REACTING TO CURLY HAIR TIKTOK VIDEOS... well this is embarrassing
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The real question is have yall ever got so mad at ur hair that u cried.
YESS
all the time lmao and it really gets me pissed off when i have to rush cus i have to be somewhere and imma be late , or in the morning getting ready for school and the bus or my mom is rushing me when she know my hair just aint built like that ..
All. The. Time.
Me 😔
@@xariyahmitchell3448 that's why I wake up 2 hours earlier, I don't have time for my hair to decide if it wants to look good or not.
POV: in zoom class and you forget to mute the mic:
"dOnT bE dEcEivEd"
👁👄👁
iQueeneth One time I thought I was on mute in class and I started singing... I wasn’t on mute...
Lizzie The Wolf oof
You follow daniella perkins right
@@lizziethewolf2843 ME TOO KADKAHSFKJSSKHFKJASHDFKJK
@@lizziethewolf2843 me too.....pretty recently actually......
My hair wet: ⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️
My hair after letting it air-dry: ⬇️↩️↪️⬇️↙️
My hair when it's humid outside: 🔃🔄🔃🔄🔃
Omg fr tho 💀😂
My hair no matter what: ⬆🔝🔝🔝
Why is this so true
same
My hair after some light rain 🤌
I love how supportive that friend was at reviving her hair.
Um.....the were definitely friends 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈😼
@@mushr00m.c0rps3 what’s their @?
@@honeybee.drawss kt franklin i think
@@antonia-gs6po thank you!
@@mushr00m.c0rps3 maybe even roommates
I hate when people say “if your hair is straight when it’s wet it’s not curly” or “your hair isn’t curly it wavy” when the hair has lose curl pattern. Like did y’all forget fine 3a hair?
That argument always bothers me too. Like who cares what ur hair does when it gets weighed down with water and product, it’s literally being weighed down!!. When my hair dries it’s curly, what else am I supposed to call it??
If your hair is anywhere from 2a to 4c it has a wave/curl/coil pattern. It's like saying to a 4c girl "your hair isn't curly, it's coily". Just... Why
Fr I have 3a hair and it’s hella thick cuz I’m Indian and Indians have THICK hair, but it gets pretty straight when it’s wet and people are always like “oH uR hAiR iSnT eVeN cUrLy”
I have 3a fine hair, my hair is basically straight when it’s sopping wet, but gets wavy as it dries and then once completely dry it’s curly.
Yeah, my hair is straight af when it's wet and it curls af after few hours of drying.
People made fun of my curly hair and now they want it 😐
EXACTLY. Like I was always so self conscious abt my hair and kids at my elementary school would always FUCKING TOUCH IT. And some people still do. And now people PAY to have my hair. The irony 😽
Omg when I was in 6th and 7th grade I was so self conscious about my hair and I would always straighten it. Now people actually want curly hair and everyone’s trying the curly girl method and perming their hair and stuff lol 😂 I’m just glad I learned to accept and love my hair for what it is, and the last time I straightened it was a while ago for a wedding.
Same, my mother used to always ask me why my hair looks like hermoine granger’s and why can’t I manage it when she has straight hair
this kid in my fifth grade class used to literally throw stuff into my hair 😭 it became and inside joke and i never really saw a problem with it then but looking back on it now.... yikes. i grew up in a predominantly white area and literally YEARNED to have straight hair. i’m glad my mom never let me straighten it 24/7 because my hair would’ve been dead by now.
Bruh that's literally my cousin she has like really thick frizzy hair and ppl used to say she had ugly hair but once she found out how to activate her curls everyone was so jaleous and they didnt believe her when she told them she didnt use special products jut water
the worst type of hair is when its inbetween straight and curly and its just frizzy so u have to straighten or curl it u cant just leave it...thats my hair
Edit: Guys i went out and bought hair masks and things to help frizz and curly hair so hopefully it will get better also pls stop replying to this its an old comment but thx for all the feedback xx
SAMEEE except my hair is wavy but the frizz is so noticeable
playboyshjt ye mines wavy too lmao
Nah you probably don't know how to take care of your hair
laganja estranja yes this is me and that’s why my hair is just frizz now, it’s so damaged 😭😭 somebody help a girl out
Milk Carton try not to use heat as much find a hairstyle without using heat to do and use like hair masks and help repair there are loads of RUclips vids on the subject x
"People say the curly hair community is toxic" bruh I didn't even know there was a curly hair community. Also how is it every community manages to be toxic or have allegations of being toxic. It's literally just hair 😭
People like to feel like they belong to something, but that always means they have a conceived notion of how that community should be. So when someone who doesn’t fit nicely into those preconceived notions they get defensive, because it starts to feel like someone is impeding on “their thing”. You were probably asking a rhetorical question but there ya go 😅
Same I don’t understan
There's no such thing as the curly community. non black ppl just hijacked the natural hair community (which was for black woman due to the texturism and racism they experienced)
and when I say bw I mean mixed girls with curls as well. any person mixed with black and fully black ppl basically
and it's not "just hair" to the bw who are denied jobs bc of their hair and so forth
I've seen girls on tiktok who literally curl their hair with a curling iron and say "its 3a" 😐 like bro
Ew
I'm 4A, and I don't know how I feel about this...
@@pandahtoemateo3321 huh
i-
@@pandahtoemateo3321 what wut she said they curl they hair with curling iron and say there 4A how does that offend you like y’all r so sensitive
youtube getting real comfortable with these no skip double ads
oh shit thanks for the likes HAHA
It's not youtube it's the creator trying to make money
I had a 10 second inskipable ad for some reason
@@mm-up3yc the creator can put in ad breaks, however, youtube is the one that has control over if the ads are skipable or not. I'm not sure about the double ads tho
@@wavyreyvy ik
omg ikr
“Wavy is part of curly hair.”
THANK YOU!
Fr!
So true!!
I hate my wavy hair. It's so hard to style my hair bcs it's have zero volume😭😭(im a boy and that's why it sucks😭)
@@sylvixr THANKYOU😭❤️
@@Orxy get a mullet lol
Thank you for being inclusive of loose curls and waves. Seriously the gate keeping I see online is really hurtful. I personally have a really complicated relationship with my hair and this is the first time in 25 years that my hair is....mostly natural (growing out some color that I had for my regrowth to blend into) and some of the things people say about different curl types bum me out so much that I’ve considered just going back to damaging it. I sincerely appreciate this video.
Why do you need a movement that was made for black women to help you though? We gatekeep for a reason because now this movement doesn’t even include us but yall wavy girls are the new face for some reason💁♀️💁♀️💁♀️
@@cremepuffle everyone w a curl pattern should be allowed to learn how to take care of it,,
@@cremepuffle Right! They are already the face of everything, but talking about "it hurts when we get excluded". Babe- ? They just don't like that the spotlight isn't always on them anyone and yes with kinkier hair textures are starting to get the love we deserve.
