My heart is broken for you, I lost my son at 2 days old in 1984. He was and is so precious to me. I was broken at the time but then my Mom reminded me that my 2 year old needed me here but Brett was home with God and was fine. I have raised 2 wonderful sons but never forget I have a third one waiting for me to come home. Bless you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤ I’m so shocked they let you move around during labor I too had preeclampsia on both pregnancies, I wanted to get in the shower but wasn’t allowed. I wish the hands of God continue to comfort you while your beautiful Abigail watches down on you ❤
This is most beautiful tribute to a beloved baby. Losing a child is beyond painful. From this grief mama to your grieving family, my love and prayers. Thank you for sharing her.
Dear parents. Thank you for sharing your story. I am a postpartum lactation nurse in Morocco, N. Africa. May the Lord heal your broken hearts. He is near to the brokenhearted and crushed in spirit.
What if the spirit steps out of this broken body living on? What if Abbigail is near to them and their love? What if Abbigail is an angel at their side rather than far off in a distance with Jesus? Whose jesus? the one from morocco, india or USA?
@@no1jerseygirl LOL- If a soul sticking around to comfort parents is absurd rather than "leaving them" to go off and stay on a far away star with Jesus is absurd then I would hope your soul is a happy camper up there. I bet I can guess right away what country, state, city & religion you are caught up in. But not all of us herein the "world wide web" live in your shallow world.
My heart is with you. My first grandson, Orion, quietly stopped breathing three feet away from my daughter while she was reading. He was 10 weeks old. The pain of infant loss unites too many of us. My very best to your family as you try to heal. What a beautiful child Abigail was. 🕯
@@janelewis7747 Of course he was. Like every member of our family, his first set was at birth. Polio, measles, rubella. I don't even know the schedule anymore, but what kind of fool wouldn't protect their precious newborn from diseases that can cripple or kill them? Thank you for your concern. Actually, it was the homeopathic teething drops laced with belladonna that murdered him, along with a dozen others. More than 200 babies were poisoned. He'd actually had a wellness visit with his incompetent doctor that morning. My beautiful, beautiful daughter was destroyed. And if I had the last vaccine on Earth to save someone like you... I'd give it to you because Orion would expect me to. Rest well, sweet boy. I miss you so fucking much. "There is hunting in heaven!" (Peace on Earth, by William Carlos Williams)
@xenraebones4216 that's terrible! Your poor family, and the families of all those other babies. You think you are doing the right thing, and then that happened. I know it won't bring your precious baby back but I hope justice was done against the maker xx
@@TheKayc136 Thank you so much. I'm sorry I let myself get angry and distracted. Abigail's memory is what matters here. Maybe Orion has by now taken her by the hand and they are laughing, skipping through the stars. 😊🕯
I will keep you all in my prayers. My granddaughter went back to Heaven 4 years ago. It isn’t easy and I am so sorry that you lost Abigail. You will see her again. My son and his wife hold onto their testimony of Heavenly Father and our Savior. May you feel His comfort and love.
I am sorry for your family's loss. I lost my oldest son 10 years ago. It is still like yesterday. No one can tell me why my 32 year old son went to sleep and never woke up. If not for God I would be a raving maniac. I pray for all of us to make through our child's birthday and ho,idays.
I saw on a very old baby's grave many years ago " An angel wrote in the Book of Life, our baby's date of birth. Then whispered as she closed the book, too beautiful for earth" It has always given me comfort over the babies I got to carry but never got to hold. Abigail was such a beautiful baby, my heart aches for you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers xxx
I'm so sorry for your losses. Miscarriages are deaths too and need to be honored as such. I wasn't lucky enough to experience pregnancy. It is my greatest regret. I am 72 now and continue to feel the loss of denied motherhood.
@cmclaren7 oh bless you. Thank you for your lovely words. I am just glad nowadays miscarriage is dealt with hopefully better and with more support. When it happened to me it wasn’t spoken about afterwards. I am sorry you never had children. I have two daughters and two little grandsons. When my daughter split with her ex due to his behaviour, his family immediately deleted every photo of her and her boys off Facebook and blocked all contact. It makes me angry and I dont understand that they have two lovely little boys and aren't bothered, yet you seem so kind but have been denied children. Xxx
I added part of your coment to some notes I have been making on faith... God's only comandment was to "love one another." His only law was to "forgive one onother." Doing this exalts and honors one's father in heaven and fullfills all God's expectations and requirements to see his favor and blessings. I wish i had known all that sooner. "Now your life's no longer empty Surely heaven waits for you" Put on the full armor of God ⚜Belt of Truth ⚜Breastplate of Righteousness ⚜Shoes of Peace ⚜Shield of Faith ⚜Helmet of Salvation ⚜Sword of Spirit On a very old baby's grave " An angel wrote in the Book of Life, our baby's date of birth. Then whispered as she closed the book, too beautiful for earth" It has always given me comfort over the babies I got to carry but never got to hold. We struggle not against flesh and blood. Be watchful, pray and stand in faith. Ephesians 6:10-18
The title of your video really caught my eye. I, too, lost a daughter named Abigail. (But she was 10 years old.) My heart is breaking for you. What a beautiful little baby! Stay close to Jesus. He will get you thru this. Sending you big ((((hugs))))!
I happened to come upon your video while scrolling on RUclips. We lost our first baby, our beautiful daughter Selah in 2018 and just celebrated her would be 5th birthday on 7/11. Losing a child is like nothing you can ever experience. We also had to make the decision to take her off supportive measures because she was suffering. Jesus got us through and He is the Way the Truth and the Life and we know we will see her again some day. Blessings to you! Thank you for sharing!
I know that you will see your daughter Selah, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together(with you examining my eyes for truth or lies), you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. ✝💔✝
I lost my son Taylor in 1999. He was full term. He passed away from Placenta Abruption . He passed on the day he was supposed to be born. To have to deliver my son that had already passed was one of the hardest things I had to do in my life. I got to hold him for a long time afterwards. It was so hard leaving the hospital without him. I cried so much. I couldn’t leave my house for the longest time,because whenever I would hear a baby cry, I would breakdown crying. I think about him all of the time. He will forever be in my heart. My heart ♥️ goes out to you both and your family. I know I will get to see him again and you will get to see Abigail again.
I AM SO SORRY YOU LOST YOUR SON JENNI. I AM SO SORRY. I PRAY GOD BLESSES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SO SO MUCH AND PRAY FOR THE DAY, WALKING ALONGSIDE OUR SAVIOR, THAT YOU WILL REUNITE WITH BEAUTIFUL TAYLOR AGAIN. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!- SARAH FEENA
I know that you will see your son Taylor, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. ✝💔✝
You are such wonderful parents, the decision was selfless and it wasn't easy to let go of Abigail, but you did it for her, she knows what you did for her. You two are the bravest parents, and you will see her again.
A parent was never meant to bury their child. It is a sorrow too hugely enourmous to bear. It doesn't matter how long, or how briefly we get to hold that precious child in our arms, the pain of the loss is too much to bear alone. I'm glad you're able to share it here, it will certainly be a comfort to others. I lost my precious son and the only thing that reduced the pain was to reach out to help others who were experiencing this horrible pain. May God Bless you always. Thank you so much.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is....My oldest daughter was murdered 24 years ago at the age of 18. Bonnie loved babies. I've always liked to think she's in Heaven taking care of the babies. Maybe she's taking care of your Abigail. Bonnie's birthday was March 6 and I noticed that Abigail's angel birthday was March 6. A sweet, but difficult date for all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
@@kellyhoward3282 I KNOW Bonnie is caring for Abigail and my baby I lost, and my grandson who was murdered by his biological father at the age of 2. We will get to see them again!
