Exposing My TOXIC KOREAN EX BOYFRIEND as i get ready for bed | *traumatizing*
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this rant is gonna give Sophie a peace of mind for all the lifetime haha
@@torr3n true
After he slapped you across the face he started taking selfies with you and telling you to smile probably just in case you went to the police - he would use those pics as “evidence” to say that nothing happened and you guys were having a good time. HES so CRAZY. I’m so sorry girl you didn’t deserve that❤️
@Elite Itself she slapped him on a different day (which doesn’t make it okay) but I’m just referring to this specific moment because he hit her and then came up with a calculated plan to cover it up (if she did go to police)
@Elite Itself he deserved it like ☠ be actually deserved worse
@Elite Itself are you really defending the guy 💀
@Elite Itself you seem like you do
@Elite Itself you seem like you'd be good friends with that guy ❤️
This was definitely not what I was expecting going into this video. Wow, I am just puzzled at the fact this abusive relationship occurred at such a young age. As a person who has never been in a relationship at 18 years old this was truly eye-opening.
I am so glad you were able to tell this story.
As I watched this video I thought video "her parents did a shi- job at protecting her."
You hitting the vape after telling these stressful as FUCK stories is what made me subscribe. 😂 I'm glad you got out of that relationship and hope you get nothing but the best in the future.
hit the vape wit me 🥲❤️🫶🏻
@@s0hyuna i was hitting mine during the whole storytime lmaooo
@@s0hyunai was hitting mine the whole time in shock😭💀 glad you’re out of there bc holy hell
Straight up Nuthead. I'm so glad you came out from this walking red flag. RUclips algorithm led me to this and im so happy to find a fine gem here. You go girl and stay safe ✨🤍
@@emiphoric2002 where the fuck did they say “psychopath”
@@plutoswaggynutsac6321 wrong message mb
My ex boyfriend was toxic. Such a terrible experience I wish I never met him. Thank God I'm a different person now and I learned to defend myself from all this shit. You are very strong and brave for opening up
Proud of you ❤️ remember to never feel guilty about any situation, because if you do it will cause you so much stress, always take these as lessons. learn from the past, become the better version of yourself, everything happens for a reason, this made you into a stronger person, look at where your know at, I know it’s hard sometimes telling yourself I wish I’ve never met him maybe my life would’ve been better and sinking into that guilt, put the mindset that, what happened was awful, and hopefully never happens again or to anyone else but if it never happened maybe I would have never learned and let sm1 take over me next time, always take these as lessons and get your justice, your a hero I wish you the best in life, god bless
@@ayotochan8892 I don't know cause having been exposed to toxic men both in my family and outside now I can't trust anybody nor I want to have a relationship. Id rather die alone than suffer because of a man ever again in my life. I don't really feel guilty though, I just wish I had loved myself more
girl you deserve the world after why uve been through, i hope you heal quick and you live a happy life. this is from my heart
insane story, you didn't deserve such a toxic and abusive relationship
I'm going through a healing process because of a guy EXACTLY like that. The fact that I see you talking about it freely open my eyes cause I can't help but having this guilty shit. It's hard for the victim to realize they ARE the victim. Thank you
Not a smoker, but I just thought it was so hilarious that you vaped after telling that stressful story 😂😅. Like a “I’m so done” moment.
Yeah
It was funny to me too
The way I felt soo stressed and depressed by just listening about it can't even imagine how she felt in that situation more power to you girlll
Girl this story is wild. You gotta do more story times like this!
So happy you shook this loser off. Ugh. You’re a queen that deserves someone worthy ❤
Sometimes we get caught up in abusive relationships because at home we see abuse. I don’t know if you witnessed abuse in your own home which led you to think that somehow you did not deserve better… But at 16 it is very hard to have that kind of wisdom and sort all of that out. I’m glad you’re out of that toxic relationship… And definitely the important thing is to stay out of toxic relationships❤ because you certainly deserve a whole lot better treatment!
Nah bruh listening to this story just reassures me ALL the red flags. Honestly y’all BOTH we’re RED FLAGS. I’m glad you learned what they are from what he did and from what you did. Sometimes we have red flags that in the moment we can’t see until the future comes.
Just because she had toxic traits does NOT mean she deserved the abuse tho! Just thought it was important for people to keep this in mind 😔
@@razzledazzledorito6552 agreed!!!
girls shouldn't fight over guys. Not cool how that girl laughed at u and called u pathetic. Not cool. Girls should be there for each other, not against each other. ESPECIALLY when it comes to some random dude who may seem cool, but is actually just a piece of shite.
