@3SRtales Not anymore. I closed the door. But anyways isn't that exactly what this channel teaches ? That women come & go as they please like a cat and you must accept it
@@PuertoRican-EL It s unacceptable in a commited relationship, if a woman disappears for several days or weeks. If you re dating still, it depends on what you re looking for. You only tolerate what you want. It s your frame. The cat metaphor is just saying „never chase“ (and it works).
40 years of experience: You don’t need a woman in your life. Enjoy life and work on building your life. Then one day the right woman will find you and treat you awesome.
*The BEST thing you can do is keep improving yourself first, then focus on a relationship later. In the meantime, you work on improving your health, your finances, and date in the meantime instead of focusing on a woman who is not truly respecting you. Once you find that sweet girl who truly respects you and you respect her, then make her the one that you'll focus on having a real relationship with. Make sure that you're even ready to have a relationship with a female before you bother trying. Always make sure that you've taken care of yourself first and respect yourself first prior to trying to go into any relationships.*
In my opinion guys, I think we can generalize when we are speaking about doing no contact to a girl, specially if you had a relationship of many years and I think if you really believe that woman is worthly, do it, but in the most of cases, I think the best is do a no contact permanently, many women want you just for attention, and is the best for us to continue our path, searching for new people, ones who are really interested on us, don´t waste your time with these kind of women. Blessings guys from Mexico.
Self development, Creative satisfaction, staying healthy, earning more, these are important as girls would swing by when you have these & there is no guarantee whether they'd stay, you might as well stay indifferent & do good to yourself.
Women will take it as a weakness, if you re easy to re-connect with, whenever she feels like. You wouldn t get this behaviour, if you have a strong frame, where she can sense that no contact is a final descision.
Exactly as Chris said. I went no contact and she came back after a month reaching me and apologized. She also proposed to meet. Just stay no contact firmly as you have advantage over women's emotional strength. If she is not coming back, she is not for you and move on.
If you are genuinely busy you don't need to do no contact and to think about it, focus on yourself and on your purpose in life and put your girl as your number 2 or even number 3 priority. The problem comes when you put your girl as your number 1 priority, you start to freak yourself, the girl understands it and you are fucked
Chris, I feel like when you're in no contact with a woman & she's broken up with you, I feel like most women can't be single & assume they're probably talking to or seeing someone else. Do you think this matters? You know my story lol. The breakup was 2 months ago, she came by a week later missing me & I played it cool. Then a month ago she came by missing me & wanted to reconnect. Her stuff is still at my house & I haven't heard from her since. I haven't reached out & won't.
Just drop it on her porch and dip. That right there tells them you're serious about moving on. She's gonna get upset and make a fuss about it. Trust me.
If you were strong before the no contact and you're in no contact because of a pullback test, she probably didn't take a look at other men. If she pulled back because you were needy and she wanted space, she 100% was probably trying to find a stronger option. You just have to be honest with yourself about which situation you're in. If you guys lived together, that's a huge mistake btw.
I fell for this once but now when women do this I lose interest and disappear but i know she'll be alright because shes pulling away because most likely there is someone else in the background, and its just too many women on this planet to care.
Go and approach her. Tell her "Hey, you seems like a cool girl, Can I have your number So we can hang around " Something like that, keep it simple If she like you, she will make easy for you. If she doesn't want to meet or want to share her number, move on She has to like you more , then you like her.
Can you make a video about how to get interest of a not interested girl. I try to message her like replying to her stories but she never wants to start a conversation. She rejected me 2 years ago but I can't get her out of my mind like she was the perfect type of girl to me. Even when I had a girlfriend some part of me still stuck to her. She was like a bestfriend to me that days. I fucked up the friendship and even got a rejection. Or should I just take the L and move on. (but I can't)
move on. find someone who is actually interested in you. She isn't the perfect girl for you because she isn't into you. If she was perfect for you she would want to be with you
@@fiat_ow7876 You are right. I can't show interest to girls that are interested in me. Maybe I am just into the girls who don't even want me. It could be some type of mental illnes of mine. But the problem is that I can't get rid of it. And don't know how to.
