It's hilarious hearing women say they know how they feel when they compare them being cheated on to a guy being cheated on and finding out their kids aren't theirs. Not even remotely the same.
Already is More often than not situations, even when he actually gets stabbed and he is bleeding, he is the one in handcuffs and her, while still holding the knife and threatening the cops is looked at as the victim because he is bigger and stronger
The last guy is just spineless... He does everything to sabotage himself, and then wonder why he's getting screwed hard. People are their own worst enemies...
"But that's different" Of COURSE it is. She's a Woman, Op is a Man. If he slapped her, her leaving would be justified. But when he got slapped and called off the Wedding, He's just over exaggerating. Two words for that. first one rhymes with Buck, and the second rhymes with Cough. Anyone in Op's position would have done the same. Anyone who hits you for no reason is a HUGE Red Flag and an instant Dump or Divorce.
I feel for the dude but it's exactly like what the cheater said. He didn't stop his emotions. So his emotions dragged him to do things that he shouldn't have. He went about some situations in the wrong way.
Story 2: Let me get this straight. You worked in an oilfield for 10 years and came back once a year and now you’re surprised your “wife” cheated? 😳🤯🤦♂️ Unfortunately you chose your career over your family and are only now realizing it. She’s definitely a pos for doing it, but I wouldn’t really call what you had as a “marriage”.
OP is literally a perfect example of a doormat who has zero idea how to protect himself. He needs to think ahead instead of acting purely based on emotions.
Seriously, of all the stories, these are the ones that, even as a man, I just don't have as much empathy for. An unintentional, yet real mistake to leave a wife with children without support from her husband for that long. I put it in the same category as open 'marriages'. Seems like a good idea up front to the inexperienced, yet there are few if any examples of long term success.
If the sexes were reversed, no one would bat an eye over the ending of the wedding.
Exactly
They would be calling the police and OP would be in jail
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It's hilarious hearing women say they know how they feel when they compare them being cheated on to a guy being cheated on and finding out their kids aren't theirs. Not even remotely the same.
S1: "You're appropriating DA language!"
His fiancée slapped him. He IS a DV victim! You don't hit your spouse, PERIOD.
Domestic Abuse only needs one instance to be true. Any argument against that is ignorance at best.
Story 1 physical abuse is never ok no matter how small
Story 2 if she was not ok with you being away so long she should have left instead of cheating
Them: You’re bigger and stronger
You: But she had a knife
Them: But you’re bigger and stronger
That’s possibly your future 🤷♂️
Already is
More often than not situations, even when he actually gets stabbed and he is bleeding, he is the one in handcuffs and her, while still holding the knife and threatening the cops is looked at as the victim because he is bigger and stronger
If it was him hitting her, i doubt anyone would say she was overreacting
No one `owns` a language when they are abused; those people saying it are absolute Monsters.
Op was so smart to call off the wedding because if op would forgive her then she might do it again the nexts time she gets mad story1
Don’t get married story 1
Story 1: Jody Arias was smaller than Travis Alexander and yet she assaulted him and after he left she went and killed him.
Story 1: Don't accept such disrespect
3rd guy is really idiot , just divorce her and Sue her for child support . And first guy was really smart .
Some reason I doubt that if he slapped her and she left they'd say she's just overreacting
Why the fk is OP paying for her? Separate finances and take care of yourself & your child.
It’s never alright to be hit period. Protect yourself
The last guy is just spineless... He does everything to sabotage himself, and then wonder why he's getting screwed hard. People are their own worst enemies...
If someone hits you, they will do it again.
It's crazy people tell men to stay in the kids lives when they know the crazy ex could weaponize that
"But that's different"
Of COURSE it is. She's a Woman, Op is a Man. If he slapped her, her leaving would be justified. But when he got slapped and called off the Wedding, He's just over exaggerating. Two words for that. first one rhymes with Buck, and the second rhymes with Cough. Anyone in Op's position would have done the same. Anyone who hits you for no reason is a HUGE Red Flag and an instant Dump or Divorce.
Roles reversed not a soul would question whether it was the right decision 💯
Never accept abuse man or woman
I feel for the dude but it's exactly like what the cheater said. He didn't stop his emotions. So his emotions dragged him to do things that he shouldn't have. He went about some situations in the wrong way.
Ask a cop.
Story 2: Let me get this straight. You worked in an oilfield for 10 years and came back once a year and now you’re surprised your “wife” cheated? 😳🤯🤦♂️ Unfortunately you chose your career over your family and are only now realizing it. She’s definitely a pos for doing it, but I wouldn’t really call what you had as a “marriage”.
OP is literally a perfect example of a doormat who has zero idea how to protect himself. He needs to think ahead instead of acting purely based on emotions.
This is why you don’t rush into marriage story 2
Story 3 was while he was in the military right? I'm only asking because military is an hour based job and overtime isn't a thing
Story 2.
You were gone 11 months out the year?
Seriously, of all the stories, these are the ones that, even as a man, I just don't have as much empathy for. An unintentional, yet real mistake to leave a wife with children without support from her husband for that long. I put it in the same category as open 'marriages'. Seems like a good idea up front to the inexperienced, yet there are few if any examples of long term success.