So i’m a 13 year old girl, i was sexual assaulted by a fellow classmate. this song just means so much and has inspired my to tell me story. so thank you jordan, this is truly a powerful and beautiful song.
im so sorry bubby just know if you ever need anything just comment anything or we can try to get contact another way but just know your very strong and never forget that
I've been sexuality assaulted by my own father from the ages 8 till now and by a few complete strangers when i was around 14. This song makes me feel heard. My heart goes out to everyone who has experienced such things. I love you all and im really proud of all of you for overcoming it 🫶 A special thank you to Jordan for writing such a masterpiece
Sorry what you have been through, Your not alone, I've had multiple encounters, Not with my family, but friends, Girlfriends, and strangers, I hope you are doing better, Ik it can be hard, I'm still trying to overcome it.
At the age of 13 I was raped by my "bestfriend" he told me he wouldn't hurt me and that he would let me wait till I was older to make any choices (I'm 15 now and I don't mind talking about it) I got pregnant but had a miscarriage, I was too scared to tell anyone and I got very depressed and suicidal. My boyfriend (Best boyfriend I've ever had) has been helping me through it all. He'd the reason I'm still on this beautiful planet. Hearing this song made me cry. Thank you!!
“I knew a boy who liked to draw, he drew pictures that nobody saw. He was most artistic late at night, in the bathroom out of sight. He kept a secret no one knew, he didn't tell a soul and his gallery grew. His drawings were different, no paper or pen but needed a bandage now and then. We stood by the river under the stars, he rolled up his sleeve and showed me his scars. He felt embarrassed and looked down at his shoes. Then I rolled up my sleves and whispered 'i draw too'.” Without the dark there's no light and without the pain there'd be no life so even when it hurts don't try to run, be happy that you made it, Just be open and embrace it
r@p3d.... at the age of 5 by my father....i begged him to stop but he never did... now im 16 i cant see him anymore which is good..! but i listen to this everyday because it reminds of how strong i was and told someone... Thank you, Jordan... -Mattie
I have burning myself with a lighter because of the shit I have been through I know it's not the same but I get physical abuse I love you take care by also now I'm 13
Hi, I’m so sorry this happened to you. It must be very difficult. Please remember that when things get though it’s important to seek help. Therapy can help a lot. You’re very strong and brave ❤
im so sorry. no one deserves what you went through. i just want to let you know that you are loved and everything’s gonna get better with time. we love you.💗
@@victoriashawe2663 I'm very sorry you had to go through that, and your not alone. But remember its not a contest of pain, trauma affects everyone, some things hurt others more. I hope you have an amazing day and dont forget how strong you are
You're more than your body. Whoever did that to you will forever remember what he did. My two little siblings got molested less than a year ago. Jesus loves you
I was 12.He was 32.He was my father. It kept happening for almost 3 years straight.It's so sad to see it happend to so many young people.I'm 15 and it stopped two weeks ago.I'm here for you all and I'm praying for everyone!Love this song Jordan!YOU ARE LOVED!EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU!❤❤❤❤
@@ElisaC.2010 Someone replied to my comment om goodness! Your the first to ever do that. Guess that shows some do care. A month ago he was arrested. So I'm free. Free to do what I'd like, wear what I'd like and act how I like. If you don't mind me asking why are you here? Listening to this song or going through the comment's? Have you been through something similar?
I love how parents can spot their child's toxic friends but not realize that their child is depressed. Edit: Omg, I did NOT expect so many likes and comments. Thank you all for liking my comment and reply, have a great day, night, afternoon ect. ^^
I was 5, he was 30, it was christmas, i thought he was family, he thought i was easy. I was 13, she was my mother, she said my body was hers. Soon, all those cells will be gone and i'll be somebody nobody ever touched.
I'm sorry you had to go through that...I jever really experience rape nor sexual assault....But my heart goes out to everyone who experienced it...I hope you'll be fine....I hope you're doing better now...And I hope that they went to jail for doing such crap to you......
I’m 15, I was sexually assaulted by a classmate in my science class every other day for 2 months, we were sat at the back of the class so no one saw a thing, he knew that I wouldn’t cause a scene over it so he would do anything. When I finally told the school he got mad at me, he was let off with just a “stern talking to” some of my closest friends told me it was my fault and that I deserved it. I’m still in the same class as him and was only moved a few seats over from him, he constantly looks back at me and stares at me in class. If still upsets me but I’m slowly learning it’s not my fault and although he was mad at me, I’m proud of myself for speaking up. If any of you can relate to this in anyway, please just know it gets better and you are absolute amazing and so so strong 💛
We shouldn’t be terrified at night. We shouldn’t be forced to cover up we shouldn’t be uncomfortable or forced to do anything, we are humans WE ARENT JUST OUR DAMN BODYS
Guys are more then their bodies, they aren’t meant to be seen as the predator every time something happens or have harassment towards them go unnoticed (I just said this since the other reply was abt girls and the guys needed awareness too ❤️)
Liv_258 the ratio isn’t what matters, what matters is that I’m trying to shine light on the people who are either looked away from or completely overlooked is cases. I’m not saying those women don’t matter but i am saying that there are many cases where it was obvious that a man was harassed and it was ignored. (( sorry if i come off as rude or mean, I’m just very passionate about things like this ❤️
When he said: I’m more than I’m more than I’m more than Body, let me see your body Take off all your makeup and your clothes Trust me, why don’t you just trust me You’re the only beauty, show me more You’re not a dime a dozen Oh, your skin is golden Let me show the whole damn world You’re one in a billion The only thing you’re missin’ Is some tape over that mouth Body, I’m more than my body You can pack your things up Buh-bye just go Body, I’m more than my body Don't owe you a thing No, not at all I'm not a toy to play with Not just a sight to see and My mind is worth its weight in gold I'm not a dime a dozen I know I'm worth just more than You will ever know Touch me, you just wanna feel me You just wanna share me You don't care at all Trust you, why don't I just trust you You just wanna use me Now I know Body, I’m more than my body You will never get me Buh-bye just go I’m more than I’m more than I’m more than my body I’m more than I’m more than I’m more than my body I’m more than I’m more than I’m more than my body I’m more than I’m more than I’m more than my body I’m more than I’m more than I’m more than I was like: Damn.
lmfao so true the whole song breaks my heart when my heart wasn't even whole to start with this is my first time crying in several years (my bad MONTHS!!)
This song comes to my mind so often. I'm 13 and my ex boyfriend has assaulted me twice during our NINE MONTH relationship. He did it in my bedroom. And he still denied it. He apologised, but I couldn't forget the way his hands felt on my body. I felt so.. disgusted. Even now, I can't feel the same way in my room. I still remember the way his hands felt on my body. I still scrub my skin so hard it turns red, because I feel so disgusting. This song gives me strength. This song reminds me that it wasn't my fault. He didn't take my voice. So I will use it. And I will be as loud as I can.
My friend got harassed at 8 and never told anyone but she told me yesterday and I told my parents who told hers and now they are talking. She told me everything that happend and thanked me for telling my parents. ALWAYS TELL SOMEONE
Well no not really they just dont like the song for there own reason im sure you have disliked songs doesn't make (for example) selfish (by Madison beer)
Or it could be that they just didn't like the song for the music and not from the meaning, ya know? Tbh the meaning strikes a cord and speaks the story of everyone in the world, but the song is kinda eh
My sister was 5, he was 14. He was our brother, he had to stay, there was nowhere he could go. I was 15, he was 30. A trust was rebuilt in 16 years that was broken within seconds, my sister grew up think it was just a bad dream not knowing the truth. It was to protect her. She was going to be told if she had asked, she had trusted him. She’s my older sister, parents were on holiday and it was just supposed to be an innocent sleepover. I’m now going to be 20 soon, and my sister 26, he will not be forgiven. Most of these things happen with people close, everyone stay safe. You can speak up, this song helped me. You are loved ❤
@Ella Seesser thx I been harassed and touched I no longer have to go through that my family doesn't know what happen I cut remembering I stop cuz I got caught
When I was around 5-6 I was sexually assaulted many times and this song has helped me heal. I may be 11, I may just be a kid. But it breaks my soul to hear and see people younger than me having to relate to this song. I have been through a lot and I know others also have. I hope people can trust me and rely on me to cure their pain. If you need anyone to talk to I'm always open. Love you all and hope you recover!
