@@WhalewraithIf you lost your purpose in life they always leave because she never fell in love with that man. If you give her less time and attention and became comfortable in your own space because you thought she was never going to leave that's the no 1 shit where I lost women. Firstly take her back if she wasn't going around with different men if she stayed single and worked to heal from the broken relationship that means she's a good woman take her back. Firstly you must ask yourself what have I done wrong by self reflecting and changing your life for your own good and become a man with purpose.
It's true and hard for me to accept. Anything but a clear "Yes" should be treated as a clear "No". But you have to show her. Otherwise she may send those "maybe" signals and feel unloved if you ignore them. But never make the mistake and take them as a hopeful "yes", she does have to take some more effort than just being vague.
8 times out of 10 it's because it didn't work out for her with someone she thinks is better than you. The other 2 times out of 10 it's because you're with someone new & she can't help but try to sabotage you. Choose the women who choose you, guys. If they reject or break up with you, treat them as if they don't exist anymore.
Probably statistically closer to the truth could be more like 7 / 1. 2 they are lonely and using you to tie over until they get confident for a better man.
Well you really blew this charade you've been putting on. Acting as if you've ever helped one single man. Because no they don't always come back. In fact they rarely do. And there is absolutely nothing you can tell anyone that will change this. Men please don't pay attention to her. Take it from a man who is a little older. And has experienced things this woman hasn't a clue about. Obviously
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
but its just tricks and lines ya learning in order to manipulate a woman. if you do that you will attract that same energy and will attract manioulative women who will use their own tricks and sexuality to bankrupt you. instead if needing this become a guy who doesnt need tricks to manuoulate her cos your life stands in its own two feet as it were.
Fellas, don't even bother playing these dumb games or participate in tests woman put us through. Be true to yourself, be a good person, and never change who you are for anybody. The right person will come along who is mature enough. Praying for all you guys. Much respect.
Amen bro, this is a 3rd time am getting rejected with a very beautiful woman. I always mover on, I have a good job as a nurse, am very kind and respectful guy and I feel like most women take it as being weak, am not gonna change my behavior if they don’t like who I am I totally get it
Exactly...so never give her a second chance...if she didn't notice your value @ first...it's her loss not yours...! Stay true to yourselves Gents..#Be safe..
I would add a caveat: if she was in a relationship when you made the approach, I respect the hell outta that. Cause if she’s respectful enough of him but it just doesn’t work out, and we get to give it a go, I know she’ll respect me, as well.
1. Don’t take one back who comes back after you improve- they will bail next time you down 2. Never be a second option . You will be that again. Chooseher best friend instead 3. If she bored she has no goals or standards/ she’s shallow she will cheat 4. If she took time to grow you probably her second option and she keeps you in reserve 5. If she second guess you she gonna second guess you all the time- she thinks she has a higher market value by default 6. If she jealous and trying to break up your new relationship that doesn’t mean she will keep you- she is a cheater because she already trying to wreck your relationship when you are obviously with someone else
I can never accept back a woman who took the decision to leave unless she doesn't start seeing other men. The moment she starts doing that, it's the true official end. I never go back no matter how much I loved her. I'd rather stay single a couple of years if I need to. It's a principle.It's about self respect. No matter how it hurts, you will be fine.
For Christ’s sake! Guys, here’s what you need to know: 1. If you make the other person the source of your happiness, you will always be miserable. 2. As long as you keep working to improve yourself and enjoying yourself and looking to unite your dream with your day, the right person for you will show up; reversing the priority is a quick route to misery. 3. You are the prize to be won, the great catch; as you think, so shall you become. 4. There is no special language or code with romantic interests; they are either interested and will say so or they are not worth your romantic effort. That is ALL you need to know. Everything else is rubbish.
@@marnikinrysHi Marney. Could you give me feedback on a text I recently sent to a woman? I would like to know from a woman's perspective of this. Thanks. "Thinking about the addiction (shopping) you told me you picked up around November of last year. I have a confession to make as well because I picked up an addiction too. I crave you. I miss you, and I admire you. Until my next relapse…"
Haha Frank, true that😊. As for this Marine girl, I think you are over analyzing things. I tried to use certain tactics when I was younger only to realise most girls think you are manipulative if they find out. They find you not trustworthy and dump you. Marni & wing girl( like Birds)???? Whats up with the Hitchcock associations? You pick eyes?
@@marnikinryshi Marni.... whatever about Cheating Girlfriend? If a Man Take back his Cheating girlfriend, she will DisRespect him and cheat again ...so Never be a Chuck to take her back?
And gentlemen, when she wants to come back, do this: "Agree", but now you're the prize. Treat her like a fan, and put her on rotation as a groupie. DO NOT get back into a relationship. She came back for her selfish reasons. She does not love you, and certainly does not respect you.
@@mistertiggy the problem was on hiding her the position she was in, as long as you're transparent about your situation, women will gladly compete over other women to get you.
Most women break up because they think they can do better but disguise it as she needs to work on herself. When things don’t work out with the new guy then they come crawling back. Have some self respect and don’t let yourself be her second choice and/or backup plan.
It’s not even about first choice, it’s about new and shiny object that gives them the honey moon feeling and excitement. This will fade once again, the clock is ticking and she will do it again at some point. Modern relationships are a facade, women do not want to stay with one man over long term, they want excitement and limerence, which is not sustainable with one person long term. They will think grass is greener but that is really just their emotions being engaged by new man, and assuming you aren’t a complete loser then whatever the new guy has to offer won’t really be what makes her satisfied, because they cannot be satisfied by one man long term, they will monkey branch and then the dopamine will fade once again, rinse and repeat.