My ex is an angel, I know there were lots of orbiting guys waiting for her to breakup to have a chance with her. But she loved me, strongly, so I’m hoping we can sort it out before she’s taken and moved on🤞
Hello, i really need your honest opinion about my current situation. I met this girl at my work place, we hooked up after just few days and really fell in love with each other. We both met each other parents, we were going to work together, and everything was going really good. Unfortunately, after a few months she didn't get a permanent job, so she was fired. Since then she wanted to go to another city so she can start a new career. I didn't want that, but she did anyways. She applied and got a new monthly contract so we decided to try a long distance relationship, and we did. But it was so hard to go through all of that, she didn't want to come back, in fact she said she would never want to come back, and i didn't want to go there either, even tho we both cry when we met and said we both missed each other. Now she got a new extended contract and in general i said to her to make a choice, her new job or me, a she got really mad and said that i was selfish etc. Now we dont speak for two days, and i really need your honest opinion what to do, i am not really sure if we broke up or not. I still have feelings for her, and i am sure she has to
Stay in no contact until she reaches out and don't cry in front of her or express your feelings in stuff. If she's at least close enough where you can drive to see her on the weekend, the long distance relationship is actually your best friend here. Women build attraction in the time you spend away and this makes it easy for you to limit your attention. Don't call or text much in the interim if she does come back. Try to only use electronic communications to set in person meetups.
I believe the reason why they are “strong” is because they have multiple options, orbiters, etc. And it makes sense what you said… ….”if you’re HIGH value…” 📌
Coach, if i start no contact after 2 months of mistakes after the breakup (asking to work things out, angry hate texts, emotional texts reminding them of memories), will it work? Given she replies to me everyday, doesn’t necessarily address the concern, accepts what she did is wrong, says sorry but says doesn’t want the relationship coz she doesn’t feel the same anymore, that she just changed and she doesn’t know why. The breakup was abrupt and without any other reason, everything was going perfect.
I know its hard but you gotta stop texting her and move on..I been in your shoes before, the best thing I did was delete her off all my socials, stop texting her and moved on with my life
@@bry9895 thank you for your opinion, i did remove her from everything the day we broke up, we only talk on email. I will stop doing that too. She doesn’t mind talking to me, she just doesn’t wanna talk about the breakup. I will start no contact now. Work on myself. Rest everything on time.
@@fernvill27 bro, she literally cries every time i get angry. In fact the same happened yesterday. She cries when i use strong words. Also update, I talked to her mom yesterday, and they said they are very disappointed and angry with their own daughter. They said they aren’t happy with the breakup, they even opposed it, and they too claim she is being psychotic right now, not only with me but with them too, with her own parents. All because of new found job, friends, partying and exposure.
What if gang you had a massive argument with your chick like your emotions got you I was angry and i said very bad things which I shouldn't of said and I take accountability of what happened and she sends you this text I’m at work it’s very busy. I’m very traumatised from yesterday and I need time to heal and speak to you properly. My family are very concerned for me and they think something has happened to me
First of all if that’s your girlfriend and she’s pulling away you shouldn’t go with no contact you should ask her what’s going on why are you distant talk about it communicate about it only if it’s your girlfriend I’m talking about
Exactly. I feel like that's where the distinction needs to be. If y'all are exclusively dating, and she can't even check up on you when you're sick or etc, she needs to be questioned about it. Because if the roles were reversed, all hell would break loose if the guy showed her no support while she was sick.
@@tfkvng3187 yeah I don’t believe that you should go no contact if you see you’re committed girlfriend or wife going cold/distant! That’s not something you ignore and hope it goes away
she pulled away after we had sex I don't understand I asked her to hang out again and she had all the excuses I left her last message on read and deleted the texts I really like her but she all of sudden pulled away 👻
It seems as if she liked you at start but perhaps felt you exhibited some weak and needy behaviours underneath/like you were doing, persisting to get her back on the date, instead of giving the CCW "I don't care attitude" arrange another date and move on, you said you really like her and messaged people online about it, she must of also got that impression, always as Chris says in this video be the one of higher value, make her feel like SHE is lucky to be with you, continue to work on yourself and keep going! Date multiple women also, don't invest too much too early, you've invested way too much energy into this women who hasn't shown/apart from opening her legs one night, that she is worthy. Ask yourself/swap the script, do you think she has proven she is good enough to date you? Have a high regard for yourself and confidence. It's all mental. Good luck! Go to the gym, lift heavy, you will strengthen from this, always stay focused on your mission and purpose in life, girls come and go like cats, have an abundance of options thus you have the POWER, not HER. Easier said than done but it's the only and best way/course of action. Be indifferent of her behaviour, exhibit and possess STRENGTH AND ALPHA MALE traits.
@@alexholmes7249 we don't talk anymore she was the last one to send a message I won't force anything with anyone who doesn't want to be around so I say goodluck to her
This is all nonsense. When my Father had lost his job, my MUM was supporting him all along. Not all women are like this what you are describing. A strong man also needs to have a strong partner as well. I don't know what kind of women you have been dating but this is absolute nonsense. OR women became gold-diggers.