I was your 5-6 I was raped to it sucks and it lasted until I was 8-9 I hope you never go through this again and I hope you have a great life you really deserve everything they never gave you we are here for everyone and we are and always be amazing and strong ❤
i feel like i should tell my story im a girl 13 now and my step sister she um did some things to me when i was 8 and we talk and act like friends and sisters but it still makes me cry cause she still believes the lgbtgia is wrong when she did that to me
Hi my name is Hannah I'M 19 years old, I was sexual abused twice at a young age, by my own grandpa and then a family friend, my granapa just got out of jail I'm afraid he will hurt me again, this song hits hard for I can relate
Everyone in these comments are the baddest and bravest bitches I know in this world and you guys truly deserve the world and back . Truly feel for you guys
The comments absolutely shattered my heart I’m so sorry so many of you relate to the same song and have such similar experiences with people Your more than your body and your past will never ever define who you are I’m proud of you all ❤
“I’m more than my body” who else thinks that just hit so hard like don’t like me if u don’t like ME. I feel like this is just so Beautiful and how he hits all of his notes like each word just makes me want to keep listening for hours
When I was 15 my boyfriend drugged me and raped me. I don’t remember anything aside from seeing him on top of me, while all our friends watched. I refused to believe it happened until recently when I told myself I had to believe it to move past it, and it was the hardest thing for me to go through.
voiisu omg no girl should have to go through that i’ve never had it done to me but all i need to is that it’s wrong and no one should go through that i really hope you broke up with your bf she does not deserve you and nethier does your “friends” i hope you found better friends that will never let you go through that and found another bf that treats you like the queen you are and i really hope your doing better beautiful🥺💖
Those people are not people they are nothing and you are much better then them. I hope you know this and can get pass what happen. Know that it wasn’t your fault and whatever happened does not define you, it defines them as the trash of society. They are even worse then that. Know that you will be ok and there are so many people that actually love you. 💕
Listening to this 3 years after hearing this. This song saved me after i got assaulted when i was 13. I was assaulted by my cousins husband and so many of the phrases in this song was said to me by him. I am not 16 years old, almost 17. I am a survior and i used your song to express my journey of being a survivor. Thank you for creating this song and saving the life of a child who didnt deserve what happened to her. you validated me when my entire family told me it was my fault. you are amazing.
I was 4. He was 40. He was my foster carer. I woke up to him touching me down there. He was hurting me. "Ow" he never listened. Im now 15..this song makes me cry everytime.
The fact that this is sung by a male makes this song even more powerful because it shows that it’s not only females that go through this, it can happen to anyone.
@@lanaiyahgriffin52 I feel he may have sang the song because he experienced it himself. But I agree you hear more about the girls that get treated that way so that could be it aswell!
I’m 13 and I was harassed from 2nd grade by a teacher to 5th grade by a fellow classmate, I only told a close friend and now I’m homeschooled I still get memories/dreams of it and it’s terrible but I’m glad I can stay home now where I feel safe, I’m sorry for anyone else who had gone through a familiar experience and I hope you’re feeling much better💛
His voice, the lyrics, the song, is just perfect. I don’t have a story but I just want to say I’m sorry all these things happened to the beautiful warriors in the comment section. I’m sorry.
We often forget about those poor guys who were raped or abused, like those girls, children... women, men, yeah they too, babies... all victims. We all are more than bodies. Why don't they understand? Is such a simple concept...
@@doloresumbridgeisdaworst3966 Certainly, but hardly anyone seems to think men are objects. It’s nearly always women who are objectified. This isn’t about men.
@@rheab8543 Sure, it's far more common for women to be assaulted and viewed as objects, but it does happen to men as well. "This isn’t about men" wtf this song is literally sang by a *man* talking about *his* experience with being viewed as an object. Of course it's about men. It's about every single gender, every person in the world who has been viewed as an object.
@@neighneighthecamel2700 And I’m not ever gonna invalidate that. Yes, men get objectified too. But, in no mean to be rude, I genuinely don’t think many people view men as objects.
I can’t listen to this song without crying thinking about every single person who got hurt by being beautiful and having a nice body they just get used and hurt
I’m scared to tell my story, but this song really helps... So if the same thing happened to you like me, don’t be afraid Bc you have people to help you all around. When I was 6 me and my stepdad were home alone and it was one of the worst things, bc I was sleeping and he came in my room, and I can’t share the rest bc I’m not ready to do it 😭 but everyone that has been effected with eventually tell their story...
I was 14 he was 45. He was a family friend. It happend twice. Frist a chruch then at his house. I just wanted to talk about greek mythology. Thank ya jordan for this. -sam
'Nobody wants you' 'nobody loves you' 'nobody cares' 'nobody wants you here' Me: I want you I love you I care I want you here on this world You matter❤ HEY! Don't be afraid... Your loved by everyone❤
@@ari-kuun9542 it’s totally fine. And I’m ten. So I’m not smart 😌 I’m stupid. So I’m not a smart--- but I don’t wanna say if I’m hurt or not. Sooooooo.
I have never been sexually assaulted, so I can’t understand the pain so many people are going through. You all are so strong for still fighting, and I love you all x
@@chxrliesdiary09 Can't say that everything was horrible and there is my fault to. I hated the part where she "played" with me but enjoyed attention she gave me. Because of the attention that she gave I let her rape me. I'm still disgusted of myself.
@@artursgabrusevs5153 I don’t want to tell you how to do things, as I don’t have any experience, but this kind of thing isn’t your fault. I don’t know what kind of advice to give you, but just don’t blame yourself
@@chxrliesdiary09 It more that I am disgusted of myself rather than hate myself or blame. Though I'm afraid of her to this day but I'm grateful for the advices she gave and things she taught. What makes me even more disgusted of myself.
im looking through the comments and seeing so many people telling their stories so many heartbreaking experiences that nobody should ever have to go through. so many women, so many men, so many people of all genders just feeling for this song, either relating or feeling for the people who do. so many survivors, so many warriors. 🖤
This song hits different He changed everything about me I just wanted to look pretty Now I'm scared to look pretty. I feel like I can't trust anyone Thank you for this, truly relatable
"Your not a toy. You are a human being You are special You can go through this Don’t give up Your more then your body Your strong There’s still hope." -Trollage.
hey ive seen so many comments saying they are depressed, just know it does get easier. coming from someone who had depression and fought it by myself, you just have to keep moving through it. i love you all and please dont give up the fight, i know that this shit is hard and it seems impossible to beat your demons but its not. im currently trying to help my friends through the same thing but they wont listen and it hurts to see them going through this and knowing that they will beat this. just open up so people like me can help. it just takes time to fight this disease but you will peace and love from someone who cares
@@BarbaraBrandow no problem, I just don't like to see people hurting like that. It sucks to watch, I'm glad your sister is doing the same thing!. We need more people like that in this messed up world. You have a great day
Ice Bear there’s something called fake depression. (People are making depression into a aesthetic) there mostly sad or self digonsed (sorry English ist my first language)
This song gives me hope that men and woman will respect their bodies, men will stop asking for just woman’s bodies, girls will love themselves that’s a world I want to live in
I've seen some comments saying things like "yeah, women have rights too." Guys. This can happen to ANYONE. male, female, anyone. Be aware and be safe to who you are with. BTW... They need to show this song to the school's
Hey, just wanna say that you don't need to put "trans" because trans men and trans women are men and women :) And thank you for including us, non-binary people. I'm an agender person, who was born in a female body. And I can see people stare at me. Stare at my body. At my hips, at my chest, at my butts. One of the most horrible feeling. I was not really comfortable in my body even before due to my dysphoria, but right know I don't even feel like myself in my own body. I just feel like this is the only thing others see...
“Hey I’m depressed” What we hear: “hAAhaA SAMEE” “Bruh” “Me too” “Isn’t everyone? Lmao” What we don’t hear: “Im here for you, okay?” “It’ll be alright, I’ll help you” “You can talk to me whenever you want to, I’m always available for you” “I love you, so I’ll help guide you through this alright? Don’t worry” Edit: y’all I put “hey I’m depressed” just as en example. Yes no one probably says that. But whatd you want me to say? “I’ve got something to tell you, i haven’t been feeling myself I’ve been feeling down and that no one actually likes me and I feel useless” yeah that’s too long but if you’re going to tell someone you’re depressed of course one wouldn’t say hey I’m depressed. And guys, stop saying I want attention. Stop saying that I’m faking I have depression because what do you know? You don’t know me so stop saying I want attention because I don’t. These type of things makes it worse.
I just can’t tell anyone I’m the therapist friend and it seems like if I’m depressed everyone won’t believe me cause I have the perfect life as everyone views it cause I have nice things are my parents and grandparents could get anything we need or even wanted but I’m still the most respectful and humble and anytime I bring up being sad everyone laughs but as soon as the are upset I’m right there to comfort them
i don't say "hey im depressed" i have never expressed myself only to two people. once my sister i told her i was depressed i was hesitant at first and finally told her. she promised she wouldn't tell anybody, she broke the promise. once i told my "friend" long story short she told everybody.
