I meant that there is a second live vocal which is barely audible in the mix - not that Phoebe uses a backing track! :) @@___.______.______.______._____
Hugh Bridgers Hi Hugh, any relation to Phoebe? I love her! I’m an old Jackson Browne fan and know she Phoebe has said she was influenced by JB and Joni Mitchell. I grew up around the corner from Pasadena and feel that kinship as well. She’s a unique young lady and I’ve noticed her growth since her first record. If your not her dad, oh well 😔 I put it out there anyway.
Me and my ex both have moved on I have a kid and she has one on the way, we’re both living with new lives and different people in our lives.. but we’re still in each others souls
This is a mixed recording. There's two audio engineers involved in working on it post-recording. KEXP is often closer to studio than live - but that's not taking anything away from this performance, because it's great live too.
i just turned 23 and lost so many people, lost so many dreams i though i'll have, this song is pure nostalgia and melancholy and it makes me sob everytime
Listening to this constantly as my heart breaks after walking away from something that I knew would have hurt a lot of people. When I left he said "don't be a stranger" so I'm crying to this every day
2 years after you posted this and I can honestly say I'm going through the same thing. Walked away because it would hurt many. But who knows if there will be regret. This song gets it.
See my version of it is, we both walked away from something that could have gone so far.. our potential together was greater… it’s a shame that things change, regardless
@@antonioacevedo634i just broke up with my girlfriend i love her so much but i just knew she's not the one so i had to leave her for us to heal up faster but oh god im in so much pain right now
Walking Scott Street, feeling like a stranger With an open heart, open container I've got a stack of mail and a tall can It's a shower beer it's a payment plan There's helicopters over my head Every night when I go to bed Spending money and I earned it When I'm lonely, that's when I'll burn it Do you feel ashamed When you hear my name I asked you "How is your sister? I heard she got her degree" And I said, "That makes me feel old" You said, "What does that make me?" I asked you "How is playing drums?" You said it's too much shit to carry "And what about the band?" You said they're all getting married Do you feel ashamed When you hear my name Anyway, don't be a stranger Anyway, don't be a stranger Don't be a stranger
Look up the oldie, but goodie "Here Comes A Regular" by The Replacements. The intro acoustic riff has that same "quietly letting go in the midst of the crushing loneliness and despair" feel to it. It's really rare that there are people like Phoebe and Paul Westerberg that put so much honesty and raw emotion into their songs. Most songwriters hold back, at least a little, but I prefer when they don't.
There's something in this song that whenever I hear It , it feels like someone is saying goodbye to me and it really touched my heart and I'm about to cry
i'm still young but oh my god does this song make me feel so old. it's like looking back on times you were happy, and although i'm much better now mentally, i'd give anything to be there again. to just be pure and have no self judgment and self hatred circling in the back of my mind. back to moments with those people you loved most, telling each other you'd be best friends forever, and all the things you'd do growing old together. and now there not in your life anymore. you don't know their favorite song, favorite food, favorite place, favorite clothes, favorite people, because things change. and it's the fact that things change so quickly is what's scary. i don't know what's going to happen in my future, and that's okay. thank you phoebe for making this masterpiece a reality.
Yea.. it’s crazy… I had this friend I had met back in 2019… we barely talked.. then picked up conversation in September of 2020… at first we kinda just figured we’d fool around… obviously that never works… we had fallen deeply in love very rapidly, and we had a beautiful thing for a little less than a year… beings I was so immature and not ready to show her my true love, I had messed around behind her… not realizing that what I was doing would damage not only my life but hers… and everyone else involved… now I have a 1 year old son and she’s expecting in October… we’ve both “moved on” but around the end of last year we had started talking again.. even seeing each other one last time in January… she had sent me the last text saying “I’m so confused… and I really don’t know what to do, and I really want your help” that was her last text man… about a month or two after that I had seen on her Facebook that she’s expecting in October… this is all so crazy man… she’s with her child’s father and I have a kid with someone else… it’s so crazy… only about 4 years ago had we met through her brother… now we both live separate lives with new motives and new goals….❤️🩹I know we’ll never get our happy ending, but in the end all I want is for her to find peace within herself… she blamed herself for my mistakes… made her feel she wasn’t good enough.. I feel like total shit every day thinking about it… she deserves the world and then some…. I’m just so stupid for wasting my Chance with her… we had a pure connection with each other… I still feel as though our souls are still bond together…. But honestly I can just be delusional… I hope she lives her life KNOWING she is ENOUGH.. I hope she doesn’t think she has to settle for less… I have a good feeling the guy she’s with is not going to stick around much long after she has their kid… my intuition is pretty good to be honest… and that scares me
Only recently discovered Phoebe Bridges and I’m totally in awe. Can’t stop playing this song, takes me somewhere really special. 60 yrs old tomorrow and this is up there with the best performances I’ve seen or heard. I’m in heaven every time I hit play. Thanks for posting.
