaning with their perfect nails and hair done, houses are already clean before they even start!!! Nope not for me. You are a genuine hard working mother with pups. You did a great job and you have the cutest home!!!
I have incredibly bad health anxiety about my parents, so I really understand you. When a parent is unwell it truly feels like the end of the world, my brain stops working properly, I can't sleep or rest or switch off the panic. This is one of the reasons I decided not to have children, I knew I would be the same with them and can't cope. The second big reason I decided not to have kids is hyperemesis!! I have a phobia of vomiting. So to me you really are a hero for braving these things. Part of me thinks that if I had seen other people talk about this when I was younger, I would have realised I am not alone and life is possible on the other side. Thank you for talking about these things.
Hello from Maine. Just found your videos and I'm hooked! You are so pleasant and motivating just love you.❤ can't wait to binge watch to getcaught up. I'll watch during mychemo treatments no interruptions except the occasional hookups of all the meds! 😂 my sense of. Humor is what gets me through it. I just started losing my hair and have bought a few Amazon wigs for 20.00 and they are great looking! Here's where my humor comes in......having a wig saves me 40 minutes in my morning routine !!!!! How cool is that!? Anyway, I'm a new subscriber!!! Keep up the good work and helping others! 😊 i hope everyone has a blessed day! 🥰❤
Hi, just found your channel and wow you rock. I am a messy person and have been for 69 years. I have dreams of being that old lady who can open the door without saying “Please don’t mind the mess”. I am going to try your tips and will be checking out executive disjunction because I have told people that I live in organized chaos. High five to you and a good luck to myself.
Hello Remi you are like a breath of fresh air. You have opened my eyes and seen myself in you. You are a good parent and I'm nearly 71. Procrastination is so hard and I do like your chatty way and being yourself. Take no notice of mean comments. They are mean minded and I can only think they don't like their own way of living. Keep on having a happy life with your loving Family. You have brought me joy listening and watching you. Go girl go. In spite of depression etc you are an amazing person and your boys are having a loving childhood. I have suffered organised chaos all my life. Thank you Remi.
New sub here. I smiled softly at the mention of being a little sprite living in the forest somewhere. LOL I, too, was always one for the fantastical stories of legend and lore and something always made me wish to be a little sprite with no worries in the world. Then I grew up and adulthood came about. I had children and realized they are depending on me for everything. I had to change. Had to make money and keep a home, maintain things, provide a nice warm bed, hot food and clean clothes. I had to do it all but seeing their little faces smile up at me before their sweet hugs was enough to keep me going. Same things, wanting your children to look at their mother with love and pride. It's hard to accomplish but the more you trust in the heart of family, the easier it gets for some things. Yet, I would still read about little sprites in the forest and close my eyes to envision me in that way. It's ok to imagine...imagination is the spice of life. I was thinking about the fridge? Get your child and easel or one of those big reams of drawing paper. My mother always said, what your child loves when they are small is what they will enjoy as a young adult. He loves to draw so give them the opportunity to thrive at such a young age. Doing things they love so young gives them an edge over others who do the same thing as a teen ager or in college. It's something they were born to do and have been practicing for all their lives. So now I have to deep clean my kitchen, and, honestly, it's why I watched this video. I needed some inspiration and you were perfect for me to find. Now you're stuck with me.
I'm the mother of an almost 5 year old and my anxiety around any virus, bug etc has been incredibly bad. Before I got on medication for it, I would literally become so ill myself from the anxiety that I would become completely dysfunctional well past she would even be recovered from the illness. Now I still feel it but I can be functional and make it through. I really appreciate you talking openly about it because I have felt really isolated surrounding this issue. Thanks Remi
Omg! I just recently found your videos. I finished cleaning my kitchen this evening to this video, and I love your sense of humour!😂 Thanks for helping me. Hugs from Nova Scotia, Canada.🇨🇦
Love your attitude of gratitude. I’m in my 50’s & my boys all 20 plus. My house is now spotless & I miss the mess of family life. Your videos are a tonic. Thankyou for sharing your home with us. Can’t beat a bit of banter.🤗😁xx
Hearing more about your postpartum anxiety experiences would be very helpful! What you have shared here has helped me feel so much better already. Thank you.
I really enjoy your videos. Cleaning calms my anxiety and helps with my depression. I also love your voice overs. Your thoughts and philosophies are wonderful.
