This guy is SPOT on. I've LOST SO MANY women by showing INTEREST. As SOON as I showed them interest, their interest in me dropped like the Titanic, NEVER to recover. NEVER get lovey dovey, or place them on a pedestal.
Same here, I did the exact same thing with a female that had major attraction for me. She couldn't keep her hands off me, did all the little favors I asked when I asked & never stood me up. Our jobs changed & we stopped seeing each other daily. At first she made the time to come see me, even waiting hours for me to finish up with work so we could hang out. Then one day I made the fatal mistake of expressing my feelings her & what she was beginning to mean to me( I'd been somewhat indifferent up till that point never showing to much interest). Not a week later I got the Distance. She stopped texting me the Good morning texts, stopped asking me to let her know I'd made it home safely, & stopped all phone conversations (we don't stay near each other & we both work long hours) I saw the change & thought made it's a test so I didn't buy in & didn't text or call either just in case it was the "Pull Away" women are famous for(Nope not one of those) After about 9days I texted one afternoon to see what was up with the Radio Silence ( she always texted me or called everyday) She Gave me the "Needing Space for a Reset" talk. Of course I was majorly confused as this woman was all about me just a week & a half before & months before that. I responded with "It's been nice & I enjoyed our time together while it lasted" & hit the Bricks with no plans to ever reach out again. That was 10weeks ago & we haven't had any contact since. I know from a double agent in her network of friends there isn't a new person in her life so that wasn't the reason for the distance. I did keep her on my IG & she likes posts from time 2 time but that's about it. I truly believe had I kept my thoughts to myself we'd still be seeing each other, lesson Learned for the Next Girl I guess. At least I didn't do any simp💩 & chase her, best to let anyone that wants to move on from you Walk. There's to many females on this Rock to worry about 1🤷♂️
@@antoniosalcido1931not necessarily, sometimes it's just about the chase for some women. It feeds their Ego to see if they can get a man they perceive to be above them. Then once he shows just how interested he is she moves on. I've seen men do this too with women outta their league. Once she showed she actually did like him it scared him & he bolts. Ego & dating don't mix
What an amazing video! My recommendation to all beginners would be to find book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and that will launch you far ahead of everyone and give you an unfair advantage.
Facts bro. 🎯 If she's interested in you, She's not going to want to be friends with you. She wants to be your bitch, a lover, your admirer and a fan ..... you will always ruin this for her, if you start thirsting after her and chasing her.
that makes me so angry and sad. i dont want to suppress these feelings, actually it turns me on to be after a woman and show her how much i want her. If i need to make pokerface, i'm out. Well theoratically out, cuz my dick tells me otherwise, every fucking day !!!!
He speaks truth. I am good looking guy and I had bunch of girls that liked me alot asked bunch of questions and gave compliments and that second I said to them that i like them they switched like light from love to hate. Now I know how they operate and how to hide my interest same as they do it.
🫡 eat up those compliments but pay her none. You’re the CEO 👑 and she’s your minimum wage employee. Give her a raise at Xmas maybe or her birthday but never be her fanboy You’re the King!
They hate themselves. If they see you are interested in them they will wonder why are you blind or stupid. They only feel joy at someone else expense and they feel entitled to try other options so when they see that you are loyal they think your a sucker. Just stay away
I have observed this same thing. One girl told me i have trouble with girls because a lot of them feel like they don't "deserve" me! Lol! Doing me a favor i guess!!👉🤡💥
@@jomufilms do you pay on first dates? My next one I’ll be intentionally leaving my wallet in the car and ordering the most expensive meal and drinks just to see her reaction paying the bill 😂 Thoughts?
@@mohegansonDon’t make her pay. Get the bill split. That’s fair, and while she may be upset there’s not much she can say. Trying to get her to pay is putting yourself in her power: you want something from her. She can actually just walk out and you’ll be stuck with the bill anyways, and she’ll be laughing.
Makes sense. Last few years keeping girls around who you’re not that interested in is easy, ones you are interested in lose interest in you after a couple months. Automatic
If this was the case, then nobody would be married in in relationships, which obviously isn’t the case. It’s simply, she had a few months of combining lives and doesn’t see a future with you. Pushing this narrative will indefinitely make men unhappy and single.
@@yourfoodforthought it's not necessarily about legitimately stripping yourself of emotions for women in general, it's allowing the woman you are interested in to be the one is it the most emotionally invested into the relationship. Let her do the Disney fantasy dreaming and try to win you over. Don't think anyone is trying to say to not love them, just show it through actions when she's the one initiating the intimacy. It's like you're a dad, and you and the mother love your son very much. She will show her love through hugs and kisses while you show it through keeping them safe, teaching them life lessons and being proud of them. It's love, just different ways of showing it.
I LOVE how Casey makes you repeat the extremely important parts of his lessons so it really sinks in. It's like in "Trainwreck" when the father tells the girls, "Monogamy isn't realistic," and makes them repeat it. That's another saying men should repeat again and again to themselves.
You’re not though, especially not if you listen to twat. Men get so hurt when they get rejected after immediately coming on to someone they just met, not understanding that liking me isn’t the issue, it’s the fact that obviously you only like the outside and no nothing about me, and that’s gross.
This is one reason why it is a great idea to cultivate the ability to cognitively control your own thoughts and emotions..... As a man it is one of the keys to life.
@@ralphthomas7868 yep women only look at men for 2 things number 1 what can he do for me? And number 2 how does he make me feel? Done they are very pragmatic about men in general
I would say life is to short to give a rat’s about stupid nonsense like ‘spiking her emotions’. That’s hard work, and I haven’t got the time for that ridiculousness.
This is overboard. Liking her too much is a turnoff. But not liking her at all causes her to reject outta pride / self preservation. Like her without being overly attached, or too invested. It is perfectly ok to tell her you like her in bed the next morning, e.g. Letting go is a huge part of it too. Why deny your best human emotions - you lose either way when you're determined to be a stoic unfeeling brick wall. There's no joy in that
True, woman are to be enjoyed but dont be attached, understand that the relationship will end sooner or later, the trick is to enjoy every moment and let go when it ends
If there was a king of men who has gone on to the wilderness and has conquered everything just to come back to the tribe and change every man's life. You helped put the crown on my head again Casey. God bless you now and always
its a bit late but this is actually true and useful bro. i lost her like 3 months ago just because of this. i made myself in weaker and desperate position while i could easily play a guy who doesn't care but i guess i was blinded. thank you for your service G.
A wise man once said: "Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin. Hence, a prince who wants to keep his authority must learn how not to be good, and use that knowledge or refrain from using it, as necessity requires".
Thanks. It's from "The 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene. I think I was lucky to have read the book at a younger age. I've had better success with women and life in general since reading it.
It’s this cute girl at my job that has been wanting me to talk to her, and hovering around me, crossing my path at seemingly random points. I’ve acknowledged her a little bit in the beginning, then I started ignoring her, and I noticed that this seems to have spiked her attraction even more . Like she’ll disappear for a bit & then reemerge , like doubling down to try to get me to notice her.
Yep they will stand near you and say to another girl very loudly how boring their life is and they dont do anything for fun lol. Expecting that to be enough cue for you to go and embarass yourself trying to ask her out. Nope sorry HR, not today
Okay here's my question what if now you like that girl right hypothetically speaking, okay you not showing her interest doing the right things how do you get to let her submit to your decisions....
This is true, once I was not totally into women I could easily get them. The problem is if I don't care about a woman, I can't have a satisfying relationship or s.
that's life , you can't have your cake and eat it too. lol We will always be stuck with chics we don't like, my propose solution is to just get a hooker.
You can be both attracted to, and actually care about her, you just have to keep her at "arm's length" and never show it. ALWAYS. She will stay around, and you BOTH win. Don't sacrifice or settle for a woman you aren't attracted to. You WANT a woman you are attracted to....so just stay calm, actually STOIC, and ALLOW her to chase you.
You got it 💯 bro. It was the same for me. I had them around, could read their thoughts and understand them. They enjoyed my company and often used to go miles to please me. I could get any woman I wanted effortlessly. But from the moment I started wanting to have a specific woman in my life, everything became a disaster as I started over thinking, caring too much, being too serious instead of cool and full of fun, chasing, being emotional and committing to them. Women crave men who don't want them or are good being alone. Casey is a genius.
It is a tough message to hear…but if you keep working on yourself and gaining wisdom thru hardship you’ll start to understand these issues better.. and hopefully protect yourself from getting hurt
How the F do people go on dates, let alone get married, if you're supposed to not show women you like them, at any point? "Listen, I really don't like you. Like at all, you're just useless and annoying; anyway, wanna go out sometime?"
Can confirm. I've just entered my 8th decade. Back in the day, (late '70s early '80s) when I was earning most of my notch counts in spite of my complete cluelessness, I was in 'da club' every weekend. I've always been a non-smoker and non-drinker, and disliked those behaviors in women as well. I strongly disliked the club scene for the smoke and drunks, but the p*ssy kept me there. I wanted a steady girlfriend so I could get laid on the regular WITHOUT having to put up with the smoke and the drunks. This led into the following situation: The ones I wanted, didn't want me (I was wa-a-a-a--a-ay too needy), the ones I didn't want (drunks and smokers), were CRAZY for me.