I was 14 at the time and a fellow classmate asked me out in a 'date' he then sa me and left bruises all over me , I took him to court and I'm so glad I did , we are now 15 and he has it on his record, I love me friends and family for supporting me , his own friends told me to go to court and they supported me the whole way too x
Its not fair.. that I have to be scared of going outside in just a t-shirt and shorts that I change my direction because Im scared of the men a few feet away from me that i feel scared of the police officers that stand on the opposite street that I have to be afraid of getting beat up by someone because I love someone that I have to fear for my life because I'm being myself Edit: I'm so sorry that you all also have to go through this, someday we all are gonna be equal. You're not alone and we will get trough this, together
This isn't fair, everyone has the rights to follow what their heart wants , the society is to toxic and trust issues are like second nature to most , im so sorry 💞
I wanna share my story: I was sexually assaulted at 9 by a guy in my grade and it really taught me a lot. He got away with just a detention while I had to live with it. I was then sexually assaulted by a teacher at 11 and so were some other girls he got away with it again and it is so hard knowing that they didn't get a consequence knowing they get to move on with their life while I have to live with that experience and I still replay those days over and over. This song made me realise I wasn't the only one and that it isn't ok so thank you so much Jordan really and I love this song even though it's hard to listen to. Edit: Thank you everyone for the love and support! I never really thought that my comment would be seen and it didn’t bother me but after reading every comment I’m glad people are also sharing their stories. I can’t thank you guys enough for all the love I haven’t felt supported in awhile and I really needed this! 🙏❤️
Know now that at least 1000 people know your story. It’s not forgettable but I hope that helps you getting over it if that is possible.. I am so sorry that happened to you..
" People with depression aren't lazy, they are tired by the end of the day by fighting through it. " " People with Anxiety aren't scaredy cats, they are just worried for everyone and everything. " " People with Insomnia aren't people who watch stuff at night, they are people who overthink at that time. " " People with Anorexia aren't just 'not hungry', they want people to like their appearance or hate the taste of food. " " People who are sexually assaulted isn't the person who is the cause of it, they were the victim because they were touched without permission." UPDATE : Hello, my lovely angels. I’m touched by your stories and replies and hope all of you are doing well at this moment ❤️ Reminder that you will always be enough in my eyes. You are strong, all of you are strong. And you show that by surviving another day in the universe. As a survivor of several situations / current survivor or mental illnesses, this is a battle we must win. Even if they won the battle, it doesn’t mean they won the war. Love you all, and sending you love and positive energy your way ❤️❤️❤️
There are so many people commenting about how men will learn from this not to do things to girls and yadda yadda. It's a two way street. Men can be used for their bodies as well. Abuse and sexual assault does not discriminate.
I read an article about a young boy was raped my a woman. Most of the male community was saying he should have enjoyed it. Most of the support and empathy came from woman. It’s heartbreaking to see that. Really. Your absolutely right about it being a two way rode.
This needs to be seen by more people. Males and females alike have been targetted by both sexes its a universal thing and males are sometimes unable to speak about it due to fear of losing their masculinity or other things. Im not a male myself so i dont know exactly but i know its something thats more prominent than we think
Cecilia Rose this is so true women and men both get sexually assaulted and it’s very sad not all women get raped or used for they’re body men go through that to and it’s sad too see how cruel this world is
Exactly. It’s ironic people would forget this considering a man wrote this song. It’s common sense at this point. He didn’t just write it for girls, he wrote it for everyone. Especially himself.
People in this comment section are the bravest bitches ever. You’re so brave for being on this earth for this long. Thank you! Thank you! *thank you!* You have a meaning, you’re here for a god damn reason! So chin up! Rise up! You’re more then you think! You don’t deserve to be treated like this! You’re so strong! *you are worth it baby. You are always going to be worth it.* You know your worth! 🌻 take a flower. Thank you for being here❤️
im so lucky to say ive never had suicidal thoughs, but not liking your body is one of the hardest things to go through daily. but your comment made me smile so thank you
Lily, I understand and I’m glad I made you smile! Not liking your body is really tough, but learn to love it. Your stuck with it either you like it or not! There’s really no such things of beauty standards! So stop beating yourself up! Cliche but true- you’re perfect in your own way, keep that in mind
“You’re just a child you’re being dramatic” “You’re a boy get over it” “You were asking for it” “You are so sensitive” “Do you not love me” “You should have said no” “You could have stopped it” We all deserve to be heard, to be listened to, you should be able to wear what you want. Gender shouldn’t define your worth either! YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR BODY! Stay strong 💕💕 Edit: I’m so sorry that so many of you are going through this. Please stay strong, you’re all so important, don’t ever forget that.
Please say it more often,because I know deep down you are more than any negative comment you or someone else say about yourself.Everyone should know they are more then what they appear 💜💜💜
As a 14 year old girl who has only ever been wanted for my body, rather than being wanted for just being me, this song means a lot to me and has been helping me gain back my self worth and love :,)
I've been wanted only for my body since I was 7 my I was a victim to 3 people by my brother my aunt's boyfriend and my grandma friend I never told anyone because I didn't want to get them in trouble and I realize that it was a mistake...
@@erinanderson6069 lol same, i have been getting body shame since little its actually hurt, people judging me because i'm fat (its true) my parents once told me that " why can't u be slim like your friend" " don't eat to much you'll get fat and no one will love you." Those actually hurt alot. Everytime i looked at the mirror i felt like they're saying the true Ever since i got those things all over my body they started to be disgusted at me, i cried a lot from little to big and now i'm still crying. Srry if it dosent make sense, all it matter is be yourself don't let anyone let you down, your body you choice.
I’m 14 and I know what you mean. All people have wanted me for is my body. I finally found someone who doesn’t want me for my body though. And to anyone who needs to hear it, there is someone who doesn’t just see your body. I love you all
Your all such strong people and i hope you all do amazing things with your lives no matter what has happened to you you are all an inspiration and i wish you the best in life ❤❤❤
"Hey mom, I think I'm suicidal." "Haha funny.", she says. "No mom, I am 100% serious, I am suicidal." "Oh, you don't know what you're talking about honey." In my head thinking I wish I was dead, bc she won't believe me on what is the truth.
suicidal people don’t actually want to die, they just don’t want to continue living their current life. i wish my parents would’ve understood that when i was in my darkest hours. but trust me, if you hold on, you will look back one day and see how far you’ve come. i wish i could give you an immediate fix for your pain, but i can’t. for me, it was a slow process of seeing the little things in life i could never leave behind. my baby brother. sitting on the porch swing drinking tea in fall. holding my sweet blind cat close to my chest. i learned gratitude, which taught me joy. i pray for you and hope you’ll be alright soon.
Remyno exactly we dont wanna die we just font wanna live but the only way that works is dying so we end up saying “i wanna die” i just released i got the wrong username fir this one-
I’ve cut myself and I try to stop but once my mom found out she flipped and didn’t even try to talk to me about until a couple of days later and I just can’t with myself I feel stupid and I can’t even tell her that I tried to kill my self and that I feel depressed and I don’t even know if I will ever be able to tell her...😭
this being sung by a male makes it so much deeper and it hits harder and breaks the stereotypes. Also this explains the reasons why girls ask their friends to walk with them..
So uh, my friends are invisible I guess 🤧 my friend since I was 2 hasn't talked to me since Christmas day and it was for like 1 minute. My friends dont reply to my fucking texts, and one if them hasn't replied to my texts in over a year. The inky friends that talk to me I hardly see cause they live in a different city.
Damnation.... The voice gives me chill, the singer's emotion translate with every words he spells out. It's more than enough to give me goosebumps, It is beautiful
Parents: shut up! “Friends”: you’re so annoying! Siblings: go away! School: you’re not smart enough! Online friends: *haven’t been online in 4 years* “Best friend”: no one cares Music: it’s okay... I love you
true. My friend parents siblings and some teacher make jokes or fun ab my depression etc. Not their thing to do if i wanna joke ab it then I am the only one that could do it cuz it is something bad ab myself. Music is my only escape from this reality. But my parents decided last month that I couldnt listen to music or anything for 3 weeks
@Paislie Acquard Wanna play roblox together? my user is iiiLxst_Stxnger. I'm willing to be your friend I know that I'm not them or whoever but I've been though the same thing I was close with this one kid and she hasn't been online for like 5 years
3 things 1. Yea, I'm failing all my classes and I can't focus because of my mind and everybody around me has just been pushing me telling me to get my grades up and I just wanna laydown and cry the only thing bring me comfort is the my memories I lost that music helps me remember. 2. I love your Name and Profile. 3. If you need somebody to talk to about what you have on your mind you can tell me, I may just be a stranger but I know what its like when nobody listens to you and the only thing that understands you is music.
I'm a 34 year old man and father of two little girls but when i was in 3rd grade i was molested and again when i was a little older by my own father thanks for the song man we've stayed silent for far to long no one is safe from those who see others as merely objects
*Fritz Holmes* this is beautifully sad and inspiring. So many people don't believe that men can be sexually assaulted and abused, but stories like this are so brave and need to be shared. Thank you for being brave, and I am praying for you.
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presave my debut ep rn !!
listen.jordansuaste.com/jordansuaste
everybody here needs a hug , ' i'm fine ' biggest lie ever told.
But I’m fine.😅😞
@@pata1434 are you sure youre ok
"Im fine"
Is what i always say
But in reality im far from that
True...
Patrīcija Virka are you sure..?
This song sounds like heaven but hurts like hell
yes.
Yeah
Yes
That's how I feel, BCS one of my parent's friends did this to me when I was 10.. still a virgin but still was painful...
