Uncommon Sense: Moving from a Problem-Focused to Solution-Focused Mindset | Mel Gill | TEDxVarna
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- Опубликовано: 7 авг 2016
- In Mel Gill's inspirational talk there are self-experience stories, giving you the chance to change your mindset, your point of view about the problems in your life and focus on taking action and responsibility for your mind, happiness and life.
Legendary Psychotherapist Dr Mel Gill is one of the world's leading experts in Personal Development and a Mentor to countless other Speakers and Trainers around the world. He is an internationally-recognized Training Consultant and is also Corporate Advisor to CEOs of Fortune 500 Companies.
He has been recognized by the Business Times and The Sentinel as one of the Top Asian American Motivational Speakers. He was invited by the Napoleon Hill Foundation to speak as one of the Top 17 Speakers in the World in their Inaugural World Convention.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
I am actually from Jamaica, 🇯🇲, perfect description, we have no problem ❤
No problem, no woman, no cry🇯🇲
No problem man!
I really enjoyed this talk! I hope to see you all again soon!
Dr Mel Gill maybe a year too late but great talk!
Dr Mel Gill,
Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains.
Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm.
Be Always Happy
Be Blessed
Lots LoVE
Dr. Mel Gill, i enjoyed your talk alot. 🇵🇭💓💓
I couldn't HANDle your jokes but thank you for the inspiring talk
That was a good talk you are gifted sir!
''Possibility thinking means never accepting failure as your final destination. Failure is a means to success.''
"He keeps dancing until it rains!" I am laughing and crying at the same time. From one who has given up on himself way too many times...thank you for this inspiring message.
Me too...same emotion
Hahaha hahahaha dance until it rains hahaha
Keep trying bro
@@jonathandenis5249 - Absolutely! Thanks, J.D.
👏👏 This guy is amazing
The “nobody makes it out of this life alive” bit and the “he keeps dancing until it rains” part really spoke to me.
You CANNOT solve the problem if you are still fighting against it.
If you are still struggling with the issue that dejected you or the problem that stuck in your life, let it go. Do not fight against it. Sometimes accepting and letting go can give you the highest peace.
Isn’t?
Some problems are not solvable by our power; they are out of our control. Fighting against them destroys our mindset and energy level.
Let it go and take a breath
❤❤❤
Watching this in September 2022 and it’s such a breathe of fresh air. I love this guy! He’s funny 😆 “no problem mon, you have a situation mon” 💯
Fabulous talk. Love that we have situations! We should definitely all keep dancing until it rains. Thanks for the wisdom Dr Gill.
Ironically, I lived a life that centered on the feelings of others. Instead of expressing my feelings frankly, I thought I had to live a happy life that would require suppressing my feelings to avoid making problems.
At the same time, I firmly believed that my inner anxiety or nervousness should not be revealed. I tried to think positively or forced a smile on my face, hiding my unease and pretending not to know.
Some feelings discomforted me, which I knew I should not be feeling, yet whenever those feelings arose, I would deny myself and suffer.
I thought this was the right way, but reality told me the contrary. I became more vulnerable. I started to use the "Intended mindfulness playlist' and got much better. It really works 🙂
I don't usually have much time to watch anything more than 3 or 4 minutes, 6 maximum. This man is inspirational and 22 minutes wasn't long enough.
What a sense of humor combined with serious ideas!!!
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I watch at least 2 Ted Talks every day & this one is by far the best !!! Thank you for sharing your story
‘Because he keep dancing until it rains’
Such a beautiful and motivated ending.
Amazing! How the things that appear as shortcomings could become our badge of honor. Just like the great apostle Paul, said three times have I asked the Lord to remove this infirmity but he said my Grace is sufficient for you.
If all english speakers talk so clear like this then i think learning it is enjoyable and easy. Love his accent..
dynamic speaker...full of life. 🤣🤣♥️♥️
He's got a very strong mind to loose his hand and still say boldly and with a smile as well.... "I did everything Single-handedly"
He was full of energy and that made the talk really enjoyable. 🥰
how beautiful you look ma'am. amazing.
As a solution focused psychotherapist i really enjoyed this.
Absolutely LOVED this TedX talk! Love the positivity he gave out and how he made people laugh throughout! An absolute gem! 👏🏼
We need more laughter in this world today love this talk
Oyeee!!! 💞💞💞💞💞😃😃😃
Massive failure lead to massive success. Love this !
Such a wonderful character! Such an amazing personality! So much laugh, so much life, so much energy in him. Such inspiring talk, thank you!
i must put a like to your insanity lol
Thank you!
"Tomorrow never dark"
Absolutely love your speach.
Long life!
BRILLIANT! BRILLIANT ! BRILLIANT🦜
Dope, I learned that changing your mindset on how you look at problems can help change that stigma. The word "problem " gets such a bad rap that nobody knows how to get out of it. Take inventory of where you are? where you want to go? and how your gonna get there, finally take the first step and try it. Lastly FAIL there is no success if you don't try. Here we go.
CRAZY SPEAKER. What a guy filled with bright ideas! Thank you, Doc Mel!!
Added to my Fav Ted Talks ❤️
A Good Start of my Day 2 Feb 2023
I'm so glad I got to watch this talk just before new year. So inspiring! Let's all keep dancing until it rains!
This was brilliant. Light hearted truth. Made me laugh. A good way to learn with laugher
Thank for the hope and inspiration. Now I will find my next solution to my procrastination and fears ♥🙏🏽
How is it? Im in it now :(
One of the best Talks ever.
