The simple and bottom line answer is people don't listen because they don't care. And I know this because I have been a caring person my whole life! I've heard so many things that I wished I hadn't! The world's full of selfish uncaring people.
1) Lack of direction 2) Lack clarity 3) Lack confidance 4) Speaking only from your point of view 5) Body language/words don't match 6) You're not listening. Not open minded
I think I need to learn to speak more confidently. I noticed the confidence and passion in my voice when my friends and I discuss more introspective ideas. I need to learn to adapt that with my coworkers……..possibly ha
I actually had no one listening to me one on one. I think that I wasn’t attractive. The social worker was prejudiced. That is why. It’s just that I wasn’t cute. I did not ramble because I said nothing. This video disappointed me. I know it’s because I am not cute. I started yelling at the landlord, she was a social worker, that she only wanted to listen to her own people.When someone tells you to leave, they aren’t trying one bit. Many years later, I took a speech course in college and received a B. By the way, I have a dream to get more books published. I also want more people to read my books. Maybe write about antiSemitism. People would describe me as looking German. When people talk about evil German people, I rather just let them make a fool of themselves. And I am Jewish. There was no one to interrupt because there was no invitation. So when I got out of the hospital, I yelled at the social worker for failing me. And yes, I really rather have gone back to the state hospital. The people at Youth and Transition were screwed.
Hi there. I have to write a speech for tomorrow morning and I have to include INTRODUCTION: attention getter, background, thesis. statement . DEVELOPMENT and CONCLUSION. Could you suggest me something or give some tips?
Y’a know it’s hard to follow through with a lot of this when you’re someone who’s on the Autism Spectrum 😅 Communication? Not our forte for the most part. But imma try a few hoping they’ll work…
In any family gathering or with a group of friends, when ever I speak mostly I get ignored or other times no one even listens. In the end its very embarrassing and disheartening. For that reason I have lost interest in meeting people and mostly like to spend time alone.
Do what I do. Talk VERY LOUDLY!!! Repeat if necessary. When they ask you what is wrong ,tell them straight up. Didn’t think you people heard me. Making sure you did. They’ll either get the message or apologize to you. If not, continue to do as such.
I consider myself pretty good listener but getting other people to listen to me is very hard. The other day someone asked me a question. Before I get even answer it they went into this whole thing about their situation and I couldn't even get one word in edgewise. When I try to say anything, the person didn't even want to hear anything that I had to say. Of course we were out of time so I never did get a chance to answer her question that she asked me. It was just a friendly conversation, but I hate it when I can't get a chance to say one thing.
I've noticed everyone who doesn't listen to me also gets angry when I return the favour (the irony), also with people born roughly 90's onward who don't listen will also yell a hell of alot, people born before that tend to refuse to even open their mouth refuse to comment & when you describe the behaviour in real time to them as they are doing it they WILL every time without fail produce a waterfall of disconnected excuses while the 90's onwards straight up just blame other people or events that have occurred. I'm a 97 kid & was pushed to represent my school for year 10-12 debates after my first term in high school (year 7 in Australia), needless to say the pathetic excuses don't work with me.
I’m the same way! And I’ve been trying to figure out why. I try to relax, but something about my energy freaks people out, unless I’ve known them for a while. You’re not alone and it’s very frustrating. If we could only figure out why….
IF I AM TALKING TO MY DAD AND MY AUNTY NOT KNOWINGLY INTURUPT ME AND MY CONVERSATION WITH MY DAD DIED DOWN SLOWLY AND I BEGIN TO FEEL THAT I AM NOT LISTENING TO AND CONVERSATION SLOWLY GET CUT OFF PROBABLY THEY ARE BUSY MY DAD WONT GIVE A HOOT TO PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY AND LOOK ME IN THE EYE ….WHY IS EYE CONTACT IMPORTANT?
2:45 thats me! but many times people dont have the time to go slow...and getting to a essense of something or things... they dont even really care...so how u fiend the right people to talk to?
There are always people out there who're willing to listen to you. It could be your classmates, your coworkers or family and friends. All of these are great place to practice and ask for feedback.
I met with a woman friend of mine and we had a friendly conversation. She asked me a question and before I even had a chance to answer she went into her situation and would not be quiet and I couldn't even get one word in edgewise. When she finally finished and I wanted to say something, she cut me off and didn't want to take even half a minute to listen to anything I wanted to say. Of course I never did get to answer her question.
I’ve had that happen with both sexes. You repeat what you just said LOUDLY, possibly with a EXCUSE ME, I’M TRYING TO SAY SOMETHING IN THIS CONVERSATION (expletives optional here) prefacing it.
The simple and bottom line answer is people don't listen because they don't care. And I know this because I have been a caring person my whole life! I've heard so many things that I wished I hadn't! The world's full of selfish uncaring people.
I agree
But the world is also full of wonderful, caring people too!
I feel that. :/
Excellent answer! Can't've said it better. Thank You and Amen!
but the thing...when i dont care at all i ll become like them.....just self absorbed POS
1) Lack of direction
2) Lack clarity
3) Lack confidance
4) Speaking only from your point of view
5) Body language/words don't match
6) You're not listening. Not open minded
I think I need to learn to speak more confidently. I noticed the confidence and passion in my voice when my friends and I discuss more introspective ideas. I need to learn to adapt that with my coworkers……..possibly ha
Keep it up! You can do it!