I know. This happened to me I get so emotional
"We are suicidal kids telling other suicidal kids that suicide isn't the answer." - Unknown
I felt that.
So True
Ik I told my triend I wanted to kill myself he told me no then he said the same thing to me and I said no
I tried to Commit suicide but every time I hold the gun to my Head it doesn't feel right.trust me suicide is definitely not the right answer.
@@balastru hey please dont my love its not worth it
@@balastru the pain that you feel won't go away after the su1¢1de , It will only go to other people that love you..
It doesn’t feel great when you cry
But it hurts so so much when you can’t cry
I understand that feeling
DONT FUCKING HIT ME WITH MY OWN FEELINGS THATS NOT FAIR, I CANT BE IN DENIAL THAT WAY
Yea
I feel you
Persnaly I love crying I feel like it's letting go pushing all the feelings out and after I feel numb bliss that helps me sleep .
The ending when his voice cracked literally had me sobbing...
Same :
Same 🥺
SABIHA AZAD ssame💕💕🥺💕💕💕🥺🥺🥺🥺
same 🥺
what time
So i’m a 13 year old girl, i was sexual assaulted by a fellow classmate. this song just means so much and has inspired my to tell me story. so thank you jordan, this is truly a powerful and beautiful song.
im so sorry babes, stay strong 🥺💞
Stay strong angel ♥️
im so sorry bubby just know if you ever need anything just comment anything or we can try to get contact another way but just know your very strong and never forget that
Keegan Bruner thank you
Stay strong... This world belong to you 💜
I just cannot stop crying, his voice hits like heavy truck over my heart.
Same😔
Same 😪
Betty WithDarkness yea he is my friend
Same😭
It goes deeper in my heart where it find the words tears
I've been sexuality assaulted by my own father from the ages 8 till now and by a few complete strangers when i was around 14. This song makes me feel heard. My heart goes out to everyone who has experienced such things. I love you all and im really proud of all of you for overcoming it 🫶
A special thank you to Jordan for writing such a masterpiece
I'm sorry for what you have been through.
I’m so sorry.❤
omg are you doing beter i hope you are that sounds tarabol
I’ve been raped for than I can count from my own brother so we are in the same area
Sorry what you have been through, Your not alone, I've had multiple encounters, Not with my family, but friends, Girlfriends, and strangers, I hope you are doing better, Ik it can be hard, I'm still trying to overcome it.
At the age of 13 I was raped by my "bestfriend" he told me he wouldn't hurt me and that he would let me wait till I was older to make any choices (I'm 15 now and I don't mind talking about it) I got pregnant but had a miscarriage, I was too scared to tell anyone and I got very depressed and suicidal. My boyfriend (Best boyfriend I've ever had) has been helping me through it all. He'd the reason I'm still on this beautiful planet. Hearing this song made me cry. Thank you!!
Oh my gosh, I can't imagine how hard that must have been on you... So glad you're still here
Rip__Tide you boyfriend is amazing for actually caring are wanting to be there for you
I love you. You are such an inspiration to this world. You are one of the strongest girls out there. Stay strong❤
Its ok girl it happended to me too jusy with a girl
i 13 now and i could not deal with having to have a miscarriage. you are so so strong just know that ❤
“I knew a boy who liked to draw, he drew pictures that nobody saw. He was most artistic late at night, in the bathroom out of sight. He kept a secret no one knew, he didn't tell a soul and his gallery grew. His drawings were different, no paper or pen but needed a bandage now and then. We stood by the river under the stars, he rolled up his sleeve and showed me his scars. He felt embarrassed and looked down at his shoes. Then I rolled up my sleves and whispered 'i draw too'.”
Without the dark there's no light and without the pain there'd be no life so even when it hurts don't try to run, be happy that you made it, Just be open and embrace it
WOW thats a heartbreaking moral/story
I’m crying
Oh my god this was.. wow
Omg....
Oh my goodness… woah
This being sung by a male just makes it all the more powerful and breaks the stereotype.
yes!! 100%
Yees
Yes
Saw the film "The Red Pill
"? 2016 film...about women and men.
Auburn Walters agreed
r@p3d.... at the age of 5 by my father....i begged him to stop but he never did... now im 16 i cant see him anymore which is good..! but i listen to this everyday because it reminds of how strong i was and told someone... Thank you, Jordan...
-Mattie
you’re so strong & you didn’t deserve that. I’m proud of you for still going
I have burning myself with a lighter because of the shit I have been through I know it's not the same but I get physical abuse I love you take care by also now I'm 13
Hi, I’m so sorry this happened to you. It must be very difficult. Please remember that when things get though it’s important to seek help. Therapy can help a lot. You’re very strong and brave ❤
@@YolandaNunez-gy8iq I was r@aped almost at age 13.. I had a mental breakdown it was by my friend I trusted them and all they have to say is bye
What the? I hope that sick man is in jail that's not a person who is worthy to call a father... Hope you are healing and okay
"A woman's heart is full of doors that hides her painful secrets"
- my mother -
She sounds wonderful
What a wise and truthful thing I've read today. Your mother seems like a wise woman
I will always stan your mother for her wise words :)
Oh
Your mother is wise.
This song gives me so much strength. I can't listen to it without crying because I was raped a year ago at the age of 14.
im so sorry. no one deserves what you went through. i just want to let you know that you are loved and everything’s gonna get better with time. we love you.💗
.... I was raped at 6 and sexually abused when I was 5 to 11 and almost every day at school....
@@victoriashawe2663 I'm very sorry you had to go through that, and your not alone. But remember its not a contest of pain, trauma affects everyone, some things hurt others more. I hope you have an amazing day and dont forget how strong you are
Its very good you get strength from this, I hope you have an amazing day and know you deserve the best in life
You're more than your body. Whoever did that to you will forever remember what he did. My two little siblings got molested less than a year ago. Jesus loves you
Everyone deserves respect. Boy, girl, they, it.
Not the clown tho-
Everyone needs love and respect. 💖
“It”
So like-
My bed?
Lemon :3 no some people identify as a them or it instead of being a she/he
@Natalie Martin lmaoooo
I was 12.He was 32.He was my father. It kept happening for almost 3 years straight.It's so sad to see it happend to so many young people.I'm 15 and it stopped two weeks ago.I'm here for you all and I'm praying for everyone!Love this song Jordan!YOU ARE LOVED!EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU!❤❤❤❤
@@BarbaraBrandow I'm really sorry for what you've been through...💔 I'm with you🤗❤️
@@ElisaC.2010 Someone replied to my comment om goodness! Your the first to ever do that. Guess that shows some do care. A month ago he was arrested. So I'm free. Free to do what I'd like, wear what I'd like and act how I like. If you don't mind me asking why are you here? Listening to this song or going through the comment's? Have you been through something similar?
You seem a really really nice person, I hope you're doing well now
@@rrrii558aa I am! Thank you for caring! I hope your doing well as well!
@@rrrii558aa I am. Thank you for saying that. I hope you are doing amazing! God loves you!
i hope he gets the fame he deserves. this is way better than most songs
The people who disliked couldn't see through their tears
Or maybe they were the ones who actually used someone 🥱😖✋🏽🥺🥺
Zion Hayes facts like how do you dis like this it’s so powerful
I’m just there are only 14 dislikes, compared to about 9 thousand
Omg same
Sophia bridget true☹️🥺😢😭
I love how parents can spot their child's toxic friends but not realize that their child is depressed.
Edit: Omg, I did NOT expect so many likes and comments. Thank you all for liking my comment and reply, have a great day, night, afternoon ect. ^^
ikr
Damn good point.
Yeah
How that work?
yeah !
I was 5, he was 30, it was christmas, i thought he was family, he thought i was easy. I was 13, she was my mother, she said my body was hers. Soon, all those cells will be gone and i'll be somebody nobody ever touched.
7 years ❤️🙏🫡
GOD BLESS YOU 🙏
I'm sorry you had to go through that...I jever really experience rape nor sexual assault....But my heart goes out to everyone who experienced it...I hope you'll be fine....I hope you're doing better now...And I hope that they went to jail for doing such crap to you......
