Will a narcissist ever forget you?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • In this video, we'll be discussing whether or not a narcissist will ever forget about you. If you've been in a relationship with a narcissist, you may be wondering if they will ever truly let you go.
    We'll dive into the psychology behind narcissism and answer the question of whether a narcissist can truly forget about their past relationships. If you're struggling to move on from a narcissistic ex, this video is for you. Don't forget to like and subscribe for more helpful content on relationships and personal growth.
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Комментарии • 294

  • @kentfitzsimmons6872
    @kentfitzsimmons6872 5 месяцев назад +203

    Narcissists never really cared about you in the first place. They get over you right when they find another one to squeeze the life out of them

    • @SherryG370
      @SherryG370 5 месяцев назад +19

      It's the importance of supply they got from you....is what they remember!!

    • @SherryG370
      @SherryG370 5 месяцев назад +18

      Wanting a narc to never forget you is your Ego talking.
      I'm coming to terms that a Narc will remember u more if u dump them, move on and shine brighter
      Id rather have my dog remember me if i was gone for a year than a narc

    • @SherryG370
      @SherryG370 5 месяцев назад

      Fyi...i meant to post my comments...not reply to your comment. But i do agree with you.

    • @thiccachuu3770
      @thiccachuu3770 5 месяцев назад +1

      Is it normal for your ex narc to tell you they are using the new supply just to fill a void he’s feeling? knowing I knew he was doing the same thing to me😂 like, is it normal for them to completely say that?

    • @alice-hp7dh
      @alice-hp7dh 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@SherryG370think the same. They remember the bad not the good

  • @calgarylady2002
    @calgarylady2002 5 месяцев назад +117

    My first marriage he was a narc. 50 years later and he is still stalking me. They don't forget you.

    • @kinyaalexander7252
      @kinyaalexander7252 5 месяцев назад +3

      😮😮😮😢

    • @danif2604
      @danif2604 5 месяцев назад +4

      Their demons! They have no souls!

    • @fnn9550
      @fnn9550 5 месяцев назад

      Wtf🤯😡

    • @Unique247official
      @Unique247official 5 месяцев назад

      @@danif2604 i am starting to realize that

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад

      Wow

  • @11GodsGirl11
    @11GodsGirl11 5 месяцев назад +55

    I don't care if he remembers me or thinks about me at all. I look forward to the day that I don't remember him.

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes! I'm with you 💯

    • @sweettee8186
      @sweettee8186 3 месяца назад +1

      That part!

    • @comfortzone5618
      @comfortzone5618 2 месяца назад

      I am looking forward to the day I don’t remember him too.

  • @salomeclaire7663
    @salomeclaire7663 5 месяцев назад +67

    1 year strict no contact today! Access blocked absolutely everywhere, so no chance of stalking etc, and my life is finally returning back to normal. Time to celebrate!

    • @peacefulself7848
      @peacefulself7848 5 месяцев назад +2

      Congratulations!!! I did the same thing!

    • @salomeclaire7663
      @salomeclaire7663 5 месяцев назад

      Congratulations to you too!!! It feels amazing, doesn't it!@@peacefulself7848

    • @clairedraper7099
      @clairedraper7099 5 месяцев назад +5

      Well done I'm 6months out.Still hurting though but hes blocked everywhere

    • @cthnc53
      @cthnc53 5 месяцев назад

      Amen

    • @salomeclaire7663
      @salomeclaire7663 5 месяцев назад

      It gets easier with time, trust me. One day you'll wake up and realise that you no longer miss them and that the pain is gone. It will happen.@@peacefulself7848

  • @wendyrainey2849
    @wendyrainey2849 5 месяцев назад +70

    He wanted me for 20yrs...then had me for almost 3yrs...slow discard, then when I called him out, discarded me like a piece of trash. I hope he never forgets, and never finds one as good as me again. I'm never going back.

    • @paramitakar7843
      @paramitakar7843 5 месяцев назад +8

      Oh my god for 20 years , these things more and more break my heart , I just can't understand how a person who has been wanting a person for such a long time in order to just the ruin the other person's life . These humans or I say demons making it more difficult to believe in humanity, love and friendship.

    • @Songbird0303
      @Songbird0303 5 месяцев назад +14

      I’m 31 and the narc I know knew me since I was 16. Finally gave him a chance 2 years ago until now and it’s been hell. I’m happy he’s gone 😭 he made me fall so deeply in love with him but treated me absolutely terrible once he got me

    • @Zvong88
      @Zvong88 День назад

      I think if you've supplied something the new supply doesn't they won't forget you. They compare new supply to the old supply.

  • @movingsaudade6028
    @movingsaudade6028 5 месяцев назад +69

    I believe they forget about you the moment they start planning a move to another supply.They forget about you before they even leave they relationship. They dont care..Move on.