Thank you for sharing the story of beautiful Abigail Joy. What an apt name - she is basking in the joy that comes from being in the arms of Jesus. Praise God! May she rest in peace. ❤️
Abigail’s, birth was a joyful connection to her parents and her way of showing them love. The parents were present to welcome their child but when the time comes, Abigail, will be present to welcome her parents to their heavenly home! What a beautiful reunion that will be! No more sickness, no more pain, bathing in the light of Jesus, your glory gained! Thank you for sharing the story of Abigail, a special, little angel! God bless your family! ❤❤❤ CarrieJo/NC
I don’t normally get really emotional when watching these stories. I’m a Respiratory Therapist and have learned quite a few coping skills in my 30 years of practice. What caused me to become really emotional is when dad’s voice became unsteady and moms as well. When dad said he was the first and last to hold Abigail it just pulled a string in my heart and I burst into tears. Sweet Abigail know that you were and are loved. I know your mom and dad and big sister will be happy to be with you once day but until then you just sit on Heavenly Father’s lap and soak in all the love. What a precious story and precious family!!!!
My daughter was born with a bacterial blood infection. She survived with learning disabilities. Her name is Kaelyn Joy and is 28 now. From momma/granny/retired nurse, Tanya Joy. I'm glad to know you know Jesus. We do too. Love and blessings for your family and big hugs from Jesus, to carry you all through.
Weeping with you over the loss of your precious daughter. Jesus is near to the broken hearted. I can’t imagine the ache you must feel in your hearts but it’s so tender and precious that you’re leaning into Jesus in the hardest of moments. I’m praying for you and your family as you navigate the hurt and healing.
I’m so very sad that you lost you precious little baby girl. I’m happy for you to find solace in Jesus. He has you both, as her loving parents in one hand and your little daughter in his other hand. He blesses you both and shows you God’s infinite love. Prayers for your hearts healing. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
Praise God for giving us hope. I lost a baby almost 9 years ago. She was stillborn at 38 weeks. That first year was so very hard. There were many days where I didn't know if I would ever not be weighed down with grief. I am so glad to hear that you know the Lord. He is all that we can really cling to. I am praying for you. It may not feel like it some days, but God is truly good, and He truly does care. May the Lord bless you, and may he use Abigail's story to bring hope to others.
I know that you will someday see your daughter again. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. ✝💔✝
Abigail Joy was a beautiful glimpse of what awaits your family in Heaven. There are no words to say how sorry I am for this immense loss. Your family is in my prayers. Thank you for sharing your story. May God richly bless you all in the years to come. ✝️❤️🕊️
I have never lost a child or grandchild but I can't imagine your pain. My thoughts and prayers and hugs go out to you. I'd do want to say that you did an AMAZING job of how you honored her in this post! Very beautiful, touching, loving video! God bless you and your family!!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter with all of us. She is resting in the arms of the Lord. Thank you for sharing your testimony with the world. I believe that you will be reunited with Abigail Joy in heaven one day!(I have two babies in heaven that I will meet someday.) Sending my love to your family.❤✝️🙏
Thank you for sharing about your sweet Abigail ❤ We lost our daughter Peyton Grace at 39 weeks due to a microscopic placental abruption during labor, she would be 11 this fall. We have another daughter Abigail who is 4. She came out of nowhere and life has never been the same. We count Peyton among our family, and she will always be our firstborn. The infant loss community is so difficult to accept to be a part of, but it is such a loving community to be a part of. Praying you are wrapped in God’s grace as your hearts continue to be shaped from Abigail’s immense loss. “Every moment of her life she was loved.” Prayers & love to your entire family ❤
I know that you will see your daughter, Payton Grace. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is...✝💔✝
I am truly so very sorry for your loss of beautiful Abigail. God needed such A special Angel to hold A little flower lent Not given! To bud on earth but bloom in Heaven!! I know nothing any one could ever say would take away the pain of losing your Daughter But take comfort in knowing she is safe in the Arms of Angels watching over you until its time to meet again. Sending so much love from England UK
My daughter would have turned thirty this year. But she died twenty four minutes after she was born. When i woke up the dear nurse told me what happened then asked me if i wanted to hold her. At that moment no, i didnt want to hold her she was already gone. I dont know if that was wrong of me, but thats what happened. The biggest lesson i got from that was to know that life is precious and tomorrow isnt promised to us. Every day is truly a gift from above. Where i know my daughter is waiting to meet me. I have three other children all grown now. I thank God they are healthy and happy.
It wasn’t wrong of you to not hold her. It’s a very common reaction. I can’t even imagine the pain. If you couldn’t hold her then that’s perfectly fine. As you said, she was already gone.
What a beauty. I am so sorry you lost this little love. We can still take comfort in knowing that our Lord knew the exact moment to take her "home." You will see her again one day!
Thank you for sharing your story. I lost two babies via miscarriage and even though I wasn’t able to give birth to them, one of the most difficult things at the time was that I felt so alone and wasn’t able to connect with other women who had experienced the same thing bc people just don’t talk about it. I know sharing your story is really going to help other people feel less alone in their grief. God bless you both ❤
I know that you will see your babies again someday. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. ✝💔✝
Thank you for sharing your story, I almost lost my baby daughter 45 years ago to something like what your baby had. Through many prayers and tears, He brought her back to us...she is now 45 years old and healthy. I know how blessed we are that she is here!
It was an honor and a privilege to hear your story of your beautiful daughter, Abigail. You are in my continued prayers. I know that God has got you and he will stay close to you and give you peace and comfort in your time of grief. You can’t bring her back, but you can go to be with her.❤
Thank you for sharing. I also suffered a loss of my baby girl Jesslyn in 1994. I know exactly what you’re going through, she never got to come home and it was so hard being home with her nursery all set up for her. I feel your pain, you won’t ever forget and you will cry till the day you die but just know that your baby now is with Jesus and mine too and you will see her again one day! God bless much love. And may you have a wonderful and happy life♥️🥲🥰🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing Abigail’s story! As a former employee of Seattle Children’s Hospital, you were in good hands. Sending healing thoughts to the 3 of you and your family! ❤
I just wanted to say Thank you for all that you once had been doing while being employed at Seattle Children’s Hospital. "In this sad world of ours, sorrow comes to all, and to the young it comes with bitterest agony, because it takes them unawares. The older have learned to ever expect it." Abraham Lincoln 👩⚕👨⚕👨👩👧👭💔👭👨👩👧👩⚕👨⚕
Abigail Joy was a beautiful baby girl and I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you will help others who go through something similar and thank you for sharing her and her story with us. ❤
Having lost a newborn son almost 33 years ago to a Group B Strep infection, I so feel your pain! Just know your child is waiting for you in heaven. We WILL be reunited again! My prayers are with you all..,thanks for sharing your precious story of Abigail with us❣️
I lost my newborn daughter, Melissa, in April 1990, to Group B Strep. I spent years educating people about this devastating infection. I then spent 15 years starting and running a Share Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support Group for bereaved parents. There is no greater pain than losing a child. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby boy.
My daughter was born in 1994 with step b but thankfully it was caught fairly early (after a transfer via plane to a children's hospital) and she made a full recovery with no side effects so treatment has come a long way with step b. I'm sorry for your losses.
In 2002, My water broke at 36 weeks and my Dr found out I had a positive group b strep test. My rainbow son got very sick at 24 hours old, but recovered. I never knew that group b could be fatal. I'm so sorry for your losses. My heart hurts for you.
@@RealMommaTalk Yes GBS is fatal and thousands of babies have died from it. After advocating for testing for years, the cold hard truth is doctors don't learn enough about it, and have the mentality that it doesn't happen often enough to be a big deal. I literally sat down with one OBGYN and started the conversation when he stopped me and said "what is Group B Strep??" I could spend hours telling you things that would make you so angry and hurt your heart to the core. It's really, really a disgrace. If you ever want a glimpse into childbirth in America, watch the documentary "The Business of Being Born".
