EP.40 PART 2 of Thandeka on being married to the devil himself who was also a Pastor.

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @madams___speaker
    @madams___speaker  3 месяца назад +9

    EP.35 PART 1 of Thandeka on surviving being buried alive and life from one abusive relationship to.
    ruclips.net/video/HAquC6i5ySQ/видео.html

  • @abigailmolusi
    @abigailmolusi Месяц назад +3

    Sis Thandeka's style is really of a born poet and creative she'll go far, may God bless all her endeavors and make the journey easier for her, I cried too watching this.

  • @assum01
    @assum01 2 месяца назад +5

    thank you for introducing subtitles for us your international followers

  • @Kberry_
    @Kberry_ 2 месяца назад +6

    Madam S❤
    I appreciate how you don't disturb her. What a strong woman ❤❤

  • @NoloM-de4zh
    @NoloM-de4zh 2 месяца назад +9

    Its so sad that our generation today iis choosing to ignore redflags…..we need more mothers like mam Thandeka to remind us that ukubhekezela akusebenzi

  • @Wasa35
    @Wasa35 2 месяца назад +2

    I thank God for having kept Sis Thandeka, may her testimony fortify us all! To God be the glory!❤

  • @irenemasuluke7037
    @irenemasuluke7037 2 месяца назад +13

    I use to judge people who goes back into abusive relationship ,Until listening to this Podcast ,I have learn that some we collecting testimonies and the courage to avoid being a replica of the pepetrator.❤🎉 .

    • @Lungelo911
      @Lungelo911 2 месяца назад +2

      Research says that it takes an abuse victim about 7 times to attempt to leave their abuser. Unfortunately sometimes even more. But people will judge, as if abuse is nice. We need to kinder to victims of abuse ❤️

  • @MichelleMo.
    @MichelleMo. 2 месяца назад +6

    MADAM YOU DO THIS EFFORTLESSLY, you are you and we love you ❤ let's give her her flowers 💐 ❤️

  • @PenzoLebza
    @PenzoLebza 26 дней назад +2

    Thandeka why don't you create a similar podcasts like this one for those that can't speak in English in south Africa, you are a great healer/therapist

  • @VestaSithole
    @VestaSithole 26 дней назад

    God has a purpose with you Thandeka you are an inspiration to many women.God bless you.

  • @lipalesamayekiso6507
    @lipalesamayekiso6507 Месяц назад

    Usis Ndeka is a living testimony...thank you I will always remember not to go back...because advances are being made....

  • @boitumelomatabane8080
    @boitumelomatabane8080 2 месяца назад +3

    Wow sis Thandeka you are a very strong woman, when they talk about mbokodo u are 1 in a million and may God bless you and thank you Madam speaker for bringing her back ❤

  • @kamogelokoloane5182
    @kamogelokoloane5182 2 месяца назад +13

    Madam speaker you are GORGEOUS bathong ❤❤❤❤

  • @Chichinekhubvi-1
    @Chichinekhubvi-1 2 месяца назад +4

    Strong lady, she's been through the most, she is strong xem, first time i saw her from owamie, and she is beautiful

  • @zoliswamagocoba4471
    @zoliswamagocoba4471 2 месяца назад +6

    May God multiply your businesses Sis Thandeka ❤

  • @SakhileMguni-v3j
    @SakhileMguni-v3j 2 месяца назад +4

    Yooo Thandeka l would listen to you the whole day you heal lot of pple am telling. I love you

  • @RebeccaMokoena-j3l
    @RebeccaMokoena-j3l 2 месяца назад +5

    We praise the living God 🙌
    You are strong my sister 😇

  • @tshepiso0
    @tshepiso0 2 месяца назад +5

    Sis Thandeka I would love to meet her, I relate to her story so much

  • @deborahramaphala9056
    @deborahramaphala9056 2 месяца назад +4

    You are a shining star very authentic.
    Shout out to you open your own podcast will support
    God Bless You
    Qe have learnt from you

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 2 месяца назад +9

    I like how she can laugh about his promises when he came back from prison: 'yabona sthandwa sami umshado wethu uzolungisa imishado eminingi kabi'😂😂😂😂

  • @SibsM93
    @SibsM93 2 месяца назад +1

    What a remarkable lady. Thanks sis Thandeka for sharing your story.❤

  • @NoloM-de4zh
    @NoloM-de4zh 2 месяца назад +2

    Mam thandeka reminds me of my baby daddy’s mom….. she is soo bitter i wish she can watch such podcast so that she can heal from the abuse she experienced

  • @VestaSithole
    @VestaSithole 26 дней назад

    Thandeka you are an inspiration to many women.