I have fibromyalgia and my house is horrendous. I have family members that won't come round because its not spotless. It makes you feel terrible. But your videos really help and I can relate so thank you it's good to know I'm not alone x
As another human struggling to get by with post pandemic pricing, I'd like to sharw with you that your dish washing liquid will clean almost anything and is also safer than all of the other chemicals. Dish soap for sticky and greasy messes and toilet bowl cleaner for hard water stains/mineral deposits. Hope this tip helps you save some money
I'm really happy I found your videos...your vids are SO RELATABLE!!! I find m'self nodding and talking right back to you! To the point the hubby will as if I'm on the phone lol Don't listen to the naysayers you keep on doing exactly what you are!!
You’re an amazing human being. Inshallah (“God willing” in Arabic) you get all the things you are wishing for. Your videos help me become motivated after many years struggling with depression and anxiety that affected my ability to upkeep the house as a wife and mother. Your voice is very soothing and I like the weirdness and sense of humor you have. It’s cool to hear your British accent and phrases as an Arab American myself. Thank you for your videos. 💕💕💕
You are so sweet and your voice-overs are wonderful! Thank you very much for letting us inside your home and your thoughts. I sincerely wish your dreams of financial independence and owning a home do come true ✨️
Gratefulness is absolutely one of the key factors in attaining happiness in life. Without grateful appreciation for what we DO have, even good times and good things will hold no joy for those with a sour disposition. I was married for more than 35 years to an unappreciative, ungrateful man. He had a good paying job, a nice house that was kept in good order by a loyal, dependable wife that really loved him, and none of it mattered. He was always throwing temper tantrums and being critical. Nothing ever made him happy, including me. When he got into his 50s and made a fool of himself over an 18-year-old girl, I was DONE. Now I have a very loving, handsome fiance that adores me. At 62, I'm very grateful to have found love when I thought my life was over.
Great cleaning Remi. I have 7 kids and twins included in that, all are 20 years old and over now, each pregnancy was so different the 4th one was the easiest, in hospital by 10 am in labour and home by 5.30. The 7th was the hardest he had to have a spine op when he was 2 days old, that was the hardest thing I have ever gone through, he was in hospital for 3 weeks after as he kept getting infections. It was really bad. Xx
Hi Remi, I’m from south Alabama in USA. Just found your content/videos. I’m luving them. Luv all that u talk about, luv the messes, luv your attitude. Keep doing what u are doing and u will be just fine. Thank u so much!! 😊
Just subscribed😊 LOVED hearing you chat whilst you cleaned rather than cleaning videos with loud music over the top. You have a great attitude. I have life altering anxiety (health anxiety just one part of it) and it’s refreshing to hear others with such a sound attitude sharing and chatting. Very inspiring. Have a great day x
I’m so sorry to hear you struggle with anxiety too! It really can be debilitating. I’m so pleased you decided to subscribe! 🥰 I hope you have a great day too! X
You are quite an amazing young woman! I think you are very sharing and encouraging. I can’t help but think there are a lot of people benefiting from your channel. ❤️
First of all - I find your voice and your talks really calming, motivating, and real. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!! Postpartum depression and anxiety, and medical trauma/health worries are all such a beast!! Thanks for making me feel less alone!! It's rough!! Anyway I just discovered your channel and thoroughly enjoy it lol and I love you calling out the silly comments people leave nitpicking and that. People will literally comment the silliest things sometimes 🙄 and all we can do is laugh them off cause it can be so ridiculous 😂 Lastly - I don't know how you clean your walls, but my mom gave me a tip of using my mop to clean the walls and I've never looked back since!!! It has SAVED my back and knees - which I've had a lot of problems with since having a baby. Just thought I'd share the tip with you cause it helped me tremendously - and it saved me a lot more time (didn't have to use a step ladder cause the mop reached all the way up high, have better scrubbing power, etc). But I did notice you might have to change the water a few times because if the water is dirty, it will leave streaks on the wall and it'll dry like that. So once it's brownish, change your water :) Can't wait to watch more videos!! Thanks for being you ❤
Hi, Remi, I for one, love the gruesome cleans, they are realistic, stuff that we have to face sometimes! I watch Midwest, Beautiful Mess and Clean with Barbie, they all do really disgusting stuff in hoarder houses. I love that and I admire them for doing that, I couldn't do it! Thanks, Remi, enjoyed watching x
