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Omgoodness, you just described the birth of my first Son. 41 years ago. On my fourth day of active labor they had to perform the c-section, it was to tuff on the babies heart. Cristina you went through regular labor AND c-section, very grueling, I was in hospital for 10 days after, it was a hard recovery. I had two more after, with recommended c-section because they couldn't guarantee that wouldn't happen again. I was told by my doctor I was "very lucky" my son survived that. All my very best to you both, it's forward from here, with new memories to be made.
What a journey with a beautiful outcome! Thank you for making the decision to share these intimate details of your lives as it helps others to understand potential outcomes as well as supporting those who have had similar experiences. Many many wishes that your lives together are filled with the understanding and love that permeates this vlog. Lovely to see that sweet little face.
I have to comment again, my dear young ones. I'm in my 7th decade and had 3 children at home. We were NEVER meant to birth alone. In better days when communities were closer and families lived nearby, Mothers, Grandmothers, Aunties and sisters all came together to help the birthing mother. They boiled the water, they placed cool rags on momma's forehead, they held her hand, they calmed her and helped her breath...and when the baby was born, they fixed meals and cleaned laundry for weeks afterwards. It takes a village. They were the midwives of the day and in service afterwards. I'm so glad you reached out. It's the natural thing to do.
@aryana I am 66 I had 4 children in hospital. I wanted to have my last child at home but the doctors said, if anything went wrong you would never forgive yourself, I was 25 at that time so that scared me. My grandmother and my mother had all their children at home, just myself and my brother was born in the hospital. They should listen to mother's and father's too.
What a beautiful couple your are and I am sure you will rare a beautiful loven adorable young man. I am so so sorry to hear of your experience. You both knew exactly what you wanted and as you said you were a team.. They gave me medication on my first child to speed up my contractions and then when I wanted to push, they made me wait for over 2 and half hour's. My little girl got really bad jaundice and was taken back into the maternity hospital, I was in an annix a good bit from the hospital. She was there for 6 day's under light's I couldn't even hold her. I only had her home and I hermitaged I received 3 pints of blood and I was I hospital for a week. O my goodness it was terrible. That little girl is 46 years old my beautiful daughter she has 2 children by c - session 🙈🙈 it was so traumatic for her. I would not allow them give me any medication on my other 3 children. There is lots of good dulla/ midwife that come to your home and look after you through out your whole pregnancy. As your husband said the woman should not have to leave her home, they should come to her and there is dullas that does. The best of luck, you beautiful family 👍😉🇨🇮☘️Eire /Ireland
Today at least where I live. There are communities that when there is a new baby for a family, all the community is cooking and helping them. and I cooked for already 2 new families, and I think it is not so common in the cities. is it?
Yes!! I would go to the ends of the earth to help care for my grand baby if I am ever so blessed. My adult children know they can always count on me! Im turning 54 soon so getting anxious for it to happen! 🥹🙏💙
Things are different in Sweden. Just for your understanding - most of the grandparents prioritize they own needs, don’t help with kids and that’s probably why most of them end up in the elderly home 😢 from a point when somebody dies to a funeral, it can take several months until everybody’s schedule match and the family can reunite and burry the one who died. This happens again because of prioritization. It’s wild for me as I come from a country with strong family values. But Swedes think that it’s totally ok that they parents don’t help out with kids, that they end up in an elderly home and that it takes months to burry them afterwards.
My birth went the same way but I don’t have bad feelings or bad memories I chose not to…because I have my beautiful daughter and that’s the point…you have your beautiful baby the rest is history look forward I wish you all the happiness…
I'll tell you what... the love you guys have for each other is what made me cry watching this. You are very blessed to have each other and your beautiful son is lucky to have you.
Calling your mom was so very wise.This made me weep. I am so grateful you all came through this to be rewarded with such a beautiful boy. It takes a village.
Ohh I cried so many times watching this. Thank you with all my heart Kalle and Christine for sharing your journey, both the ups and the downs, so openly with us ❤ This so was so beautiful in every single way!
Oh...as mum of twins, I went thrue c-section too...totally understand you guys. Your story is so touching. Christine is such a fighter!!! Wish you all the best. I cried with you almost the whole video.
The emotion you showed when describing your Mom taking the train to be with all of you was lovely. As a Grandma I can tell you, there is no place on earth your Mom would have rather been than right there with you, Christine, and August!!!
If everything goes well I’ll become a grandmother in january❤️🔥 I really hope mu son and daughter-in-law understand they do not have to do it all alone and they will ask for help or except help from “the village that is needed to raise a child”. I hope i can be there especially in the first 40 days to support them . On mondays I will take care if they start working again, but I do hope I can be support in the important 40 days after birth too🤞 I was very emotional seeing your video ( I had 3 good home births), because I knew this could have happened to me… and I can imagine how you must have felt. But life does not always goes as you intend. I’m happy mom and the baby are healthy, you got the help you needed and you have some unexpected experiences that are treasures too. And I feel love ❤️🔥
I don’t think people realized how intense and serious a cesarean birth is. Thank you for sharing your experience. Blessings for your baby and family. 🫶
I had a scheduled c-section because my son was breeched due to having a heart shape uterus. I was so scared even though i was preparing for it a head of time incase my son wouldn't turn. I wanted a natural delivery so bad because i didn't want surgery. I can't imagine the pain and uncertainty of it all you both must have been feeling having a c-section after 4 days in labor. I couldn't hold my son for 2 hours because i was puking so much. I felt so horrible because i felt that my baby needed me. My husband did the skin on skin contact while holding our son up to me so my son knew momma was with him to. Having a baby is the biggest blessing you can ever have. It's beautiful, scary and rewarding all at the same time. Women are super heros❤
42 years ago everything went wrong for me and I had a long labour then an emergency c section under a general anaesthetic, my partner wasn’t allowed to be there and my son was whisked off to the special baby unit. He was 5 hours old before I saw him and it still upsets me to think about it so I know how devastated you felt. But I can also tell you that he is now a healthy, happy father of 2 and I went on to have a second child 2 years later who was delivered normally so one C section doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have a better experience in the future. This video was so full of love and we all send our love back to you.❤
Many of us do not get the birth experience we planned for or wanted. I’m so glad that you have been able to find sweet memorable moments in the midst of it. I bet your mom was very honored to be able to help you. What a sweet baby you have! I also had to recover from laboring and a C-section. I think I was tired for 9 months!!! Enjoy your little family! I’m glad every thing was good in the end.