  • @siphosethugigana240
    @siphosethugigana240 2 месяца назад +2

    Yoo 18 years sana😢 i would have left the 1st year, you are a strong woman sis Thandeka love and light to you ❤❤

    • @florahgaboipofemokgaotsi4543
      @florahgaboipofemokgaotsi4543 Месяц назад +1

      Did you watch part 1? It explains why she stayed in abusive situations. She had nowhere else to go

  • @confidenceselwane1263
    @confidenceselwane1263 2 месяца назад +4

    I just hope and pray 😢he doesn’t come back to fool you again yoh. He put you through enough and your kids too, i pray to God for you guys to find peace that surpasses all understanding 😢

    • @thandekagcasamba3197
      @thandekagcasamba3197 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for your prayers, I'm not dear the is no word that man will ever say that will change my mind ❤

  • @connymontsho
    @connymontsho 2 месяца назад +4

    The emptiness that comes with wanting to be loved Jehova.I know what she's talking about.

  • @ThatMotswanaGirl
    @ThatMotswanaGirl 2 месяца назад +4

    Yho,glad you are alive Sisi.I really hope your kids are receiving ongoing therapy because they have really experienced trauma.

    • @tintswalomabasa565
      @tintswalomabasa565 2 месяца назад

      Yaa, it's really necessary for them and also for her.

  • @sifisosithole9631
    @sifisosithole9631 2 месяца назад +7

    I haven't heard of worse abuse more than this one 😢

    • @ModernMom102
      @ModernMom102 2 месяца назад +2

      This one is better there us another . A boy friend gave his side chicken to shoot his girlfriend after that he hit her with a car got amputated still.married him tjooo hayi shem bantu besfazane siyahlupheka shem

    • @londiwe2495
      @londiwe2495 2 месяца назад

      Iphi leyo dear?

    • @sifisosithole9631
      @sifisosithole9631 2 месяца назад

      @@ModernMom102 This one is worse

  • @LeomProjects
    @LeomProjects 2 месяца назад +1

    Wow sis'Thandeka❤ your story is very touching. You are a very strong woman, a phenomenal woman. May God bless you and may this trauma not extend to your next generation. You are loved❤
    Xolelwa Mngaza
    East London

  • @thandimthimkhulu2207
    @thandimthimkhulu2207 2 месяца назад +6

    Love you sis Thandeka you are a strong woman went through the most yooh❤

  • @olgadutoit9560
    @olgadutoit9560 Месяц назад

    This is too much, sis Thandeka has been through a lot. May God heal her.❤

  • @roslynramothwala8754
    @roslynramothwala8754 2 месяца назад +3

    I'm speechless 😢

  • @nozizwerugongo5263
    @nozizwerugongo5263 2 месяца назад +2

    Madam love your spirit about beuty am connecting tru God's Grace will retire next year connecting love yourself first ❤

  • @felicitymaphiri
    @felicitymaphiri 2 месяца назад +8

    When makhadzi says my life it's like a movie she meant thandeka s life xem jyooo sisters am starting to believe more kuthi GOd is alive xem hayi

    • @thandekagcasamba3197
      @thandekagcasamba3197 2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks to you sthandwa 💕 I got to share my story ❤

  • @_MizzKea
    @_MizzKea 2 месяца назад +2

    Never stop talking mama ❤️🙏

  • @seipatimamabolo4879
    @seipatimamabolo4879 2 месяца назад +5

    Yhoooo ,i love this lady

  • @LindyPatience-nb4mk
    @LindyPatience-nb4mk 2 месяца назад +3

    😭😭sis went through the most Yooh even crying 😭

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 2 месяца назад +1

    Sis Thandeka God have purpose ka wena 😢😢😢you have been through the most 😭😭😭🫂🫂🙏💐

  • @Koki-Mabena
    @Koki-Mabena 2 месяца назад +2

    This made me cry😭😢💔

  • @rmtandwa
    @rmtandwa 2 месяца назад +2

    I dont know whether to be angry with this woman or to sympathise because WOW!!!! while i dont minimise the trauma she had faced as a child which led to making unhealthy decisions, agh at some point as an adult one has to be accountable for what they CHOOSE as an adult. This woman had so many chances of making it right and leaving this man for the sake of her children’s mental wellbeing. Agh man, i can imagine how the people who helped her felt each time she chose to get back with him, agh.

