Yeah. But I think a mother should always choose her kids in every situation regardless. She doesn't even have to tell her mother. Her mother should know naturally.
It's sad that when you speak up you are asked to keep quiet, but when you're silent you'll asked "why didn't you say something" . This is really sad and I hope she'll attend the therapy sessions so she can be a better version of herself
A whole lot we are on our way but some things are deeply rooted and would take abt 3/4 generations to deduce, KNOWLEDGE NEED TO BE APPLIED MORE EVERYDAY
In some families unfortunately this is part of the culture, I mean generational curses. If you take a close look you will see that this has been happening for many generations and people know about it, it’s like a dirty family secret, not saying that it’s the case here but looking at her mum reaction it could be. Sometimes it will happen to many kids in the family sometimes only one is chosen as a sacrifice. And the moment you start talking about it they will make sure everyone turns their back on you even the people you never expected. That’s why her pastor asked her if she is ready for that. I’m so glad she said she prays, nothing is more powerful than a prayer but it’s the moment to pray harder. Just with this video she made a huge impact, it’s also another form of therapy. I wish you all the best baby girl and I pray God heal your heart completely, you deserve it 💕
Her mom not supporting her made things worse 😢 what kind of a mother does that, that the least she could have done and the uncle would have been reprimanded or even got arrested. I can tell she has completely lost trust in her mom.
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Owamie just so she knows if she wants she can still open a case against him. The mother would probably be charged too.
A mother should be protecting her kids,but it happened otherwise to this precious soul's mother. Owami you are brave enough bbegal...we learn everyday with you😘I raised my own son from the age of 1 and now he's 10 years old...without a father around. Grow big mama Owami we love
Yes it seems that the perpetrator is being shielded by the entire family in this situation.This uncle is supposed to be arrested.This lady is grown up now she can expose this to the justice to be dealth with.
I don’t know who taught black people that SA should be a family secret. I’m glad our generation forces people to take accountability and is more open. May we heal these traumas and be the parents we wished we had when we experienced trauma.
💔 mm, I never know that, I'm not the only one who has a cruel Mother, I'm from Durban, ten years ago I moved to PE thank God to my late husband, for me to be here, my story is very similar to this young Girl story 😔
This was more of a therapy session for our sister,she just needed someone to talk to and Owamie came through as a big sister 🥺❤️love and light for her,may she find healing
Soshanguve is in the building popopopopopopopooooopopopooooo 🎉thank you sis Owami for the work you do and may God and keep on blessing our guest 4 today 🙏and give her strength ❤
i wish i spoke too, for me it was not a family member but my priests son at the time. I wish i spoke up. May you heal thank you for your bravery in sharing this. I actually blamed myself cause he made me believe i brought it on myself.
sorry about what u went through hun .@ times parent dont see the pain they sometimes put us through at the end they act like they really love us or show us love the tough way kunzima .sorry i wish u get help n heal fromwhat u going through
I'm in a bus to Cape town and I'm crying my eyes out 😭😭😢. This is heavy😭.i pray that you find healing my lady .i can see the pain you're in .I'm so sorry😢
To the extent of proposing to her😢😢, this girl's safety is compromised...danger zone. A prt of me blames ur mom for not protecting atleast ur mental health. Girl hold ur mom accountable though u love her... Blv me u might think ua ok bcz of ur good heart but one day myb 10yrs later..evn as a born again Christian, those traumas can surface n u will be shocked even urself gore aah i thot im ok...n tht season u will be filled with anger... Blazing hot anger towards ur mom for not putting u first... N hvn to deal with emotions of anger is very painful😔🥺...
All she needed was her mom to acknowledge that the uncle is wrong. Thank God for her dad, May she find peace someday. P.S sometimes allow the guests to speak their language and turn on the subtitles Owamie. Some stories could be nicer in venec maan
Yeah ne some Mommy's though..I gone through a lot grew up without my mom I was raped by 4 different men..1I blamed my mom for she left me when I was 3yrs with my dad.. I wished she was there to hold me..but now I think I'm fine..I m 54yrs with my 2kids..I love n protect them so much
A mother's hug after she listened and understood is a healing on its own. I think her mom is afraid to be rejected by the entire family if she can support her daughter regarding this matter.
