I was there once. No kids were involved. I found out 4 months after marrying him he was plotting my demise for life insurance. He basically told on himself. Kept telling me “ if something happens to you I’ll take good care of the boys”. After I heard that about 5x I turned around and said “ what do you know that I don’t? You keep saying that. If you’ve double crossed me I’ll make you regret the day you met me.” I started digging into his past. Threw him out. State annulled the marriage. He had married me to get my life insurance and had his plan made. OBTW…… he manufactured antifreeze. 😬uh huh. God was protecting me from this monster until I figured him out.
I’m so happy you were on guard. Called him out and kicked him out. So many times we want love so bad that ignore ringing alarms. I happy you were alert, it saved your life.
Did you not hear that this man was a pathological liar? On top of being a murderer? He had so many people fooled. I don't know why you're blaming her considering that. Most men don't say much. Does mean they're all murderers? Of course not. Nor does everyone react the same way, or has constant paranoia. Anyhow, you're too judgey & harsh.
@@Naturefan354he described the fake perpetrator as black for a reason. We all know why. Pretending like it isn't relevant, despite your intentions being good, is not helpful and turns a blind eye to this type of behavior.
@@rosseypik114 "We all know why"?? Well ya obviously. He was lying and made up a fake perpetrator to cover his a**. Once again he could have said the perpetrator was a terrorist and it would make no difference because it never happened and the person was only hypothetical.
@@Naturefan354 It matters because it happens often. White people use the' bad black man did it' excuse alot more often than anyone else. Since black people are a minortiy group it perpuates negative stereotypes based on lies which are harmful to them as a whole.
It's crazy to me how people feel they can vouch for someone's character, just because we enjoy hanging out with them they couldn't possibly be a murderer.
They are con men and narrcissists. It's typical that they seek out people who will believe thier act. They act normal around this group and suck them into believing they are nice. So then that allows them to sneak off and go do their crapand then nobody will believe you when you say hey , I think this person did this
Psychologists receive almost no education in recognizing personality disorders, and certainly no training or education on how to differentially diagnose or treat one. If psychologists with a PhD don't have that education, surely you can't expect the vast majority of the world to have that education or to know what to look for in people. That is a post-doc education in a highly specialized field that psychologists would have to spend more money and time to obtain. Psychiatrists, after getting their medical degree, then complete a fellowship in psychiatry, and that is where they learn how to differentially diagnose and treat characterological disorders aka character disorders (as in disorders of moral character). Even they get tricked/duped by the most sociopathic and psychopathic of them. When you have thousands and thousands of psychologists who have no training or education in this...excepting those who go into the specialized field of abnormal psychology...there is no way the average person is set up to succeed in this area. Some of these individuals are *very good at social masking* and the groom everyone around them first before they target & pray on those they perceive as weak/vulnerable.
Kudos to her for being a survivor and telling her story. And may Heidi RIP. This guy is clearly a self centered broken human inflicting evil on others.
Amazing that this is the detail you latched on to. To a hammer, everything looks like a nail. He killed a woman and you are upset about the race of his made up intruder?!?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It just seems like she would have done the sleuthing and questioning PRIOR to getting married to him. Prior to the marriage, she must have known that the police suspected him.
U gotta remember he chose her for a reason and that was her being a victim of DV and a very abusive boyfriend who whem HE swooped in she was beaten down to a shell of herself. Takes time to start being a person again and not trained to do whar ever u have to to not upset the abuser. Sad
the fact that the murderer as kind of the first thing said "that I could kill my wife" gave me gooesebumps... I mean if you didnt do anything wrong, why would that be the first thing on your mind, after many years? It doesnt make sense to me
Some people really have a lot of trust to give. I can’t believe she remarried AGAIN! like they say, 3rd time is a charm. Or something like that. Good luck, specifically, to her children and to her, too.
