The little girl’s greatest wish is to be Normal
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Imagine your own mother saying no to fixing your life forever 😢😢
The mom was protecting the daughter from getting into fights again even when she wants her daughter to to be normal too and mom probably don’t want the daughter to be paralysed
@@mcxiaonalit’s a chance not 100%
@@The_thumbIf the doctor is telling you that the other option is safer then the mother is justified in her fears, at the end of the day it's the patients choice but the mother is right to be concerned and fear the daughter having a far worse quality of life. At the end of the day living with tourettes has a lower impact on life possibilities than paralysis would.
@mcxiaonal if the mother doesn't allow rhe surgery the child has a 100% chance of suffering for the rest of her life. A 50% chance of success is better than a 100% chance of failure..
@@kookou13 that ignores the magnitude of suffering, many people are able to live somewhat regular lives, getting jobs and pursuing their talents, the risk of paralysis could lead to a 50% of drastically increasing the suffering where she can no longer work a job or have independence when she is older. It's a far more difficult decision than you make it seem. You can also argue that the mother will be hated by the daughter for denying the surgery but the daughter may also become resentful if the surgery is unsuccessful. Overall it is a very individual decision which can only be made with information that we do not have.
I would be so mad at my mom if she wouldn’t let me get the surgery too.
(Please don’t reply. I get the point.)
Edit: Tysm for 11K likes!
and that's beyond fucked up too, why wouldnt you let your child live the life they wanna live
@@riblolox exactly. Like what the actually heck was she thinking?
@@T_413 like it's literally chosing between "leave the tumor and let her die" or "have it removed and she has a chance to live" 💀
@T_413 She was thinking hmm, my daughter could have a very high chance of death or worse issues than tiks.
@@riblolox fr.
Parents should let their children decide.
Dying while surgery is not painful than getting killed by a tumor.
Issue isn't she's going to die from surgery. The conflict isn't even the tumor, it's treatment for the tumor. There's safe option that stop the tumor from being a danger but keeps the tics. There's more dangerous option that removes the tics BUT can use a bunch of other life altering.
A parent in this show let the kid decide and they chose possible death to compete in some worthless competition over saving her life with a quick surgery. I think there opinions should be considered but sometimes even dumber decisions are made.
There are laws in place for this. If a parent is refusing medical care for their children's life threatening conditions the doctors are within their rights to have CPS come and get a court order for the child to receive treatment.
@@Careless-sv6cfher life is not threatened by the less risky surgery. Those laws do not apply here, and are never applicable to the choice between 2 legitimate treatments.
@@booyahincno he talking about different thing.
The mother is used to being needed and used to being overprotective, and I don't get the impression she knows how to be any other way. She needs the girl to still be dependent upon her and doesn't know how to function in any other way. And she's also fighting the typical my daughter is getting older and leaving the nest syndrome on top of everything else. As long as the girl is sick she needs her mother.
Possibly the most selfish shit you could ever do to your child
Some gypsy rose type shit
There are legit people in the real world with that same mentality, it’s sickening
The survival rates of the operation are also dangerous
No. She's just scared about the surgery going wrong. That's normal
If I were that child, my response would be "Either that tumor is getting cut out of my life or YOU ARE. Choose."
Kids don't get to make medical decisions for themselves. She'd have to declare independence
Preach!
Lol, but then you would have to wait until you were 18. Especially since if it had a 70% failure rate.
@MYSTERYBLACKROSE depends on the state. Some states will allow minors to make their own medical decisions.
@@classifiedclassified9657 Which is why you avoid those states if you have children. Never let the government have control over your child and never let them convince you a child knows what's best.