    • @Liz-wz8dh
      @Liz-wz8dh 5 месяцев назад +1

      Not always. Some of them that also have BPD will circle back once the other person isn't doing it for them anymore. It's dangerous to assume they just move on. They may or may not and you should still stay alert either way.

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 5 месяцев назад +40

    Dated for 6 months, stalked for 12 years 😹💀💀

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  5 месяцев назад +10

      it's wild aint it

    • @Xen-AM
      @Xen-AM 5 месяцев назад +3

      After two months of meeting started stalking me. Now it’s been two years of him not leaving me alone. I’m assuming he may never leave me alone 😭😭😭

    • @talkinfanci
      @talkinfanci 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Xen-AMI am so sorry this is happening to you.
      ♥️🙏🏽

    • @Shefothestreets
      @Shefothestreets 4 месяца назад

      You should continue to hide! Fatso!

  • @tenelleharris5696
    @tenelleharris5696 5 месяцев назад +39

    My ex narc use to tell me he will never forget me because I was always helping him when nobody else would 😒

    • @SherryG370
      @SherryG370 5 месяцев назад

      That's a major supply you were giving him. Of course he aint gonna forget and he wants you to remember how "you helped" him...to feed your ego so he can come suck more "help" from you.

    • @evedarth1
      @evedarth1 5 месяцев назад +5

      My ex narc said the same thing….

    • @Indigenious.Kopper.Goddess
      @Indigenious.Kopper.Goddess 5 месяцев назад +4

      Thats BS trust

    • @EBexotic1
      @EBexotic1 5 месяцев назад +2

      Hey. Y’all key word Helped them 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @cholloman09
    @cholloman09 5 месяцев назад +51

    Your baby girl is beautiful!!! ❤

  • @bettycarmella1127
    @bettycarmella1127 5 месяцев назад +38

    Your daughter is soooo cute!! Tell her good job on her picture ❤️❤️

  • @jamorrasignatures
    @jamorrasignatures 5 месяцев назад +33

    He told me he never misses me and that I'm not an important factor in his life yet comes back each year tells me he loves me and that it was a timing issue and then discards me once I take him seriously. It's like his Sunday special routine.

    • @BJBlaskovichGaming
      @BJBlaskovichGaming 5 месяцев назад +2

      My narc ex gf told me early on that I was “already in my journal as people I’ll never forget”.

    • @Songbird0303
      @Songbird0303 5 месяцев назад +2

      Wow I have had the same experience

    • @Unique247official
      @Unique247official 5 месяцев назад

      Same :/

    • @Liz-wz8dh
      @Liz-wz8dh 5 месяцев назад +3

      Please stop taking him seriously then. He's into the game and the more you take him back, the more you show you'll keep falling for whatever he gives you.

    • @ElaineBurke-mw1ol
      @ElaineBurke-mw1ol 2 месяца назад

      I'm finally away from him after 10 yrs- of an on again/ off again. It's been a month officially that I've gone
      NO CONTACT. I told him I will call the police if he shows up & I will. I treat him like a wild animal b/c it's what they understand. When I finally woke up & saw what was happening, I went into a rage. If he tries to contact me, I'll call the police & I let my friends/family know. You have to expose them like cock roaches. I am not stuck in regret anymore, everyday is a new day!! THANKS LEE, I appreciate your honesty without making us feel bad our relationships. I'm sure your videos are helping a lot of people.... And for those who still can't get out, don't worry, in time you will. I started planning it 6 months before. YOU CAN DO IT! God Bless. ❤❤❤

  • @Doveandson
    @Doveandson 5 месяцев назад +10

    I married him 4 months ago after 4 years together and a lot of forgiveness but the last attack I got him arrested. In that time I left the house changed location, phone number, email. 2 months no contact now and the rest from now on. He’s on bail to not contact me but he wouldn’t be able to anyway. My trust and faith is in god now 🙏

  • @elizabethcastaneda4123
    @elizabethcastaneda4123 5 месяцев назад +27

    not only did I block Him a while back but I finally deleted Him from my contacts and deleted ALL His TEXTS. I felt like I was holding on to a tethered piece of thread that needed cutting ✂️
    thank You Lee for Your time and share of perspective from narcissist pov.

