Why You Never Get Started (Parents You Need To Hear This)

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024

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  • @andrefranque5155
    @andrefranque5155 4 месяца назад +40

    Amen to that. When our twin toddlers were born 3 years ago, I decided they should be bilingual. And to make it happen, I only speak to them in English day and night while their mother speaks Portuguese with them. And soon enough, they already can speak English and Portuguese -- two languages -- at such a young age. And guess what, we're raising them in Mozambique where they're exposed to many other local languages.

    • @jaminelola9255
      @jaminelola9255 4 месяца назад +2

      We do the same for our children. We speak English and French, plus orher different local languages.

    • @rosianiefelix2644
      @rosianiefelix2644 4 месяца назад +3

      Many Blessings to your family. Exposure,even as adults, is so helpful with learning languages. I speak Kreyol and a little spanish but my husband only english. Thank GOD it is never to late but earlier is better and I understand and respect This mans message.

  • @sakinabivins9415
    @sakinabivins9415 3 месяца назад +5

    You are using your platform to help support children and families by teaching strategies that will not only help improve reading skills, but life skills as well. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, your passion, and your love!!

  • @alanafraser8136
    @alanafraser8136 4 месяца назад +5

    When we say we don’t have time what we are really saying is “I don’t know how to start and I think it’s going to hard” ~ wow so so true, needed to hear that❤️ beautiful video so grateful

  • @nicoleperry1107
    @nicoleperry1107 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for being straightforward and caring. I came here for one reason and it's turned into another. I've put off serious studying to get my teaching license in a few weeks, and the pressure is getting intense! I'm overwhelmed, struggling with self-doubt and fear of success. I will use your tips for my current obstacle, and then move on to the next goal.

  • @lovejoy_23
    @lovejoy_23 3 месяца назад +3

    Having a vision for them is so necessary. Children will usually rise to the occasion when you have higher expectations for them. Proven in studies too. Naturally, they should be reasonable and attainable with a clear idea on how to reach the goals. I had goals for my children to ride bikes without training wheels by age 4. So far both of my eldest two achieved that goal 2-4 weeks before their 4th birthdays and never used training wheels.
    We started with a very lightweight balance bike, Strider Pro 12-in (6.5lbs) around 12-18 months old. Once they were balancing/gliding confidently at faster speeds and able to handle turns/steering, I started researching best beginner bikes and was guided to look for a lightweight pedal bike WITHOUT coaster brakes.
    Children will naturally back pedal a tiny bit when learning to fist pedal and balance at the same time, so coaster brakes will hinder them and cause frustration. You want hand breaks instead. I went with a super lightweight (

  • @lleradegale7591
    @lleradegale7591 4 месяца назад +14

    I am so glad l found your page l am teaching my son now and he is reading now

  • @lagoya
    @lagoya 4 месяца назад +8

    My 2yo knows that if he wants to watch a show on tv, he needs to go over his letter sounds first. It’s easy… we have foam letters which he brings to me, we go over the sounds, I mix them up and have him locate each one by the sound it makes, done ✅. He knows half his letters already in a month of doing it this way and there is zero stress for either of us! I am so grateful for this channel giving me the idea.

    • @djkb125
      @djkb125 4 месяца назад

      When did you start this? My son is 21 months old, so not quite 2 yet. He has trouble saying words and sounds but understands a lot. I want to be proactive with this stuff but haven’t because of his age, naturally. He’s at the age where I need to start implementing some of these strategies but I don’t want to expect more than is reasonable. I just know there’s a big difference between a toddler that’s 1y9m and 2y9m.

    • @lagoya
      @lagoya 4 месяца назад +2

      @@djkb125 oh yeah my son is turning 3 next month. And, he was showing signs of readiness i.e., good expressive and receptive language skills, the ability to focus and the desire to learn. With his older brother it was different, the focus wasn’t there and I didn’t push reading skills much at all. (I hadn’t discovered this channel yet.) When he was nearly 5, my mom who is a former teacher bribed him with lego sets until he could read basic stuff. He picked up the rest from video games 😅. He’s reading well above his grade level now. Maybe part of the reason my younger boy is so cooperative is that he sees his brother has to do some things also before he turns on the tv-read a book, do some math drills, exercise, etc.
      This is all to say, I think the main thing is to keep it fun for your kid and don’t worry about missing a window of time with learning-what might take them a year at 2 can take only a month at 4 or 5. If you are an attentive and loving parent, your child will do fine.