For the whiteboard marker on the fridge, I have two suggestions that might help: those Mr. Clean Magic Erasers (or similar) or some hand sanitizer. The alcohol in the sanitizer should break down the ink, even in the grooves and what not of the fridge. If you put a bunch on a paper towel and just let it sit on the stain for a bit, it *should* help. If not, like you said, it's just a fridge, and the stains are little reminders of your munchkin having fun. ^.^
I just love your channel you are such a real kind soul and always make we want to be more positive. i have 4 boys a partner and 2 cats and through the years i have learned that unless i want to be extremely crabbit and unwell i just cant have my house spotless 24 hours a day but aslong as i manage to get one job a day done i feel ok. thank you for sharing your videos and making me feel like i am not the only person who can get overwhelmed with being a mum just trying to do my best 😊
This is a great way to look at it, and how I try to live too! As long as I do SOMETHING to keep on top of it each day, I’m happy. But it can’t be perfect with kids, and I wouldn’t want it to be ☺️ x
Hello, I found your account a few days ago and I just wanna say thank you! Love the content, very relatable and feels like listening to a friend. I subscribed to your channel and wish you all the luck with it and many more followers! Love from the Netherlands❤
Hi, I‘m Ukrainian who came across your shorts recently. I love your videos and your accent as well😅 don’t know what I love here more the content or accent 😅💕 appreciate you being that real!
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Postpartum depression and anxiety is no joke. I feel like as a society, women frequently feel alone in their suffering because new mothers are "supposed" to be joyful and happy and in love. There's also so much fear about being a "bad mother", but unfortunately, so many of us feel so much stress that can sometimes be dismissed but is very serious and real.
I just subscribed to your channel. As a 51 year-old mother with a 22 year-old daughter, I was just so motivated by your cleaning videos. I suffer from depression and anxiety and am just coming out of a serious episode. My house right now is a depression house as my family had been focused on supporting me and my husband is building a new business. Both my husband and daughter have ADHD and struggle with executive function, as do I because of my poor mental health. I am so glad to have found your channel, and so amazed by your mature thought, your kindness, and your incredible attitude toward life. I will be tuning in regularly- thank you so much for your inspiring videos!
I'm right there with you, Tracy! I'm 65, lifelong depression, with several long depressive episodes. I've recently realized that I have some executive function issues, which make it very difficult for me to initiate tasks and to keep things neat.
Best wishes!
Have you heard the saying 'Grow Where You Are Planted'? I think your attitude about being grateful for what we have and the blessings we experience is you, BLOOMING where You are planted! Thank you for sharing this as it is one of the thoughts which helps me keep my balance and see the positive aspects of daily living. Enjoy your sharing of ideas. please keep it up!
Remi, I was like you when I was younger. Now I am old and tidy. The habits you have to force yourself to do now will eventually become things you do with out even thinking. You are right - happiness is a decision not something you get eventually. “If you are not happy in the here and now, you will never be happy in the if and when.” Best wishes from the old lady in Alberta, Canada.
I love how you speak through your videos instead of music ❤
I thought it might be fun to take a photo of the fridge each time you go to clean it. You could make a little photo album of the art over the years 😊
You are delightful. Your accent, your attitude, your humour... thank you.
I discovered you about a month ago through RUclips Shorts. This channel has helped me so much. I have been "messy" my whole life. I can clean someone else's home without issue. But when I come home and see my own mess I feel overwhelmed and completely drained. Your videos have been just what I have needed. I recently tried timing myself cleaning in each area of my home like you did in one of your videos and it was amazing how much I was able to do in 3hrs. Thank you so much for your transparency and attitude of gratitude. Thank you for helping me feel that I am not alone in this struggle. And please continue your, as you call them "ramblings" and "rants", because it is during these times that you say the most profound and relatable things.
Don't let people get u down you are the best never forget that 💯 percent load more videos it helps me so much to keep me house clean and tidy i watch u on bad day as u keep me motivated so big thank you 😊 ❤❤
Try soaking some cloth with vinegar and let them sit on the floor for a little while. The vinegar will break down the rust. Also light blue walls will show stains a lot more. Try a medium blue 💙. Love your honesty and your ability to show yourself. I am so happy to have found someone who understands the pressure of juggling all the hats a Mum needs to wear. ❤❤
I am a new subscriber. I want to thank you for your videos. Your videos are so refreshing and so nonjudgmental. I struggle with depression and my home has suffered for it. You give me hope that I too can improve my environment. Thank you.