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 месяцев назад +14

    Dude WILL NEVER forget ME! 35 years! I elevated his life! He had discarded me emotionally but was so obsessed he didn’t want to discard me physically but through death…. I know that’s not a brag because that can be dangerous but just saying if they are obsessed with you and you were married to them. Had kids by them and impacted their life positively; they WILL never forget you! NEVER! We spent over half both our lives together. You will remember them but not in a good way. But they will always remember you forever in a positive way. They may go back and forth by telling themselves lies because they don’t take accountability but they KNOW and remember how good you were to them. They REMEMBER! ❤️🙏

    • @sandraleehurst7350
      @sandraleehurst7350 5 месяцев назад +3

      Married 30 yrs here and going through a divorce. I'm pretty sure he'll never forget me. He has a 3 yr restraining order on him. Ugh 😩

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 месяцев назад

      @@sandraleehurst7350😢🙏

    • @ElaineBurke-mw1ol
      @ElaineBurke-mw1ol 2 месяца назад +1

      Wow 35 years is a very long time. Interesting, you said he'd remember you in a positive way & I'm sure that's true! More importantly, hope your enjoying a better life now. ❤❤

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ElaineBurke-mw1ol Thank you! Yes, I am so at peace and fully headed because of my relationship with God! This thing is a spiritual battle. It becomes so difficult because when you are two people on different paths in life there is going to be a push pull of each person trying to stay on the path they chose. At some point the battle gets harder for them because they were pretending to be a righteous person. Pretending they wanted a life with God at their center for us but they really don’t and at some point it becomes very hard for them to fake it. He looked and acted like he wanted out. Like he wanted something else so bad so I set him free to live his life as he please…. He’s playing games with the only thing he can play games with post-divorce, the alimony but his games eventually will just lead to him being garnished. I pray for him and his family and especially my adult kids. I did my job as a wife, a mother, a friend and so on to everyone. I used to have a God complex trying to save everyone. I don’t now. I care but I leave the saving to God. I mean I for sure speak the truth and use my wisdom and knowledge but I don’t put people on my back anymore. 😊❤️🙏

  • @IsabellaPiesch
    @IsabellaPiesch 5 месяцев назад +16

    They maybe forget the person you are because they never knew you at the first place (they didn´t care to know you). But they don´t forget what you did for them (because they have sure troubles without you)... All of us were great supplies and easy to use (I was too).

  • @tinafitzpatrick2437
    @tinafitzpatrick2437 5 месяцев назад +10

    22 years with a narcissist. He treated me like a princess. As soon as I said no to something. Then he would punish me.
    Host me. He had total control over me. Until I found out he was playing happy family’s with another woman.
    That was the braking point. Went no contact. Four years out. I have never heard of him again. This was a very painful process. But I knew I could not go on with him. I stopped selling my soul to the devil. Some days I still feel his energy around me. A real strange feeling.

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад

      I am so happy for you. I congratulate you for being strong!
      I just broke up with yet another narcissist. I feel I have such bad luck with men.
      I broke up with him a little over a month now and today marks two weeks of no contact. I am going through withdrawal symptoms but I know it's for the best. I was with him for two years. Which was his longest relationship. I pray for a speedy healing for me and you 🙏🏻 ❣️🤲

    • @tinafitzpatrick2437
      @tinafitzpatrick2437 4 месяца назад +2

      @@TM-te5dp one day at a time. We deserve the best. No more wolves in sheep’s clothing.
      We will survive. The narc never survives. He just carries on being a parasite. The ones that live at the bottom of the pond. 😂😂😂

  • @robpz448
    @robpz448 5 месяцев назад +22

    We were together 14 years. She is diagnosed with personality disorder. I didn't know what that meant at the time and, quite frankly, didn't care because I loved her,she was beautiful , and she "treated" me better than butter on toast. At least I thought she did. There were glimmers of being treated well sprinkled here and there, but they were outweighed with the bad. The point is no, they don't forget you. Even if they just see you as supply. For whatever the reason, they don't. I've looked at her social media here, and there she has made videos saying she loves me to death and post very specific photos I took of her over 10 years ago on social media. She then removed them, I'm guessing, because they were too obvious because I was a part of that time frame. In conclusion, they don't forget you, especially if you were together a long time. I close with, if you are able to stay off their social media. If you have to look, try to limit it because in the narcissist head, they know you are likely looking months and years later after a discard. This, of course, as we all know, is the Trauma Bond which is impossible to break. You can get better at managing the Trauma Bond but it never fully goes away. Your superpower is not reacting to anything they say or do moving forward. Thanks for reading.

    • @Lilithsbrood55
      @Lilithsbrood55 5 месяцев назад

      I resonated a lot with you said. I was with my ex for 10 years and she’s “moved on” to a new boo who has my same name, similar hairstyle, and looks like me (a friend of a friend saw this on FB and sent it to me)… so I definitely agree: they don’t forget you, especially in a long term relationship.

    • @ElaineBurke-mw1ol
      @ElaineBurke-mw1ol 2 месяца назад

      My goal ultimately is to move on💯 ... I don't want anything to do with him. There is no closure because our partner has used us- & that is NEVER okay.