I’m 15, I was sexually assaulted by a classmate in my science class every other day for 2 months, we were sat at the back of the class so no one saw a thing, he knew that I wouldn’t cause a scene over it so he would do anything. When I finally told the school he got mad at me, he was let off with just a “stern talking to” some of my closest friends told me it was my fault and that I deserved it. I’m still in the same class as him and was only moved a few seats over from him, he constantly looks back at me and stares at me in class. If still upsets me but I’m slowly learning it’s not my fault and although he was mad at me, I’m proud of myself for speaking up. If any of you can relate to this in anyway, please just know it gets better and you are absolute amazing and so so strong 💛
bro you’re so strong for speaking up. i hope you’re doing better now and he faces the consequences❤️
I understand you. something like this happened to me too. the principal just changed the seat.......
dractonixx art that’s horrible.. I’m so sorry you had to go through that
@@tryme9535 ❤
This happens to me I slapped him, I got detention but it was for a good reason
We shouldn’t be terrified at night. We shouldn’t be forced to cover up we shouldn’t be uncomfortable or forced to do anything, we are humans WE ARENT JUST OUR DAMN BODYS
Girls are more then there body they aren't just to be used and just get Theron out 😅😅
Guys are more then their bodies, they aren’t meant to be seen as the predator every time something happens or have harassment towards them go unnoticed
(I just said this since the other reply was abt girls and the guys needed awareness too ❤️)
Naruto Uzumaki guys are more than their bodies too
@@that.is.debatable9770 yes I agree but it's a lot of girls to
Liv_258 the ratio isn’t what matters, what matters is that I’m trying to shine light on the people who are either looked away from or completely overlooked is cases. I’m not saying those women don’t matter but i am saying that there are many cases where it was obvious that a man was harassed and it was ignored. (( sorry if i come off as rude or mean, I’m just very passionate about things like this ❤️
When he said:
I’m more than
I’m more than
I’m more than
Body, let me see your body
Take off all your makeup and your clothes
Trust me, why don’t you just trust me
You’re the only beauty, show me more
You’re not a dime a dozen
Oh, your skin is golden
Let me show the whole damn world
You’re one in a billion
The only thing you’re missin’
Is some tape over that mouth
Body, I’m more than my body
You can pack your things up
Buh-bye just go
Body, I’m more than my body
Don't owe you a thing
No, not at all
I'm not a toy to play with
Not just a sight to see and
My mind is worth its weight in gold
I'm not a dime a dozen
I know I'm worth just more than
You will ever know
Touch me, you just wanna feel me
You just wanna share me
You don't care at all
Trust you, why don't I just trust you
You just wanna use me
Now I know
Body, I’m more than my body
You will never get me
Buh-bye just go
I’m more than
I’m more than
I’m more than my body
I’m more than
I’m more than
I’m more than my body
I’m more than
I’m more than
I’m more than my body
I’m more than
I’m more than
I’m more than my body
I’m more than
I’m more than
I’m more than
I was like: Damn.
Sooooooooo... the entire song?
lmfao so true the whole song breaks my heart when my heart wasn't even whole to start with this is my first time crying in several years (my bad MONTHS!!)
Gives me goosebumps
Yes! Same here gurl UvU
Fax tho
This song comes to my mind so often. I'm 13 and my ex boyfriend has assaulted me twice during our NINE MONTH relationship. He did it in my bedroom. And he still denied it. He apologised, but I couldn't forget the way his hands felt on my body. I felt so.. disgusted. Even now, I can't feel the same way in my room. I still remember the way his hands felt on my body. I still scrub my skin so hard it turns red, because I feel so disgusting.
This song gives me strength. This song reminds me that it wasn't my fault. He didn't take my voice. So I will use it. And I will be as loud as I can.
Scream at the top of your lungs if you have to, you and everyone else in this comment section can and will be heard
How old were you girl?
You can wipe out someone’s tear but not their memory.
why doesn’t this have more likes
This has to be the best quote/comment on this whole video
So right btw best comment ever :)
Mhm......
Damn hinata that’s deep bro
"im more than my body"
is something that they need to teach. we need to hear this at a young age.
K then how old are you then
I'm 11 and I've had to go through sexual abuse/assault when I was 8
I’m 12 and I went through sexual abuse at 6
My friend got harassed at 8 and never told anyone but she told me yesterday and I told my parents who told hers and now they are talking. She told me everything that happend and thanked me for telling my parents. ALWAYS TELL SOMEONE
b E a N your so strong, please always know that
The ones that disliked are the ones who this song is about. Using people for their body
I agree why can't people see that true beauty is within
i agree with this so much. they dislike it cause they don’t relate on a personal level cause they’ve never had it happen to them.
Well no not really they just dont like the song for there own reason im sure you have disliked songs doesn't make (for example) selfish (by Madison beer)
Or it could be that they just didn't like the song for the music and not from the meaning, ya know? Tbh the meaning strikes a cord and speaks the story of everyone in the world, but the song is kinda eh
I agree so if any one dislikes this video and you see this video think about how the people you use feel
My sister was 5, he was 14. He was our brother, he had to stay, there was nowhere he could go. I was 15, he was 30. A trust was rebuilt in 16 years that was broken within seconds, my sister grew up think it was just a bad dream not knowing the truth. It was to protect her. She was going to be told if she had asked, she had trusted him. She’s my older sister, parents were on holiday and it was just supposed to be an innocent sleepover. I’m now going to be 20 soon, and my sister 26, he will not be forgiven.
Most of these things happen with people close, everyone stay safe.
You can speak up, this song helped me.
You are loved ❤
WHATT NO jail brother jail
Girls aren’t objects boys aren’t objects we’re not toys to be played with or to be just thrown away
@Ella Seesser thx I been harassed and touched I no longer have to go through that my family doesn't know what happen I cut remembering I stop cuz I got caught
@Ella Seesser ik how all the people who have been abused raped and sexually assaulted feel
@Ella Seesser btw I'm 12
Im a boy and i feel ashamed of my gender
Gavriel Tanoko you can always talk to me if u wanna, i also feel lost in stereotypes sometimes
I can NOT describe how good this song is. JUST WOW. Good job.
@Vanilla Jerkoff great? SPECTACULAR!!
Turtle Cakes spectacular? ASTRONOMICAL!
@Kaitlyn Cardinal astronomical?
SUPERCALIFRAGILISTICEXPIALIDOCIOUS! 😂
@@rxin827 I don't have anything to say........ Lol
yeah bc of how much annoying it is
Can we just take a moment to appreciate this it is so POWERFUL and the fact it’s sung by a male makes it ten times as powerful
EXACTLY I heard it the first time and I'm trying to search it up this is more than powerful it's the whole damn universe.
so if it was sung by a woman it wouldn't be as powerful? How does that make any sense.
@@jaydenhorsfield1038 No, it's just the stereotype of "men can't be raped", ect.
@@yeonviity7581 Yeah just because a female doesn’t have the same part as a male doesn’t mean they aren’t still capable of sexual harassing a male :/
@@Koni- you just made the same point lmao
When I was around 5-6 I was sexually assaulted many times and this song has helped me heal. I may be 11, I may just be a kid. But it breaks my soul to hear and see people younger than me having to relate to this song. I have been through a lot and I know others also have. I hope people can trust me and rely on me to cure their pain. If you need anyone to talk to I'm always open. Love you all and hope you recover!
I was your 5-6 I was raped to it sucks and it lasted until I was 8-9 I hope you never go through this again and I hope you have a great life you really deserve everything they never gave you we are here for everyone and we are and always be amazing and strong ❤
i feel like i should tell my story im a girl 13 now and my step sister she um did some things to me when i was 8 and we talk and act like friends and sisters but it still makes me cry cause she still believes the lgbtgia is wrong when she did that to me
Hi my name is Hannah I'M 19 years old, I was sexual abused twice at a young age, by my own grandpa and then a family friend, my granapa just got out of jail I'm afraid he will hurt me again, this song hits hard for I can relate
glad to know that younger people are feeling safe to express ❤
@@HannahMeade-tz6lp Sorry you had to go through that, Lovely. Hope you're okay❤️
Everyone in these comments are the baddest and bravest bitches I know in this world and you guys truly deserve the world and back . Truly feel for you guys
My confidence went📈📈
Thank you for your words of wisdom I’ve been feeling lost and stumbled upon a sad song playlist and this song happens to be here
Sis, you made me burst into tears and laugh at the same time. Should i hate or love you ? Guess i'll do both ❤
just multistan issues what can I say I had mixed feelings 💀
@@norman3209 same haha
This is the best song I've ever heard in tik tok and I came to RUclips to search the full version
It's on Spotify
Me too
I saw it in charli ‘s video :)
Me 2
Same 👁👄👁
"We are not are bodies. Our bodies are where our souls live. Ours are just a box, but our minds can't be contained in that box."
- My Mom
Your mom is an amazing woman, I can tell by just reading this
@@harmonyferrington4647 Thank you! She really is amazing and I am very glad to have her as a role model :3
Your mom is wise
Your mom sounds amazing 💙
Your mom just is so good. You are so lucky to have a mom like that knowing some people don't have mom's/dad's/guardians like that(not me)
The comments absolutely shattered my heart I’m so sorry so many of you relate to the same song and have such similar experiences with people
Your more than your body and your past will never ever define who you are I’m proud of you all ❤
“I’m more than my body” who else thinks that just hit so hard like don’t like me if u don’t like ME. I feel like this is just so Beautiful and how he hits all of his notes like each word just makes me want to keep listening for hours
I'm crying right now.. I cant this song is really beautifull
Silly Sammy than*
Same.. Just same..
When I was 15 my boyfriend drugged me and raped me. I don’t remember anything aside from seeing him on top of me, while all our friends watched. I refused to believe it happened until recently when I told myself I had to believe it to move past it, and it was the hardest thing for me to go through.