Thank you Life Is Strange for introducing me to this beautiful soul. In the game, this songs plays when you play a record in the record store and usually I'd just skip it and continue playing, but when I heard this, I had to play it back twice and look up Phoebe. So glad I found this song and her.
This is beautiful. This song has a beautiful place in my heart. Found this song in late 2022 when my dad was dying from cancer. I knew he wouldn’t see me make it to my 20th Birthday in February 2023 so this song just felt like a warm embrace of “you’ll move onto your adult life without a father but with a lot of happy memories and emotions behind you”. I still listen to Scott street in my car on full blast and it hits me just as much as the first time I heard it. This song makes me feel bitter sweet but I will never get sick of hearing it, especially that last part with the “oooohhhhhh”. Love you dad. Rest well 🕊️
This song really seems to ring true to me and gets me chocked up every time I hear it. I have been diagnosed with congestive heart failure at the age of 31 due to complications with some exercises i did throughout my late 20's. I swear this song hits on so many levels and if anyone is out there going through the same thing I just want people to know that your life is yours. You can't please everyone and it's best to just be yourself and be unapologetic about it. I love everyone that has supported me through the years and i just want to hope for the best but I know how these thing end up. I hope others get inspiration from this song to keep going and keep trying. I know one day this will be something in which theres a solution. I just hope people keep that in mind and look for the bright spots in all of the darkness that surrounds us.
This isn’t revenge song, this is a song for a good send off, “anyway don’t be a stranger” pretty much implying like “let’s get a coffee or something sometime and catch up” really not meaning it, and most likely never seeing each other for coffee
Also “that makes me feel old” contrasted with the reply “what does that make me?” - I’ve always interpreted this as another nod to big age-gap relationships.
this song is how I’ve been grieving my teenage years, the people I knew and all the different people I have been throughout those years I miss it oh so so much
Gue cinta banget sama orang orang di komentar bagiin pengalaman mereka. I mean yeah memories have no beginning or end but someday you'll meet that moment. At the ending kita juga akan berpisah
I can't describe the feeling I get when I hear this: melancholic, soul-wrenching stuff. Note 3:56, it's like her eyes roll back - pure transcendental stuff!!
I heard this song completely ‘by accident’ driving today on Sirius radio. I was completely drawn into it. The tone of her voice, the instruments used, the arrangement, the lyrics…I remembered the title so a searched it tonight just to hear it again. I was that taken by it. Nicely done.❤️
People really didnt warn me i was going to lose so much people at this age, and this damn song cant be this heartfelt. Its cloudy outside and miss everyone
When you still want to hold on to your previous partner because you still want them in your life. But everything's over hence you cannot just let them go.
What an extraordinary song and performance! Even after all these years. Crazy that this is about Marshall -- playing the drums -- and he brings it just like it doesn't matter. We will be saying this is the brilliance before Phoebe got big. There is brilliance after too, but this is simple, beautiful, and complicated. All in one, which makes it wonderful.
I love this song, but I just listened to this for the first time. Goosebumps everywhere, This is SO good. I feel like this is what RUclips for me is all about, discovering and listening to good music.
i can't say how much great is this performance, whole album is like heaven I really enjoy every single one of them, thank you and please keep doing beatiful songs I am your very big fan.