WOMAN THAT LACK OF AFFECTION WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM HAS THE TENDENCY TO BELIEVE IN THE LOVER'S LIES AND DISMISS THE TRUTH THAT MOST PEOPLE KNOW. TO ALL WOMEN OUT THERE I WILL SAY THIS AGAIN OVER AND OVER AGAIN PLEASE, DO NOT TRUST IN WHAT MEN SAYS TO YOU DO YOUR RESEARCH BACKGROUND CHECK LISTEN TO YOUR GUT FEELING TAKE IT EASY GO SLOW AND STAY ALIVE!!!
So she leaves an abusive relationship and thinks it a good idea to get in a new relationship with a man whose wife was murdered under suspicious circumstances? I mean come on give me a break!
She had 3 kids with him.🤦🏽♀️ The biggest red flag is a guy with wife that died mysteriously and some people don’t believe the husband. How did she just ignore that?? And what made her so sure that the same thing wouldn’t happen to her? And she’s remarried again! Wow! How do you even get married again so fast? I don’t understand some people…🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
It seems weird though.. If he was a psychopathic murderer wouldn't he have been abusing her for eleven years..... She never mentioned that he mistreated her.... just he was vague in her prying..
@@zoponex3224 Yes it does. People treat pretty people well for no reason other than they're attractive and the opposite for ugly people. Sucks but that's life.
She’s not the brightest tool in the shed. 1). First husband beat her. She said her life was hard and this guy’s life was hard so they shared their misery and it made them bond and want to marry. WTF? 2). She asked him next to nothing during dating and the duration of their marriage. 3). She didn’t take an active role in their money situation until she found out their house was about to be foreclosed on?? 4). She confronted him and called him a murderer in a location (their house) where he could’ve murdered her too (instead of confronted an alleged murderer in public 5) this lady says it was worth marrying a murderer because she got 3 kids out of the marriage and she would’ve paid any price to have those kids. WTF??
Let's suppose for a moment that she was actually murdered by an intruder. Would YOU want to keep reliving that pain by talking about it with a new romantic prospect ? Would you want to try to move on with your life ?
You are making a lot of assumptions with ignorance. She never said it was worth marrying a murderer, she said she'd go through anything to have her kids.
Seriously? A murdered spouse and suspicion of the husband being the killer and she not only continued to date him, she marries him. Women say they are scared to go jogging. I’d be more scared of my brain’s selection process when it came to who is capable of hurting me. At the very least err on the side of caution and be ok with the fact that your life is worth more than the risk of being murdered. You’re a female and you have many options for relationships.
I keep looking at these pictures and for the life of me I cant figure out how this meh looking dude got two really pretty girls in the first place. Just.. how? And only to kill them..
THIS Exactly! If they knew they wouldn't. It takes time just like the police took 11 years to arrest him, to figure out he was a murderer. So.... Why would she suspect it? She isn't a police officer. He hadn't been arrested.
After marrying 2 losers, you'd think she'd realize that she has issues too. "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me." I hope for her kid's sake, husband #3 is a good dude.
She was probably already cheating on him. That's why she was doing all that "detective" work! Women always have a backup plan. She just wanted something she could put on him, so she didn't look like the whore that she is.
I dont know, the way i feel after seeing the interview tells me that, she knows that her husband is a killer but refuse or choose to believe he is innocent.
KARE 11 is going to do a series on cold cases? Darrell Rea of Minneapolis is going to be free in a few months for what he did to a prostitute back in the 1990s. KARE 11 should look into what he did to Victoria Owczynsky.
His interview/interrogation for his first wife is haunting. She didn’t make it “I figured that”, um no he knew that bc he did what he needed too so she wouldn’t make it!
her 1st relationship was a cheater, 1st marriage abusive, 2nd marriage a murderer,now on her 3rd marriage soon after having such a traumatic relationship. Why is marriage so necessary to her? She already has 3 kids & is older in age, at this point it’s insane marriage remains a priority in her life. She may have codependency issues & I fear that’s putting her at risk when choosing partners.
