Budget Breakdown (Ep. 12) Massive Action for Massive Results | FrugalFitMom Podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
  • This week, Christine and Dave assess the budget of a young family grappling with a significant amount of credit card debt and student loans. Even though both parents bring in a fairly high income, the Frugal Fit Spouses urge the couple to trim the fat on their spending and make some temporary sacrifices to achieve their long-term financial goals.
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  • @cookshackcuisinista
    @cookshackcuisinista Год назад +48

    I have to say that the two of you discussing these things really adds depth to the podcast because you get the husband-and-wife input and it also shows that you don't always agree but you work around it so love these budget episodes with the two of you. Thank you very much for all of your efforts.🎉❤😊

  • @kimberlyfoltz2788
    @kimberlyfoltz2788 11 месяцев назад +3

    For your budget breakdowns - would LOVE to see some updates from these people in 6 months to a year to see how they are doing.

  • @MomNTraining
    @MomNTraining Год назад +17

    The “guilt” purchasing when you are a working mom is real! When I was working, I bought clothes in excess for my kids. I would do it online or go on my lunch break. It wasn’t conscious, I think it just made me feel like I was doing “mom” stuff. Really I just created an excess at home that I had to deal with! Now as a stay at home mom I’m actually saving money because I manage the clothes better and don’t feel the need to randomly go buy clothes for them!

  • @user-uq4rk9hx5j
    @user-uq4rk9hx5j Год назад +11

    I think this is such a great episode for many to watch. The price of interest is insane, and their housing is not much. There are many young professionals out there with a lot of student debt, credit card debt, and car debt trying to live like their parents did while still renting. It's heartbreaking to see minimum payments shackle people down.

  • @aliciapearsall4099
    @aliciapearsall4099 Год назад +12

    ❤❤❤ love this I'm praying for this family 🙏 great podcast guys. My favorite line when Dave says "It's not cool, it's responsible." My husband and I both drive old but paid off vechiles while we work down our debt I want that to be a bumpster sticker on my car 😅.

  • @Enasbooksandbudgets
    @Enasbooksandbudgets Год назад +9

    As someone who grew up with parent who couldn't afford to buy brand new toys and gifts because money was tight I 100% agree. I got creative. I made paper dolls and furniture and got to make my own little world when I got bored. That was my favorite thing to do. I didn't need all of the toys and I know my dad still feels guilty but I had a good childhood. Don't feel guilty if you can't afford new toys all of the time for your kids. We also went camping a lot and fishing. My parents would take us to the park and we would hunt crawdads and play on the jungle gym.

  • @gladyschandler6724
    @gladyschandler6724 Год назад +6

    Little kids like coloring books, playing in the sandbox, doing outside stuff in the park, and learning to ride a bicycle (can be used).

  • @doveandolive1153
    @doveandolive1153 Год назад +10

    Dave said it best 'creating new habits' and 'the value of money changes' once out of debt. Great advice, hope this family is on their way to a new journey of getting out debt, wishing them luck!

  • @abrareads
    @abrareads Год назад +2

    I told my husband (the spender) that I wanted a Lexus and then paused and said no I just want the money in order to know I could buy it. He didn't understand. :)

  • @caseywestfall682
    @caseywestfall682 Год назад +10

    YES! YES! Once you get debt free it changes you thoughts on your wants. I have the hardest time spending money sometimes. Good Problem to have :)

  • @BackroadMoney
    @BackroadMoney Год назад +1

    I have to agree that when you can afford it, you dont want it anymore. It's amazing the psychology behind this. Love your channel Christine!❤

  • @abfamily4075
    @abfamily4075 8 месяцев назад

    Also a van is a luxury. We have a young family with 3 kids in car seats in a Mazda 3 with 40mpg. We have saved TONS from not upgrading to a van which we definitely considered when baby 3 was on the way but it has been a blessing to have a paid off car and $60/month in gas for the car.

  • @laurabrim5062
    @laurabrim5062 Год назад +8

    I love listening to these. Such practical advice for so many people. Your teamwork is authentic and inspiring. Thank you for doing these. Definitely had to do most of our journey on my own (mostly medical debt for our son and critical house issues), but have still felt the relief, freedom, and pride. While being a team is best, I want to encourage anyone that you can take all these steps and make a difference in your financial peace.

  • @happymama1015
    @happymama1015 Год назад +11

    So excited to see what you do! We have a lot of credit card debt too 😫 I love the empathy in the truck conversation. I hope this family can do this, I’m rooting for them!!!

