Uncommon Sense: Moving from a Problem-Focused to Solution-Focused Mindset | Mel Gill | TEDxVarna

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @Hotelsonfire
    @Hotelsonfire 2 года назад +19

    The “nobody makes it out of this life alive” bit and the “he keeps dancing until it rains” part really spoke to me.

  • @DrMelGill
    @DrMelGill 7 лет назад +564

    I really enjoyed this talk! I hope to see you all again soon!

    • @surveenc6265
      @surveenc6265 5 лет назад +6

      Dr Mel Gill maybe a year too late but great talk!

    • @mannmadantilak489
      @mannmadantilak489 4 года назад +14

      Dr Mel Gill,
      Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains.
      Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm.
      Be Always Happy
      Be Blessed
      Lots LoVE

    • @kurthao3011
      @kurthao3011 3 года назад +4

      Dr. Mel Gill, i enjoyed your talk alot. 🇵🇭💓💓

    • @CoutureButcher
      @CoutureButcher 3 года назад +3

      I couldn't HANDle your jokes but thank you for the inspiring talk

    • @ngqabuthomafu8559
      @ngqabuthomafu8559 2 года назад +3

      That was a good talk you are gifted sir!

  • @stevec404
    @stevec404 2 года назад +200

    "He keeps dancing until it rains!" I am laughing and crying at the same time. From one who has given up on himself way too many times...thank you for this inspiring message.

    • @nellymorales1635
      @nellymorales1635 2 года назад +5

      Me too...same emotion

    • @aju3842
      @aju3842 2 года назад +4

      Hahaha hahahaha dance until it rains hahaha

    • @jonathandenis5249
      @jonathandenis5249 2 года назад +5

      Keep trying bro

    • @stevec404
      @stevec404 2 года назад +3

      @@jonathandenis5249 - Absolutely! Thanks, J.D.

    • @dianamuringo3998
      @dianamuringo3998 2 года назад +5

      👏👏 This guy is amazing

  • @hasnhan
    @hasnhan 2 года назад +43

    ''Possibility thinking means never accepting failure as your final destination. Failure is a means to success.''

  • @saltybananas001
    @saltybananas001 2 года назад +37

    I am actually from Jamaica, 🇯🇲, perfect description, we have no problem ❤

    • @haaste_mies
      @haaste_mies 2 года назад +2

      No problem, no woman, no cry🇯🇲

    • @adulis73
      @adulis73 Год назад

      No problem man!

  • @user-vq5ff6mv4n
    @user-vq5ff6mv4n 2 года назад +23

    Ironically, I lived a life that centered on the feelings of others. Instead of expressing my feelings frankly, I thought I had to live a happy life that would require suppressing my feelings to avoid making problems.
    At the same time, I firmly believed that my inner anxiety or nervousness should not be revealed. I tried to think positively or forced a smile on my face, hiding my unease and pretending not to know.
    Some feelings discomforted me, which I knew I should not be feeling, yet whenever those feelings arose, I would deny myself and suffer.
    I thought this was the right way, but reality told me the contrary. I became more vulnerable. I started to use the "Intended mindfulness playlist' and got much better. It really works 🙂

  • @mothiurNCL
    @mothiurNCL 2 года назад +6

    I don't usually have much time to watch anything more than 3 or 4 minutes, 6 maximum. This man is inspirational and 22 minutes wasn't long enough.

  • @Always.2020
    @Always.2020 2 года назад +46

    What a sense of humor combined with serious ideas!!!

    • @pretinha718
      @pretinha718 Год назад

      Yea I'm using it as an example and a little cautious about how I would be a great fit in this game of your future endeavors to make a bag that fits my interests as I get to work in this industry with the the largest of my fav in that world cup is the best I u ever ate u

    • @pretinha718
      @pretinha718 Год назад

      Yea I'm using the new year for uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu9uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu9uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuu8uuu

    • @pretinha718
      @pretinha718 Год назад

      Yea I'm going back and I have to figure something like a good trip and then complete us on Monday uuuuuuuuuuuguuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uu9uu7uuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuu07uuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu9uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu9uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuu0uuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu8uuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7uuuuu

    • @pretinha718
      @pretinha718 Год назад

      Yea I 99 and the password was a good idea 99 but the only way to make uuuuu88uuuuuuuuuuuuuu8uuuuu78897

  • @jensonalex9610
    @jensonalex9610 2 года назад +15

    He's got a very strong mind to loose his hand and still say boldly and with a smile as well.... "I did everything Single-handedly"

  • @wrsk.7014
    @wrsk.7014 2 года назад +5

    ‘Because he keep dancing until it rains’
    Such a beautiful and motivated ending.