1. Your ex is shitty
2. Those “friends” are also shitty
3. It’ll be okay, idk you but I love you 💕
voiisu omg no girl should have to go through that i’ve never had it done to me but all i need to is that it’s wrong and no one should go through that i really hope you broke up with your bf she does not deserve you and nethier does your “friends” i hope you found better friends that will never let you go through that and found another bf that treats you like the queen you are and i really hope your doing better beautiful🥺💖
Those people are not people they are nothing and you are much better then them. I hope you know this and can get pass what happen. Know that it wasn’t your fault and whatever happened does not define you, it defines them as the trash of society. They are even worse then that. Know that you will be ok and there are so many people that actually love you. 💕
a similar thing happened to me when I was 12. I'm 15 now. It is still the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I'm here for you. I love you.
you’re so strong!! ily
Screw schools this needs to be played everywhere
Yasss like yessss
Omg yessssss
Yeah but that would be weird
Yes
@@marleneazola11 kinda oof
Listening to this 3 years after hearing this. This song saved me after i got assaulted when i was 13. I was assaulted by my cousins husband and so many of the phrases in this song was said to me by him. I am not 16 years old, almost 17. I am a survior and i used your song to express my journey of being a survivor. Thank you for creating this song and saving the life of a child who didnt deserve what happened to her. you validated me when my entire family told me it was my fault. you are amazing.
“We’re just suicidal people telling other suicidal people that everything’s gonna be alright”.
That’s basically saying the phrase “we’re just depressed people telling all the depressed people that it’s going to be fine
Thats how i feel but at the same time i feel like its never going to get better
i felt that
exactly. i feel like such a hypocrite sometimes lmao. also 1000th like ;)
idk
i want to scream this song. holy shit dude, this gave me chills.
yall ever feel like the song is literally inside your heart?
Yes,when I listened to this
for dis one yes
Yas
go to a field or even a car a just scream these lyric, cry if u have to it will help
Yes I do
I was 4. He was 40. He was my foster carer. I woke up to him touching me down there. He was hurting me. "Ow" he never listened. Im now 15..this song makes me cry everytime.
Girl, he needs jail immediately now
“It’s the people with the truest smiles that struggle through the fakest love.”
-anonymous
ah sure
we will slime till death for people but really be broken
-unknown
:'(
Thanks for 5elling them 😔
@@Ch-tw4rx :(
When corona is done literally go to Americans Got talent with this song .
Omg yesss!!
omg he would win and get the golden buzzer and make all the judges cry
YESS
I'll hold u to that
hes too good for talent shows
The fact that this is sung by a male makes this song even more powerful because it shows that it’s not only females that go through this, it can happen to anyone.
Preach
I'm a guy and have been there too many times. It really can happen to anyone
but mostly girls that's y he sung the song
@@yeetyeet6367 ik but it was for other ppl to
@@lanaiyahgriffin52 I feel he may have sang the song because he experienced it himself. But I agree you hear more about the girls that get treated that way so that could be it aswell!
I’m 13 and I was harassed from 2nd grade by a teacher to 5th grade by a fellow classmate, I only told a close friend and now I’m homeschooled I still get memories/dreams of it and it’s terrible but I’m glad I can stay home now where I feel safe, I’m sorry for anyone else who had gone through a familiar experience and I hope you’re feeling much better💛
If he doesn't get a contract and get famous then imma sue the whole world this was amazing
PERIODT
I honestly hope he doesn’t accept a contract cuz there’s a lot that goes into those things and honestly he’s better off without a contract
Yes he should get famous
This man makes me believe there is some good in this world.
period 😌🤚🥺
Amen 🙏
WTF WHY IN THE WORLD DID PEOPLE UNLIKE, OH WAIT CAUSE THEY WERE CRYING FROM HOW BEAUTIFUL IT IS AND MISSED UP OH OK I GET IT NOW
Catelyn M the ones who unliked realized they were the ones treating people like this
Emma Forschler liek what? Using people for there body? Ohh yeah
I was 5,8,12,13,14,15,16 and 17.
Now at 21, I completely understand what happened, it's sad to know infinite people went through
I literally cry when he says"body, I'm more then my body" specially of what I went through and what I'm going through now
stay strong baby ❤ I love you and you are 100% more than just your body!
@@cynthiapopovich7779 thank you💕
even tho none of us know you we all love you and you're an amazing person don't let anyone tell you different
Stay strong ❤️
@@batclVb I hope so
His voice is so beautiful and I can’t stop crying
Ikr
His voice, the lyrics, the song, is just perfect.
I don’t have a story but I just want to say I’m sorry all these things happened to the beautiful warriors in the comment section.
I’m sorry.
You don’t have to be sorry for us :)
Just know that by commenting that you’re supporting us in everything we do
Vincent Van Gogh why can’t everyone be like you
Been 3 years and I still cry while screaming the words thank you for this blessing helping us all heal
We often forget about those poor guys who were raped or abused, like those girls, children... women, men, yeah they too, babies... all victims.
We all are more than bodies.
Why don't they understand?
Is such a simple concept...
Men are not objects, like the women. People are not toys. We live. We breathe. We think. We can be traumatized and scared...
Amen
@@doloresumbridgeisdaworst3966 Certainly, but hardly anyone seems to think men are objects. It’s nearly always women who are objectified. This isn’t about men.
@@rheab8543 Sure, it's far more common for women to be assaulted and viewed as objects, but it does happen to men as well. "This isn’t about men" wtf this song is literally sang by a *man* talking about *his* experience with being viewed as an object. Of course it's about men. It's about every single gender, every person in the world who has been viewed as an object.
@@neighneighthecamel2700 And I’m not ever gonna invalidate that. Yes, men get objectified too. But, in no mean to be rude, I genuinely don’t think many people view men as objects.
I can’t listen to this song without crying thinking about every single person who got hurt by being beautiful and having a nice body they just get used and hurt
same here :(
me....
Me...
we're all beautiful and have nice bodies
I’m scared to tell my story, but this song really helps... So if the same thing happened to you like me, don’t be afraid Bc you have people to help you all around. When I was 6 me and my stepdad were home alone and it was one of the worst things, bc I was sleeping and he came in my room, and I can’t share the rest bc I’m not ready to do it 😭 but everyone that has been effected with eventually tell their story...
*They should make this song viral so it could be seen everywhere*
there’s gonna be at least some people angry because it’s about them- but I agree!
👍
I was 14 he was 45. He was a family friend. It happend twice. Frist a chruch then at his house. I just wanted to talk about greek mythology. Thank ya jordan for this.
-sam
I'm so sorry! Praying for you!
'Nobody wants you'
'nobody loves you'
'nobody cares'
'nobody wants you here'
Me: I want you
I love you
I care
I want you here on this world
You matter❤
HEY! Don't be afraid... Your loved by everyone❤
No it’s somebody and your special and I know your a amazing person even tho I don’t know you I just can tell 😊
No...it’s not. ❤️ nobody is nobody. Ur not nobody. ❤️
me reading the first part: yea understandable
me seeing the end: Aww :D
I feel better thanks
@@ari-kuun9542 it’s totally fine. And I’m ten. So I’m not smart 😌 I’m stupid. So I’m not a smart--- but I don’t wanna say if I’m hurt or not. Sooooooo.
@@lolvalyalexa I'm ten to shhhhh 🤫 don't tell anyone
THIS SONG NEEDS TO BE PLAYED IN EVERY SINGLE MALL AS SOON AS THE CORONA CRISIS IS OVER BECAUSE EVERYONE NEEDS TO HEAR THIS
Yessss
For real
fo sho
Right
EXACTLY
This song is my drug
RUclips is the dealer
Ads are the police
Dog best comment
Dog me has RUclips premium can’t relate with the police bc the police got nothin on me
I can't take the replies seriously when your username is dog💀
But omg this comment is amazing
lmao
This song is bringing memories back that I hid deep behind walls.
I have never been sexually assaulted, so I can’t understand the pain so many people are going through. You all are so strong for still fighting, and I love you all x
I'm a guy and though I've been used as toy I can't understand pain of people who were sexually assaulted.
@@artursgabrusevs5153 I’m so sorry, that must have been so horrible. We’re all here and supporting you ❤️
@@chxrliesdiary09
Can't say that everything was horrible and there is my fault to. I hated the part where she "played" with me but enjoyed attention she gave me. Because of the attention that she gave I let her rape me. I'm still disgusted of myself.
@@artursgabrusevs5153 I don’t want to tell you how to do things, as I don’t have any experience, but this kind of thing isn’t your fault. I don’t know what kind of advice to give you, but just don’t blame yourself
@@chxrliesdiary09
It more that I am disgusted of myself rather than hate myself or blame. Though I'm afraid of her to this day but I'm grateful for the advices she gave and things she taught. What makes me even more disgusted of myself.
This song gives such an important message...this should be one of the top songs of the year
im looking through the comments and seeing so many people telling their stories so many heartbreaking experiences that nobody should ever have to go through. so many women, so many men, so many people of all genders just feeling for this song, either relating or feeling for the people who do. so many survivors, so many warriors. 🖤
Exactly
Is that yungblud, fook yea man
@@giannafreitas6628 it is dhdjds
True
Who wanna hear a funny ass joke
This song hits different
He changed everything about me
I just wanted to look pretty
Now I'm scared to look pretty. I feel like I can't trust anyone
Thank you for this, truly relatable
"Your not a toy.