@@cremepuffle YO, where is the toxicity coming from?
You are probably not aware of it but look at it that way: your mom probably had tight curls just like you, same with the rest of your family, so you learnt how to best take care of it from a young age.
Many with looser curls (or waves) dont have that. We need to figure it out all by ourselves. No real starting point, but the cg method/community is one. It should be a place to learn about our own hair and figure out how to best take care of it. No matter of skin color or curl pattern.
You really want to gatekeep a pattern of hair that it NATURAL for so many ppl.........
cry
i’m half korean and i have 2C/3A combo hair and the shit i get from the curly hair community sometimes is-💀. “aSiAnS dOnT uSuALly hAvE cUrLy hAIR!!”.
Girl I’m Polynesian ( Samoan 🇼🇸) with 3c/4a curls and a lot of people assume that I’m blasian or black and Hispanic and I just be like nah bro, this is ✨POLYNESIAN BEAUTY HUNNTY🌺✨
like literally anyone of any race can have curly hair 😭😭
@@userhasnousername dude no but fr! I had an argument with this black girl who told me only black people can have curly hair and some Hispanics with African ancestry. With the uneducated/ignorant mind she had, I told her google is free and to look up my people because she had the nerve to tell me that only black and Hispanics can have curly hair😒
I-
do people not know that a lot of people from West Asia have wavy/curly hair?? Still Asian. Tf.
Have those people seen South East Asians? (Indonesians, Malaysians, Filipinos, Thais, etc). many of these people have natural curly hair. but mostly of them (commonly the females) are straightening their hair nowadays.
I hate the audio: “I don’t need to straighten my hair to be pretty”. Curly hair is beautiful!
She didn't mean that audio, have you watched or heard the video clearly? Not trying to be rude. She didn't mean that audio she mentioned the other won. 😅
Mariam Blue I don’t exactly know if this is right .. but I think that they were just stating that they personally hate the audio that says “I don’t need to straighten my hair to be pretty”- not that she said that. 😅
Aleczandra CNCOWNER! Yes, I am talking about the audio itself :)
@@JD-ht7yw
So you think people need to straighten hair to be beautiful? Your confusing me
Oh wait, because of how it ends right?
@@purplesnowcone2056 I think that both curly hair and straight hair are beautiful :)!
"If you don't have 4c, don't post under the 4c hashtag." Preach☺❤ Don't post what you don't have PEEERRRIIOODDTTTT
Shush
Trinitee's studio What’s wrong with her/him saying that?
@@cheesecake2048 tbh i dont really see a problem with that idk
sharlea jean I was bothered by it because he really had no reason to put the hashtag and probably put it just clout, there are so many more he could have have put, but he had to use 4c even though the video was pretty generalized.
yesss, like i have 4c hair, and I know when someone is lying about having it.
Thanks for accepting us with wavy/ light curls. I feel a little uncomfortable looking through any curly girl stuff, but I need to figure out what to do with it to not look like Hagrid. My texture changed so dramatically over the last 10 years that I'm just trying to find a way to do my hair that makes me feel confident
You feel uncomfortable because it wasn’t made for ya.
I like how everyone is talking about hair meanwhile I'm just laughing at the Hagrid joke. Good job :)
@@cremepuffle no.... bc of ppl like you.
@@pearllyzabox YES, give it a try.
Worst case you dont like it and will be at the same point as before/now.
Best case you discover something amazing!
@@cremepuffle you are so mad it's fucking hilarious 😂
Yesss, stop this gatekeeping about curly hair it's so stupid and it actually makes people feel bad for "not having enough curly hair" or whatever. Every curls and waves are beautiful and I'm glad that internet finally teached me that after years stuggling with puffy brushed curls and people making fun of me for it
you dropped this 👑
gatekeep??? um this isn’t a fandom what?
@mai gatekeeping is not only used for fandoms
honestly curly hair tik tok saved me, i used to treat mine like straight, i thought i was just a massive puff ball (think young hermoine) i'm still learning but it's nice to finally control the frizz in a healthy way, (i just have wavy hair tho)
period
I’m real live watching this during my zoom class taking a test😂💕 I love her videos 🤍🤍🤍
Me too
me right now in class
Omg same a fucking diagnostic test 💀 I ain’t tryna do that shit😭🤚🏽
nooo girl pay attention to your teacher😭
Lil’ meow meow LUCKYYYYYYYYYYYY
Straight hair is beautiful, wavy hair is beautiful, curly hair is beautiful. Any type of hair is beautiful💜
Straight hair is disgusting
@@leojohnson3045 ur opinion is also valid, but don’t treat people badly just bz of their hair type 💜
@@leojohnson3045 huh
@@leojohnson3045 lmaooo take a nap
they probably pressed they have straight hair so they’re trying to bash it before someone else does😌
I did not know my hair was curly until I was 18 and found out by accident. It's been a journey and I'm almost 40. The amount of info out there on curly hair now compared to 20ish years ago is amazing. I think everyone should embrace their natural hair.Just wanted to share.
I love this ❤
How didn't you realise? (No hate)
@@lastnickel7666 1st I'm pretty surey hair was straight until I hit puberty. My mom has stick thin hair so she never understood it. She always cut my hair really short. I combed my hair out, it was big and frizzy. My hair was so ackward until I was in my teens like in the mid to late 90s and hair irons where a thing so I straightened my hair and finally was less ackward.one day I took a shower at a bf house no products no straightener and magically my hair was curly..it was strange. Found the curly girl method book. And it changes My life.
Late to the party, but same here. My hair was curly as a baby, then (probably related to products) was rsther straight. I have fine hair, so it gets easily weighed down by buildup. Also mum didn't like "messy" hair, so she probably used anything with silicone in it to get it straighter.
Fast forward to me moving out and being broke at 19, I discovered my hair was acting up. Washed it with cheap shampoo, washed it less often, stopped dyeing it. Et voila, there were curles. Now I mostly just brush it gently when wet and blowdry it to get it straight-ish, njt still with volume. But occasionally I straighten it or go full curls. Great to have that variety!
the curly hair community is so complicated and actually pretty toxic. so many people with straight hair pretend they have curly hair and for what? and then people with wavy hair get hate because their hair 'isn't curly enough'. waves are still curls. i have wavy hair and it looked straight for years because i combed it out so it was super poofy and frizzy, but now i know how to take care of it.
How does someone pretend to have curly hair? Let people live my gosh. I feel like you might be the toxic in the community... js
Actually it's a lot of ppl they use a curling iron and say it's 4a
@@sadiebarnes4291 i'm just saying that lots of people with straight hair curl their hair with an iron or braids and then say it's curly
@@dellamoonshine4714 but why does it bother you so much? Maybe they have my type of hair. Straight in front, wavy all around, curly underneath. I just feel like maybe they want to belong somewhere?