I try that. And assholes think I’m yelling.
@@sird2333 I’m trying a new tactic. Outside of friends and family, I’m thinking of just not talking to anyone ever again 😂
I actually had no one listening to me one on one. I think that I wasn’t attractive. The social worker was prejudiced. That is why. It’s just that I wasn’t cute. I did not ramble because I said nothing. This video disappointed me. I know it’s because I am not cute. I started yelling at the landlord, she was a social worker, that she only wanted to listen to her own people.When someone tells you to leave, they aren’t trying one bit. Many years later, I took a speech course in college and received a B. By the way, I have a dream to get more books published. I also want more people to read my books. Maybe write about antiSemitism. People would describe me as looking German. When people talk about evil German people, I rather just let them make a fool of themselves. And I am Jewish. There was no one to interrupt because there was no invitation. So when I got out of the hospital, I yelled at the social worker for failing me. And yes, I really rather have gone back to the state hospital. The people at Youth and Transition were screwed.
Very informative, thank you.
Hi there. I have to write a speech for tomorrow morning and I have to include INTRODUCTION: attention getter, background, thesis. statement . DEVELOPMENT and CONCLUSION. Could you suggest me something or give some tips?
Y’a know it’s hard to follow through with a lot of this when you’re someone who’s on the Autism Spectrum 😅
Communication?
Not our forte for the most part.
But imma try a few hoping they’ll work…
I know what you mean, good luck friend.❤
Open minded means willingness is dangerous.
Willing to disagree is safety. ?
In any family gathering or with a group of friends, when ever I speak mostly I get ignored or other times no one even listens. In the end its very embarrassing and disheartening. For that reason I have lost interest in meeting people and mostly like to spend time alone.
The key is to not get disheartened! It will get better, and hang in there!
Do what I do. Talk VERY LOUDLY!!! Repeat if necessary.
When they ask you what is wrong ,tell them straight up. Didn’t think you people heard me. Making sure you did.
They’ll either get the message or apologize to you. If not, continue to do as such.
I consider myself pretty good listener but getting other people to listen to me is very hard. The other day someone asked me a question. Before I get even answer it they went into this whole thing about their situation and I couldn't even get one word in edgewise. When I try to say anything, the person didn't even want to hear anything that I had to say. Of course we were out of time so I never did get a chance to answer her question that she asked me. It was just a friendly conversation, but I hate it when I can't get a chance to say one thing.
Oh no! But don't worry..conversations can only get better with practice. So don't get disheartened and continue trying.
@@DanishDhamani Thank you.
Is this presentations?
I've noticed everyone who doesn't listen to me also gets angry when I return the favour (the irony),
also with people born roughly 90's onward who don't listen will also yell a hell of alot,
people born before that tend to refuse to even open their mouth refuse to comment & when you describe the behaviour in real time to them as they are doing it they WILL every time without fail produce a waterfall of disconnected excuses while the 90's onwards straight up just blame other people or events that have occurred.
I'm a 97 kid & was pushed to represent my school for year 10-12 debates after my first term in high school (year 7 in Australia), needless to say the pathetic excuses don't work with me.
I make people nervous, I don't mean to though. So now I just keep stuff to myself. :/
I’m the same way! And I’ve been trying to figure out why. I try to relax, but something about my energy freaks people out, unless I’ve known them for a while. You’re not alone and it’s very frustrating. If we could only figure out why….
IF I AM TALKING TO MY DAD AND MY AUNTY NOT KNOWINGLY INTURUPT ME AND MY CONVERSATION WITH MY DAD DIED DOWN SLOWLY AND I BEGIN TO FEEL THAT I AM NOT LISTENING TO AND CONVERSATION SLOWLY GET CUT OFF PROBABLY THEY ARE BUSY MY DAD WONT GIVE A HOOT TO PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY AND LOOK ME IN THE EYE ….WHY IS EYE CONTACT IMPORTANT?
My mom is a narcissist ...it’s very difficult
Mast explain kiya hai aap ne
2:45 thats me! but many times people dont have the time to go slow...and getting to a essense of something or things... they dont even really care...so how u fiend the right people to talk to?
There are always people out there who're willing to listen to you. It could be your classmates, your coworkers or family and friends. All of these are great place to practice and ask for feedback.
Okay this does not work if the other party will not stop talking or interrupting and is usually a MAN.
I met with a woman friend of mine and we had a friendly conversation. She asked me a question and before I even had a chance to answer she went into her situation and would not be quiet and I couldn't even get one word in edgewise. When she finally finished and I wanted to say something, she cut me off and didn't want to take even half a minute to listen to anything I wanted to say. Of course I never did get to answer her question.
I’ve had that happen with both sexes.
You repeat what you just said LOUDLY, possibly with a EXCUSE ME, I’M TRYING TO SAY SOMETHING IN THIS CONVERSATION (expletives optional here) prefacing it.
My family is abusive. I have no one to talk to. It's frustrating. I've been conditioned to be silent. My voice doesn't count.
Broad minded is neutral SAFTY. DO YOU AGREE?
Is this a way to talk with mental health crisis workers on the phone????
Person needs 🆘 HELP with a serious issue.
If person is Low self esteem ?
You pull people away from their correct mealtimes
this is not a helpful video