  • @theroadtoamillion
    @theroadtoamillion 2 года назад +70

    Watching this in September 2022 and it’s such a breathe of fresh air. I love this guy! He’s funny 😆 “no problem mon, you have a situation mon” 💯

  • @manifestationwithsami
    @manifestationwithsami 3 года назад +73

    You CANNOT solve the problem if you are still fighting against it.
    If you are still struggling with the issue that dejected you or the problem that stuck in your life, let it go. Do not fight against it. Sometimes accepting and letting go can give you the highest peace.
    Isn’t?
    Some problems are not solvable by our power; they are out of our control. Fighting against them destroys our mindset and energy level.
    Let it go and take a breath

    • @jcjlove
      @jcjlove 2 года назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @Chikathegreatman
    @Chikathegreatman Год назад +2

    Amazing! How the things that appear as shortcomings could become our badge of honor. Just like the great apostle Paul, said three times have I asked the Lord to remove this infirmity but he said my Grace is sufficient for you.

  • @Camille-pg1xw
    @Camille-pg1xw 4 года назад +22

    CRAZY SPEAKER. What a guy filled with bright ideas! Thank you, Doc Mel!!

  • @amamamamamama97
    @amamamamamama97 5 лет назад +127

    Absolutely LOVED this TedX talk! Love the positivity he gave out and how he made people laugh throughout! An absolute gem! 👏🏼

    • @fayeburke7732
      @fayeburke7732 2 года назад +4

      We need more laughter in this world today love this talk

    • @pammiesingkho1786
      @pammiesingkho1786 Год назад

      Oyeee!!! 💞💞💞💞💞😃😃😃

  • @chinthakasml9934
    @chinthakasml9934 Год назад +1

    "Tomorrow never dark"
    Absolutely love your speach.
    Long life!

  • @sepidehpakmehr2650
    @sepidehpakmehr2650 2 года назад +28

    He was full of energy and that made the talk really enjoyable. 🥰

    • @ABC-du6yz
      @ABC-du6yz Год назад

      how beautiful you look ma'am. amazing.

  • @nooraisyah6655
    @nooraisyah6655 3 года назад +29

    Massive failure lead to massive success. Love this !

  • @maryrushlow976
    @maryrushlow976 2 года назад +1

    He is amazing speaker and yes definitely inspiring. Yes I read your book. BaRnna is lucky to have you living with them. Amen

    • @quatran3401
      @quatran3401 2 года назад

      Each. truyen Viet Audial

  • @manoyjayrpacistv
    @manoyjayrpacistv 2 года назад +2

    If all english speakers talk so clear like this then i think learning it is enjoyable and easy. Love his accent..

  • @ninjuhnin
    @ninjuhnin 2 года назад +3

    I'm so glad I got to watch this talk just before new year. So inspiring! Let's all keep dancing until it rains!

  • @dingling2645
    @dingling2645 2 года назад +1

    So if you just take a inventory of where you are right now
    understand
    where you are
    what resources you have
    how much money you have
    what education level you have
    what connections you have
    and then think about
    where it is you want to go
    what is it you want to be
    don't think five years
    think two years
    just two years something that's within vision and then notice
    what it will take for you to get from here to there
    what is the path between here and there
    and if you don't know the path
    find someone who has taken that path
    find someone who has already done it and
    if you cannot meet them directly find it out in books
    you've got the internet
    you've got all of these resources and
    this is the step that no one takes.
    Love it.

  • @fashionlove
    @fashionlove 8 лет назад +92

    Such a wonderful character! Such an amazing personality! So much laugh, so much life, so much energy in him. Such inspiring talk, thank you!

    • @mikeytobago
      @mikeytobago 7 лет назад +1

      i must put a like to your insanity lol

    • @DrMelGill
      @DrMelGill 7 лет назад +4

      Thank you!

  • @tayybasvoice590
    @tayybasvoice590 2 года назад +1

    Gosh, his way of speaking is so magnetic

  • @timothyroberts2103
    @timothyroberts2103 2 года назад +8

    As a solution focused psychotherapist i really enjoyed this.

  • @Gary-ts6dh
    @Gary-ts6dh Год назад

    Wow! - Such a delivery that I didn't even notice his left side until he spoke about it! "Great talk, Man!"

  • @thenavigator582
    @thenavigator582 2 года назад +70

    Can’t thank you enough for the magic you did with just few words.
    You have restored my confidence that i lost after few consecutive failures. I was sooo depressed and then i came up with this video.
    I feel like this 20 mins session that i have listened is the most useful thing i have ever done in my life with my mobile phone😂
    Thank you again!