Mom is living in her own fear, not her daughters needs.
so basically the gamma knife thing is much safer than the surgery that will make the girl normal so the mom is like do the gamma thing and the girl starts crying. some bullies at school were making fun of the girl so she egged their lockers but she had a seizure and fell or something so thats why she ends up in the hospital and the mom dosent want the girl to go to school. the girl tells this one doctor that the mom is kinda controlling and overprotective and the girl really wants the tumor gone. the mom keeps refusing the normal surgery so the doctor wants the girl to tell her mom how much the surgery would mean but the mom says she already understands but the girl yells that she just wants to boss her around and doesnt even care about her. she says shes angry at everything and feels like a puppet and others are pulling the strings but removing the tumor is the only way for her to gain control over her body. the mom understands and talks to her and she gets the surgery and shes super happy.
could you pls like? it took a lot of time to write this and find the episode. its season 6 episode 17 if u wanna watch. hope this helped.
I’ve been SEARCHING this comment section for the paragraph guy. Thank you! You got your like from me:)
😂 "took a lot of time" only a google search away.
Thanks 👍🏽
It’s so infuriating watching the person suffering from an illness want it cured no matter what then someone always gotta intervene saying they don’t want it done like they gotta live with whatever this other person is going through
Tics from tourettes are not just annoying. They are physically extremely painful. My twin has tourettes syndrome. We had no idea what it was for YEARS because back in late 90s early 2000s it was not as well known. She saw many, many Drs. Got alot of scans at a neurologist. They just assumed it was another symptom from her OCD or ADHD. Took her seeing a Dr who had experience with tourettes to tell her. Was so crazy because that Dr knew right away. Then years and years later it's commonly known! But horrible for her mom to say no.
My sister would take even more of a risk for a chance to not suffer. It's not just the emotional side of bullying and side eyes from people who don't understand/care like I said it's physically painful. She can have so many tics sometimes that parts of her body go numb or hurt so much all she can do is cry. It's embarrassing and painful.
To get people to understand I'm going to share an example of what my sister said. We talked about it a lot over years obviously and I wanted to understand better to help her as I hate watching her suffer. you know that jump you do when you're falling asleep and feel like you're falling? That awful feeling of having no control over your body/muscles? And sometimes the jolt is so hard it almost hurts? Scares you too. That's what tics are like. They suck they can be painful especially if you have hundreds that day, some are harder then others. They can feel them coming on though unlike that falling feeling jump. With tourettes The brain sends a wrong signal, body moves on its own. Yes they can try to stop them but it's hard and they can only hold them back for so long, also doing so will cause them to have a ton of tics at once. Stress also causes more tics.
Best thing you can do if you meet someone with tics is just ignore the tics. Act like they are not happening. Don't bring it up unless you know them well. Talking about them causes stress causing more tics. The kind where you curse is super uncommon. Most have physical tics only, some make noises/grunts them like under 5% of those with tourettes say actual words. Sadly have noticed some fake tourettes for attention. Horrifying and spreads misinformation. Most do NOT say words. Most common kind is like I said physical and audible noises but not words. Wish we had more funding for a cure because people with it suffer so much more then most know.
My sister tried every medication under the sun to help. Sadly only ones that worked are addictive. She didn't want to stay on them because of that. Also because the only dose that actually helped lessen her tics would make her hard to wake up. To the point her daughter could not wake her and thought she had died. Scared the shit out of everyone. So she stopped taking the meds that same day. Marijuana helps SLIGHTLY. She can't smoke though as it's not legal in the state we now live in. When she was able to smoke it did help, and feel a medical dose of the liquid kind would help her enough to live somewhat comfortably. But sadly once again not legal yet. Truly hope it is soon for her sake and others like her who need medicinal marijuana.
I tried to explain best I could how much it sucks. I have watched her break down so many times, some days literally begging for death because her tourettes are so bad that day. But I suck at explaining things, regardless had to say something after seeing this video.
I'm glad we have gotten to a point most know what it is, I truly hope that means we will have a cure one day. Donate to science and the study for a cure if you can! ❤
@QueenZoltra extremely well stated. I can relate to your situation & that of your sister only too well.