Beautiful family and birth he's perfect,i cried because i lost my only pregnancy and i wanted a birth just like this,im now 70 with 4 adopted children and perfect grand children all grown up,but i still cry when i see these stories.
As a midwife of many, many years, all I can say is that first births are just SO unpredictable regardless of how well-prepared you are. I'm just so delighted that you have such a happy, healthy wee boy who you are both so in love with. He couldn't have a better start in life. Bless you all xx
I have just found you two. I find your videos to be so peaceful that they calm me. Thank you for that. When I replay the emergency c section that I had to have because the cord was wrapped around my baby's neck 3x, I am humbled by the reality that we both could have died. Many c sections are performed today out of convenience, but for those of us who really had no choice,and the outcome is both mother and baby are alive, the surgery is a blessing. Of course I didn't want it to end up that way,but I'm glad to be living in a time when our lives could be spared. I praise the Most High יהוה for his mercy. I went on to have 3 more c sections (they wouldn't let me try natural delivery), and although I do feel like I missed out on the natural experience with them,I'm fully aware that none of them would be here if it weren't for that first life saving c section.
I had two “gentle” “family centered” csections in Southern California. They laid my babies on my chest and they nursed while I was stitched up. Once I was closed, they transferred me to another bed with my babies in my arms and they went to recovery with me. We were never separated. I’m grateful for my experiences.
Hello and so THRILLED you have that precious baby! I am a Registered Nurse for almost 46 years and we always are looking out for the safety of both mother and baby and being in active labor that long is not good. Thank God, all turned out well. One day when your son is 16 years old and he’s giving you both a hard time, you can tell him how he owes you! I did that with my son who kept me in labor for 3 days! You have been tested as a couple and have surpassed your own expectations. Congratulations again! You are truly Blessed. And he’s a big boy!!!
You are so wise to include your little one only minimally as a “You Tuber”, so respectful of his privacy as he grows older. What an amazing vlog to share your experience, your love, your wisdom. Much love!
It must be hard to share something so personal and intimate on RUclips. Thank you for doing it anyway, for being open and vulnerable, as I find so much value in that ❤
This was so emotional. Christine is a total warrior and did everything she was supposed to do. August is totally gorgeous but you’re right, please protect him from the internet and all the surveillance and weirdos. You just all radiate love. Love and prayers to you ❤️
When I had my son 50 years ago, I only thought about what would be best for my baby. After 24 hours without dilation I had a c-section. I am thankful I was with highly trained doctors and nurses who knew when to do the surgery so I had a healthy son.
I love the gentleness you both have, so touching to see your emotions, your tears. Your son is adorable. Thank you for sharing your birth story and your beautiful hearts all in your time, when it felt right for both of you. Much love precious, August. ♥
You both moved through your birth experience with such love and grace for each other and your son . Hes beautiful. I'm so happy for you both . Congratulations
Your baby son, August is so very precious. He sure is handsome. You’ve been through so much within your pregnancy, labor and delivery. Truly, both of you have become beautiful parents. Your little family is now flourishing as you’ve dreamt it would. Kalle, your Mother coming to help and care for all of you was such a blessing. Family is everything. Enjoy all your moments, together. Your girls are pretty sweet to see as they meet August. Thank you for sharing your life and your home with us. Congratulations from Las Vegas, Nevada USA
What an ordeal... but that first cheek against cheek! 💞 ...and the reunion with the girls! 🥰 And August is so cute! 🩵😍 Congratulations and all the best for all ❤️
Congratulations on the arrival of a beautiful baby boy. I'm sorry his beginning did not go as planned and that you were traumatized. I wish for you to be able to recover completely from a rough beginning. I wish you joy and pride.
Hey guys, just wanted to tell yoi thay Christine is the sweetest and strongest viking mom that we can imagine! 🤍🤍🤍 We are really proud of you both because raising a human is the toughest challenge in life but you guys nailed it! You rock! Wish you all best in life and forever healthy, happy family 🙏☺️🍀🤍
What a birth, I was crying with you. I'm a 63yr old woman who gave birth to 3 children. My labours were 5.5 - 6hrs long, I can't imagine 4 days!!! It's so amazing how a woman can forget all the pain and suffering after having her child. He looks like a beautiful healthy baby, congratulations!!❤
I'm new to your channel. I'm 45. I'm a mom of 3. My husband and I have a 20 year old son, 18 year old daughter, and 15 year old son. They are a blessing! Congratulations on your handsome little boy!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Beautiful boy! August is perfect! I'm in complete agreement with another poster that said childbirth was meant for the entire family. Aunties and uncles all came together to share in the preparation for the wee one, to welcome them into the world, their family. Aa much as man believes he has evolved, some things were better left untouched. You can't improve on love. And you only get one shot at life, at raising your beautiful boy, make every day count. Tomorrow you will look around and he's graduating high school and a life of his own. We eventually leave this world taking only two things: our love and our memories ~ make lots of both! Blessings to your precious family. Florida, USA ❤🙏
I was glued to the screen, smiling and crying with you. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability and authenticity in sharing this. CONGRATULATIONS to your wonderful family (including your mum, Kalle, your friends who looked after the dogs, etc.) for being such an amazing team!! 🤍
I just have to say hurray!! 🥰🥰 Hurray for Christine’s strength and resilience, hurray for Kalle’s unwavering support, and hurray for Kalle’s mom for just being an AWESOME MOM!! ❤❤
Now i understand that you are in Denmark. My parents immigrated to Canada from Denmark when they were pregnant with me but I love to see you living and loving family life in Denmark!! I feel the connection ! Blessings from Vancouver Island BC Canada !
I cried so hard during this. My birthing experience was very horrific and to hear that someone else's didn't go as their plans...makes my heart hurt bc I know that feeling. And the PURE exhaustion that words cannot even express after having an exordinarily hard labor. 🙏🏽 You are blessed and so is the baby. The world is not perfect but we make do the best we can. Your gentle voices and positive outlook are cherished. What a brave warrior of a woman you are. You all have done so well.