    • @danislight
      @danislight 2 года назад +1

      Not the most useful thing you’ve done on a mobile phone 😂😂😂😂

    • @camillac.s.279
      @camillac.s.279 2 года назад +2

      🙏🏻❤️🙌🏻

    • @DJ-sv7xf
      @DJ-sv7xf Год назад

      If you learned something from your failures then it wasn't a waste of time - it was an expensive lesson. They taught us in college that the person who fails and stops trying is the only failure.
      Look for the lesson and change your angle of attack.

    • @sbkalatage1042
      @sbkalatage1042 Год назад

      My salutes sir

  • @MnMcancook
    @MnMcancook 2 года назад +8

    Talking about this is extremely important! Schizophrenia and Bipolar disorders are not understood very well by doctors, much less the general public. I congratulate you for having the confidence and determination to inform people of these disorders and the fact that you are functional. Keep it up, and good luck!

  • @timhardman9386
    @timhardman9386 Год назад +1

    One of the best Talks ever.

  • @abhinavshrivastava5544
    @abhinavshrivastava5544 2 года назад +2

    This talk is really comes for me when I am totally depressed and lost my self, really get a great 22 minutes of great talk, thank you for your great talk.

    • @ChristianTheMontana
      @ChristianTheMontana 2 года назад +1

      Find peace in your purpose, even if you can’t always see it. Don’t be afraid to dream but back those dreams with belief and action.
      Much love and peace to you

    • @Zenigma217
      @Zenigma217 2 года назад

      @@ChristianTheMontana Only God The Exalted and Mighty can help us. No oneelse can. So supplicate to Him , The Exalted, not His creation, or messenger, Jesus, son of Mary , Gods Peace be upon both.

  • @andrewacton5095
    @andrewacton5095 8 месяцев назад

    Fabulous talk. Love that we have situations! We should definitely all keep dancing until it rains. Thanks for the wisdom Dr Gill.

  • @sundareswarans435
    @sundareswarans435 2 года назад

    Possibility thinking, Situation for solution, keep on trying are essence of this speech

  • @laurenalvarez4302
    @laurenalvarez4302 9 месяцев назад

    I watch at least 2 Ted Talks every day & this one is by far the best !!! Thank you for sharing your story

  • @user-fb1ys2lj9c
    @user-fb1ys2lj9c 2 года назад +10

    Thank for the hope and inspiration. Now I will find my next solution to my procrastination and fears ♥🙏🏽

  • @tdannichols
    @tdannichols 2 года назад +4

    Perspective is Everything.

  • @CuteBamboo2012
    @CuteBamboo2012 Год назад

    Lord that was the shortest 22 minutes of my life!!! This talk was really great!!

  • @akiadanny9091
    @akiadanny9091 2 года назад

    Keep dancing until it rains!!! What an inspiration

  • @preparingminds-silamsharif1957
    @preparingminds-silamsharif1957 2 года назад +4

    Dancing until it rains is very powerful ..Need such a confidence and conviction..👏👏👏👏👏Enjoyed with great message 👍👍👍

  • @divyanshuji6879
    @divyanshuji6879 2 года назад +4

    Omg😂😂😂..,the best Ted talk i watched till now......he made me so laugh 🤓🤓🤣 thank you 😘..........he has only 1 hand😥 and he is so energetic and happy..... and we are complaining about life...... i got new perspective about problems in life by you sir...... thank you so much for sharing.... take care sir ❤️....salute you 🙏💗💗

  • @thanhhueoan9455
    @thanhhueoan9455 2 года назад +1

    wow, I found his speech so interestingggg, rather than considering them as problems, just turn into situations and then you deal with

  • @london8737
    @london8737 3 года назад +13

    This was brilliant. Light hearted truth. Made me laugh. A good way to learn with laugher

  • @rsalanspeaks
    @rsalanspeaks Год назад

    Added to my Fav Ted Talks ❤️
    A Good Start of my Day 2 Feb 2023

  • @idamurry6611
    @idamurry6611 2 года назад +1

    BRILLIANT! BRILLIANT ! BRILLIANT🦜

  • @deefee701
    @deefee701 2 года назад +1

    This is the best 22 minutes and 6 seconds of my life. Thank you Mel Gill. I will follow you on social media from Australia.

  • @joseanguiano7938
    @joseanguiano7938 Год назад

    Dope, I learned that changing your mindset on how you look at problems can help change that stigma. The word "problem " gets such a bad rap that nobody knows how to get out of it. Take inventory of where you are? where you want to go? and how your gonna get there, finally take the first step and try it. Lastly FAIL there is no success if you don't try. Here we go.