Perfectly captures that feeling of loss you get in your 20s when everyone & everything you knew splinters. Beautiful.
Beautifully said
WHAT ? are you sure about this
my exact current situation
Yeah it really does.
so true
The way this starts acoustic and then gradually brings in the whole band is just wonderful.
The record is the same! This is a fucking masterpiece
The slide on that Telecaster is just amazing as the drum cue n on the word 😢
3:36 gives me goosebumps
it started on the "how is playing drums" then the whole band on "what about the band" huhu
Your audio engineers need a goddamn GRAMMY. Just amazing.
Kevin Suggs really does kill it every damn time. Total pro.
Well, I would have liked to be able to hear the backing vocals in the first verse, but maybe I'm just nitpicking?
@@Hawkkiwiso true
@@craigisingsince it’s a live performance I don’t know if they even have backing vocals
I meant that there is a second live vocal which is barely audible in the mix - not that Phoebe uses a backing track! :)
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"I'm spending money, and I earned it. But when I'm lonely that's when I'll burn it."
this is a line from the song! gold star for your lil guy!
Dope last name bruh
Hugh Bridgers Hi Hugh, any relation to Phoebe? I love her! I’m an old Jackson Browne fan and know she Phoebe has said she was influenced by JB and Joni Mitchell. I grew up around the corner from Pasadena and feel that kinship as well. She’s a unique young lady and I’ve noticed her growth since her first record. If your not her dad, oh well 😔 I put it out there anyway.
''Same time next week? I'm not gonna be here next week.''
her voice sends me straight to heaven oh my god
true
Her voice of a Angel
lana fan, swiftie, and a pharb??!! 😻💗💗
"they're all havin' babies"....I really like that change from the studio version.
What does the studio version say?
@@annatoal188 they're all getting married
I am thinking she changed it because by the time she performed this version the married friends already had babies lol
Me and my ex both have moved on I have a kid and she has one on the way, we’re both living with new lives and different people in our lives.. but we’re still in each others souls
This session could go directly to an album w/o editing. Says a lot about bands that need years in the studio to record an album. What pure talent.
Real.
Says a lot more about the audio engineer and the dude that mixed this.
This is a mixed recording. There's two audio engineers involved in working on it post-recording. KEXP is often closer to studio than live - but that's not taking anything away from this performance, because it's great live too.
Trinity sessions all um saying
I'm 55 years old. Yes I'm old! I've listened to many songs over the years that bring out the emotions. This one is right up there. Wow.
Now you’re 57 my friend. Never gets too old
keep healthy sir!
oh my god my grandma lol
Hello sir!! How are you doing??
@@kim8665 She's dead
this song is the ultimate melancholy, pure at all: getting old, loosing loved ones, being lonely.
Mate, that fill at 3:13 makes me wanna cry with joy
I literally hit that back button like 5 times to feel that fill for real
Yep and Phoebe loves it too, her lil smile right after
I have been trying for so long to figure out how to play it but its so misleading and deceptively challenging
@@ethanhutchison3180 I can have a pop at notating it for you, if ya like pal.
@@alttrack1 thank you so much! I can’t read notation that well, but how can I contact you over RUclips haha
i just turned 23 and lost so many people, lost so many dreams i though i'll have, this song is pure nostalgia and melancholy and it makes me sob everytime
sobbing crying clawing the walls ripping my hair out throwing up
I’m saying
God, I think I'd just bawl the whole time if I ever got the opportunity to hear Phoebe perform this live. It's just so incredibly beautiful.
I’ve never cried at a gig before, when she played this at Glasgow Barrowlands the other night i cried my eyes out for the entire song
Listening to this constantly as my heart breaks after walking away from something that I knew would have hurt a lot of people. When I left he said "don't be a stranger" so I'm crying to this every day
A year late and this still demolished me lol
2 years after you posted this and I can honestly say I'm going through the same thing. Walked away because it would hurt many. But who knows if there will be regret. This song gets it.