I'm so sorry for your loss I lost my son at 5 weeks old we just took him to the hospital he wasn't eating as much they didn't give him the correct treatment, we found out he had a disorder that if treated correctly he would still be here he would be 28 now I still miss him and think about him and go to the cemetery he with my mom and dad I had no babies after that , it changed me forever so I know what pain and emptiness you to have suffered .God bless.
Your video touched my heart so much. I had a friend send this to me, our daughter was also born early on February 16th (due to preeclampsia as well), and she passed away at 6 weeks and 6 days. It is so comforting to see fellow believers whose only hope through such a horrific time is Jesus. Though we may never understand the “why”, we can rest assured that His peace that passes all understanding will be our comfort. Thank you for sharing her story, my prayers and my heart is with you. ❤️
I am so extremely sorry for your tremendous loss 💛 our son was born in December at 29 weeks after I delivered early from preeclampsia as well. He developed an infection on his third day and passed hours later. Spending those few days with him was the joy of my life, as I’m sure was yours with your sweet Abigail. I know our babies are in heaven and we will see them again some day! ❤️
I know that you will see your baby, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is.
Your faith & declaration of the truth of the Gospel despite your heartbreaking circumstances are truly amazing. Thank you, I know she is healed, happy & safe with our Savior. Big hugs, thank you for sharing her story
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your newborn Abigail. I just find it puzzling that the room was full of broadly smiling people as her little life slipped away. Possibly shock and denial. Hugs from another bereaved parent but who certainly cannot find anything to smile about. Death is an enemy. It's robbed you and me. It's robbed our children of becoming what they should have become. No parent should ever have to bury their child. Not ever.
You're definitely not alone. I lost my baby girl in 1989 and not a day goes by still that my heart still doesn't feel a loss and broken. I've got both of you and Abigail in my heart ❤
@lisaazzano1811 … Oh my, I am so sorry for your terrible loss too! I lost my precious April in January 1988, at the age of 2-1/2 months! I am sad to say I lost my faith in God and blamed him for taking my precious baby girl, even though I knew it wasn’t God’s fault. I have carried the guilt ever since she died, and that is something I have never been able to work through and deal with. As her Momma I should have been able to save her but I couldn’t. 😭😭Ughh, still feels like yesterday! I’m so sorry! This is supposed to be Condolences for Precious Abigail Joy, and the other Precious Little Ones taken way way too soon! My heart ♥️ and love goes out to every single one of you who has lost a Precious Child! We shouldn’t have to bury our Children. ♥️🫶😭🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️
@@SharonStainer I hope and pray that you have since found God’s comfort in your life. He can never take the pain away, but he can help with the healing of your heart. I am so sorry for your loss of your baby girl.
@@nancyellen8006 thank you so much for your kind words. I do know now that blaming God was wrong, and I have prayed so much about it, but I just can’t forgive myself or forget! I know that’s not rational thinking, but as April’s Momma, I will always feel guilty because I couldn’t save her! ❤️🩹🙏🏻😢🙏🏻
@@denisedspain7991 Aww I am so very sorry for your terrible loss as well. Losing our babies just isn’t right, and we definitely shouldn’t have to bury them! 😇💯
My niece Katherine also died at 8 days old, and it was the hardest thing I had ever been through at that time. My prayers are with you, that God gives you the strength to get through those moments full of grief, when it feels like that pain in your chest will never go away. I promise that it gets easier over time, but you will never stop feeling her loss. She will be in your memory forever, and watching over her family until you all meet again.
I know that you will see your niece Katherine again, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. Keep the faith...✝💔✝
I need to go to a support group. I lost my baby girl in 1989 and i never dealt with the pain. It is a pain that is tje deepest you will ever experience. I buried my pain away to be strong for my 19 month old daughter and my job. I know it affects my life still today. Im so so sorry for your loss. I truly feel your pain and know what you're going through. Thankful you have each other, your other daughter and God for strength ❤
I’m so sorry. I lost my baby girl to SIDS years ago, I prayed for her and thanked God for her daily, but He brought her home anyway. Prayers for healing, time helps you cope, but you never fully heal. Day by day… love and hugs
So sorry y'all. I know how extremely hard it is to lose your child. It's something no parent should ever have to go through. Our only hope is in Jesus and we will see our children again. Much love from NC.
@@christinecraft8890 I don’t understand, you came onto the video of a bereaved couple not to offer support or comfort, rather to just criticize their faith? Not the time or the place! I don’t belong to this religion, but even I know this is NOT the place for criticism
My heart is with you. ❤ I lost my first baby, almost 10 lbs at 4 months old. I was only 19 yrs at the time. Holding him in my arms before he passed significantly affected me for many years. I will also see him again in Heaven when my special day comes. Thanks for sharing your story.❤
God bless you. Thanks for sharing the story of your beautiful baby girl, Abigail. One of our grandsons, Sullivan , was still born at 38 weeks. He would be 14 years old now. We look forward to that glorious day when we will be reunited with him in heaven.
Rossdog bless your hearts! What a tender and beautiful story to share and give hope and encouragement to others. We lost our daughter, Alexandra Elizabeth, 27 years ago. She was stillborn at 32 weeks. Early rupture of my membranes and loss of amniotic fluid. We came to a personal and saving faith through the loss of our precious daughter. Your perspective and wisdom is a blessing and it will help you navigate the winding road of grief Together. I still think our baby girl all of the time and wonder what she would have looked like as she grew up. Through fertility treatments we were able to have a beautiful daughter two years later and we chose the name Abigail Hope “Abbey”. Now she is married and a treasure to our family and her husband. May God comfort and carry your family. 💞 thank you for making this video, it will most certainly be a comfort and encouragement to many.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also a believer and that is the thing that helped me when we lost our month-old son, Adam. You don't ever get "over" it but you do learn to live without their presence on this earth. Life is brief and the separation will be brief. I never blamed God and I'm comforted that Adam is safe and I will see him again. As King David said about his dead son, "One day, I will go to the place where he is. But he will never come back here to me."
There’s no words to express to grieving parents when it comes to the loss of a child., but I read so many sweet, kind words of encouragement and hope. Whether it’s a baby or a 50 year old, Mom will grieve and not understand why. God bless all who have been part of a club no one ever wants to be. Both my sisters buried their children and their pain was very evident. Love and prayers to all who have shared their grief with you. 💔
I am so sorry for your loss. She will always be there for you both and her big sister Brook. ❤ I had three stillborn babies and even though I lost them in the 90's, I still think of them every single day. 😢
Praying for you all 😢I lost a grandson he was two months old ☹️But we will see these precious babies again someday Praise the Lord ❤She is a beautiful baby ❤💕😍
I know that you will see your grandson, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. Stay faithful...✝💔✝
My Ashley would be 15 she passed at 3 months from SIDS..From these comments it's heartbreaking because I never realized how many of us are out here living with a piece of us in Heaven.May Abigail RIP and I'm deeply sorry for y'all's loss.
I know that you will see your daughter Ashley, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. Keep the faith...✝💔✝
I'm so sorry! No one should lose a child. The pain is the worst pain one can experience. I can't say that I know how you feel because I've lost a child too, but I can sympathize with you, because I am living with the pain of losing a child. It makes no sense, because Abigail was SO Perfect! 🙏❤️🙏
I’ve never known the loss of a child, so I can’t pretend to know what you are dealing with, but I know I can’t imagine living if I lost one of my kids. God bless you both. You will see Abigail again. She is waiting with our Father in Heaven. 🙏🥰
We don't have children, but feel for you, certainly. What a little ray of love and sunshine...bless.... and cherish your daughter, your doggie children, your family and life. HEAVEN is beautiful...BLESS, Kimberly & Larry
I lost my firstborn, Emily, in the very same hospital. I have 2 beautiful biological children and 2 amazing step-daughters now, you'll never forget Abigail. She'll become part of the love you give to others.