I have it as well and right now I have a tic that has been happening about a week and it's made my head and neck hurt tremendously. Sucks
You and your sister are very brave. 👏👍💪
So, I have this weird tic. Where I involuntarily cock my head to the side and have like a mini seizure. And like a bolt of sensation shoots down my spinal cord.
It’s barely noticeable but I’ve had it my whole life. I’ve always thought it was weird.
It’s actually super pleasurable.
Extremely relaxing and just really good feeling.
My heart breaks for you and your family. You are very strong and I will empathize with others with neurological disorders and will share this information, as well as learn more. Thank you.
Murphy on his way to tell a patient that they have a brain tumour for the 457th time
Sadly they are more common than you think and brain cancer is still the deadliest form of cancer for people under 40. I lost my Mum to one last year. It does annoy me how shows like this love their brain tumour stories with surgery magically curing all symptoms when that is uncommon in reality. We need far greater research into better treatment options.
Really impressive acting by the girl.
Medically, social services could step in, as refusing to treat a tumor in the safest manner could be grounds for guardianship to be transferred to a more competent adult party.
In Dr. House, he had a lot of fun doing just that
But was she refusing both treatments or just the tumor resection, cuz Dr Murphy seemed against it as well
The mother was going with the less dangerous option. The more dangerous option would have been to fully remove the tumor, the one Murphy suggested was the gamma knife.
"Do you enjoy this?"
"Yeah actually I do." 😂😂😂
I get parents think best of thier kids but whenever there’s a chance at a normal life for a kid they nope out and would rather their kid be sick/dying
At this point it should be the kid's choice.
There should be some kind of a test chart to determine if they can make choices for themselves within the hospital.
"Patient breathes" - You need surgery 🤷
I used to have tics when I was a child and I got teased a lot because of it😅.
It's getting better when I reached teenage years, my neck stopped jerking just some face twitching remain. And it's completely gone when I reached adulthood. 👍🏻
Mom was worried about her daughter not being able to do anything. Being paralyzed would b bad. Although I'd think the tumor would eventually kill her if it kept growing. I'd take the chance on surgery. 😮
Dude. I'm a new parent. But if I am ever so unlucky to find myself in a situation like this.
If my kid said to me "I can take care of myself. I just want to be normal"
Not even a question.
I am autistic and honestly it was a rough childhood I have but if I was in the position of that girl I could be walking by my own to the surgery room. I’m not really mad at the life I have but if I can be more efficient and effective in school or job I could take the surgery no matter the cost.
I understand the Moms point of view, this is heartbreaking, especially if you don't know the doctors well but at the same time its not like you can keep the tumor in the brain
Ikkk
Whats the reason that she cant get the surgery 😭
Potential for being paralysis.
The mothers fear of the list if potential complications and side effects.
Money?
@@patricverlinden4342 first see the short 5 times and then comment.
@@Solokhnir369 ?
"Mom, I want the surgery. *I want freedom* !"
No no. Mommy needs you to be like this for pity
Either that or for some sense of control. My grandma refuses to admit my uncle had autism and not cerebral palsey
Season 6 Episode 17
Thanks!
Thank you!
She ate smile fruit
OmG she reminded me of my mom.
Imagine the possibilities to be a normal person and your mother says “Sorry…”
Because if the surgery goes wrong she might die. It's logical she chose the safer alternative
The mom wants that disability check.
I work with a student that has tic. He does the same as this child do. He is a beautiful child.
Comfortably numb
This show is such a joke it makes me die of laughter each time I see one of these clips. When hilarity ensues I cannot hold back.
People really need to pay attention! Mom isn't saying no surgery at all. There are 2 types of surgical procedures being presented. One is less risky and will help with the seizures but she will still experience symptoms similar to what she already has. The other will get rid of the symptoms but is far riskier with the risks including stroke and partial paralysis. The girl is being short sided, she wants the seizures to stop and be "normal" but isn't thinking about the risks and what being paralyzed might do.