@@sadiebarnes4291 i'm not rly bothered much lol but i just think it's weird and they should just stick with their own hair instead of lying
FOR MY CURLY HAIR GANG:
don’t let anyone treat you like a petting zoo ❤️
YES THANK YOU
everybody always touched my hair and it got so annoying.
so i got dreadlocks 💀
@@gonegirrrl same :)
Ty
i feel so bad for y’all. why can’t some people just give some personal space?!
me: *having a mix between wavy, curly, and slightly kinky hair*
also me: well what tf do I do now?
I feel you 😂
Maybe 3A,3B or 3C
Fr like i get confused am i a 3 or am i 4?? Cause i got some 3 looking coils and im currently over 6 months transition from relaxers. The curly part looks hella better than the relaxers .
Same top is straight and wavy and I have curls on the bottom
@@eunoia7615 IDK, all my friends whom I've asked don't know, but they're not professionals, I have even taken quizzes and stuff yet I am still in a mix.
Things people say to me when I wear my curly hair natural:
“Just brush it down”
“You look prettier with straight hair”
“You should put it up”
“I wish I had curly hair it’s so exotic”
“Can I touch it”
💀
Tank god l was actually told that l look better in curly hair 😀🤣💖😁
Yea great idea let me just brush it and show you my inner Hagrid
people literally pet me like i’m an animal cuz my hair is curly i wanna bitch slap them
Same, but when I would straighten it:
"You should curl your hair"
"Why don't you wear your real hair?"
"You should wear braids"
"Can I braid it?"
"CaN I tOuCh iT?!"
And you forgot "is that natural?"
It's the same thing with freckles. People tease you for freckles when you're a kid, but suddenly they're super popular and people draw them on
nooo i feel so baddddd but at least u have natural ones and people ENVYY THEM ON U NOW
This ain’t about y’all...
@@purplelovrgrl We weren't talking about ourselves. Nice try at being mean though :)
lol ok
I FEEL THIS SO MUCH OMG!! I have freckles LITERALLY EVERYWHERE!!
Not yall spouting facts u learned from tiktok and saying "only 15% of the population has curly hair and 40% wavy im a real curly head boo im special" 💀 yall do realize that study was on genetics of ppl with EUROPEAN ancestry?? Don't believe random facts you learn from ppl on tiktok
I honestly could believe that tho... Bc Asia is the most populated continent in the world and they have the straightest of hair so... 🤔
asian is a superrr diverse continent many easy asians have curly hair and so do a lot of south asians
Alina Dubin but not our curly hair they don’t have natural afros and think curls
@@ilhuriwjsn4951 I'm south asian and I have wavy/curly hair. I have family members with tight curls too. asia is really diverse with lots of different types of hair types
@@plutohendrixs The indigenous people of many Asian countries have darker skin and curly/coily hair, particularly Southern Asia. There is a lot of diversity in skin tones and hair types throughout Asia.
As brad mondo said, it's rare that people have pin straight hair.
i have and don't like it bc it gets "parted" (idk how to say it) exspecially when it's wet outside 😕
@@somebody9848 mine is weird, I keep it more straight but I keep my banged section curly. When I want the rest to curl, it won't, and I don't want it that way it does it. And when it's humid outside its all poofy lmao. I definitely understand what you mean tho, my aunt has to deal with it all the time.
@@youraveragepercussionist7690 a lot of my friends have that problem too and i totally understand but when i'm trying to do ANYTHING with my hair it just doesn't work, not even curlying 😀
(sry for my english)
@@somebody9848 your English is great, don't worry. But yeah, my hair doesn't hold curl too good either, I'd have to take a shower and keep them in all day and sleep in curlers to get really good curls. Only parts of my hair is curly, I wish I had a full head of curls
My hair literall REFUSES to hold curls. My mum told the hairdresser to curl my hair. 5 minutes later, THEY WERE LITERALLY ALL GONE. So I never even bothered to curl them ahead.
I’m white, I have curly hair, and the rest of my family has straight hair, so I’ll be in the shower for 30 minutes and literally my dad has shut off my water before saying that it should only take me 15 minutes to shower, like no babe, it takes more than that.... and my mom used to brush my hair like it wasn’t curly. And I had so much shame for my curly hair, since I grew up in very white rich neighborhoods (even tho my mom was struggling financially) and so everyone around me had straight hair. I always wanted my mom to flat iron my hair, bc everyone around me told me it looked better that way. Now a decade later I love my natural hair, and I’m so proud to be part of the curly hair community.
Bruh, I spend 15 minutes on detangling alone.
This is my exact situation 😭
The same thing happens to me! I live in a hispanic family and their all curly heads except for my sister and my aunts but they dont know how to take care of it. My moms hair is really damaged because she always straightens it and she gets mad when i take too long in the shower when IM JUST DOING MY HAIR!! Its really annoying
@@HiHello-ro5bb I feel your pain. My mother’s curls are damaged beyond repair. Her hair wasn’t as curly as mine, but she always straightens her hair
@IDC🙌 The same thing happened to me!!! But you’ll know that with time you’ll begin to love your curly hair! You just gotta find the right routines that will work with your hair. I follow a channel called Manes by Mell and she gives a lot of advice on maintaining curly hair. Hope this helped! 😊
But fr some ppl are just rude w the whole curly hair thing like ik it’s hard work and shih and it’s beautiful when I’m not crying abt it but it’s not a personality trait and it doesn’t make u better than everyone else
This
Preach
Finally someone with common sense
Yes.
Omg this is facts , I have 4C hair and the way people be doing too much with it 💀 I just stay in my damn way and let people be -
I'm a wavy ”curly” girl and never really noticed it until 6 years ago and people always be touching and have their hands all up in my hair without asking. Why!? Just why....
????
I have wavy hair that turns straight when I brush it.
@@nafeesahooraine5263 lol look at my pfp and my hair gets so str8 at times
yep same thing here. except for me it’s only been about 6 months. my friends are pretty fascinated by my hair and i only allow them to run one finger through my hair. i actually saw an old school mate for the first time in a while and she thought i permed my hair which i guess kinda means i’m on the right path lol
Same, but because my hair was so long. It made me so uncomfortable because I have really bad social anxiety.
I've prepared my 2B haired self to get roasted for being 'not curly enough in the curly hair community'... And I got an uplifting video instead 😭❤️
Yessssss
the...curly hair...community??
@@sunflower8227 Yeah thats what they call it lmao
i’m gonna sound so dumb but how do you know what kind of hair type you have
@@gonegirrrl I used this website! www.naturallycurly.com/quiz
‘Wavy hair is part of curly hair’ yessss I have a mix of 2c and 3a and people tell me it’s wavy not curly just because it’s loose curls
My hair is the same.