  • @joshuaesoko7712
    @joshuaesoko7712 2 года назад +7

    This just made my day.... I'm glad I watched this

  • @yayrabernicebatse8911
    @yayrabernicebatse8911 2 года назад +2

    Massive success is the end product of some failures. Great talk.

  • @yajushmaanparashar5869
    @yajushmaanparashar5869 2 года назад +2

    This was one of the smartest talks I've heard. I will be coming to Varna just to meet you and the people of verna to discuss my Ideas in the next 2 years, if you are still alive..
    Thank you sir, now i can always re-watch it and gain all the strength one needs.

  • @mojcahenigman5310
    @mojcahenigman5310 2 года назад +7

    So much fun to listen, laughed out loud a few times, and underpinned by really solid, encouraging ideas.

  • @sueharper581
    @sueharper581 2 года назад +2

    He keeps dancing till it rains. Love it

  • @mollypinto4666
    @mollypinto4666 2 года назад +10

    Thank you for this all inspiring talks Mel....wish I had someone like you to help my son who is diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Some even confused called it Schizophrenia 😕
    Hope you're doing well wherever you may be. God bless you and yours🙏

  • @mannmadantilak489
    @mannmadantilak489 4 года назад +19

    Dr Mel Gill,
    Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains.
    Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm.
    Be Always Happy
    Be Blessed
    Lots LoVE

  • @thusspokeshabistari
    @thusspokeshabistari 2 года назад +1

    this guy always give the commentary at the end of “Incredible Tales” episodes . Legend siol

  • @mugambiharmaton2091
    @mugambiharmaton2091 2 года назад +4

    This is pure greatness. I love his energy

  • @charlesadah5929
    @charlesadah5929 2 года назад +7

    Beautiful, love his energy

  • @georgecoelho4607
    @georgecoelho4607 2 года назад

    This came along by accident. Yet I really needed it. I enjoyed the laughter not the slaughter of my current state of mind. I do love to learn and teach. Now I need to join some groups to try, try...

  • @laarawilliamsen
    @laarawilliamsen 2 года назад +15

    Yes! Wow~ You got it right all through the talk! Thank you so much for sharing! We need many more talks like this!

  • @meszaroseszter155
    @meszaroseszter155 2 года назад +3

    I had out of body experience to , very similar. It changed my life till I will be in this planet. Thank you your speech 💚

    • @Olderwisernole
      @Olderwisernole 2 года назад +1

      out of body experience?

    • @meszaroseszter155
      @meszaroseszter155 2 года назад +1

      I been in coma after accident, ( traumatic brain injury) In my experience I saw myself in the hospital cubicle , was very peaceful. Than when I came back from coma I could remember for this strange memory. Our life is so precious,I feel every minute is a gift.God bless you all ! 😊

  • @khalid6569
    @khalid6569 2 года назад +1

    SHORT OF WORDS, Never been so touched in my life, dance until it rains. Listened twice & would love❤ to listen again and again.😂

  • @noora6909
    @noora6909 2 года назад +4

    Absolutely my favorite Ted Talk, such a beautiful inspiring person! 🙌🏼

  • @huntedbyflight
    @huntedbyflight 9 месяцев назад

    Hi Brian, thank you for this. My current journey is to improve my problem solving skills and communication. Thus, thus was very helpful.

  • @camiloalejandroquirozcaste9852
    @camiloalejandroquirozcaste9852 3 года назад +4

    Excellent TedXTalk! I would dare to say that is the best I´ve watched!!

  • @srijanghoshh8633
    @srijanghoshh8633 2 года назад

    He saved your life.Give it to him love him.

  • @ganeshkumarsharma150
    @ganeshkumarsharma150 Год назад +1

    Awesome !!!!!!
    Unlimited salutes to you Mr. Gill
    Really awesome. Inspiring to deal with situation not problems..
    Greatful for your lovely presentation.💯

  • @Seli2770
    @Seli2770 Год назад +1

    I enjoyed this so much.. Such a great delivery & so informative, I’m defs Implementing all of which you speak on, Thankyou ❤

  • @nabinchaudhary926
    @nabinchaudhary926 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for such a beautiful insight talk. You are phenomenal. The way you have described the solution for problems is unbelievable!

  • @pk.lumumba
    @pk.lumumba 2 года назад +1

    Your talk is so engaging, I didn't notice you don't have your left arm till you mentioned.

  • @rehemankisi3413
    @rehemankisi3413 2 года назад +2

    Great presenter great presentation. Thank you so kindly for sharing.

  • @kylehall2457
    @kylehall2457 10 месяцев назад

    Watched this two times in a row, Great presentation.