So so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful baby Abigail is! I am sad you only got 8 days with her. Yet happy you got 8 days with her. My baby would be 31 now he died 42 minutes after birth from an unknown heart defect. Hugs just love each through it. I have 8 kids 7 here on earth and one in heaven. People want to correct me that I only have 7 kids. When I know I have 8! It is a lovely video you have done to remember Abigail.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Abigail is a beautiful soul, Thank you for sharing your story. She is in Heaven, thank you Jesus! What a beautiful promise.
I lost my Son Noah on 8/5, he was a preemie and only lived a short time in the NICU, my heart is broken. Thank you for sharing your story. May the Lord bless you and continue to heal your heart. May he bring peace and restoration.
I lost my first baby at 24 weeks. His name was Stephen. He lived exactly 3 weeks in the NICU. That was 1995. I was very lucky to go on to have 3 more sons who all share a part of his name. I will never forget that time in my life and how it's effected me since
❤ Abigail was a beautiful baby! I am so glad that she was lucky enough to have 2 wonderful parents in her life even if it was for such a short time. God must have realized her little soul was to good for this earth & called her home. My heart breaks for you all & my prayers are with you also. May God Bless & Love Abigail & her family always ❤
I just wanted to take a moment to express my heartbreak at your loss and yet amazement in your strength as a couple , your beautiful daughters story is well received and now many people know of her gentle beauty thank you for sharing it must have been devastating and this may help others who are grieving, I send blessings and hope for you guys ❤❤
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. As a mother I can't imagine the heart crushing pain of losing my child. It's very clear how much love surrounded Abigail during her short little life. She felt the love of a lifetime in those few days. Sending you love strength peace and prayers ❤🙏
I'm so sorry for loss, my best friend lost her 10wk old to SIDS last year. It's horrific and will never forget beautiful Ella. Much love to you both, your little girl and family. RIP Abigail 💗
My heart feels your great loss. I lost my 17 yr old daughter Esther to a rare blood disorder. We had to take her off the breathing machine so she would not suffer.Their is no words to comfort parents of a loss of a child. It hurts beyond reasoning. One takes one moment at a time living. Time only helps brace again the loss. Everything in your life is a new normal. True family and friends help you and others fall away who won't understand. Hold on to each person who is there. You will need them. Just know I know your loss. God will hold you till you hold your sweet child again
I’m so sorry for your hard and heavy loss. Abigail Joy is a precious one and her being gone must be sad beyond words. I’m glad your family shares in faith to help each of your grieve. The Lord bless each of you and sustain you always.
What a beautiful testimony-through your story, Abigail is touching lives. She has touched mine and I thank you. I will face tomorrow with a little more courage. My prayers are with you and your extended family. Our Father is gracious and sent Abigail for a purpose. I truly believe that. ❤
I can feel your pain. Nobody should loose a child at whatever stage. I lost my little Joylene having held her for only 2 months,she had multiple holes in her heart,i am grateful thay God allowed me to be with her for those 2 months. However i mourned her for so long until one day she came to me in a dream healed and very happy,from then onwards i just miss her. We that God for allowing us be with her for that time. He makes no mistakes
So sorry about Abigail. We, also, lost a daughter. Shannon was stillborn at 37 1/2 weeks. We didn't know anything was wrong till she was born. Our sweet babies are watching over us.
We are our best selves and most vulnerable through our children. You fought for her and you both seem so brave and strong. I’m sure she’s proud of you, and grateful. I will keep Abigail in my prayers, but mostly you 2 and your family and friends. Wishing you grace and strength.
Oh my…Abigail Joy was sooooo beautiful, and I am sooooo saddened for your loss. Years ago my sister lost twins when she was 5 months along…a boy and a girl. She never did have more children. It was something she never fully got over. BUT, she too has faith in Jesus as her Savior and she KNOWS she will see them in Heaven one day. I’m happy to hear that you too are believers. God bless you!!! 💕🙏🏻💕
I’m so sorry for the loss of baby Abigail . I lost a baby 46 years ago , he will always be a baby in my mind . I’m just sad I didn’t get to meet him properly . He’s in my mind always .
Praying for your healing hearts. I lost my first grandson to SIDS in 1991, my second grandson in 2003 to NEC due to prematurity and in 2016, a third grandson was stillborn. Twain, Little L and Jude. I know I see them all again one day and until then this Granny will love then till then.
Thank you for sharing Abigail’s story to the world😭. I pray God continues to give you peace, comfort and strength in these days. She is with Jesus. God bless your faithfulness. 🙏
Lord God protect this family as they accept that Abigail is back home with you and safe. It is extremely hard to lose a child. As a nurse in NICU many years ago I remember my parents who lost children. Thank you for creating this video. Bless you both
Thank you for sharing God's story of love and about his perfect peace in the worst storms. May He continue to bless you abundantly and fill in every gap you may feel. Sending love from Florida
She is gorgeous! That is a tough loss...thank for it for sharing her and your story with us. I'm sure other families will find it comforting that they aren't the only people trying to work through this. Each life is so precious and a gift from God. God bless you and your family. Prayers for comfort for all families. ❤
My heart is broken for you, I lost my son at 2 days old in 1984. He was and is so precious to me. I was broken at the time but then my Mom reminded me that my 2 year old needed me here but Brett was home with God and was fine. I have raised 2 wonderful sons but never forget I have a third one waiting for me to come home. Bless you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤ I’m so shocked they let you move around during labor I too had preeclampsia on both pregnancies, I wanted to get in the shower but wasn’t allowed. I wish the hands of God continue to comfort you while your beautiful Abigail watches down on you ❤
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Thank you for sharing . I feel so much peace now . I lost my child too but haven't been able to get beyond the pain . Your story helps somewhat .
Praying for them and you. 🙏 ❤
This is most beautiful tribute to a beloved baby. Losing a child is beyond painful. From this grief mama to your grieving family, my love and prayers. Thank you for sharing her.
Dear parents. Thank you for sharing your story. I am a postpartum lactation nurse in Morocco, N. Africa. May the Lord heal your broken hearts. He is near to the brokenhearted and crushed in spirit.
What if the spirit steps out of this broken body living on? What if Abbigail is near to them and their love? What if Abbigail is an angel at their side rather than far off in a distance with Jesus? Whose jesus? the one from morocco, india or USA?
@@PhyreReighnyou are asking rather absurd questions. Why would you ask completely broken hearted parents questions like these?
@@no1jerseygirl LOL- If a soul sticking around to comfort parents is absurd rather than "leaving them" to go off and stay on a far away star with Jesus is absurd then I would hope your soul is a happy camper up there. I bet I can guess right away what country, state, city & religion you are caught up in. But not all of us herein the "world wide web" live in your shallow world.
My heart is with you. My first grandson, Orion, quietly stopped breathing three feet away from my daughter while she was reading. He was 10 weeks old. The pain of infant loss unites too many of us. My very best to your family as you try to heal. What a beautiful child Abigail was. 🕯
Vaccinated?
@@janelewis7747don't go there
@@janelewis7747 Of course he was. Like every member of our family, his first set was at birth. Polio, measles, rubella. I don't even know the schedule anymore, but what kind of fool wouldn't protect their precious newborn from diseases that can cripple or kill them?
