Being Irresistible 101: 4 Key Feminine Behaviours
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I used to think I should play into these roles and act a certain way to attract males but now I realized it’s better to have a man fall for me for who I am rather than his fantasy of me.
Yep, bcuz once you marry your true self will show
yeah, ik this is probably right but the way she is describing it its a little... "dont be yourself be what men wants you to be" for me
@@gatitakawaii6636 its more like a documentary of how jia is, so No
I initially agreed with this, especially with how the video is presented (“become his obsession”) but I don’t think it’s like that at all, actually! We all want to be loved for our true selves, but the way we want to be approached romantically (taking the time to build chemistry, not over explaining or dumping your entire personality on someone immediately, picking up on cues and communicating subtly) are all things women (at least me) want from men as well. I think this video can be applied unhealthily, but if you watch like a “female gaze” video about how we wish men would approach us its kind of the same thing. People want romance and the slow burn and love that unfolds as you get to know each other more and more and this is how you get it.
@@gatitakawaii6636 that's true, I'd rather be alone than play games all the time!!
So her magic formula is:
☑️ Initiating and holding eye contact
☑️ expert level at “slow burn” relationships - aka she takes her time to talk to the men and not reveal too much so she is mysterious with it so they long for more
☑️ talks little but is 100% honest when she does
☑️ good posture and feminine aura
☑️ never chases, but initiates first move on a guy
thanks queen :)
Sounds like a Gemini I know 🤔
@@Neithia neither did she. She is being herself.
I find the talking little point awful. Old mentality from when women were discriminated and that weakens us. I'm not saying talk non stop overshadow everybody, but what the heck even is this idea.
You are a time saver
What I also really appreciate about her is how she’s genuinely nice to everyone. Like you never see her being rude or condescending, even in her videos where she gives advice she never supports disrespect or getting back at fake friends or people who have wronged you. She tells you to stick up for yourself, focus on yourself and move on. She also treats her fans so nicely and takes in consideration their opinions and support, she once replied to my comment and she was the sweetest. One of the reasons guys were fascinated by her is how nice and chill she actually was despite her cold and high maintenance look!
I think you answered your own question here :) x
Greetings from India 🇮🇳
Would you please tell me what's her you-tube channel's name?
@@shafiyaahmed7882 freezia
Yes exactly, there are tons of pretty girls on the internet. Besides her looks the most important reason she gained so much traction is her personality. Her personality is so kind and it's like she just goes about her day being a nice person and minding her business and is not bothered by anything else. I love her effortless, down to earth, and honest attitude.
Do you mind if I ask Where she replied to you? And dude with what she’s going through right now with everybody’s lashing out about her “fake high class clothes (& etc.) is so crass and just so disappointing for society. Everybody’s so jealous of her and she doesn’t necessarily have the right people to defend her because people do put her on a pedestal and she really needs a lawyer right now! 😢❤
What I learned from this is:
✨Work on your manner, gait and posture. Eye contact too.
✨Be humble, honest and have boundaries. Don't over share.
✨Be yourself, but don't slack. Strive to be better.
Thanks
😢😢
At the end the guy falls in love with the clumsy cute one lol
Those attributes sound like good ideas, unless they keep you from being authentic, in one way shape or form. And- this is based on a specific culture. Other cultures are known for other personality traits, but are just as appealing, imo.
@@ATRMISSFANNaah they will dumb her and marry with other woman 😂
In Robert Greene’s book “Art of Seduction” he talks about how seducing someone is not the same as having a happy and fulfilling partnership with them. I think it’s an important distinction to make. Marilyn Monroe is often referenced because she is what Greene calls a “siren” seduction type, but remember she was severely depressed and died from a drug overdose. Her image was an illusion. If you attract a man with a facade, he will fall out of love once he sees your truth. These videos are helpful to learn about attraction psychology, but don’t turn to them for advice on how to KEEP love.
This should be the top comment!
I couldnt have said it better
i think these tips are useful to a certain point just to understand people's psyche but for a relationship to happen, you true self and healthy communication with your partner is what matters most
This is so important
Yeaah I think it's a common sense .
Don't pour your whole cup in early dating stages
Second, be honest in a relationship after dating stages.