THREE CHILDREN WITH A STRANGER GUY THAT SHE KNEW THAT HE WAS BEING ACCUSED OF KILLING HIS WIFE AND THEN SHE GOES AND GET MARRIED WITH HIM AND HAVE THREE CHILDREN WITH THE GUY?!?!?! SHE IS IMPULSIVE!!! I WOULD NOT GET MARRIED ANY MAN THAT IS ACCUSED OF KILLING THE WIFE OR WHOEVER...
You never really know what you’re getting into when you hookup with someone that you haven’t known for years and even then you might not know that you’re with a psychopath or something just possibly as bad until it’s too late!
People often ask me if I would go through it again. I’ve become confident to take control of the ridiculous question and say something like, “No. I wouldn’t choose to go through it again. But I would choose to go back and erase the past events that left me damaged, skip to the good things and be just as amazingly happy and greatly for the special people in my life who came from this past” Never has a person who’s experienced horrific life events asked me if I do it all over again 🙄
She just got out of a divorce, he is suspected of killing his wife, could they have been secret lovers and the reason why the wife was killed? Eventually she fell out of love with him and got him arrested?
Are you referring to the text on the screen or the auto-generated closed captions (subtitles)? The text on the screen reads right with "your" while the subtitles say "you're."
Ok, she gets married for the 3rd time!! Goodness, some people definitely can't be alone! You need to be careful when you have kids and you get married to a male that isn't the children's father!! There are many Evil pedophiles, abusers, etc....
She got 3 beautiful kids. I was in an abusive relationship for 14 years. When it got really bad I finally left. I would never change my journey though because I have 2 beautiful boys because of that relationship and for that I would never change it. Life is going to be crazy sometimes but you hang on to what’s important. Kids are a blessing. Glad she sees this journey that way. She was blessed with her children out of it and got out ok.
I love the last thing she said. So beautiful. I love my kids soooo much too. Kids are so wonderful to have, even when they cry their eyes out for candy before bed. 💙
A good woman, also by helping her children to understand with love and counseling. May her children grow up loved and blessed, with the knowledge that they'll come through above what their dad did. Love blessings and prayers to all the family. ❤🙏🏼🙏🙏🏿
I believe I also escaped dying at the hands of my ex. He was widowed a year before he found me online and pursued me. He told me his first wife had killed herself. Through seven years with him I put 2+2 together as I learned more and more about him and about his first marriage, and I realized that he was trying to get rid of me too. The day we were arguing and he said to me "go kill yourself, you f__ing b_tch", I knew I had to get away from him or probably I would be dead soon. I believe that he killed his first wife and staged it as a suicide, or drove her to it like he was trying to do with me. This man inherited over $1.6 million from his first wife after her death. The coroner was someone he knew personally: she was his naturopath, he was her paying client. There was no investigation of his wife's death even though she died in their home and he was the last person to see her. There's so much more to this story. I have thought about writing a book about this, because I am a survivor and I wish I could help other women avoid going through what I went through with this sick, narcissistic, nightmare of a human being.
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I was there once. No kids were involved. I found out 4 months after marrying him he was plotting my demise for life insurance. He basically told on himself. Kept telling me “ if something happens to you I’ll take good care of the boys”. After I heard that about 5x I turned around and said “ what do you know that I don’t? You keep saying that. If you’ve double crossed me I’ll make you regret the day you met me.” I started digging into his past. Threw him out. State annulled the marriage. He had married me to get my life insurance and had his plan made. OBTW…… he manufactured antifreeze. 😬uh huh. God was protecting me from this monster until I figured him out.
So glad 🙂 you survived ❤not too many do .. especially when they were married.. bless your heart ♥️
That's awful! I'm so glad you were able to get out of that situation. I hope you're doing well now ♥
Wow 😢 thankful the Lord gave you discernment.
THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER! ❤ We want to think the best of people,sometimes we miss the clues.
I’m so happy you were on guard. Called him out and kicked him out. So many times we want love so bad that ignore ringing alarms. I happy you were alert, it saved your life.