Wow I usually have to mute the voice over cause I can't stand them but this was surprisingly refreshing to listen to. Real talk. Real mess. Real life, not some stupidly already clean house with over the top organisation. Realness. Thanks for being real. Subscribed 😊
I do believe that you have turned into my favourite person I’ve never met. ❤
I'm having trouble adulting tonight and when you said 'I was meant to be a little sprite living in a forest somewhere' I totally agree! You made me laugh and cry, thanks xx
I love your positive attitude. You are wise beyond your years learning to appreciate what you have right now. Love your videos!
Hi love, just a tiny tip for the dog’s crate. I have 2 dogs that are inside most the time and they too have their own crates they sleep in at night. It does get hairy fast! However, because of that same rust issue, I now put small rugs (same size as the crate), just under them to save my floors.
This video was so comforting to watch. You sound like such a kind and wonderful person to be around, I just know your kids are going to be proud of the community you're building and the positivity you're spreading. I'm 20, not planning to get pregnant any time soon but your talk about being a mom and how it's changed your view on the law of attraction really stuck with me. You've encouraged me to have a more positive mindset!
I'm 71 years old and I still worry about my middle aged childrens' health and wellbeing. You're so wise and grounded. Enjoying every day, giving out love and not feeling dissatisfied but appreciating what you have, That's the root of happiness and contentment in life❤❤
I love that you are just you and it's satisfying to know that someone is voicing what we all go through.
Another Blackadder fan!! Just imagine keeping an old medieval castle clean!!
I'm just here watching your therapeutic cleaning and listening to your calming ranting. Please never stop, and THANK YOU for giving us something real.
I like you a lot. Your voice over made me feel like you were talking to me specifically, like a friend chatting. You’re so realistic and positive. Keeping it real but with a positive mid set to switch it around. I get the feeling you’re someone special in this world.
Omg the best cleaning videos I've ever seen ... I used to feel so worthless not being able to be spotless every day but omg the amount of times I've cleaned this kinda stuff lol ... I love how u understand it and the love you show from that understanding is beautiful
I've only watched 2 of your videos so far, but I can tell I'm going to binge watch the rest as soon as I can. The way you talk about mother hood, and just everyday things is so relatable, and then saying things to make us laugh, I'm just loving it. Keep it up! You're doing a great job and I hope your channel continues to grow.
Remi you are so wonderful! I’m a Black single mom in the US with a 15 year old and your words are so dear to me
Oh you’re so lovely, thank you! ❤️
I really love how honest and down to earth you are. I wish more people on RUclips were like you. I love long cleaning content and it’s refreshing that you are cleaning a normal house. And I learned in this video I have been waiting for the right conditions in my life to live. And I’m realizing I haven’t been appreciative of what I have. Thank you for helping me be more appreciative of my own life and creating REAL content. Thank you
You are a very wise woman. I am 70 and I would love to sit down and have a cuppa and a good talk with you. You are doing such a huge job so well and with compassion and understanding .❤
nyone else here for the voiceover and cleaning?
Anybody else here for the satisfying cleaning AND the hilarious humour! Loving it! 🤣🤣🤣 😊🧡👋🎈
Please share, I just found you and I love you already❤❤❤
I am. I prefer talking instead of the music most channels use.
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Remi, you are a true inspiration!
Hi ! As a mom I 'll give you an advice ! Use swiffer with a wet microfiber cloth to clean the cabinets and the walls ! Even walls in the bathroom ! And yes I am a smoker so I know what a pain in the butt is to clean yellow walls all the time !
The kitchen looks beautiful! I'm praying your channel grows quickly, you deserve it! Thank you for your talks that deal with subjects that probably affect a lot of people.
You encouraged my to clean so much yesterday without any guilt! Thank you! I have a 5 week old and and two and a half year old, so I've been feeling quite a bit overwhelmed.
Please don't be hard on yourself! They are only little once. Nap with them. ❤
I have binged your videos lately. I love them. I feel like we would be such good friends. You are so positive and motivational. I love how grateful you are. When we are aware of the things we have to be thankful for, I think we tend to take better care of it. ❤
I love you're voice, its soothing. And the rambling home made filosofi and thoughts are at a pace that feels peaceful. You can just clean and talk about life and I love it!