I knew I was going to like her the minute she said “I don’t really like any of the men here” 😂 she didn’t dive too headfirst and kept her guard up just enough, respecting her boundaries and value first!
Exactly! It's so weird seeing ppl saying she's only popular because she's pretty. All the women in the show were beautiful but she stuck out cuz of everything about her was just different.
"I knew I was going to like her the minute she said “I don’t really like any of the men here”" if you think that is confident and "respecting her values" then western women are really lost. good luck.
@@susanwjoh0re735Lmao wdym 💀 she is being herself 😂
naa. im not criticizing 'her'. im criticizing the cassie the harpie. her western way of interpreting what is going on. it's disgusting. feminism really has made women into a pile of human garbage. congratulations.@@hey_you.
@@susanwjoh0re735 you seem so offended😂 theres nothing with what she said i bet you cant even explain whats wrong with it to begin with
The key was that she liked herself more than she liked any of the guys. It's important to note she didn't even think any of them were interested in her but she didn't look for them like Soyeon did. She just stayed true to who she was and approached situations with an open mind.
Some men like her aloofness, some men like women like Jiyeon who's more bubbly and forward. Both Jia and Jiyeon weren't desperate and it made a difference
What did Soyeon do?
I see. I feel like she didn't look for them because none of them interested her enough XD so obviously, she wouldn't go to them. This can be really attractive... but it's not interesting to attract people you don't want, so...
I love that she's also a girl's girl, she never brought down other women and all of her content is placed in uplifting women
trueee jia is definitely a girl's girl
You don’t know how much I like this kind of contents. Feminine energy is powerful in subtle way. You don’t have to be aggressive to lead or make people fall for you. And Jia is definitely the definition.
I love to see your take on Margery Tyrell from Game of Thrones and Naomi from Wolf of Wall Street also. These two and Jia are my idols in term of using femininity.
Uhh I'm also a huuuge Margery fan! 💗
Louder ❤❤❤
I dunno Margery was very manipulative though.... She wanted to be "THE" Queen above all else and acted the way she knew she needed to to get close to whoever was going to be king (i.e. her end game goal.)
Having a loud presence with a quiet demeanor is key. Doing this by having intention behind what you do with your hair, make up, and style. Being expressive on the outside is enough to draw people to you, and make others want to initiate more. This is a great tool, especially if you are naturally shy.
true but sometimes people mistake the shy quiet pretty girl as rude and stuck up. they also try to create their own negative narrative of those girls since they’re so reserved
@@mya6506 it's the closed off energy
@mya6506 that's true cuz that happened to me in high school. A girl I never even met was talking about me negatively. Until people actually get to talk to me, then I get told I'm nice. But that's rly not your problem if people make assumptions about you for no reason. Unless you are actually being closed off when people try to talk with you. Smiling a lot and just being a happy person prevents that perception from others.
Honestly just looking more appealing in general will make you seem more interesting to those around you. People, especially guys, will notice you quicker, wanting to get to know you more than someone who is less attention grabbing.
@@anyadarlingglooking more appealing as in?
long (sorry i got carried away)
I think her appeal to the men in simple terms was because she was well put together and didnt do too much. She literally looks like a prize. All the other girls were drop dead gorgeous but she stood out because she just shined. Everyone else was dressed more plainly/basic but Jia stood out because her personality was shown on the outside. A lot of people are very visual this is why you see folks who totally embody & master a certain aesthetic or their personal style become really popular.
at the end of the day looks are the most important thing sadly. i think if you struggle with this type of look or the mysterious "it girl" apperance/appeal that Jia has then maybe try other looks that fit you better. It might be harmful to your mental health and emotional growth if you try to force this kind of mysterious demenaor. If you are more loud and outgoing then lean into that and just be you because trust me a LOT of men like that as well. Majority of the tips in the video can/will still apply even if you change up the aesthetic and base level demeanor to fit YOU. You dont HAVE to be just like Jia. Some popular "aesthetics" and personality types that draw a lot of male attention are like femme fatale, earth angel fairy, soft girl, goth, baddie ... there is a lot. Show your personality and demeanor through your physical appereance, clothes, and attitude let the suitors come to you. Tbh just know yourself and showcase it the BEST.