Same here I went through such a horrible birth and none of my wishes were met and then the bond with my baby was not there and I had severe postpartum depression and having nearly died during the birth it was just all too much but I'm so glad Christine got to have that 1 moment with her son and that Kalle was by her side as I was unfortunately without my husband due to him being not allowed to come to my country, but my mother was there and I am so grateful for her.
@Americanmapping44 birthing can be extremely traumatic. The thing I love about this video is their focus on the positivity while still acknowledging the pain but not letting it consume. It is a hard thing.
You did the most you could for your son to be born the way you wanted. But even it wasn't easy, he is here. Healthy, with loving family around. It is NOT your fault, he has that rought start. You are the best parents for him. Congratulation, he is sweet little guy and wish you all the best. ❤ And big shout out for Kristina. You are a warior.
You went through so much. 😢❤🌸🌻🌞 you are such beautiful people. It was so absolutely heartwarming to see the doggies greet you. Your son August is so precious. He looks like daddy’s boy.
I understand if your mindset was a natural home birth and it ended as a c section and 4 days of labor, it is traumatizing. Keep in mind he is alive, Kristina is alive. A birth can never be predicted. The love you give as parents to your beautiful son is all that matters even though you couldn’t cuddle him right after the birth and wasn’t able to breast feed him right away. The fact you do this now is all that counts and I am sure he will grow up as a happy child with parents like you are. ❤ Love from a mom from the Netherlands ❤
So important to have realistic expectations - and just be thankful that medical help is there when needed. Too many young people are set up for the myth of these 'natural' births and are then more traumatised when things don't go according to their plan.
Wow. I resonate so much with your story. My water broke at 36 weeks gestation. I never progressed past 4cm despite hours and hours of pitocin and an epidural. I had very much wanted a natural unmedicated birth, but ended up with a C-section. It was terrifying. It took me many years to get over the disappointment of what was essentially a traumatic birth. They kept him away from us for observation for 15 hours and they fed him formula. I was so upset. My boy is a healthy, amazing 14 year old today. I'm so grateful he's here and healthy. We have such a beautiful life and family. Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby boy!!!
I don't know you, have never before watched your channel. Your story was so beautifully told. Watching you together as a couple, your comforting touches, squeezes, and support for one another is inspiring. As a midwife for thirty years, I have been astounded in the last three years or so to see so many traumatic births, miscarriages, etc. Things are not as they were ten years ago.
I'm so glad that your baby is okay and beautiful. I had a lot of problems when my son was born; my placenta had ruptured about a week before he was born and then when I went into labor, they didn't do anything about it, I had to push for about two hours; he wasn't alive when I had him; they had to bring him back, but he lived and he was determined to be here; he's in a wheelchair, he has cerebral palsy, but what a beautiful man he's become. He's 39 years old now and lives on his own with help and we're just so proud of him. He's such a caring soul and he's been such a gift and joy. Sending beautiful thoughts to you both; I'm glad everything is going so well now. August is such a beautiful baby!! (from Sandi)
Hi Kalle, Christine & beautiful baby boy!! He’s getting so big!! Thanks for sharing this special time in your lives with us!! Blessings to you all!!😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏
being a very practical minded person, i think that whatever is needed to get mother and child through the birthing process alive and healthy has priority over anything else. let's just be thankful we nowadays have access to the medical help needed to have that even happen, something our ancestresses sadly did not have. going in with that accepting mindset and a willingness to let go of heartfelt plans might make the process easier with less risk to mother and baby.
I agree. My Swedish great great grandmother died at age 27, 3 days after giving birth to my great grandmother. They did not have access to a hospital. This was a tragedy with negative consequences for generations in my family. Health and safety are paramount during child birth.
I agree too. I have 3 children and 2 of them are differently special. I didn’t care what my birth plan was I just wanted an alive baby. Try to enjoy your normal baby. You are lucky to have a normal healthy baby.
Thsnk u for sharing ur adventure! It made me cry too. U made it through...heavens must have love u deeply. One day, when ur Son is old enough.u have a story to share. He has a story to share too! God bless u and family!
Listening to you both brings me back to my firstborn… I had to have a C section… I will never forget the pain of the surgery and how incapacitated I was… it is so beautiful to see the love you both share together, the communication and loving nurturing that you now share with August,your beautiful son. Wishing you all the best in your new journey of Parenting.
I am so sorry you had to go through such a tough time in childbirth. It is heartbreaking to see you struggle and suffer once again but thank God you reached out and got some much needed help and love from his grandma. (Us grandma’s are so willing and ready to help wherever we can!) plus it helps us to bond with them too! Congratulations and welcome to the world baby August! May God’s blessings be on you all the days of your life!
🦊 Mercy that y’all had to endure such difficulties of birth. Kalles compassion is priceless and, placing Baby cheek to cheek with Mommy was the sweetest thing ever! Congratulations, August is beautiful!
Oh my, I hope talking about this brings you some peace. I’m so sorry. My first birth didn’t go how I imagined either, but yours is on another level. I’m so glad you got help from family and I’m so happy you’re all healthy now. ❤ he’s beautiful!
Oh my gosh! August is so handsome!!!! I see Kellen in his face. Thank you for sharing his birth story with us. I cried the entire time! So beautiful yet so heartbreaking! I am so thankful that Christine is home safe and is healthy! Enjoy this time with him! They grow up so fast!
I watched this and the love between you and the strenght it is amazing. So strong and so vunerable... the part your mum came over.... tears all over. Wishing you all the luck and health in the world. Lots of love.
My heart, love, and deep deep compassion goes to you and Christine 🧡 Everything that you're feeling and experiencing is so valid and understandable. Christine, I hope you know, truly, that you did not fail in any way. Thank you for sharing your story, clearly from the comments, this is medicine for people to know that they are not alone. Huge CONGRATULATIONS you two, may you continue to find healing from this experience and such love with each other. Sending love 💕
What a beautiful boy... ❤ I teared up right along with you both. I'm glad that painful time has passed. You can now enjoy your August... and the wonderful life you share! Congratulations to you both! ❤❤❤❤❤ (A heart for each of you... including the pups of course!)