    • @florahgaboipofemokgaotsi4543
      @florahgaboipofemokgaotsi4543 Месяц назад +3

      Until you walk a mile in her shoes, do not judge what you have no first hand experience of

  • @esmert1622
    @esmert1622 2 месяца назад +2

    God bless you Thandeka❤

  • @mashamase2784
    @mashamase2784 2 месяца назад +3

    ❤ Mam Thandeka🕯

  • @KgosigadiBaile
    @KgosigadiBaile 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm so glad I watched this. XOXO

  • @GcobisaBlayi-eg2nt
    @GcobisaBlayi-eg2nt 2 месяца назад +2

    it's a thin line between love and hate

  • @veronicakesebelwang
    @veronicakesebelwang 2 месяца назад +2

    Yoh madam speaker o montle hleng bathong ❤

  • @A-_B956
    @A-_B956 2 месяца назад +1

    You look so gorgeous Perseverance ❤❤😊

  • @Ngunikaz
    @Ngunikaz 2 месяца назад +7

    Ohh yes when I was leaving , he helped the moving truck to park properly for loading😅😅😅

    • @GazelleDorc
      @GazelleDorc 2 месяца назад +1

      Eishhh, that part only summed it up that the Guy was not well upstairs.

    • @NdlovukaziFab76
      @NdlovukaziFab76 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂 Yah neh!

  • @phish2947
    @phish2947 2 месяца назад +3

    What happened to the subtitles ?

  • @ChaukeNomsa-e6b
    @ChaukeNomsa-e6b 2 месяца назад +1

    I love you sister ❤❤❤

  • @thusomugwena6436
    @thusomugwena6436 2 месяца назад +3

    😢😢Amazing God 👏

  • @Rhulaninkome-np3ux
    @Rhulaninkome-np3ux 2 месяца назад

    You did mom ❤❤❤

  • @BuyiswaDyusha
    @BuyiswaDyusha 2 месяца назад +1

    Ow Cc Tee ❤❤❤

  • @charmainedoesit
    @charmainedoesit 2 месяца назад +1

    If anyone knows the man yo amtshele aphenduke okweqiniso ngoba mm

  • @busizlane
    @busizlane 3 месяца назад +2

    Waiting here😢

  • @slenda0811
    @slenda0811 2 месяца назад +2

    aww mama 😫😫😫💔💔💔💔

  • @EleanorHozeh
    @EleanorHozeh 2 месяца назад +1

    We within

  • @writingpad7142
    @writingpad7142 Месяц назад +1

    Does SA has classes to explain/ teach their men that they shouldn't rape? It seems like a spirit of rape over the country 😢

  • @WetsoMogorosi
    @WetsoMogorosi 2 месяца назад +1

    pls like the video guys😫

  • @RefiloeDhlamini-b9p
    @RefiloeDhlamini-b9p 24 дня назад

    THANDEKA ended up normalizing abuse that's why she was going back to her husband

  • @writingpad7142
    @writingpad7142 Месяц назад

    Why did the sub- titles just stop?

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 2 месяца назад +17

    Yoh madam speaker 😢 you also need counselling ❤🫂

    • @RuthMalaza
      @RuthMalaza 2 месяца назад

      Why she needs counselling

    • @GazelleDorc
      @GazelleDorc 2 месяца назад

      @@RuthMalazaBecause she is absorbing a lot of this kind​ of tortures & painful stories.And Remember that we are only getting a quarter and summary of the overall gist she got from our fellow guests.

    • @neegee3755
      @neegee3755 2 месяца назад

      @@RuthMalaza she’s listening to many heartbreaking stories

    • @nozukojoseph2214
      @nozukojoseph2214 2 месяца назад

      That is true, these stories are so raw. No matter how strong she is, it somehow hits somewhere especially because she gets to hear more than we do, she gets to deal with emotions that we sometimes don't see because of editing etc. Your idea comes from a good heart & I know you are suggesting it with love❤

  • @EdwardMashele
    @EdwardMashele 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @shireenmonama5765
    @shireenmonama5765 2 месяца назад +2

    Yoh😢

  • @nomaswazimagagula7814
    @nomaswazimagagula7814 3 месяца назад +3

    Where is part 1?

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  3 месяца назад

      ruclips.net/video/HAquC6i5ySQ/видео.htmlsi=-NmeIRZx0guDE-9F

  • @langamakhosi686
    @langamakhosi686 2 месяца назад +1

    Yhooooooo

  • @deborahramaphala9056
    @deborahramaphala9056 2 месяца назад +2

    Umfazi wa mbokoto

  • @hlengiwemathe7376
    @hlengiwemathe7376 2 месяца назад +2

    Narcissism

  • @spicefaith7419
    @spicefaith7419 2 месяца назад

    I’m new here madam speaker please welcome me

  • @RoomLiving-kh7po
    @RoomLiving-kh7po 2 месяца назад +2

    🫂 🫂 🫂