I walked away 4 years ago today my kids are good and I’m in a better place but not seeing them hurts
See my version of it is, we both walked away from something that could have gone so far.. our potential together was greater… it’s a shame that things change, regardless
@@antonioacevedo634i just broke up with my girlfriend i love her so much but i just knew she's not the one so i had to leave her for us to heal up faster but oh god im in so much pain right now
MAN when that bass comes in it’s absolute euphoria
YES!
Walking Scott Street, feeling like a stranger
With an open heart, open container
I've got a stack of mail and a tall can
It's a shower beer it's a payment plan
There's helicopters over my head
Every night when I go to bed
Spending money and I earned it
When I'm lonely, that's when I'll burn it
Do you feel ashamed
When you hear my name
I asked you "How is your sister?
I heard she got her degree"
And I said, "That makes me feel old"
You said, "What does that make me?"
I asked you "How is playing drums?"
You said it's too much shit to carry
"And what about the band?"
You said they're all getting married
Do you feel ashamed
When you hear my name
Anyway, don't be a stranger
Anyway, don't be a stranger
Don't be a stranger
Great song.. The last part its really flowing for hours on my mind... 🙂
@@PZingaro3 exactly :(
don't be a stranger hits in all possible ways
I always look for another song that has the same emotion and feel like Bon Iver's "Blindsided" and now the search is over. ❤
Good call!
The melancholy always reminds me of bon iver stuff.
Look up the oldie, but goodie "Here Comes A Regular" by The Replacements. The intro acoustic riff has that same "quietly letting go in the midst of the crushing loneliness and despair" feel to it. It's really rare that there are people like Phoebe and Paul Westerberg that put so much honesty and raw emotion into their songs. Most songwriters hold back, at least a little, but I prefer when they don't.
Listen to Have Mercy by Gaslight Anthem too.
@@ivanl.8201 didn't phoebe also cover this song? That's amazing
There's something in this song that whenever I hear It , it feels like someone is saying goodbye to me and it really touched my heart and I'm about to cry
This song is so painful focusing on nostalgia and regret it’s so beautiful
i'm still young but oh my god does this song make me feel so old. it's like looking back on times you were happy, and although i'm much better now mentally, i'd give anything to be there again. to just be pure and have no self judgment and self hatred circling in the back of my mind. back to moments with those people you loved most, telling each other you'd be best friends forever, and all the things you'd do growing old together. and now there not in your life anymore. you don't know their favorite song, favorite food, favorite place, favorite clothes, favorite people, because things change. and it's the fact that things change so quickly is what's scary. i don't know what's going to happen in my future, and that's okay. thank you phoebe for making this masterpiece a reality.
💗💖💝💘🤍🤎💜💙❤️🧡💛💚🥳🤩😍🥰😚😙😗😉
Yea.. it’s crazy… I had this friend I had met back in 2019… we barely talked.. then picked up conversation in September of 2020… at first we kinda just figured we’d fool around… obviously that never works… we had fallen deeply in love very rapidly, and we had a beautiful thing for a little less than a year… beings I was so immature and not ready to show her my true love, I had messed around behind her… not realizing that what I was doing would damage not only my life but hers… and everyone else involved… now I have a 1 year old son and she’s expecting in October… we’ve both “moved on” but around the end of last year we had started talking again.. even seeing each other one last time in January… she had sent me the last text saying “I’m so confused… and I really don’t know what to do, and I really want your help” that was her last text man… about a month or two after that I had seen on her Facebook that she’s expecting in October… this is all so crazy man… she’s with her child’s father and I have a kid with someone else… it’s so crazy… only about 4 years ago had we met through her brother… now we both live separate lives with new motives and new goals….❤️🩹I know we’ll never get our happy ending, but in the end all I want is for her to find peace within herself… she blamed herself for my mistakes… made her feel she wasn’t good enough.. I feel like total shit every day thinking about it… she deserves the world and then some…. I’m just so stupid for wasting my Chance with her… we had a pure connection with each other… I still feel as though our souls are still bond together…. But honestly I can just be delusional… I hope she lives her life KNOWING she is ENOUGH.. I hope she doesn’t think she has to settle for less… I have a good feeling the guy she’s with is not going to stick around much long after she has their kid… my intuition is pretty good to be honest… and that scares me
Only recently discovered Phoebe Bridges and I’m totally in awe. Can’t stop playing this song, takes me somewhere really special. 60 yrs old tomorrow and this is up there with the best performances I’ve seen or heard. I’m in heaven every time I hit play. Thanks for posting.
i feel that too (33 years ^^) and at the first note she hits, there is something so pure and calm. It's like hearing drug
belated happy birthday, sir! God bless po
this song makes me think of the greatest person i have ever met in my life
when the bass comes in 2:43 it's completely delightful
I have been listening to this song over and over for days.