Def true however theres more to be said on this topic, because i have gotten with girls where i showed alot of interest, showed that i liked them and they reciprocated, they chased me etc, but, it was when i “caught feelings”, started developing that feeling of love for her is when i saw her interest fade. So i think thats the big one, when they sense youre falling in love with them. Not just “oh he likes me so now i dont like him”. Although that can happen too, but obviously if youre approaching/pursuing a chick she knows you like her to some degree
Spitting facts as always. 💯 Casey cracked the code. At 42 I realized it,but wish you were around 20years ago. 😂 I rekindled my marriage of 15years and 4 kids. Wife lost 100 pounds,got fit and hotter than when we met. She knows woman want me and it drives her crazy. Sex life went from 1 every other week...to 5 or 6days a week now. Marathon sex is my new norm. Listen to him. Killing it as always Casey. Helped me more than you will ever know.
Casey,i am 14 and thanks to you i have a polarised relationship with a very femine woman in a fucked up generation for over a month,we have our ups and downs but i always think: that's nothing i can handle that,and overall i just don't care about that i am rock solid in my character(it's my first girl at anything and she thinks i am amazing at everything we do intimate or not)
14yo dating another 14yo? That's just gross. You're a granny-chaser. I'm 51yo & usually don't date women over the age of 13. But, if you're into older chicks, to each his own, I guess. 14yo would be too old for me; I got to draw the line somewhere.
I agree with you. .... What is strange is that most of the moments that every woman I spend time with remind me of are toxic moments. .... like She says: Remember when you pushed me hard? Hahahahaha Remember when you yelled at me when I was acting stupid? Hahahahahaha ... It is as if every situation in which I was angry and content was a historical scene, or a favorite part of a movie. ... Because my nature is not toxic, and I seek a healthy and normal relationship, I express my love often and regret it afterwards. ... A world full of stupid and sick people. The biggest trick you deceive yourself is when you think that people look like you on the inside.
This is kind of profound… I have a gf, but during our talking stage, I was an ass(still kind of am). She routinely brings up instances of when I was being a dick, but rarely reminisces on times when I treat her well
@@pixeltoons12 Strange indeed, as if toxicity expresses high status in their view. ... That's why I think they stay in toxic relationships with (narcissistic) personalities for a long time. ... Kindness is linked to cowardice and disguise in their view. This is a type of personal projection, because they judge themselves in this way when they are in a weak position.
For me personally this concept has a one thousand batting average. A 100% sure as the sun comes up rate. Every single time i have even thought the thought "hey you know what...i kinda like this one and could see myself dating her" boom! A sonar wave goes out into the ether and flip inside the girls brain switches and she never texts back again or proceeds to flake on the very next meet up
Yes Casey, Your exactly Right, Im a lot older than you, and I have lived everything you have said in this video, Im now very happily single, coudnt give a shit about any women even though I love them. I can get a date with pretty much any women I want, but, I know there all Trouble.
Just happened to me yesterday. Met her couple of weeks ago and have the coffee talk. I like her intellectual skill. Very communicative and engaging. Last week she went back to her hometown. I asked her for update and whatsoever. Yesterday, I have shared a video that remembered me about her but she didn’t watch it. But, she able to update her ig story, Whatsapp story and even shared her selfie on Instagram. I was like “What The Fuck”. I was clueless since I have never felt this way for years. But since Uncle Casey is giving bombs, I am slowly on track. Thanks for spitting the painful truth, Uncle C. The best
I wish I could have known all this info a lot sooner. I’m older now and there are very few women who I would even consider dealing with at any level. If I do deal with a woman, she better bring her most fun, feminine, and flirtatious self to the interaction. Otherwise, I have better things to do.
43 over here and actually kinda knew these stupid games theoretically since youth, still could not really fake it and make it till today, well with some exceptions, where i somehow managed to get 7s or 8s. There were moments i could access the player in me, but it was at times where i practiced a lot and even then it seemed a waste of time and mental health. Unfortunately i still like women in their 20s but they just make ugly faces when i look at them, like i'd be a creepy old perv or smthing. Really hurts. It is difficult, NOT to hate women, i tell you
Not exactly, but partly true. Like her, tell her about it, but stay detached… it’s a game of push and pull. So there’s always an interest. But still good to listen to Casey. He’s doing a good job
I personally show interest and enjoy it, but i know its gonna end sooner or later, regardless of whether I show interest or not.. Just have fun with it boys, for as long as it lasts...
I agree with the majority of what you come up with. One small caveat is that the women you are speaking of very likely are also heavily narcissistic. The principals you outline are directly relevant to all heavily narcissistic people, male or female.
That's what I always think. I remember this same vibe from tom likus back in my youth... I'd hear womben call-in "you're absolutely right tom" in disbelief...I always thought "Well, at least I'm not like that. I'm not interested in that type of girl." Which girls AREN'T like this though? They are hard to find...I'd think I saw them, there are plenty of classy seeming ladies...then I'd see the abusive villain they are dating through all the abuse...
Strangely enough, younger generations are being trained to be narcissists. Ironically, women really are most affected as they also revel in gynocentric western culture which corrupts them totally.
00:01 Women do not want you to like them 01:33 Showing too much interest can backfire. 02:57 Women may lose interest if they perceive you like them 04:20 Men lose leverage when women know they are not the only priority 05:41 Women are attracted to men who don't show too much interest. 06:58 Women prefer men who don't overly worship them 08:16 True secret: Act as if you don't need anything from anybody. 09:35 Women want a man who is genuinely fine without her.
As a widow (married 23 years) and now remarried man, I have learned that enjoying the long term relationships in my life is so fulfilling, rather than the hollow tap and go of my youth. You are completely correct that seeing her as the last cup of water in the desert will activate her hypergamy. I truly found the long term is always way more fulfilling for me. Time given to me used to know my woman on that higher level is a privelage and a responsibility. I now know I set the mood in the relationship. She agrees to gift the most valuable asset in life, her time and I use my time to set the mood and frame of the relationship. Time is something only God or universe can give and take away it is unreplenishable and more valuable than any riches in the world to earn the most of a woman's time with in her most valuable years is a true gift. Thanks for reading.
Been seeing this girl for the last 2 months. At the beginning she had high interest based on the messages etc...Today is very different to the point of her telling me shes not putting effort setting up dates when I asked her the reason why it is getting hard to see each other. 2 months ago after sex she said were so connected blablabla. Guess what, I started showing interest even though I diminished texts a lot. She felt it. They know it. Today I texted her that I don't want to see her anymore. After a few hours I texted her again saying I was just kidding but somehow that text triggered something in her brain. She then immediately set up a date with me for Saturday without me asking her out. This has never happened before. I have always been the one asking her out. Funny how things work.
That idea that you if you like her she wont like you happens with us men as well. When a girl likes and is drooling for you, chases you we wont want her. That is human nature. We want a challenge, we want what is hard to get. Then you wonder how people get into relationships and marriages. Thinking now that my only two long term relationships I didnt want to be with them. I just want some fun and that's all. It makes a lot of sense now. Cause I didn't want them I behaved like i did not want them (which was the truth) and both girls were very attractive to me. This is all instinctive. I never said I did not want them but they felt it and that's attractive. Opening eyes!
It’s true. I learnt a lot of those lessons in showing them interest in my younger years and I never got anywhere with them. It’s like a game of chess. Show them any kind of interest and they see you in weird ways even if they are showing you initial interest. It’s the most confusing thing for men and young men particularly.
This is super facts!! It’s been like this My whole life there can be many of women who like me and I won’t like them but as soon as there’s one I find I do like and show interest to her she pulls away. But, when I act like I don’t like her I get her. Don’t really don’t like the guy who likes them. It kills the sexual tension. Stay mysterious and show no emotion
I feel like this is all true but it is very hard to change my brain to integrate this knowledge. Do you have any tips on how to train my mind into accepting and using this advise?
Should I start going havies on dates? Or is that too cold? Ha, recently I’ve brainstormed an idea to intentionally leave my wallet in my car on a first date to see her reaction when she has to pay for a meal and drinks (if that’s the date)
5:16 and this is why she is telling me, I AM THE ONE SHE DESIRE, but she is actually trying to say is "hey, I got an option here so what are you saying". My response to her was "ok, as long as due diligence done". Who can tell me what she gonna think/do? Yes, she gonna continue with him because I didn't pull her in. But guess what, I WILL ALWAYS HAVE ACCESS TO HER, because now she will FOREVER view me as HIGHER VALUE than that guy and she will NOT give up the opportunity to even spend ONE MOMENT with me.
I was watching a dating show called Singles Inferno (Season 3) and it confirmed everything you said. There was this one "asshole" who acted self-centered as if he was the most important person in his life. He pitted three women against each other and made them qualify to him rather than just simping for one girl like the rest of the guys. Guess what happened? The three girls he targetted were 100% commited to him (their own words) and literally fighting over him. In the end, he got to choose from the 3 girls while many of the other "simpy" guys had no girls to choose from at all!