Idk why, but I'm so invested in this story. Honestly, at least u learned from that and can grow as a person and yk just rise above that part of your life. I've had some bad experiences as well, but you just gotta learn from them.
I also really love that you admitted some stuff about who u were when you were younger, bc that takes courage. Not a lot of ppl would say stuff like you did about your old self, bc they are too afraid they might be judged.
I think it's great that you had a big talk about this as well, because it's quite difficult for a lot of ppl to talk about this sorta stuff.
Sorry for the long paragraphs haha. And thanks for reading, if u read the whole thing lol
ur a g
girl this feels like a FaceTime I love it, also you deserved way better.
Her story telling so expressive and made a bad moment entertaining and funny like a comedian would.
But her disclaimers was what got me. "It's not a vibrator". "Btw it isn't a nicotine patch". Because I never was thinking it until she said it.
I'm surprised on how oblivious I've been to such incidents happening in a relationship?! Man I'm so sorry to hear this, stay strong girl!!!!
This is my first exposure to you and I have to let you know that you're entertaining as hell. I could listen to you tell stories for hours.
PSYCHOOOO TOTAL PSYCHO dudeee
Im so glad that you came out of all of this.💖
More storytimes please!!!
Hello, please don’t use the word Psycopath as an insult.
We are not in the place to give him a diagnosis.
Psycopathy is a real mental illness that makes suffer many people so you know it is just kinda disrespectful to use that disorder as an insult!! Thank you ^_^
@@emiphoric2002 hey, I'm sorry. Thank you so much for being so kind and letting me know :)
@@shwetaghosh6193 of course! Thanks for understanding 💖
gurl first yeah i did enjoy your story time, we need a pt 2!!!! and second your stories were hella crazy, that guy is a psychopath on another level! but i'm glad it's all in the past and came stronger. i hope you are staying safe and be healthy ma gurl! love ya
Yay story time with mama burrito hope you are staying safe and healthy love you and also your helping me out with this semester by keeping a smile on my face thank you for coming into my life mama burrito
love you too burrito stay safe
It’s crazy how we’re all different. Different race different age different lives but we’re making the same dumb mistakes! I’m proud of you for realizing in the end how much better you can do! You’re super strong even at a young age! I hope you find the happiness you deserve! 😊
race don't matter, we all be dumb asf LMFAOO
Most if not all men are not worth it, regardless of race LOL. They are all pretty much wired in the same way too lol
I'm fully convinced that everyone's had this kind of a situationship / relationship in highschool that has scarred them forever
I would’ve had this relationship lol I had a guy friend who I could tell was toxic and kept making moves on me but I never let him be anything more because I had severe trust issues. So my issues saved me from having even more issues lol.
Nah not me Highschool went flying studying for entrance exams so that I can become an engineer
I don’t really like guys enough to date them but I suffered toxic cousins for yearsssss and I don’t tolerate anything now
I didn't, my Boyfie was like a uman golden retreiver. But i think that might be because i'm from a small town...
i had a thing with this guy who kept pressuring me into a relationship, thankfully i rejected him or brokeup with him (name it whatever) cause he started being too much
bruh ur ex saying he had heart cancer in order to break up with u has the same energy as Kat from euphoria saying she has a "brain disorder" so she could get rid of Ethan... 💀
I am so happy for you coming forward with your experience in the toxic relationship and bravely putting both his as well as your mistakes yk, thank u sm for also pointing out "red flags" cuz when we all come in an relationship we tend to ignore those which legit turns relation toxic at the end. wish u would get a better one for yourself lyyyyy
Ohhh I LOVE your deep voice. I'm 26F and also have a somewhat deep voice or it's kinda hoarse or destroyed a bit from GED or idk it always made me insecure, because other women have much higher pitched and smoother voices, but your voice is deep and just sounds SO GOOD. And I feel like if mine just sounds a little bit like yours to others then there's hope for me lmao
damn really?? never thought my voice was an appeal, thank you for mentioning!!❤️
Omg I lost it at the cancer part. This cant be real, it just keep getting worse. And so much physicological and physical violence. Hope you are doing okey after all that 🤍
I think I can relate to some of the stories you shared. As a 16yo girl and madly in love with someone, we are actually blinded by the idea of marriage and forgive the other person hoping that we would see the changes in them. But hell no. We, most of us, have been through this and let's spread the word for our younger sisters in their teenage. If you feel uncomfortable, unloved, not being valued, being cheated on and whatever that makes you sad or cry, please get out of the relationship. You are wasting your time and fantasizing your future with the wrong person.