She so pretty🥺💕
Ikr 🦋
UR so pretty! LOL (just basing this off of ur profile pic)
anyhoo 💕
I didn’t realize she was saying DRAGONS until legit now who else hears dreggins 💀
Sameeee
I thought she said chickens💀
@@jamieleejulies4917 im new here and I did too 😆
Wait she says dragons.. IM ST00PID
@@jamieleejulies4917 😂😂✌🏼Bruh ligit
The first girls hair was impressed 👌 I actually didn't think it was going to work 😅 have a wonderful day everyone ❤✌
let me clarify: I am not black, or mixed. I just have naturally curly hair that’s super curly and coily. I hate when people curl there hair and say it’s natural. It looks so different from natural.
Or when they have a perm and call it natural
@@Sydney1122 perms are so...fake looking, it looks like someone put a whole can of mousse on a poodle, they even LOOK sticky and sound like ashes if you touch it
It really makes me mad when people say that curly hair is only in black people when there's other people of different races that do have it , I was hanging out with a friend one time and she is a red head and has beautiful bouncy curls and a bunch of people started harassing her and saying that.
SO TRUE TY
Who is saying that? I never heard anyone say that. Now when we are talking about the natural hair movement and other races trying to be apart of that, then that is a different story.
@@NoName-ug7rm I'm not saying everybody's saying that but when I meet what do you mean by natural hair movement you know there are white people with curly hair and it's all natural you do know that there's Mexicans with curly hair and it's all natural right again I'd like to say no I'm not saying everybody's saying that only black people have natural hair that's curly
@@NoName-ug7rm anyways I'm referring to people not only one race -
@@ikebroflovski4514 i think when we (black people) refer to natural hair, we’re referring to black people who keep their hair in its natural state since for some time, black people (specifically women) have felt the need to straighten their hair to look like everyone else. especially as a child, having your mama hot comb your hair and slick down your edges is so so common. so i think a lot of these little girls are now grown and realize how unhealthy it is to straighten your hair or continue to put relaxer in it to keep it straight. so the “natural hair movement” specifically refers to black women transitioning to or maintaining THEIR natural hair. yes all races have their versions of curly hair but the kinky coil patterns of black people is somewhat unique to the race. anyone can have curly hair but not everyone has COILS you feel? hope that cleared anything up.
STORY TIME: once i was brushing my hair for school (my hair is curly) and i got so mad that i screamed and forgot i left the brush hanging in my hair and my older brother didn't bother telling me so i went to school with a brush hanging in my hair until my best friend told me ;-;
@@ihe4rtjayyy.. loll-
@SaggyAnimeBoobies OH WOW THATS UNFORTUNATE-
OMG
Damn
@L'sLeftSaggingBoob omg i hate those type of "search"s , a teacher once called the nurse and supervisor about me thinking i got lice bc i cut my hair and sent me back home after killing my scalp with that search eventhough they found nothing . Like ... damn i cried that day from humiliation 😀✋
People always told me to brush my out my hair, straighten it, or even make fun of me for having curly hair, now everyone one wants it.
@SaggyAnimeBoobies same girl
For the first time in my life I want my curls back 😭😭😭
Same. When I was a teenager people were making fun of my "white-fro" so I straigtened my hair to the point that I damaged it so much that I just shaved it at 18. And now I have 8cm long hair and everyone suddenly loves curls and I'm like... WHERE WERE YOU ALL 10 YEARS AGO?!
People knows better now
same i’ve been straightening my hair for years and i want my curly hair back now
"Wavy hair is part of curly hair."
SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT
So I'm a dude and I've had mostly short hair my whole life. I started growing out my hair a long time ago and I'm finally starting to see the thick curly mess on top of my head start to look halfway decent. Can't wait for it to get longer and curlier.
Same as my brother the first time he grew it out i was surprised to see he had curly hair..😂😂
Bubble Tea My hairs always been curly, it’s just starting properly show it know, finally
Hayden Hart proud of you!!
“you need friends like that” haha i think they’re dating
That's the vibe I was getting too, lol
They are
Awwww I love that
Right I was watching the video like didn’t she say babe 😂
R/Sapphoandherfriend
my hair is straight when wet but when i tell you... after I put in products my hair be POPPIN- my hair be POPPIN.
*my curls
lmaooo
What products do you use? My hair is just a puffy frizzy mess
@@Ashley-gj6eb shea moisture, curls, gels like eco styling gel products. Im 2c-3b hair btw! ❤️❤️❤️
Boy I can relate xD
My hair is also straight when wet. So why I don't wear it down a lot because it frizzes and it's wave
I recently stopped straighting my hair after I saw your vids, destinee. I appreciate my hair way more then I used too. I remember I used to say when I was younger that I hated my hair and I wanted straight hair. I love my curly hair and I love styling it and your videos inspire me so much. Also ur hair is rally pretty
i’m pretty white, but i consider myself to be someone with curly hair. The amount of criticism i’ve gotten online because i don’t have ‘real’ curls in unreal.
Lmao what
yep same here, and my hair is CURLY curly.
Its stupid for them generalize race. White people can have naturally curly hair and black people can have naturally bone straight hair. Tell them to hush up
Wow, I’m gonna have a movement for white women who have been told they don’t have curly hair 😔
anytime they say that, tell them i’m black and my parents are immigrants and i have pin straight hair
really, we came to that point of life where we have "curly hair community" and calling it toxic? i mean, this is just ridiculous
Pretty much. There’s a lot of people with curly hair (especially on Reddit) who like to gatekeep and think the curly girl method is the holy grain 🙄
they definitely are toxic I mostly follow the natural hair community and people will attack some people just bc they don’t do their hair the same way or accidentally say a hair type that’s 1 off of what they have bc they think it’s the right one.
All the hair communities are toxic idk why we started communities in the first place they are all problematic all u have to do is forget ur hair type once and call it something else and u will get loads of hate.
I have wavy hair and I find the curly hair community to be toxic because my hair is “not curly”. It’s not like I asked for a looser curl pattern. My mom has stick straight Asian hair and I got my “curls” from my dad’s side (where some of my cousins have 3c-4a hair). My hair is much looser than my cousin’s hair, but it’s very fine and not straight. My mom permed my hair throughout my whole childhood (in the 80s) because she hated her straight hair and didn’t want me to suffer through that... now I just want to accept my waves and want to benefit from curly hair routines so I don’t have to have frizzy poofy hair. I wish the curly hair community was more accepting of all curl patterns.
@@lucygoosie7726 totally unrelated to the majority of your comment but hey... whenever my hair is a frizzy poofy mass I personally like it. Like you can see some of the curls in it and like it kinda makes it look more voluminous.