  • @melissachapman6213
    @melissachapman6213 Год назад +4

    I love how sweet y'all are in these videos! I know you think you're harsh but y'all are so kind! It's always nice to see people just being nice ♡♡♡

  • @rowddyone3570
    @rowddyone3570 Год назад +8

    Love these budget breakdowns, but if the board could be just a foot bigger would be better, much love ❤️

  • @jhemeyer
    @jhemeyer Год назад +6

    Loved this one bc your sentiment is so true - once you’re debt-free, knowing you CAN do something is often a better feeling or more important than actually doing it. It’s an amazing change in perspective.

  • @caronhundley6070
    @caronhundley6070 Год назад +6

    For most men, a truck is just a big toy, not a necessity. My grand kids had more fun with a large box made into play house. Their Dad cut a window and a door. They loved it

  • @1inabazillion
    @1inabazillion Год назад +1

    the two of you have a lot of excellent advice when it comes to money and needs vs wants. my husband is retired army E-7 then worked for 12 more years. i never worked outside the home and we raised 2 sons. our net worth is now over $500,000 and we are completely debt free. all the way through our 42 year marriage we have never disagreed about money. my husband earned the money and i managed it. even now we are still frugal.

  • @MC-fv8gs
    @MC-fv8gs Год назад +2

    OMG. So much good advice. Just by watching this I already canceled Hulu Netflix and Discovery Plus. I love seeing you do these kind of videos. Continue with them.

  • @lauranewman564
    @lauranewman564 10 месяцев назад

    I totally agree with driving a sedan to work. That's amazing.

  • @BeachLoverCindy
    @BeachLoverCindy Год назад +3

    Excellent video! WOW! If I knew I could unbury myself in 14 months out of this situation, I would 100% follow this. (Granted, I'm not in debt at this level.)

  • @makayc3948
    @makayc3948 Год назад +3

    I can’t wait until you are accepting more budgets! I want your advice on building retirement and savings. My husband and I are 25 and 26 years old no kids yet. Buying a home soon with no debt, and want to build a life of financial freedom!! 🎉

  • @amywilson4120
    @amywilson4120 Год назад +3

    I am with you and Dave! I am sure we could get an auto loan for just about any reasonable new car or truck out there, but I don't want to have the payment. I am content driving my 2005 Honda Civic and having money to save, spend on our house, and occasionally travel. Plus, I work from home and I just can't justify the cost of buying a new car for how little I drive.

  • @annarchydeclutteranddesign413
    @annarchydeclutteranddesign413 Год назад +1

    Please, please, please do more of these!

  • @debby4450
    @debby4450 Год назад +2

    I really like when you do budget breakdowns! They are so interesting and helpful! I think it's great that you do them together!

  • @smileyspoon1
    @smileyspoon1 Год назад

    Totally loved this episode. I also find it super empowering when I can but don't buy that thing. Instead invest it and see it grow every year. When the amount of growth is larger than your yearly contribution... Man that feels good.

  • @sarasounds2389
    @sarasounds2389 9 месяцев назад

    I love you and Dave. He just seems so mature and responsible. 😅 I've been a subscriber to FFM for years. Thanks for everything, Christine!

  • @jillkennedy6993
    @jillkennedy6993 Год назад +1

    This is my first budget video and I love it. Living in Canada their $1000 a month house/groceries is a dream haha we spend about 1200-1500 a month depending on the month because its so expensive here

  • @rachelrak4502
    @rachelrak4502 Год назад +3

    Love the budget breakdown!
    Slight spoiler: I audibly yelled when I heard what this family is spending on their cars. I can't imagine getting into that situation

  • @sinead36
    @sinead36 Год назад +1

    Love these ones as lots of food for thought and in such an honest and practical way as you’ve lived the reality 👍

  • @SavingADimeAtATime
    @SavingADimeAtATime Год назад +2

    Each month you still have to pay the minimum payment on all the cards each months.

  • @Midwestmomvolunteer365
    @Midwestmomvolunteer365 Год назад +1

    Really enjoying your podcasts. As far as been there done that, I agree when you live through times were you are living on a string and turn it around, no matter how it happens, it gives you the experience to help others. We too have worked side hustles, what ever it takes. We now live debt free outside of our mortgage which is being tackled hard right now. but we didn't always live like this. It is worth it as Dave said to "tighten the boot straps".

  • @tmgreenawalt9554
    @tmgreenawalt9554 Год назад

    I love how you two talked it over and gave your opinions about the cuts in the budget. I only hope the couple that you are trying to help can discuss it the same and work towards their goals. Children camps, I felt that...their two older kids would love that and what memories my children have from going to camps.