@DevelopAttraction What a pathetic and an immature response, have you thought maybe his mother supported his father because she considered him to be a quality man?
Bro, she's pulled away and come back so many times to the point that i just don't care anymore. If i find another girl i like I'm moving on
You are basically enabeling this behavior, by having your door always open.
@3SRtales
Not anymore. I closed the door. But anyways isn't that exactly what this channel teaches ? That women come & go as they please like a cat and you must accept it
@@PuertoRican-ELi think we should never close the door, we just need to
Get detached from them and fook them the moment they step in that door
@@3SRtales Damn good point, sir
@@PuertoRican-EL It s unacceptable in a commited relationship, if a woman disappears for several days or weeks. If you re dating still, it depends on what you re looking for. You only tolerate what you want. It s your frame. The cat metaphor is just saying „never chase“ (and it works).
40 years of experience:
You don’t need a woman in your life. Enjoy life and work on building your life. Then one day the right woman will find you and treat you awesome.
You are so right man, this agreeing answer is coming from a young guy 30+ enjoying my loneliness from within and building my life as well
@@bYz4rEel That’s awesome.
What about the need for s3x?
@@nteta10k If you are just looking for sex then why are you getting attached?
@@nteta10k They don't have it
*Men are mission focused. Women are relationship focused. So a Woman going no contact doesn't matter to a Man who's on his mission & purpose.*
What's your purpose and mission ?
@@juliend9495Commenting Men are mission focused
I went no contact it's been 3 years now
That's fine. If she never reached out again, she never wanted you in the first place.
Lol. It worked perfectly.
It's means they don't like you anymore
she’s coming back bro. don’t worry
Any update?
At this point I don’t care what they do
Don't talk to her too much on phone, you will get attached and she will loose respect. It's as simple as that .
*The BEST thing you can do is keep improving yourself first, then focus on a relationship later. In the meantime, you work on improving your health, your finances, and date in the meantime instead of focusing on a woman who is not truly respecting you. Once you find that sweet girl who truly respects you and you respect her, then make her the one that you'll focus on having a real relationship with. Make sure that you're even ready to have a relationship with a female before you bother trying. Always make sure that you've taken care of yourself first and respect yourself first prior to trying to go into any relationships.*
What is the point of having such a girl in your life who can't be there in your sickness....
@@Themajoritydoesnotrulemy-iw4ds Very true....
Yeah, its risky for men now more than ever@@Themajoritydoesnotrulemy-iw4ds
She can be. The guy in the video was just being needy and seeking reassurance signaling to the woman he's afraid he'll lose her.
The only thing you need in your sickness is God and a Doctor.
only doctor@@OGTrollTroll8
In my opinion guys, I think we can generalize when we are speaking about doing no contact to a girl, specially if you had a relationship of many years and I think if you really believe that woman is worthly, do it, but in the most of cases, I think the best is do a no contact permanently, many women want you just for attention, and is the best for us to continue our path, searching for new people, ones who are really interested on us, don´t waste your time with these kind of women.
Blessings guys from Mexico.
Self development, Creative satisfaction, staying healthy, earning more, these are important as girls would swing by when you have these & there is no guarantee whether they'd stay, you might as well stay indifferent & do good to yourself.
While in no contact, why not explore your options?
That's what they're doing so that's what you have to also do
Thats exactly what you should do
Women will take it as a weakness, if you re easy to re-connect with, whenever she feels like. You wouldn t get this behaviour, if you have a strong frame, where she can sense that no contact is a final descision.
What's the point then, if you want the girl lol ?
@@juliend9495 If she wants you less, than you want her, she is basically wasting your time.
It's working only is she cares
Exactly as Chris said. I went no contact and she came back after a month reaching me and apologized. She also proposed to meet. Just stay no contact firmly as you have advantage over women's emotional strength. If she is not coming back, she is not for you and move on.
If you are genuinely busy you don't need to do no contact and to think about it, focus on yourself and on your purpose in life and put your girl as your number 2 or even number 3 priority. The problem comes when you put your girl as your number 1 priority, you start to freak yourself, the girl understands it and you are fucked
Great video bro
2:18 This is so interesting!
Today's w/m/n are just temporary. Don't invest or waste your time
It's been 3 years. Think she will contact me back soon?
😂😂💀💀
Maybe tomorrow or the day after, hang on a bit more brother 😂
It’s dead bro
@@OnderHassan lol. I was joking when I typed that.
