Usually the groom has no idea what dress the bride will be wearing. I always thought it was a surprise when he sees her walking down the aisle. My opinion is that the groom shouldn't have a say, unless the dress is really skimpy.
Lola must have gotten her education from Wish. She doesn't know how to add and subtract! People who were born in the 70's are still in their 40's and early 50's. I can't with her😂😂😂
If Kelsi was born in the early seventies, say 1970, that would make her 53. According to Lola, Kelsi didn’t get married until she was in her 40s. So how does she have a son old enough to get married? Another story that makes no sense.
This is what I was thinking but then I was like she had him out of wedlock which is not uncommon also Lola contradicted herself by saying that the mom was in her 60's which means she would have been born in 1954 to 1963. Which is way earlier than 1970
So she accused her MIL of being manipulative and dominant in a negative way and her own husband of being spineless! In one moment she wants to crush her MIL of uninviting her from the wedding and in the next she accuses her of being a cruel mother of doing exactly what she wanted? Does she have a borderline or a histrionic disorder? I love how the MIL won against that poor excuse of a woman in her own game! She and Olenna Tyrell would be besties!
Someone's math is off. If the mom was born in the early 70s, then the mom is in her 50s, and if she wasn't married until she was in her 40s, then her son would be 10 or so.
Yep. The math ain't mathing. I was born in '67, had my two kids in my early 30s, and they are 23 and 26. If she had her son in her 40s, he would be the youngest groom ever and Lola would have a lot of explaining to do. 😆
it's really lovely to be able to throw "but I can't I'm just a stupid old hag" back in people's faces. just because I've entered my crone/hag years doesn't mean I'm stupid especially about tech
All right, instead of a case of “he said, she said.” the three of them should have discussed this whole matter together in person. If Lola explains her true feeling ( or not) then twists things around again and attacks OP, then the wedding should be called off.
Lucas mom should've forwarded all of Lola's rude and disgusting messages to him immediately... there's no way in hell I'd allow that woman to marry my child.. she's a lying, manipulative, disrespectful little shyt. She would've made a horrible wife and mother. What person in their right mind would be ok with their future spouse speaking & treating their parent like this?. How did she think Lucas wouldn't notice his own mother was not at his wedding? She had to know he would call his mom to find out what's going on. She planned on blaming his mom for not being there, hoping that would drive the wedge between them... Lucas dodged a bullet.
Whoever wrote this must be math illiterate, because MIL was born in the early 70s, then she is no about to be in her 60s. I was born in 1972, and am only 51. Also, if MIL didn't have Lucas until she was 40, then Lola is marrying a 10 to 12 year old.
a Mother making a comment about the A-line dresses could also be what SHE is thinking of wearing as Mother of the Groom. then again it could also be a passing comment. Lola needs to climb down off her cross, take the nails and wood and build a bridge and get over herself. It's b/c of people like Lola people record EVERY conversation they have with others.
One way to submarine Lola's divide-and-conquer but is for Lucas and his Mom to confront her together. She won't be able to squirm out of that one. If she doubles down, Lucas should propose calling off the wedding. This should Lola to have a change of heart. Better yet, Lucas should break it off all together. There are too many red flags here.
I think that OP shows some questionable behavior, and I while I don't think she is really a bad person, these actions to alarm me at least a bit: 1) she flipped out on Lucas in the beginning and did not attempt to listen to him until after she yelled at him. (I will give this a minor break considering her feelings may have been severely hurt and she was not probably thinking straight) 2) She did not tell Lucas that she did not wish to attend the waiting, and waited until the wedding day when he messaged her to tell him that. At this point she knew Lola was a liar and manipulator (not to mention also being somewhat aware that she is abusive to Lucas), so she should have at least told her son directly. 3) she emotionally baited Lucas by saying how Lola talked about how he actually hates her and doesn't want her at the wedding, when she knew for a fact that was not true, and knew Lucas never said those things, so her rubbing this in his face especially at that time was kind of messed up to me. Not to mention she could have also simply talked to him about this stuff beforehand, and he could have canceled the wedding, It seemed for the last two, she did it in a way to intentionally cause Lucas to flip out and embarrass Lola (she did mention she is aware of how Lucas can get when he is angered by someone) for the sake of vengeance, while essentially using her son as a weapon out of spite.