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I want all my exes back. For sex. I'm over being love but I'm into pretending I'm in love. Women love games I get it. So I will play games.
You're, better off saying no and reject her right back and move on. She was in her Prime when she rejected you and she doesn't deserve you in her decline.
What if you are dealing with a very young girl (18-20 yr old) and she legit needed time to grow/mature? 🤔 She has potential, but isn't in her "prime" yet.
@@XGN I was referring to the women being banged out by Chads and Tyrone's also when she turns 18 her prime begins, in the eye's of the law she is an adult.
Never ever take a woman back who discarded you or only wants you back because she sees how hard things are or some other guy wasn’t what she thought she wanted. No mam!
Women come back because they see the well is dry, she needs something or she has little to no options; she needs certainty and it's about survival not love for women...plus when she finds something better she will leave, so she's a 'has-been girl' and she's not a forward thinking woman...If she's your first choice but you are her second, third or 'I don't know' option, then she's not worthy; just treat her as a bench-woman on rotation to get what you want out of her and punish her with duties fit for a servant and if she wants to earn, she has to earn through obedience and upon her obedience she can earn back the respect of her own clarity...she needs validation and she'll get it through her obedience towards a guy, that's it...anything else, the guy has lost complete control and she'll walk all over him.
If she's already picked other men over you, then don't give it a second chance -- You will forever be her second choice & her security blanket, & TRUST ME she will never change.
@@marguskiis7711 different strokes for different folks. Some people hate comments and don't comment. Others do. 80 people like what I said and others don't..
They come back because they are either bored or are seeking validation especially after getting dumped by another guy. It's better to block her and move on.
@@Ace.0.0.0.I remember a few years ago my ex broke up with me and got into a relationship with some other dude, which she was probably cheating on me with. Then her new boyfriend got her pregnant, cheated on her and completely disappeared. Next thing you know she is trying to get me to come back and I’m like hellll nooo I’m not taking care of you and your kid, you on your own. I’ve never seen a woman break down and cry so much in my life lmaoooo.
There are many different types of rejections. But the one I want to adress here is when you have dated the woman and/or even been in a relathionship with her. And then she leaves. (Rejects you). Why is the assumption then by Marni, that she deserves to be taken back? I think it is the opposite. Nothing matters as much as loyalty. If she have failed that, then why take her back? Women that failes loyalty is not worth the time and effort.
You Get Too Obsessed Too Quickly When You Like Someone... Reasons: - You feel lonely and don't have many people to talk to, or spend time with. Therefore, this person becomes the center of your world because he/she is the only one giving you a little bit of attention... - You're in touch with them all the time, hence habituated - You don't invest enough time and energy in your own goals and hobbies - You seek validation from others instead of being confident about what you bring to the table - They're (most probably) not reciprocating entirely, so you end up chasing (and hurting) more. You're stuck in this loop, and are addicted to it. - You fear letting go and embracing solitude, so you'd much rather hang on to pain that feels familiar!
Once she leaves she's out of the running for a permanent relationship. Let her come around but just string her along, don't commit and keep her on rotation. If she complains tell her to kick rocks, remember that she came to YOU and not the other way around.
If she comes back, she never make it to a relationship again with me, only fun, even if I really loved here … it’s such a turn off and too late she doesn’t value in the first place - too bad for her…
Once a girl had dumped you, never look back.!! It's always better to look out for a new one cause she doesn't know your weak history if you've changed for better. There are so many girls out there..... A girl knowing your past has a trump card forever
Ex-girlfriend who dumped me 20 years ago Facebook friend requested me recently. I don’t know why she wanted to contact me, but I ignored her. Probably made the smart move.
Yes you did bro. She screwed up her life by making piss poor decisions. Never be a womans fall-back guy. I'm happy you ignored her. Let her figure things out on her own.
If she walked out on you at your lowest point and things get better for u and she wants to come back that is an absolute no. It’s obvious she is incredibly shallow and does not deserve u
If a woman break up with you or ghost you,you move on and leave her in the past. She made her choice,now you made yours. Never ever allow to be the back up plan
If a girl does this then walk away she is only interested in you because her other options fell through and she would rather chose you than be alone but her eyes are always open when she does leave
Ignored her for years. Got drunk one time and made the dumbest mistake of my life. Was met with more disrespect than before. You have to block these women. They just want a reaction out of you.
As people grow older their thinking matures. Once, fun and excitement might have been the priority but later thoughts turn to settling down, permanence, family, career and financial stability. Timing is very important. What might not have worked once might be just the right thing later.
Guys, she’s already sleeping with another man and probably cheated on you. She only wants you back because the new man left her. Go have fun, go to a bar, find a new woman, invest in stocks, workout. Never let her back. And if you do, just go over after 11:00 P.M. and leave early morning. That’s it. And guys! Don’t fall into the trap of “I was so mean and psycho to her.” A good woman will never leave regardless.. they will get through the tough time and stay with you until marriage.. move on boys
So, my best friend for 11 years and girlfriend for 7 years broke up with me again. 4th time we’ve broken up. She has this tendency to flee when she gets it in her head that I’m going to break up with her. That was NEVER the case. We’ll see if she comes back again. My trouble is that I never wanted to part ways through ANY of the breakups, so it would be hard for me not to want to have her back. Even YOU, Marni, would be a distant second best to how wonderful this lady is. (Sorry! 😞) We never married, but she is a MUCH better catch than either of my wives were. If she comes back to me, I would have a hard time saying ‘no’ when I miss her soooo terribly. I’m 61, and have had many serious relationships, but this one far exceeded them all. This breakup was worse than my divorces.