It's the opposite of everything we were taught, but seems to be spot on. Since watching videos, been putting it to the test, and is true. I see the results, and still can't believe this is really the way it is. Better future relationships.
How can you get into a relationship without showing a woman you like her? He's not saying "don't shower her with compliments if you've just met her", Casey is saying "never show her you like her, or she will _immediately_ lose attraction."
Dude also says in another video that men show weakness when they refuse to love a woman and show it. Guy makes great points but if you watch all the videos you can see the contradictions at times. Imo its because the reality is there is a balance
People make "content" just to keep making " content". They rarely think it thru. When utube becomes your job, and your "schtick" is narrow , your redundancy and contradiction is inevitable
You are correct, and I agree with you. To date women, one must approach them or somehow obtain their number or attention. In such cases, she may perceive her sexual market value as higher than yours if you’re the one seeking her attention. How should we navigate such situations?
I get this, but then how can you possibly convert any women into a lover/gf if you can’t show interest in them? Just asking her out is an expression of interest. Only women with low self esteem would continue to pursue a man who doesn’t want them back.
8:09 something supper super important to understand this and to make it work. And socialize. And. Socialize. Social-fucking-lize. This is the most critical part of advice when applying this method. You have to actively be social and talk to everyone all the time without caring who they are and what they look like. You gotta have fun talking to them and apply this advice. Just don’t care, cause you just want to have fun; you just want to talk shit and laugh. And if no girl likes you then it’s alright. Cause you could just not care about anyone but in a vacuum that shit is dangerous but when you don’t care in a group of people you just want to have fun (within reason) you quite literally get so many points. Why, it doesn’t matter why. Just doing that is enough. And for many people being near a guy that doesn’t care, for some odd fucking reason runs then the wrong way. You could talk to everyone the right way but if you don’t care about anything, for some odd reason there will always be that one person that’s like “wait why doesn’t this dude care about me” and notice I said person not girl, cause this could affect both genders so be careful. And that’s how you properly apply this advice to get some practical effect, and not be a fucking weirdo.
The good thing is if a woman is chasing you and you want to get rid of her. Just give her flowers. Thanks Casey for not blame woman for this. Many dater coaches do.
Does this apply to long term relationships? What do you do for long term relationships? Why would they merry and have kids with a guy who doesn’t like them? I don’t disagree with Casey’s assertion but how do we apply knowing this to the long game
yea unfortunately in the world we live in now , with social media and all the options woman have in there head now . this is the hard truth . but 20 years ago this was not the case for the most part. it actually is very sad and depressing . its gonna be hard for the younger generation thats for sure .
@@moheganson yea less commitment too in just girlfriend/boyfriend relationships. Forget getting married now days and the government doesnt help with the marriages either. These girls are all over the place now a days. Especially the beautiful ones.
I think it's ok to tell them they are beautiful but they must fear you will not always think they are beautiful for example I told my girl she's very beautiful but I fear if she ever breast feeds and gets saggy breast I might lose my attraction and I also told her if I ever find dirty smelly panties I will lose all attraction for her so now she constantly complains that she can't be perfect and I simply say try your best to be. I said I will be periodically checking the dirty laundry for bad panties.
The way i'd describe it, from what i've heard from the mouths of women, is that the guy who doesn't give a darn is mysterious. He is like a puzzle for her to solve. It causes her to get invested in the relationship. When a guy is kind and caring he is effectively figured out. The relationship is boring because there is nothing to do. The mystery is gone. Its no longer fun.
i will pretend not to Know them because of this. And now she is sabotaging my game on another girl. This video is alittle worrisome because chicks aren’t used to them not being wanted and she will in fact hold a personal vendetta against you
No, they won’t. You stand out as unique compared to the other guys who fawn over her left and right. You become more desirable. A little worrisome- they might think we’re gay so you gotta roast them a bit or show a little interest initially
@@moheganson that’s true, I try to break the touch barrier without being creepy and make fun of her now. She did have one of my friends ask if I was. I was trying to force her to chase me too, DO NOT DO THAT EVER!!! Lol
@@moheganson It was an old boss of mine. She excepted me to just do everything with out her doing anything and she didn’t want me so I moved on to another girl and now she told this one what I hate and the new one did everything in a single day to piss me off. it’s like she doesn’t want me with anyone BUT her
I don't know, if I fully agree, because i had girlfriends in longterm relationships l somehow liked, why would I be with them otherwise? What i would agree on, is the fact, that my LTR of 11 years always complained I would make her feel inferior or not enough, that was the secret to success. But after too much complaining, I had to cut her loose, I didn't like anymore. Compared to other girls, she was a good one tough.
Somewhat truth. It just depends. I’ve had girls where we would not talk for days on end and I’ll tell her “this Saturday we going out at 7, lmk if you can make it or I’ll rearrange my plans” she will show up, excuse herself when she on her phone and I’ll take her home for the business. But thru out the time we don’t see eachother it’s a text here or there I’ll FT her she will answer but we talk for 2 minutes. But will always show up when I ask and never a no to do anything I want. It’s a weird dynamic I just continue my life on my own time. And I do show her interest when we go out. You know treat her like a “princess” with guy jokes in between like come on my boii Atleast hold the door for me. Just joking. And this seems to keep her around but not that middle school HS dating where we be on the phone all day. It’s pretty simple fellas
My biggest thing I learned in life, always do the opposite of the status quo. Most people go after karmic women, don't. Most people go after narcissistic women, don't. There's the men's problem. This video describes the karmic women you're going after. If narc women is all you see and think about first of all, then that's all you're going to see and attract. That's common sense. If you want the real shit, you're going to have to think the real shit. Never chase a woman, only attract women. The moment you're chasing, you already lost.
9:20 I would modify this to: w dont want you to NEED them. "Liking" is ok, but must be willing to walk away and never look back, and from time to time must also demonstrate it. It must be sincere though, not butthurt
Its weird how some videos you say that women likes men who shows that theyre not afraid to love, other videos you say dont like a women. Just as u said u shouldnt endulge in lustfull things but yet you tell men to date multiple women and cheat on them. I really dont get it. Can u please explain casey, thanks!
His message isn’t wrong but It’s a bit more nuanced than how he explained it. I would say his message applies to the second type of girl i describe below..but it’s definitely not all women by any means. Family oriented women or those close to the “wall” react differently to intimacy than a career oriented woman. Usually, when you charm a conservative family oriented girl into bed she automatically thinks you like her enough for a relationship..which makes her catch feelings and assume you are going to keep pursuing her. This is the fairytale she’s been dreaming of. (Example: my wife of 25 years was like this) Where you go from there is up to you. Whereas a career oriented girl that you sleep with quickly will essentially want you for fun and sex to distract her from her difficult studies , career, etc. She just wants the fun boyfriend experience and to blow off steam. These are the girls Casey is referring to. (Example: I dated a 28 year old nurse when I was 20 and I was basically her boy toy. Which is how her career girlfriends openly referred to me. They usually don’t catch deep feelings and are generally very promiscuous…however a girl like this can also occasionally catch feelings..especially if you start becoming successful or another girl is trying to steal your attention..so be careful and move accordingly. Simping and falling for this type of girl will hurt you because like Casey said..soon as you really like them you are breaking the rules they thought you had agreed to..which is lots of sex and a very little depth. Basically you are rocking the boat too much..considering their ambitions for a career, etc. It’s fine to be charming and loving with these girls but keep it light and fun and not too serious.
This guy is correct btw. Not all women lose interest after you show interest if so no relationship would ever work out. Its not as black and white as Casey makes it out to be. No matter what you still always have to stay in frame, value yourself more than her, lead the relationship etc. That never goes away. Choose a woman with genuine burning desire for you or you're wasting your time.
@@askohirvonen5066 Somewhere around 30..Prior to getting married at 22…FYI for any guys that plan on getting married young. Be careful not to have too much indiscriminate sex because it will follow you into your marriage..just like it does women. As men we obviously need to learn about female nature.. and sex definitely helps you understand some of it….but don’t condition yourself to expect sex whenever you want.. bc in marriage it doesn’t work that way..especially once kids show up. It’s hard to live as a polygamist and then get married and assume you have the ability to be monogamous ..no matter how much you love your wife you’ll be tempted to go back to what you know
@@user-ew3hh1mv9l You are absolutely correct and that’s partly what cost me my marriage after 25 years. I lost frame at some point because I cared more about not arguing and making the peace than I did about standing firm in my convictions as a man. Stand firm in what you believe and trust the masculinity you were born with to keep her attracted to you. Once you give in to the 50/50 partnership bullshit they say they want.. they start to lose respect and attraction.. my wife was an 18yr old virgin Christian girl but her divorced mom was a devout feminist and certified crazy person..so anytime I would try to guide my wife and the family I would here how “I was trying to make her a doormat.” The sad thing is I could tell she wanted to follow me and did some of the time when life was easy but when life got tough or a major decision needed to be made we clashed a lot.
