So hard for me right now. This narc I married has zero empathy or emotional regulation. He discards his own emotions like he discards me. I’ve tried so many times to sit with his criticisms but it always devolves into trashing my character, temper tantrums, cruelty and I walk away. Then I get trashed for that. Frankly, I’m too tired to try anymore and to have some shred of self-respect left, I know I should leave. I’m just waiting for him to drop the bomb behind my back like he did with wives #1 & #2. Somehow even tho I was “nothing like them”, 20 years later I’m their evil twin. I seriously want to just give up. But I will try these suggestions even though I know I’ve already done almost all of things mentioned here. Hopeless but Willing
Hmm my friend's husband will never tell her I see why you're upset and concerned what a mess she is in. If she pushes to much as I've said in Dr. Hawkins other videos he will take the car keys and phone. She has told him why do you do this he told her that's the only way you'll learn. 😢😢
I would have had a richer fuller marriage had I been following this advice the past 43 years. I saved this to watch regularly. Thank you! 🙏
So hard for me right now. This narc I married has zero empathy or emotional regulation. He discards his own emotions like he discards me. I’ve tried so many times to sit with his criticisms but it always devolves into trashing my character, temper tantrums, cruelty and I walk away. Then I get trashed for that. Frankly, I’m too tired to try anymore and to have some shred of self-respect left, I know I should leave. I’m just waiting for him to drop the bomb behind my back like he did with wives #1 & #2. Somehow even tho I was “nothing like them”, 20 years later I’m their evil twin. I seriously want to just give up. But I will try these suggestions even though I know I’ve already done almost all of things mentioned here. Hopeless but Willing
I have not been doing this. No wonder my wife is so unhappy. These are not difficult things to do. I am going to do this.
Very helpful
Hmm my friend's husband will never tell her I see why you're upset and concerned what a mess she is in. If she pushes to much as I've said in Dr. Hawkins other videos he will take the car keys and phone. She has told him why do you do this he told her that's the only way you'll learn. 😢😢