When u catch someone telling little lies, thereare always bigger ones, you just don’t know yet.
Always
Lying is one of the big tell-tale signs of evil.
Always........but once you believe it or come across like you believe it, they will run a marathon of lies on you.
People will believe lie than a little lie 😢
This is not the person that hurt you. Grow up
She trauma bonded with him. Remember, he didn’t want to say much. She ignored her intuition. I was surprised to hear she’s married, again.
Excellent points!
I know right? I laughed so hard when the narrator said she married again. lol Some people have luck of instinct judgement and well, lets see...
@@Mansikkacakethis next one is probably into children I wouldn’t be surprised but good luck to her
Why? Isn't she entitled to remarry and be happy?
Did you not hear that this man was a pathological liar? On top of being a murderer? He had so many people fooled. I don't know why you're blaming her considering that. Most men don't say much. Does mean they're all murderers? Of course not. Nor does everyone react the same way, or has constant paranoia. Anyhow, you're too judgey & harsh.
You're a murderer...you took someone's life and tried to blame it on a black person.
Stay in jail for life⚖️⚖️⚖️
But does it matter the race of this imaginary person? He could have said a white man did it but it still isn't true?
@@Naturefan354he described the fake perpetrator as black for a reason. We all know why. Pretending like it isn't relevant, despite your intentions being good, is not helpful and turns a blind eye to this type of behavior.
@@rosseypik114 "We all know why"?? Well ya obviously. He was lying and made up a fake perpetrator to cover his a**. Once again he could have said the perpetrator was a terrorist and it would make no difference because it never happened and the person was only hypothetical.
@@Naturefan354so playing dumb won't help but keep playing like you don't understand its cute for bigotry
@@Naturefan354 It matters because it happens often. White people use the' bad black man did it' excuse alot more often than anyone else. Since black people are a minortiy group it perpuates negative stereotypes based on lies which are harmful to them as a whole.
She's lucky that she found the tax notice and connected the dots.
She's just plain lucky
Through the grace of God!🙏
It's crazy to me how people feel they can vouch for someone's character, just because we enjoy hanging out with them they couldn't possibly be a murderer.
If they’re cool tho. Come on, be fair. Everyone deserves a friend.
@@askew9976What??? Are you that desperate for a friendship that you'd completely disregard that someone is a murderer?
They are con men and narrcissists. It's typical that they seek out people who will believe thier act. They act normal around this group and suck them into believing they are nice. So then that allows them to sneak off and go do their crapand then nobody will believe you when you say hey , I think this person did this
Psychologists receive almost no education in recognizing personality disorders, and certainly no training or education on how to differentially diagnose or treat one. If psychologists with a PhD don't have that education, surely you can't expect the vast majority of the world to have that education or to know what to look for in people. That is a post-doc education in a highly specialized field that psychologists would have to spend more money and time to obtain.
Psychiatrists, after getting their medical degree, then complete a fellowship in psychiatry, and that is where they learn how to differentially diagnose and treat characterological disorders aka character disorders (as in disorders of moral character). Even they get tricked/duped by the most sociopathic and psychopathic of them.
When you have thousands and thousands of psychologists who have no training or education in this...excepting those who go into the specialized field of abnormal psychology...there is no way the average person is set up to succeed in this area. Some of these individuals are *very good at social masking* and the groom everyone around them first before they target & pray on those they perceive as weak/vulnerable.
@@askew9976 Surely you're being facetious? Predators do NOT have any friends, they have competitor predators and prey.
Bonding over your troubles are never a genuine relationship. Real relationships are based on your values and interests.
Hindsight is always 20 20
FACTS LEARNED THE HARD WAY
Yeah, I learned that the hard way too. It’s better to get to know them on a lighter side first
Agree. I was thinking that as well.
It can be both.
Rachel could’ve been killed when she confronted him, that was such a dangerous moment. Thank God she and her children survived.
I was thinking the same thing.
Kudos to her for being a survivor and telling her story. And may Heidi RIP. This guy is clearly a self centered broken human inflicting evil on others.