SOPHIE I'm so sorry this is something you had to experience at all at such a young age! I went through some similar things with my ex when I was 15, we lasted for 7yrs, not very pretty D: I just wanna give you hug, I could tell that the memories of that were really traumatizing. ;-; You deserve better, I'm sending lots of virtual hugs your way. :')
How did u get out of the relationship?? Ik a lot of people would struggle to leave a relationship after so much time and commitment bc they feel like they HAVE to stay.
Okay pls not the heart attack😭😭
I can relate to this as I've been through that situation, and I'm so traumatized that i rejected every guy who hitted on me because i thought and still believe that all of them are same at the end. And it was a life lesson that i learned way too early.
Girl, im so glad you got out of this, cause nobody deserves to experiencing abuse in any way. You’re literally so strong! Hope that jerk wont find anyone else to treat badly.
Also I admire your courage, using your platform to talk about this serious topic and bring awareness. You go queen!
Im half high watching this and girl idk how you stayed. Glad you got out of it. THIS IS WHY IM SCARED SHITLESS OF MEN.
It kept getting worse omdss. You are so strong, hope you heal from this❤️❤️ praying for you to never go through this again
Thank you for sharing your story. The fact is that he is a complete narcissist.
There are lots of these stories across all nationalities. Many many men who are like him. Women should know that there are men like this everywhere. They make the girls feel like the behaviour is normal, or make the girl feel like she deserves that treatment, or that she cannot get anyone else or anyone better than them.. To them you are a pawn to play with and to brag to their friends. Even as adults. they would still behave this way. Men do not think and feel the way women do and we get confused because they might be very affectionate and attentive on the one hand but a total douche bag on the other hand. No matter how intelligent you are - it makes no difference - Women are emotional beings, enticed by charm.
About these men: Everything is about them. Everything they do and say is to get what they want. There should be books written on RED flags to watch out for, because it is not easy to see in early stages of a relationship as men are good at FAKING RELATIONSHIPS.
It isnt surprising that that girl laughed at you - it only means he had already fed her a lot of bullshit about you. She already was hooked on his charms. It is easy to be fooled by these guys - they know how to turn on their charms. They dont care about you or respect you at all. You are just there as a tool/object to be used when they need you. Another thing is that they cannot be alone... they will cheat or drop one girl and move onto the next immediately. The more they lie and gaslight and get away with it, the worse they become because then know what bullshit works and what doesnt. He probably did the very same to every girl he met and he will NEVER change. Even if he gets married. You got lucky. Imagine you married him! He would be soo abusive and cheat and lie and gaslight, etc. All the worse qualities you can imagine.
Sometimes although these experiences are painful, it makes us stronger and we learn and you got lucky to get out of it.
No matter how intelligent you are - it makes no difference - Everything is about them. Everything they do and say is to get what they want. There should be books written on RED flags to watch out for, because it is not easy to see in early stages of a relationship as men are good at FAKING RELATIONSHIPS.
Hi, i don’t know if you’re an actual psychiatrist or anything but don’t say that someone is [mental disorder] just like that, that guy is obviously a bad person but you shouldn’t use a mental disorder as an insult because narcissism is a real thing that makes suffer real people! And we do not have enough informations nor skills to give a diagnosis, thank you for understanding ^_^
Bruh I like how you excused the girl for laughing . What kind of person laughs at such situation ? Maybe she was also psycho 🤦
@@controversialgaming1364 none of them are psycho stop using that term 😭
I mean women are capable of doing the same shit too women aren’t innocent victims and men all bad
this. is. reality.
I don't know how I stumble across your video, but it continues to prove that what we see in kdrama is all an imagination -- what we wish real men were like. Lol
OMG Sophie, I’m shocked , I totally understand why you’ve been avoiding dating, that’s scary and psycho af 😨
Stay safe dear, love you ❤🥰
Wow girl you made me thank God for not have a relationship on my whole life..