Are you still listening sir/mam?
This song was like to remember the past and to imagine the future as well as your current situation
scott street is probably one of my favourite songs, it explains this feeling I’ve always had growing up.
this song feels like my hearts been torn out through my throat and i absolutely love it!!
The harmony at “they’re all having babies” gives me goosebumps, every time. Incredible live version.
Man that like "anyway don't be a stranger" and the way she sings it...heaven
Thank you Life Is Strange for introducing me to this beautiful soul. In the game, this songs plays when you play a record in the record store and usually I'd just skip it and continue playing, but when I heard this, I had to play it back twice and look up Phoebe. So glad I found this song and her.
This is how I discovered this song/artist too. Beautiful moment in a beautiful game.
OMG it's in True colors? :O I never noticed that! That'S amazing
My taste in music is heavily influenced by Life is Strange too
Check out Wolf Alice they were in life is strange
Thank you for typing this because SAME. 😅 Such a beautiful song. ❤
This is beautiful. This song has a beautiful place in my heart. Found this song in late 2022 when my dad was dying from cancer. I knew he wouldn’t see me make it to my 20th Birthday in February 2023 so this song just felt like a warm embrace of “you’ll move onto your adult life without a father but with a lot of happy memories and emotions behind you”. I still listen to Scott street in my car on full blast and it hits me just as much as the first time I heard it. This song makes me feel bitter sweet but I will never get sick of hearing it, especially that last part with the “oooohhhhhh”.
Love you dad. Rest well 🕊️
nothing will ever speak to me like this song
“Don’t be a stranger.” 💔
This song really seems to ring true to me and gets me chocked up every time I hear it. I have been diagnosed with congestive heart failure at the age of 31 due to complications with some exercises i did throughout my late 20's. I swear this song hits on so many levels and if anyone is out there going through the same thing I just want people to know that your life is yours. You can't please everyone and it's best to just be yourself and be unapologetic about it. I love everyone that has supported me through the years and i just want to hope for the best but I know how these thing end up. I hope others get inspiration from this song to keep going and keep trying. I know one day this will be something in which theres a solution. I just hope people keep that in mind and look for the bright spots in all of the darkness that surrounds us.
Omg I’m so sorry :( What exercises?
Praying for you...
I hope you’re okay ❤️ sending love
Why is this so much better than the original? Her voice sounds much more confident and assertive here idk how to explain it
this song feels like nostalgia, just pure bliss. reminiscing your childhood.
just writing this at 2 a.m letting you know I have this on repeat and this song helps me fight these demons inside
same here
will forever love phobe bridgers
Phoebe sounds so great live!!! She’s incredible
does anyone else cry when they listen to this
The low end sound of the Kick in this is PERFECT! Feels like my heart beating :)
bye Emo, bye Metal, bye Punk, please welcome, lovely Phoebe Bridgers
she's pretty emo influenced
This sounds like a song from Dashboard's Places record.
No mention of Slowcore? Good lord, this song could quite literally be a cover of a song from Ida or Secret Stars.
Phoebe went somewhere at 2:13. Incredible.
ascended a lil bit😉
I've lost count of how many times I've watched this 😂
I don't know how it took me so long to discover this amazing talent. Immediate future: make up for lost time and listen to Phoebe Bridgers a LOT. Wow.
Phoebe is one of the greatest revenge-song writers ever.
This isn’t revenge song, this is a song for a good send off, “anyway don’t be a stranger” pretty much implying like “let’s get a coffee or something sometime and catch up” really not meaning it, and most likely never seeing each other for coffee
@@antonioacevedo634
Do you feel ashamed
When you hear my name?