Best comment. You can improve yourself but in just the way you truly are. You can choose some topics to appeal you to improve yourself but don't change you to somebody who you are not. I think confidence is improtant too.
such a good comment! +1
Well said
Expressing yourself on the outside is enough to make people draw attention to you without trying so hard! Its a great attention grabber, and subtle initiater. Me personally, I am a bit shy. So it helps when I express myself a bit more loudly with my appearance, because people seem to approach me more when I do. But yes do it in a way that shows who you are on the inside, to compliment your features!
I am so agree with you. If average girl embody mysterious traits what so ever, people don't even care.
Just be authentic self but keep improving in many aspects. My 2 cents. ☺
Her being pretty, having a great body and wearing expensive clothes helps! ... If she was ugly or wore shirts, no matter how great the eye contact and confidence, no man on that show will give a damn . Trust me
Yup Becos men are very visual creatures. You don’t need to be really pretty but decent looking.
Fr, the analysis of the vid is alright but c'mon....Jia was the prettiest of them all 🤣 of course everyone was salivating after her
what does grooming has do to with confidence?. Of course looks matter, but I can assure you if she had an ugly, needy character the men will grow bored of her or worse become disgusted.
I mean it could still work, it will be just harder.
EXACTLY.
All this means nothing without being exceptionally pretty which this girl definitely is.
Even I as a female, feels the Jia energy
I have adhd so i get bored very easily from literally every video i watch , and i also watch a lot of videos related to this topic but your videos are something else, please keep posting. Every second of this vid were so helpful
Thank you for the feedback. How do you like the other videos that doesn’t have film running in the background like this one?
Same to me, I like that they are straight to the point, kind of she appreciates our time ❤
same!
There is something special about her. You’ve opened some perspective for me to learn. However, a relationship will only work if you’re compatible, authentic, and genuine. These are great tips for the dating. Serious relationship requires more effort and work beyond this.
Ofc she's confident and alluring; she's gifted with that ideal Korean face and body that almost all koreans are dreaming to have. If she does not have this standard korean beauty, i doubt if she'd have that level of confidence.
So true
The if someone was gorgeous and had lots of fans everyone would looke at her behaviour analyse and give advice to otheres even if that gorgeous person was being a jerk they would say that was confidence or something, coming up with excuses and making those excuses as advices.
Sadly we can't say the same thing about "ugly" people.
Right, if I looked like her I would be confident too
I think the exact same thing
in the objective Asian beauty standard, she's almost the most beautiful among all the women shown in this video, and of course she acts more like a princess than the others
Exactly! Beautiful enough to attract but quiet enough to not be easily attainable. But if she was not beautiful,she would be seen as not making social effort to be outgoing.
I am a male and I absolutely loved this video! You're doing a great work out there!
Watched the show a year back and the surprising part of Jia is that she very slowly but surely gives people (and viewers) more reasons to like her. With her beauty you assume there are red flags. She is never in a hurry to prove you wrong. She plays off that expectation by slowly revealing that she actually is honest, genuine, and interesting person.
@@yeehaw-bw8ns get the pitchfork, someone on the internet dared to have a personal observation
@@tanakathecowboy no u just displayed how insecure and jealous you are of people who are attractive literally assuming that they're evil or something. That's you.
@@yeehaw-bw8ns don't put words into others' mouths. he might just refer to the idea of things that are too good to be true, often are. usually people instantly gravitate to beauty before realizing that it doesn't meet their expectations or is actually dangerous altogether, so watching out for red flags is a reasonable thing to do.
@@tanakathecowboy well that’s stupid
As a male (gay), I appreciate this channel so much and I learn things from it too
She was the most pretty of them all, that’s why people were obsessed with her… pretty privilege takes you a long way 🤷♀️
Ugh yes, someone finally said it. It was literally the chest thing I couldn't help but come to mind. She seems like a very lovely person over all, but let's not dismiss the obvious perks of having such physical beauty and attraction.
Beauty is subjective after all
no she wasn't, all the girls were gorgeous. she wasn't the prettiest. Notice how the two girls who acted desperate had the men get repulse and leave them. The tan girl scoccer girl and the baby voice girl were extremely pretty but, kept pestering the guys and the men looked elsewhere. The girl who was a student and being pestered by that guy was not really showing any interest and she kept getting chased.