  • @danielaspitz3052
    @danielaspitz3052 5 месяцев назад +13

    The "covert" ones I know never forgot and forgave those who left them or didn't evwn want to be with them. Their grudges and hatred last a lifetime, even if they have better lifes, later on. If their victims have a better life afterwards, the grudges will definitely be way bigger than if they are bad off

  • @isobelangeli2053
    @isobelangeli2053 5 месяцев назад +5

    That baby made me smile . That really made my day ❤

  • @gwenmoore160
    @gwenmoore160 5 месяцев назад +10

    I love that you are loving. Go Lee, keep thriving😊

  • @stacyyoung9402
    @stacyyoung9402 5 месяцев назад +16

    I feel that I was the best he ever had, with him not being with me he doesn’t look good at all but when he was with me he looked really good, my daughter’s boyfriend saw his arrest picture he doesn’t look good at all and I am glad he doesn’t look good.

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад

      I been broken up with mine for a little over a month and today made two weeks of no contact. I was his longest relationship of only two years l. I know he won't forgive because I elevated him in many ways. But I know I don't see myself being able to forgive him and more less giving him another chance.

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад

      My director at work, who is also a new friend of mine, has a husband who knows him and told me a couple of days ago. "If it makes you feel any better, he is miserable." The last time I saw him was literally two weeks ago, and I noticed he has lost weight, but she told me her husband told her that he looks "terrible. " He's lost more weight. And like you said, it does make me feel somewhat better. Because I feel he is feeling like that because one, he lost me, and two I exposed him with a couple of people.

  • @sism3028
    @sism3028 5 месяцев назад +14

    Your daughter is adorable!

  • @msmusiclover4658
    @msmusiclover4658 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love your language Lee. You are so true. If only "they" WOULD forget all about you! It is WISHFUL thinking that "they" will forget about you and if it was you who left "them", sad to say, "they" will stalk and punish you for SEPARATING and INDIVIDUATING from "them." Something that "they" are incapable of doing!
    Too right you are growing Lee. You scared the shit out of me one year ago when I first listened to your voice. I can hear the change in you! Well done to you sir. A word of advice to you if I may be so bold!!!! Every time your little girl comes to show you something, have a look and EVALUATE her, then give her an affectionate gesture, stroke her hair, kiss her head, cheek, hand. And encourage her!!!!!! Give love and affection Lee. I am a mother too and I know that the most valid love you can ever receive comes from a child, who responds only to their inner FEELINGS. Best wishes to you.

  • @lorraineolivera24
    @lorraineolivera24 5 месяцев назад +3

    I think it depends on the person and the situation and if kids are involved. Yes i agree with Lee! If you were a great supply and have a long history with them i don't think they forget you. BUT i do think their NOT sitting around daydreaming about YOU and the memories you shared. Or losing sleep over you.

  • @sherrikins3557
    @sherrikins3557 5 месяцев назад +2

    So sweet, your daughter. You said the key phrase "the impact" at that time. Yep, I had one stalk me for 20 years , only knew him for 3 months (I found out he was married and I told him never come around again, he's not honest person!). Didn't listen. He would wait outside of my job (then drive off when I saw him). Would be outside of places I lived (then drive off). He would call the HR dept of some of my jobs and report strange things about me. I could not date as if I went out with a guy, his tires would end up slashed during the date. My apartment was robbed (it was him). It was terrible. He was destroying my life and I couldn't stop it. I had to move and not tell anyone in the family. Found out my sister was in touch with him and she was telling him where I was (that's why my dates got their tires slashed, I would tell her where I was going) so I never told anyone anything again. It worked. One day I didn't see him anymore. I looked him up and he had passed away.

  • @xyaeiounn
    @xyaeiounn 5 месяцев назад +6

    Pretty cool kid. Drawings are gold.

  • @patriziastella6564
    @patriziastella6564 5 месяцев назад +7

    I ran into my first ex like 2weeks ago that I was with for 10yrs & it's been like 20yrs since we've been separated & he said to me he was the one that ruined the relationship. He still regrets it to this day with the way he treated me. His got a child now & said his not happy but not my problem now.

  • @Jess-n5o
    @Jess-n5o 5 месяцев назад +10

    Your daughter has beautiful hair, she is so cute🌺

  • @Xen-AM
    @Xen-AM 5 месяцев назад +2

    You’re right. Depends what n the impact. I don’t think they forget. Doesn’t mean they truly cared. Even if they never reach out to you again they remember you and will think about you from time to time. The ones that become obsessed may never leave you alone without intervention.