You are a human being
You are special
You can go through this
Don’t give up
Your more then your body
Your strong
There’s still hope."
-Trollage.
I already have a huge headache from crying to this song and comments like these I'm 11 and I agree with you
Thank you.
Good man👍👍you should be the president 👍👍
Thanks a lot.
I appreciate it.
@@littleone2505 same 😭😭😭😭
*they should play this in schools.*
oh my gosh yh!!! they really should
YES
I agree but the boys at my school is probably just gonna walk out😖
Especially since I go to an all girls school, it would probably mean a lot
They should
hey ive seen so many comments saying they are depressed, just know it does get easier. coming from someone who had depression and fought it by myself, you just have to keep moving through it. i love you all and please dont give up the fight, i know that this shit is hard and it seems impossible to beat your demons but its not. im currently trying to help my friends through the same thing but they wont listen and it hurts to see them going through this and knowing that they will beat this. just open up so people like me can help. it just takes time to fight this disease but you will peace and love from someone who cares
Thank you. You remind me alot of my little sister. She always loves to help people and God bless you for that! ❤
@@BarbaraBrandow no problem, I just don't like to see people hurting like that. It sucks to watch, I'm glad your sister is doing the same thing!. We need more people like that in this messed up world. You have a great day
"I'm depressed"
That's what u tell people
"Oh same"
"Relatable"
That's what they tell u you know not everything is relatable....
The only people I know who replies that way are actually depressed though.
*ive been depressed for 4 years I can’t do it anymore..*
OmG sO RElAtabLe
SAmEEe
LmAo mood X3
Ice Bear there’s something called fake depression. (People are making depression into a aesthetic) there mostly sad or self digonsed (sorry English ist my first language)
@@ЯГей-ь7н Most of my close friends are from severely dysfunctional and abusive households and they're the ones I was referring to.
Ice Bear I’m sorry for the misunderstanding
This song gives me hope that men and woman will respect their bodies, men will stop asking for just woman’s bodies, girls will love themselves that’s a world I want to live in
and men right?
There are also women who use men and men that hate their bodies. Let’s just stop making men look bad
@@AelisDC she said it that way because she thinks that more girls are treated like that then men.
Liliane Uwineza I know. But it’s wrong that that is the stereotype
@@AelisDC okay then what if we say girls and men
I've seen some comments saying things like
"yeah, women have rights too."
Guys. This can happen to ANYONE.
male, female, anyone. Be aware and be safe to who you are with.
BTW...
They need to show this song to the school's
Couldn’t say it better
Thank you
Yeah! I agree! This song promotes awareness! 🥺👉👈. ❤️❤️❤️
Hey, just wanna say that you don't need to put "trans" because trans men and trans women are men and women :)
And thank you for including us, non-binary people. I'm an agender person, who was born in a female body. And I can see people stare at me. Stare at my body. At my hips, at my chest, at my butts. One of the most horrible feeling. I was not really comfortable in my body even before due to my dysphoria, but right know I don't even feel like myself in my own body. I just feel like this is the only thing others see...
I agree
I found this and just cried. Hard. Because nobody knows except yourself how much everything feels people deserve more. Beauty is more then a body
“Hey I’m depressed”
What we hear:
“hAAhaA SAMEE”
“Bruh”
“Me too”
“Isn’t everyone? Lmao”
What we don’t hear:
“Im here for you, okay?”
“It’ll be alright, I’ll help you”
“You can talk to me whenever you want to, I’m always available for you”
“I love you, so I’ll help guide you through this alright? Don’t worry”
Edit: y’all I put “hey I’m depressed” just as en example. Yes no one probably says that. But whatd you want me to say?
“I’ve got something to tell you, i haven’t been feeling myself I’ve been feeling down and that no one actually likes me and I feel useless” yeah that’s too long but if you’re going to tell someone you’re depressed of course one wouldn’t say hey I’m depressed. And guys, stop saying I want attention. Stop saying that I’m faking I have depression because what do you know? You don’t know me so stop saying I want attention because I don’t. These type of things makes it worse.
This is so fricken true and it’s so sad
I just can’t tell anyone I’m the therapist friend and it seems like if I’m depressed everyone won’t believe me cause I have the perfect life as everyone views it cause I have nice things are my parents and grandparents could get anything we need or even wanted but I’m still the most respectful and humble and anytime I bring up being sad everyone laughs but as soon as the are upset I’m right there to comfort them
Exactly, man...
i don't say "hey im depressed" i have never expressed myself only to two people. once my sister i told her i was depressed i was hesitant at first and finally told her. she promised she wouldn't tell anybody, she broke the promise. once i told my "friend" long story short she told everybody.
jaden stuff but u just said it-
I can’t count how many times I cried over this song :/
Same 💔
Same :(
Same
Same
Since I saw this comment I knew I had to actually counted, so I cried 17 times in an hour of listening to this song
am I the only one who hasn’t been sexually assaulted and just enjoys the song? I’m sorry to everyone who has been through those traumatic experience.
No I have only stopped a minor
Yeah, I think you're the only one 😔✌ but be appreciative of it.. you're lucky so be happy :)
I just like the song too but seeing everyone's experience I realize how horrible people are
I haven't been physically assaulted but I have had guys make me feel like I'm worthless for not sending nudes
@@aishasbetter7595 I mean just because someone hasn't been through that doesn't mean they haven't been through other terrible things
I was 14 at the time and a fellow classmate asked me out in a 'date' he then sa me and left bruises all over me , I took him to court and I'm so glad I did , we are now 15 and he has it on his record, I love me friends and family for supporting me , his own friends told me to go to court and they supported me the whole way too x
Its not fair..
that I have to be scared of going outside in just a t-shirt and shorts
that I change my direction because Im scared of the men a few feet away from me
that i feel scared of the police officers that stand on the opposite street
that I have to be afraid of getting beat up by someone because I love someone
that I have to fear for my life because I'm being myself
Edit: I'm so sorry that you all also have to go through this, someday we all are gonna be equal. You're not alone and we will get trough this, together
This isn't fair, everyone has the rights to follow what their heart wants , the society is to toxic and trust issues are like second nature to most , im so sorry 💞
I’m so sorry
I know that true feeling, I'm so sorry😭💛
We're the same, i feel you😔
If your scared of men that's just you your gonna have to get used to it we aren't going anywhere
"Do you really want to ruin your perfect body with those scars?" - My Mum
"I'm more than my body." - Me
That's what my mum said too
If of y’all need to talk dm me! I’ll let you vent and give you advice but please just reach out and drink some water too!💕
@@Ezralamusica hey, can i get your insta/snap?
mine too :/ except she pulled the "your body isn't yours, it didn't fall from the sky *I* made it. how dare u hurt it" card
@@ANAKHARATS WHAT?!
I wanna share my story:
I was sexually assaulted at 9 by a guy in my grade and it really taught me a lot. He got away with just a detention while I had to live with it. I was then sexually assaulted by a teacher at 11 and so were some other girls he got away with it again and it is so hard knowing that they didn't get a consequence knowing they get to move on with their life while I have to live with that experience and I still replay those days over and over. This song made me realise I wasn't the only one and that it isn't ok so thank you so much Jordan really and I love this song even though it's hard to listen to.
Edit: Thank you everyone for the love and support! I never really thought that my comment would be seen and it didn’t bother me but after reading every comment I’m glad people are also sharing their stories. I can’t thank you guys enough for all the love I haven’t felt supported in awhile and I really needed this! 🙏❤️
that's horrible that they would do that, you're so strong
thank you for sharing
Know now that at least 1000 people know your story. It’s not forgettable but I hope that helps you getting over it if that is possible.. I am so sorry that happened to you..
You are so strong ❤️
Your strong
i didnt know how much ive needed this song.....
" People with depression aren't lazy, they are tired by the end of the day by fighting through it. "
" People with Anxiety aren't scaredy cats, they are just worried for everyone and everything. "
" People with Insomnia aren't people who watch stuff at night, they are people who overthink at that time. "
" People with Anorexia aren't just 'not hungry', they want people to like their appearance or hate the taste of food. "
" People who are sexually assaulted isn't the person who is the cause of it, they were the victim because they were touched without permission."
UPDATE : Hello, my lovely angels. I’m touched by your stories and replies and hope all of you are doing well at this moment ❤️ Reminder that you will always be enough in my eyes. You are strong, all of you are strong. And you show that by surviving another day in the universe. As a survivor of several situations / current survivor or mental illnesses, this is a battle we must win. Even if they won the battle, it doesn’t mean they won the war.
Love you all, and sending you love and positive energy your way ❤️❤️❤️
Truth and some people need to hear it
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK
People with binge eating disorders don't just lack self control and aren't "not dedicated".