@@SvetlanaBraunn to a certain degree, but overall there is a clear difference in how conventionally beautiful people are treated compared to ugly people.
she’s extremely GORGEOUS but let’s be honest, her actions and words are what made people fall more for her, like she knows how to make someone’s heart melt and we saw that multiple times, it’s not about just being pretty but also being smart. Bc we see gorgeous girls everyday but we never see them take anything bc they simply don’t know how, but song jia knew and that even made her more attractive
1. Be extremely beautiful
2. Have a fabulous sense of style
3. Others things you mentioned
😂
Be rich too to afroad those fashionable things
😂
I used to be so shy with eye contact. But when I became a physiotherapist, I kept practicing looking into my patients eyes (it helps me gauge if they are telling the truth) and now it is my default to make eye contact.
How long did it take you to hold eye contact!!!?
@@haileerivera3669 about a year after I started working as a physio
From what i dug up psychotherapist are the number one job with highest successful suicide rates... i believe second was psychologist and third was therapist....
The more you hold onto that kind of job.... hearing negative stories constantly from clients is not good for mental health, it also drains you spiritually, no wonder why it's the highest suicide rate among employment.
Kudos to you for choosin that career.
@@noexcuses5524 it helps to create your own hours and schedule. I have done this type of work for exactly 20 years now, whew! For each very busy day of client talk days, I have found I need a full day to recover. At this age, 53, I am single, and this helps as well. My daughter is now raised and has her own full life now. It's a balancing act, but I have never gotten truly burnt out, and wouldn't this type of work for the world :)! In fact, my work is why I'm watching these videos right now-
My biggest mistake is exposing myself too much 🤦🏼♀️ I'm an ambivert so sometimes when I'm with my friends I'm veeeery extrovert. I play a lot, talk a lot. I always make them laugh. But the problem is that i expose myself way too much. I wish I was that mysterious kind hahahahaha well, I'm learning. I noticed I'm still playing but not talking about myself. I try to keep it in mind
sameee problem with m hahaha I wanna be mysterious but I just cant SHUT THE HELL UP 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same here I’m also an ambivert but I lean towards introvert. I have a problem with being very chatty, the type to talk peoples heads off. Made it’s the southern side of me😅
Girl be yourself. Yes, you may try seducing or acting the siren for fun, but when it comes to long term commitment, you have to be with someone who loves your true personality not some mysterious facade. I also had the same problem, being a bit goofy and loud sometimes, and wasn't able to seduce anyone ever, but I found a guy, now my husband, who is exactly as I am, and we're having so much fun together. Just be yourself, and who will love you, you'll know that they love for who you trully are
i suppose there's nothing wrong with wanting to be the "mysterious" type, but please don't think of being super extroverted as a mistake
im a very introverted and quite guy myself, and i find people with a bubbly personality very comforting to be around.
trust me when i say this, the quite people need people like yyou lol
This channel is about being and becoming your best woman. Some people watching are clearly missing the memo, because I am cleaning up comments and instant-blocking tons of users with judgemental, petty, spiteful comments about Jia or women in general wanting to better themselves.
This is not your garden. If you want to be bitter and negative this is not the environment for you.
But I promise, it feels so much better on the light site ✨💗
Than you for you service...there aren't a lot of safe places on the internet for women. 💕
You are welcome 💗🌸
I really like your content❤
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All you can learn from Jia is how to be a pretentious lier. You’re glorifying a lier while omitting every shady context relating her, it is not okay even it’s your “garden” What you’re doing is just a manipulation of public opinion. Learn to take criticisms.
Jia is something else. She is stunning, of course but I gotta agree with you that she has this sweet yet mysterious(?) aura that men would like to know her better. But her selling point is gotta be the eye contact, like if someone holds their gazes you know that they are being attentive and listens to you. She is the embodiment of men's fantasies!! :D
As someone not attracted to Jia, there's still a noticeable charisma to her vibe, and it's fascinating. There's a lot of subtleties with combining confidence and femininity.
Her posture is big--she not only keeps her back very straight, but she keeps her frame small at the same time, often bringing her elbows into the sides or making her shoulders look more petite.