  • @kristaal7820
    @kristaal7820 5 месяцев назад +2

    You responded to your interruptions smoothly and made it look effortless. Positive influence. Thanks for your videos

  • @catspyjamas7944
    @catspyjamas7944 5 месяцев назад +8

    Some people are just throwaways to the narcissist. Like a snack of junk food. The others are meals. It has nothing to do with the longevity of the relationship though. My mother had nothing but contempt for my father who she was with over 20 years. She was slagging him off again - in front of his children and grandchildren, like the class act she is - before we’d even had his funeral. Meanwhile there was a 3 month fling that she idealised for YEARS. She was still infatuated when he left whilst my father had been thoroughly devalued and discarded decades ago. Some people think because they were married they were special to the narcissist and this is sometimes far from the case.

    • @talkinfanci
      @talkinfanci 5 месяцев назад +2

      Far from the case. Absolutely true.
      My ex only stayed 7.5 years bc I was Grade A supply. It never meant to stay for a long time just a narc time. Me abandoning myself after being loved bombed & unaware abuse repeatedly, back to love bombing 7.5 years I was in love & confused. We were together all the time but not bc it loved me so much (so I thought) it bc it can’t be alone. It doesn’t have anything to do with me. The 40% of me that wasn’t left empty after the final discard had to pull that weight back up. 14 months narc free. And my head still shakes when a flashback strikes 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад

      That is sad. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 praying for healing for your family. And I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @susannegoldmann6491
    @susannegoldmann6491 5 месяцев назад +6

    My Ex narc changed his life completely for me. He gave up his dreamjob after 36 years for me and the selfesabotaged toxic our relationship that I had to kick him out of my house. He was the love of my life and I will stay Single. I miss him so much. But he is a toxic malignant narc

    • @franco2b145
      @franco2b145 5 месяцев назад +1

      Please rewrite this so folks can understand.

    • @susannegoldmann6491
      @susannegoldmann6491 5 месяцев назад

      @@franco2b145 I did. But only got a thumbs up. No answers

  • @Lil-jr3cw
    @Lil-jr3cw 5 месяцев назад +11

    Together 3 yrs, no contact for 2 then out of nowhere with a bogus phone texts

  • @BigChevyTx
    @BigChevyTx 5 месяцев назад +2

    That never forget you depending on the situation and what you had to offer

  • @tequilliasmith4934
    @tequilliasmith4934 5 месяцев назад +5

    No, But They Miss The Things You Did For Them

  • @ericagardens1234
    @ericagardens1234 5 месяцев назад +8

    OMG shes so beautiful 💞

  • @samonecharisma3043
    @samonecharisma3043 5 месяцев назад +5

    It’s the narc bday today and idk where he is or what he’s doing but I’m 1000% sure without me his bday is trash. I brought class & fun experiences to his lowlife life. Good riddens

  • @raynapierson1893
    @raynapierson1893 5 месяцев назад +3

    I know the ex will never forget me I’m that confident in what I added to his life. He will forever be searching to replace the “supply” and impact I had on his life. And will never find it. I was the best he ever had and ever will have. His loss 😂

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад +1

      Uhhh girl you worded that perfectly for me and you! 💯💯💯

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад +1

      I just broke up with mine a little over a month and today made 2 weeks of no contact. We were together for 2 years and during our break up is that I actually started talking to his sister and she told me, "not because I'm talking to you now but you were the best he ever had in every aspect, you elevated him, and you were the prettiest." And I know that's a fact.

  • @thelourensfamily8048
    @thelourensfamily8048 5 месяцев назад +2

    I'm going to say yes, in my circumstances anyway.
    After the protection order, he moved on, made up some lies about me that he genuinely believes and found someone else. I'm sure he's fine. I'm worried about his wife... but that's why I got the protection order in the first place. It was so that there would be a paper trail for any woman who comes after me if she needs to file. It's hard to leave. If he has a blemish on his record already, hopefully it helps her if she needs it.

  • @chloellebond5682
    @chloellebond5682 3 месяца назад +1

    I wish I’d be forgotten. 🥴🥴🥴 if you are forgotten be grateful.

  • @ru.m.6119
    @ru.m.6119 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yes, they do. But it takes a long time. My narc thanked me when I broke up with how I made him forget about his ex. He was in love with his ex, like in real love. I know because I was his friend before she dumped him for another guy.

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад

      He was most likely a narcissist with her too. They always play the victim and make it sound to everyone else that they were perfect to their partner and that they were the bad, toxic one. Because they have an image to maintain. They get very angry if someone tries to reveal them. If you talk to her I bet you would be surprised of what really happened.