Wow. She was next.
It’s always the invisible black man 😂
Yes or an alligator 😂
I was coming to comment just that. Where do these random black men appear from a 🦄 ...the black version obviously. An Africorn ofc.😂😊
@@ge1389 Also, a racist comment: They do enough on their own . . .
@@cannedheat300 - I had a Black nephew who was murdered by a black man. Not racist. Fact.
😂
Stupid to confront him like that. I would have been afraid he would just attack and kill me on the spot.
So she shouldn't confront him about not paying the property taxes ?
@@mizzury54 at that point I thought she knew or suspected he killed his ex. Killed!
Right! Most people are stupid.
So glad this woman listened to her intuition and got out.
Rest in peace Heidi. ❤️🙏
That is God speaking, not intuition
@@MT-if1jr Call it what you want. All in all, it is sacred, embodied wisdom.
Intuition= God
Amazing how he said it was a black man that broke into the house as if everyone will just be racist and go along for the ride without question.
Amazing that this is the detail you latched on to. To a hammer, everything looks like a nail. He killed a woman and you are upset about the race of his made up intruder?!?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No one said Carlee who faked her kidnap was.
A black white supremacist , where have i seen that one before ?😂
@@Read.A.Journal.Articleyes because it’s not the first time a black man has been lied on in this type of case!
RAcISm!!!
Not sure why this case perplexed investigators. Did they even investigate the husband in the beginning?
Obviously he blamed a blk guy
Whenever a white husband blames a black guy for his wifes questionable murder it always turns out to be the husband. Every single time.
Well they are proven to be responsible for majority of crimes despite being a minority.
Funny how they keep saying black intruders to gain credibility..
Wouldn't it be equally credible if he said a white man did it? 🤔
It’s disgusting
To have that much faith and optimism to get married again blows my mind
Exactly. Abusive first marriage, second marriage was to a murderer, and she's married a third time. The worst, I suppose, is over with the first two.
*His response sounded like he was responding about the ending of a TV show he missed the last 5 minutes of.*
I bet 😂
It just seems like she would have done the sleuthing and questioning PRIOR to getting married to him. Prior to the marriage, she must have known that the police suspected him.
U gotta remember he chose her for a reason and that was her being a victim of DV and a very abusive boyfriend who whem HE swooped in she was beaten down to a shell of herself. Takes time to start being a person again and not trained to do whar ever u have to to not upset the abuser. Sad
She did, she said so at the beginning of the video
then she'd be accused of stalking
She was desperateto be married
She did know the police suspected him. She admits that at the beginning.
That would have been my first thought: he killed her, possibly. Pass.
Lady you didn't want to know the truth about your killer husband.... it's better knowing the truth to be safe....
Correction: she married him and denied it.
EXACTLY!!!
I’m not marrying a man who wife is dead and he acting like he can’t remember. No sir.
👏👏👏👏👏💯💯!!!
the fact that the murderer as kind of the first thing said "that I could kill my wife" gave me gooesebumps... I mean if you didnt do anything wrong, why would that be the first thing on your mind, after many years? It doesnt make sense to me
She took an enormous risk by confronting him....
Never date over trauma aka trauma bonding. Many individuals with personality disorders manipulate your trauma so you can love them.
I’m glad she told her story. Nothing surprises me anymore though.
Plus she wanted to believe him.
Exactly she wanted to bury her head in the sand
he had no empathy and she did not notice for years....i guess the psychopaths are good actors
They are. They mimic human behaviour and emotions.
Nah she choose to ignore it.
Why did this take 11 years to solve?
Some people really have a lot of trust to give. I can’t believe she remarried AGAIN! like they say, 3rd time is a charm. Or something like that. Good luck, specifically, to her children and to her, too.
No they say "if it's more than 2, it's You."
Red flags
WOMAN THAT LACK OF AFFECTION WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM HAS THE TENDENCY TO BELIEVE IN THE LOVER'S LIES AND DISMISS THE TRUTH THAT MOST PEOPLE KNOW.