  • @saeedanasir
    @saeedanasir Год назад +1

    Awesome series Christine. Love it. Can you please share what watch Dave is wearing? Thank you.

  • @tanyal7122
    @tanyal7122 Год назад

    I am making my way through your podcasts. I just LOVE you two!!! Thank you for the inspiration ❤

  • @kale5221
    @kale5221 Год назад +2

    I have watched your channel for years but new to the podcast. I think the only question or change I would make would be at least a small emergency fund. Having some held back for minor emergencies could help keep families from going back to credit cards when something unplanned comes up.

  • @CookingwithCatLover0330
    @CookingwithCatLover0330 Год назад +1

    Great video. It is all so true. Don't drive a big vehicle if you can drive a small one. Don't buy $500 worth of toys per child for Christmas. The best toy is the box you wrapped it in. I say it every podcast, I would love an update. My thoughts are with this family.

  • @greenlantern1986
    @greenlantern1986 Год назад +4

    I would have to go back and check, but I believe you say every budget you receive is an incomplete budget. Which is natural, people like to think they are accounting for everything, but obviously they aren't. Is there anyway to stress to submitters that they need to take a more thorough accounting before giving you their budget? Perhaps it's more fun for you and Dave to work through the leaks, but hopefully they're more complete in the future.

  • @leahirvine3522
    @leahirvine3522 2 месяца назад

    Loved this episode

  • @mollyb8136
    @mollyb8136 Год назад

    I gotta say, i love the thumbnail you have - i can scroll through my feed and find your videos instantly!

  • @cassidiroberts6473
    @cassidiroberts6473 Год назад +1

    I’m just saying you could post as many times a week as you want and I will watch and rewatch.

  • @shannastephens6751
    @shannastephens6751 Год назад +1

    I love listening to these. But I would love to know if they take your advice and updates on where they are. I feel invested...

  • @joannaazar7396
    @joannaazar7396 Год назад +1

    I love ur thoughts and videos. Wishing you and your family well wishes!! Love and support. Newark Jersey ❤

  • @clusterbungle
    @clusterbungle Год назад +1

    I'm still on my debt free journey aggressively paying off my mortgage (🤞5 more years!🤞) but i already agree that knowing you could buy the thing is enough in itself. And especially because spending so much time saving and sacrificing, once you get to the other side (or close to it!) you realise you didn't actually need all those pretty things you wanted, you've lived just fine without them for this long so why buy them now?

  • @vickibarana7635
    @vickibarana7635 Год назад

    I have to agree with so many others - I really appreciate you doing this - it's really great to see you both talking about this and your experiences. Thank you so much for this discussion!!!!

    • @vickibarana7635
      @vickibarana7635 Год назад

      I gave up on the target / kohl's bags - They would fall apart after a couple months. I get Coach / Kate Spade / Michael Kors at one of two outlets close by only when I get bored (been doing that for 15 years - only have about 8 bags total and I swap between them).

  • @laurahelder2331
    @laurahelder2331 Год назад

    This is one of my favourite series on youtube.. keep it going! Id love to see updates on them!
    The two of you are enjoyable to watch!

  • @shandrybullock6261
    @shandrybullock6261 Год назад

    I agree, knowing you can buy something because have no debt is such a game changer In what you actually buy.

  • @shellierobledo
    @shellierobledo Год назад

    I enjoy watching these. I make a nice income but im irresponsible with spending and at times dont have money for basic things. I like watching these breakdowns because it reminds me that I can do better and save my money. I just have to patch the leaks.

  • @emmawilliams8098
    @emmawilliams8098 Год назад

    Love this, think it’s fab you’re helping people with their finances. ❤️

  • @Notable2Nikki
    @Notable2Nikki Год назад +1

    It is interesting that so much of this debt snowball is timed by getting rid of the truck. Is this person willing to make that change? That is the question. A lot of people wouldn't be willing to let go of that ego but you can see here firsthand how quickly their finances turn around making that sacrifice. We don't have car loans currently and my spouse is itching for a new vehicle. I would like to hold off as long as possible. It isn't about having the nicest car in the lot at work; it is about what you can do with your money to build true wealth!

  • @brendasbudgetbites
    @brendasbudgetbites 6 месяцев назад

    As someone who has done daycare, 3 kids…$1240/month. That is a steal. They are lucky there!!!

  • @diannabaggett1372
    @diannabaggett1372 Год назад +3

    The only critique I have on this is we didn’t start with any emergency fund.. .

    • @frugalfitmompodcast
      @frugalfitmompodcast  Год назад +1

      I was so freaked out by the credit cards it totally slipped my mind!