I’ll tell you what if Lola spoke to my own mum like that let’s just say medical attention would be needed the attitude is just simply unacceptable it might be Lola’s big day but that doesn’t mean she gets to speak to his mother in such a disgusting way Lucas should have got Lola’s and his mother together and get it all out in the open that way Lola couldn’t lie seems she wants it both ways while causing a rift between his mother and Lucas to go to such lengths to tear apart there relationship and tell her not to go to her own sons wedding coz she looks old not that is just unforgivable she should be Left at the alter to marry her own ego the stupid girl
🎵Lola shrieks / no one's listenin' / she still thinks that she's winnin' / such an ugly sight / from the supposed-to-be bride / all 'cause Lola's heart is ruled by greed / the groom's mom is prohibited / the both of them's patience is limited / 'cause of Lola's moves / she and Lucas are through / he don't want a bride who's ruled by greed🎵 (to the tune of "Winter Wonderland")
Lucas should have probably done something about Lola earlier especially when she started verbally abusing her almost MIL to try & separate her from Lucas & especially when Lucas admitted the engagement ring incident. At least he came to his sense even if it was last minute & managed to find himself a woman that is implied to actually have common sense & doesn't act like a piece of shit for the sake of drama/try to isolate Lucas to keep for herself. I feel like Lola needs psychological help given her behavior, a part of me almost wonders if her parents were at fault in some way thanks to spoiling her. I might be looking to much into things but the fact it mentions her working for the first time in her life makes it feel like she didn't have to do much her entire life & thanks to being spoiled she thought she could get away with things & started drama/cling to people. For all I know her trying to keep Lucas all to herself might have been something like neglect(with the spoiling being to make up for it) but I might be wrong still.
It looks like the bridezilla just wanted to have Lucas in an unhealthy relationship where he'll just be an ATM for her. Too bad she didnt think it through, and the mom alwas right to tell him She could have told him earlier but he might not believe her, up until she isnt at the wedding herself. And DANG! She got scolded good. And she couldnt find a man because they saw right through her. At least Lucas found a better woman in the end. Good for him.
Well it was canceled. He dumped her at the alter. There is no wedding, but everything still has to be paid for considering its the day of. So catering, the location, bar, dj all still has to be paid for. Mil isn't paying for it, and Lucas isn't paying for it. All that's left is for Lola to pay for it.
@hex2bin true, but it's still her fault it was canceled, so she bears at least some culpability for covering the costs. Also, depending on the wedding venue and catering, etc. a lot of places have both the bride and groom sign contracts no matter which is paying.
@@lyndellrobinson3611 from the venues point it wasn't she who cancelled the wedding so they have no reason to blame her for it. I do agree that she had part in the cancellation but that's in point from the groom and family, not the venue. I have hard to think they had a legal right to put all the fees on her.
Im 34 and my mentality is twice or three times my age...I agree with Kelsi and not allow this weeding to continue if being treated with such disrespect and rude manner. Lola got what she needed and that is that
I'm having a problem with this story. The numbers are completely off. I was born in the late sixties and if I had a child at age 40 the child would not be old enough to get legally married. The ages thrown around on here are completely ridiculous. As stupid as these stories typically are I can't even take the story seriously.
these stories are hard to tell what's right or wrong because it's all a matter of point of view as a old liar of a jedi once said. what would our view be if we saw the story from failed daughter in law's point of view as we normally do? and we all know like with the cops whoever tells the story first unless crazy is believed more often then not. is there any stories where both have their say of their side of the story?
LOLA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND KNOW YOUR PLACE TOO LOLA THE CUPCAKE YOU WILL BE SLEEPING WITH THE FISHES TONIGHT AND IF LUCAS MOM WANT TO HELP YOU LOLA THE CUPCAKE WITH THE WEDDING 👗 TOO
Im 34 and my mentality is twice or three times my age...I agree with Kelsi and not allow this weeding to continue if being treated with such disrespect and rude manner. Lola got what she needed and that is that
Im 34 and my mentality is twice or three times my age...I agree with Kelsi and not allow this weeding to continue if being treated with such disrespect and rude manner. Lola got what she needed and that is that
I like how Lola doesn't ever think about Lucas and his mother actually communicating like reasonable people
Which is weird
Classic narcissist behavior
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The backpedaling from Lola gave me whiplash. Love the way the MIL played her at her own game.
Usually the groom has no idea what dress the bride will be wearing. I always thought it was a surprise when he sees her walking down the aisle.
My opinion is that the groom shouldn't have a say, unless the dress is really skimpy.
People who love drama are not the best people to be around. Lucas was right to RUN from Lola and her self causing drama.
"I'm too old for this kind of drama"
🤣 🤣 😂 🤣 🤣
Lola must have gotten her education from Wish. She doesn't know how to add and subtract!
People who were born in the 70's are still in their 40's and early 50's.