  • @daniellealise7146
    @daniellealise7146 5 месяцев назад +3

    She’s adorable. I know u gotta show her off 😂😂😍

  • @jazzyj.693
    @jazzyj.693 5 месяцев назад +2

    YOU'RE DAUGHTER IS ADORABLE

  • @debratownsend5495
    @debratownsend5495 5 месяцев назад +2

    Shes so beautiful Lee 😇🫠💖🤹‍♀️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @tp324
    @tp324 5 месяцев назад +1

    Nice drawing and cute bows baby! Thanks Lee for the insight

  • @venitagreer1404
    @venitagreer1404 5 месяцев назад +4

    I was with My ex-husband for 17 years straight non-stop even after I divorce him still around him everyday talking on the phone, going places every other days, in and out the house, he live with me two time I live in his momma house six month so I been with since 2004 - 2023 of last year constantly then got discarded April 2023 after the momma die and over there everyday caring for his sick momma with the siblings so I feel like I don't exist now . I'm still trauma bond to him. Impact help him when he was down and out went to jail for one years and 3 half years in prison still was by his side. After the divorce we was still lover never stop fooling around but he woukd gaslight me and future fake that we going to be better for each other I kept trying to make everything work at the end I thought he would see more good because I sacrifice to come in and take time to care for that momma hell no I got discared for new supply heartbroken I'm going through this now hurting because I did everything I lost out just for staying the long haul trying to prove my worthiness. Cast out like trash 😢

    • @TM-te5dp
      @TM-te5dp 5 месяцев назад

      I am so sorry you're going through this. I pray for our speedy healing 🙏🏻 🤲❣️ we all know it's not an easy process but we will get through it, eventually. Time heals most things ✨️ 💖 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @dee25u1
    @dee25u1 5 месяцев назад +4

    So cute! Thank you for sharing!😊

  • @flowatress
    @flowatress 5 месяцев назад +1

    Forget the content, it was that cutie with the picture for me.🥰 but seriously, thanks for the information 👍🏽 we were each other’s first love, first kiss, and he was my first heartbreak! We have history but no chemistry! Total opposite. Now that I’m older it’s his energy that I can’t be around! Not the genie lamp😂

  • @lanettewalton7745
    @lanettewalton7745 5 месяцев назад +3

    Omg she’s beautiful

  • @voiceofruby
    @voiceofruby 5 месяцев назад +2

    Started nc last night,he always tries to get me back but i keep going back because i loved him. The abuse and belittling was getting worse and he always seems upset when we are talking 😅
    He said "i wouldn't come back this time like a hurt puppy"
    I hope he doesnt!

  • @pinkheartfairy
    @pinkheartfairy 5 месяцев назад +2

    You little daughter and son are adorable really loved her drawing and her innocence...
    Her bows are cute too ❤😊
    Will 13 years of hell my narc husband gave me will he forget me...while i was so navie knid and caring loving to him...?
    He was never attached to me....
    Some how im unable to forget him ....!
    I remind myself all the hate and horrible things i had to face and he was fine seeing me suffering and was creating all the problembs for me and his own kids than i dnt miss him...

  • @nicolebeard6051
    @nicolebeard6051 5 месяцев назад +1

    That makes sense. It depends on the narcissist and the impact. Based on this information, I can see that my ex-husband being obsessed with me 2 years later. We were married 3 and a half years but he received a lot of supply from me. I rescued him from financial crisis after crisis 🙄The last hoovering attempt was only 5 months ago at that. Hopefully never again. 😂😅

  • @catherine655
    @catherine655 5 месяцев назад +1

    Haha the actual red flag was great 😂
    Honestly it is frightening in some cases, my partner and i have to accept that he had children with a narcissist and that she will sometimes be distracted with other sources of supply however, he is always going to be viewed by her as the primary source when her life sucks, she is always, always gonna come back to mess with him and us. She is already displaying stalker like tendencies and i imagine this will amplify over time and the more established we get. The worst thing is not knowing when she sees fit in her mind to come back around. I think he genuinely felt she would stop- i know it wont but the good thing is i can see her behaviour is becoming more and more disgusting to the point where he is blocking

  • @tinytinatinkerbell
    @tinytinatinkerbell 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ilove that you give your attachmentand appreciatee yo5child. God bless yhis little person

  • @Collectivemasculine
    @Collectivemasculine 5 месяцев назад +1

    If no they will learn to know!

  • @stacyyoung9402
    @stacyyoung9402 5 месяцев назад +3

    I feel I had an impact in his life, but we can’t be around each other right now because of the danko order.
    15 years is a long long time to be together and it’s not easy to get him out my mind and heart.

  • @JusttRaquel
    @JusttRaquel 5 месяцев назад

    That baby Lee!! You light up with her❤

  • @MG-gq2rs
    @MG-gq2rs 7 дней назад

    Your daughter is so precious!!! 🥰🥰

  • @TheKbeltre
    @TheKbeltre 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lee ❤❤ Your princess is absolutely adorable ❤
    I know mine will not forget me and I won't 4get him either. But that chapter is officially closed 🙏

  • @stacyyoung9402
    @stacyyoung9402 5 месяцев назад +3

    Those 15 years we went through a lot and when he got caught hitting me in June of 2023 the judge put a danko order on him and he went to jail, but I saw that he made a facebook page but haven’t said anything to me on there but I feel he’s watching my post but he’s not been on Facebook.