And honestly we shouldn’t care if the community is toxic, we just need to make our own and be open to anyone who thinks they might have the same hair type. If they don’t that’s fine, just make sure to tell em they don’t and that some products might not work well with their hair.
No one:
Absolutely no one :
The one strand of hair sticking out from the back of draco's head: HI SISTERS
Omg I have one of those hairs right now sticking out of the back of my head
@@michalinakrakus9488 lol
Rojé Mckoy I think it’s actually quite cute 💖🥺
@@ciaraj537 me too
lol when you said draco i thought you meant draco malfoy 😂
My hair is 2A on one side and 2B on the other, I've always been told I had straight hair and if it got "rowdy" i had to flat iron it. It took me 20 years to know what my hair actually looked like cuz I was so used to it being flat. I can't imagine how it's like for someone with 4X hair, but it must also be super liberating to wear your hair freely
i was never aware of the "gatekeeping" of curly hair until i met my ex when i would complain about the upkeep on my hair he would tell me "it's not even curly i'm not sure why you're complaining" but i do have very curly hair so it made me feel ashamed and i started straightening my hair every day before school or a date with him and ended up frying the FUCK out of my hair but i did a huge chop and started taking better care of it and kicked him outta my life officially today soooo :)
im so proud of u
GORL I KNOW THIS WAS 3 MONTHS AGO BUT YOU GO GORL SO PROUD OF YOU
As you should.
@Zenarx It's a phrase that anyone can use. GTFO
@Zenarx for one,we don't know if she's black. and also literally every hair stylist says big chop if they cut a lot of hair off so I don't think that sort of wording belongs to anyone. And lastly..it clearly was super important to her too since it symbolized her new start away from her ex as well as with her curly hair so why would you want to take that away from her just because she MIGHT not have a certain skin colour? o-O
Her: I hate a part 2
also her: make sure to like for part 2
me: BRUHH
😂
Lmao bruh
I’ve got 4b and my sis was 1a until I saw some waves and did my routine on her for like a month and boom she went from 1a to to 3a!!!! It runs in the genes just needs some help!
Wow!💖
My sis is in hard denial she has curls. She has so much heat damage.
Oooooooo
May I ask what the routine is👀
@@THEBATCAVE. 👀
My hair is straight when it’s wet but huge and 3b when it dries. This whole “if your hair is straight when it’s wet then you don’t have curly hair” is the biggest cap. Everyone is different.
I have really curly hair and my friends say “JuSt bRuSh iT doWn lIke lMaOoO” and I’m like “girl...I c a n t”
Edit: WHY DOES THIS HAVE SO MANY LIKES-
True 🤣
back when my hair was actually curly I had a picture on hand of me with my hair brushed out looking like a damn monster just in case they ask why I don’t brush it 😂😂
My ex tried to convince me to do the same cause he thought I was wasting too much of my money on hairdressers. He had the audacity to tell me "mY siStErS dO iT", like yes their hair was long and thick like mine but it was also STRAIGHT indian hair. He really tried one time to comb through my hair after I showered and literally gave up after 10 seconds, BOI I can't with these people 😂😂
ugh same. my friend that I've know for almost 7 years asked me "can you brush out your curls? and what would happen if you do?" girl, im not tryna look like a monster 😐
@@77wkly yeah yeah Kakegurui reference ✨
the worst thing about having curly is when want to have long hair but having long hair costs 7 bottles of conditioner and breaking 3 detangling brushes 😔👊
And it also comes with extra shedding 😭
@@ishita2027 omg, I lose so much hair and in the shower especially. it’s scary😔
@@saarkalff same, even tho my hair is medium length
Exactly!!! I was way to annoyed with my hair so i cut it up to my shoulders but i have thivk hair so i STILL need lots of product 😭😭
Condition it more often & start from the ends when brushing/combing through it. Put it in protective styles to keep it from tangling as much. My daughter is half black & half white with a head of gorgeous long hair. These are all things we do to keep from having wash day be a dread & also it actually saves on product buying because you use less when it's easier to manage. Best of luck with your beautiful curls!
Being a person with straight hair I don't exactly know the struggle but my mom has curly hair and she spends so much time on it. I have so much respect for yall with curly hair who spend so much time to work with it and even tho u might not like it I think ur hair is beautiful :)
@Sara Crouch having curly hair isn't a struggle or a curse.
@Sara Crouch Dear straight haired girl, you aren't superior to us because of your hair type, we're all the same.
@Sara Crouch Nope, I know what you meant, it's not a misunderstanding
@@juliajulia-yj1fx what did she say? she deleted her comment lol
Straight hair is rare. Most people who say they have straight hair actually have wavy hair. 💓
I’m really sorry but I’m gonna rant here lmao- so I met this girl (lets call her Alicia) and we’ve been “best friends for a while”. She was always kind of mean to me about my hair, to the point that she told me once that she wants curly hair but definitely not like mine, as it was too frizzy, she never compliments me, and I felt so insecure to the point where I straightened my hair for approval for 8 months, it completely damaged my curls but I felt “wanted” for once. One of my friends recommended I get it layered, and BOOM, it was so beautiful and my curl/waves settled into place, so the next time I saw her she would constantly look at it and even told me for once in our friendship “I love your hair”. Skip forward to 6 months later in July, she has gotten even more toxic, I just got out of the shower and was doing my curl routine, she saw me doing that but I didn’t think anything of it, 3 days later, she posts that she tried the curly hair routine with a few products even though she has wavy/straight hair, I know this sounds stupid to be upset about- but she would constantly tell me to straighten my hair and damage it while I was so insecure about it for years and now all of a sudden she’s copying me trying to get my hair?? Like when my hair gets slightly wet it curls up, hers stays straight- it’s not natural and it makes me feel awful again..or maybe I’m just overreacting haha
Nah, you have every right to be hurt. She made you feel awful about your hair for years to the point that you actively changed it because of her. However, she may have someone in her life, maybe a parent or some other close family member that shamed her for having "ugly" wavy hair when she was little. Or maybe she felt pressured by society to make her hair look less wavy and only recently realized she can look pretty with curly hair. That doesn't justify what she did to you though! It's only an explanation, not an excuse. It's never okay to make someone feel awful just because they were hurt by someone else in the past.
Also, a lot of people's hair looks straight when it's wet if they have fine wavy/curly hair. It's because their hair is so fine that it gets weighed down by the water and appears straight when it's actually not.
Anyways, I hope you feel better soon, and consider ending your friendship with that girl if she continues to be mean to you even after you tell you how her words hurt you. It's highly unlikely, but some people genuinly don't realize when they're being hurtful. It doesn't make it okay, but at least it may mean she can change and become a better friend (IF she apologized and doesn't make rude comments again). If you're uncomfortable being friends with her even after she apologized, that's completely okay! She hurt you deeply, and you have every right to not want anything to do with her anymore.