Thank you for your concern. Actually, it was the homeopathic teething drops laced with belladonna that murdered him, along with a dozen others. More than 200 babies were poisoned. He'd actually had a wellness visit with his incompetent doctor that morning.
My beautiful, beautiful daughter was destroyed.
And if I had the last vaccine on Earth to save someone like you... I'd give it to you because Orion would expect me to.
Rest well, sweet boy. I miss you so fucking much. "There is hunting in heaven!" (Peace on Earth, by William Carlos Williams)
@xenraebones4216 that's terrible! Your poor family, and the families of all those other babies. You think you are doing the right thing, and then that happened. I know it won't bring your precious baby back but I hope justice was done against the maker xx
@@TheKayc136 Thank you so much. I'm sorry I let myself get angry and distracted. Abigail's memory is what matters here. Maybe Orion has by now taken her by the hand and they are laughing, skipping through the stars. 😊🕯
I will keep you all in my prayers. My granddaughter went back to Heaven 4 years ago. It isn’t easy and I am so sorry that you lost Abigail. You will see her again. My son and his wife hold onto their testimony of Heavenly Father and our Savior. May you feel His comfort and love.
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I’m so sorry about your granddaughter. She is in Heaven and you will see her again. ❤
@@Sedgies thank you. I hang on to that.
How did she die??
I am sorry for your family's loss. I lost my oldest son 10 years ago. It is still like yesterday. No one can tell me why my 32 year old son went to sleep and never woke up. If not for God I would be a raving maniac. I pray for all of us to make through our child's birthday and ho,idays.
I saw on a very old baby's grave many years ago " An angel wrote in the Book of Life, our baby's date of birth. Then whispered as she closed the book, too beautiful for earth"
It has always given me comfort over the babies I got to carry but never got to hold.
Abigail was such a beautiful baby, my heart aches for you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers xxx
I'm so sorry for your losses. Miscarriages are deaths too and need to be honored as such. I wasn't lucky enough to experience pregnancy. It is my greatest regret. I am 72 now and continue to feel the loss of denied motherhood.
@cmclaren7 oh bless you. Thank you for your lovely words. I am just glad nowadays miscarriage is dealt with hopefully better and with more support. When it happened to me it wasn’t spoken about afterwards. I am sorry you never had children.
I have two daughters and two little grandsons. When my daughter split with her ex due to his behaviour, his family immediately deleted every photo of her and her boys off Facebook and blocked all contact. It makes me angry and I dont understand that they have two lovely little boys and aren't bothered, yet you seem so kind but have been denied children. Xxx
Thank you for sharing these beautiful words. It brings me comfort for my Katelin Rose ❤️🩹
@@lisabarnes4653 sending you a huge hug xxx
I added part of your coment to some notes I have been making on faith...
God's only comandment was to "love one another."
His only law was to "forgive one onother."
Doing this exalts and honors one's father in heaven
and fullfills all God's expectations
and requirements to see his favor and blessings.
I wish i had known all that sooner.
"Now your life's no longer empty
Surely heaven waits for you"
Put on the full armor of God
⚜Belt of Truth
⚜Breastplate of Righteousness
⚜Shoes of Peace
⚜Shield of Faith
⚜Helmet of Salvation
⚜Sword of Spirit
On a very old baby's grave " An angel wrote in the Book of Life, our baby's date of birth. Then whispered as she closed the book, too beautiful for earth"
It has always given me comfort over the babies I got to carry but never got to hold.
We struggle not against flesh and blood.
Be watchful, pray and stand in faith.
Ephesians 6:10-18
The title of your video really caught my eye. I, too, lost a daughter named Abigail. (But she was 10 years old.) My heart is breaking for you. What a beautiful little baby! Stay close to Jesus. He will get you thru this. Sending you big ((((hugs))))!
I happened to come upon your video while scrolling on RUclips. We lost our first baby, our beautiful daughter Selah in 2018 and just celebrated her would be 5th birthday on 7/11. Losing a child is like nothing you can ever experience. We also had to make the decision to take her off supportive measures because she was suffering. Jesus got us through and He is the Way the Truth and the Life and we know we will see her again some day. Blessings to you! Thank you for sharing!
Weird, my son has a friend named Selah who was born July 10, 2018.
I know that you will see your daughter Selah, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together(with you examining my eyes for truth or lies), you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is.
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I lost my son Taylor in 1999. He was full term. He passed away from Placenta Abruption . He passed on the day he was supposed to be born. To have to deliver my son that had already passed was one of the hardest things I had to do in my life. I got to hold him for a long time afterwards. It was so hard leaving the hospital without him. I cried so much. I couldn’t leave my house for the longest time,because whenever I would hear a baby cry, I would breakdown crying. I think about him all of the time. He will forever be in my heart. My heart ♥️ goes out to you both and your family. I know I will get to see him again and you will get to see Abigail again.
I AM SO SORRY YOU LOST YOUR SON JENNI. I AM SO SORRY. I PRAY GOD BLESSES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SO SO MUCH AND PRAY FOR THE DAY, WALKING ALONGSIDE OUR SAVIOR, THAT YOU WILL REUNITE WITH BEAUTIFUL TAYLOR AGAIN. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!- SARAH FEENA
I know that you will see your son Taylor, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is.
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I’m sending you love.
She is so beautiful and very loved.
You are such wonderful parents, the decision was selfless and it wasn't easy to let go of Abigail, but you did it for her, she knows what you did for her. You two are the bravest parents, and you will see her again.
A parent was never meant to bury their child. It is a sorrow too hugely enourmous to bear. It doesn't matter how long, or how briefly we get to hold that precious child in our arms, the pain of the loss is too much to bear alone. I'm glad you're able to share it here, it will certainly be a comfort to others. I lost my precious son and the only thing that reduced the pain was to reach out to help others who were experiencing this horrible pain. May God Bless you always. Thank you so much.
I'm sitting here crying, Abigail was a beautiful light in this world. My heart goes out to you both and your family.
Just so you know, you have MANY people here who love and pray for you. I went through 8, 24-39 week losses. God Bless🦋
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is....My oldest daughter was murdered 24 years ago at the age of 18. Bonnie loved babies. I've always liked to think she's in Heaven taking care of the babies. Maybe she's taking care of your Abigail. Bonnie's birthday was March 6 and I noticed that Abigail's angel birthday was March 6. A sweet, but difficult date for all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
That's beautiful. I'm very sorry for the loss of your daughter. I hope she's taking care of my first born who is in heaven.
@@joyful_tanya Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss too. I hope she taking care of your child too!
@@kellyhoward3282 thank you.
@@kellyhoward3282 I KNOW Bonnie is caring for Abigail and my baby I lost, and my grandson who was murdered by his biological father at the age of 2. We will get to see them again!
Thank you for sharing the story of beautiful Abigail Joy. What an apt name - she is basking in the joy that comes from being in the arms of Jesus. Praise God! May she rest in peace. ❤️
Abigail’s, birth was a joyful connection to her parents and her way of showing them love. The parents were present to welcome their child but when the time comes, Abigail, will be present to welcome her parents to their heavenly home! What a beautiful reunion that will be! No more sickness, no more pain, bathing in the light of Jesus, your glory gained! Thank you for sharing the story of Abigail, a special, little angel! God bless your family! ❤❤❤ CarrieJo/NC
I don’t normally get really emotional when watching these stories. I’m a Respiratory Therapist and have learned quite a few coping skills in my 30 years of practice. What caused me to become really emotional is when dad’s voice became unsteady and moms as well. When dad said he was the first and last to hold Abigail it just pulled a string in my heart and I burst into tears. Sweet Abigail know that you were and are loved. I know your mom and dad and big sister will be happy to be with you once day but until then you just sit on Heavenly Father’s lap and soak in all the love. What a precious story and precious family!!!!