I love this kind of video tho it makes me feel like we're friends talking 💙
Girl, same. I experienced a similar toxic relationship and got off dating for a few years... 4 years later and I still don't date. I just want to be by myself. I feel better and I am working on my career. I have zero confidence in dating, maybe later if I meet someone I like I would first have to establish a strong friendship but till then I'm pretty good on my own.
Sorry for what you went through. You deserve better girl. I love your storytelling, you're really funny and had me cracking lol! I was i n v e s t e d.
we need the club story time 🙏🏻
ft. ‘a w e s o m e’ friends
can’t wait to see it
Yea. I want to know who was the ass that drugged her. 😢. Glad she’s safe though. !!
sheeesh sophie i just remember my trauma that my ex gave and after that i can't really date anyone because he still threat me and i am so pissed . i
but kudos to you that you get through all this and now you are doing goood , love u sophie
HAHAHA we should honestly just go gay for each other instead 🤷🏻♀️
@@s0hyuna well i'm here too....i became gay because of the trauma my ex gave me,,,,yeyyy (happy face) :))))))))))))))))))
Hearing your story makes me feel better about my own story. For some reason, i stayed with someone who i knew was cheating, insulted me, and lied every day.
I still shame myself for staying with him and not leaving but now i know im not the only one who struggled to leave.
Thanks for posting and im sorry this happened to you.
That’s so hard for you to talk about so I respect that 😊- stay strong queeen you got this
Like you said you were only 16. That shit is crazy though. But I will say this. It's better you went through that at a young age because it made you strong and wise. Imagine going through that in your 30's (yep I did 🤦🏾♀️) and looking like a complete idiot and believing the manipulation. It took me a few years but finally able to get out of that toxic ass situation lol. I know his family was wealthy and all but did he ever even a get little bit of karma??
wordd. ill lyk in pt 2 ;)
Sorry 😂but I’m lucky I’m hard hearted, the guy I dated at 17, everything was cool until he beat me one day because his friend told him he saw me with a guy on the road doing nothing 🤦♀️, I slapped him back but because I know men were stronger, I held back while he beat and later started crying and begging and I said nothing, I already had what to do in my mind and pretended to forgive him, I was in his house and he went to work, i destroyed everything in that house and I mean everything, I rubbed poop in the house and left it open. If any man tries that with me again, he won’t be aliive
@@traceryibo853 😳
@@traceryibo853 you're better than me, I would've stayed until bedtime and tasered the little thing between his legs till it fell off.
Your love language being writing letters is the cutest thing ever🥺
When I start feeling lonley and hopeless, stories like these remind me why its fine being single.
This is sad... I've been in a toxic relationship too. I'm glad you are free from that now. Anywaaay, I'm glad I saw your video again. It's weird that I don't see your vids.
Damn girl. Thankyou for sharing this. I will be sure to keep these red flags in my mind because I tend to ignore them
I relate so fucking hard to some parts of ur story like after the fact being so sussed out u have to question their other ex and u end up digging out sm shit 😭😭😭
I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. Thank you for sharing because it is very eye opening and what for many may not seem so "crazy", for me it is and it makes me remember the world I live in. I wish you nothing but the best in your life! 💫 Beautiful skin!
Sophie please know that there are better guys out there 💗
im gonna die single 🙂
Whew, be careful out there ya'll!
It's not the only possibility, but the way you meet some people is sometimes exactly how they will do you if they haven't worked on themselves. Sit back and observe people and consider their intentions. If you feel like you can't talk about something with someone, that's a problem
Not to be preachy, I'm just coming from experience, happy to see anyone out of this kind of scenario
Girl you’re so funny omg 😂 but you deserve so much better x
This story STRESSED ME OUT so badly. I was suffering the entire time. I'm going to part 2 now though, just to suffer some more.
Pls more girlie talks this video was fun to watch and it fr felt like we were on a facetime
this is the first video of yours that I've seen, I think you're a great storyteller and I can't wait to hear more !
it's 11:30pm and i stumbled across this video by accident, watched it from start to finish and i'm not sure how i should be feeling rn. I sit and stare at the screen with my mouth open. wtf. and thank you.
You look very pretty
New sub. I also dated a compulsive liar. She once said she was gonna die in a week from an unknown illness and broke up with me. Next week she was holding hands with a guy and apologizing. We tried to date years later after highschool and we kept getting into arguments and fights, at one point I tried walking away and she grabbed my arm and pulled me to her so I didnt walk away from her making another excuse. I left the instant she did that.
Now Im with a woman who touches me so gently as if shes afraid to break me. ❤ Never had a love like this ever.