Just found you, why did it take me so long? I love your attitude, im 42, your outlook is perfect. Had an unexpected baby with a 17 year gap between my two. Theres no way im wasting a precious moment of my toddler, worrying about the fact my hpuse is less than instaworthy 😅😅 youre so right i love your attitude. Live in the moment because even the tough moments make great memories. Npbodys life is perfect. My skirting boards are absolute shit so i just ignore them 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 xxxxxxxxx
'source of comfort' , reassurance, motivation, confidence & encouragement.
I've always said that there's a reason for everything --
& there your channel was 👍
I watch your videos when I need motivation or encouragement. I'm retired and still struggle to clean sometimes. I love that you are real. You say what you feel. Keep up doing the videos. I love them.❤
Great video. You are such a lovely soul. I learnt a really good rubbish bin hack recently. I leave a bunch of bags at the bottom of the bin so it can be replaced a soon as the full one is removed. Stay safe & well!!
I used to be suicidal about 6 years ago. The one thing that helped was blasting my favorite band’s music and imagining what it would be like to see them in person. Two months ago I was lucky enough to buy 2 of 12 VIP passes to not only watch from back stage and meet the members, but to be a part of the show for one song. The one song was my favorite six years ago (still is). The band is called “In this Moment”. I told the lead singer (through some tears) how much her music saved me, and she grabbed my hand to tell me how lucky she felt to be a part of my survival. Truly healing. Mindset is everything.
that's amazing..maria brink? what an amazing moment for you..music is truly healing❤
You are so inspiring and likeable. Thanks for having the guts to be so transparent and sharing. Best wishes from Delaware US.
I absolutely love that you allow/encourage your children to write on the fridge! That's marvelous parenting. Your children are very blessed to have you as their mom!
I do like the longer videos rather than shorts!! I would watch whatever the video was about!! Love your voice and the advice and not feeling so alone!!! Thank you Remi you are truly one of a kind very beautiful inside and out!!! ❤💯❤✌🏼
This means so much to me! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
I raised my 4 children and yet now find myself with full custody of my now 4 year old ASD grandson. I was always practically raising him doing everything and yet I still kidded myself that one day my daughter was going to get it altogether. In the end she almost got him killed before I had to just completely take him away! I had so many plans for my “golden years”, lol. I was so looking forward to turning that page into a new chapter beyond raising children and yet….here I am. I feel so blessed to have my grandson. He is one of my greatest joys in life. Still, I just get so overwhelmed and anxious of the future and what it holds. Motherhood is never easy and it never ends. It truly does require maintaining a positive mindset thru the good and the bad ❤
Cost of living where you live, budgeting , living paycheck to paycheck. And continued cleaning videos! This was so relatable. My youngest just left home but brought back so many memories. I loved the voice over in this video,so raw, relatable and inspirational.
Thank you for sharing. I'm deep cleaning and decluttering after my hus ands death and it's overwhelming, so thank you. I have 2 teenage boys and a toddler so it's even more over whelming. Thank you for being there ❤ xxx
I’m so sorry for your loss, sending you so much love and strength ❤️
Bless you my dear. We are cleaning and healing with you❤❤🎉😊
Hi, only subscribed today and loving the videos. I love the fridge, I’m a reception teacher and it’s so lovely to see children mark making and being creative. If you did want to protect the fridge a little more though, you can buy sticky back white board paper quite cheaply, sticks on and blends in with the fridge but you then can peel it off and replace when it gets too stained. Thank you for the videos though, very reassuring and motivating! 😊
Me too,,,,I feel the post partum... It's so real
Excellent idea! Never heard of white board paper!
Hi Remi, new subscriber from Sydney Australia here, and you will never EVER know how much you have helped me beyond measure. Warmest thank you XX
You are quickly becoming one of my favorite RUclipsrs, love the motivation, stories, and cleaning. Great job! ❤
This is such a compliment! Thank you! ❤️
@@remiclog Thank YOU 😊
Hi from Long Island New York. Love your videos and look forward to them. I'm 72 now and raised 3 daughters virtually on my own and with all the worry, self-doubt and lack of money I wouldn't change a thing. They are 3 wonderful women today, I'm so proud. From time to time I wish I could go back to the days when my girls were younger even with the mess and chaos. You're doing a great job on those little guys. Crack on!