OMG, I was crying! What a story, fortunately with a happy ending. Thank you for sharing this difficult, vulnerable, yet wondrous and honest story. You guys are each other's rock! Your son is lucky to have you as parents!
Your mother, Kalle, must have been thrilled to get ur call to learn that you needed her! A mother's dream! Thank you so much for sharing ur beautifully emotional testimony of ur baby's biirth! Ur both so incredibly strong (Christina, ur amazing) and cutie pie August is the gift u both worked so hard to bring into this world!! Many blessings to you and ur adorable little family! ❤
Another here who cried watching this beautiful video. I really felt both your emotions. Thank you for sharing your story and your gorgeous son August. Totally understand you wanting to protect his privacy and feel honoured we got that wonderful view of him. Wishing you both all the best from Central Scotland ❤
It is a blessing when you have a family, who is so loyal, confident (lot of people do not help you because they do not simply feel up to it) and willing to help you in times of need. I am really happy for you ;). Say hello to your mother ;).
You both are wonderful parents to this very beautiful child! I had to stop the video more than a few times to wipe away tears. I love his name - August. ❤
In 1979 I was 17 and had been in labor from Thursday at daybreak and I had only dialated to 2 1/2 centimeters in four days. They finally sent me to x-ray and an elderly lady was my tech. She made me get on my hands and knees and I contracted that way for a good 15 minutes. After that I had my baby in 4 hours. Her head had been stuck in my tailbone as she was face up. So whatever plans you make each birth is completely different. So happy all ended well❤
Dear ones, I am so sorry that everything turned out differently than you had hoped. But all that matters is that you got through it and your little boy is healthy! It wasn't easy for me to hear your story because I had almost exactly the same birth with my first child - including a terrible midwife. I can understand your thoughts and feelings - especially Christine's. You are such a strong team! All the best to you and your wonderful little family. ❤
I’ve experienced 2 cesareans and I’m so glad I found your channel and to hear your story… congratulations to you and your family! Your channel inspires me
Wow, you both have been through so much. But your bravery, determination and love for each other shines from you. You can tell how much you love one another and although it was very traumatic, you have each other and your sweet boy. I know you already know this but I loved listening to your story. Bless you both and your baby.❤❤❤❤❤
Gorgeous baby boy thank you for sharing. I have five children, two at hospital, two at home, one in a birth centre - so I can compare those experiences for myself. Each birth is different and I truly feel for you going through the loss of the birth you wanted - it is beyond tough. Speaking just for myself - a home birth is a glorious thing. My favourite births. Yet sometimes circumstances dictate something else. You have your gorgeous son and each other - and a bright future ahead, you are so young and vital. Much goodness awaits. God bless you and your sweet family. X
I couldn’t and can’t stop crying seeing your beautiful baby boy and the strength you have had to endure Christine throughout your labour and after giving birth! God bless you both with the most beautiful little boy. Shower him and each other with boundless love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It's an emotional event and its ok to share your feelings. Thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes the birth is not what you expect or envision. My son is now 48 yo and when he was born, I did all the hard work up to delivery and was put to sleep at the end prior to my vaginal delivery! I completely missed the birth of my son, my one and only child. So I definitely understand your disappointment. You are blessed with a beautiful, healthy boy that will bring you a lifetime of joy. ❤
What a beautiful baby! The two of you went through one of the most difficult deliveries I have ever heard of. Christine, the term warrior pales as to what you really are. So strong, both of you. Love each other and enjoy your new August.
We’re sharing this video because we believe in being open and honest with all of you ❤ And talking about this is of course also part of our healing process, and we hope it resonates with you. Thanks for being here with us 😊❤
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I absolutely love your openness and honesty. Thank you Christine and Kalle.
Omgoodness, you just described the birth of my first Son. 41 years ago. On my fourth day of active labor they had to perform the c-section, it was to tuff on the babies heart. Cristina you went through regular labor AND c-section, very grueling, I was in hospital for 10 days after, it was a hard recovery. I had two more after, with recommended c-section because they couldn't guarantee that wouldn't happen again. I was told by my doctor I was "very lucky" my son survived that. All my very best to you both, it's forward from here, with new memories to be made.
Thank you for sharing ❤
What a journey with a beautiful outcome! Thank you for making the decision to share these intimate details of your lives as it helps others to understand potential outcomes as well as supporting those who have had similar experiences. Many many wishes that your lives together are filled with the understanding and love that permeates this vlog. Lovely to see that sweet little face.
I have to comment again, my dear young ones. I'm in my 7th decade and had 3 children at home. We were NEVER meant to birth alone. In better days when communities were closer and families lived nearby, Mothers, Grandmothers, Aunties and sisters all came together to help the birthing mother. They boiled the water, they placed cool rags on momma's forehead, they held her hand, they calmed her and helped her breath...and when the baby was born, they fixed meals and cleaned laundry for weeks afterwards. It takes a village. They were the midwives of the day and in service afterwards. I'm so glad you reached out. It's the natural thing to do.
Mother is always love involving bond.You shouldn't show your little treasure on camera.respect his privacy.
@aryana I am 66 I had 4 children in hospital. I wanted to have my last child at home but the doctors said, if anything went wrong you would never forgive yourself, I was 25 at that time so that scared me. My grandmother and my mother had all their children at home, just myself and my brother was born in the hospital. They should listen to mother's and father's too.
What a beautiful couple your are and I am sure you will rare a beautiful loven adorable young man. I am so so sorry to hear of your experience.
You both knew exactly what you wanted and as you said you were a team..
They gave me medication on my first child to speed up my contractions and then when I wanted to push, they made me wait for over 2 and half hour's. My little girl got really bad jaundice and was taken back into the maternity hospital, I was in an annix a good bit from the hospital. She was there for 6 day's under light's I couldn't even hold her. I only had her home and I hermitaged I received 3 pints of blood and I was I hospital for a week. O my goodness it was terrible. That little girl is 46 years old my beautiful daughter she has 2 children by c - session 🙈🙈 it was so traumatic for her.
