What Do I Do If I Don't Trust My Husband?

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He had an affair that nearly ended the marriage. He told her he was sorry. He said he wanted them to try to work things out, but he's not quite ready to reconcile.
Then he was offered a job in another city. It's lucrative and he accepted. He comes home every weekend to live with his wife and children. They have a great time. He's attentive. The kids love his being there. But then the weekend is over and he heads back.
Workable? Maybe. However, there's a catch. During the week, he doesn't call, doesn't take calls, and has no contact whatsoever with his wife or children.
They have great weekends. She wonders and worries about what he's doing during the week. It's driving her mad. Is he having another affair? Does he live with some woman over there? What is he doing that prevents him from calling, checking in...or being checked on?
She offered an ultimatum of sorts. "I'll be gone when you come on the weekends. You and the kids have a great time but I can't live with not knowing." He told her that if she did that, he would feel pushed away and would give up on the idea of reconciliation.
Is he manipulating her? Is there something else going on? What should she do? When should she do it?
In this program, Dr. Joe Beam plays the recording of her question and then answers in detail. He suggests the things she needs to consider. He explains how to approach her husband in the way most likely to get him to understand and to start communicating during the week. He helps her think about the consequences if he refuses.
If you or someone you know is in a similar situation - in a sort of limbo where the spouse seems to want to save the marriage but also seems not to - this program will help you understand what to do and the possible outcome of various ways of doing it.
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[@missrose1654]

He is probably still having an affair...sounds like a narcissist. Wants the best of both worlds

[@blake7349]

This is toxic marriage he is cheating on her and stringing her along. I think she should start if she can to investigate him check his phone records get a tracker. You deserve to know the truth.

[@zels.m.8411]

I agree. He is manipulating her. There is a reason why he doesnt want to talk to her during the week. He had the affair, now he is the one controlling the time she asks for love. Only weekends. Someone cheats he/she has to make up for it. And that means transparency at all times. Everyone desverves the truth. Some people dont tell truth you even if they swear it. If he says she might push him away, guess what he doesnt feel guilt over the affair and he is forcing himself to love her back. She should let him go. I aint begging no man for love after he cheats on me. He should be the one making up for the transgression.

[@salemthorup9536]

Yours are the only videos I can watch and feel peace. I get convicted without shame and I get inspired to be better. I feel empowered and safer. God bless you for your work.

[@paolomarano4457]

I often wonder wtf is wrong w people

[@charscanland752]

Girl you our the one holding ALL the cards not him
You’re way better off without this boy!
He’s not a man!

[@karenedwards2139]

I love your program. This was very helpful. Keep doing what your doing. You and your crew are a blessing to many oeople.

[@mbspiders1]

Love your presentation and this info. Is really helpful. Thank you . X

[@esinfa]

Good advice, thank you