Thank you Owamie for pointing out how toxic her mother is. It's not normal or okay for a mother to be more worried about protecting anyone other than her child. As mothers Owamie, we know our children always come first. Her mother may not have assaulted her daughter but she also helped perpetrate the violence against her child by not protecting her out she found out what happened. I'm just happy she has her father. Not all people deserve to be parents.
It's always the case, they will rather choose perpetrator over you, I felt you when you say I don't have a family, similar situation happen to me, but I can feel it that I am the bad person in the whole situation, and worse it was my father who raped me...
It happened to me 3 times when I was stll young, it was also a matter of the uncle should never come to our place in the evenings. I was marginalised that I accused a relative with such a thing.
It's sad how a traumatic experience can alter a person's personality
All she wants is for her mom to believe her and HOLD her sibling accountable.
I’m sorry 😢
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Her mother is an accomplice and she must go to jail with her brother.
She is still hurting 😢😢and she is trying to heal herself by talking about it. She needs therapy.
I think she wants her mom to choose her without her telling her to do it.. and I feel that.
Yeah. But I think a mother should always choose her kids in every situation regardless. She doesn't even have to tell her mother. Her mother should know naturally.
True! Vele who doesnt want to be chosen by their mom!!
Why is this family protecting this perpetrator?Her mom is not even thinking that he might do the same to other kids.
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Lol mara why would such a person even be scared he might do it to other kids,when she failed being a mother
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Owamie God bless you for your gift of therapy 😢😢😢😢. Therapy saves lives!
She really is giving therapy session for this people without even seeing
Shem, she's really struggling 💔💔💔 Black people and our under the carpet mentality. Sending her more hugs 🤗 🤗🤗
Owami glowed up after divorce no cap❤
It's sad that when you speak up you are asked to keep quiet, but when you're silent you'll asked "why didn't you say something" . This is really sad and I hope she'll attend the therapy sessions so she can be a better version of herself
Yes!! It's so sad how often this happens to our young black girls.
She is not okay shame she is still angry at her mother, I'm glad Owamie will book therapy for her
The pain in her eyes😭😭😭
I am so sorry mama, I pray you find healing and peace.❤
18:51 Owami you know how to interview!! What!! You are so good😭😭🥺
Lots of things need to change with our African culture.
A lot💔💔💔
This!!
A whole lot we are on our way but some things are deeply rooted and would take abt 3/4 generations to deduce, KNOWLEDGE NEED TO BE APPLIED MORE EVERYDAY
She is in so much pain🥺💔, it’s in her eyes, her voice, her mannerism. I pray therapy works and she comes out on the other side as her best self. ❤
Toxic families exhaust me, I hate her mother
💔😩Oh man. I'm so hurt by her mother's actions. The one person who is supposed to protect her 😭
I hope she finds healing.
Her mother is such a disappointment yhoo. I'm so hurt for this lady. I pray for healing and peace sisi. No one deserves such.
Her mother failed her dismal. How can she choose her brother over her aching daughter 😭 Does she want to see her dead? Disgusting 🫣
In some families unfortunately this is part of the culture, I mean generational curses. If you take a close look you will see that this has been happening for many generations and people know about it, it’s like a dirty family secret, not saying that it’s the case here but looking at her mum reaction it could be. Sometimes it will happen to many kids in the family sometimes only one is chosen as a sacrifice. And the moment you start talking about it they will make sure everyone turns their back on you even the people you never expected. That’s why her pastor asked her if she is ready for that. I’m so glad she said she prays, nothing is more powerful than a prayer but it’s the moment to pray harder. Just with this video she made a huge impact, it’s also another form of therapy. I wish you all the best baby girl and I pray God heal your heart completely, you deserve it 💕
Her mom not supporting her made things worse 😢 what kind of a mother does that, that the least she could have done and the uncle would have been reprimanded or even got arrested. I can tell she has completely lost trust in her mom.