Best wishes to you, and I hope you continue realizing your beauty and your worth
@@illyGalSloth Oh my gosh this is so sweet, I finally had the courage to start breaking away from her and I would say we are no longer friends. I do wish the her the best and your absolutely right, maybe she had something going on that I wasn’t aware of. She ignores me on social media now and acts kind of weird around me, but I’ve realized that it’s ok to let go and I started embracing myself more, I wish her nothing but the best. Thank you so so much for this reply, this made my day and I wish you the best in life 🤍
@@nameless.artist1513 @nameless.artist1513 That's great to hear! I'm glad you were able to do what was best for you. It takes strength to do that (many unfortunately choose to remain silent and put up with the torment). You should definitely be proud of yourself, especially since you seem to have dealt with the situation with maturity and grace. And you're very welcome, I'm happy that my comment made your day! Thank you for the lovely wish, I wish the very best this world has to offer for you too! 💚💚
This doesn't have to do with hair, but I have a similar friend. We grew up together from 4th grade and she would always tell me she's better at makeup than me, better at styling clothes, etc. And it was all because I used to be a tomboy. Fast forward to now, I am significantly better at make up than her, and I have a way better sense of fashion ,at least in several people's opinion. Now she always compliments my make up and asks me to teach her. She used to make fun of my eyeliner and now that I've literally perfected it, she asks me to teach her 😂 just kinda funny how these people work. They only want it when it's good enough for them.
@@shutup6731 Wow, people who are like* that are so odd, lol. The audacity is off the charts!
The problem with my hair is that its wavy but is so extremly frizzy the wavynis to it disappears when it dries
ah i can relate to that. i struggled with that so much when i first started transitioning. so far what’s helping me is i use a hair mousse and then diffuse and scrunch out the crunch with some hair oil. my curls/waves are still quite inconsistent rn but they’re definitely a lot more defined and barely frizz throughout the week and i live in a really humid country so that’s a first for me.
Emma Lee thank uuu
Sanne B np! hope it’s helps
@@emmalee8548
do you have a specific hair moose/hair oil that you would recommend ?
✌😔
@@sanneb4576 I can see in ypur profile pic that we have similar hair types. Ik the struggle. I often straighten my hair and its dying so I'll try the tip you received.
I really confused how the first girl didn’t know she had curly hair
It was satire haha it took me a while to realize
She did! That hair at the start was straightened!
she either has naturally straight hair and used products and tools to make it curly, or she has curly hair and had it straightened at the beginning of the video
@@piratesswoop725 it’s not possible for a straight haired person to magically form a bunch of tight curls like that with curly haired products 😭 she probably did know she had curly hair and yeah prob straightened it.
@@giselaxx5407 curlformers, curling wands, it’s very possible.
Sooo is it normal for your hair to be "different type of curly" at the same time? And sometimes I wash my hair and it dries naturally into some loose spirals, curls, waves.. and sometimes it dries and it's closer to straight than curly tbh. Why is that?
Giiiiirl I have no idea! I have wavy hair but it's a month that my hair dry straight idk why! I even use curly hair products and a diffuser but they come out straight! During previous months were tight waves af
Lots of people have multi textured hair. I have wavy hair starting at my forehead and gets more curly going all the way through my scalp to the nap of my neck were I have coils. My sister and I did that 23 and me dna test. Turns out we are 75% Irish and the rest is odd bits of German French and remote Eastern European. I would say your absolutely normal.
Is pretty normal so don't worry about it. Curly hair has a predominant type of curl but also has different curls inside. So you could find parts with a heavy curls and others with waves. My hair is very curly but there's a little wavy part on both sides (Near the ears), and also I have some very little parts with straight hair. Is weird but normal for some curly hairs
I feel this lol I have wavy hair only in the back of my head and the front is a bit more straight, I've learned to tame the frizz but I just go around with multi textured hair because I'm too lazy to style it and I don't want to use heat on it at all lol
Sounds like you might have type 2c curls. That's a hair type that is likely to me mixed type. You might also just need to moisturize. I thought I had type 2c hair but as I started to find products that work for me my curls got tighter and I think I have more type 3a-3b curls.
i will never forget how every time i go out someone walks up to me and starts touching all on my hair and pulling it telling me it’s not my real hair, then they go on to telling me i’m hispanic even after i tell them i’m not and that it’s my real hair, sometimes it’s frustrating like why do you care if it’s my real hair or not? it’s not on your head it’s on mine 💀
I stumbled upon her randomly. She is literally so pretty i’m screeching.
Her: "I hate part 2's. I refuse to watch them."
Also her: "If you want me to do a Part 2, let me know!"
🤔😆🤣
That was my first thought exactly LOL
I think pt 2 tik toks cause yea that shit is annoying.
@@FallcryMutt yeah that’s different, the tiktokers just continue their unfinished vids but she’s just asking if y’all want another video like this one
Lmaoo
2:38 THANK YOU! I get so many eyerolls and snarky comments when I tell ppl about my hair routine for my wavy/ slightly curly hair (I have some spirals but mostly waves). I wash it upside down, scrunch it and put curl cream in it. If I don't do it, my hair looks dry and poofy like I just got an electric shock or smth. Ppl say that you can only call yourself curly when your hair forms curls without you doing anything to it. I think that's bullcrap. We all have to find out what our hair needs to look and feel it's best. I know this is a first world "problem" and it can't be compared to the amount of effort that goes into maintaining type 3 and 4 hair but still.. It's nice to be validated like that ❤️
ikr! People love to gatekeep, there are so many comments like that even on this video. One girl said people "like the look but don't wanna take the struggles".... I didn't know it was a competition to see who struggles the most?
so blessed to see someone with type 4 curls support type 2 curls ❤
Story time-
I’m Asian and ive always wanted curly hair. Once I saw this video saying how this girl thought she had straight hair all her life but recently she discovered it was “curly” after doing this “routine”. It involved lots of products and a bunch of scrunching. As a desperate 12 year old I, of course, had to try it. I didn’t have any products but I did make do with what I had. So I took a shower, did not brush my hair afterwards, scrunched it a bunch, put in a hell ton of mousse, diffused it and wrapped it in a shirt. Not gonna lie, it did turn out kinda curly-ish. But, since it was super tangled and stiff, I had to brush it. And the moment I did, the “curls” went away. My hair was also sticky and gross from the mousse overload, btw. In the end, I gave up because, no matter how hard I tried, my hair is as straight as could be and there were no “inner curls” waiting to be unleashed. That couldn’t be helped with any “curly girl method”. Not saying this method is fake tho, cuz it might work for some people. Moral of the story: if you have straight hair, it’s fine. You can’t force it to be curly unless you curl it or perm it.