    • @djkb125
      @djkb125 4 месяца назад +2

      @@lagoya ❤️❤️ Thank you for that insight. I want to follow his readiness lead while still not neglecting these important things. It sounds like your toddlers are thriving. I just need to be patient and know we’ll work together when the time comes. I can start adding more Spanish at home now though!!

  • @SofiItaly
    @SofiItaly 4 месяца назад +2

    Wow, thank you so much! It's just exactly what I needed to hear. I am overwhelmed with opportunities. There's no lack of information on how to teach your child (I am very grateful for that), no lack of material like games, markers, playdough etc. But I feel that I as a parent have become a bottle neck. I feel stuck, lack of energy, unable to organize and motivate a child. Thank you so much for your advice! It seems exactly what I needed.

  • @leeannmoney254
    @leeannmoney254 4 месяца назад +4

    What I want for my grandson is for him to be able to control his emotions, frustration and anger so that he is able to communicate better.

  • @Leslie1995.
    @Leslie1995. 8 дней назад

    1000000 agree with you! My second language is English and I was scared at first I did not want to teach my 4 year old the wrong way. I got over the fear and did a lot of research! In less than 6 months my child was already reading cvc before he got to Kindergarten. He was placed in advanced classes right now he is 6 years old and he still in advanced reading classes. I wish I could of teach him to read earlier. Right now I have a 2 year old and he knows all 26 alphabet sounds. We are working to read cvc sounds very soon!

  • @justsomelady8620
    @justsomelady8620 4 месяца назад +58

    Sir, I homeschool 4 young children. You are spot on. Great advice. I get so caught up in thinking I’m not good enough to teach them xyz and I put off teaching them so much more. I need to get over it and take more action.
    1) I will have my 3 year old reading kindergarten books by the end of this summer.
    2) My 4 year old will be able to read picture books and write the alphabet by Christmas.
    3) My 7 year old is a very advanced reader and I will start her on a second language today.
    4) My 9 year old will strengthen spelling skills and we will master long division by Christmas.
    I so want them to have and be everything they can be. I will lovingly guide them to reach their potential. We start today. I CAN teach them all these things.

    • @zakgreenberg1615
      @zakgreenberg1615 4 месяца назад +2

      Good for you! But what if they aren’t ready to achieve each of those goals by the deadlines you’ve set? Your goals should be about allotting time to helping your kids. They will reach their own milestones in their own time. By deqdlining their milestones, you’re creating a scenario where, if they fall behind, they will feel pressured to catch up, and that pressure will hinder the learning process.

    • @justsomelady8620
      @justsomelady8620 4 месяца назад

      @@zakgreenberg1615 these timed goals are for myself. If they don’t reach them by the time, I will readjust my method and keep pushing. Of course they grow as they are ready. But I’m not using my own insecurities as an excuse to procrastinate or limit their abilities. They may also surpass these goals well before the time limit. The point is, I need to stop limiting them.

    • @justsomelady8620
      @justsomelady8620 4 месяца назад +10

      @@zakgreenberg1615 I should clarify, these timed goals are for me as their teacher. The point is I won’t let my insecurities impede their pace. They may achieve much more than I hoped in this time limit too. I wasn’t throwing a gauntlet down saying they must reach these goals, or else. Far from it. They are ready and hungry to learn. I need to rise to the occasion. That’s all!

    • @OneVegetarianMommy
      @OneVegetarianMommy 4 месяца назад +6

      U go mama!!! We can do it

    • @excitedaboutlearning1639
      @excitedaboutlearning1639 3 месяца назад +1

      If you're interested in fantastic, free language courses check, Language Transfer. The courses are basically recordings of a teacher and a student. If you go through a course first by yourself WITHOUT looking at the transcript AND thinking about the questions yourself, you'll learn the language, too. You can then later check out the transcript and assume the role of the teacher and follow the transcript and have your kid assume the role of the student.
      Remember, though, that kids have their own interests and timeline. If they don't feel like it, it won't do much good to force them. But Language Transfer's method is very active and will likely engage their curiosity. You can find Complete Spanish and other courses on RUclips.