Her mother is sick!
Your mom is wrong quit trying to defend her....you deserve better....love and light
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Owamie just so she knows if she wants she can still open a case against him. The mother would probably be charged too.
This is so heart breaking. Toxic families 😟😟
A mother should be protecting her kids,but it happened otherwise to this precious soul's mother. Owami you are brave enough bbegal...we learn everyday with you😘I raised my own son from the age of 1 and now he's 10 years old...without a father around. Grow big mama Owami we love
The headline is just heart breaking yoh! A six year old 😢
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Owami sees beauty the way I see it. That lady is gorgeous 😍 zero makeup kind of girl
This lady is trying to desensitized herself from the situation 😭😭😭😭.
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Yes it seems that the perpetrator is being shielded by the entire family in this situation.This uncle is supposed to be arrested.This lady is grown up now she can expose this to the justice to be dealth with.
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The way the family is shielding him I bet the uncle is the last born
I don’t know who taught black people that SA should be a family secret. I’m glad our generation forces people to take accountability and is more open. May we heal these traumas and be the parents we wished we had when we experienced trauma.
Woooooo😢😭😢I pray this beautiful lady finds healing❤️
💔 mm, I never know that, I'm not the only one who has a cruel Mother, I'm from Durban, ten years ago I moved to PE thank God to my late husband, for me to be here, my story is very similar to this young Girl story 😔
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Take heart dear
Hugs to you❤❤
This was more of a therapy session for our sister,she just needed someone to talk to and Owamie came through as a big sister 🥺❤️love and light for her,may she find healing
Thank you Owamie for all the stories you allow people to share in this platform, I appreciate so much and love you ❤😘
The sad part abt her situation is that the uncle seems to be a psychopath that is obsessed with a younger family member😢.
Our parents sometimes you'd actually question if they birthed you😢😢😢😢ncese cc
She's beautiful indeed. Her skin wow. Sending her so much love ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story young girl ❤❤❤
Soshanguve is in the building popopopopopopopooooopopopooooo 🎉thank you sis Owami for the work you do and may God and keep on blessing our guest 4 today 🙏and give her strength ❤
The hurt in this ladies' voice😢💔💔💔 Strong's to you my love🌺. Sending virtual hugs💞
It’s like she doesn’t feel anything for her mom.. she loves and want to love her just because it’s her mom, nothing else..
Her mother failed her, she needed a shoulder to cry on but she took it for granted 😢😢
i wish i spoke too, for me it was not a family member but my priests son at the time. I wish i spoke up. May you heal thank you for your bravery in sharing this. I actually blamed myself cause he made me believe i brought it on myself.
I'm so sorry ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@lulufierce01 Thank u
Please get a therapist ❤❤❤
Damn 😢. I hope she finds healing.
E ya hle Mpho🥰
The sad part is that the brother will continue doing this to other kids as well because the family is supporting this sick behaviour😢😢
Both her parents failed her... Why the father didn't report this to the police 😢
You can love people from far always, your peace matters, praying for your healing. Justice for you one day
sorry about what u went through hun .@ times parent dont see the pain they sometimes put us through at the end they act like they really love us or show us love the tough way kunzima .sorry i wish u get help n heal fromwhat u going through
Owami please find Her help to get perpetrator arrested please my Ninja love I'm disappointed by the mother 😢😢
Owamie continually nodding ❤
Thank you, Owamie for eye opener ❤
Heart breaking! A mom ought to choose her children in such circumstances. May God heal you.
I think the mother might have witnessed it happen to some family members or she might be the victim herself and nothing was done to the rapist.
This is so sad😢i don't understand why would a mother do this to her own daughter,eish
He tried it again 😢
She is pretty. She looks like Zinande an actor.
Thank you queen Ninja for asking the right questions 🙏
She protected her brother at the expense of her daughter. This is heartbreaking, I wish she could open up the case against this devil uncle.