I never comment on people’s videos but I just had to say The gratitude you practice is inspirational. The world needs more people with your kindness and understanding. You deserve the absolute world!
I love your videos your cleaning and the voiceovers. Keep up the videos your great. Thank you.
We appreciate you!!!! ❤
You know what, I’m old enough to be your Mum but I tell you what else, I blooming love you to bits. I am so *proud* of the strong, beautiful, inspiring, amazing Mummy you are and you really are a beautiful person with a heart of gold. Yes, definitely film the rest of your deep cleans. There’s far too many “cleaning” videos out there of pristine homes that are obviously staged and they’re not at all inspiring or relatable. You’re “real” and a lot more realistic and your story times are the best. Keep smiling sweetheart. You really are the best! xxx
This is such a lovely thing to read. How kind are you!? 🥺 thank you so much xxx
I really enjoy your positive attitude and reminding us to be happy with what we have and to work with what we have. You really are an inspiration, not only cleaning but attitude too! Thank you for your content.
Love your videos; your transparency. You would be a wonderful person to sit and have coffee with and have a chat. Keep up the terrific videos, I can totally relate!
Great job. Live watching good down to earth moms cleaning. No gorgeous homes, no chandeliers, no cleaning with their perfect nails and hair done, houses are already clean before they even start!!! Nope not for me. You are a genuine hard working mother with pups. You did a great job and you have the cutest home!!!
I'm subscribing for your voice overs. Funny and comforting. I love it. ❤❤❤
I have incredibly bad health anxiety about my parents, so I really understand you. When a parent is unwell it truly feels like the end of the world, my brain stops working properly, I can't sleep or rest or switch off the panic. This is one of the reasons I decided not to have children, I knew I would be the same with them and can't cope. The second big reason I decided not to have kids is hyperemesis!! I have a phobia of vomiting. So to me you really are a hero for braving these things. Part of me thinks that if I had seen other people talk about this when I was younger, I would have realised I am not alone and life is possible on the other side. Thank you for talking about these things.
Hello from Maine. Just found your videos and I'm hooked! You are so pleasant and motivating just love you.❤ can't wait to binge watch to getcaught up. I'll watch during mychemo treatments no interruptions except the occasional hookups of all the meds! 😂 my sense of. Humor is what gets me through it. I just started losing my hair and have bought a few Amazon wigs for 20.00 and they are great looking! Here's where my humor comes in......having a wig saves me 40 minutes in my morning routine !!!!! How cool is that!?
Anyway, I'm a new subscriber!!! Keep up the good work and helping others! 😊 i hope everyone has a blessed day! 🥰❤
Hi, just found your channel and wow you rock. I am a messy person and have been for 69 years. I have dreams of being that old lady who can open the door without saying “Please don’t mind the mess”. I am going to try your tips and will be checking out executive disjunction because I have told people that I live in organized chaos. High five to you and a good luck to myself.
Great before and afters!!!! Great job!!
Hello Remi you are like a breath of fresh air. You have opened my eyes and seen myself in you. You are a good parent and I'm nearly 71. Procrastination is so hard and I do like your chatty way and being yourself. Take no notice of mean comments. They are mean minded and I can only think they don't like their own way of living. Keep on having a happy life with your loving Family. You have brought me joy listening and watching you. Go girl go. In spite of depression etc you are an amazing person and your boys are having a loving childhood. I have suffered organised chaos all my life. Thank you Remi.
Oh Remi!! just love your chatter !!!!
New sub here. I smiled softly at the mention of being a little sprite living in the forest somewhere. LOL I, too, was always one for the fantastical stories of legend and lore and something always made me wish to be a little sprite with no worries in the world. Then I grew up and adulthood came about. I had children and realized they are depending on me for everything. I had to change. Had to make money and keep a home, maintain things, provide a nice warm bed, hot food and clean clothes. I had to do it all but seeing their little faces smile up at me before their sweet hugs was enough to keep me going. Same things, wanting your children to look at their mother with love and pride. It's hard to accomplish but the more you trust in the heart of family, the easier it gets for some things. Yet, I would still read about little sprites in the forest and close my eyes to envision me in that way. It's ok to imagine...imagination is the spice of life.