Softness in demeanor: Her actions are bold (initiating contact, conversion, keeping eye contact) but does so with quietness. All her motions are slow, which oozes confidence but also femininity. How she blinks, preens herself, it's all done so relaxed, and it's hard to do that unless it's natural to you.
Chattiness: Guys don't just like to chase, they also don't like girls rambling about stuff at length. She's very economical with what she speaks, so it's attractive, not just because it's "hard to get." She talks just enough so that guys feel connected with her, yet still wanting more. Really hard balance to strike.
i love jia and her mindset and we cant deny that it was one of the main reasons so many guys were attracted to her from the beginning, but we also cant forget that pretty privilege exists, shes extremely pretty with an even prettier mindset, no one would look her way if she had that same mindset but lacked appearance wise, which is why i feel like even if i do end up completely maintaining the same mindset as her (which im working on) it wont be the same, i’m not as beautiful as her
Thank you a lot for this video, I am a person who gets a lot of spotlight around people and its pretty embarrassing for me because when they talk to me and sit and compliment me I can see the disappointment on their faces bc I have a lack of confidence and kinda bad social skills what makes them stay away from me it's sad because I love to make new relationships but it's hard but now after I saw the video I am glad I knew your channel it did help me a lot I hope I can improve myself more in the future ❤
How did her videos help you change?
From my experience, become someone's obssession was scary, make me super tired, and most of all, dangerous. When i was younger i want lot of people to likes me, be obsessed with me, but now, as an adult, i just want to attract right people into my life, not attract every people i met in my life by set myself on certain level and act more elegant and classy behaviour.
I have a classmate who reminds me of jia so much, they look alike too especially when they both smile. Let me tell you, she was really popular despite being quiet and reserved and our profs like her because she excell in alot of subjects and extracurricular. I became friends with her and sometimes guys from other class would ask us for her number and even I can't hold eye contact with her. 😭😭 She's also very hard to get/untouchable. Guys in my school had a hard time gaining her attention and because of that, they chase after her even more. My classmate(M) tried to court her but she turned him down and he couldn't move on for several months.☠️☠️
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I read similar stories like this... it was more like an advice
where a woman is very beautiful and guys flock and chase. She would turn down men and she loves it... but she thought that her beauty will remain forever and she keeps jumpingfrom men to men... but the more we age , there're more beautiful young girls than her and so she ended up single for most of her life. Maybe she want to be single...who knows but as the OP said, she have the greener on the other side syndrome,
@@noexcuses5524 bet you would also say woman who spread legs for every man are also bad. Wtf is wrong with you all? If a woman wants single life, you tell her she'll die alone. If she is in relationship with guys, she's a hoe
@@noexcuses5524Interesting allevory. Thanks for sharing!
This is awesome, as someone feminine I lovedddd her when I stumbled upon this show bc she knows how to psychologically trigger men into wanting to chase something sweet
Really love how you explained these behaviours and also used real examples!! Great video! Keep it up 😍😍
Thank you! Will do
I've never watched the Netflix show or heard of Jiah but just watching these clips has me intrigued. Clearly she is very alluring (and not just to men). She also reminds me of Kpop stars Jennie and Wonyoung. Maybe it's just the appearance, or maybe there's something else too idk.
there is something called image for strangers, every one of us have it. you can make this image however you want but careful once someone is near to you you need to stop, and act like yourself with each time they get closer to you then if they really want you they will stay🥰
I agree with your point of view and Jia is a perfect example of a subtly confident and feminine lady. There are just a few things, I´d like to point out:
First, believe me, you don´t want your partner to be obsessed with you. Obsession is a negative emotion and leads to toxic relationships. Your partner gets jealous of the most minor interactions you have with other people because he/she wants you to spend time only with him/her and best 24/7. Believe me, at this point it´s better to be alone than in a toxic relationship with an obsessed partner.
Second, make sure to not only attract a partner but to feel attracted to him/her, too. Otherwise, you might have a bunch of men/women falling for and proposing to you, even though you never even considered them as potential partners. Of course, we can´t always avoid this kind of situation, but believe me, if you are a genuine and honest person, rejecting someone will hurt you much more than being rejected.