@@caseyharrison2024 sorry,mate, if I doubt you. 30 relationships before 22 is impossible. ( few weeks/months crushes do not count as relationship). But I have said this before - I suspect Casey's girls are all been kinda one type. And therefore I suspect, these patterns go for a certain type of girls. I would describe them narcissistic. The nature of a woman is a bit more complicated,than described in theese videos. There just has to be more. But C's videos are still great, a true masterclass, the best advise. Follow it and you will be ok(not fucked up heartbroken)
Correct but this phase of “not liking” comes in gradually after the first date. Because a woman is supposed to be constantly interrupting you of you focusing on your life. Which in return you don’t like her. Your supposed to not really have much time for a woman in order to attract her. Increase your social media posts to make yourself look “busy” not answer the phone to timely etc… if your not busy pretend like you are. If you move in together also stay busy to like play video games or do something that takes time.
Here's a simple trick for someone who has difficulties applying this, do not date/talk with one woman only, talk and date with many women at the same time, jump from one to another, by the time you're with one the others will feel like you don't care about them and that you're not invested in them, they will automatically chase you back, this way you'll feed your hunger for chasing women as a man without seeming needy or overly invested.
What can i do : i dated a women but usually im not clingy but i actually have crush. But now i showed interest and she is Rejecting me . Can i still fix it?
Hmm, I don't question that the things Casey is saying are true for him and the relationships he has but I can't help but wonder how much that is influenced by the type of person he is. When I watch the videos I always come away with the impression, that in order to have a romantic relationship, I would have to pretend to be someone I'm not and constantly manipulate my spouse into liking me and I would much rather be alone. I'm trying to be as honest as possible about who I am, bad things included, and try to ameliorate my shortcomings so I do not have to admit to them anymore instead of hiding them away, as well as being as honest as politeness allows towards other people about what I think of them. I don't want to have to be cold towards someone I like because they will not respect me if I don't.
I agree with you wholeheartedly brother. This is a big reason I was not successful with women. I refused to be a guy like Casey. I like Casey, he is very intuitive , he has great delivery with his ideas, he is a sharp, good looking, in shape dude, he is cool imo lol However, I would never want to be like him ever in my life, "Having Bro's" , "hanging with chicks", "running game", whether he likes it or not, that world is a feminine dominated world and you have to turn yourself into a caricature of a man to even participate in it, women will NEVER let a staunch masculine man with morals win in that game, you have to be willing to play games (I am not) be the spontaneous, clown type guy or some form of "Alpha A-type" or simply be VERY invested in winning in the game to even participate and that is WAY too much energy for me. I rather spend it somewhere else. lol Man YES I would LOVE for women to want to be around me and truly understand the brash "Man humor" I absolutely revel in and talk about the stuff I like , such as The Bible , philosophy, guns, weapons in general, ancient history, Symbolism, Boxing, Football, Basketball, Soccer, Fishing, Bow hunting etc. However, whenever I hang out with women they are utterly useless outside of being almost unfairly physically attractive to me, I mean good looking women are just delightful to behold, they just typically have no mind for anything of substance, and the ones who are intelligent just want to devalue you in a way or compete with you, and of course, me being me, I take them to task intellectually, their Machiavellian-esque games are no match for a man who has delved DEEP into the wisdom of Carl Gustav Jung, the Ancient Stoics and The Holy Bible. I have honed my articulation to the point where women are extremely easy to defeat in a game of verbal back and forth and brother...that AIN'T good for getting laid, lemme tell ya' lol Through DEEP DARK loneliness which forced me to partake in DEEP DAAARK introspection all alone for YEARS and YEARS of my life, I have individuated myself both naturally and purposefully and became as close to an individual as a man can get, and this has helped my discernment become even stronger. The problem is, even though I understand women and how they move, it's almost like I know nothing because women do not operate via logic and are not held accountable for not operating logically or within the rules, even into adulthood they get a pass in our culture to act as ridiculous and emotional as they want. So understanding women means nothing, you can understand them all you want, but unless you are willing to "play their games" this knowledge will only ever make you bitter that even though you know their weaknesses and tricks, it will NOT help you attract them unless you simply pull-back and one takes interest because of it OR you forsake your masculinity and play the games. Otherwise knowing them only lets you see them BREAK social rules and logic ALL the time with no consequences. I get it, people will say "Oh no YOU don't have women because this and that". However , I have accepted my flaws and recognize my true value as a man, so the doubt is simply wrong. Ever since High School I lost guy friends because the girl they had crushes on were too interested in me. I am not some "super chad alpha", I am an aloof, thinking man who does not try or participate in dating, which interests women whenever my family or friend (yes singular lol) gets me into the "Scene" (bars, clubs, parties, gatherings, bon fires etc. w/e). They are interested because to them its like "Why does this tall guy not seem interested in me and why is he not competing with the other dudes?" (Most women 100 percent recognize when you are "peacocking" for the women around you and it does work for guys like Casey but for a regular joe it just makes them look goofy lol). I'm tall, 6'7" with a lean but toned athletic build, I played sports my whole life and been around admiring women but was ABSOLUTELY clueless that women liked me at all. I thought I was a complete utter unattractive loser, but then I slowly realized women often gave me signals that they wanted me. This realization that women were interested in me on a regular basis was the worst for me, because then I started trying to talk to women LOL I Was good at it, I spent so much time alone with no other influences that I simply became an interesting guy for the most part. However, when I expressed interest I was VERY honest about it, which freaks women out, they WANT to play the games and it's just goofy to me that we have to walk in circles before we get to where we are going, so to speak. Idk, but yea, I agree with you man, I say in general I am gong to just stay in my own lane and be the best me, maybe a good relationship opportunity will present itself, maybe not, I just cannot let companionship define me... I look at it as a luxury in todays world and not something "owed" or needed.
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Facts!
I Lived this mistake 3 times in long term relationships.
This guy is SPOT on. I've LOST SO MANY women by showing INTEREST. As SOON as I showed them interest, their interest in me dropped like the Titanic, NEVER to recover. NEVER get lovey dovey, or place them on a pedestal.
It is sick but true.
if you are low value they will get turned off
Mentally twisted.They think im so low value why is he interested in me. Must be a loser.
Same here, I did the exact same thing with a female that had major attraction for me. She couldn't keep her hands off me, did all the little favors I asked when I asked & never stood me up. Our jobs changed & we stopped seeing each other daily. At first she made the time to come see me, even waiting hours for me to finish up with work so we could hang out. Then one day I made the fatal mistake of expressing my feelings her & what she was beginning to mean to me( I'd been somewhat indifferent up till that point never showing to much interest). Not a week later I got the Distance. She stopped texting me the Good morning texts, stopped asking me to let her know I'd made it home safely, & stopped all phone conversations (we don't stay near each other & we both work long hours) I saw the change & thought made it's a test so I didn't buy in & didn't text or call either just in case it was the "Pull Away" women are famous for(Nope not one of those) After about 9days I texted one afternoon to see what was up with the Radio Silence ( she always texted me or called everyday) She Gave me the "Needing Space for a Reset" talk. Of course I was majorly confused as this woman was all about me just a week & a half before & months before that. I responded with "It's been nice & I enjoyed our time together while it lasted" & hit the Bricks with no plans to ever reach out again. That was 10weeks ago & we haven't had any contact since. I know from a double agent in her network of friends there isn't a new person in her life so that wasn't the reason for the distance. I did keep her on my IG & she likes posts from time 2 time but that's about it. I truly believe had I kept my thoughts to myself we'd still be seeing each other, lesson Learned for the Next Girl I guess. At least I didn't do any simp💩 & chase her, best to let anyone that wants to move on from you Walk. There's to many females on this Rock to worry about 1🤷♂️
@@antoniosalcido1931not necessarily, sometimes it's just about the chase for some women. It feeds their Ego to see if they can get a man they perceive to be above them. Then once he shows just how interested he is she moves on. I've seen men do this too with women outta their league. Once she showed she actually did like him it scared him & he bolts. Ego & dating don't mix
What an amazing video! My recommendation to all beginners would be to find book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and that will launch you far ahead of everyone and give you an unfair advantage.
Where can one get this book?
@@davidm2299 Just read the original Casanova book. It's already boss...
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Facts bro. 🎯
If she's interested in you, She's not going to want to be friends with you. She wants to be your bitch, a lover, your admirer and a fan ..... you will always ruin this for her, if you start thirsting after her and chasing her.
that makes me so angry and sad. i dont want to suppress these feelings, actually it turns me on to be after a woman and show her how much i want her. If i need to make pokerface, i'm out. Well theoratically out, cuz my dick tells me otherwise, every fucking day !!!!
This comment needs to be written down, for us to read before going on a date.
This comment should be written in the Bible.
@@HeathenDanceneeds to be pinned
Lol, for real! @@haribalcacer
He speaks truth. I am good looking guy and I had bunch of girls that liked me alot asked bunch of questions and gave compliments and that second I said to them that i like them they switched like light from love to hate. Now I know how they operate and how to hide my interest same as they do it.
