i find your videos so comforting. i think it's your voice? i'm a very tall girl (6ft) with a firm build and your videos help me embrace the more masc side of fashion that i used to avoid like the plague when i was younger. i was so scared that i wasn't feminine-looking enough and that people would find me strange. but now that i am older and have grown more comfortable in my skin, i've been buying more masculine fashion pieces and i've never felt more like myself. my legs were always an insecurity for me but i thought i just had to bite the bullet and push through on hot days, but then i watched your reel about pants suited for hot weather and became a summer-pant connoisseur. thank you for your videos!
on the topic of "heres what u should wear to look ur best", every outfit ive ever seen from u looks incredibly flattering on you, I think people look the best when they feel the best
Hello, just to say, I really fw your videos for context im a young male and have been struggling what to wear for a while now so ofc you go to RUclips. Anyway I really appreciate that you’re very non-aggressive if you understand? Like you’re not saying “DO NOT WEAR BAGGY CARGOS IN 2024? what are you? Dumb?” like many of the other fashion content creators on this god forsaken app. Anyway have a good rest of your day/night
your videos are so good!!! i always gravitate towards these sorts of videos and watch a lot of them, but often don't find them satisfying when i actually watch, they ring a bit hollow or overwrought, but yours are always so honest and always practical even when they get philosophical. thank you!!!
I watched your videos absentmindedly in the background, but ended up actively rewatching many of them. Your stuff is so anthropological and in depth, truly not much else like it on this platform imo. Fantastic work
Late to the party here, but your talking points really resonated with me regarding comfort and the self. I consider myself to be very much a fashion hobbyist, but as much as I enjoy cool outfits-they just are not true to my personality and the things I value. As someone who grew up in vastly different cultures for parts of my childhood, fitting in and showing my best self are what matter the most, which I realize now are why I dress the way I do. I stick to basics that are timeless and fit into most situations, but I will drop $$$ on basic clothes that feel and look great although not exactly unique or eye catching.
I think about fashion all of the time. I bounce between comfort and trying to incorporate high fashion brands into my wardrobe. Sometimes I feel like what's the point - 5 days a week I have to wear my work clothes, but every now and again inspiration strikes.
I’m a mum to a 1 year old. My style has changed since becoming a mum. I dress for comfort and ease a lot now. That often means clothes I can bend down in, chase my boy around in etc. I was really down on myself for not wearing “cool” clothes and it wasn’t until I realised that I dress for comfort and function that I stopped beating myself up. I’ve let go trying to have a “personal style”, and have been dressing a lot more for what works with my lifestyle. It’s often pants/shorts, a midi skirt and an oversized graphic top and some sneakers. It’s comfortable and makes me happy. I really enjoy your content. It makes me feel okay with the way I choose to dress
Amy Smilovic has a 3 word method where all are more based in motivation/feeling than like a single goal word for feeling/aspiration/reality. I find that’s easier to identify with and the words transcend seasons and years for me, like they can retroactively work for past iterations of my closet pre-3 word attempts.
2:19 I feel like it’s so hard when looking to expand personal style and fashion bc this is what I come up against the most. Like yes maybe **sometimes** I’m willing to sacrifice comfort or practicality for a look or an outfit but way more often I desire to feel comfortable. But a lot of “comfort style” is sweats and yoga pants etc and that’s just not what I wanna wear 24/7!! Anyway I just really dig your channel and you vids your a huge style inspiration to me.
thank youuuuu. i love watching your videos!! this one in particular is really validating and touching to me-- especially the idea of there being an "innate self expression to comfort." as a nonbinary person, dressing to communicate something to others can sometimes be super complicated and make getting dressed way too hard. i have had to stop worrying about expressing myself using the fashion language around me and more on just BEING. the only thing i am saying with my clothes these days is "i love you" to myself and that feels SO good!! i love the idea that just doing what works for me and is comfortable is inherently self-expressing.
i don't know how to explain it but your videos exhude a sense of comfort. it's funny because i finished the video thinking about it and then the first comment i saw was saying exactly that. you seem so at ease with yourself that you probably make other people feel at ease too, i think. i can't say for sure because you're just a stranger on the internet but you seem like a really sweet person to have in one's life :) keep making these videos, they're great!
I discovered two random preferences that I have for clothing recently. If I wear open toed shoes, I don't like ones that expose my pinky toe. If they do I tend to stop reaching for them as much. I also don't particularly like having a lot of my upper back exposed in clothing because I find it annoying to get sunscreen on those hard to reach areas of my back.
Discovered you yesterday and watched a few videos of yours and subscribed when I saw this one. Very interesting and made me think about myself and the clothes I wear in a new way. Looking forward for more vids
You ask some really important questions here. I think when it comes to personal style (and everyday life tbh) a lot of us undermine the power of questioning ourselves.