And lastly, be yourself. I know, it´s easier said than done, especially since we live in a judgemental society, but acting and pretending to be someone you don´t are, is not what you really want. In the end, we want our partners to fall for our true selves and not for the mask we created by some standards. But remember to be careful whoever you decide to show your real face. Not everyone deserves to see it.
Being quite and eye contact that's what real meaning of confidence 🤲🏻 ik because I did it too and ik the result
I bet you’re like really pretty and all which is why you gettin that result
@@OrangeBruno if you are confident more then pretty your game is high everyone is beautiful they just should have the confidence with mysterious eye talk and be quite in every situation you all see the difference.
u mean quiet?
I really wished Jia could have a full show for herself, I enjoy her so much! She’s so AMAZING 😭 if you could make more videos about her, that would be awesome
can u tell me the name of that show please?
@@bangtangirl4797 singles inferno
@lnbaolamm she has two RUclips channels called "freezia" and "the freezia".. she has a insta account as well it's also called "freezia"
This works so well 😭 I confessed to my crush and he liked me back I've been holding that for a while now thank you universe!
it's okay to be open with ur partner and talk about how u feel and being too reserved all the time won't solve problems when they arrive, there should be a balance.
But revealing too much too soon till the other person entitles u as ' partner" is just stupid😂😅
@@R999soup I'm referring to years of relationship and bond, miss.
I don’t do this just for men, I also do it cuz it makes me feel so confident in myself. I don’t hide my personality from being elegant, but I definitely hold myself in a certain manner because it makes me feel good and it’s attractive at the same time
I was always curious what did she do to have that much male attention! I am happy to have found this video 😊 I want another for the girls of the second season as well 😃
She's also very conventionally attractive, let's not forget that part.
@@jasmineshelton759 true ☝️ and she makes sure to stand out, not shy away.
But none of the men that chased her, lasted with her. Bcos at the end of day, they fell for her image, their idea & fantasy of her. When it came to being there for her, the real thing - none of them stayed. Hence at the end of day while it is captivating to be able to catch attention so powerfully, you wanna make sure the ones who’s after you are also after the true, authentic, vulnerable version of you, not the one they made up in their minds.
How to make that sure?
I love this vid. But I'd rather be myself
Life is too short to try hard to be liked and chased by men. I don't think it's necessary
ooh i found an amazing channel here now, i hope you continue with this theme because girl you will grow....i love jia, she is really a great inspiration in everything she does, be it clothes, makeup even the way she looks, her femininity
Thank you for the encouragement 💗
She's so soft and put together! wow
I’m here to say
If a man loves you he will be with you. And if her doesn’t want you , he just don’t want you ! There is nothing you can do to make a man like you if he already made up in his mind that he does not want to be with u.
Yeah it’s the same for women.
FINALLY a break down on Jia's skills
I've never seen this show, but can agree with everyone else Jia is so very beautiful and alluring. From what I've learned about "feminine energy" is that you allow yourself to feel your emotions very deeply and sit with them. Men really feel your vibe whether it's good or bad and they respond to that. If a guy you like cracks you up, smile and laugh coyly, and feel it deep inside you without saying "You're so cute," but just feel it. They pick up on it and you end up being a little more mysterious because they don't know if they've won you over yet. It's not about being aloof, but not revealing all of your cards. 😊😊
Generally, there is much more to a person than meets the eye. Not having an "easy" life is often what is behind the allure of a person...
Taking time is a very good tool and being your best self. Be who YOU are, be your best for you and others.
This is very helpful and I'm also fascinated with Jia. It's so logical now that you explained each behaviour on details. Comparison with Nadine is also very helpful to highlight the differences. If someone don't want to learn how to act feminine, they don't have to. People don't walk and hate on Spanish learning videos: 'I won't be changing myself to be understood by Spanish speaking folks!' So why are they doing this here? Today we are encouraged to act entitled and all knowing, I'm glad that there are places like your channel to take a breath and learn what I'm interested in.
girl she was the most attractive on the show that's why. it's that simple. the added mystery and classiness are small bonuses but its cuz she's a baddie
If we are talking about looks she was definitely not the most attractive, maybe unique but
She's just really elegant
She literally radiates an aura ..like she know that she has that power to make men weak in knees...seriously I have never seen such a lady in my whole life...Good for her...I can never ever behave the way she does..even with training..she is damn good
I loved the approach you took on Jia's behavior. I had never seen anything like that in anyone. I would like to suggest that you look too In the second season, where a character with a personality and tactics very different from Jia also manages to get that spotlight and get the attention of four men at the end, I was literally shocked when I saw . Shin sul ki is her name.