For me too it was mom and dad‘s voices shaking as they tried not to cry describing the loss of their dear Abigail.
Thank you for sharing your comment, very well said.
So so beautiful and then so so sad .I feel so heart sore for this beautiful couple.
My daughter was born with a bacterial blood infection. She survived with learning disabilities. Her name is Kaelyn Joy and is 28 now. From momma/granny/retired nurse, Tanya Joy. I'm glad to know you know Jesus. We do too. Love and blessings for your family and big hugs from Jesus, to carry you all through.
Weeping with you over the loss of your precious daughter. Jesus is near to the broken hearted. I can’t imagine the ache you must feel in your hearts but it’s so tender and precious that you’re leaning into Jesus in the hardest of moments. I’m praying for you and your family as you navigate the hurt and healing.
How can anyone go through this without Jesus?! He is the way the only way🙏🏼
@@dianac1411AMEN! 🥰
I am so sorry for your loss. God needed Abigail back home to help Him with someone else. She put on her new wings and flew home.
I’m so very sad that you lost you precious little baby girl. I’m happy for you to find solace in Jesus. He has you both, as her loving parents in one hand and your little daughter in his other hand. He blesses you both and shows you God’s infinite love. Prayers for your hearts healing. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
Praise God for giving us hope. I lost a baby almost 9 years ago. She was stillborn at 38 weeks. That first year was so very hard. There were many days where I didn't know if I would ever not be weighed down with grief. I am so glad to hear that you know the Lord. He is all that we can really cling to. I am praying for you. It may not feel like it some days, but God is truly good, and He truly does care. May the Lord bless you, and may he use Abigail's story to bring hope to others.
I know that you will someday see your daughter again. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. ✝💔✝
So very very sorry for the loss of beautiful Abigail!😢 “Though she may not be in your sight, she will always be in your heart.”🙏❤️
Thank you so much for sharing Abigail’s joyful life with all of us! ❤️ Peace be with you always🙏🏼
I lost my little brother and then lost my son two months ago. Hugs and prayers to you all.
That is tragic, I am sorry.
Thank you for sharing Abigail’s story with us. She’s absolutely beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing.
Abigail Joy was a beautiful glimpse of what awaits your family in Heaven. There are no words to say how sorry I am for this immense loss. Your family is in my prayers. Thank you for sharing your story. May God richly bless you all in the years to come. ✝️❤️🕊️
I have never lost a child or grandchild but I can't imagine your pain. My thoughts and prayers and hugs go out to you. I'd do want to say that you did an AMAZING job of how you honored her in this post! Very beautiful, touching, loving video! God bless you and your family!!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter with all of us. She is resting in the arms of the Lord. Thank you for sharing your testimony with the world. I believe that you will be reunited with Abigail Joy in heaven one day!(I have two babies in heaven that I will meet someday.) Sending my love to your family.❤✝️🙏
As terribly hard as it was, you both made the right decision with comfort care. I‘m incredibly sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing about your sweet Abigail ❤
We lost our daughter Peyton Grace at 39 weeks due to a microscopic placental abruption during labor, she would be 11 this fall. We have another daughter Abigail who is 4. She came out of nowhere and life has never been the same.
We count Peyton among our family, and she will always be our firstborn.
The infant loss community is so difficult to accept to be a part of, but it is such a loving community to be a part of. Praying you are wrapped in God’s grace as your hearts continue to be shaped from Abigail’s immense loss.
“Every moment of her life she was loved.”
Prayers & love to your entire family ❤
I know that you will see your daughter, Payton Grace. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is...✝💔✝
I am truly so very sorry for your loss of beautiful Abigail. God needed such A special Angel to hold A little flower lent Not given! To bud on earth but bloom in Heaven!! I know nothing any one could ever say would take away the pain of losing your Daughter But take comfort in knowing she is safe in the Arms of Angels watching over you until its time to meet again. Sending so much love from England UK
My daughter would have turned thirty this year. But she died twenty four minutes after she was born. When i woke up the dear nurse told me what happened then asked me if i wanted to hold her. At that moment no, i didnt want to hold her she was already gone. I dont know if that was wrong of me, but thats what happened.
The biggest lesson i got from that was to know that life is precious and tomorrow isnt promised to us. Every day is truly a gift from above. Where i know my daughter is waiting to meet me. I have three other children all grown now. I thank God they are healthy and happy.
It wasn’t wrong of you to not hold her. It’s a very common reaction. I can’t even imagine the pain. If you couldn’t hold her then that’s perfectly fine. As you said, she was already gone.
What a beauty. I am so sorry you lost this little love. We can still take comfort in knowing that our Lord knew the exact moment to take her "home." You will see her again one day!
Thank you for sharing your story. I lost two babies via miscarriage and even though I wasn’t able to give birth to them, one of the most difficult things at the time was that I felt so alone and wasn’t able to connect with other women who had experienced the same thing bc people just don’t talk about it. I know sharing your story is really going to help other people feel less alone in their grief. God bless you both ❤
I know that you will see your babies again someday. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. ✝💔✝
Thank you for sharing your story, I almost lost my baby daughter 45 years ago to something like what your baby had. Through many prayers and tears, He brought her back to us...she is now 45 years old and healthy. I know how blessed we are that she is here!
It was an honor and a privilege to hear your story of your beautiful daughter, Abigail. You are in my continued prayers. I know that God has got you and he will stay close to you and give you peace and comfort in your time of grief. You can’t bring her back, but you can go to be with her.❤
Thank you for sharing. I also suffered a loss of my baby girl Jesslyn in 1994. I know exactly what you’re going through, she never got to come home and it was so hard being home with her nursery all set up for her. I feel your pain, you won’t ever forget and you will cry till the day you die but just know that your baby now is with Jesus and mine too and you will see her again one day! God bless much love. And may you have a wonderful and happy life♥️🥲🥰🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing Abigail’s story! As a former employee of Seattle Children’s Hospital, you were in good hands. Sending healing thoughts to the 3 of you and your family! ❤
I just wanted to say Thank you for all that you once had been doing while being employed at Seattle Children’s Hospital.
"In this sad world of ours, sorrow comes to all, and to the young it comes with bitterest agony, because it takes them unawares. The older have learned to ever expect it."
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Abigail Joy was a beautiful baby girl and I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you will help others who go through something similar and thank you for sharing her and her story with us. ❤
So tragically Beautiful!!!
You will see her again !!
Hope this helps others in their faith journey !!✝️✨
Having lost a newborn son almost 33 years ago to a Group B Strep infection, I so feel your pain! Just know your child is waiting for you in heaven. We WILL be reunited again! My prayers are with you all..,thanks for sharing your precious story of Abigail with us❣️
I lost my newborn daughter, Melissa, in April 1990, to Group B Strep. I spent years educating people about this devastating infection. I then spent 15 years starting and running a Share Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support Group for bereaved parents. There is no greater pain than losing a child. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby boy.
My daughter was born in 1994 with step b but thankfully it was caught fairly early (after a transfer via plane to a children's hospital) and she made a full recovery with no side effects so treatment has come a long way with step b. I'm sorry for your losses.
In 2002, My water broke at 36 weeks and my Dr found out I had a positive group b strep test. My rainbow son got very sick at 24 hours old, but recovered. I never knew that group b could be fatal. I'm so sorry for your losses. My heart hurts for you.
@@RealMommaTalk Yes GBS is fatal and thousands of babies have died from it. After advocating for testing for years, the cold hard truth is doctors don't learn enough about it, and have the mentality that it doesn't happen often enough to be a big deal. I literally sat down with one OBGYN and started the conversation when he stopped me and said "what is Group B Strep??" I could spend hours telling you things that would make you so angry and hurt your heart to the core. It's really, really a disgrace. If you ever want a glimpse into childbirth in America, watch the documentary "The Business of Being Born".