Im glad you survived in strength.
My niece is currently escaping an abusive relationship. I had no idea it was so bad. From showing up with random bruises, to having a gun put to her head twice and a chipped tooth.. As a protective aunt it fuckin hurts and infuriates me that that has happened over the past 5 years for her. I wanna help I wanna be angry but Im at a loss of wjat to do.
you being there for her is more than the world even though it may not seem like it. -sincerely, someone who's been there ❤️
Gurl thank you so much for sharing your story and vulnerabilities with us ❤
Wow, that was bizarre, extreme, toxic, yet hilarious. BUT, I get it. Love is blind and it’s even more blind when you’re so absorbed into the relationship. Eventually, you’ll know when it’s time to move on when you are beyond exhausted. From there on, you live, learn, can see any red flags coming from any future relationships, drop, and keep moving on. It’s like, nope, not having it. Byes! Everyone’s got their stories to tell too. 😆
This felt like I was actually having a conversation with you 😭 every time you told another crazy ass story the only thing going through my mind was "What, from the bottom of my heart, the fuck."
this vid just randomly popped in my feed and im so glad i clicked LOL love your personality 🤍🤍
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you heal from this terrible experience ♥️
We need more parts on this... honestly its really f up and im really sorry that you have to go through this..but indirectly youre just telling us all that how a guy can manipulate u.. so please i need to hear all your stories coz i remember when you said you had very f uped stories and i was wondering how bad it could be coz ive never been through it but now ik why you said that..i hope your next relationship is gonna be amazing ❤️
I think that toxic obsessive people attract other toxic obsessive people but at the same time working on yourself when you know you're toxic is good because you want to change. I guess looking back at yourself and seeing that you were also toxic is the sign of change
Girl.......if my bf grabbed my hair like that.....even tho I don't know Korean.......i would be like " SHIBAAL ISEKKIAAA" and rip off his head and probably rip off his hair
listening to this made me relieve my entire toxic dumbass first relationship lmao
Nah Frs almost same experience at the age of 16. 21 and I’m still recovering and have a lot of recovery to do, it’s not easy to trust a guy anymore. Cant seem to even date because I’m mentally scared this would happen again. I’m sorry that happened to you too!! I hope your healing love
Im so sorry to hear this u r a very strong girl to come out of this hope goods things on the way for uuu love uuuuu 💞
Girl you saying it’s “not that crazy” at the end..?😭 no it definitely was. Saying that relationship is insane is valid for sure
Oh my gosh! You bring up the BEST point! When you’re dating someone crazy psycho; they do this off the wall stuff, and at first you’re like this is so WEIRD and you know it, but THEN you’re like trying to hold them to the same crazy standards they’re setting and jumping on the crazy train with them 🤷🏼♀️
Ooo storytime with mama burrito again!! Another of your videos to cure my blues
HEART cancer???😂
This is literally the first storytime which I've like completed ..pt 2 pleeez and love ya Sophie hope ure doing well♡
ive told this story so many times im so numb 😭😭😭 its so stupid HAHAHAH
defs pt 2, love you too!!❤️
Out of context but you have the most beautiful adult skin I’ve ever seen ❤️
you are so strong omg😭 i’m so sorry this happened to you. thank you for sharing your experience
Girl the way I laughed after the heart cancer story. LMAO THIS GUYS WILL DO THE MOST
omg i literally cant believe such people exist and completely understand why you wouldnt want to date after this shit hope you're doing well now
i feel you sis, you didnt deserve all these shit... and omg yes its surprisingly so fkin common.....i could relate to most of the things you mentioned with my toxic ex... i literally felt the frustration and emotional exhaustion... i wish that we all heal
I fckin need ur stories, i have just broken up with a grown toxic man , and fr sm reason ur stories are what i need to get over that shitty guy❤️ n n n I love you 😁
O_O Actual fuck... That is wild. He wanted to send the poor delivery guy to jail bruh
shit gives me an aneurysm every time i recall it 💀
he need to go to mental hospital lol.