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Jia is a very beautiful girl. The elegant aura that she has is amazing!! I LOVE HER 💕💕
men were crazy about Jia because she looks perfect. that's it 😂 but yeah your points make sense too
Im gonna be real for a second. Although what you said about her body language and character is true... The ultimate reason for her popularity was her perfect looks. Shes literally flawless and her makeup is even more stunning. Her style is hyper feminine and she excudes that cute yet siren like vibe because of the combination of her looks and character. Honestly, if she wasnt that pretty BUT had the personality, do u think she would be as popular? Reality isnt pretty but this is the truth
It seems this video is aimed for women who want to improve themselves and specifically their chances for getting love, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Then there's women who feel how they are is just who they truly are and look for love interests who will accept that, and there's nothing wrong with that either. I just wish both types would support each other without hinting which is the better way and whatnot. The world is tough enough on everyone as it is.
What a great great video. Her posture and movements most likely come from her background in traditional Korean dance.
Wonyoung has this same charm about her too. They both give off the same vibe
Rightt
I think the same.
This is why I don’t want man in my life. You’ll have to change everything about you and end up loosing yourself..if I change like her, I won’t be happy anymore.
I have already watched a few videos about femenine energy from other channels and the advices given in this video specifically are the best of the best for me. Thank you! 💜
I love how she uses her beauty in a good way like her behavior and mindset had so much sense. ❤
This is the first break down of a feminine behaviour in the context of dating I'v seen. Usually such content was done on man. Thank you. I'm subscribing and waiting for more.
She does something to my spirit
Feminine Renaissance: Eye contact is super important!
Me and my autism: 😀
I love who i am and Happy with how far I've come as a person and a female and no matter how people make me feel stuck i don't give up on who i am
I would love to see something like this about Jennie. Cause idk there's just something so particular about her like I'm a straight girl but damnn!
Yes! And Wonyoung too! I’m obsessed with these three. There’s something about them.
Uhh, I don't know who that is
@@femininerenaissanceshes referring to Jennie Kim, shes in the group BlackPink
yess, i would love one of these videos for jennie kim and wonyoung, i feel like the three of them have a similar energy
@@femininerenaissance Jennie Kim is popular for her beauty with chubby cheeks, cute+innocent energy but sometimes she can be sexy and alluring just like Jia. These two have a name ‘human Chanel’ their image appears rich, and classy. Jennie also dated two of the most desirable, hottest male celebs too. (G-dragon, Kai EXO)
That’s perhaps my curiosity about what’s about her that make her such an IT girl.
Ok, this explains it. I didn't like Jia but there was something about her that made me curious. Everytime she got screen time I was fascinated. Now I know why 😂
She is in touch with her True Self. She is not in the mental plane but the spiritual plane. These women called IT girls.
The first time i saw her , i said to myself she has a siren personality 😄
I spent the entire day watching the show because of you... lol
And what did you think??
@@femininerenaissance I don't regret, and Ji-a its incredible haha, as a man I can confirm that she's so good...
She is SUPER pretty and this is why she is attracting men so easily. I can do same with my average face but men will say i'm boring.
Being yourself and having a good personnality is more important girls.
Honestly she is physicality a beautiful young woman. I think being pretty helps .
I think i get it why dad use to say that men like to chase women and there prize was those woman once they won. It's like a hunter and prey game. She knows her value so even if most men desire such woman in there life they won't able to keep up with her at all. Guards don't marry queen only a true king deserve a queen ❤
Confidence is key ❤❤
Sounds to me like the main perspective of this video is that being in control is the right thing to do. Ideally it might be the case, but in practice relationships and bonding with someone requires a loss of control and an imbalance. Two parties having balanced control of themselves will simply form a transactional relationship or a sexual friendship. At some point someone has to give away control to pair-bond, and that always carries a risk of being hurt. My take is that Ji-A wasn't planning to date or looking to "lose control", but was there mainly as a self-promotion strategy.
being someone else obsession is NOT flattering or something you should look forward to. obsession is not = love
I agree! same thing with season 2 men are also crazy about shinseulkee same with jia she is very quiet and dont reveal too much of her feelings unless she is sure about
What's the name of the show?