My dear look at your Father, now that he knows. What did he do. Nothing.😢 He failed you not only your mother
I hope she finds healing 😢
I'm in a bus to Cape town and I'm crying my eyes out 😭😭😢.
This is heavy😭.i pray that you find healing my lady .i can see the pain you're in .I'm so sorry😢
To the extent of proposing to her😢😢, this girl's safety is compromised...danger zone. A prt of me blames ur mom for not protecting atleast ur mental health.
Girl hold ur mom accountable though u love her... Blv me u might think ua ok bcz of ur good heart but one day myb 10yrs later..evn as a born again Christian, those traumas can surface n u will be shocked even urself gore aah i thot im ok...n tht season u will be filled with anger... Blazing hot anger towards ur mom for not putting u first... N hvn to deal with emotions of anger is very painful😔🥺...
Hay akaphili kahle lo mama and the whole family....uthi usamthanda umama onjalo angalkuphosa nasemgedeni.
😢this is really painful
Yuuu ..both her parents failed her💔💔💔😢😭
This Owamie tore me into pieces😢😢😢 you conducted the interview well,congrats🎉
All she needed was her mom to acknowledge that the uncle is wrong. Thank God for her dad, May she find peace someday.
P.S sometimes allow the guests to speak their language and turn on the subtitles Owamie. Some stories could be nicer in venec maan
Beyond heartbreaking. Praying for healing and that she goes to therapy. Her family has really failed her in the worse possible way. 💔
she is beautiful indeed.
Im sorry!! Sending her a hug!
I'm so sorry for what you went through darling. May God help you heal. Therapy does help. Owamie darling you were born for this. ❤❤
😢 it's heartbreaking xem
Ninja signing in❤
So sorry 🧡
Love and light cc ❤
I wish I can just hug her❤❤
Owami you are doing a good job and I love you so much ❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah ne some Mommy's though..I gone through a lot grew up without my mom I was raped by 4 different men..1I blamed my mom for she left me when I was 3yrs with my dad.. I wished she was there to hold me..but now I think I'm fine..I m 54yrs with my 2kids..I love n protect them so much
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I am sooo sorry
Love and light mommy ❤
Hugs ❤,may God heal you
@@babalwandamase9509 Thanks dear the more u talk about it ..u heal..🙏
Due to high level of unemployment couldn't even be first here😂
Mothers should stop putting their families before their children, it’s painful when your mom chooses her family over her children
Please arrange for her counselling if possible??? I am so sorry for her❤
Hi Owamie how do one get to you?
A mother's hug after she listened and understood is a healing on its own.
I think her mom is afraid to be rejected by the entire family if she can support her daughter regarding this matter.
Ninja signing in ❤
Her mother failed her😢 mxm.
Moms brother Mara what’s happening to this world 😭😭😭
Heartbreaking😢
Lord am so heart broken
What kind of mother she was💔
This girl is hurting. May Holy Spirit comfort her.
God bless u cc Owamie
Thank you Owamie for pointing out how toxic her mother is. It's not normal or okay for a mother to be more worried about protecting anyone other than her child. As mothers Owamie, we know our children always come first. Her mother may not have assaulted her daughter but she also helped perpetrate the violence against her child by not protecting her out she found out what happened.
I'm just happy she has her father. Not all people deserve to be parents.
I have no words 💔
May God heal you and your family, mothers lets choose our kids hle
I hope and pray she finds healing... ❤
Queen ninja signing in ❤
It's always the case, they will rather choose perpetrator over you, I felt you when you say I don't have a family, similar situation happen to me, but I can feel it that I am the bad person in the whole situation, and worse it was my father who raped me...
So sorry.
Strongs lady yhooo😢healing for you 😢
It happened to me 3 times when I was stll young, it was also a matter of the uncle should never come to our place in the evenings. I was marginalised that I accused a relative with such a thing.
She's very beautiful I pray that God heals her soul