I’d never speak to my mother again
Paragraph guy, we need you...
The life she could have with the surgery is worth the risk. She wasn't living and that tumor could turn bad and kill her.
"you need surgery right away!
"Hahahaha 😂😂"
Well, I have tics and I'm just made aware of this possibility. I wonder if that's what's been bothering me my whole life
Yeah, that's what went through my mind too
Then you need to go to the Dr and let them look at you.
I don't know if you take meds but they said mine is something called Tardive Dyskinesia and it's cause is some of the meds I'm on. I guess we'll see. Currently taking me off several things and the neurologist started me on a med that's supposed to combat it
@@jennchubb3200 I don't, actually. My doctor said it's part of my severe anxiety diagnostic (I sometimes peak at 150-160 bpm), so all I take are calming pills that don't make that much of a difference. So who knows, I'll try checking it again
This autistic doc is the greatest,got to get into the show,amazing
“ You can! “
“ But what about the bills?! “
Damn that little girl was a really good actress
“Mother I need a live saving surgery.”
“No”
wtf?
She ate a smile fruit
That’s when you call CPS for medical neglect
Children should have final say.
I heard of a story (worse than this when it comes to selfishness but still preaty bad) of a guy who had some sort of tummor in the section of his brain that helps with development and growth. The doctor saidn2 outcome could happen he will be abnormally tall or abnormally short. The parents didn't want to do the surgery because they was hoping he would be tall. He stayed 4ft.8 or 5 i dont remember but he was abnormally short. And now his family makes fun about in which is really messed up their selfishness effected their child development so I would be hella pissed if my parents did that to me.
Parents need to learn to listen to their children. They don’t own them.
parental consent shouldn’t be required in a situation like this. i mean shit it shouldn’t be required at all past like 16 but i digress.
Loving the energy in the comments about how the daughter has a right to choose and the mom needs to back up. Now apply that energy to gender affirming care. How many are against that but still support the minor in the show 🤔 Just pointing things out.
Gender 'affirming' is botching perfectly normal and healthy tissues. It's NOT a TUMOR! Get your facts straight.
@odvdropbox3618 you don't even know what gender affirming surgery looks like. bet you've met trans people you couldn't even clock as being trans. stop talking about things you don't know anything about.
of course I will be in position of “let kid decide”. What is more: I would even let kid refuse medical treatment their parents want. I would love to have this right as a kid, it would made my own life so much easier. After turning 18 my first decision was to stop treating my stupid dandruff and to start medication for ADHD. I lost so much opportunities for not treating ADHD, wasted so much time on treating dandruff, and damaged my general health by antibiotics for dandruff (becoming nothing else worked). it was 11 years ago. I still have dandruff and it didn’t affect my life in any way, I even found myself way to minimally it (aleppo soap). My body didn’t 100% recovered from dandruff treatment damage. My career is affected by late start of medication for health issue that was real struggle.
Kids should have medical autonomy. I didn’t need gender affirming procedures because I am cis, but I am really happy that my sister’s daughter is getting it becoming her mother also beloved in medical autonomy. And I am almost no contact with my mother.
Good point. But just making sure, are you for or against minors making their own decisions?
Bro ate a smile fruit
Go for the doctor House solution and not-so-discreetly create an injury that will force the hospital to treat the girl, whether or not there’s parental permission
The possibility of all the Other Bad things that could happen may have freaked the mother out as some sounded worse then how her daughter is now
I watched a video a mother made where her son woke up in the middle of being utanised after she told doctors to pull the plug on him...she makes videos trying to judtify such cruelty. He hadnt been brain dead at all like she though, just in a coma because he had been severely burnt and the real truth was she probably couldnt bring to live with how drastically his face had changed. Pure evil parents out there. Despite him waking up she still told the doctors to continue with the procedure instead of stopping it.