This lady is making it complicated if a woman who broke up with you or said no to you in the past reach out to you just don’t respond. You just switch position. you are now the winner
Guys! There should be super glue attached to every page of your life. It should be impossible to revisit the past as anything other than a memory. Your ex should be the only one full of regrets when she sees how you have improved your life and permanently moved on.
it's a shame people just can't be human and follow their instincts and value eachother all these tricks methods and advice, as if we couldn't think for ourselves before the internet.
I was dating a girl and she was so into me, then the ex appeared and I got dropped like a stone. Next we had two months of “ I don’t know what I want, followed by another month of “I’m not sure I made the right decision” on repeat . Finally we had separation followed a month later by “oh hello, how are you doing” ? Pretty much every scenario you mention. !!!! I figure being single for a while isn’t so bad. Great channel . David (England)
Through life lessons, I've learned that it is a good idea to never go back. Always go forward to the new unknown. After a 3 year relationship broke off, I left for Europe. Back packing for 4 months with a Eurail pass. Best adventure ever. I found that traveling is a great way to meet people, and quality women. Travel is the ultimate equalizer, an immediate common interest you share can share with the women you meet. It was a liberating and amazing 4 months. And of course the woman who broke it off was interested again when I returned. But I don't go back, only forward.
Great video, Marni. I've been in this situation a few times in my life. Each time, the woman's comeback approach was weak and insincere. So, my answer was no. Now that I think about it, these women were weak and insincere to begin with! Hence, the dilemma.
My X left me for a rebound guy after a few years. She had all the bells and whistles. This was my mistake. I should of held her accountable for her behavior, lack of empathy, compassion and communication. Don't let the door hit you on your way out. Don't take your X back. Shower them with the discard your X gave you.
So many immature ladies think it’s greener on the other side, then realize it’s not. Usually based around her wanting to party (nothing comes good from a girls night). She feels like you’re “safe” a safety net, and asks to return. Take her back in it will repeat. Need to find a good based lady who wants to be a mom as you want to a father. One that doesn’t expect to be spoiled, and will work hard with you. Get her hands dirty etc and push you. It took me a couple tries, but I found the perfect one for me. Honestly I would say don’t marry a lady until she’s about 27 or has a grounded background 😂
With all due respect, i just call bs on any woman who tries to come back. They didnt care then and dropped you for a reason and no reason is valid enough to take them back. Ex's for a reason. When they come back in the dm's, block them. No questions, no answers. It's all in the past and that's where they stay. They don't deserve a 2nd chance. Simple.
Funny....just had a woman say was going out with her friends for girls nite out!!😂 Well when she kissed the guy in the truck dropping her off in my driveway!! I Pushed her back in the truck shut the door....told the guy they can both come back tomorrow for her stuff..bc she's no longer welcome.....NOW PLEASE GET OFF MY PROPERTY 😂
Why would you want someone that beat against you. The only reason people leave it's because they think they are better than you. And can get someone better than you
one year later, I'm 10x better and in a best place in every thing imaginable, and now she keep messaging me again of no where telling me how a good man I was with her. sorry not sorry I have much better women around me right now, I don't downgrade.
My Ex cheated on my and she popped up out of the blue one day. She tried to talk to me but I ignored her. She wanted me back but I didn't want to go through the mess again. It's not worth it.
I never boil the same cabbage twice! Woman come back when there options go south, the same options they passed you up for, if she did it once you can bet she will do it again.
Play games or test me and your out. Be authentic, know what you want, commit and own your decisions and actions. Emotional immaturity is a major turn off.
Keep it simple, guys, ignore her sweet words and emotions she's hitting you with - they come back because their options run out. And if you take her back, her options may come back too.
The ones who dump you when you do everything right do so because it's all about them. Months later when they suddenly want to get in touch again out of the blue... having been with someone else in the interim... nothing has changed. It's still all about them. It's never about you. I'm literally living this right now. I still have feelings for her but there is less than a snowflake's chance in hell I am going to get so badly burned again and re-engage with her.
If she turns you down it's ok. However don't EVER let her back in because it's a game and she is playing a game regardless of any of these 6 and if you let her in she will play games FOREVER. She doesn't know her purpose and she is not taking things seriously regardless, don't give her your time or attention for ANY of these 6 reasons. Stop living in your head/fantasies and go find someone who wants you and make sure she loves you more than you love her, it's important for all kinds of reasons.
I'll give you the best advice on this topic. First don't take advice from a lady. No disrespect Intended, it's just their strategy is the complete opposite of ours. Secondly she comes back later because you're doing better and she sees you as a better option than the man she picked over you when she rejected you. Third the man she was currently with broke up and she needs attention and some pick me up.
"You are doing better with out her....you might even be thriving without her". Keep it that way. Don't ever take a women back who rejected you. Cardinal rule #1, never break it.