🫡 eat up those compliments but pay her none. You’re the CEO 👑 and she’s your minimum wage employee. Give her a raise at Xmas maybe or her birthday but never be her fanboy
You’re the King!
@@damirderek8827they all sound certifiably insane. The pecker for a present was great tho 😂
@@Raptured_and_back is that worth it? Then you have to be an asshole, lame, who spends their time with a weak doormat...wicked lame!
They hate themselves. If they see you are interested in them they will wonder why are you blind or stupid.
They only feel joy at someone else expense and they feel entitled to try other options so when they see that you are loyal they think your a sucker. Just stay away
I have observed this same thing. One girl told me i have trouble with girls because a lot of them feel like they don't "deserve" me! Lol! Doing me a favor i guess!!👉🤡💥
@TheHelladood
Women translation = you are nice a beta guy.
the less you care the more you win in life
Sadly true
That’s the story of my life
@@jomufilms do you pay on first dates? My next one I’ll be intentionally leaving my wallet in the car and ordering the most expensive meal and drinks just to see her reaction paying the bill 😂
Thoughts?
@@mohegansonDon’t make her pay. Get the bill split. That’s fair, and while she may be upset there’s not much she can say. Trying to get her to pay is putting yourself in her power: you want something from her. She can actually just walk out and you’ll be stuck with the bill anyways, and she’ll be laughing.
I usually pay separately on first dates. I pay for what I order, she pays for hers. And once she understands that I may offer to buy her a drink.
Makes sense. Last few years keeping girls around who you’re not that interested in is easy, ones you are interested in lose interest in you after a couple months. Automatic
I love double upload days
Wouldn't that be playing not to loose? Instead of playing to win?
If this was the case, then nobody would be married in in relationships, which obviously isn’t the case. It’s simply, she had a few months of combining lives and doesn’t see a future with you. Pushing this narrative will indefinitely make men unhappy and single.
@@yourfoodforthought it's not necessarily about legitimately stripping yourself of emotions for women in general, it's allowing the woman you are interested in to be the one is it the most emotionally invested into the relationship. Let her do the Disney fantasy dreaming and try to win you over. Don't think anyone is trying to say to not love them, just show it through actions when she's the one initiating the intimacy.
It's like you're a dad, and you and the mother love your son very much. She will show her love through hugs and kisses while you show it through keeping them safe, teaching them life lessons and being proud of them. It's love, just different ways of showing it.
Couple months ? Couple weeks lol
I LOVE how Casey makes you repeat the extremely important parts of his lessons so it really sinks in. It's like in "Trainwreck" when the father tells the girls, "Monogamy isn't realistic," and makes them repeat it. That's another saying men should repeat again and again to themselves.
Basically men need to start seeing themselves as high value and most importantly they need to do what makes them happy spend time doing that ❤
You’re not though, especially not if you listen to twat. Men get so hurt when they get rejected after immediately coming on to someone they just met, not understanding that liking me isn’t the issue, it’s the fact that obviously you only like the outside and no nothing about me, and that’s gross.
Of course! Men are born with value! We just never saw it.
@@okgoogleplay3500 not really, a man without money is just future cannon fodder.
This is one reason why it is a great idea to cultivate the ability to cognitively control your own thoughts and emotions..... As a man it is one of the keys to life.
I learned that when I was 12 years old buddy. Is simple but hard discipline.
This is so sad and painful but he is absolutely right!
100% agree...the older I get the less I like women...life is too short to worry about women.
Correct ✅
I actually had a woman say to me once, there is no good woman for a man. I won't go into the circumstances in which she said that
@@ralphthomas7868 yep women only look at men for 2 things number 1 what can he do for me? And number 2 how does he make me feel? Done they are very pragmatic about men in general
that's why they have hookers.
I would say life is to short to give a rat’s about stupid nonsense like ‘spiking her emotions’. That’s hard work, and I haven’t got the time for that ridiculousness.
This is overboard. Liking her too much is a turnoff. But not liking her at all causes her to reject outta pride / self preservation. Like her without being overly attached, or too invested. It is perfectly ok to tell her you like her in bed the next morning, e.g. Letting go is a huge part of it too. Why deny your best human emotions - you lose either way when you're determined to be a stoic unfeeling brick wall. There's no joy in that
I think this is the best answer honestly
True, woman are to be enjoyed but dont be attached, understand that the relationship will end sooner or later, the trick is to enjoy every moment and let go when it ends
exactly
Appreciation and attachment do not have to be the same thing, you’re right!! You built on his teachings perfectly. I hope he pins this comment
Balance
If there was a king of men who has gone on to the wilderness and has conquered everything just to come back to the tribe and change every man's life. You helped put the crown on my head again Casey. God bless you now and always
People want what they can't have. That rule applies to not only things but other people as well.
its a bit late but this is actually true and useful bro. i lost her like 3 months ago just because of this. i made myself in weaker and desperate position while i could easily play a guy who doesn't care but i guess i was blinded. thank you for your service G.
A wise man once said: "Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin. Hence, a prince who wants to keep his authority must learn how not to be good, and use that knowledge or refrain from using it, as necessity requires".
deep
Thanks. It's from "The 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene. I think I was lucky to have read the book at a younger age. I've had better success with women and life in general since reading it.
Machiavelli?
Yup, culled from "The Prince", by Machiavelli.
You need to show her your bad side so she Knows not to fuck with you. Its better to be feared than loved!
Logically it’s strange .. but yes they don’t go by logic . Female natural Instincts and feelings they go by .. who’s the top alpha they want
Yeah but social status is relative and contextual.
Correction women want you to want them and like them but they don’t want you to need them
You gotta make em earn it. They love that
It’s this cute girl at my job that has been wanting me to talk to her, and hovering around me, crossing my path at seemingly random points. I’ve acknowledged her a little bit in the beginning, then I started ignoring her, and I noticed that this seems to have spiked her attraction even more . Like she’ll disappear for a bit & then reemerge , like doubling down to try to get me to notice her.
Yep they will stand near you and say to another girl very loudly how boring their life is and they dont do anything for fun lol. Expecting that to be enough cue for you to go and embarass yourself trying to ask her out. Nope sorry HR, not today
Its highly unlikely she is single. She just wants to add you to her list of orbiters. Its like catching pokemon to them. Greedy girls
Okay here's my question what if now you like that girl right hypothetically speaking, okay you not showing her interest doing the right things how do you get to let her submit to your decisions....
This is true, once I was not totally into women I could easily get them.
The problem is if I don't care about a woman, I can't have a satisfying relationship or s.
that's life , you can't have your cake and eat it too. lol We will always be stuck with chics we don't like, my propose solution is to just get a hooker.
You can be both attracted to, and actually care about her, you just have to keep her at "arm's length" and never show it. ALWAYS. She will stay around, and you BOTH win. Don't sacrifice or settle for a woman you aren't attracted to. You WANT a woman you are attracted to....so just stay calm, actually STOIC, and ALLOW her to chase you.
@royan712 bro show interest and have fun in that relationship but know its going to end sooner or later and be cool with it... nothing lasts forever.
@@JohnL-qe4pi"Just be yourself" 😂
No, they can smell it in you. So you must genuinely not care about her.
You got it 💯 bro. It was the same for me. I had them around, could read their thoughts and understand them. They enjoyed my company and often used to go miles to please me. I could get any woman I wanted effortlessly. But from the moment I started wanting to have a specific woman in my life, everything became a disaster as I started over thinking, caring too much, being too serious instead of cool and full of fun, chasing, being emotional and committing to them. Women crave men who don't want them or are good being alone. Casey is a genius.
It is a tough message to hear…but if you keep working on yourself and gaining wisdom thru hardship you’ll start to understand these issues better.. and hopefully protect yourself from getting hurt
Say this with me one more time:
Casey’s a fucking genius.
The best in the business.
😂😅😂😅😂
Yep facts
How the F do people go on dates, let alone get married, if you're supposed to not show women you like them, at any point?
"Listen, I really don't like you. Like at all, you're just useless and annoying; anyway, wanna go out sometime?"
@Rockownz5150
Grow up. Knuckle up. Didn’t you have dad? Do something hard and challenging.
Can confirm. I've just entered my 8th decade. Back in the day, (late '70s early '80s) when I was earning most of my notch counts in spite of my complete cluelessness, I was in 'da club' every weekend. I've always been a non-smoker and non-drinker, and disliked those behaviors in women as well. I strongly disliked the club scene for the smoke and drunks, but the p*ssy kept me there. I wanted a steady girlfriend so I could get laid on the regular WITHOUT having to put up with the smoke and the drunks. This led into the following situation: The ones I wanted, didn't want me (I was wa-a-a-a--a-ay too needy), the ones I didn't want (drunks and smokers), were CRAZY for me.
Wasnt aware of non drinking non smoking women existed in the70s and 80s.. Not even in Baptist church groups!