As I’ve been on my own journey of discovering what I feel comfortable in wearing I’ve seen a lot of content surrounding the topic of personal style and not to throw shade but some ppl who claimed to have found their personal style look like clones running around.. why is that? Because they wanna fit in. Perfectly justifiable. I find myself in the same boat at times but I feel a bit like a fraud. One thing I find to really help with this is weighing in conditions. Is it practical? Itchy? Durable? does it look good on me and not just on the model or influencer? I also know a lot of people find inspo on Pinterest and something that really changed the game for me is listing all the common pieces on my board instead of photo copying outfits. It helps you consume pieces you actually enjoy and does fuel my individually complex adequately 😅
loved the video! the final fairy garden look reminds me so much of how south asians wear a dupatta. we prefer comfort in our clothing as well, given how hot it gets in india, pakistan and surrounding countries. maybe you could look into styles and fashion here and get inspired too :)
I don't think functionality is a horrible motivation. Far from it! Taking your wardrobe as an example, you only own pieces that you know to be useful or believe to be beautiful. Your style is far from simply functional. It's understated and others might not appreciate the details or fit (I am talking about Japanese fashion), but that doesn't really matter. Comfort is also important to me. To me, it's a given, so I personally feel offended if someone tries to compliment me with "that looks comfortable." That's such a sh*t compliment. If it's not comfortable, I'm not wearing it, so you're basically saying "You're not naked!" Just say I look good.
interesting that you mentioned kibbe because i find that you tend to dress in the lines that he would recommend for your build. According to his framework, you lean heavily into your "yang" side I think his framework has merit as a launching point- it's good at introducing people to certain design concepts like lines, visual weight, etc. Things that stylish people tend to consider anyways when choosing clothes. It might answer questions like why certain things look cohesive on certain bodies, why certain things look disjointed. But to make your style personal... I def think you have to explore beyond the framework.
When you talked about control and having that through outfits that allow you to be (unreadable) more simple or muted color palette, i have never related to anything more 🫢
i find your videos so comforting. i think it's your voice? i'm a very tall girl (6ft) with a firm build and your videos help me embrace the more masc side of fashion that i used to avoid like the plague when i was younger. i was so scared that i wasn't feminine-looking enough and that people would find me strange. but now that i am older and have grown more comfortable in my skin, i've been buying more masculine fashion pieces and i've never felt more like myself. my legs were always an insecurity for me but i thought i just had to bite the bullet and push through on hot days, but then i watched your reel about pants suited for hot weather and became a summer-pant connoisseur. thank you for your videos!
on the topic of "heres what u should wear to look ur best", every outfit ive ever seen from u looks incredibly flattering on you, I think people look the best when they feel the best
more videos like this please! I love seeing what people actually wear to do actual things in their actual lives.
Same!!
Hello, just to say, I really fw your videos for context im a young male and have been struggling what to wear for a while now so ofc you go to RUclips. Anyway I really appreciate that you’re very non-aggressive if you understand? Like you’re not saying “DO NOT WEAR BAGGY CARGOS IN 2024? what are you? Dumb?” like many of the other fashion content creators on this god forsaken app. Anyway have a good rest of your day/night
@@halflifescientist1674 Of course 🙏🏼 I never enjoyed that sort of content either haha so I don’t make it
your videos are so good!!! i always gravitate towards these sorts of videos and watch a lot of them, but often don't find them satisfying when i actually watch, they ring a bit hollow or overwrought, but yours are always so honest and always practical even when they get philosophical. thank you!!!
I watched your videos absentmindedly in the background, but ended up actively rewatching many of them. Your stuff is so anthropological and in depth, truly not much else like it on this platform imo. Fantastic work
Late to the party here, but your talking points really resonated with me regarding comfort and the self. I consider myself to be very much a fashion hobbyist, but as much as I enjoy cool outfits-they just are not true to my personality and the things I value. As someone who grew up in vastly different cultures for parts of my childhood, fitting in and showing my best self are what matter the most, which I realize now are why I dress the way I do. I stick to basics that are timeless and fit into most situations, but I will drop $$$ on basic clothes that feel and look great although not exactly unique or eye catching.
I think about fashion all of the time. I bounce between comfort and trying to incorporate high fashion brands into my wardrobe. Sometimes I feel like what's the point - 5 days a week I have to wear my work clothes, but every now and again inspiration strikes.
I need heaps more of this more thoughtful and introspective look at fashion and personal style, awesome vid🫶🏼
I’m a mum to a 1 year old. My style has changed since becoming a mum. I dress for comfort and ease a lot now. That often means clothes I can bend down in, chase my boy around in etc. I was really down on myself for not wearing “cool” clothes and it wasn’t until I realised that I dress for comfort and function that I stopped beating myself up. I’ve let go trying to have a “personal style”, and have been dressing a lot more for what works with my lifestyle. It’s often pants/shorts, a midi skirt and an oversized graphic top and some sneakers. It’s comfortable and makes me happy. I really enjoy your content. It makes me feel okay with the way I choose to dress
Realism in fashion content! Thank you for what you do💌
love your videos. I love pondering "what to wear today or tomorrow"
Loved this. Also the khaki pleated pants with the belt and white shirt was sooo good.
really really love your vids and style
There is a lot I need to learn about fashion, and I’m glad I find this channel 😊😊😊
The scarf as wings is so genius!!!