And you know what sucks the most having all of those
Finally someone mentions Insomnia as a problem 😞
There are so many people commenting about how men will learn from this not to do things to girls and yadda yadda. It's a two way street. Men can be used for their bodies as well. Abuse and sexual assault does not discriminate.
I read an article about a young boy was raped my a woman. Most of the male community was saying he should have enjoyed it. Most of the support and empathy came from woman. It’s heartbreaking to see that. Really. Your absolutely right about it being a two way rode.
This needs to be seen by more people. Males and females alike have been targetted by both sexes its a universal thing and males are sometimes unable to speak about it due to fear of losing their masculinity or other things. Im not a male myself so i dont know exactly but i know its something thats more prominent than we think
Cecilia Rose this is so true women and men both get sexually assaulted and it’s very sad not all women get raped or used for they’re body men go through that to and it’s sad too see how cruel this world is
Exactly. It’s ironic people would forget this considering a man wrote this song. It’s common sense at this point. He didn’t just write it for girls, he wrote it for everyone. Especially himself.
PERIODT. just because they dont speak about it doesnt mean it doesnt happen to them🥺
People in this comment section are the bravest bitches ever. You’re so brave for being on this earth for this long. Thank you! Thank you! *thank you!*
You have a meaning, you’re here for a god damn reason! So chin up! Rise up! You’re more then you think! You don’t deserve to be treated like this! You’re so strong!
*you are worth it baby. You are always going to be worth it.*
You know your worth! 🌻 take a flower. Thank you for being here❤️
im so lucky to say ive never had suicidal thoughs, but not liking your body is one of the hardest things to go through daily. but your comment made me smile so thank you
Thank you for making me smile ❤️
Lily, I understand and I’m glad I made you smile! Not liking your body is really tough, but learn to love it. Your stuck with it either you like it or not! There’s really no such things of beauty standards! So stop beating yourself up!
Cliche but true- you’re perfect in your own way, keep that in mind
Watermelon Stories, I’m glad I was able to❤️💗
@@young1tr4ppy91 aww thank you so much people dont realise how much small things like thay can help ❤
i am a survivor so i felt this song deeply thank you for making this song with such a great vocal
This should be song of the year like damn best song ever!!!
hey...
it’s gonna be okay. i’m here for you.
Thank you...
Vagatha Motha do you wanna talk ?
Are you sure?
You don't know that
I wish someone would say that Thanks bro
“You’re just a child you’re being dramatic”
“You’re a boy get over it”
“You were asking for it”
“You are so sensitive”
“Do you not love me”
“You should have said no”
“You could have stopped it”
We all deserve to be heard, to be listened to, you should be able to wear what you want. Gender shouldn’t define your worth either!
YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR BODY!
Stay strong 💕💕
Edit: I’m so sorry that so many of you are going through this. Please stay strong, you’re all so important, don’t ever forget that.
I hate when people got told you liked it or you asked for it when In reality they said no so many times and they were scared for there life.
@@snowwhite9057 same
Jesus loves you my friends, accept Him into your heart.
@@ngirlsdiary mmm nah uh ICE
🤍
this song got me through so much of my trauma, thank you.
I can't imagine how hard it was for the person that made this song to actually sing it and not mentally break up into little pieces
Yes so true that man is an angel
“I’m more than”......words I, sadly, haven’t said to myself in years. Beautiful song❤️
Aww your worth the world and don't let anyone say otherwise!!!!
Make sure you sing along to this song ♥️ be kind to yourself
Please say it more often,because I know deep down you are more than any negative comment you or someone else say about yourself.Everyone should know they are more then what they appear 💜💜💜
You are more than. Manifest your full potential because you have a lot
I've never said those words to myself too. Since everyone would stare at me for being too skinny even though I would stuff myself with food...
As a 14 year old girl who has only ever been wanted for my body, rather than being wanted for just being me, this song means a lot to me and has been helping me gain back my self worth and love :,)
I feel you. I'm an 11 year old kid who is seen for my body by people. I have been online sexually harassed so your not alone. Stay strong angel 😊❤
I've been wanted only for my body since I was 7 my I was a victim to 3 people by my brother my aunt's boyfriend and my grandma friend I never told anyone because I didn't want to get them in trouble and I realize that it was a mistake...
@@erinanderson6069 lol same, i have been getting body shame since little its actually hurt, people judging me because i'm fat (its true) my parents once told me that " why can't u be slim like your friend"
" don't eat to much you'll get fat and no one will love you." Those actually hurt alot. Everytime i looked at the mirror i felt like they're saying the true Ever since i got those things all over my body they started to be disgusted at me, i cried a lot from little to big and now i'm still crying. Srry if it dosent make sense, all it matter is be yourself don't let anyone let you down, your body you choice.
I’m 14 and I know what you mean. All people have wanted me for is my body. I finally found someone who doesn’t want me for my body though. And to anyone who needs to hear it, there is someone who doesn’t just see your body. I love you all
Your all such strong people and i hope you all do amazing things with your lives no matter what has happened to you you are all an inspiration and i wish you the best in life ❤❤❤
I have stayed up all night for this. This is something beautiful. Not just words that rhyme. Words that mean something.
Exactly it was 1:30am when I searched this song up
"Hey mom, I think I'm suicidal."
"Haha funny.", she says.
"No mom, I am 100% serious, I am suicidal."
"Oh, you don't know what you're talking about honey."
In my head thinking I wish I was dead, bc she won't believe me on what is the truth.
suicidal people don’t actually want to die, they just don’t want to continue living their current life. i wish my parents would’ve understood that when i was in my darkest hours. but trust me, if you hold on, you will look back one day and see how far you’ve come. i wish i could give you an immediate fix for your pain, but i can’t. for me, it was a slow process of seeing the little things in life i could never leave behind. my baby brother. sitting on the porch swing drinking tea in fall. holding my sweet blind cat close to my chest. i learned gratitude, which taught me joy. i pray for you and hope you’ll be alright soon.
@@onlyapilgrim Right
@@onlyapilgrim And thank you, I hope the same for you if you feel bad.
Remyno
exactly
we dont wanna die we just font wanna live
but the only way that works is dying so we end up saying
“i wanna die”
i just released i got the wrong username fir this one-
I’ve cut myself and I try to stop but once my mom found out she flipped and didn’t even try to talk to me about until a couple of days later and I just can’t with myself I feel stupid and I can’t even tell her that I tried to kill my self and that I feel depressed and I don’t even know if I will ever be able to tell her...😭
this being sung by a male makes it so much deeper and it hits harder and breaks the stereotypes. Also this explains the reasons why girls ask their friends to walk with them..
So uh, my friends are invisible I guess 🤧 my friend since I was 2 hasn't talked to me since Christmas day and it was for like 1 minute. My friends dont reply to my fucking texts, and one if them hasn't replied to my texts in over a year. The inky friends that talk to me I hardly see cause they live in a different city.
@@ch0c0b3arluv I'll be your friend
@@ch0c0b3arluv I be ur friend
@@ch0c0b3arluv I’ll be your friend
@@cristinatomas6188 thank you
Damnation.... The voice gives me chill, the singer's emotion translate with every words he spells out. It's more than enough to give me goosebumps, It is beautiful
Parents: shut up!
“Friends”: you’re so annoying!
Siblings: go away!
School: you’re not smart enough!
Online friends: *haven’t been online in 4 years*
“Best friend”: no one cares
Music: it’s okay... I love you
true. My friend parents siblings and some teacher make jokes or fun ab my depression etc. Not their thing to do if i wanna joke ab it then I am the only one that could do it cuz it is something bad ab myself. Music is my only escape from this reality. But my parents decided last month that I couldnt listen to music or anything for 3 weeks
@Paislie Acquard Wanna play roblox together? my user is iiiLxst_Stxnger. I'm willing to be your friend I know that I'm not them or whoever but I've been though the same thing I was close with this one kid and she hasn't been online for like 5 years
3 things
1. Yea, I'm failing all my classes and I can't focus because of my mind and everybody around me has just been pushing me telling me to get my grades up and I just wanna laydown and cry the only thing bring me comfort is the my memories I lost that music helps me remember.
2. I love your Name and Profile.
3. If you need somebody to talk to about what you have on your mind you can tell me, I may just be a stranger but I know what its like when nobody listens to you and the only thing that understands you is music.
I can relate to this alot😭🙁and it sad
:'( True!
I'm a 34 year old man and father of two little girls but when i was in 3rd grade i was molested and again when i was a little older by my own father thanks for the song man we've stayed silent for far to long no one is safe from those who see others as merely objects
I am rather glad you are making the wrong things done to you into good things; you are not repeating the cycle of abuse.
Finally a male who gets it people think it's only girls but it happens to us to
It was my brother...
SA'd by my step Dad in childhood, he's in prison now got 18 years as of this year, I adore this song, not much out there for men as much as women
*Fritz Holmes* this is beautifully sad and inspiring. So many people don't believe that men can be sexually assaulted and abused, but stories like this are so brave and need to be shared. Thank you for being brave, and I am praying for you.