  • @sofiaxeniasmith2055
    @sofiaxeniasmith2055 Месяц назад

    Thank God i found your videos they are a huge help with homeschooling my 4 year old twin boys thank you!!!

  • @shawntoriawilliams921
    @shawntoriawilliams921 4 месяца назад +9

    Progress not perfection

  • @anuna761
    @anuna761 12 дней назад

    Thank you for acknowledging & for sharing about how sometimes a guides/parents mindset can be the very thing that stops them. That resonated a lot with me & was something I needed to hear today to heal my inner child + other versions of self who keep me from doing exactly what I want to do most for me & my babies. I am grateful I to have access to the knowledge through your channel that I need to teach future generations how to be confident + excel in their own ways.

  • @eileensullivan4924
    @eileensullivan4924 23 дня назад

    I always teach a little French (Malheurusement, je ne parle pas francais) but one daughter became fluent and the other is a passive user of Fr. And the French is a little rest from learning English which students seem to enjoy. You got it just right, Spencer. We teach them curiousity and lots of other "stuff." Not too important what if it makes them curious.

  • @elizabethcrawford6427
    @elizabethcrawford6427 4 месяца назад

    I came across your page today. and my daughter is 2 years of age with speech delay and she loves books. I will be using your advice ! thank you for sharing

  • @nociphokhumalo4372
    @nociphokhumalo4372 2 месяца назад

    It can only be God who ledme to your channel. I'm so grateful for the information and encouragement to improve myself as a parent, a single parent to three children.❤❤❤ Thank you

  • @faithbwire9164
    @faithbwire9164 Месяц назад +1

    Great sharing

  • @adilbundhoo3079
    @adilbundhoo3079 4 месяца назад +4

    Bro,
    I subscribed to your channel.
    I don't have kids now. Maybe one daym your content is going to help me..

  • @TracyCadogan
    @TracyCadogan 4 месяца назад

    Thank You so much for the encouragement. I needed to hear this! I'm on it! I'm committed!

  • @Terrialshae
    @Terrialshae 4 месяца назад

    Let’s go!! The exact video I needed to hear today! I Appreciate it !!

  • @khrystynasloan5668
    @khrystynasloan5668 3 месяца назад

    It’s a wonderful inspirational video! Thank you!

  • @3_Klos1122
    @3_Klos1122 4 месяца назад

    Man you’re giving me major inspiration I’m excited

  • @Jay-n3z3b
    @Jay-n3z3b 4 месяца назад

    Thankyou for you.🙏😇

  • @Jesusisnotcomingback2150
    @Jesusisnotcomingback2150 4 месяца назад

    Great advice. I’m going to follow through

  • @lvt1748
    @lvt1748 4 месяца назад

    Wow this is very inspiring thank you

  • @yuliashaimuratova1054
    @yuliashaimuratova1054 4 месяца назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @KatieBancroft
    @KatieBancroft 3 месяца назад

    I don't know whether i'm doing things right with my 2yo daughter. I'm a solo parent and I work full time from home, and I only have part-time childcare, so it's a massive struggle. I suffer terribly from mum guilt. My daughter is very smart, and I feel like if I take my foot off the gas for even a moment with her education, i'm letting her down.
    I do a lot with her, but I still worry it isn't enough. 🥺

  • @graceyoakum8863
    @graceyoakum8863 4 месяца назад

    Thank you

  • @Evey108
    @Evey108 4 месяца назад

    My daughter is 5 and she can barely speak my native language... I am killing myself over it!! I am so happy I found your channel!

    • @eileensullivan4924
      @eileensullivan4924 23 дня назад

      Kids just want to be like everybody else. Even when they can talk and even pronounce correctly, they don't always do it.

  • @loveserene7293
    @loveserene7293 3 месяца назад

    hi! i have a 19months old boy and he started to speak his single few words and animal sounds… i introduced the alphabet before he turned 1 but he does not seem to be interested in it …tried phonics too …recently i just started to focus first on the vowels but doesn’t show much interest too… but he have the initiative to get his small books with shapes colors and numbers and would want me to read it for him… any advice what i should start teaching him at his age?? how to start? how i can make him interested with the letters.. i have the cloth letters with pics at the back… thank you so much for you! and i appreciate your teaching strategies and for sharing it with us!