Now i need to know, where is the guy who tells you what episode this is
Hmmm 🤔, so I don’t have Tourette’s. I just have a brain tumor 😄.
So that's why law's move is called gamma knife
Nah she like that check that’s why😭
Look at Jared 😍
Damn, the people in the comments just don't care about the fact that it's either "make it never get worse" or "make it go away BUT risk becoming a veggie"
It feels like nobody here has a brain
What a selfish woman. Choosing her quality of life over her daughter's...
I would hate my mother so much after that
Thats no mother, thats a jailer.
Damn now I have to watch this. He's like the opposite of House.
Oh no, another Gypsy Rose case
What is a Gamma Knife? It sounds like something that came out of a Fictional movie
Momma doesn't want that disability money to stop😂
Bruh as a kid, i never asked my parents that lot of money 😢
She looks a lot like the girl who plays Zola on grey’s anatomy
⚖️ tumor that could become maglinant and kill her (and given it was in her brain, it couldve been a very painful death), or removing the tumor thatll a) potentially save her life in the long run and b) give this teen a normal life? whats more important: the daughter's mental health and life, or keeping the tumor whichll mean the daughter has to rely on mama dearest for longer? ⚖️
the mom is being very selfish out of fear and having that need to hold her children too close that it's suffocating the poor girl 🤨
The mom needs her daughter to need her
Gamma knife you say??? Law pulling up fr
It was either die in surgery, get the tumor removed through it, or die because of the tumor, surgerys worth it cause at least if you die it isnt painful
That literally wasnt the option displayed in the video. It was get the gamma knife, have no seizures anymore but keep the tics or do surgery and possibly get wosmrse symptoms.
I was about to say that tourettes syndrome looked so fake. we don't tic every 5 seconds of our lives. then he said it was a tumour
What is the name of the movie?
Good doctor
Name of the movie or web series please 😊
I would never forgive my mother if she said no.
GAMMA KNIFE??? HOLY SHIT I LOVE ONE PIECE
This mother is selfish in denying the surgery.
The Gamma knife is safer. Like... a lot
Anyone in the United States can choose what can be done to their own body in a hospital at the age of 16. (If anyone didn't know. 👌🏼)
Did she get the surgery???
It is very impressive how the people in the comments seem to be unable to listen to the video to understand that the mom is not refusing for the daughter to get treatment. The issue is which one. The risky one or the safer one. I swear you guys have no comprehension whatsoever.
I hade a brain tumor in third grade
Dude speaking as if he's a neurosurgeon. That's a neurosurgery consult, not general surgery. Creators of this TV series should do their homework😂😂😂😂
😮 The Good Doctor is a series about an autistic savant who is an exceptional surgeon and diagnostician, based on a real person. It was a great show that had it's series finale this year.
There was a dude with Tourette’s at my school and everyone loved him to death
I got to take a trip to Ireland with him on it and we had such a fun time
Yes a portion of that time was me supporting him as he was prone to fainting but he was so full of joy me and many other couldn’t help enjoying his company
He also knew how to breakdance and would tear up the floor at homecoming
Gamma knife isnt so bad ive had it. There are more aggressive and invasive treatments.
The mums right if you watch the entire thing the girls ends up nearly dieing
I don't see the 7th season in Netflix, guys may I know where I can find it?
It's very ignorant of her not to let her daughter get surgery especially when Shaun is explained why she should get it.
Did you watch the video?
It’s called the good doctor
as someone with an unspecified tic disordered i am now scared its a tumor lol
Movie name
she looks like will smith
As someone with Tourette's Syndrome, please tell me their isnt a tumor in my head
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The mum proberly dosent want her to get surgery due to her getting money for her daughter having "tourette's syndrome" so the mum dose not want to lose out on money that could be the reson.
What movie is this
What episode?
Are parents irl actually allowed to deny their kids treatment from something like this?? I can't believe it, and if how common is that around the world
what episode is this?
What show is this??
This mother is the definition of selfish!!!