Def true however theres more to be said on this topic, because i have gotten with girls where i showed alot of interest, showed that i liked them and they reciprocated, they chased me etc, but, it was when i “caught feelings”, started developing that feeling of love for her is when i saw her interest fade. So i think thats the big one, when they sense youre falling in love with them. Not just “oh he likes me so now i dont like him”. Although that can happen too, but obviously if youre approaching/pursuing a chick she knows you like her to some degree
I'll show this video to one of my female friends, this is gold
No they’ll know the secrets
Spitting facts as always. 💯 Casey cracked the code. At 42 I realized it,but wish you were around 20years ago. 😂 I rekindled my marriage of 15years and 4 kids. Wife lost 100 pounds,got fit and hotter than when we met. She knows woman want me and it drives her crazy. Sex life went from 1 every other week...to 5 or 6days a week now. Marathon sex is my new norm. Listen to him. Killing it as always Casey. Helped me more than you will ever know.
Casey,i am 14 and thanks to you i have a polarised relationship with a very femine woman in a fucked up generation for over a month,we have our ups and downs but i always think: that's nothing i can handle that,and overall i just don't care about that i am rock solid in my character(it's my first girl at anything and she thinks i am amazing at everything we do intimate or not)
Bro I'm 25 and i have a 14yr old girl. We f like everyday
Good you are learning all this at 14 keep it up bro!
@@namzzdemon1632Um that’s statutory rape
Bro don’t worry about dating until at least 22
14yo dating another 14yo? That's just gross. You're a granny-chaser.
I'm 51yo & usually don't date women over the age of 13. But, if you're into older chicks, to each his own, I guess. 14yo would be too old for me; I got to draw the line somewhere.
I agree with you.
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What is strange is that most of the moments that every woman I spend time with remind me of are toxic moments.
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like
She says: Remember when you pushed me hard? Hahahahaha
Remember when you yelled at me when I was acting stupid? Hahahahahaha
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It is as if every situation in which I was angry and content was a historical scene, or a favorite part of a movie.
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Because my nature is not toxic, and I seek a healthy and normal relationship, I express my love often and regret it afterwards.
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A world full of stupid and sick people.
The biggest trick you deceive yourself is when you think that people look like you on the inside.
I just messed up and said I liked a girl a couple nights ago. Fuck
Shouldn't some of them though? I mean, MATHEMATICALLY?!
This is kind of profound… I have a gf, but during our talking stage, I was an ass(still kind of am). She routinely brings up instances of when I was being a dick, but rarely reminisces on times when I treat her well
@@pixeltoons12
Strange indeed, as if toxicity expresses high status in their view.
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That's why I think they stay in toxic relationships with (narcissistic) personalities for a long time.
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Kindness is linked to cowardice and disguise in their view. This is a type of personal projection, because they judge themselves in this way when they are in a weak position.
"The biggest trick you deceive yourself is when you think that people look like you on the inside." - Amazing quote
Wise words from a decent man 💯
For me personally this concept has a one thousand batting average. A 100% sure as the sun comes up rate. Every single time i have even thought the thought "hey you know what...i kinda like this one and could see myself dating her" boom! A sonar wave goes out into the ether and flip inside the girls brain switches and she never texts back again or proceeds to flake on the very next meet up
Fuck that shit
This has been my experience too and women have told me they like me because I don't like them.
You are a true genius! It makes so much sense !! I’m living my life putting my self number 1❤
Yes Casey, Your exactly Right, Im a lot older than you, and I have lived everything you have said in this video, Im now very happily single, coudnt give a shit about any women even though I love them. I can get a date with pretty much any women I want, but, I know there all Trouble.
Yo, Uncle C, you floored me when you said "In her girl brain". OMG! hilarious
Put yourself on the pedestal you usually put women that you like.
Good luck y’all on your masculinity journey 🫡
Just happened to me yesterday.
Met her couple of weeks ago and have the coffee talk. I like her intellectual skill. Very communicative and engaging.
Last week she went back to her hometown. I asked her for update and whatsoever. Yesterday, I have shared a video that remembered me about her but she didn’t watch it.
But, she able to update her ig story, Whatsapp story and even shared her selfie on Instagram. I was like “What The Fuck”.
I was clueless since I have never felt this way for years. But since Uncle Casey is giving bombs, I am slowly on track.
Thanks for spitting the painful truth, Uncle C. The best
Great info Bro. However, never swear at the Most High!
I wish I could have known all this info a lot sooner. I’m older now and there are very few women who I would even consider dealing with at any level. If I do deal with a woman, she better bring her most fun, feminine, and flirtatious self to the interaction. Otherwise, I have better things to do.
43 over here and actually kinda knew these stupid games theoretically since youth, still could not really fake it and make it till today, well with some exceptions, where i somehow managed to get 7s or 8s. There were moments i could access the player in me, but it was at times where i practiced a lot and even then it seemed a waste of time and mental health. Unfortunately i still like women in their 20s but they just make ugly faces when i look at them, like i'd be a creepy old perv or smthing. Really hurts. It is difficult, NOT to hate women, i tell you
@@mystik-der-klängethat’s why you fuq em and duck em
Excatly, brother.
Excatly.
This guy is the truth! Best channel on the subject.
Not exactly, but partly true. Like her, tell her about it, but stay detached… it’s a game of push and pull. So there’s always an interest. But still good to listen to Casey. He’s doing a good job
I been seeing absolute progress from bing watching this content. Got to actually battle test this all
I personally show interest and enjoy it, but i know its gonna end sooner or later, regardless of whether I show interest or not.. Just have fun with it boys, for as long as it lasts...
Keep spreading the truth Casey. Lot's of love from Kenya.
I love kenya i lived there for a while in my teens in a village called kilifi ❤
I agree with the majority of what you come up with. One small caveat is that the women you are speaking of very likely are also heavily narcissistic. The principals you outline are directly relevant to all heavily narcissistic people, male or female.
That's what I always think. I remember this same vibe from tom likus back in my youth...
I'd hear womben call-in "you're absolutely right tom" in disbelief...I always thought "Well, at least I'm not like that. I'm not interested in that type of girl." Which girls AREN'T like this though? They are hard to find...I'd think I saw them, there are plenty of classy seeming ladies...then I'd see the abusive villain they are dating through all the abuse...
Strangely enough, younger generations are being trained to be narcissists. Ironically, women really are most affected as they also revel in gynocentric western culture which corrupts them totally.
00:01 Women do not want you to like them
01:33 Showing too much interest can backfire.
02:57 Women may lose interest if they perceive you like them
04:20 Men lose leverage when women know they are not the only priority
05:41 Women are attracted to men who don't show too much interest.
06:58 Women prefer men who don't overly worship them
08:16 True secret: Act as if you don't need anything from anybody.
09:35 Women want a man who is genuinely fine without her.
As a widow (married 23 years) and now remarried man, I have learned that enjoying the long term relationships in my life is so fulfilling, rather than the hollow tap and go of my youth.
You are completely correct that seeing her as the last cup of water in the desert will activate her hypergamy.
I truly found the long term is always way more fulfilling for me. Time given to me used to know my woman on that higher level is a privelage and a responsibility.
I now know I set the mood in the relationship.
She agrees to gift the most valuable asset in life, her time and I use my time to set the mood and frame of the relationship.
Time is something only God or universe can give and take away it is unreplenishable and more valuable than any riches in the world to earn the most of a woman's time with in her most valuable years is a true gift.
Thanks for reading.
Been seeing this girl for the last 2 months. At the beginning she had high interest based on the messages etc...Today is very different to the point of her telling me shes not putting effort setting up dates when I asked her the reason why it is getting hard to see each other. 2 months ago after sex she said were so connected blablabla. Guess what, I started showing interest even though I diminished texts a lot. She felt it. They know it. Today I texted her that I don't want to see her anymore. After a few hours I texted her again saying I was just kidding but somehow that text triggered something in her brain. She then immediately set up a date with me for Saturday without me asking her out. This has never happened before. I have always been the one asking her out. Funny how things work.
Be careful, she set it up so that she can dump you to take the 'power' back ;)! Hope I am wrong!
That idea that you if you like her she wont like you happens with us men as well. When a girl likes and is drooling for you, chases you we wont want her. That is human nature. We want a challenge, we want what is hard to get. Then you wonder how people get into relationships and marriages. Thinking now that my only two long term relationships I didnt want to be with them. I just want some fun and that's all. It makes a lot of sense now. Cause I didn't want them I behaved like i did not want them (which was the truth) and both girls were very attractive to me. This is all instinctive. I never said I did not want them but they felt it and that's attractive. Opening eyes!
"He who cares least controls the relationship"
It’s true. I learnt a lot of those lessons in showing them interest in my younger years and I never got anywhere with them. It’s like a game of chess. Show them any kind of interest and they see you in weird ways even if they are showing you initial interest. It’s the most confusing thing for men and young men particularly.
I’d reach enlightenment before securing a girl I want.
lmao same
This is super facts!! It’s been like this My whole life there can be many of women who like me and I won’t like them but as soon as there’s one I find I do like and show interest to her she pulls away. But, when I act like I don’t like her I get her. Don’t really don’t like the guy who likes them. It kills the sexual tension. Stay mysterious and show no emotion
How do I stay mysterious in long distance relationship with her?
