I love story 2. Lol. It has never made sense to me, to keep someone’s infidelity a secret. The only humiliating part should be that you realized you were with a 304.
The cheaters are the ones saying he overreacted, because they don't like the consequences of their actions. It was a mistake, but they kept making the same mistake for a year. That wasn't a mistake, that was planned. And they think since OP found out he should have kept it secret so they would have zero consequences. He did the right thing and made sure everyone knew the truth.
@@sugarbeef Agree. But I have seen stories where the betrayed spouse feels shame and humiliation for being cheated on and decided to not tell people about it, so than everyone just thinks things didn’t work out. I’ll never understand it. 🤷♂️
“She is truly remorseful I can assure you this” Can’t assure us anything cause you didn’t think she was the type of person to cheat, if she deceived you once she can do it again. If she was truly remorseful she would not have done it 4 times
Yup, that "massage isn't intimate" bs was funny. It's one thing if she had muscle pain and needed a specific area worked on, but just a full body massage because she wants to feel good is intimate even if only on her end.
“I will do anything to save our marriage.” It’s like there’s “How to cheat for Dummies.” or something, and there’s a chapter all about how to avoid taking responsibility when you are inevitably caught. Because “anything” is always said, and it’s always a lie. Before they cheated, all they had to was literally nothing. Keep doing all the stuff you don’t have to hide, and do nothing else. And if they had trouble doing nothing, they’ll probably eff up doing anything.
Why do friends and family always think they have a right to chime into other people’s marriage. The guy angry over the message is not the idiot. The wife was mentally and sexually abusing her husband for years. It is like that classic period when a spouse is cheating, then as soon as they are caught, they are sorry and lovey dovey. That is not the ending here, but she was certainly abusive.
S1
She had a burner phone period
There is no saving this marriage
I love story 2. Lol. It has never made sense to me, to keep someone’s infidelity a secret. The only humiliating part should be that you realized you were with a 304.
The cheaters are the ones saying he overreacted, because they don't like the consequences of their actions. It was a mistake, but they kept making the same mistake for a year. That wasn't a mistake, that was planned. And they think since OP found out he should have kept it secret so they would have zero consequences. He did the right thing and made sure everyone knew the truth.
@@sugarbeef Agree. But I have seen stories where the betrayed spouse feels shame and humiliation for being cheated on and decided to not tell people about it, so than everyone just thinks things didn’t work out. I’ll never understand it. 🤷♂️
“She is truly remorseful I can assure you this”
Can’t assure us anything cause you didn’t think she was the type of person to cheat, if she deceived you once she can do it again.
If she was truly remorseful she would not have done it 4 times
lol I just started and knew dude would simp this hard
The wife wrote the yta reply from story 3
I bett she has some one.
Yup, that "massage isn't intimate" bs was funny. It's one thing if she had muscle pain and needed a specific area worked on, but just a full body massage because she wants to feel good is intimate even if only on her end.
“I will do anything to save our marriage.” It’s like there’s “How to cheat for Dummies.” or something, and there’s a chapter all about how to avoid taking responsibility when you are inevitably caught. Because “anything” is always said, and it’s always a lie. Before they cheated, all they had to was literally nothing. Keep doing all the stuff you don’t have to hide, and do nothing else. And if they had trouble doing nothing, they’ll probably eff up doing anything.
Why do friends and family always think they have a right to chime into other people’s marriage. The guy angry over the message is not the idiot. The wife was mentally and sexually abusing her husband for years. It is like that classic period when a spouse is cheating, then as soon as they are caught, they are sorry and lovey dovey. That is not the ending here, but she was certainly abusive.
What pathetic advice from reddit
PhysioTheRapist….
The child is not yours, this sparked the change and n her attitude IMHO!
What kind of deal is this 60- 40 . You are messing over yourself
Beter this then to lose more.
Pie
Where is this commentors degree in psychology...easy to throw out BS advice.
Also, the commentor must think these people hire terrible lawyers.
You did what you needed to do tell everyone that needs to know!!!!
That's right put everything on the man and she was in the right for doing what she did !!!