  • @kathymills9572
    @kathymills9572 Год назад

    I really enjoy these budget podcasts! It gives me ideas for my own. Thanks y'all! ❤️

  • @HB-kq4zw
    @HB-kq4zw Год назад

    Binge watching:) Thank you two for being an inspiration!

  • @tessjune88
    @tessjune88 Год назад

    Love you guys!!! So fun to watch you do this.

  • @debbiegarrison9801
    @debbiegarrison9801 Год назад

    I live on the other side of the State of Oklahoma near Tulsa. Cost of living here is a little bit cheaper than OKC. I felt like the numbers on their bills was a little bit on the expensive side.

  • @tessjune88
    @tessjune88 Год назад +1

    You can freeze your credit for free by creating accounts with the credit bureaus online

  • @jenniferstanton202
    @jenniferstanton202 11 месяцев назад

    The psychological aspect is that if he sells his truck to pay off those cards, its gonna hurt so bad that no way they get run back up.

  • @terrip8451
    @terrip8451 Год назад +1

    IF they need a truck for a purpose, he can downsize to a small 2WD, unless he's hauling toys, but if that's the case I'd still say sell the toys and get a small truck. A little Toyota will give him good gas mileage while still giving him a bed to haul some things as needed.

    • @sheila3936
      @sheila3936 Год назад

      I suspect he’d say it’s needed for tools or equipment related to the engineering job. But honestly those usually aren’t that big and could easily fit in a small truck or car with a seat down.

  • @lindaparks4486
    @lindaparks4486 Год назад

    This is pretty good. The only thing i disagree with is the car switching. If she is dropping off kids..that gojng to be a headache for a few bucks in gas. Keep some sanity

  • @angiebrowere5124
    @angiebrowere5124 Год назад

    ❤you guys are....fry bags ARE awesome lo,

  • @gladyschandler6724
    @gladyschandler6724 Год назад

    I'm retired, so I've done a monthly budget. I only have 1 credit card for emergencies only. A small mortgage. I'm more mindful of what I want to spend my money on a nice vacation & entertainment are my goals and living worry free.

  • @kyleeblose3677
    @kyleeblose3677 Год назад +3

    I froze my credit with all of the credit bureaus just googling like "experian credit freeze" etc and making an account with each. It was completely free.

  • @ajo6751
    @ajo6751 Год назад

    What about an emergency fund? Usually you cover putting away a 3 to 6 month emergency fund prior to paying off debt. Maybe I missed it on this video. Really liked how you were clear about goals vs wants and needs and how it's only 14 months to payoff most items and even in 6 months they will have made a huge difference. This should give them a lot of hope.

  • @milkduds04
    @milkduds04 Год назад

    Excellent analysis!

  • @rhondavigil795
    @rhondavigil795 Год назад

    I'm so glad they are waking up to the mess they have created. They will tackle it and start building the life they want.

  • @destinymcfarlan
    @destinymcfarlan Год назад

    love this series!

  • @katiepresby9224
    @katiepresby9224 10 месяцев назад

    Do you ever get a report back as to whether they followed your suggestions and how they're doing? I'd love to have an update.

  • @Dara-de4pt
    @Dara-de4pt Год назад +1

    I love these videos

  • @kimberlyalbert2400
    @kimberlyalbert2400 Год назад

    Great breakdown and ideas!

  • @truthseeker6370
    @truthseeker6370 Год назад

    Excellent video and advice!

  • @shesrunningaway
    @shesrunningaway Год назад +1

    I’m shocked. No mention of saving for an emergency fund.

  • @tommccabe1019
    @tommccabe1019 11 месяцев назад

    Two college educated individuals ! How do they not spend any of your higher education time on avoiding this situation! Their inclination will be to buy the commuter car and keep the truck!

  • @sarahdefelice5630
    @sarahdefelice5630 Год назад +1

    I feel guilty when you talk about their grocery budget being high. I’m feeding five (we pack lunches) and I’m happy if I’m under 1200 for the month. I need help! We eat pretty clean but simple meals.

    • @sheila3936
      @sheila3936 Год назад

      Maybe you need to start tracking your grocery spending into categories to see where the money is going. Too much meat, organic produce, prepared meals, specialty foods for dietary restrictions, not buying seasonally or sales, etc.

    • @dianasimplifies
      @dianasimplifies Год назад

      I spend a lot too and pack lunches. Eating clean isn't cheap. I don't care how many sales you hit up. And I refuse to eat seasonally. We want to eat fresh fruit year round.