I've also lived long enough that I stopped pursuing them, even if I didn't hard-reject them, then they try to come back even though _I'm_ the one that ended things. I pushed away one such girl that tried to hug me in front of everyone else 👊
Rejection and being friend zoned is a one strike rule with me. Her trying to spin the block and come back around is a no go for me. My self respect and pride as a man wouldn’t let me take her back. I would completely ignore her and wouldn’t bother responding
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Guys, never go back. If she can't stick with you the first time, she doesn't deserve a second chance.
All they deserve is serving a man. Period.
Maybe it was my fault?
@@WhalewraithIf you lost your purpose in life they always leave because she never fell in love with that man. If you give her less time and attention and became comfortable in your own space because you thought she was never going to leave that's the no 1 shit where I lost women. Firstly take her back if she wasn't going around with different men if she stayed single and worked to heal from the broken relationship that means she's a good woman take her back. Firstly you must ask yourself what have I done wrong by self reflecting and changing your life for your own good and become a man with purpose.
And she’ll dip on you again
@@SentilongJamir777 If a woman loves a man and he gave her less time and attention because you're on your purpose she won't leave
"When someone walks out of your life, let them. They're just making room for someone better to walk in".
Do you have facts about that?
Yes, but, what if they come back?
Exactly
room been vacant for a looong time now
...or not
Guys, if it isn't a hell yes from her, it's a hell no. Move along and onto women who are interested.
Nah, women are a lot more variable than that.
@@JayS.-mm3qr no, not really
@@daishan1234 yeah man, they are subtle and uncertain, and sometimes require social lubricant. Seen it many times. But your choice what to believe.
It's true and hard for me to accept. Anything but a clear "Yes" should be treated as a clear "No". But you have to show her. Otherwise she may send those "maybe" signals and feel unloved if you ignore them. But never make the mistake and take them as a hopeful "yes", she does have to take some more effort than just being vague.
@@corumeach no she doesnt
Never take her back you already know what’s broken.
I hv bn cheated on so many times by one person how would handle that , cheated on me not once not twice not thrice like yoooo
Yeah, she needs to lose wt. lol
They are all broken man.
hahahahaha 😂
I agree & it's a red flag
8 times out of 10 it's because it didn't work out for her with someone she thinks is better than you. The other 2 times out of 10 it's because you're with someone new & she can't help but try to sabotage you.
Choose the women who choose you, guys. If they reject or break up with you, treat them as if they don't exist anymore.
Probably statistically closer to the truth could be more like 7 / 1. 2 they are lonely and using you to tie over until they get confident for a better man.
@@patrickmcfly3264 or overwhelmed by depression and trauma. still the same outcome.
"women who choose you"... I wonder when and where that happened.
@@corumeach he probably means actively chooses you back consistently over time, aka real loyalty
@@corumeach You have never had a woman choose you before?
She starts texting you again because she’s BORED WITH HER BOYFRIEND…
Well you really blew this charade you've been putting on. Acting as if you've ever helped one single man. Because no they don't always come back. In fact they rarely do. And there is absolutely nothing you can tell anyone that will change this. Men please don't pay attention to her. Take it from a man who is a little older. And has experienced things this woman hasn't a clue about. Obviously
did red pill affect you too much?
bingo!
Facts dawg because my ex texted me and had a whole bf
@@DavidRolling-t7d did you reject her or take her back?
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
but its just tricks and lines ya learning in order to manipulate a woman. if you do that you will attract that same energy and will attract manioulative women who will use their own tricks and sexuality to bankrupt you. instead if needing this become a guy who doesnt need tricks to manuoulate her cos your life stands in its own two feet as it were.
Because her 1st option rejected her
Guys, if she didn’t see your value the first time around, DO NOT give her another chance.
I agree
Then you stay alone bc there is so little amount of good single women around.
@@marguskiis7711 Better to be alone with peace and quiet than with a terrible woman (~99% of modern-day women).
she seen your value it wasnt enough thought she could do better found out she cant so shes coming back to settle for the most she is able to get
@@marguskiis7711 bro please stop justifying bad behavior ,even when friends come back to your life it may be because things are brighter for you now
Never go backwards always forward
Fellas, don't even bother playing these dumb games or participate in tests woman put us through. Be true to yourself, be a good person, and never change who you are for anybody. The right person will come along who is mature enough.
Praying for all you guys. Much respect.
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Amen bro, this is a 3rd time am getting rejected with a very beautiful woman. I always mover on, I have a good job as a nurse, am very kind and respectful guy and I feel like most women take it as being weak, am not gonna change my behavior if they don’t like who I am I totally get it
I couldn't have said it.better
Note that every reason is self serving and none are because she likes or cares for you!
Wow💯
Exactly...so never give her a second chance...if she didn't notice your value @ first...it's her loss not yours...! Stay true to yourselves Gents..#Be safe..
😂😂 next jokes plzz
Maybe you now suit her emotional hypergamy...
I would add a caveat: if she was in a relationship when you made the approach, I respect the hell outta that. Cause if she’s respectful enough of him but it just doesn’t work out, and we get to give it a go, I know she’ll respect me, as well.