  • @tinytinatinkerbell
    @tinytinatinkerbell 5 месяцев назад +1

    Childenense innocent is a god given thing. You dont own them. Bùt🎉your impact on their lives is so important. Love your child.

  • @fernandomartin3517
    @fernandomartin3517 4 месяца назад

    I thank you 👍🏾 for education!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @majorsolutionsllc
    @majorsolutionsllc 5 месяцев назад

    Ten years is long as hell with a Narcissist!😂🤣Baby girl made my year!😅🥰

  • @dionneventress6722
    @dionneventress6722 4 месяца назад

    Yall are so cute I can tell she’s daddy’s girl awww 🥰

  • @cletiawilliams1436
    @cletiawilliams1436 5 месяцев назад +1

    💯💯 great video

  • @joeywalton2517
    @joeywalton2517 5 месяцев назад +8

    Your daughter is adorable!!!!!!

  • @jalasword
    @jalasword 5 месяцев назад +1

    In all honesty, I have forgotten about people who really meant something to me at the time. And I was amazed that I could have forgotten about someone who had been so important to me.

  • @kamenichetty4763
    @kamenichetty4763 5 месяцев назад +1

    Omg she is so gorgeous. Lee is beautiful

  • @lynnanderson1923
    @lynnanderson1923 5 месяцев назад +2

    Lee, I had 3 attempts at buying us a house but every time he sabotaged it by being nasty to me. He still lives at home with his mum and I really don't think he can afford his own place as he doesn't work. Is he likely to forget me? We were together for 2 and a half years. All his friends and family think I am the problem. Love the purple bows! 💜

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 месяцев назад +2

    Lee, she’s adorable! ❤

  • @IanM-id8or
    @IanM-id8or 5 месяцев назад +1

    I went full no contact with my sister in 1994. She stalked me incessantly until 2009, despite my pointless attempt to get help from the police (who ridiculed me).
    I got a friend to write on her last letter to me in 2009, "RTS DEC'D" and sent it back to her. Since then she only occasionally stalks me. I'm pretty sure she doesn't believe I'm dead, but as she doesn't actually get to talk to me or actually see me, she's not getting any supply from me.
    She will never get from anyone else what she got from me. She needs to make me feel abject terror, and she is unlikely to ever get that from anyone - unless, that is, she finds a child to persecute. Fortunately, she can't have kids.
    Unfortunately, my other sister has 3 kids. My other sister was the Golden Child in our family dynamic, and, given what she did to me, I'm sure she's abusing her kids. I suspect my niece is the scapegoat in that family.

  • @lindamartin2175
    @lindamartin2175 5 месяцев назад

    My narcissist spent less than 60 seconds in person with me, no physical attachment, and 3 mo of phone convos. It's been 1.5 years and I am being stalked. I am praying he forgets me, for my kids safety.

  • @kinyaalexander7252
    @kinyaalexander7252 5 месяцев назад +1

    After 10 years apart. My ex doesn’t stalk me, but will leave messages through our big sons and will try to Hoover me😢😢😢

    • @empressb444
      @empressb444 5 месяцев назад +1

      Have that talk with your sons, tell them not to give u any msgs from him. Seal off all ways he can hoover you as well

    • @Nibiru3600X
      @Nibiru3600X 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes & teach your sons to stand up for you! At least by telling their father they don’t want to hear it & walk away. 🙏

  • @tabathajohnson6249
    @tabathajohnson6249 3 месяца назад

    She so adorable 🥰

  • @jecastitch6216
    @jecastitch6216 3 месяца назад

    Awww she’s so adorable ❤

  • @comfortzone5618
    @comfortzone5618 2 месяца назад

    Dated for 6months stalking her for 12 years that’s wild! Oh gosh that’s scary.

  • @pamelariley6694
    @pamelariley6694 5 месяцев назад

    That's the million dollar question ! ! !

  • @michellegirau8136
    @michellegirau8136 5 месяцев назад

    I have one that I wish would forget me, but we have 2 kids, and we're together for 6 years of hell starting in high school. I'm just happy that there has been no contact in years. I'm just not happy he happened to move near me when he's never been in this state 😟

  • @incognitobfly7930
    @incognitobfly7930 5 месяцев назад

    Your daughter is ADORABLE!!!

  • @starettaelliott1679
    @starettaelliott1679 5 месяцев назад

    Yea, you committed soul tie with a narcissist, of course...