  • @williamwaugh8987
    @williamwaugh8987 2 года назад +5

    This guy is on point!

  • @UncompressedWAVmusic
    @UncompressedWAVmusic 2 года назад +2

    Smart, talented persuasive presenter. I fell motivated by his motivation.

  • @jehadabu-ulbeh4888
    @jehadabu-ulbeh4888 2 года назад +1

    One of the best speeches I have ever heard....funny too.

  • @sujanajacob1193
    @sujanajacob1193 2 года назад +1

    You make us think in a new way n act accordingly , n that too in a hilarious manner
    Thank you Mel.....

  • @SoulfulAdventurer
    @SoulfulAdventurer Год назад

    One of the best talk i have listened.

  • @beautifulwealth1925
    @beautifulwealth1925 Год назад

    Very impressed talk. Thank you very much , Dr. Mel I m always happy every time and get valued ideas from your talk.

  • @Scole23786
    @Scole23786 2 года назад +1

    He is a dynamic speaker. I watched it twice!

  • @erynamour1485
    @erynamour1485 2 года назад

    I have watched this over and over again

  • @queennefertarimerytmut4336
    @queennefertarimerytmut4336 2 года назад +2

    Thank You MEL…
    Absolutely stunning 🤗

  • @dd1409
    @dd1409 Год назад

    Wow so
    Much simplicity and profound ideas

  • @leilaw8331
    @leilaw8331 2 года назад +1

    The best TedTalk ever! So inspiring🙏🌸💕I am about to set up my business!💃🥂🎉🌸

  • @narendrasinghthagunna1074
    @narendrasinghthagunna1074 2 года назад +1

    Just fond of his speech❤❤❤

  • @martinwilliams9866
    @martinwilliams9866 2 года назад +4

    Another way of looking at it is
    1.Problem Orientated, including Etiology
    2.System Orientated, where someone trained in a particular system, uses it for almost everything
    3.Solution Orientated, finding out what works

  • @TakedownmanLive
    @TakedownmanLive 7 лет назад +10

    Mel is awesome!

  • @diannesampson1929
    @diannesampson1929 Год назад

    I enjoyed this!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!

  • @lancelotkamaka2563
    @lancelotkamaka2563 2 года назад

    Ah mon this is my all time favorite ted talk. No problem monn just situation. Love it. 😊

  • @abiodunolorunleke9006
    @abiodunolorunleke9006 2 года назад +2

    You have a new fan today Sir🙌

  • @nanashinde9513
    @nanashinde9513 2 года назад

    Hon sir how are you are so real your every talk is going on a lourney to fetch results after viewing and hearing you I will be a updated better version of myself you have multiple answers to questions you have given a life lesson problem is situation not problem will I give blessings to you definitely thnx a lot hon sir

  • @kutitub7220
    @kutitub7220 2 года назад +12

    dynamic speaker...full of life. 🤣🤣♥️♥️

  • @lulekrzulek
    @lulekrzulek 2 года назад +1

    this is one of the best ted talks i ever watched. Thank you!!!

  • @dennymathew93
    @dennymathew93 Год назад

    And thats a TED TALK❤️

  • @alumbabahuti1992
    @alumbabahuti1992 2 года назад +1

    Thank You!!!

  • @tadlosintayehu7694
    @tadlosintayehu7694 2 года назад

    Great mind makes us great people

  • @cley.
    @cley. 2 года назад +1

    As a Jamaican, I confirm that this is so true

    • @cley.
      @cley. 2 года назад +1

      Hey this is some golden advice here

  • @PiaLoveBSNRNCCBTP
    @PiaLoveBSNRNCCBTP 2 месяца назад

    Yes! Thanks for sharing 🎉❤🎉

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 2 года назад +13

    "You are all going to die"- Mel Gill
    I have always known this harsh truth since early childhood, but it is true.
    The fact that we are going to die one day means we only time to solve problems now or our dreams will never come true. We need the solution-focused mindset, not the problem-focused mindset.

  • @kensimiyu5926
    @kensimiyu5926 2 года назад +1

    At the end of everything after losing my hand I will say I did everything single handedly * what a joke fun man I oved ur talk and finally the story of the rain maker hw dances till it rains

  • @Brooklin99_dap
    @Brooklin99_dap 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much Mel, you're words are exactly what I needed 🙂🙂

  • @mariomurillo714
    @mariomurillo714 2 года назад +1

    Damnn Much Love To this Channel.

  • @Ramaraj2006
    @Ramaraj2006 2 года назад

    I like your laughter. Your whole body laughs. Love you

  • @vernongrant4710
    @vernongrant4710 2 года назад +4

    Fantastic speaker.