1. Don’t take one back who comes back after you improve- they will bail next time you down
2. Never be a second option . You will be that again. Chooseher best friend instead
3. If she bored she has no goals or standards/ she’s shallow she will cheat
4. If she took time to grow you probably her second option and she keeps you in reserve
5. If she second guess you she gonna second guess you all the time- she thinks she has a higher market value by default
6. If she jealous and trying to break up your new relationship that doesn’t mean she will keep you- she is a cheater because she already trying to wreck your relationship when you are obviously with someone else
Ignore her. No second chances. No Mercy
Just have fun with her, if she comes back ; ) but never take her to full relationship …
@b.m.980 what if she comes back to give you stds aids etc.. because you don't know what she's been up to the time you were apart
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You ever musst Protect yourself an in Addition otherwise you gonna pay soon or later maybe child Support... @@numbianqeeen4356
@@numbianqeeen4356 yeh whatever they're all doing that. So if you're really worried about that become a monk
1: you were never #1, 2: your a backup, 3: your a fallback, 4: she's territorial, 5: she can't tolerate you being successful or moving on.
Succinct
All very nacarcisstic reasons
Narcissistim 101
6: she's an avoidant and has to heal. it was never about you.
#2 & #3 are the same bro lol
I can never accept back a woman who took the decision to leave unless she doesn't start seeing other men. The moment she starts doing that, it's the true official end. I never go back no matter how much I loved her. I'd rather stay single a couple of years if I need to. It's a principle.It's about self respect. No matter how it hurts, you will be fine.
Well said.
This is how we learn. It's tough, to be sure. But if you get through it you become a better person. First you get the test, then you get the lesson.
For Christ’s sake! Guys, here’s what you need to know:
1. If you make the other person the source of your happiness, you will always be miserable.
2. As long as you keep working to improve yourself and enjoying yourself and looking to unite your dream with your day, the right person for you will show up; reversing the priority is a quick route to misery.
3. You are the prize to be won, the great catch; as you think, so shall you become.
4. There is no special language or code with romantic interests; they are either interested and will say so or they are not worth your romantic effort.
That is ALL you need to know. Everything else is rubbish.
I agree with all of this other than that's all you need to know ;). I think this is great for mindset and a great way to see yourself and the world.
@@marnikinrysHi Marney. Could you give me feedback on a text I recently sent to a woman? I would like to know from a woman's perspective of this. Thanks.
"Thinking about the addiction (shopping) you told me you picked up around November of last year. I have a confession to make as well because I picked up an addiction too. I crave you. I miss you, and I admire you. Until my next relapse…"
Haha Frank, true that😊. As for this Marine girl, I think you are over analyzing things. I tried to use certain tactics when I was younger only to realise most girls think you are manipulative if they find out. They find you not trustworthy and dump you. Marni & wing girl( like Birds)???? Whats up with the Hitchcock associations? You pick eyes?
Go 4 a moonwalk harpie. Dumb itch
@@marnikinryshi Marni.... whatever about Cheating Girlfriend? If a Man Take back his Cheating girlfriend, she will DisRespect him and cheat again ...so Never be a Chuck to take her back?
We know why. Because it didn't work out with the person she left you for. Just remember, she will do it again. Don't take her back.
100% Just had that happen to me.
Yeah.... Chad 😂😂😂who won't ever be loyal any way and constantly breaks their heart. Well sorry... Ego. They don't have hearts
Most important lesson, always love yourself first.
If a woman rejects you, never give her a second chance, never.
And gentlemen, when she wants to come back, do this:
"Agree", but now you're the prize. Treat her like a fan, and put her on rotation as a groupie. DO NOT get back into a relationship. She came back for her selfish reasons. She does not love you, and certainly does not respect you.
On rotation. Hilarious. 🙌
I did that but it is too annoying. Don't play with your leftovers bro
Trust me, don’t do this. I had a woman find out and she tried to get me fired from my job and called the police on me and I lost a good girl
@@mistertiggy the problem was on hiding her the position she was in, as long as you're transparent about your situation, women will gladly compete over other women to get you.
Exactly
Most women break up because they think they can do better but disguise it as she needs to work on herself. When things don’t work out with the new guy then they come crawling back. Have some self respect and don’t let yourself be her second choice and/or backup plan.
But if that woman happens to be your wife that you’ve been 9 years with and have 3 little kids with? Then what? 😢
@@didzmarello888 she still thinks she can find a better suitor ,more stable man ,more income
If she comes back you were not and never will be her first choice. Have your fun and keep it moving.
It’s not even about first choice, it’s about new and shiny object that gives them the honey moon feeling and excitement. This will fade once again, the clock is ticking and she will do it again at some point. Modern relationships are a facade, women do not want to stay with one man over long term, they want excitement and limerence, which is not sustainable with one person long term. They will think grass is greener but that is really just their emotions being engaged by new man, and assuming you aren’t a complete loser then whatever the new guy has to offer won’t really be what makes her satisfied, because they cannot be satisfied by one man long term, they will monkey branch and then the dopamine will fade once again, rinse and repeat.
I want all my exes back. For sex. I'm over being love but I'm into pretending I'm in love.
Women love games I get it. So I will play games.
You're, better off saying no and reject her right back and move on. She was in her Prime when she rejected you and she doesn't deserve you in her decline.
These are human beings you weirdo.
What if you are dealing with a very young girl (18-20 yr old) and she legit needed time to grow/mature? 🤔 She has potential, but isn't in her "prime" yet.
@@XGN I was referring to the women being banged out by Chads and Tyrone's also when she turns 18 her prime begins, in the eye's of the law she is an adult.