Oh no the heart cancer thing cracked me up cause my ex boyfriend told me the same thing 😭😭 but not for breaking up but for idk symapthy?? Or like so that i won't get super super mad at him for stupid and angering stuff he does?? He also told that he was going to die in few months and from the very beginning i knew like he's lying 😭 like if you have cancer does your parents not care about that ? Why are you not any medication? And guess what i was 16 too at that time 💀
I have never been in a relationship, I am 20 now hearing your experiences I realized what I needed in a guy , what are red flags
Me hearing you say this dramatic but also sad story while also doing my skin care and getting ready to sleep and you kinda doing the same feels like were besties and that makes me feel fuzzy and soft 😂 😊
Btw your so strong girl if I would've seen the signs like cheating or controlling what to wear I would cut it there and literally leave him lol
But I'm proud that as a girl your so strong and when you get a guy that's that shitty leave him because they don't deserve the love of a beautiful women that jerk acted like he could control your life when he controls none I hope from this relationship you haved learned your lesson and not stick with jerks like him
You deserve better. 🥰🌷💗
Wow…i was in a similar kind of relationship and these fucking psychos have a behavioural pattern for sure….I experienced almost everything you said in this video….UFF JUST THINKING ABOUT THAT TIME IS MAKING MY BP RISE
This story is insane sis glad you’re free 😭😭😭
while listening to your story i was comparing it to the "friendships" I had with two different guys and Maaaaaaaannnn were they similar. one of the guys was my best friend's now ex-boyfriend and one of the creepy things he did was while we were all at school with our friend group i was standing next to my BFF and he ( i cant remember why he said this) said "My HeArT LoVeS mY gIrLfRiEnD bUt My HeAd Is AtRaCtEd To CeLiA" it creeped both me and my best friend out sooooo much.
Please keep them stories coming🫶🏾 just subscribed!
i knew relationships are complicated and screws you but this? This!? huh? what? happens? wealthy boys beg? they are smart? plus he sounded like a mixture of both sociopath and a psycopath. relieved you're out of it and realize how twisted it was. just makes me not to ever be in a relationship even though i want to
im so sorry for you to go through this sophie. ur so strong.
I can totally relate to you girl.... I still get nightmares because of that
Bro the way my jaw dropped when you said that end part like I was not expecting that. Honestly he sounds like such a freak 😭
i love how she apply her skin care
I literally wanna be your friend your such a vibe. At the same time this story is so terrible & I’m sorry you had to go through that. Anybody who goes through this it’s okay to end it even if you can’t please ask somebody for help & get advice. ❤
Omg Hi Sophie! 👋🏾😁
I'm happy RUclips made me find you ☺️
I didn't know toxic relationships would be this wild. I'm so sorry you have to go through this in a very young age. 😔
I am happy you're able to tell this story ❤️
Korean guy who plays league of legends just run girls... I had the same experience with a Korean man I wasn't allowed to hang with female friends or talk to female friends back home because he can't understand the language.. He was jealous of my psychiatrist lol he one time hit his face and called police on me he was talking to his ex and other women while accusing me of that... And the begging thing is so real he would get on his knees like in Korean dramas when bow for forgiveness.
Wow he sounds very insecure… and dramatic😅
@@LifeWithYen yes and a sociopath this is like not even 1% of the drama we had he would yell at me when I get panic attacks because it is stresses him out.. He would sleep deprive me if we aren't talking after fighting I am not allowed to sleep if other Korean men are talking behind my back saying I am pretty he would get mad at me for it while I didn't hear them and if I did I wouldn't understand anyway.. If i walk faster or eat finish food faster than him if he cooks something and I don't eat it even if full he ll fight me.. He was so afraid of legal problems so he doesn't hit me directly but keep pushing me cornering me around the house and his relationship with his mom was a bit too much like he tells her everything if I want him to do something even work related because we worked together I had to ask his mom make him do it and his mom couldn't just accept that people from other races have different body types like she was so convinced if I starve myself I ll somehow lose my tights and it is just my bone structure.. Sorry for ranting out just this video brought so many repressed memories.
@@leeknowe1598 wow I’m sorry you went through all that! Sometimes we can’t see the red flags and how poorly someone treats us until after we leave and look back on it all. I find that many people never know what is healthy behavior because their own family never taught them (or is crazy themselves like in his case). It’s a generational curse; you can’t change them, they have to learn, realize this and change themselves. But now you know what a toxic relationship is and I hope you’re in a better place and be able to have a healthier, more sane and emotionally stable partner.
Him: “ if you leave then imma k!ll myself”
Me: “wasn’t you suppose to d!e like 3 months ago?”
I didn’t know weather to cry or laugh!! Heart cancer…..ffs I spat my coffee out … this is so intense 😂😂😂