I would not allow them give me any medication on my other 3 children.
There is lots of good dulla/ midwife that come to your home and look after you through out your whole pregnancy. As your husband said the woman should not have to leave her home, they should come to her and there is dullas that does.
The best of luck, you beautiful family
👍😉🇨🇮☘️Eire /Ireland
Today at least where I live. There are communities that when there is a new baby for a family, all the community is cooking and helping them. and I cooked for already 2 new families, and I think it is not so common in the cities. is it?
How sweet 🙏🏼 I never had that and I became severely sick because of not having any help, just my husband but we know when need more than that.
As a 76 year old mom, I will tell you that your moms are glad to be called. I've flown across the USA to take care of a newborn grandchild.
My mom was too busy when I asked for help. You are a gift to those you help. God bless you!
I have too. ❤
Yes!! I would go to the ends of the earth to help care for my grand baby if I am ever so blessed. My adult children know they can always count on me! Im turning 54 soon so getting anxious for it to happen! 🥹🙏💙
My mother is a narcissist, so she was not available.. but better that she was away..
Things are different in Sweden. Just for your understanding - most of the grandparents prioritize they own needs, don’t help with kids and that’s probably why most of them end up in the elderly home 😢 from a point when somebody dies to a funeral, it can take several months until everybody’s schedule match and the family can reunite and burry the one who died. This happens again because of prioritization.
It’s wild for me as I come from a country with strong family values. But Swedes think that it’s totally ok that they parents don’t help out with kids, that they end up in an elderly home and that it takes months to burry them afterwards.
31 years ago my first birth went the same way as yours and now I can cry for the first time. For you but also for myself and my son
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My birth went the same way but I don’t have bad feelings or bad memories I chose not to…because I have my beautiful daughter and that’s the point…you have your beautiful baby the rest is history look forward I wish you all the happiness…
I'll tell you what... the love you guys have for each other is what made me cry watching this. You are very blessed to have each other and your beautiful son is lucky to have you.
That's sweet of you to say ❤ It's truly amazing how something so tough like this can bring you even closer together ❤
Calling your mom was so very wise.This made me weep. I am so grateful you all came through this to be rewarded with such a beautiful boy. It takes a village.
Ohh I cried so many times watching this. Thank you with all my heart Kalle and Christine for sharing your journey, both the ups and the downs, so openly with us ❤
This so was so beautiful in every single way!
Aw, thank you for taking the time to watch it Jonna! I'm so happy it resonated with you ❤️
Sending hugs!
Oh...as mum of twins, I went thrue c-section too...totally understand you guys. Your story is so touching. Christine is such a fighter!!! Wish you all the best. I cried with you almost the whole video.
The emotion you showed when describing your Mom taking the train to be with all of you was lovely. As a Grandma I can tell you, there is no place on earth your Mom would have rather been than right there with you, Christine, and August!!!
Agree🎉🎉🎉❤
If everything goes well I’ll become a grandmother in january❤️🔥 I really hope mu son and daughter-in-law understand they do not have to do it all alone and they will ask for help or except help from “the village that is needed to raise a child”. I hope i can be there especially in the first 40 days to support them . On mondays I will take care if they start working again, but I do hope I can be support in the important 40 days after birth too🤞 I was very emotional seeing your video ( I had 3 good home births), because I knew this could have happened to me… and I can imagine how you must have felt. But life does not always goes as you intend. I’m happy mom and the baby are healthy, you got the help you needed and you have some unexpected experiences that are treasures too. And I feel love ❤️🔥
I don’t think people realized how intense and serious a cesarean birth is. Thank you for sharing your experience. Blessings for your baby and family. 🫶
I had a scheduled c-section because my son was breeched due to having a heart shape uterus. I was so scared even though i was preparing for it a head of time incase my son wouldn't turn. I wanted a natural delivery so bad because i didn't want surgery. I can't imagine the pain and uncertainty of it all you both must have been feeling having a c-section after 4 days in labor.
I couldn't hold my son for 2 hours because i was puking so much. I felt so horrible because i felt that my baby needed me. My husband did the skin on skin contact while holding our son up to me so my son knew momma was with him to.
Having a baby is the biggest blessing you can ever have. It's beautiful, scary and rewarding all at the same time.
Women are super heros❤
42 years ago everything went wrong for me and I had a long labour then an emergency c section under a general anaesthetic, my partner wasn’t allowed to be there and my son was whisked off to the special baby unit. He was 5 hours old before I saw him and it still upsets me to think about it so I know how devastated you felt.
But I can also tell you that he is now a healthy, happy father of 2 and I went on to have a second child 2 years later who was delivered normally so one C section doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have a better experience in the future.
This video was so full of love and we all send our love back to you.❤
If only all humans were this gentle with one another. You two, now three, are beautiful! ❤️ Thank God for Moms
Many of us do not get the birth experience we planned for or wanted. I’m so glad that you have been able to find sweet memorable moments in the midst of it. I bet your mom was very honored to be able to help you.
What a sweet baby you have!
I also had to recover from laboring and a C-section. I think I was tired for 9 months!!! Enjoy your little family! I’m glad every thing was good in the end.
Beautiful family and birth he's perfect,i cried because i lost my only pregnancy and i wanted a birth just like this,im now 70 with 4 adopted children and perfect grand children all grown up,but i still cry when i see these stories.
As a midwife of many, many years, all I can say is that first births are just SO unpredictable regardless of how well-prepared you are. I'm just so delighted that you have such a happy, healthy wee boy who you are both so in love with. He couldn't have a better start in life. Bless you all xx
I have just found you two. I find your videos to be so peaceful that they calm me. Thank you for that. When I replay the emergency c section that I had to have because the cord was wrapped around my baby's neck 3x, I am humbled by the reality that we both could have died. Many c sections are performed today out of convenience, but for those of us who really had no choice,and the outcome is both mother and baby are alive, the surgery is a blessing. Of course I didn't want it to end up that way,but I'm glad to be living in a time when our lives could be spared. I praise the Most High יהוה for his mercy. I went on to have 3 more c sections (they wouldn't let me try natural delivery), and although I do feel like I missed out on the natural experience with them,I'm fully aware that none of them would be here if it weren't for that first life saving c section.