Interest level plays a great part. You must be very interesting to ur mate.
Chris, I feel like when you're in no contact with a woman & she's broken up with you, I feel like most women can't be single & assume they're probably talking to or seeing someone else. Do you think this matters?
You know my story lol. The breakup was 2 months ago, she came by a week later missing me & I played it cool. Then a month ago she came by missing me & wanted to reconnect. Her stuff is still at my house & I haven't heard from her since. I haven't reached out & won't.
Bro throw her stuff out asap lol
@@p0tah7 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just drop it on her porch and dip. That right there tells them you're serious about moving on. She's gonna get upset and make a fuss about it. Trust me.
If you were strong before the no contact and you're in no contact because of a pullback test, she probably didn't take a look at other men. If she pulled back because you were needy and she wanted space, she 100% was probably trying to find a stronger option. You just have to be honest with yourself about which situation you're in. If you guys lived together, that's a huge mistake btw.
Great video 👍👍
I fell for this once but now when women do this I lose interest and disappear but i know she'll be alright because shes pulling away because most likely there is someone else in the background, and its just too many women on this planet to care.
My ex stayed no contact for a year
Hey Chris what should I do because I really want to ask my crush out because I really really like her and she really really likes me
@@terryl9996so are you saying I should ask her to hang out then ask her on a date
@@terryl9996 you are chris ? 🤣
@@neshifuturowho
Go and approach her.
Tell her
"Hey, you seems like a cool girl,
Can I have your number
So we can hang around "
Something like that, keep it simple
If she like you, she will make easy for you.
If she doesn't want to meet or want to share her number, move on
She has to like you more , then you like her.
@@junaidahmed6486so do you think I should ask Shaina my crush out
Can you make a video about how to get interest of a not interested girl. I try to message her like replying to her stories but she never wants to start a conversation. She rejected me 2 years ago but I can't get her out of my mind like she was the perfect type of girl to me. Even when I had a girlfriend some part of me still stuck to her. She was like a bestfriend to me that days. I fucked up the friendship and even got a rejection. Or should I just take the L and move on. (but I can't)
move on. find someone who is actually interested in you. She isn't the perfect girl for you because she isn't into you. If she was perfect for you she would want to be with you
@@fiat_ow7876 You are right. I can't show interest to girls that are interested in me. Maybe I am just into the girls who don't even want me. It could be some type of mental illnes of mine. But the problem is that I can't get rid of it. And don't know how to.
Use law 36 things that you can’t control avoid or ignore it
@@el-huncho7658 thank you
this does not work with every girl - especially with the ones who are popular.
this Only works if she loves you or admires you.
My ex is an angel, I know there were lots of orbiting guys waiting for her to breakup to have a chance with her. But she loved me, strongly, so I’m hoping we can sort it out before she’s taken and moved on🤞
Hello, i really need your honest opinion about my current situation. I met this girl at my work place, we hooked up after just few days and really fell in love with each other. We both met each other parents, we were going to work together, and everything was going really good. Unfortunately, after a few months she didn't get a permanent job, so she was fired. Since then she wanted to go to another city so she can start a new career. I didn't want that, but she did anyways. She applied and got a new monthly contract so we decided to try a long distance relationship, and we did. But it was so hard to go through all of that, she didn't want to come back, in fact she said she would never want to come back, and i didn't want to go there either, even tho we both cry when we met and said we both missed each other. Now she got a new extended contract and in general i said to her to make a choice, her new job or me, a she got really mad and said that i was selfish etc. Now we dont speak for two days, and i really need your honest opinion what to do, i am not really sure if we broke up or not. I still have feelings for her, and i am sure she has to
Sadly, you're both being selfish. You don't want to give in, neither does she. Best to just give it time. Time is the best arbiter.
Stay in no contact until she reaches out and don't cry in front of her or express your feelings in stuff. If she's at least close enough where you can drive to see her on the weekend, the long distance relationship is actually your best friend here. Women build attraction in the time you spend away and this makes it easy for you to limit your attention. Don't call or text much in the interim if she does come back. Try to only use electronic communications to set in person meetups.
Great
It's true, she MUST submit or the relationship will always be cock eyed and shiny. Plus you won't be able to trust her.
I believe the reason why they are “strong” is because they have multiple options, orbiters, etc.