Amy Smilovic has a 3 word method where all are more based in motivation/feeling than like a single goal word for feeling/aspiration/reality. I find that’s easier to identify with and the words transcend seasons and years for me, like they can retroactively work for past iterations of my closet pre-3 word attempts.
Not even a minute in and I’m already enjoying this, your voice is so soothing! Keep it up
2:19 I feel like it’s so hard when looking to expand personal style and fashion bc this is what I come up against the most. Like yes maybe **sometimes** I’m willing to sacrifice comfort or practicality for a look or an outfit but way more often I desire to feel comfortable. But a lot of “comfort style” is sweats and yoga pants etc and that’s just not what I wanna wear 24/7!! Anyway I just really dig your channel and you vids your a huge style inspiration to me.
thank youuuuu. i love watching your videos!! this one in particular is really validating and touching to me-- especially the idea of there being an "innate self expression to comfort." as a nonbinary person, dressing to communicate something to others can sometimes be super complicated and make getting dressed way too hard. i have had to stop worrying about expressing myself using the fashion language around me and more on just BEING. the only thing i am saying with my clothes these days is "i love you" to myself and that feels SO good!! i love the idea that just doing what works for me and is comfortable is inherently self-expressing.
i don't know how to explain it but your videos exhude a sense of comfort. it's funny because i finished the video thinking about it and then the first comment i saw was saying exactly that. you seem so at ease with yourself that you probably make other people feel at ease too, i think. i can't say for sure because you're just a stranger on the internet but you seem like a really sweet person to have in one's life :) keep making these videos, they're great!
I discovered two random preferences that I have for clothing recently. If I wear open toed shoes, I don't like ones that expose my pinky toe. If they do I tend to stop reaching for them as much. I also don't particularly like having a lot of my upper back exposed in clothing because I find it annoying to get sunscreen on those hard to reach areas of my back.
i love your vids
Discovered you yesterday and watched a few videos of yours and subscribed when I saw this one. Very interesting and made me think about myself and the clothes I wear in a new way. Looking forward for more vids
I’m obsessed with your videos
This video really has me thinking... in a great way. Thank you!
Perfect wings!
I love thisss
You ask some really important questions here. I think when it comes to personal style (and everyday life tbh) a lot of us undermine the power of questioning ourselves.
As I’ve been on my own journey of discovering what I feel comfortable in wearing I’ve seen a lot of content surrounding the topic of personal style and not to throw shade but some ppl who claimed to have found their personal style look like clones running around.. why is that? Because they wanna fit in. Perfectly justifiable. I find myself in the same boat at times but I feel a bit like a fraud. One thing I find to really help with this is weighing in conditions. Is it practical? Itchy? Durable? does it look good on me and not just on the model or influencer? I also know a lot of people find inspo on Pinterest and something that really changed the game for me is listing all the common pieces on my board instead of photo copying outfits. It helps you consume pieces you actually enjoy and does fuel my individually complex adequately 😅
loved the video! the final fairy garden look reminds me so much of how south asians wear a dupatta. we prefer comfort in our clothing as well, given how hot it gets in india, pakistan and surrounding countries. maybe you could look into styles and fashion here and get inspired too :)
loved this one 🍓
This is a really nice video. Thanks!
🔥 video, thanks!
omg the fiona applee i knew u were a real one
I loove your videos, I think you and your videos are very special
! Thank you for that ❤
Where do you got your bras from ?😊 they are so pretty
Brumhilda (Heidi Klum giant) would take Slannen on a date in the outfit in a heartbeat
Great video! Can you tell us where your jewelry is from?
@@sophiawilliams5872 it’s all second hand! The watch is projects watches
Can I ask where your glasses are from??
@@kalopsia7115 eye buy direct lol
I don't think functionality is a horrible motivation. Far from it! Taking your wardrobe as an example, you only own pieces that you know to be useful or believe to be beautiful. Your style is far from simply functional. It's understated and others might not appreciate the details or fit (I am talking about Japanese fashion), but that doesn't really matter.
Comfort is also important to me. To me, it's a given, so I personally feel offended if someone tries to compliment me with "that looks comfortable." That's such a sh*t compliment. If it's not comfortable, I'm not wearing it, so you're basically saying "You're not naked!" Just say I look good.
@@susanma4899 I don’t think it’s horrible either! Just not very romanticized 😅
interesting that you mentioned kibbe because i find that you tend to dress in the lines that he would recommend for your build. According to his framework, you lean heavily into your "yang" side
I think his framework has merit as a launching point- it's good at introducing people to certain design concepts like lines, visual weight, etc. Things that stylish people tend to consider anyways when choosing clothes. It might answer questions like why certain things look cohesive on certain bodies, why certain things look disjointed.
But to make your style personal... I def think you have to explore beyond the framework.
you forgot to shave your armpits!
oh noooo hair. anyway
When you talked about control and having that through outfits that allow you to be (unreadable) more simple or muted color palette, i have never related to anything more 🫢