TO ALL WOMEN OUT THERE I WILL SAY THIS AGAIN OVER AND OVER AGAIN PLEASE, DO NOT TRUST IN WHAT MEN SAYS TO YOU DO YOUR RESEARCH BACKGROUND CHECK LISTEN TO YOUR GUT FEELING TAKE IT EASY GO SLOW AND STAY ALIVE!!!
So she leaves an abusive relationship and thinks it a good idea to get in a new relationship with a man whose wife was murdered under suspicious circumstances? I mean come on give me a break!
💥💯💥
Okay Judge Judy 👩⚖️
Amen
Yeah she’s an absolute idiot
You're victim blaming now???
I never understand how women can be in such denial and trusting.
And men.
Because some women are too needy. Sad
Because society pushes the marriage bs on women.
@@OfficerPolariswomen want marriage fool
A lifetime of training.
She had 3 kids with him.🤦🏽♀️ The biggest red flag is a guy with wife that died mysteriously and some people don’t believe the husband. How did she just ignore that?? And what made her so sure that the same thing wouldn’t happen to her? And she’s remarried again! Wow! How do you even get married again so fast? I don’t understand some people…🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
It seems weird though.. If he was a psychopathic murderer wouldn't he have been abusing her for eleven years..... She never mentioned that he mistreated her.... just he was vague in her prying..
Poor Heidi so young, and cute!
Cause her cuteness matters somehow?
@@zoponex3224 Yes it does. People treat pretty people well for no reason other than they're attractive and the opposite for ugly people. Sucks but that's life.
Why not pay the property taxes?
They hadn't paid the mortgage either. They probably had the property taxes rolled in with the mortgage.
Twice this women was a bit late on her intuition and red flags. First time an abuser and then a murderer. Geez!
Omg... There was already information about him...yet she gives him the benefit of the doubt. Wth.
B/c his wife's sister also believed he didn't do it. Do you listen?
@@sugahoney89and?
@@FaithandNova and?? 😒 the wife's sister vouched for him and she dismissed her intuition. Also use your brain or you wouldn't be asking and?
@@georgiegirl8345 the wife's sister* (who she probably thought had insider knowledge of the case and knew that he didn't do it) NOT her own sister.
She's the type of person who I call a Professional Victim. 😢
Sucks when people know things and don’t clue you in. You can make informed decisions.
She’s not the brightest tool in the shed. 1). First husband beat her. She said her life was hard and this guy’s life was hard so they shared their misery and it made them bond and want to marry. WTF?
2). She asked him next to nothing during dating and the duration of their marriage.
3). She didn’t take an active role in their money situation until she found out their house was about to be foreclosed on??
4). She confronted him and called him a murderer in a location (their house) where he could’ve murdered her too (instead of confronted an alleged murderer in public
5) this lady says it was worth marrying a murderer because she got 3 kids out of the marriage and she would’ve paid any price to have those kids. WTF??
Let's suppose for a moment that she was actually murdered by an intruder. Would YOU want to keep reliving that pain by talking about it with a new romantic prospect ? Would you want to try to move on with your life ?
Well 3 is common when the woman is a stay at home mom, for example
You are making a lot of assumptions with ignorance. She never said it was worth marrying a murderer, she said she'd go through anything to have her kids.
Fr bro what kind of a mom loves their kids? Clearly not yours
People from abusive situations often end up with someone similar again. It’s very sad.
It's crazy he was going to do the same thing again, the property taxes and everything.
Rachael is so inspirational. I'm so glad she wasn't next. I hope she has a wonderful life for now on.
I just don’t understand what evidence they had now that they didn’t have 11 years ago??
Seriously?
A murdered spouse and suspicion of the husband being the killer and she not only continued to date him, she marries him.
Women say they are scared to go jogging. I’d be more scared of my brain’s selection process when it came to who is capable of hurting me.