@@sara-gk8bpsingles inferno
@@sara-gk8bp Single's inferno :)
"Não fale muito sobre si mesma"
Se uma senhorinha se senta ao meu lado, até sair de lá, ela já sabe de todos os meus medos, sonhos, amigos, minha comida favorita e o nome de toda as pessoas que compõem a minha árvore genealógica.
don't forget the main thing society and men need in order to be attracted to you: be pretty, quiet, confident and overall not yourself~!
also not everyone is able to have a personality like hers, to narrow things down to these points feels a little disheartening. yes some things like posture, eye contact ect isn't too hard, but also her honesty and kindness all the time, not everyone has that. not everyone has a perfect smile, sweet personality and all. yes you can get men interested, but that isn't the real you.
for me, i'm loud and when someone asks me about something i like i go on a whole rant and personally i forget to be quiet and nice, i have a rather sarcastic tone a lot of the time and i am pretty flirty with everyone and with people i really love, i'm a really caring person. do people like it? not all the time no, but is that who i am? yes. of course i want others to like me more and if this works then yeah! but losing yourself because you want to be like some girl on a tv show? it's just gonna hurt you more. not all of us are a perfect and pretty like her, so don't do this.
i might just be an asshole, but god it pisses me off how she seems so perfect without a flaw and men *do* like that, but in the end it just makes everyone else seem like some insignificant, ugly inconvenience with a terrible personality and an even worse look to them.
this video is helpful, but don't forget someone should love you because of *you* and not because of these specific things!!!
Be kind.. be good.. and wait for your right one... no need to put efforts in being someone else..
i have a classmate like her and you can feel her aura/energy when she enter the class
A key part of being a man is walking away from a woman. Being able to just say, ahh, this person can't give me what I need (e.g. respecting Boundaries), so I will cut my lost time and just dip.
We don't even owe people a reason. We don't have to give them an explanation and give them another chance. Can just dip.
Even me became her fan after watching s1!!
The way she talks!!
honestly if I had to treat dating like a game I just wont date. my longest relationships lasting a few years were one's were I was comfortable and was being myself. I don't want heaps of people chasing or for me to chase, just let it happen naturally.
the secret to being irresistible is to be yourself
Don't follow someone else tips. Just be yourself and love yourself. The right person will found you attractive and will love you unconditionally.💕
She’s literally who I wanna be lmao it helps that she is actually so pretty
A guy I know, knows this. He literally does this. He's reserved and has a quite confidence.
Indeed, very good example
Doesn’t hurt that she’s also gorgeous.
I've found that even though I can be crass, such as eating with abandon until I'm stuffed, chugging my beer out of a bottle, laughing, joking, sharing my nerdiness and awkwardness, attracts men. Men relax and are able to also be themselves. Both putting on this mask is so exhausting! Love some of these tips, maybe use them to get someones attention. Or to be used in certain social situations. And some women love being fantasies, it's what they strive for, so these tips definitely can be of use. But at the end of the day, most of us want to end up with someone we can be comfortable with. Great video and breakdown of Jia's mannerisms. This video can certainly be helpful for anyone looking to be more feminine.
Wongyoung, gia and Jennie gives off similar vibes you can count Blair Waldorf too they are different in their own way but the style and charisma tho.
Even I got obsessed with Jia after watching this 😂😮
What a great channel to stumble upon! From one creator to another! Great work!
Loved the video and i love Jia so much. A true role model for those of us working on femininity
I love Jia!! Thank u for this video it is really useful
Bro you got me at eye contact 😭😭😭 i cant hold eye contact worth shit when i like the other person and it sucks cause i feel like that tells them im not into them but I REALLY AM THO 😭😭😭.
And then the opposite happens when i only want to be friends with someone. I feel nothing so im comfortable holding eye contact.
Thank you creator for this, Thanks for sharing❤❤❤ More blessings to comee
I did a similar analysis and actually missed the eye contact one. Great observation! ❤