I had two “gentle” “family centered” csections in Southern California. They laid my babies on my chest and they nursed while I was stitched up. Once I was closed, they transferred me to another bed with my babies in my arms and they went to recovery with me. We were never separated. I’m grateful for my experiences.
you had a twin ? wonderful you had that luck. I was super lucky too. First day other rules now the baby was not separated from the mother at night.
Hello and so THRILLED you have that precious baby! I am a Registered Nurse for almost 46 years and we always are looking out for the safety of both mother and baby and being in active labor that long is not good. Thank God, all turned out well. One day when your son is 16 years old and he’s giving you both a hard time, you can tell him how he owes you! I did that with my son who kept me in labor for 3 days! You have been tested as a couple and have surpassed your own expectations. Congratulations again! You are truly Blessed. And he’s a big boy!!!
Three days!
Three days is too long!
Beautiful story🪷🌷🌺🌹
Little August is lucky to have such loving parents. Congratulations 🎉
You are so wise to include your little one only minimally as a “You Tuber”, so respectful of his privacy as he grows older. What an amazing vlog to share your experience, your love, your wisdom. Much love!
It must be hard to share something so personal and intimate on RUclips. Thank you for doing it anyway, for being open and vulnerable, as I find so much value in that ❤
It's actually both really scary and a privilege, to have a community being so supportive when you share something like this ❤
This was so emotional. Christine is a total warrior and did everything she was supposed to do. August is totally gorgeous but you’re right, please protect him from the internet and all the surveillance and weirdos. You just all radiate love. Love and prayers to you ❤️
When I had my son 50 years ago, I only thought about what would be best for my baby. After 24 hours without dilation I had a c-section. I am thankful I was with highly trained doctors and nurses who knew when to do the surgery so I had a healthy son.
I love the gentleness you both have, so touching to see your emotions, your tears. Your son is adorable. Thank you for sharing your birth story and your beautiful hearts all in your time, when it felt right for both of you. Much love precious, August. ♥
It made me cry with the scene where Kalle put him cheeky to cheek.
So brave all three of you!❤
Yes, that is so powerful moment. I guess there was some personnel to help it to be in camera?
You both moved through your birth experience with such love and grace for each other and your son . Hes beautiful. I'm so happy for you both . Congratulations
Your baby son, August is so very precious. He sure is handsome. You’ve been through so much within your pregnancy, labor and delivery. Truly, both of you have become beautiful parents. Your little family is now flourishing as you’ve dreamt it would. Kalle, your Mother coming to help and care for all of you was such a blessing. Family is everything. Enjoy all your moments, together. Your girls are pretty sweet to see as they meet August. Thank you for sharing your life and your home with us. Congratulations from Las Vegas, Nevada USA
What an ordeal... but that first cheek against cheek! 💞 ...and the reunion with the girls! 🥰 And August is so cute! 🩵😍 Congratulations and all the best for all ❤️
He is beautiful, and he has been given to wonderful parents. Bless you all.
Christine is SO beautiful this autumn. I'm so happy that she has recovered
Congratulations on the arrival of a beautiful baby boy. I'm sorry his beginning did not go as planned and that you were traumatized. I wish for you to be able to recover completely from a rough beginning. I wish you joy and pride.
Welcome August! May your life be filled with joy, health, and great adventures.
Hey guys, just wanted to tell yoi thay Christine is the sweetest and strongest viking mom that we can imagine! 🤍🤍🤍 We are really proud of you both because raising a human is the toughest challenge in life but you guys nailed it! You rock! Wish you all best in life and forever healthy, happy family 🙏☺️🍀🤍
What a birth, I was crying with you. I'm a 63yr old woman who gave birth to 3 children. My labours were 5.5 - 6hrs long, I can't imagine 4 days!!!
It's so amazing how a woman can forget all the pain and suffering after having her child.
He looks like a beautiful healthy baby, congratulations!!❤
I never forgot and did not have more babies as much as I loved my son.
Oh my goodness. You poor things. What an experience. I wish you and your family all the best, happiness and healing. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm new to your channel. I'm 45. I'm a mom of 3. My husband and I have a 20 year old son, 18 year old daughter, and 15 year old son. They are a blessing!
Congratulations on your handsome little boy!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Beautiful boy! August is perfect! I'm in complete agreement with another poster that said childbirth was meant for the entire family. Aunties and uncles all came together to share in the preparation for the wee one, to welcome them into the world, their family. Aa much as man believes he has evolved, some things were better left untouched. You can't improve on love. And you only get one shot at life, at raising your beautiful boy, make every day count. Tomorrow you will look around and he's graduating high school and a life of his own.
We eventually leave this world taking only two things: our love and our memories ~ make lots of both! Blessings to your precious family.
Florida, USA ❤🙏
I was glued to the screen, smiling and crying with you. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability and authenticity in sharing this. CONGRATULATIONS to your wonderful family (including your mum, Kalle, your friends who looked after the dogs, etc.) for being such an amazing team!! 🤍
I just have to say hurray!! 🥰🥰 Hurray for Christine’s strength and resilience, hurray for Kalle’s unwavering support, and hurray for Kalle’s mom for just being an AWESOME MOM!! ❤❤
Now i understand that you are in Denmark. My parents immigrated to
Canada from Denmark when they were pregnant with me but I love to see you living and loving family life in Denmark!! I feel the connection ! Blessings from
Vancouver Island BC Canada !
I cried so hard during this. My birthing experience was very horrific and to hear that someone else's didn't go as their plans...makes my heart hurt bc I know that feeling. And the PURE exhaustion that words cannot even express after having an exordinarily hard labor.
🙏🏽 You are blessed and so is the baby. The world is not perfect but we make do the best we can.
Your gentle voices and positive outlook are cherished.
What a brave warrior of a woman you are. You all have done so well.
Same here I went through such a horrible birth and none of my wishes were met and then the bond with my baby was not there and I had severe postpartum depression and having nearly died during the birth it was just all too much but I'm so glad Christine got to have that 1 moment with her son and that Kalle was by her side as I was unfortunately without my husband due to him being not allowed to come to my country, but my mother was there and I am so grateful for her.