I'm so sorry for your loss I lost my son at 5 weeks old we just took him to the hospital he wasn't eating as much they didn't give him the correct treatment, we found out he had a disorder that if treated correctly he would still be here he would be 28 now I still miss him and think about him and go to the cemetery he with my mom and dad I had no babies after that , it changed me forever so I know what pain and emptiness you to have suffered .God bless.
Your video touched my heart so much. I had a friend send this to me, our daughter was also born early on February 16th (due to preeclampsia as well), and she passed away at 6 weeks and 6 days. It is so comforting to see fellow believers whose only hope through such a horrific time is Jesus. Though we may never understand the “why”, we can rest assured that His peace that passes all understanding will be our comfort. Thank you for sharing her story, my prayers and my heart is with you. ❤️
Little Abigail was just passing through this world. May she rest in gods arm..
Always be comforted knowing that you’ll be reunited with Abigail in heaven! God bless you!🙏
I am so extremely sorry for your tremendous loss 💛 our son was born in December at 29 weeks after I delivered early from preeclampsia as well. He developed an infection on his third day and passed hours later. Spending those few days with him was the joy of my life, as I’m sure was yours with your sweet Abigail. I know our babies are in heaven and we will see them again some day! ❤️
I know that you will see your baby, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is.
I'm so sorry for your loss. This was a beautiful tribute. Thankful you know the Lord and will get to see your precious Abigail again one day.
Your faith & declaration of the truth of the Gospel despite your heartbreaking circumstances are truly amazing. Thank you, I know she is healed, happy & safe with our Savior. Big hugs, thank you for sharing her story
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your newborn Abigail.
I just find it puzzling that the room was full of broadly smiling people as her little life slipped away.
Possibly shock and denial.
Hugs from another bereaved parent but who certainly cannot find anything to smile about.
Death is an enemy.
It's robbed you and me.
It's robbed our children of becoming what they should have become.
No parent should ever have to bury their child. Not ever.
You're definitely not alone. I lost my baby girl in 1989 and not a day goes by still that my heart still doesn't feel a loss and broken. I've got both of you and Abigail in my heart ❤
@lisaazzano1811 … Oh my, I am so sorry for your terrible loss too! I lost my precious April in January 1988, at the age of 2-1/2 months! I am sad to say I lost my faith in God and blamed him for taking my precious baby girl, even though I knew it wasn’t God’s fault. I have carried the guilt ever since she died, and that is something I have never been able to work through and deal with. As her Momma I should have been able to save her but I couldn’t. 😭😭Ughh, still feels like yesterday! I’m so sorry! This is supposed to be Condolences for Precious Abigail Joy, and the other Precious Little Ones taken way way too soon! My heart ♥️ and love goes out to every single one of you who has lost a Precious Child! We shouldn’t have to bury our Children. ♥️🫶😭🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️
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I hope and pray that you have since found God’s comfort in your life. He can never take the pain away, but he can help with the healing of your heart. I am so sorry for your loss of your baby girl.
@@nancyellen8006 thank you so much for your kind words. I do know now that blaming God was wrong, and I have prayed so much about it, but I just can’t forgive myself or forget! I know that’s not rational thinking, but as April’s Momma, I will always feel guilty because I couldn’t save her! ❤️🩹🙏🏻😢🙏🏻
I lost my son at 5 months old in 1989. 😢
@@denisedspain7991 Aww I am so very sorry for your terrible loss as well. Losing our babies just isn’t right, and we definitely shouldn’t have to bury them! 😇💯
My niece Katherine also died at 8 days old, and it was the hardest thing I had ever been through at that time. My prayers are with you, that God gives you the strength to get through those moments full of grief, when it feels like that pain in your chest will never go away. I promise that it gets easier over time, but you will never stop feeling her loss. She will be in your memory forever, and watching over her family until you all meet again.
I know that you will see your niece Katherine again, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. Keep the faith...✝💔✝
I need to go to a support group. I lost my baby girl in 1989 and i never dealt with the pain. It is a pain that is tje deepest you will ever experience. I buried my pain away to be strong for my 19 month old daughter and my job. I know it affects my life still today. Im so so sorry for your loss. I truly feel your pain and know what you're going through. Thankful you have each other, your other daughter and God for strength ❤
I hope you find the support you deserve. These tragedies happen so often and you are not alone ❤
I’m so sorry. I lost my baby girl to SIDS years ago, I prayed for her and thanked God for her daily, but He brought her home anyway. Prayers for healing, time helps you cope, but you never fully heal. Day by day… love and hugs
So sorry y'all. I know how extremely hard it is to lose your child. It's something no parent should ever have to go through. Our only hope is in Jesus and we will see our children again. Much love from NC.
Thank you
So where was Jesus,supposedly all powerful, when it mattered?
@@christinecraft8890 I don’t understand, you came onto the video of a bereaved couple not to offer support or comfort, rather to just criticize their faith? Not the time or the place! I don’t belong to this religion, but even I know this is NOT the place for criticism
@@RK-fz7qc you don’t control me
The old saying no parent should have to bury their children is what should never happen but it does 😭
My heart is with you. ❤ I lost my first baby, almost 10 lbs at 4 months old. I was only 19 yrs at the time. Holding him in my arms before he passed significantly affected me for many years. I will also see him again in Heaven when my special day comes. Thanks for sharing your story.❤
Thank you for sharing your precious daughter's short life with us! Many prayers for you and your family!
God bless you. Thanks for sharing the story of your beautiful baby girl, Abigail. One of our grandsons, Sullivan , was still born at 38 weeks. He would be 14 years old now. We look forward to that glorious day when we will be reunited with him in heaven.
Rossdog bless your hearts! What a tender and beautiful story to share and give hope and encouragement to others.
We lost our daughter, Alexandra Elizabeth, 27 years ago. She was stillborn at 32 weeks. Early rupture of my membranes and loss of amniotic fluid.
We came to a personal and saving faith through the loss of our precious daughter.
Your perspective and wisdom is a blessing and it will help you navigate the winding road of grief Together. I still think our baby girl all of the time and wonder what she would have looked like as she grew up. Through fertility treatments we were able to have a beautiful daughter two years later and we chose the name Abigail Hope “Abbey”. Now she is married and a treasure to our family and her husband. May God comfort and carry your family. 💞 thank you for making this video, it will most certainly be a comfort and encouragement to many.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also a believer and that is the thing that helped me when we lost our month-old son, Adam. You don't ever get "over" it but you do learn to live without their presence on this earth. Life is brief and the separation will be brief. I never blamed God and I'm comforted that Adam is safe and I will see him again. As King David said about his dead son, "One day, I will go to the place where he is. But he will never come back here to me."
Much love and prayers I lost my 2 year old daughter to Cancer.
I’m so very sorry!
I lost my 22 year old son 2 years ago.. I’m so glad you hv Jesus to pull you through.. without him I couldn’t get through it
There’s no words to express to grieving parents when it comes to the loss of a child., but I read so many sweet, kind words of encouragement and hope. Whether it’s a baby or a 50 year old, Mom will grieve and not understand why. God bless all who have been part of a club no one ever wants to be. Both my sisters buried their children and their pain was very evident. Love and prayers to all who have shared their grief with you. 💔
In gratitude for having the opportunity to virtually meet BabyAbigail Joy, her Mom, Dad, & Big Sissy❣️Praising our kind, loving, merciful God❣️😇🙏🏼
I am so sorry for your loss. She will always be there for you both and her big sister Brook. ❤
I had three stillborn babies and even though I lost them in the 90's, I still think of them every single day. 😢
Praying for you all 😢I lost a grandson he was two months old ☹️But we will see these precious babies again someday Praise the Lord ❤She is a beautiful baby ❤💕😍
I know that you will see your grandson, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is.