Then she wanne f*ck around and come back to a good guy@@XGN
@@XGN i will take her.
Never ever take a woman back who discarded you or only wants you back because she sees how hard things are or some other guy wasn’t what she thought she wanted. No mam!
Women come back because they see the well is dry, she needs something or she has little to no options; she needs certainty and it's about survival not love for women...plus when she finds something better she will leave, so she's a 'has-been girl' and she's not a forward thinking woman...If she's your first choice but you are her second, third or 'I don't know' option, then she's not worthy; just treat her as a bench-woman on rotation to get what you want out of her and punish her with duties fit for a servant and if she wants to earn, she has to earn through obedience and upon her obedience she can earn back the respect of her own clarity...she needs validation and she'll get it through her obedience towards a guy, that's it...anything else, the guy has lost complete control and she'll walk all over him.
If she's already picked other men over you, then don't give it a second chance -- You will forever be her second choice & her security blanket, & TRUST ME she will never change.
The more I watch these videos the more I'm glad I'm single
😂😂😂👍
Why you watch these videos then?
@@marguskiis7711 it's entertaining.. same if someone were to watch a war movie.
@@king-nick2023 Strange. I despise dogs and do not comment under dog themed videos.
@@marguskiis7711 different strokes for different folks. Some people hate comments and don't comment. Others do. 80 people like what I said and others don't..
They come back because they are either bored or are seeking validation especially after getting dumped by another guy. It's better to block her and move on.
She creep back to you after been ran through by Chads and Tyrone's
😂 incels worst nightmare
@@thatsaveryrealthing5183 a mangina's or fminiazis logic to hurl insults when cannot handle truth.
Just like Jen-neh and Forrest Gump.
@@miked2513 facts
At the Same time Those Chads and Tyrone’s fall short and lose everything, The Pookies and Ray Rays reform and settle for younger & feminine women.
Even if she goes back it's temporary, until she finds another 'better' option.
That's ok. You do not own her. But also, she does not own you. If she no longer puts you first, then find another who will.
Or fly solo for a bit.
@@Ace.0.0.0.I remember a few years ago my ex broke up with me and got into a relationship with some other dude, which she was probably cheating on me with. Then her new boyfriend got her pregnant, cheated on her and completely disappeared. Next thing you know she is trying to get me to come back and I’m like hellll nooo I’m not taking care of you and your kid, you on your own. I’ve never seen a woman break down and cry so much in my life lmaoooo.
But hear me out every girl is looking for better all the time is there really a difference?
@Doidao-xx5vf you did the right thing bro. Let her deal with her bs on her own.
There are many different types of rejections.
But the one I want to adress here is when you have dated the woman and/or even been in a relathionship with her. And then she leaves. (Rejects you).
Why is the assumption then by Marni, that she deserves to be taken back?
I think it is the opposite.
Nothing matters as much as loyalty. If she have failed that, then why take her back?
Women that failes loyalty is not worth the time and effort.
Respect is more important, if she doesn't respect you - she can't love you, & will not be loyal
Those that don’t learn from there past are doomed to repeat it.
Never take them back. Ignore them. Relationships are like parking spots, there is always a new one opening up every minute.
You Get Too Obsessed Too Quickly When You Like Someone...
Reasons:
- You feel lonely and don't have many people to talk to, or spend time with.
Therefore, this person becomes the center of your world
because he/she is the only one giving you a little bit of attention...
- You're in touch with them all the time, hence habituated
- You don't invest enough time and energy in your own goals and hobbies
- You seek validation from others instead of being confident about what you bring to the table
- They're (most probably) not reciprocating entirely,
so you end up chasing (and hurting) more.
You're stuck in this loop, and are addicted to it.
- You fear letting go and embracing solitude,
so you'd much rather hang on to pain that feels familiar!
she’s not yours, it’s just your turn
Pump & dump best strategy 😂
Yup
Casey Zander
-Rich Cooper
Nope......not a chance..... minipulating any situation is never fun! But!! Great video
once the trash takes itself out, you don't put it back in your house
Once she leaves she's out of the running for a permanent relationship. Let her come around but just string her along, don't commit and keep her on rotation. If she complains tell her to kick rocks, remember that she came to YOU and not the other way around.
I had a few try and play that game. Nope you made your choose now live with it!
That has NEVER happened to me! Once I was rejected and not in a nice way, I never heard from that girl again.
Good. You dodged a bullet
Possibly because they know you wouldn't take their shit, it's not a bad thing if that's the case, they only go back to weak simps.
After this last avoidant discard, I am realizing that if a girl contacts you out of the blue, it’s a red flag. You were an afterthought.
If she comes back, she never make it to a relationship again with me, only fun, even if I really loved here … it’s such a turn off and too late she doesn’t value in the first place - too bad for her…
Yep. Only a fun time girl going forward. Period.
@@thomasjay5529 Don't catch feelings.
A sex toy
Exactly
Desire can never be negotiated……
Once a girl had dumped you, never look back.!!
It's always better to look out for a new one cause she doesn't know your weak history if you've changed for better.
There are so many girls out there.....
A girl knowing your past has a trump card forever
What do you mean by trump card?
Ex-girlfriend who dumped me 20 years ago Facebook friend requested me recently.
I don’t know why she wanted to contact me, but I ignored her. Probably made the smart move.
Yes you did bro.
She screwed up her life by making piss poor decisions. Never be a womans fall-back guy. I'm happy you ignored her. Let her figure things out on her own.