@@oluwadamilolabello5430 don’t do that shit bro. I learned from experience
I feel like this is all true but it is very hard to change my brain to integrate this knowledge. Do you have any tips on how to train my mind into accepting and using this advise?
The question in my mind is...why have we been fed the wrong way to behave?
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There are powers that be that are happy with the male population being emasculated, drunk, high, undereducated, and subordinate.
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They show interest, I don’t back, but then nothing happens 🤠
Tough game to crack
Should I start going havies on dates? Or is that too cold? Ha, recently I’ve brainstormed an idea to intentionally leave my wallet in my car on a first date to see her reaction when she has to pay for a meal and drinks (if that’s the date)
@@moheganson bruv
You’ve changed my life
5:16 and this is why she is telling me, I AM THE ONE SHE DESIRE, but she is actually trying to say is "hey, I got an option here so what are you saying". My response to her was "ok, as long as due diligence done". Who can tell me what she gonna think/do? Yes, she gonna continue with him because I didn't pull her in. But guess what, I WILL ALWAYS HAVE ACCESS TO HER, because now she will FOREVER view me as HIGHER VALUE than that guy and she will NOT give up the opportunity to even spend ONE MOMENT with me.
LOL, guess what. SHE IS CALLING MY PHONE!! She had responded to my "due diligence" response, but I guess I not getting back to her fast enough, LOL.
@@mrbabyhughshe sounds like a nut. be careful.
I was watching a dating show called Singles Inferno (Season 3) and it confirmed everything you said.
There was this one "asshole" who acted self-centered as if he was the most important person in his life. He pitted three women against each other and made them qualify to him rather than just simping for one girl like the rest of the guys.
Guess what happened? The three girls he targetted were 100% commited to him (their own words) and literally fighting over him. In the end, he got to choose from the 3 girls while many of the other "simpy" guys had no girls to choose from at all!
Women are very rational 😉👌
It's the opposite of everything we were taught, but seems to be spot on. Since watching videos, been putting it to the test, and is true. I see the results, and still can't believe this is really the way it is. Better future relationships.
How can you get into a relationship without showing a woman you like her?
He's not saying "don't shower her with compliments if you've just met her", Casey is saying "never show her you like her, or she will _immediately_ lose attraction."
Dude also says in another video that men show weakness when they refuse to love a woman and show it. Guy makes great points but if you watch all the videos you can see the contradictions at times. Imo its because the reality is there is a balance
I have noticed that as well.
People make "content" just to keep making " content". They rarely think it thru. When utube becomes your job, and your "schtick" is narrow , your redundancy and contradiction is inevitable
Yea and the number of guys agreeing with this extreme point of view is astounding.
You are correct, and I agree with you. To date women, one must approach them or somehow obtain their number or attention. In such cases, she may perceive her sexual market value as higher than yours if you’re the one seeking her attention. How should we navigate such situations?
I get this, but then how can you possibly convert any women into a lover/gf if you can’t show interest in them? Just asking her out is an expression of interest. Only women with low self esteem would continue to pursue a man who doesn’t want them back.
You make her earn it and her knowing you're not afraid to walk away when she acts like a bitch
Thats because women dont think like men. They are mostly very counter intuitive and go with their instincts
You’re the man bro. You’ve helped me so much
This is pure perfection!
This information hurts my soul and im 38
another gem. thanks man.
This guy is deep, excellent video
8:09 something supper super important to understand this and to make it work. And socialize. And. Socialize. Social-fucking-lize. This is the most critical part of advice when applying this method. You have to actively be social and talk to everyone all the time without caring who they are and what they look like. You gotta have fun talking to them and apply this advice. Just don’t care, cause you just want to have fun; you just want to talk shit and laugh. And if no girl likes you then it’s alright. Cause you could just not care about anyone but in a vacuum that shit is dangerous but when you don’t care in a group of people you just want to have fun (within reason) you quite literally get so many points. Why, it doesn’t matter why. Just doing that is enough. And for many people being near a guy that doesn’t care, for some odd fucking reason runs then the wrong way. You could talk to everyone the right way but if you don’t care about anything, for some odd reason there will always be that one person that’s like “wait why doesn’t this dude care about me” and notice I said person not girl, cause this could affect both genders so be careful. And that’s how you properly apply this advice to get some practical effect, and not be a fucking weirdo.
The cold hard truths are always the best
I wish you would do more videos on front end game… so many of us arent even getting to the dating stage
This is the answer. Nice one.
The good thing is if a woman is chasing you and you want to get rid of her. Just give her flowers. Thanks Casey for not blame woman for this. Many dater coaches do.
Indifference is the difference
Casey is like the brother who reminds you how life works
Didnt recognize u first Bro finally got some outdoor fresh air 😂
Does this apply to long term relationships? What do you do for long term relationships? Why would they merry and have kids with a guy who doesn’t like them? I don’t disagree with Casey’s assertion but how do we apply knowing this to the long game
Casey never miss ong
yea unfortunately in the world we live in now , with social media and all the options woman have in there head now . this is the hard truth . but 20 years ago this was not the case for the most part. it actually is very sad and depressing . its gonna be hard for the younger generation thats for sure .
Less marriages, less kids
@@moheganson yea less commitment too in just girlfriend/boyfriend relationships. Forget getting married now days and the government doesnt help with the marriages either. These girls are all over the place now a days. Especially the beautiful ones.
My ancestors were right !!
I think it's ok to tell them they are beautiful but they must fear you will not always think they are beautiful for example I told my girl she's very beautiful but I fear if she ever breast feeds and gets saggy breast I might lose my attraction and I also told her if I ever find dirty smelly panties I will lose all attraction for her so now she constantly complains that she can't be perfect and I simply say try your best to be. I said I will be periodically checking the dirty laundry for bad panties.
That's funny. 😂
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Yeh. They actually like to be told these things. Its the daddy energy they crave
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The way i'd describe it, from what i've heard from the mouths of women, is that the guy who doesn't give a darn is mysterious. He is like a puzzle for her to solve. It causes her to get invested in the relationship. When a guy is kind and caring he is effectively figured out. The relationship is boring because there is nothing to do. The mystery is gone. Its no longer fun.
i will pretend not to
Know them because of this. And now she is sabotaging my game on another girl. This video is alittle worrisome because chicks aren’t used to them not being wanted and she will in fact hold a personal vendetta against you
No, they won’t. You stand out as unique compared to the other guys who fawn over her left and right. You become more desirable. A little worrisome- they might think we’re gay so you gotta roast them a bit or show a little interest initially
@@moheganson that’s true, I try to break the touch barrier without being creepy and make fun of her now. She did have one of my friends ask if I was. I was trying to force her to chase me too, DO NOT DO THAT EVER!!! Lol
@@moheganson It was an old boss of mine. She excepted me to just do everything with out her doing anything and she didn’t want me so I moved on to another girl and now she told this one what I hate and the new one did everything in a single day to piss me off. it’s like she doesn’t want me with anyone BUT her
Drop them both and find another gal. They both lose.
@@rhuiden4086 copy that
I don't know, if I fully agree, because i had girlfriends in longterm relationships l somehow liked, why would I be with them otherwise? What i would agree on, is the fact, that my LTR of 11 years always complained I would make her feel inferior or not enough, that was the secret to success. But after too much complaining, I had to cut her loose, I didn't like anymore. Compared to other girls, she was a good one tough.
Somewhat truth. It just depends. I’ve had girls where we would not talk for days on end and I’ll tell her “this Saturday we going out at 7, lmk if you can make it or I’ll rearrange my plans” she will show up, excuse herself when she on her phone and I’ll take her home for the business. But thru out the time we don’t see eachother it’s a text here or there I’ll FT her she will answer but we talk for 2 minutes. But will always show up when I ask and never a no to do anything I want. It’s a weird dynamic I just continue my life on my own time. And I do show her interest when we go out. You know treat her like a “princess” with guy jokes in between like come on my boii Atleast hold the door for me. Just joking. And this seems to keep her around but not that middle school HS dating where we be on the phone all day. It’s pretty simple fellas
ie 007 was putting us on game
Contrary to what you've been tought woman don't like nice guys, be independent and aloof .
Damn! I watched this video first and I thought that it couldn't be that bad. However, I pondered for 3 hours and...yes, that is exactly the case -_-
This video was fascinating, thank you
My biggest thing I learned in life, always do the opposite of the status quo. Most people go after karmic women, don't. Most people go after narcissistic women, don't. There's the men's problem. This video describes the karmic women you're going after. If narc women is all you see and think about first of all, then that's all you're going to see and attract. That's common sense. If you want the real shit, you're going to have to think the real shit. Never chase a woman, only attract women. The moment you're chasing, you already lost.
so can someone clear this up for me. So, i go on a date, be boring show no interest? I dont really understand
9:20 I would modify this to: w dont want you to NEED them. "Liking" is ok, but must be willing to walk away and never look back, and from time to time must also demonstrate it. It must be sincere though, not butthurt
Its weird how some videos you say that women likes men who shows that theyre not afraid to love, other videos you say dont like a women. Just as u said u shouldnt endulge in lustfull things but yet you tell men to date multiple women and cheat on them. I really dont get it. Can u please explain casey, thanks!