Stay faithful...✝💔✝
My Ashley would be 15 she passed at 3 months from SIDS..From these comments it's heartbreaking because I never realized how many of us are out here living with a piece of us in Heaven.May Abigail RIP and I'm deeply sorry for y'all's loss.
I know that you will see your daughter Ashley, too. I know that will happen, and for honest reasons that would take a very long time to explain. But if we could speak together, with you examining my eyes for truth or lies, you'd know that I spoke the God's honest truth to you. Stay strong. Keep the hope and faith you have right there inside of your heart. This earthly existence is NOT all that there is. Keep the faith...✝💔✝
Thank you for sharing Abigail's story and for honoring God with your testimony. Praying for you.
I'm so sorry! No one should lose a child. The pain is the worst pain one can experience. I can't say that I know how you feel because I've lost a child too, but I can sympathize with you, because I am living with the pain of losing a child. It makes no sense, because Abigail was SO Perfect! 🙏❤️🙏
I’ve never known the loss of a child, so I can’t pretend to know what you are dealing with, but I know I can’t imagine living if I lost one of my kids. God bless you both. You will see Abigail again. She is waiting with our Father in Heaven. 🙏🥰
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm a believer also and I lost my first born in 1975 at 19 months old. I feel your pain. ❤
Sweet Abigail. She will be waiting for her family. I am so sorry for your loss.
We don't have children, but feel for you, certainly. What a little ray of love and sunshine...bless.... and cherish your daughter, your doggie children, your family and life. HEAVEN is beautiful...BLESS, Kimberly & Larry
I lost my firstborn, Emily, in the very same hospital. I have 2 beautiful biological children and 2 amazing step-daughters now, you'll never forget Abigail. She'll become part of the love you give to others.
So so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful baby Abigail is! I am sad you only got 8 days with her. Yet happy you got 8 days with her. My baby would be 31 now he died 42 minutes after birth from an unknown heart defect. Hugs just love each through it. I have 8 kids 7 here on earth and one in heaven. People want to correct me that I only have 7 kids. When I know I have 8! It is a lovely video you have done to remember Abigail.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Abigail is a beautiful soul, Thank you for sharing your story. She is in Heaven, thank you Jesus! What a beautiful promise.
I lost my Son Noah on 8/5, he was a preemie and only lived a short time in the NICU, my heart is broken. Thank you for sharing your story. May the Lord bless you and continue to heal your heart. May he bring peace and restoration.
I lost my first baby at 24 weeks. His name was Stephen. He lived exactly 3 weeks in the NICU. That was 1995. I was very lucky to go on to have 3 more sons who all share a part of his name. I will never forget that time in my life and how it's effected me since
❤ Abigail was a beautiful baby! I am so glad that she was lucky enough to have 2 wonderful parents in her life even if it was for such a short time. God must have realized her little soul was to good for this earth & called her home. My heart breaks for you all & my prayers are with you also. May God Bless & Love Abigail & her family always ❤
Your story will touch many hearts. Thank you for sharing.
I just wanted to take a moment to express my heartbreak at your loss and yet amazement in your strength as a couple , your beautiful daughters story is well received and now many people know of her gentle beauty thank you for sharing it must have been devastating and this may help others who are grieving, I send blessings and hope for you guys ❤❤
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. As a mother I can't imagine the heart crushing pain of losing my child. It's very clear how much love surrounded Abigail during her short little life. She felt the love of a lifetime in those few days. Sending you love strength peace and prayers ❤🙏
I'm so sorry for loss, my best friend lost her 10wk old to SIDS last year. It's horrific and will never forget beautiful Ella. Much love to you both, your little girl and family. RIP Abigail 💗
My heart feels your great loss. I lost my 17 yr old daughter Esther to a rare blood disorder. We had to take her off the breathing machine so she would not suffer.Their is no words to comfort parents of a loss of a child. It hurts beyond reasoning. One takes one moment at a time living. Time only helps brace again the loss. Everything in your life is a new normal. True family and friends help you and others fall away who won't understand. Hold on to each person who is there. You will need them. Just know I know your loss. God will hold you till you hold your sweet child again
Rest in peace Abigail beautiful baby girl thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time xx
This was heartbreaking to watch but how brave of you to share. Your faith shines through. God Bless
I’m so sorry for your hard and heavy loss. Abigail Joy is a precious one and her being gone must be sad beyond words. I’m glad your family shares in faith to help each of your grieve. The Lord bless each of you and sustain you always.
Keeping you in my Prayers.. Remember... Abagail is no longer on Earth, but is alive and well in Heaven. Thank you for sharing! 💕
What a beautiful testimony-through your story, Abigail is touching lives. She has touched mine and I thank you. I will face tomorrow with a little more courage. My prayers are with you and your extended family. Our Father is gracious and sent Abigail for a purpose. I truly believe that. ❤
My heart is with you. If I could hug you, I would. May God bless you and heal your hearts
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl.
I can feel your pain. Nobody should loose a child at whatever stage. I lost my little Joylene having held her for only 2 months,she had multiple holes in her heart,i am grateful thay God allowed me to be with her for those 2 months. However i mourned her for so long until one day she came to me in a dream healed and very happy,from then onwards i just miss her. We that God for allowing us be with her for that time. He makes no mistakes
So sorry about Abigail. We, also, lost a daughter. Shannon was stillborn at 37 1/2 weeks. We didn't know anything was wrong till she was born. Our sweet babies are watching over us.
We are our best selves and most vulnerable through our children. You fought for her and you both seem so brave and strong. I’m sure she’s proud of you, and grateful. I will keep Abigail in my prayers, but mostly you 2 and your family and friends. Wishing you grace and strength.
Oh my…Abigail Joy was sooooo beautiful, and I am sooooo saddened for your loss. Years ago my sister lost twins when she was 5 months along…a boy and a girl. She never did have more children. It was something she never fully got over. BUT, she too has faith in Jesus as her Savior and she KNOWS she will see them in Heaven one day. I’m happy to hear that you too are believers. God bless you!!! 💕🙏🏻💕
Aww, what a darling little girl!!! So incredibly beautiful! Words are hard to describe her beauty.
I’m so sorry for the loss of baby Abigail . I lost a baby 46 years ago , he will always be a baby in my mind . I’m just sad I didn’t get to meet him properly . He’s in my mind always .
Praying for your healing hearts. I lost my first grandson to SIDS in 1991, my second grandson in 2003 to NEC due to prematurity and in 2016, a third grandson was stillborn. Twain, Little L and Jude. I know I see them all again one day and until then this Granny will love then till then.
I lost my son the same way at 3 weeks of age in 2004 ,
I'm sending you both and your family my love and strength xoxo
She’s ok in heaven. You’ll see her again. God will heal your beautiful family.
Thank you for sharing Abigail’s story to the world😭. I pray God continues to give you peace, comfort and strength in these days. She is with Jesus. God bless your faithfulness. 🙏
Lord God protect this family as they accept that Abigail is back home with you and safe. It is extremely hard to lose a child. As a nurse in NICU many years ago I remember my parents who lost children. Thank you for creating this video. Bless you both
Thank you for sharing God's story of love and about his perfect peace in the worst storms. May He continue to bless you abundantly and fill in every gap you may feel. Sending love from Florida
She is gorgeous! That is a tough loss...thank for it for sharing her and your story with us. I'm sure other families will find it comforting that they aren't the only people trying to work through this. Each life is so precious and a gift from God. God bless you and your family. Prayers for comfort for all families. ❤