@@devontezp347 You did.
Understandable but in doing so, you’ve also communicated to her that she’s affected you badly
She puts us on a watch list
Yup if she pulls away and sees that you don’t absolutely hate yourself they come back to try to make you hate yourself again.
Never give her another chance
Side chick at best. But never as a girlfriend or wife again. If you weren't good enough before, she's not good enough now.
Once I’ve been rejected, I never go back to that woman. Never ever look back.
If she walked out on you at your lowest point and things get better for u and she wants to come back that is an absolute no. It’s obvious she is incredibly shallow and does not deserve u
If a woman break up with you or ghost you,you move on and leave her in the past. She made her choice,now you made yours. Never ever allow to be the back up plan
Games are for children.
If she trys to play these kinds of game, any guy worth his salt will shut her down and remove her from his life permanently.
Never give her a second chance.....NEVER!!!
You mean third😂😂😂 in my case.
Seems like games and knowing how to read between the lines .. rather play with my train set Choo Choo!!!
Don’t ever go back! Just move on and be better for the next woman.
If a girl does this then walk away she is only interested in you because her other options fell through and she would rather chose you than be alone but her eyes are always open when she does leave
Ignored her for years. Got drunk one time and made the dumbest mistake of my life. Was met with more disrespect than before. You have to block these women. They just want a reaction out of you.
Never take her back!
As people grow older their thinking matures. Once, fun and excitement might have been the priority but later thoughts turn to settling down, permanence, family, career and financial stability. Timing is very important. What might not have worked once might be just the right thing later.
why would any man want to be a financial sponsor to a woman without also being her option for fun and excitement. Never let a woman settle for you.
Relationships are dangerous. Too risky and most of the time lead to heartache. Why put yourself through that? Just stick to having friends.
Guys, she’s already sleeping with another man and probably cheated on you. She only wants you back because the new man left her. Go have fun, go to a bar, find a new woman, invest in stocks, workout. Never let her back. And if you do, just go over after 11:00 P.M. and leave early morning. That’s it. And guys! Don’t fall into the trap of “I was so mean and psycho to her.” A good woman will never leave regardless.. they will get through the tough time and stay with you until marriage.. move on boys
So, my best friend for 11 years and girlfriend for 7 years broke up with me again. 4th time we’ve broken up. She has this tendency to flee when she gets it in her head that I’m going to break up with her. That was NEVER the case. We’ll see if she comes back again. My trouble is that I never wanted to part ways through ANY of the breakups, so it would be hard for me not to want to have her back. Even YOU, Marni, would be a distant second best to how wonderful this lady is. (Sorry! 😞) We never married, but she is a MUCH better catch than either of my wives were. If she comes back to me, I would have a hard time saying ‘no’ when I miss her soooo terribly. I’m 61, and have had many serious relationships, but this one far exceeded them all. This breakup was worse than my divorces.
This is such BS. If she leaves never take her back. She will leave again eventually
Problem I have is that I don't have a interest in the woman that rejects me then comes back.
This lady is making it complicated if a woman who broke up with you or said no to you in the past reach out to you just don’t respond. You just switch position. you are now the winner
Guys! There should be super glue attached to every page of your life. It should be impossible to revisit the past as anything other than a memory. Your ex should be the only one full of regrets when she sees how you have improved your life and permanently moved on.
it's a shame people just can't be human and follow their instincts and value eachother all these tricks methods and advice, as if we couldn't think for ourselves before the internet.
100% correct brother...!! 👍👍
Men can be human, not women its in their nature to be like this
I NEVER GO BACK. I'm constantly upgrading.
I was dating a girl and she was so into me, then the ex appeared and I got dropped like a stone.
Next we had two months of “ I don’t know what I want, followed by another month of “I’m not sure I made the right decision” on repeat .
Finally we had separation followed a month later by “oh hello, how are you doing” ?
Pretty much every scenario you mention. !!!!
I figure being single for a while isn’t so bad.
Great channel .
David (England)
Through life lessons, I've learned that it is a good idea to never go back. Always go forward to the new unknown. After a 3 year relationship broke off, I left for Europe. Back packing for 4 months with a Eurail pass. Best adventure ever. I found that traveling is a great way to meet people, and quality women. Travel is the ultimate equalizer, an immediate common interest you share can share with the women you meet. It was a liberating and amazing 4 months. And of course the woman who broke it off was interested again when I returned. But I don't go back, only forward.
Yes! Reason #4: She Took Her Time To Grow! I love this explanation Marni. Great video!
Is this code for got reamed out buy what she perceived as better men and now finally realizes that those men will never commit.
@@washburn8932Exactly
@@washburn8932😂
Great video, Marni. I've been in this situation a few times in my life. Each time, the woman's comeback approach was weak and insincere. So, my answer was no. Now that I think about it, these women were weak and insincere to begin with! Hence, the dilemma.
My X left me for a rebound guy after a few years. She had all the bells and whistles. This was my mistake. I should of held her accountable for her behavior, lack of empathy, compassion and communication. Don't let the door hit you on your way out. Don't take your X back. Shower them with the discard your X gave you.
So many immature ladies think it’s greener on the other side, then realize it’s not. Usually based around her wanting to party (nothing comes good from a girls night). She feels like you’re “safe” a safety net, and asks to return. Take her back in it will repeat. Need to find a good based lady who wants to be a mom as you want to a father. One that doesn’t expect to be spoiled, and will work hard with you. Get her hands dirty etc and push you. It took me a couple tries, but I found the perfect one for me.