Thanks for your time y’all I knew that was kinda long.
the curly girl method was never rlly for ppl w straight hair tho, it just makes curls that r already there look more healthy n defined
@@parkjimns exactly! Well said.
Im asian and i always wanted a straight hair here, bc they seem beautiful and easy to take care of
If you want to switch up your style put your hair in like 8 or more braids after you wash and dry it leave it in for like a day the longer you leave it on the more waves you’ll get or try Velcro rollers at your hair with smaller rollers for tighter curls when slightly damp wear overnight
damn and here is me tryna straighten my hair
So glad that someone finally acknowledges that wavy, curly, and coily all fall under the curly hair spectrum. They're different types but they shouldn't be kept separate!
My boyfriend was the one who convinced me to stop straightening my hair. He has made me feel beautiful with curls im so thankful for him and i love him so much 🥺
That's so cute(~￣³￣)~
the curly hair community especially on tik tok is so toxic and mean like bro we get enough hate already with people telling us "you should straighten it mORE" or whatever we rlly dont need to be breaking eachother down smh... thank u for including all types
"Wavy hair is part of curly hair"
GIRL PREACH!!!
4:27 i don't think they're just friends lol
IMFAO THERE NOT- there a couple 😭😭
True besties 🥰😍
@@yamicivetta5252 i-
@@frostillama 💀😭
@@yamicivetta5252 😭✋🏼
the shrinkage on my hair lowkey ridiculous cuz when my hair is dry it goes to about half way down my back like where my bra strap sits but when it’s wet, straight or pulled, it goes to my butt. and no one, including myself barely notice how long my hair is cuz when it’s dry it’s always at the same length (unless i got it short obviously).
sidenote: when your hair grows or when it’s wet, it gets heavier, meaning that your curl pattern will turn more and more to the wavy/straight side ESPECIALLY if you have thick hair or depending on how much water your hair soaks up. i have really thick, heavy hair so it pulls my hair down making it 3b hair but recently i cut my bangs and they’re like 3c so yeah. this might not be the case for all hair types but i’ve noticed 3c and down it’s the case
ohh I've noticed that with my hair too. I cut it really short months ago and it's so much curlier than when it was longer. It used to be so heavy
Sara R it was the same for me a while back
It must means ur hair is super healthy
yeah I have 4a hair and the bottom is like 3b lmaoooo
I feel validated 🥺 we wavy girls and coily girls gotta back each other! Love u ❤️
4:27
"If you don't have friends like that, you guys need friends like that."
i'm sorry to tell you this but i don't think there just friends lmao
Lol I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought that🏳️🌈
@@lydiaandre3952 yeah
they are just friends
@@caitlinginger7384 they’re not, i follow that girl
@@caitlinginger7384 She grabbed her chin and called her her ‘baby’ lol.
4:53 they seem to be very good friends 😼🏳🌈
I was looking for this comment 😂
Ok so what are you implying?
And they were roommates
@@madumdamad7606 what do you think 😏
Oop-
I have cursed hair, half of it is straight and the other half Is wavy and it’s awkwardly spread out and patchy...h e l p
Same😔🙂
but is ok
Ah, I feel you. Most of my hair is 3a, with curls and coils, but I have this big noticeable patch of like, 2b wavy hair, and it's so annoying.
Me too half of my hair is straight and a bit blonde and my other half is like dark brown curly when l use my curly hair shampoo my straight hair don't like it so much but it's still look nice so it's okay
Same man😭
Straight/loose wavy hair here..i have no idea about the system 4c etc., but I am in such complete awe of the royal look of all these different kinds of waves, curls, kinks. Gasp!!! You gals are so fortunate to be gifted such beauty ❤️ Rock your look (and yes! don't let any of us straight hair people just start touching your hair--and you straight hair people, knock that off!!)
Person in 3rd grade touching my hair: 👁👄👁👉🏽
Me: 👁-👁 stop
Them: but I wish I had curly hair.
Me: 🔫👁👄👁
Thank u so much for the likes ❤
Yesssss
😂
I have straight/little bit wavy hair but i don't want curly hair because i'd have no idea what to do with it.
lαilα He/She wasn’t saying everyone wanted
@@khaylafleming6397 i know, i just said my personal opinion
when she said "she could've used better products" i was heartbroken because i just saved my money and bought those products ;(
Dude! Me too! I felt low key attacked.
@@LilaFallang same 💀
Maybe you could get a refund?
return them!! there are a lot of other products you can use and they can range to the cheaper side if you need!!
@@ellereneee4672 Walmart doesn't take used products, and even though they aren't the best quality they actually are working on my hair i have the aussie stuff
bruh i hate my curly hair and everyone tells me theyre envious of my hair :( i wanted straight hair since i was a child
I used to be the same way but your curls are probably so pretty keep rocking them🥰
I was the same before with my 4c-4b hair i hated it now i be lovin it
I used to feel the same way when I was in middle school but then I realized that girls literally fry their hair everyday trying to get it to be curly and then I felt better and embraced what I naturally had ;)
I mean I just kinda gave up on the straight hair thing. I only straightened it very few times and I think after one mother-daughter retreat where I learned straightening just kills my hair made me give up. Cuz I wanted my hair long and straight but I can’t have it both ways it seems.
@break same I get stressed from my curly hair while everyone tells me they want it and then I also don’t wanna cut my hair 😔
I’m Jewish and my mom has the most beautiful ringlets without doing anything. My hair is curly but I didn’t learn how to take care of it until I was 18 bc my mom never had to do anything so she didn’t know how to help me lol
That’s like me except I’m African and my mom always had long hair and never did anything and I have to do a thousand things to retain it
Feel this! I’ve got Israeli in me but I’m mostly German and Irish. However I had ringlets as a kid til my mom chopped my hair off and didn’t understand how to take care of wavy/curly hair. I finally have an actual wave pattern around 2b-2c and it kills my that my momma didn’t teach me how to take care of my hair properly 🥴😂
What has you being Jewish got to do with anything 💀
Bish being Jewish got nothing to doe tih your hair
there really has been a big change in how ppl view curly hair. I was always teased/made fun of for my hair being "bushy and fluffy", but now everyone wants to have 3c hair. it was so strange growing up in a house where no one else had wavy/curly hair either. like I had to learn how to do everything for my hair on my own. thank god I grew up when I had access to youtube.
The 20s 30s 40s AND 80s all had curls as the beauty standard. Same as the 1800s. The only place where having bone straight hair as a beauty standard is Asia.