Dancing until it rains is very powerful ..Need such a confidence and conviction..👏👏👏👏👏Enjoyed with great message 👍👍👍
this guy always give the commentary at the end of “Incredible Tales” episodes . Legend siol
So if you just take a inventory of where you are right now
understand
where you are
what resources you have
how much money you have
what education level you have
what connections you have
and then think about
where it is you want to go
what is it you want to be
don't think five years
think two years
just two years something that's within vision and then notice
what it will take for you to get from here to there
what is the path between here and there
and if you don't know the path
find someone who has taken that path
find someone who has already done it and
if you cannot meet them directly find it out in books
you've got the internet
you've got all of these resources and
this is the step that no one takes.
Love it.
Watched this two times in a row, Great presentation.
Beautiful, love his energy
Gosh, his way of speaking is so magnetic
Omg😂😂😂..,the best Ted talk i watched till now......he made me so laugh 🤓🤓🤣 thank you 😘..........he has only 1 hand😥 and he is so energetic and happy..... and we are complaining about life...... i got new perspective about problems in life by you sir...... thank you so much for sharing.... take care sir ❤️....salute you 🙏💗💗
Can’t thank you enough for the magic you did with just few words.
You have restored my confidence that i lost after few consecutive failures. I was sooo depressed and then i came up with this video.
I feel like this 20 mins session that i have listened is the most useful thing i have ever done in my life with my mobile phone😂
Thank you again!
Not the most useful thing you’ve done on a mobile phone 😂😂😂😂
🙏🏻❤️🙌🏻
If you learned something from your failures then it wasn't a waste of time - it was an expensive lesson. They taught us in college that the person who fails and stops trying is the only failure.
Look for the lesson and change your angle of attack.
My salutes sir
This just made my day.... I'm glad I watched this
Thank you for this all inspiring talks Mel....wish I had someone like you to help my son who is diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Some even confused called it Schizophrenia 😕
Hope you're doing well wherever you may be. God bless you and yours🙏
Massive success is the end product of some failures. Great talk.
He keeps dancing till it rains. Love it
Perspective is Everything.
Talking about this is extremely important! Schizophrenia and Bipolar disorders are not understood very well by doctors, much less the general public. I congratulate you for having the confidence and determination to inform people of these disorders and the fact that you are functional. Keep it up, and good luck!
Hi Brian, thank you for this. My current journey is to improve my problem solving skills and communication. Thus, thus was very helpful.
Wow! - Such a delivery that I didn't even notice his left side until he spoke about it! "Great talk, Man!"
He is amazing speaker and yes definitely inspiring. Yes I read your book. BaRnna is lucky to have you living with them. Amen
Each. truyen Viet Audial
So much fun to listen, laughed out loud a few times, and underpinned by really solid, encouraging ideas.
"You are all going to die"- Mel Gill
I have always known this harsh truth since early childhood, but it is true.
The fact that we are going to die one day means we only time to solve problems now or our dreams will never come true. We need the solution-focused mindset, not the problem-focused mindset.
Your talk is so engaging, I didn't notice you don't have your left arm till you mentioned.
Possibility thinking, Situation for solution, keep on trying are essence of this speech
This guy is on point!
And thats a TED TALK❤️
Wow so
Much simplicity and profound ideas
Yes! Wow~ You got it right all through the talk! Thank you so much for sharing! We need many more talks like this!
Lord that was the shortest 22 minutes of my life!!! This talk was really great!!
I enjoyed this!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!
SHORT OF WORDS, Never been so touched in my life, dance until it rains. Listened twice & would love❤ to listen again and again.😂
He gets a big Hand from Wolverhampton England 🌹🙏🏆💥
Keep dancing until it rains!!! What an inspiration
Dr Mel Gill,
Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains.
Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm.
Be Always Happy
Be Blessed
Lots LoVE
He saved your life.Give it to him love him.
Humorous and Insightful
Absolutely my favorite Ted Talk, such a beautiful inspiring person! 🙌🏼
wow, I found his speech so interestingggg, rather than considering them as problems, just turn into situations and then you deal with
Another way of looking at it is
1.Problem Orientated, including Etiology
2.System Orientated, where someone trained in a particular system, uses it for almost everything
3.Solution Orientated, finding out what works
I enjoyed this so much.. Such a great delivery & so informative, I’m defs Implementing all of which you speak on, Thankyou ❤
This is pure greatness. I love his energy
Excellent TedXTalk! I would dare to say that is the best I´ve watched!!
right on I enjoy and love intelligent people sharing intelligence
I enjoyed this talk very much.
Great COMMERCIAL And Show! EH
Great presenter great presentation. Thank you so kindly for sharing.
Thank you!
It's really combination of intelligence and humour..
Thank You .
I really love you. Funny and full of wisdom 🥰
this guy is a genious
Really inspiring what a great personality
Ah Rosie, I love this boy!
Failure is a means to Success.
Just fond of his speech❤❤❤
Awesome !!!!!!
Unlimited salutes to you Mr. Gill
Really awesome. Inspiring to deal with situation not problems..
Greatful for your lovely presentation.💯
Greetings to Varna from Vratsa. Thank you 💓
What a wonderful speech
One of the best speeches I have ever heard....funny too.
Great mind makes us great people
Deserve more views
Wow mind blowing
You have a new fan today Sir🙌
Thank You!!!
You make us think in a new way n act accordingly , n that too in a hilarious manner
Thank you Mel.....
Fantastic speaker.
The best TedTalk ever! So inspiring🙏🌸💕I am about to set up my business!💃🥂🎉🌸
This is the best 22 minutes and 6 seconds of my life. Thank you Mel Gill. I will follow you on social media from Australia.
Mel is awesome!
Damnn Much Love To this Channel.
The title alone gave me excitement
Only some of the ted talks never makes bored