  • @servantwarrior880
    @servantwarrior880 Год назад +3

    Just FYI, it is defintely not fool proof. LifeLock didn't catch a breech byt my bank did. LifeLock never caught it...I cancelled.

  • @beacreates4370
    @beacreates4370 10 месяцев назад

    $180 a month for car insurance means they JUST have liability. Unless you are a driving a beater car, you need comp, collision, and uninsured motorist. Cause shit happens and you don't want to be financially responsible for the damage to you're own vehicle should you get in an accident or someone does a hit and run. I know it's more expensive. But unless you have the savings to spare to just straight up buy a new car, you need it.

  • @susanmccutcheon5492
    @susanmccutcheon5492 Год назад

    Dave is right. Pay off the high interest credit cards first.

  • @jbeck1234
    @jbeck1234 Год назад +5

    Just saying that just because you do youtube disqualies you from giving budgeting advise is odd. Just because you may have a larger amount of money coming into the home does NOT by any means make you good at staying WITHIN your means. Look at NBA stars for instance. They get more money then i will probably ever see in my lifetime, yet they are broke minutes after they retire because of their spending habits. RUclips is no guarantee that you will pay off your house.

    • @suet9761
      @suet9761 Год назад +1

      If you watch their other videos, before she started RUclips they have paid off their house with this method.

  • @mallory1989
    @mallory1989 Год назад +1

    What about emergency fund?

  • @darcyrobb3692
    @darcyrobb3692 Год назад +1

    Shouldn’t they cancel there credits cards after paying off & just keep one?

  • @nazokoneko
    @nazokoneko Год назад

    Hi Christine, this has probably been asked before but I’m curious why you never mention credit card balance transfers in situations like this? Especially since it’s pretty unlikely they’ll follow all your advice and be able to pay off the cards that quickly. Maybe there are downsides to balance transfers that I’m not aware of?

  • @Mare00711
    @Mare00711 Год назад

    They need to follow Dave Ramsey.

  • @carlyhopkins4549
    @carlyhopkins4549 Год назад

    I may have missed it but did you say where a budget review request can be submitted?

  • @frugalfoodfamily
    @frugalfoodfamily Год назад

    Maybe sell the van too 🤷‍♀️

  • @barbaramatarazzo4269
    @barbaramatarazzo4269 Год назад

    Your right on the money killing off debt is a must they say people making over 100.000 thousand dollars are living pay check to paycheck in the state of n.y. that use to be nice money! Now it's just survival (sad) I total agree with debt payoff get rid of it and don't go back

  • @christinevoss6993
    @christinevoss6993 Год назад

    Barclay's is usually associated with a time share type vacation thing. Possible problem?

  • @kimberlyhuerta2993
    @kimberlyhuerta2993 Год назад

    I just discovered your podcast. How do we submit our budget for help? I would love some ideas for a one income family of 6.

  • @markakira8988
    @markakira8988 Год назад

    for YTbe Algo..

  • @christinab9133
    @christinab9133 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @wendeymorales19
    @wendeymorales19 Год назад

    What do you recommend for someone who bought a car, high interest rate due to rebuilding credit and is now under water on the loan. Would you take the hit get as much for the car as possible and then add the difference to a new loan for a cheaper car?

    • @saradeaton687
      @saradeaton687 Год назад

      Depends on your income, how much the loans is, etc. Is there any way you can refinance to lower interest now?

    • @sheila3936
      @sheila3936 Год назад

      So you’d still be under water on the new loan since you’re just rolling the debt? Also interest rates have gone up, so unless your existing loan has a higher rate than what you could get currently that wouldn’t be a benefit.

  • @tommccabe1019
    @tommccabe1019 11 месяцев назад

    Credit cards

  • @debbiegarrison9801
    @debbiegarrison9801 Год назад

    Bread basket?!?!? 😂😂😂😂

  • @kathiholland3554
    @kathiholland3554 Год назад +1

    Ten cards thats nothing i have 15. And only make a third of their income.

  • @patriciabellah9392
    @patriciabellah9392 Год назад

    Eating out or frozen food.

  • @Mare00711
    @Mare00711 Год назад

    No sell the minivan too!

  • @karenrowles9788
    @karenrowles9788 Год назад

    800 sf? No no NOOO.

  • @rosaryfitzgerald165
    @rosaryfitzgerald165 Год назад

    Kids those age need 529 savings accounts for college.

  • @divinedivid
    @divinedivid 10 месяцев назад

    The mom is paying 110$ when they make 9k a month lol. That’s insane.

  • @patdoman8209
    @patdoman8209 Год назад

    Noice!😊😊