At the very least err on the side of caution and be ok with the fact that your life is worth more than the risk of being murdered. You’re a female and you have many options for relationships.
Beware of trauma bonds
I like what she said,
"To assume something anything is a big (ASSUMPTION) to make".
ASSUMPTION that can ruin that person's life
She didn’t want to know
Poor judgement on her part.
She had a pretty good idea from day one.
What a gorgeous bride!
I keep looking at these pictures and for the life of me I cant figure out how this meh looking dude got two really pretty girls in the first place. Just.. how? And only to kill them..
They both look very similar!
Well, most people don’t know it if they’re married to a murderer. Most people won’t marry murderers.
THIS Exactly! If they knew they wouldn't. It takes time just like the police took 11 years to arrest him, to figure out he was a murderer. So.... Why would she suspect it? She isn't a police officer. He hadn't been arrested.
Ohhhh, first minute into the story and I’m yelling, “Red flag, red flag, run lady!”
remarried? is she crazy?!
After marrying 2 losers, you'd think she'd realize that she has issues too. "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me." I hope for her kid's sake, husband #3 is a good dude.
She was probably already cheating on him. That's why she was doing all that "detective" work!
Women always have a backup plan.
She just wanted something she could put on him, so she didn't look like the whore that she is.
Some females aren't done being treated like shiettt.. thats why
I laoughed so much on that part too! did the police do background check on her as well?
Not to bright. I can’t stand woman who think they need a man in their life
Love yourself and be single!
Oh, yes! Absolutely. All I need to cure myself of wanting to be married is these RUclips videos. Scary.
She knew he was racist for sure…
Thank you guys for informing us about these cases.
I dont know, the way i feel after seeing the interview tells me that, she knows that her husband is a killer but refuse or choose to believe he is innocent.
3 kids and still able to remarry ? What’s wrong with me?
KARE 11 is going to do a series on cold cases?
Darrell Rea of Minneapolis is going to be free in a few months for what he did to a prostitute back in the 1990s. KARE 11 should look into what he did to Victoria Owczynsky.
She had no gut feeling is really hard to believe. Most women use guts.
The old "Black man" did it ... the police should have known he did it as soon as he said that 😮
once she said she knew...i felt nothing.
All i could do was smh
this was really crazy, what a great interview.
His interview/interrogation for his first wife is haunting. She didn’t make it “I figured that”, um no he knew that bc he did what he needed too so she wouldn’t make it!
I hope she finds a great guy that’s not a psychopath
She is already remarried
If she doesn’t heal herself she’ll only keep attracting losers
Feel like you left out the massive detail of how they were able to convict him.
So not too worried about him being murdery, until she thought she was next.
Nick came from a wealthy family. His solution to his money issues is just senseless.
her 1st relationship was a cheater, 1st marriage abusive, 2nd marriage a murderer,now on her 3rd marriage soon after having such a traumatic relationship. Why is marriage so necessary to her? She already has 3 kids & is older in age, at this point it’s insane marriage remains a priority in her life. She may have codependency issues & I fear that’s putting her at risk when choosing partners.
The second you feel the need to record conversations between you and your spouse you need to gtfo
Predators know how to find prey. This lady needs to stop dating and figure out why she always ends up with the predators
THREE CHILDREN WITH A STRANGER GUY THAT SHE KNEW THAT HE WAS BEING ACCUSED OF KILLING HIS WIFE AND THEN SHE GOES AND GET MARRIED WITH HIM AND HAVE THREE CHILDREN WITH THE GUY?!?!?! SHE IS IMPULSIVE!!! I WOULD NOT GET MARRIED ANY MAN THAT IS ACCUSED OF KILLING THE WIFE OR WHOEVER...
Yes let’s always blame my people first. Disgusting
Yup. Him even having the audacity to blame a black man for HIS disgusting behaviour speaks VOLUMES. Gross person.
Is it just me? The first victim, Heidi, his first wife looks like his daughter, she does look really young or way more younger than he is.