That being the chorus and all.
Also “that makes me feel old” contrasted with the reply “what does that make me?” - I’ve always interpreted this as another nod to big age-gap relationships.
The sweetest voice in music currently
god this is one of the most beautiful things i have ever seen
I love the guitar effect!
That song makes me fall in love with this girl
This song makes me so gosh darn emotional
This is so underrated.
This band is absolute bliss.
This song literaly devoured me since 3 years ago until now,
this song is how I’ve been grieving my teenage years, the people I knew and all the different people I have been throughout those years
I miss it oh so so much
Her voice is even better live... I can't handle it!
This is just unbelievably beautiful.
I’ve listened to this version probably 100 times. Thank you. There’s a deep reason but I’ll hold it.
Gue cinta banget sama orang orang di komentar bagiin pengalaman mereka. I mean yeah memories have no beginning or end but someday you'll meet that moment. At the ending kita juga akan berpisah
than take me back to night we met
I can't describe the feeling I get when I hear this: melancholic, soul-wrenching stuff. Note 3:56, it's like her eyes roll back - pure transcendental stuff!!
if i had to choose just one song to play on repeat for my lifetime id seriously choose this T_T
i miss the way we used to be
I heard this song completely ‘by accident’ driving today on Sirius radio. I was completely drawn into it. The tone of her voice, the instruments used, the arrangement, the lyrics…I remembered the title so a searched it tonight just to hear it again. I was that taken by it.
Nicely done.❤️
I pray and hope she stays true to this style, so beautiful, thanks phoebe.
Just hit me out of nowhere. What an artist
This young lady is very special. Band mates very talented too.
“do you feel ashamed when you hear my name?”
damn.
The perfect song to reminisce to
I jog to this every morning. This version is just such a great vibe. I'm so happy you guys linked with the 1975
Literally one of the greatest live recordings on here.
...deeply fall in love with this song.
God I love Phoebe Bridgers.
People really didnt warn me i was going to lose so much people at this age, and this damn song cant be this heartfelt. Its cloudy outside and miss everyone
thankyou phoebe, this song is the only reason i decide to continue to live that day. thankyou 🙂
It was a pair of shoes that saved me
@@retroboy8696 keep going bruv, ure doing great 💪🏻
Her voice is so angelic ❤❤
When you still want to hold on to your previous partner because you still want them in your life. But everything's over hence you cannot just let them go.
One of the best outros ever
nobody else is doing live performances like her. this fills my heart with so much peace and warmth. :)
Love Phoebe More then life itself and Marshal is a musical genius that should be common knowledge
This is so much better than the studio version
ive been rewatching this all day. pure perfection.
What an extraordinary song and performance! Even after all these years. Crazy that this is about Marshall -- playing the drums -- and he brings it just like it doesn't matter. We will be saying this is the brilliance before Phoebe got big. There is brilliance after too, but this is simple, beautiful, and complicated. All in one, which makes it wonderful.
The vocal run at 4:47 cured my acne
This song brought me tears
I love this song, but I just listened to this for the first time. Goosebumps everywhere, This is SO good. I feel like this is what RUclips for me is all about, discovering and listening to good music.
the best version, hands down!
how the fuck this makes me cry every single time lmao
This is how its done!ive listened to this song many times played in different venues and this kexp one is by far the best
Love it! She's so talented... can't wait to hear what will come from her in the years to come.
i can't say how much great is this performance, whole album is like heaven I really enjoy every single one of them, thank you and please keep doing beatiful songs I am your very big fan.
The outro is better than the studio version but the studio version is still AMAZING
My favourite version
I love that whenever people accuse me of not liking any new music, I can point to Phoebe. Pretty much only Phoebe….but Phoebe!
I am so in love with this song.
Yiss, finally on KEXP! Superb quality as always..Love her album..
She sounds so angelic here 😭
Absolutely beautiful ..the fact that you can hear evry single instrument so clearly ..
Jesus, this is fantastic.
phoebe thank you for accompanying my depression, i really appreciate it 😭🤍