Ik huh it sounds like we’re supposed to be players for life
His message isn’t wrong but It’s a bit more nuanced than how he explained it. I would say his message applies to the second type of girl i describe below..but it’s definitely not all women by any means.
Family oriented women or those close to the “wall” react differently to intimacy than a career oriented woman. Usually, when you charm a conservative family oriented girl into bed she automatically thinks you like her enough for a relationship..which makes her catch feelings and assume you are going to keep pursuing her. This is the fairytale she’s been dreaming of. (Example: my wife of 25 years was like this) Where you go from there is up to you.
Whereas a career oriented girl that you sleep with quickly will essentially want you for fun and sex to distract her from her difficult studies , career, etc. She just wants the fun boyfriend experience and to blow off steam. These are the girls Casey is referring to. (Example: I dated a 28 year old nurse when I was 20 and I was basically her boy toy. Which is how her career girlfriends openly referred to me. They usually don’t catch deep feelings and are generally very promiscuous…however a girl like this can also occasionally catch feelings..especially if you start becoming successful or another girl is trying to steal your attention..so be careful and move accordingly. Simping and falling for this type of girl will hurt you because like Casey said..soon as you really like them you are breaking the rules they thought you had agreed to..which is lots of sex and a very little depth. Basically you are rocking the boat too much..considering their ambitions for a career, etc. It’s fine to be charming and loving with these girls but keep it light and fun and not too serious.
This guy is correct btw. Not all women lose interest after you show interest if so no relationship would ever work out. Its not as black and white as Casey makes it out to be. No matter what you still always have to stay in frame, value yourself more than her, lead the relationship etc. That never goes away. Choose a woman with genuine burning desire for you or you're wasting your time.
how many girls you have been in a relationship with?
@@askohirvonen5066 Somewhere around 30..Prior to getting married at 22…FYI for any guys that plan on getting married young. Be careful not to have too much indiscriminate sex because it will follow you into your marriage..just like it does women. As men we obviously need to learn about female nature.. and sex definitely helps you understand some of it….but don’t condition yourself to expect sex whenever you want.. bc in marriage it doesn’t work that way..especially once kids show up. It’s hard to live as a polygamist and then get married and assume you have the ability to be monogamous ..no matter how much you love your wife you’ll be tempted to go back to what you know
@@user-ew3hh1mv9l You are absolutely correct and that’s partly what cost me my marriage after 25 years. I lost frame at some point because I cared more about not arguing and making the peace than I did about standing firm in my convictions as a man. Stand firm in what you believe and trust the masculinity you were born with to keep her attracted to you. Once you give in to the 50/50 partnership bullshit they say they want.. they start to lose respect and attraction.. my wife was an 18yr old virgin Christian girl but her divorced mom was a devout feminist and certified crazy person..so anytime I would try to guide my wife and the family I would here how “I was trying to make her a doormat.” The sad thing is I could tell she wanted to follow me and did some of the time when life was easy but when life got tough or a major decision needed to be made we clashed a lot.
@@caseyharrison2024 sorry,mate, if I doubt you. 30 relationships before 22 is impossible. ( few weeks/months crushes do not count as relationship). But I have said this before - I suspect Casey's girls are all been kinda one type. And therefore I suspect, these patterns go for a certain type of girls. I would describe them narcissistic. The nature of a woman is a bit more complicated,than described in theese videos. There just has to be more. But C's videos are still great, a true masterclass, the best advise. Follow it and you will be ok(not fucked up heartbroken)
Correct but this phase of “not liking” comes in gradually after the first date. Because a woman is supposed to be constantly interrupting you of you focusing on your life. Which in return you don’t like her. Your supposed to not really have much time for a woman in order to attract her. Increase your social media posts to make yourself look “busy” not answer the phone to timely etc… if your not busy pretend like you are. If you move in together also stay busy to like play video games or do something that takes time.
Real men don’t play video games
@@moheganson Get addicted to lifting weights.
@@moheganson Absolute nonsense!
@@involuntarilychad4048 More nonsense!
Yeah bro if you play video games she will leave you. Make money instead and workout
Here's a simple trick for someone who has difficulties applying this, do not date/talk with one woman only, talk and date with many women at the same time, jump from one to another, by the time you're with one the others will feel like you don't care about them and that you're not invested in them, they will automatically chase you back, this way you'll feed your hunger for chasing women as a man without seeming needy or overly invested.
What can i do : i dated a women but usually im not clingy but i actually have crush. But now i showed interest and she is Rejecting me . Can i still fix it?
Hmm, I don't question that the things Casey is saying are true for him and the relationships he has but I can't help but wonder how much that is influenced by the type of person he is. When I watch the videos I always come away with the impression, that in order to have a romantic relationship, I would have to pretend to be someone I'm not and constantly manipulate my spouse into liking me and I would much rather be alone.
I'm trying to be as honest as possible about who I am, bad things included, and try to ameliorate my shortcomings so I do not have to admit to them anymore instead of hiding them away, as well as being as honest as politeness allows towards other people about what I think of them. I don't want to have to be cold towards someone I like because they will not respect me if I don't.
I agree with you wholeheartedly brother. This is a big reason I was not successful with women. I refused to be a guy like Casey. I like Casey, he is very intuitive , he has great delivery with his ideas, he is a sharp, good looking, in shape dude, he is cool imo lol However, I would never want to be like him ever in my life, "Having Bro's" , "hanging with chicks", "running game", whether he likes it or not, that world is a feminine dominated world and you have to turn yourself into a caricature of a man to even participate in it, women will NEVER let a staunch masculine man with morals win in that game, you have to be willing to play games (I am not) be the spontaneous, clown type guy or some form of "Alpha A-type" or simply be VERY invested in winning in the game to even participate and that is WAY too much energy for me. I rather spend it somewhere else. lol Man YES I would LOVE for women to want to be around me and truly understand the brash "Man humor" I absolutely revel in and talk about the stuff I like , such as The Bible , philosophy, guns, weapons in general, ancient history, Symbolism, Boxing, Football, Basketball, Soccer, Fishing, Bow hunting etc. However, whenever I hang out with women they are utterly useless outside of being almost unfairly physically attractive to me, I mean good looking women are just delightful to behold, they just typically have no mind for anything of substance, and the ones who are intelligent just want to devalue you in a way or compete with you, and of course, me being me, I take them to task intellectually, their Machiavellian-esque games are no match for a man who has delved DEEP into the wisdom of Carl Gustav Jung, the Ancient Stoics and The Holy Bible. I have honed my articulation to the point where women are extremely easy to defeat in a game of verbal back and forth and brother...that AIN'T good for getting laid, lemme tell ya' lol
Through DEEP DARK loneliness which forced me to partake in DEEP DAAARK introspection all alone for YEARS and YEARS of my life, I have individuated myself both naturally and purposefully and became as close to an individual as a man can get, and this has helped my discernment become even stronger. The problem is, even though I understand women and how they move, it's almost like I know nothing because women do not operate via logic and are not held accountable for not operating logically or within the rules, even into adulthood they get a pass in our culture to act as ridiculous and emotional as they want. So understanding women means nothing, you can understand them all you want, but unless you are willing to "play their games" this knowledge will only ever make you bitter that even though you know their weaknesses and tricks, it will NOT help you attract them unless you simply pull-back and one takes interest because of it OR you forsake your masculinity and play the games. Otherwise knowing them only lets you see them BREAK social rules and logic ALL the time with no consequences. I get it, people will say "Oh no YOU don't have women because this and that". However , I have accepted my flaws and recognize my true value as a man, so the doubt is simply wrong. Ever since High School I lost guy friends because the girl they had crushes on were too interested in me. I am not some "super chad alpha", I am an aloof, thinking man who does not try or participate in dating, which interests women whenever my family or friend (yes singular lol) gets me into the "Scene" (bars, clubs, parties, gatherings, bon fires etc. w/e). They are interested because to them its like "Why does this tall guy not seem interested in me and why is he not competing with the other dudes?" (Most women 100 percent recognize when you are "peacocking" for the women around you and it does work for guys like Casey but for a regular joe it just makes them look goofy lol). I'm tall, 6'7" with a lean but toned athletic build, I played sports my whole life and been around admiring women but was ABSOLUTELY clueless that women liked me at all. I thought I was a complete utter unattractive loser, but then I slowly realized women often gave me signals that they wanted me. This realization that women were interested in me on a regular basis was the worst for me, because then I started trying to talk to women LOL I Was good at it, I spent so much time alone with no other influences that I simply became an interesting guy for the most part. However, when I expressed interest I was VERY honest about it, which freaks women out, they WANT to play the games and it's just goofy to me that we have to walk in circles before we get to where we are going, so to speak. Idk, but yea, I agree with you man, I say in general I am gong to just stay in my own lane and be the best me, maybe a good relationship opportunity will present itself, maybe not, I just cannot let companionship define me... I look at it as a luxury in todays world and not something "owed" or needed.