I was thinking about the fridge? Get your child and easel or one of those big reams of drawing paper. My mother always said, what your child loves when they are small is what they will enjoy as a young adult. He loves to draw so give them the opportunity to thrive at such a young age. Doing things they love so young gives them an edge over others who do the same thing as a teen ager or in college. It's something they were born to do and have been practicing for all their lives. So now I have to deep clean my kitchen, and, honestly, it's why I watched this video. I needed some inspiration and you were perfect for me to find. Now you're stuck with me.
I'm the mother of an almost 5 year old and my anxiety around any virus, bug etc has been incredibly bad. Before I got on medication for it, I would literally become so ill myself from the anxiety that I would become completely dysfunctional well past she would even be recovered from the illness. Now I still feel it but I can be functional and make it through. I really appreciate you talking openly about it because I have felt really isolated surrounding this issue. Thanks Remi
Omg! I just recently found your videos. I finished cleaning my kitchen this evening to this video, and I love your sense of humour!😂 Thanks for helping me. Hugs from Nova Scotia, Canada.🇨🇦
Love the cleaning aaaand what you were talking about!❤ You've helped someone 😊 thanks for sharing!❤
So so pleased to hear this! ☺️❤️
Love your attitude of gratitude. I’m in my 50’s & my boys all 20 plus. My house is now spotless & I miss the mess of family life. Your videos are a tonic. Thankyou for sharing your home with us. Can’t beat a bit of banter.🤗😁xx
Hearing more about your postpartum anxiety experiences would be very helpful! What you have shared here has helped me feel so much better already. Thank you.
I really enjoy your videos. Cleaning calms my anxiety and helps with my depression. I also love your voice overs. Your thoughts and philosophies are wonderful.
Remi each video I cry in a good way it feels over whelming to finally seeing someone on social media that gets it is such a relief thank you
Oh bless you! ❤️❤️❤️
I have fibromyalgia and my house is horrendous. I have family members that won't come round because its not spotless. It makes you feel terrible. But your videos really help and I can relate so thank you it's good to know I'm not alone x
I’m so sorry to hear that your family members won’t visit you, that hurts my heart. I wish I could come and clean up for you x
As another human struggling to get by with post pandemic pricing, I'd like to sharw with you that your dish washing liquid will clean almost anything and is also safer than all of the other chemicals. Dish soap for sticky and greasy messes and toilet bowl cleaner for hard water stains/mineral deposits. Hope this tip helps you save some money
Thank you for inviting us into your home every week! I just love listening to you. So wonderful and so positive! We love you!
I think you are the Kitchen Philosopher! Well done!
I'm really happy I found your videos...your vids are SO RELATABLE!!! I find m'self nodding and talking right back to you! To the point the hubby will as if I'm on the phone lol Don't listen to the naysayers you keep on doing exactly what you are!!
You’re an amazing human being. Inshallah (“God willing” in Arabic) you get all the things you are wishing for. Your videos help me become motivated after many years struggling with depression and anxiety that affected my ability to upkeep the house as a wife and mother. Your voice is very soothing and I like the weirdness and sense of humor you have. It’s cool to hear your British accent and phrases as an Arab American myself. Thank you for your videos. 💕💕💕
Ahh this means so much, thank you!! I’m glad the videos help! ❤️
You are so sweet and your voice-overs are wonderful! Thank you very much for letting us inside your home and your thoughts. I sincerely wish your dreams of financial independence and owning a home do come true ✨️
Gratefulness is absolutely one of the key factors in attaining happiness in life. Without grateful appreciation for what we DO have, even good times and good things will hold no joy for those with a sour disposition. I was married for more than 35 years to an unappreciative, ungrateful man. He had a good paying job, a nice house that was kept in good order by a loyal, dependable wife that really loved him, and none of it mattered. He was always throwing temper tantrums and being critical. Nothing ever made him happy, including me. When he got into his 50s and made a fool of himself over an 18-year-old girl, I was DONE. Now I have a very loving, handsome fiance that adores me. At 62, I'm very grateful to have found love when I thought my life was over.