I can't with her😂😂😂
So Lola didn’t want to just destroy her mil’s relationship she was a sadist who wanted to see her breakdown over it :/
What a childish bully
Lola said OP was born in the early 70s and now she's in her 60s. I'd like to know how that's possible when I was born in 65 and I'm 58!
I came here looking to see if anyone had commented about that. Yeah, I'm 59, so people in their 60s were not born in the '70s.
If Kelsi was born in the early seventies, say 1970, that would make her 53. According to Lola, Kelsi didn’t get married until she was in her 40s. So how does she have a son old enough to get married? Another story that makes no sense.
This is what I was thinking but then I was like she had him out of wedlock which is not uncommon also Lola contradicted herself by saying that the mom was in her 60's which means she would have been born in 1954 to 1963. Which is way earlier than 1970
So she accused her MIL of being manipulative and dominant in a negative way and her own husband of being spineless! In one moment she wants to crush her MIL of uninviting her from the wedding and in the next she accuses her of being a cruel mother of doing exactly what she wanted? Does she have a borderline or a histrionic disorder?
I love how the MIL won against that poor excuse of a woman in her own game! She and Olenna Tyrell would be besties!
Lola really was a bridezilla, just the fact she never tried to just be a decent person and really tried to manipulate her MIL and husband😂
Someone's math is off. If the mom was born in the early 70s, then the mom is in her 50s, and if she wasn't married until she was in her 40s, then her son would be 10 or so.
So someone can't have a child before marriage
@@chrishickey9510 they didn't say she did. And if she had, the fiance would be jumping down her throat for it.
Yep. The math ain't mathing. I was born in '67, had my two kids in my early 30s, and they are 23 and 26. If she had her son in her 40s, he would be the youngest groom ever and Lola would have a lot of explaining to do. 😆
She needs a blush pink straight jacket to match her wedding dress
Lola tried to be a wannabe Junko Enoshima only for karma to smack her across the face with a welding glove.
Junko is a lot more charming
it's really lovely to be able to throw "but I can't I'm just a stupid old hag" back in people's faces. just because I've entered my crone/hag years doesn't mean I'm stupid especially about tech
as someone born in the late 50s I take umbrage with saying someone born in the 70s is old!
Lola is one of those people who gets mad at the person who did exactly what she told them to do.
So. A woman
(Its a joke people)
@@SifGreyfangPhhhhlllllllltttt 🥴🥴🥴🥴
Guess I'm ancient. I was born in early 60s
Me too, my grandson used to say that I was so old I had dinosaurs for pets 😭🤭😂
What does that make my mom? She was born in the 50s.
Me Too 😂
I was born in the 60's. I don't even have a grandchild old enough to get married. Makes me wonder if this bride Lola is in her teens.
Me too....and I'm a great-grandmother now. I never interfered with my kids' weddings either. I was MOTB/G and a gracious guest.
Lola would freak out if I were one of Lucas’ relatives. I will be 70 at my next birthday.
"Whatever Lola wants, Lola gets!" (plus more) as the song goes.😅
All right, instead of a case of “he said, she said.” the three of them should have discussed this whole matter together in person. If Lola explains her true feeling ( or not) then twists things around again and attacks OP, then the wedding should be called off.
I don't get peoples obsession with the perfect looking wedding. Surely it should be a family event about love and not appearance.
Lola needs some serious bride training, she also needs to learn some manners.
I’m only a couple minutes in, but WTAF IS WRONG WITH THIS CHICK?!? 😂
when I tease bullies with their own words, they act offended and ask to stop being childish.
god only can understand these people.
Lucas, run, man, run as fast as you can!!
Dress incident =High maintenance fiancé =Good bye
If weddings like this are so stressful why do it?
There’s a reason Bridezilla was ‘invented’
Lucas mom should've forwarded all of Lola's rude and disgusting messages to him immediately... there's no way in hell I'd allow that woman to marry my child.. she's a lying, manipulative, disrespectful little shyt. She would've made a horrible wife and mother. What person in their right mind would be ok with their future spouse speaking & treating their parent like this?. How did she think Lucas wouldn't notice his own mother was not at his wedding? She had to know he would call his mom to find out what's going on. She planned on blaming his mom for not being there, hoping that would drive the wedge between them... Lucas dodged a bullet.
Geez another bridezilla......
Lola is off her tree, sad!!
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Is this girl a five year old or something?
Lmao Lola is a certified fruit loop. And super annoying. Great story. Lmao😂
Call me a mommas boy but if I heard of my girlfriend or soon to be wife talking to my own mother like that im calling the wedding off
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Whoever wrote this must be math illiterate, because MIL was born in the early 70s, then she is no about to be in her 60s. I was born in 1972, and am only 51. Also, if MIL didn't have Lucas until she was 40, then Lola is marrying a 10 to 12 year old.