    • @excitedaboutlearning1639
      @excitedaboutlearning1639 3 месяца назад

      It's way too early. When a child can't say a sentence yet, it's no good trying to teach them to read. It's much better to have picture books and occasional sounds - a literacy rich environment where he's drawn to literature.
      It's too early to start systematic grapheme-phoneme teaching. The child should be at least ~3-4 years old before you start doing so. If you start too early, the kid may not be at a developmentally appropriate stage and it's simply impossible for them to learn the skill right then abd at worst may discourage the child from learning to read.
      Make books & letters visible in the environment so that he can get curious about them by himself. When you notice him engaging with letters or books or so by his own initiative, that's a cue that you can try systematically teaching basic decoding skills.

  • @NovasYouTubeName
    @NovasYouTubeName 2 месяца назад

    Subscribing!!

  • @monatakkoush3135
    @monatakkoush3135 4 месяца назад

    Hello, why there is no shipping to Lebanon ( middle east)?

    • @toddlerscanread
      @toddlerscanread  4 месяца назад +1

      Hi there, we are always trying to expand where we can ship, but we do have digital courses and printable resources available for you: toddlersread.myshopify.com/search?type=product&options%5Bprefix%5D=last&q=printable

  • @karameldrip9703
    @karameldrip9703 4 месяца назад

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  • @cdub1210
    @cdub1210 4 месяца назад

    👁️📚

  • @tyra_A
    @tyra_A 4 месяца назад +7

    Wow I needed this.

  • @rosianiefelix2644
    @rosianiefelix2644 4 месяца назад +7

    That was GOD that sent you with this message. I brought your program for my 9 month old, 3 and 5 year old about 5 month ago have not started. I am grateful for your message. Thank you GOD. Your testimony is relatable and accountable is what many humans lack.

  • @geethikawickramasinghe7338
    @geethikawickramasinghe7338 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you. Im from srilanka. I love your tricks. Every time i use it for my baby. Yes its work... like jumping to the letter sound. Thats great idea. Thank you

  • @muqadassiqbal6337
    @muqadassiqbal6337 Месяц назад

    He brother you are very good teacher .plz talk with me

  • @KingdomWoman88
    @KingdomWoman88 Месяц назад

    Okay okay okay. I needed this thank you!

  • @MAD-DUKE
    @MAD-DUKE 4 месяца назад +1

    In the comments below, leave your single sentence vision for your child. Thanks.

    • @MAD-DUKE
      @MAD-DUKE 4 месяца назад

      My child will enjoy being a productive member of society doing what they love doing.

  • @11courtneymau
    @11courtneymau Месяц назад

    Best videos on RUclips.

  • @Blooderfly17
    @Blooderfly17 3 месяца назад

    That fear statement hit home for me. English isn't my first language and now I'm home schooling my child next year. I'm scared I don't understand the language well enough and I'm going to hurt their education. Thank you for helping me become more courageous.

  • @mrsnurse3765
    @mrsnurse3765 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this message. I will share it with my grandaughter so that she can help her 5 yr old son.

  • @halazeisa
    @halazeisa 4 месяца назад

    I’m going to apply these 3 challenges on my own work schedule! ☀

  • @kalani2OO9
    @kalani2OO9 4 месяца назад

    Thanks so much for the video, It was definitely an eye opener. I want my son to be so many things, but I wasn't putting any work towards it because of my own fears. Imma try the five minute a day thing every morning and see if this works. I've been trying random times throughout our day with just the letters A-D and I haven't gotten him to understand it yet. I'm not going to give up though.

    • @toddlerscanread
      @toddlerscanread  4 месяца назад +1

      You got this! And my free workshop will help you with those reading skills, check it out! www.toddlersread.com/free-workshop

  • @shawntoriawilliams921
    @shawntoriawilliams921 4 месяца назад

  • @immaculate10
    @immaculate10 4 месяца назад

    Excellent advice!