@Americanmapping44 birthing can be extremely traumatic. The thing I love about this video is their focus on the positivity while still acknowledging the pain but not letting it consume. It is a hard thing.
You did the most you could for your son to be born the way you wanted. But even it wasn't easy, he is here. Healthy, with loving family around. It is NOT your fault, he has that rought start. You are the best parents for him. Congratulation, he is sweet little guy and wish you all the best. ❤ And big shout out for Kristina. You are a warior.
It takes a family to help! How wonderful! Cheek to cheek and the soothing was beautiful! What a precious family!
Such a beautiful baby boy! Christine you are glowing, Kalle you are also! Congrats!!! This is one lucky boy to have you two as his parents!
You went through so much. 😢❤🌸🌻🌞 you are such beautiful people. It was so absolutely heartwarming to see the doggies greet you. Your son August is so precious. He looks like daddy’s boy.
I understand if your mindset was a natural home birth and it ended as a c section and 4 days of labor, it is traumatizing. Keep in mind he is alive, Kristina is alive.
A birth can never be predicted. The love you give as parents to your beautiful son is all that matters even though you couldn’t cuddle him right after the birth and wasn’t able to breast feed him right away. The fact you do this now is all that counts and I am sure he will grow up as a happy child with parents like you are. ❤
Love from a mom from the Netherlands ❤
So important to have realistic expectations - and just be thankful that medical help is there when needed. Too many young people are set up for the myth of these 'natural' births and are then more traumatised when things don't go according to their plan.
Wow. I resonate so much with your story. My water broke at 36 weeks gestation. I never progressed past 4cm despite hours and hours of pitocin and an epidural. I had very much wanted a natural unmedicated birth, but ended up with a C-section. It was terrifying. It took me many years to get over the disappointment of what was essentially a traumatic birth. They kept him away from us for observation for 15 hours and they fed him formula. I was so upset. My boy is a healthy, amazing 14 year old today. I'm so grateful he's here and healthy. We have such a beautiful life and family. Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby boy!!!
Awww I had tears rolling down my face. He’s absolutely gorgeous and so happy you’re enjoying being parents. Love to you all and see you soon xxx ❤
Thank you Rob, hope to see you soon 🥰❤
I don't know you, have never before watched your channel. Your story was so beautifully told. Watching you together as a couple, your comforting touches, squeezes, and support for one another is inspiring.
As a midwife for thirty years, I have been astounded in the last three years or so to see so many traumatic births, miscarriages, etc. Things are not as they were ten years ago.
I'm so glad that your baby is okay and beautiful. I had a lot of problems when my son was born; my placenta had ruptured about a week before he was born and then when I went into labor, they didn't do anything about it, I had to push for about two hours; he wasn't alive when I had him; they had to bring him back, but he lived and he was determined to be here; he's in a wheelchair, he has cerebral palsy, but what a beautiful man he's become. He's 39 years old now and lives on his own with help and we're just so proud of him. He's such a caring soul and he's been such a gift and joy. Sending beautiful thoughts to you both; I'm glad everything is going so well now. August is such a beautiful baby!! (from Sandi)
Hi Kalle, Christine & beautiful baby boy!! He’s getting so big!! Thanks for sharing this special time in your lives with us!! Blessings to you all!!😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏
being a very practical minded person, i think that whatever is needed to get mother and child through the birthing process alive and healthy has priority over anything else. let's just be thankful we nowadays have access to the medical help needed to have that even happen, something our ancestresses sadly did not have. going in with that accepting mindset and a willingness to let go of heartfelt plans might make the process easier with less risk to mother and baby.
I agree. My Swedish great great grandmother died at age 27, 3 days after giving birth to my great grandmother. They did not have access to a hospital. This was a tragedy with negative consequences for generations in my family. Health and safety are paramount during child birth.
I agree too. I have 3 children and 2 of them are differently special. I didn’t care what my birth plan was I just wanted an alive baby. Try to enjoy your normal baby. You are lucky to have a normal healthy baby.
Thsnk u for sharing ur adventure! It made me cry too.
U made it through...heavens must have love u deeply.
One day, when ur Son is old enough.u have a story to share. He has a story to share too!
God bless u and family!
Welcome to the world August!
Listening to you both brings me back to my firstborn… I had to have a C section… I will never forget the pain of the surgery and how incapacitated I was… it is so beautiful to see the love you both share together, the communication and loving nurturing that you now share with August,your beautiful son. Wishing you all the best in your new journey of Parenting.
I am so sorry you had to go through such a tough time in childbirth. It is heartbreaking to see you struggle and suffer once again but thank God you reached out and got some much needed help and love from his grandma. (Us grandma’s are so willing and ready to help wherever we can!) plus it helps us to bond with them too! Congratulations and welcome to the world baby August! May God’s blessings be on you all the days of your life!
I think this is the most beautiful RUclips video I have ever watched. Your relationship is very healthy, beautiful family, very beautiful family❤❤❤
Congratulations, and thank you for respecting your son's privacy.!!!!
Thank you 🥰 Of course ❤
Thank you for sharing August with us. It’s a beautiful name. 🙏❤️
🦊 Mercy that y’all had to endure such difficulties of birth. Kalles compassion is priceless and, placing Baby cheek to cheek with Mommy was the sweetest thing ever! Congratulations, August is beautiful!
welcome to earth little August, you have chosen very sweet parents, that you may grow into a loving person ❤️🥰
Oh my, I hope talking about this brings you some peace. I’m so sorry. My first birth didn’t go how I imagined either, but yours is on another level. I’m so glad you got help from family and I’m so happy you’re all healthy now. ❤ he’s beautiful!
Oh my gosh! August is so handsome!!!! I see Kellen in his face. Thank you for sharing his birth story with us. I cried the entire time! So beautiful yet so heartbreaking! I am so thankful that Christine is home safe and is healthy! Enjoy this time with him! They grow up so fast!
I watched this and the love between you and the strenght it is amazing. So strong and so vunerable... the part your mum came over.... tears all over. Wishing you all the luck and health in the world. Lots of love.