  • @lindsayoverholser1597
    @lindsayoverholser1597 3 месяца назад

    My narc would always tell me that I would never Forget him… 😳😳

  • @Jewelz90
    @Jewelz90 5 месяцев назад

    Your baby girl is so cute!! Blessing to ya! ❤️

  • @cassandracunningham1713
    @cassandracunningham1713 3 месяца назад

    I’m retired and he’s blocked, yes I was the best partner, his pride will not let him come back

  • @nikitasaville5422
    @nikitasaville5422 5 месяцев назад +2

    I wish he would to be honest. He comes back when he gets dumped, claims he dumped them and that he had the 'ultimate realisation' that I was the one for him. Not even a week later, he's begging it with his ex haha. I hear all this from friends that are his neighbours..just hilarious and I wish he wouldn't even bother coming back with the 'Ive woken up, I'm owning up to my mistakes' bs, when it doesn't even last a week.

  • @jmora1914
    @jmora1914 Месяц назад

    My narc ex used to stalk me and fallow me around. I found out she cheated on me and then as you said she hasn't forgotten me and last year asked me to take her back and her son. I was her first boyfriend and maybe her first love. We were planning to get married. We dated for 2.5 years but betrayed me with her pos secondary supply. I know that she won't forget me. Despite when I rejected her.

  • @YukonFox1972
    @YukonFox1972 3 месяца назад

    Re: blocking-HE blocked ME first after I revealed our 8 year trauma-bonded entanglement to his current GF of 3 years (I stupidly tried to warn her about him being a narcissistic psychopath-pretty certain she’s trauma-bonded too). Last I checked, he still has a photo of the 2 of them together as his profile pic, so I guess she didn’t heed my warning. Maybe at least now he’ll stay out of my life? I just hope that he doesn’t try to retaliate against me…

  • @chloellebond5682
    @chloellebond5682 3 месяца назад

    I think this live was the funniest one to me. 😂 but facts.

  • @dezonwill33
    @dezonwill33 23 дня назад

    They will stalk you! In my case she was stalking me and my girlfriend

  • @ZaZa-nm6sw
    @ZaZa-nm6sw 2 месяца назад

    After 7 months of love bombing and manipulating and me treating him like gold. I found out about the others and he flipped a switch. Came over and put hands on me. Told me he will never worry or think about a blip from the pastciz of his many new supplies. But honestly i dont believe that.

  • @DhyanaIris-du1nu
    @DhyanaIris-du1nu 5 месяцев назад +1

    Just have a resource list for NPD that I hand to them. They may not like my form of gray rock - focused on NPD sources. I can talk over people, no problem.

    • @user-pe5wp8ie9i
      @user-pe5wp8ie9i 5 месяцев назад

      I thought I was crazy sending him the same. This makes me feel good.
      I mean,it's sad that it's some kind of a sickness . Problem is,most narcs don't believe that they are sick. They think they are "smart"..

  • @kizzyknowsbest5689
    @kizzyknowsbest5689 5 месяцев назад +1

    Not in the car... back in the house..🤔

  • @pamchapin1845
    @pamchapin1845 5 месяцев назад

    She is adorable!

  • @PamelaDixon-o7c
    @PamelaDixon-o7c 5 месяцев назад +7

    Your daughter is pretty.

  • @axidentalcreations8086
    @axidentalcreations8086 21 день назад

    My narcissist discarded me and his child as if we were trash and then has the nerve to ask if i miss anything from our relationship? Have I moved on and started dating?
    Ummm, jackbutt, you just kicked us out a month ago. I'm still putting my and our son's life back together. When am I supposed to be dating ? I didn't have someone in waiting. 🙄.
    I wish he would forget me and his son.

  • @annafisher9656
    @annafisher9656 5 месяцев назад +1

    Red flags 🚩 for sure 👍🏽

  • @dianedoud5406
    @dianedoud5406 5 месяцев назад +1

    Shes too cute!

  • @danovangrinnell4479
    @danovangrinnell4479 5 месяцев назад +1

    Interrupt him little one.luv that😊

  • @phyllisbrown4270
    @phyllisbrown4270 5 месяцев назад

    I asked him was he going to let me go. He said never. He has kept in contact with his high school sweet heart 25 years and was hurt when she finally discarded him. After 9 months of no contact after 2 years of crazy he showed up on my doorstep on my video doorbell. He said he missed me and wanted to see me, but I told him (thanks to you Lee )I didn't want to see him. He left and that was 6 months ago. Hopefully he won't return.

  • @Gina_sw
    @Gina_sw 4 месяца назад

    NYC. I’ll be waiting!!!!!!😊

  • @deborahdiggsagee930
    @deborahdiggsagee930 5 месяцев назад

    Your daughter is adorable great advice from you 🎉