Advice to nasty fiancees: Always wait until AFTER the wedding before you abuse your in-laws! 😁😁
Kelsi wouldn’t want to go the wedding even if she asked and Lola is acting like a child getting all fussy.
a Mother making a comment about the A-line dresses could also be what SHE is thinking of wearing as Mother of the Groom. then again it could also be a passing comment. Lola needs to climb down off her cross, take the nails and wood and build a bridge and get over herself. It's b/c of people like Lola people record EVERY conversation they have with others.
As someone born in the 60s and nowhere near my 70s, someone born in the 70's is at least in their 40s.
Yes, the oldest would be 53, if you're born in 1970 (my ex) and 1979, would be 44
My parents are 53 and 51
A person born in the early 70's would only be 53 at most. Not in their 60"s
If kelsi was born in the early 70s, she would be no older than 53😭
I'm born on the early 70's. Didn't know I was s granny
Lola seems like she needs to be medicated. Lola is displaying Bi-polar behavior. Lola's attitude can turn on and off like a light switch.
Then I'm prehistoric.. born in the early 50's
50s also
Right there with you!
Me too!
What was she thinking trying to alienate her mother in law who was being nothing but nice to her?
She was probably trying to isolate her future husband to ensure that he would be totally dependent on her alone.
Hey Air Texts if you want polite non aggressive comments then quit posting texts that put people in those moods.
One way to submarine Lola's divide-and-conquer but is for Lucas and his Mom to confront her together. She won't be able to squirm out of that one.
If she doubles down, Lucas should propose calling off the wedding. This should Lola to have a change of heart.
Better yet, Lucas should break it off all together. There are too many red flags here.
Why do women always seem to think that weddings are only for them? I'm pretty sure the groom is just as important.
I think that OP shows some questionable behavior, and I while I don't think she is really a bad person, these actions to alarm me at least a bit:
1) she flipped out on Lucas in the beginning and did not attempt to listen to him until after she yelled at him. (I will give this a minor break considering her feelings may have been severely hurt and she was not probably thinking straight)
2) She did not tell Lucas that she did not wish to attend the waiting, and waited until the wedding day when he messaged her to tell him that. At this point she knew Lola was a liar and manipulator (not to mention also being somewhat aware that she is abusive to Lucas), so she should have at least told her son directly.
3) she emotionally baited Lucas by saying how Lola talked about how he actually hates her and doesn't want her at the wedding, when she knew for a fact that was not true, and knew Lucas never said those things, so her rubbing this in his face especially at that time was kind of messed up to me. Not to mention she could have also simply talked to him about this stuff beforehand, and he could have canceled the wedding,
It seemed for the last two, she did it in a way to intentionally cause Lucas to flip out and embarrass Lola (she did mention she is aware of how Lucas can get when he is angered by someone) for the sake of vengeance, while essentially using her son as a weapon out of spite.
All good points especially the last one
I’ll tell you what if Lola spoke to my own mum like that let’s just say medical attention would be needed the attitude is just simply unacceptable it might be Lola’s big day but that doesn’t mean she gets to speak to his mother in such a disgusting way Lucas should have got Lola’s and his mother together and get it all out in the open that way Lola couldn’t lie seems she wants it both ways while causing a rift between his mother and Lucas to go to such lengths to tear apart there relationship and tell her not to go to her own sons wedding coz she looks old not that is just unforgivable she should be Left at the alter to marry her own ego the stupid girl
My family is the same way. Lola would be getting some percussive maintenance to the noggin.
My dad was born in 1972, and he turned 51 last July...
🎵Lola shrieks / no one's listenin' / she still thinks that she's winnin' / such an ugly sight / from the supposed-to-be bride / all 'cause Lola's heart is ruled by greed / the groom's mom is prohibited / the both of them's patience is limited / 'cause of Lola's moves / she and Lucas are through / he don't want a bride who's ruled by greed🎵 (to the tune of "Winter Wonderland")
Her name made me think of The Kinks 🤭
@@bridgetdebourgh5698 And she's a dedicated follower of fashion all day and all of the night.
Good one.
So i think the mil is in late 40s early 50s if born in the early 70s ...i would call out my dumb daughter in law lol
A tad annoyed that the voice artist thinks a person who is 50 years old talks as if they're 96 - I need a lie down.
My kids were born in the early 70’s.