My heart, love, and deep deep compassion goes to you and Christine 🧡 Everything that you're feeling and experiencing is so valid and understandable. Christine, I hope you know, truly, that you did not fail in any way. Thank you for sharing your story, clearly from the comments, this is medicine for people to know that they are not alone. Huge CONGRATULATIONS you two, may you continue to find healing from this experience and such love with each other. Sending love 💕
I’m so glad you have a healthy baby and August has a happy family! You have been blessed.
I’m so sorry about this terrible experience. August is beautiful, so cute thank you for sharing him with us
It always gives me such joy to watch dogs greet their owner after an absence,
What a beautiful boy... ❤
I teared up right along with you both. I'm glad that painful time has passed.
You can now enjoy your August... and the wonderful life you share!
Congratulations to you both! ❤❤❤❤❤ (A heart for each of you... including the pups of course!)
So wonderful to meet August! I definitely understand how it was hard to talk about his birth with us, sounds like you both went through so much.❤
After all the hardships and all the difficulties, August came out the very best thing happened in your life guys. I cried too with your stories❤
OMG, I was crying! What a story, fortunately with a happy ending. Thank you for sharing this difficult, vulnerable, yet wondrous and honest story. You guys are each other's rock! Your son is lucky to have you as parents!
August is a Beautiful baby! Gods many blessings on each of you!
Thank you Michelle 🥰❤️
Your mother, Kalle, must have been thrilled to get ur call to learn that you needed her! A mother's dream! Thank you so much for sharing ur beautifully emotional testimony of ur baby's biirth! Ur both so incredibly strong (Christina, ur amazing) and cutie pie August is the gift u both worked so hard to bring into this world!! Many blessings to you and ur adorable little family! ❤
Another here who cried watching this beautiful video. I really felt both your emotions. Thank you for sharing your story and your gorgeous son August. Totally understand you wanting to protect his privacy and feel honoured we got that wonderful view of him. Wishing you both all the best from Central Scotland ❤
It is a blessing when you have a family, who is so loyal, confident (lot of people do not help you because they do not simply feel up to it) and willing to help you in times of need. I am really happy for you ;). Say hello to your mother ;).
You both are wonderful parents to this very beautiful child! I had to stop the video more than a few times to wipe away tears. I love his name - August. ❤
In 1979 I was 17 and had been in labor from Thursday at daybreak and I had only dialated to 2 1/2 centimeters in four days. They finally sent me to x-ray and an elderly lady was my tech. She made me get on my hands and knees and I contracted that way for a good 15 minutes. After that I had my baby in 4 hours. Her head had been stuck in my tailbone as she was face up. So whatever plans you make each birth is completely different. So happy all ended well❤
That baby is absolutely precious. He looked like a 2month old at birth. So big and healthy. Congratulations. Thanks for sharing your joy with us.
August is so precious. Thank you for sharing your story with us. He is so cute. Enjoy these days as they grow up so fast. Blessings to you all
He is beautiful!! What a journey you went on to have him. Stay healthy and thank you for sharing the ❤ with us!
Dear ones, I am so sorry that everything turned out differently than you had hoped. But all that matters is that you got through it and your little boy is healthy!
It wasn't easy for me to hear your story because I had almost exactly the same birth with my first child - including a terrible midwife. I can understand your thoughts and feelings - especially Christine's. You are such a strong team!
All the best to you and your wonderful little family. ❤
What a beautiful baby that is blessed with such loving parents ❤❤❤
This is the most beautiful birthing story you told. ❤️ thank you❤
He is absolutely beautiful. It would be lovely to see the baby from time to time. This was a very emotional video with a very happy ending.
Thank you so much for sharing your birth story and your tears! And I am so sorry you had to go through this!
Mamas are such warriors. You are such a warrior, Christine.
You two had me tearing up😢so happy to see you together as a family😊so precious and adorable 😊
I’ve experienced 2 cesareans and I’m so glad I found your channel and to hear your story… congratulations to you and your family! Your channel inspires me
Wow, you both have been through so much. But your bravery, determination and love for each other shines from you. You can tell how much you love one another and although it was very traumatic, you have each other and your sweet boy. I know you already know this but I loved listening to your story. Bless you both and your baby.❤❤❤❤❤
Gorgeous baby boy thank you for sharing. I have five children, two at hospital, two at home, one in a birth centre - so I can compare those experiences for myself. Each birth is different and I truly feel for you going through the loss of the birth you wanted - it is beyond tough. Speaking just for myself - a home birth is a glorious thing. My favourite births. Yet sometimes circumstances dictate something else. You have your gorgeous son and each other - and a bright future ahead, you are so young and vital. Much goodness awaits. God bless you and your sweet family. X
I couldn’t and can’t stop crying seeing your beautiful baby boy and the strength you have had to endure Christine throughout your labour and after giving birth! God bless you both with the most beautiful little boy. Shower him and each other with boundless love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It's an emotional event and its ok to share your feelings. Thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes the birth is not what you expect or envision. My son is now 48 yo and when he was born, I did all the hard work up to delivery and was put to sleep at the end prior to my vaginal delivery! I completely missed the birth of my son, my one and only child. So I definitely understand your disappointment. You are blessed with a beautiful, healthy boy that will bring you a lifetime of joy. ❤
He’s such a beautiful little person and I’m honoured to have met him ❤️
What a lovely, emotional story. Thank you so much for sharing it with us. The three of you are such a beautiful family.
Thank you for sharing the story of your son's birth, but most all of, thank you for sharing him in the video! How kind of you❤. And awesome name!❤❤
Thank you for being so authentic in sharing your birth story. As difficult as the journey was you have arrived at a life with great joy on your faces.
Such a beautiful story. You guys are amazing for eachother ❤
Thank you for sharing this with us all. My heart goes out to you both. You both are truly blessed.
Blessings to your family!❤
Congratulations! Happy for you. The pain will recede…having gone through difficult labor years ago you do forget the pain. Take care!
Quite moving....I'm crying with you.....❤
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What a beautiful baby! The two of you went through one of the most difficult deliveries I have ever heard of. Christine, the term warrior pales as to what you really are. So strong, both of you. Love each other and enjoy your new August.
What a Beautiful Baby Boy!!! He is sooo Precious!!!