Such a beautiful video- everything about it is GREAT! ❤
Great cleaning Remi. I have 7 kids and twins included in that, all are 20 years old and over now, each pregnancy was so different the 4th one was the easiest, in hospital by 10 am in labour and home by 5.30. The 7th was the hardest he had to have a spine op when he was 2 days old, that was the hardest thing I have ever gone through, he was in hospital for 3 weeks after as he kept getting infections. It was really bad. Xx
Hi Remi, I’m from south Alabama in USA. Just found your content/videos. I’m luving them. Luv all that u talk about, luv the messes, luv your attitude. Keep doing what u are doing and u will be just fine. Thank u so much!! 😊
Thank you so much, what a lovely thing to read! 🥰
Came for the cleaning tips, stayed for the voiceover. 🎉
I love listening to your video voiceovers while I do endless piles of dishes & laundry ❤ you help me feel less alone in my blessed mess 😊
Some savvy TV producer ought to watch your vids. There’s definitely a series in here! ❤
You’re wonderful! ❤God Bless!
Just subscribed😊 LOVED hearing you chat whilst you cleaned rather than cleaning videos with loud music over the top. You have a great attitude. I have life altering anxiety (health anxiety just one part of it) and it’s refreshing to hear others with such a sound attitude sharing and chatting. Very inspiring. Have a great day x
I’m so sorry to hear you struggle with anxiety too! It really can be debilitating. I’m so pleased you decided to subscribe! 🥰 I hope you have a great day too! X
I absolutely love your rambling ❤
Wow, you have been juggling a lot. Well, Remi, you have an engaging voice and you are a very good story teller.
I enjoy listening 😊
You are quite an amazing young woman! I think you are very sharing and encouraging. I can’t help but think there are a lot of people benefiting from your channel. ❤️
You are awesome and positive! Thank you.
First of all - I find your voice and your talks really calming, motivating, and real. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!! Postpartum depression and anxiety, and medical trauma/health worries are all such a beast!!
Thanks for making me feel less alone!! It's rough!! Anyway I just discovered your channel and thoroughly enjoy it lol and I love you calling out the silly comments people leave nitpicking and that. People will literally comment the silliest things sometimes 🙄 and all we can do is laugh them off cause it can be so ridiculous 😂
Lastly - I don't know how you clean your walls, but my mom gave me a tip of using my mop to clean the walls and I've never looked back since!!! It has SAVED my back and knees - which I've had a lot of problems with since having a baby. Just thought I'd share the tip with you cause it helped me tremendously - and it saved me a lot more time (didn't have to use a step ladder cause the mop reached all the way up high, have better scrubbing power, etc). But I did notice you might have to change the water a few times because if the water is dirty, it will leave streaks on the wall and it'll dry like that. So once it's brownish, change your water :)
Can't wait to watch more videos!! Thanks for being you ❤
It’s so great to see how you allow your kids to be kids and have fun!!
You are the best, and thanks again❤much love and appreciation
Hi, Remi, I for one, love the gruesome cleans, they are realistic, stuff that we have to face sometimes! I watch Midwest, Beautiful Mess and Clean with Barbie, they all do really disgusting stuff in hoarder houses. I love that and I admire them for doing that, I couldn't do it! Thanks, Remi, enjoyed watching x
For the whiteboard marker on the fridge, I have two suggestions that might help: those Mr. Clean Magic Erasers (or similar) or some hand sanitizer. The alcohol in the sanitizer should break down the ink, even in the grooves and what not of the fridge. If you put a bunch on a paper towel and just let it sit on the stain for a bit, it *should* help. If not, like you said, it's just a fridge, and the stains are little reminders of your munchkin having fun. ^.^
I just love your channel you are such a real kind soul and always make we want to be more positive. i have 4 boys a partner and 2 cats and through the years i have learned that unless i want to be extremely crabbit and unwell i just cant have my house spotless 24 hours a day but aslong as i manage to get one job a day done i feel ok. thank you for sharing your videos and making me feel like i am not the only person who can get overwhelmed with being a mum just trying to do my best 😊
This is a great way to look at it, and how I try to live too! As long as I do SOMETHING to keep on top of it each day, I’m happy. But it can’t be perfect with kids, and I wouldn’t want it to be ☺️ x
Hello,
I found your account a few days ago and I just wanna say thank you! Love the content, very relatable and feels like listening to a friend. I subscribed to your channel and wish you all the luck with it and many more followers! Love from the Netherlands❤
Hi, I‘m Ukrainian who came across your shorts recently. I love your videos and your accent as well😅 don’t know what I love here more the content or accent 😅💕 appreciate you being that real!
For the stains on the walls and the paintings on the fridge you can use the magic sponge, it works very well, great job!
Today is the first time I have watched you. You are funny, entertaining, honest and so lovely!