Lucas should have probably done something about Lola earlier especially when she started verbally abusing her almost MIL to try & separate her from Lucas & especially when Lucas admitted the engagement ring incident. At least he came to his sense even if it was last minute & managed to find himself a woman that is implied to actually have common sense & doesn't act like a piece of shit for the sake of drama/try to isolate Lucas to keep for herself.
I feel like Lola needs psychological help given her behavior, a part of me almost wonders if her parents were at fault in some way thanks to spoiling her. I might be looking to much into things but the fact it mentions her working for the first time in her life makes it feel like she didn't have to do much her entire life & thanks to being spoiled she thought she could get away with things & started drama/cling to people. For all I know her trying to keep Lucas all to herself might have been something like neglect(with the spoiling being to make up for it) but I might be wrong still.
also, what dafuq Lola was expecting at the wedding from her soon to be husband, when he cant find his own mother there?
Top-notch work!
If the mother was born in the early 70’s then she is in her early 50’s not 60’s. Do the math.
The failed gold digger.
Lola is clearly a walking red flag.
Crimson
A very nice video again.
It looks like the bridezilla just wanted to have Lucas in an unhealthy relationship where he'll just be an ATM for her. Too bad she didnt think it through, and the mom alwas right to tell him
She could have told him earlier but he might not believe her, up until she isnt at the wedding herself.
And DANG! She got scolded good. And she couldnt find a man because they saw right through her. At least Lucas found a better woman in the end. Good for him.
Welcome.....to Bridezillas: The AirTexts Edition!
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Lovely voice acting. 😂
Lola didn't cancel the wedding, why would she have to pay? Just looks like a kind of plot device to end the story with her being in debt.
Well it was canceled. He dumped her at the alter. There is no wedding, but everything still has to be paid for considering its the day of. So catering, the location, bar, dj all still has to be paid for. Mil isn't paying for it, and Lucas isn't paying for it. All that's left is for Lola to pay for it.
@@kianaone2610 yeah but who ordered the wedding? Who signed to pay for it? I'm pretty sure it wasn't Lola. And it still wasn't she who cancelled it.
@hex2bin true, but it's still her fault it was canceled, so she bears at least some culpability for covering the costs. Also, depending on the wedding venue and catering, etc. a lot of places have both the bride and groom sign contracts no matter which is paying.
@@lyndellrobinson3611 from the venues point it wasn't she who cancelled the wedding so they have no reason to blame her for it. I do agree that she had part in the cancellation but that's in point from the groom and family, not the venue. I have hard to think they had a legal right to put all the fees on her.
Lol. I was born in the early 50s
Same here! One of my grandsons asked me if I was around with the dinosaurs! A long time ago. He's thirty now.
Her math is a bit off... Early 1970's is not 60+...😖😳🤪
“All of THE sudden” is bad grammar. The correct phrase is “all of A sudden”.
Another one that bothers me is If you think this will happen, then you have another thing coming. Its another think.
@@dorothylloyd1804 Sounds like 🎵You got another thing comin'🎵 is a more popular Judas Priest lyric than we thought. LOL
Im 34 and my mentality is twice or three times my age...I agree with Kelsi and not allow this weeding to continue if being treated with such disrespect and rude manner. Lola got what she needed and that is that
Lola sounds a bit Bi-polar. First I thought pregnant, but it goes back too far.
Fiancée is spelled with two e’s if it’s a woman.
Born in the early '70s = being in her 60s? 😂
She said almost 60 so maybe late 50s?
@@KCohere33 Still, bad math.
I'm having a problem with this story. The numbers are completely off. I was born in the late sixties and if I had a child at age 40 the child would not be old enough to get legally married.
The ages thrown around on here are completely ridiculous. As stupid as these stories typically are I can't even take the story seriously.
these stories are hard to tell what's right or wrong because it's all a matter of point of view as a old liar of a jedi once said. what would our view be if we saw the story from failed daughter in law's point of view as we normally do? and we all know like with the cops whoever tells the story first unless crazy is believed more often then not. is there any stories where both have their say of their side of the story?
LOLA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND KNOW YOUR PLACE TOO LOLA THE CUPCAKE YOU WILL BE SLEEPING WITH THE FISHES TONIGHT AND IF LUCAS MOM WANT TO HELP YOU LOLA THE CUPCAKE WITH THE WEDDING 👗 TOO
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@@lorannamoody7011 AWESOME TOO
Im 34 and my mentality is twice or three times my age...I agree with Kelsi and not allow this weeding to continue if being treated with such disrespect and rude manner. Lola got what she needed and that is that
Im 34 and my mentality is twice or three times my age...I agree with Kelsi and not allow this weeding to continue if being treated with such disrespect and rude manner. Lola got what she needed and that is that