Honestly I would say don’t marry a lady until she’s about 27 or has a grounded background 😂
"We're a generation of men raised by women, I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need" - Tyler Durden
You're missing the part where Tyler reconciles with his disassociated self and winds up with Marla at the end.
@@TheTaotheawakenedone That's not Tyler, that's the narrator (Edward Norton)
@@derwoodhamburger lol what? Have you not actually watched the movie? Edward Norton IS Tyler Durden. Brad Pitt was a figment of his imagination.
@@TheTaotheawakenedone Yes it's a great movie. I guess the point of it all is be cool with or without a woman. Tyler/Narrator did not chase Marla
@@derwoodhamburger well.... No, except he had his henchmen from Project Mayhem hunt her down and bring her to him.
With all due respect, i just call bs on any woman who tries to come back.
They didnt care then and dropped you for a reason and no reason is valid enough to take them back.
Ex's for a reason.
When they come back in the dm's, block them. No questions, no answers. It's all in the past and that's where they stay.
They don't deserve a 2nd chance. Simple.
No take-backs! 😂 learned early in elementary school.
Funny....just had a woman say was going out with her friends for girls nite out!!😂 Well when she kissed the guy in the truck dropping her off in my driveway!! I Pushed her back in the truck shut the door....told the guy they can both come back tomorrow for her stuff..bc she's no longer welcome.....NOW PLEASE GET OFF MY PROPERTY 😂
Good job!
Nice, great job.
@@rogerdodger6025 ThanX!! I had enough!! There all drinking and there all lowering there standards....so for me! There's no challenge
I've never had one come back, ever.
>>I've never had one come back, ever.
Why would you want someone that beat against you. The only reason people leave it's because they think they are better than you. And can get someone better than you
🤔💯 Exactly 🏆
one year later, I'm 10x better and in a best place in every thing imaginable, and now she keep messaging me again of no where telling me how a good man I was with her. sorry not sorry I have much better women around me right now, I don't downgrade.
My Ex cheated on my and she popped up out of the blue one day. She tried to talk to me but I ignored her. She wanted me back but I didn't want to go through the mess again. It's not worth it.
I never boil the same cabbage twice! Woman come back when there options go south, the same options they passed you up for, if she did it once you can bet she will do it again.
Play games or test me and your out. Be authentic, know what you want, commit and own your decisions and actions. Emotional immaturity is a major turn off.
Love this woman. She is so cool. And she dispenses with real world wisdom.
Keep it simple, guys, ignore her sweet words and emotions she's hitting you with - they come back because their options run out. And if you take her back, her options may come back too.
The ones who dump you when you do everything right do so because it's all about them. Months later when they suddenly want to get in touch again out of the blue... having been with someone else in the interim... nothing has changed. It's still all about them. It's never about you. I'm literally living this right now. I still have feelings for her but there is less than a snowflake's chance in hell I am going to get so badly burned again and re-engage with her.
I'm not playing games, if she wants to test me BEFORE dating (which, dating is a test in itself) go away.
I think I just won't date anymore. It's draining 😂
If she turns you down it's ok. However don't EVER let her back in because it's a game and she is playing a game regardless of any of these 6 and if you let her in she will play games FOREVER. She doesn't know her purpose and she is not taking things seriously regardless, don't give her your time or attention for ANY of these 6 reasons. Stop living in your head/fantasies and go find someone who wants you and make sure she loves you more than you love her, it's important for all kinds of reasons.
Or... she's ready to settle down 😂😂😂, which means she's run down 😂😂😂
Facts
Run through, about 100 times.
Never asked for number. Just asked if she wanted to grab something to eat. She said no. I moved on.
I'll give you the best advice on this topic. First don't take advice from a lady. No disrespect Intended, it's just their strategy is the complete opposite of ours. Secondly she comes back later because you're doing better and she sees you as a better option than the man she picked over you when she rejected you. Third the man she was currently with broke up and she needs attention and some pick me up.
Well, they might realize that they judged you unfairly or the timing was bad. Bored is a good call. I didn’t think of it, but I’m glad you did.
Mark
My ex-girlfriend repeatedly corrected me on this, until it is now etched in my mind…..it’s……you’re doing well, not you’re doing good.
"You are doing better with out her....you might even be thriving without her". Keep it that way. Don't ever take a women back who rejected you. Cardinal rule #1, never break it.
The essential factor is whether or not the woman truly loves you and is equally sincere as you are with her!!!
I've also lived long enough that I stopped pursuing them, even if I didn't hard-reject them, then they try to come back even though _I'm_ the one that ended things. I pushed away one such girl that tried to hug me in front of everyone else 👊
Like Corey Wayne says.. if she comes back, 3 dates in a row at your place...make her work to get you back. Or make HER take you on a date.
Rejection and being friend zoned is a one strike rule with me. Her trying to spin the block and come back around is a no go for me. My self respect and pride as a man wouldn’t let me take her back. I would completely ignore her and wouldn’t bother responding
childish
🤔💯 I'm in this same $#it boat with my LDR gf of 7 years minus 3. I walked away for 3 years, but my ex tried to come back. But I leveled up & it's not the same. I've made mySELF the #1 priority.