Thank youuu... I really appreciate you knowing that there a different types of curly hair and that not everyone is the same. I get so annoyed when people say “you don’t have curly hair” like it offends them or something and when clearly, the person does have a curly hair. My hair gets weighed down easily by water so it looks straight when wet, but when it’s dry and full of moisture it’s hella curly. so props to you❤️
I hate the last audio that says “if your hair isn't curly while wet you don't have curly hair” because that's not even true you can have curly hair but the water makes it straight or just wavy like bruh
I’m the only person on my dad’s side of the family with curly hair. This means that I get grabbed by my hair and passed around like a doll by my aunts and cousins whenever I see them because “look how pretty!!!” It’s a pain in the scalp.
My hair was super curly when I was a kid then went randomly pin straight! I blame all the random people who came up to me and played with it!
Me too🤣🤣maybe you're right
I blame my mom for straightening it but now I started reviving my hair and it is starting to curl really good and I have 3A hair now
I have to comment this again but I want people to know STRAIGHT HAIR is RARE. You most likely have wavy hair and haven't tried or found a method that has worked for you yet. Please join the group on FB "Wavy Hair Method (Official)" only if you want to learn more tips & tricks to get it. Its not my group btw. I just wanna spread this around because more people with wavy hair will learn and teach others about it. Wavy hair falls straight a lot too by day 2 or 3 but refreshing it always helps it come back💗
@@BrioaZ lol straight hair is not rare.
Fun fact: I saw an article once* that said typically kids have curlier hair then as they grow older it changes over time !
The straight hair community: trying to get their hair curly
The curly hair community: trying to just keep their curly hair in their community
Me and my wavy hair peeps: wait wha 👁👄👁
The thin hair community: hopimg we don't lose any more hair and end up bald 😭
me with damaged frizzy hair : 😩😭
me with damaged frizzy hair : 😩😭
I once had a mental breakdown for 30 minutes because I didn’t know how to do a Dutch braid and when I tried, my arms hurt like a butt cheek on a stick so I didn’t know what to do and lied on the bed for 15 more minutes questioning if sitting in the bathroom for 20 minutes trying to do a Dutch braid was worth it. But after like a few weeks of trying I was finally able to do it. But this was a few weeks ago
my half sister is mixed and she straightens her hair all the time.. sometimes she doesnt but i can tell her hair is partly damaged bc its always frizzy but her curls are gorgg.. shes extremely pretty too. Im also mixed (white and half hispanic) and i have 2c, and 3a curls and honestly i think my hair is pretty but i just dont know how to style or do my hair.
Omgggg I’m so fucking happy to find a video like this? I have curly ass hair and I’ve been really insecure about that, and now everyone wants curls. I hate the toxicity around curls which I actually never thought existed. Everytime I search for videos for curls it’s people with no curls. So thank you so so much for making this video. You seem super nice and sweet.
I know right?? Like I search for a product or routine for CURLY hair, and all that pops up is people with the slightest wave 😃 I get it wavy is still curly but- cmon its not like they got the same struggle
It's funny because when I look for videos about 1a hair i find girls with wavy hair saying that they have straight hair 😂
Toxidityyy 😂😂
You should do doing your hair blindfolded ❤️
Samantha Yearwood Oh hell no that would be a whole mess on my end lol
I'm a mixed girl. I was insecure about my hair for the past 5 years and always wanted to have straight hair like my friends. I didn't know how to care for it, so it got very frizzy and tangled. The thing I was the most insecure about was the "puffiness" or basically volume. Even my friends with curly hair had hair that lay flat; I envied them.
It's just last year that I started a "hair routine". It didn't work very well at first and I kept getting frustrated and wanted to give up. But little by little, I started understanding what my hair needs, and I could finally define my curls a bit. Now don't get me wrong, frizz can also be beautiful, but I had this as an insecurity all my life. My hair stayed big, but now, I wouldn't have it any other way. I finally fell in love with my curls, in all its occasional frizz and tangles. I get a lot of compliments now, but even if someone judges my hair, I wont let that get to me.
PS: for extra definition, use a denman brush! tangle teezers are very good for detangling. to make your hair more voluminous, brush outwards and flip your hair while its air drying! oh and something that will help you with your hair journey; find your hair's porosity. trust me, it make everything much simpler!
And this is to all my curly girls, rock your crown!
I love you and your vids🥰but if you’re going to do a part 2 I strongly encourage you do some 4c-4a curls as well💖I’m 3c/4a and I’m sure there are some girls that are your viewers with tighter curls that would love to see some representation💗no hate ofc
I agree 💯
Agreed ❤️
Chizi duru and halfrican beaute have videos on type 4 naturals.
When I saw this video I was so scared you were going to be THAT part of the curly hair community I’m so glad you’re not ☺️
don't listen to them #wavyhairiscurlyhair
I’m so happy the algorithm brought me to this video. This is the best curly hair reaction video I’ve ever seen!! I love that you really touched upon all curly hair types & didn’t shame anyone but instead just educated❤️ YOU ARE A QUEEN✨✨✨
I am a white girl with 2c/3a curly/wavy hair , it’s curly for sure when it has just been washed but then the curls drop to waves throughout the week , I used to straighten it every day throughout high school to fit in , but it frazzled it , I haven’t used any heat on my hair in 5 years now and I just love my curly hair !
I love all the positivity in these comments and the fact that maintaining healthy hair is SO difficult but nobody talks about how those of us w curly hair ("wavy" for me bc it only curls on the bottom) have SUCH a hard time maintaining it. I think it's due to birth control but I do everything to keep my hair healthy, use sulfate free products, try to do the "towel plop" and everything, and my hair is tangled every day it's down, I can barely wear a pony tail and it still tangles. The only time I can keep it from tangling is when it's in a braid. It will literally form a brick on top of my head if I put it in a bun and the amount of times I can actually leave it down to "look pretty", it gets tangled. Having this shit is NOT all fun and games. In fact, it is miserable! You dont know how many times I want to cut it off but society says long hair is pretty and so many men say they love my hair. It's just gross how tiktok idolizes it when I have to detangle my hair EVERY DAY and at the same time cant wash it every day bc it's bad for ur hair. 😩
Hey you! Have you figured out your hair's porosity? If not, you should do that and build your routine based on the porosity. It'll solve your hair problems.
Me with hair straighter than a trump supporter: iNtErStInG
IM WHEEZING-
LMAOO SAME
There are many gay and LGBT supporters of Trump
@@juliaj7939 they have a death wish
@Elisabeth MacCurdy So people like Richard Grenell, who is the first openly gay American diplomat and cabinet member should stop being gay just because he was appointed by Trump?
it’s cool seeing all this from a curly hair girls perspective, because I have naturally straight hair and I always thought I looked prettier when I had curls and thought I looked bad without them. It’s amazing watching this and seeing other people think the same things as me but the opposite. People with straight and curly hair are so beautiful!! :)
YESSSSS finally someone else pointed out the alcohol point. i've thrown away so many products (finishing them first bc of money) because of that and just never bought them again