You never really know what you’re getting into when you hookup with someone that you haven’t known for years and even then you might not know that you’re with a psychopath or something just possibly as bad until it’s too late!
Some peeps like the drama can’t live without it
People often ask me if I would go through it again. I’ve become confident to take control of the ridiculous question and say something like,
“No. I wouldn’t choose to go through it again. But I would choose to go back and erase the past events that left me damaged, skip to the good things and be just as amazingly happy and greatly for the special people in my life who came from this past”
Never has a person who’s experienced horrific life events asked me if I do it all over again 🙄
She just got out of a divorce, he is suspected of killing his wife, could they have been secret lovers and the reason why the wife was killed?
Eventually she fell out of love with him and got him arrested?
4:12 As journalists, one would think that you are aware that you are is you’re, not your 😂
Are you referring to the text on the screen or the auto-generated closed captions (subtitles)? The text on the screen reads right with "your" while the subtitles say "you're."
Ok, she gets married for the 3rd time!!
Goodness, some people definitely can't be alone!
You need to be careful when you have kids and you get married to a male that isn't the children's father!!
There are many Evil pedophiles, abusers, etc....
That's just paranoid chatter
@1esk192 You are oblivious to the Evil of this World or you may be part of it too with such a reply!!
@@ldsdmariya I don't automatically assume someone could be a pedophile or an abuser, so no, I'm not that evil.
@@1esk192 God bless you
Why are these evil characters always blaming their crimes on the Black people? Ultimate betrayal for both wives. Sad!
She knew he murdered his wife - she was next.
she gets married like a change of shoes..why would she do this so soon after her first divorce and after this one? good grief take care of her kids
Wow 1794 W Minnehaha just across the street from us and didn't know a murderer lives here
Omg i feel so bad for her. She seems like such a truly sweet person!
Kidding right?
It's hard to tell. I kept staring at her eyebrows.
I feel bad for his first wife.
She got 3 beautiful kids. I was in an abusive relationship for 14 years. When it got really bad I finally left. I would never change my journey though because I have 2 beautiful boys because of that relationship and for that I would never change it. Life is going to be crazy sometimes but you hang on to what’s important. Kids are a blessing. Glad she sees this journey that way. She was blessed with her children out of it and got out ok.
If the kids behave like him, it is not worth it
Why is it your type of woman that gets in abusive relationships?
I’m so glad she got away and that there was justice for Heidi. It’s scary to imagine how close she came to the same situation!
I love the last thing she said. So beautiful. I love my kids soooo much too. Kids are so wonderful to have, even when they cry their eyes out for candy before bed. 💙
Now she has children with a convicted murderer.
Honestly I wish she would have blurred her identity for the interview. Her children are being too exposed by this and have already been through enough
Wow this gave me bad anxiety and trust issues
She survived and spoke out. How brave.
Great story
Those friends should be ashammed of themselves
Some women are gullible 😢
A good woman, also by helping her children to understand with love and counseling.
May her children grow up loved and blessed, with the knowledge that they'll come through above what their dad did.
Love blessings and prayers to all the family. ❤🙏🏼🙏🙏🏿
Psychopaths are tough to spot - make sure the one you love has a conscience!
I believe I also escaped dying at the hands of my ex. He was widowed a year before he found me online and pursued me. He told me his first wife had killed herself. Through seven years with him I put 2+2 together as I learned more and more about him and about his first marriage, and I realized that he was trying to get rid of me too. The day we were arguing and he said to me "go kill yourself, you f__ing b_tch", I knew I had to get away from him or probably I would be dead soon. I believe that he killed his first wife and staged it as a suicide, or drove her to it like he was trying to do with me. This man inherited over $1.6 million from his first wife after her death. The coroner was someone he knew personally: she was his naturopath, he was her paying client. There was no investigation of his wife's death even though she died in their home and he was the last person to see her. There's so much more to this story. I have thought about writing a book about this, because I am a survivor and I wish I could help other women avoid going through what I went through with this sick, narcissistic, nightmare of a human being.
Do you have any proof