And it makes sense what you said…
….”if you’re HIGH value…” 📌
Submit? What if the man disrespected you? I cant
Move on then, I'm sure you'll find a better one that you're willing to submit to
She has to like you or care a little to reach out
Coach, if i start no contact after 2 months of mistakes after the breakup (asking to work things out, angry hate texts, emotional texts reminding them of memories), will it work? Given she replies to me everyday, doesn’t necessarily address the concern, accepts what she did is wrong, says sorry but says doesn’t want the relationship coz she doesn’t feel the same anymore, that she just changed and she doesn’t know why. The breakup was abrupt and without any other reason, everything was going perfect.
I know its hard but you gotta stop texting her and move on..I been in your shoes before, the best thing I did was delete her off all my socials, stop texting her and moved on with my life
@@bry9895 thank you for your opinion, i did remove her from everything the day we broke up, we only talk on email. I will stop doing that too. She doesn’t mind talking to me, she just doesn’t wanna talk about the breakup. I will start no contact now. Work on myself. Rest everything on time.
No. She sees you as a weak man. Just move on dude. You already killed the attraction when you got emotional and angry.
@@fernvill27 bro, she literally cries every time i get angry. In fact the same happened yesterday. She cries when i use strong words. Also update, I talked to her mom yesterday, and they said they are very disappointed and angry with their own daughter. They said they aren’t happy with the breakup, they even opposed it, and they too claim she is being psychotic right now, not only with me but with them too, with her own parents. All because of new found job, friends, partying and exposure.
@@adityatripathy3334 she obviously has issues. In my opinion, just move on. It will be better for you in the long run. She's not going to change.
What if gang you had a massive argument with your chick like your emotions got you I was angry and i said very bad things which I shouldn't of said and I take accountability of what happened
and she sends you this text
I’m at work it’s very busy. I’m very traumatised from yesterday and I need time to heal and speak to you properly. My family are very concerned for me and they think something has happened to me
What do you do if you see this woman regularly on a social dance scene for example! You can’t just not go to bend your life to her can you!
First of all if that’s your girlfriend and she’s pulling away you shouldn’t go with no contact you should ask her what’s going on why are you distant talk about it communicate about it only if it’s your girlfriend I’m talking about
Exactly. I feel like that's where the distinction needs to be. If y'all are exclusively dating, and she can't even check up on you when you're sick or etc, she needs to be questioned about it. Because if the roles were reversed, all hell would break loose if the guy showed her no support while she was sick.
@@tfkvng3187 yeah I don’t believe that you should go no contact if you see you’re committed girlfriend or wife going cold/distant! That’s not something you ignore and hope it goes away
No girl has ever submitted to me and I want to happen
💪
This
Is
Cap. They just sleep with sumone else and move on
Stop ducking with one girl 😅😅😅😅😅…….your plate is full already…..
Stop simping, study mgtow
she pulled away after we had sex I don't understand I asked her to hang out again and she had all the excuses I left her last message on read and deleted the texts
I really like her but she all of sudden pulled away 👻
It seems as if she liked you at start but perhaps felt you exhibited some weak and needy behaviours underneath/like you were doing, persisting to get her back on the date, instead of giving the CCW "I don't care attitude" arrange another date and move on, you said you really like her and messaged people online about it, she must of also got that impression, always as Chris says in this video be the one of higher value, make her feel like SHE is lucky to be with you, continue to work on yourself and keep going! Date multiple women also, don't invest too much too early, you've invested way too much energy into this women who hasn't shown/apart from opening her legs one night, that she is worthy. Ask yourself/swap the script, do you think she has proven she is good enough to date you? Have a high regard for yourself and confidence. It's all mental. Good luck! Go to the gym, lift heavy, you will strengthen from this, always stay focused on your mission and purpose in life, girls come and go like cats, have an abundance of options thus you have the POWER, not HER. Easier said than done but it's the only and best way/course of action. Be indifferent of her behaviour, exhibit and possess STRENGTH AND ALPHA MALE traits.
@@alexholmes7249 we don't talk anymore she was the last one to send a message I won't force anything with anyone who doesn't want to be around so I say goodluck to her
You Willy was not big enough for her 😂
This is all nonsense.
When my Father had lost his job, my MUM was supporting him all along. Not all women are like this what you are describing. A strong man also needs to have a strong partner as well.
I don't know what kind of women you have been dating but this is absolute nonsense.
OR women became gold-diggers.
Your father sounds like a loser. And thus, in turn, you probably inherited loser genes.
@DevelopAttraction 😆ruthless. You sure you don't have a vicious girl writing your lines m8😉
@DevelopAttraction you probably pay for women you little dweeb
@@DevelopAttraction😂
@DevelopAttraction What a pathetic and an immature response, have you thought maybe his mother supported his father because she considered him to be a quality man?