Is There Such a Thing as a Toxic Child?
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- Опубликовано: 14 мар 2022
- Can children be toxic? We weigh in on the problematic behavior some children exhibit and whether it’s fair to label a child “toxic” or “bad.”
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As an educator I totally agree children can be toxic, but again it does start at home....
Not necessarily. Some kids are born psychopaths.
@@PavaoKantor ...that's true too lol
Watching the Supernanny will show you that many parents don't know how to parent. I also think too there are just bad seeds.
Nope, some kids are just that way. If a child hears no, they dip the parents toothbrush in the toilet. For an educator you should know how unfair it would be if we blamed you for a child's response to your setting boundaries. It doesn't always start at home. Some kids behave how they behave as because of their own personality.
@@Drawingboredi That’s because the parents aren’t doing what they’re supposed to do to stop it. Peoples personalities develop based on how they are raised. Newborns don’t form their own personalities. If your child is dipping they’re toothbrush in the toilet it’s because again you’re not doing what you’re supposed to do.
Adrienne’s “NOOOO” at the end 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I died when I heard the NOOOO 💀💀😂😂😂😂😂
I am laughing as I type this comment!
My brother was always what you might call a “bad seed.” He really enjoyed doing wrong and hurting people. Very selfish. And he was raised in the same household as me with boundaries and love. People are always shocked to learn him and I are from the same parents and household. He actually lies and says he was raised in the “hood” or foster care! Nothing could be further from the truth. So…it’s not ALWAYS the parents or the upbringing. There are some children who do bad things despite their background. I know, I saw it first hand.
Some kids come from a good home and get lots of love but turn out bad, my husband of 25 years had two toxic parents and he turned out fine.
@@charrissejohnson5657 that is so true
Some kids are easily influence by other bad kids to fit in or a toxic relationships can damage a person. And, sometimes parents can be set boundaries and love but not feeding the child the right knowledge to succeed in life. Reading can be helpful
I have a very similar experience, wow i feel so seen
@@esmeejadesong it’s so hard for me to find anyone who relates
There is a saying in my country “someone who doesn’t love you, won’t tell you”. Self discipline is a joke 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah spare the rod, spare the child, even the bible says so and we have similar views in my country as well, not that the child should end up in the hospital or dead.
I was very toxic growing up. I was very angry, hot tempered, I thought I knew it all. But really I was suffering inside from trauma that had happened to me that my family was not aware about. Looking back it’s really hard, it really brings me to tears how I used to treat the people that love me the most. I was very disrespectful and I knew how to hurt the ones I loved. But now I decided I have everyday to make it up to them by trying to be the best daughter, sister friend… but toxic children are definitely not always just toxic. I pray everyone finds the peace that they need. And please find the strength to forgive yourself.
wow..... very honest and beautiful, my dear ...............bravo ..........
You can be a good parent and still have a evil child.
I don't believe that you were a toxic child. You were a hurt child that didn't know how to express your hurt feelings or say who or what hurt you. If you were truly a toxic child, you would be a toxic adult who didn't have the heart to fix those relationships. And you wouldn't even care to forgive yourself. You would have no empathy for those you hurt. The feelings of others would not matter.
@@LaShumbraBates exactly.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 Yesss I agree I have met those kind of people as well. I guess what I am more so saying is don’t judge a book by it’s cover because a lot of the times it is deeper than what it seems. I like to believe hurt people hurt people, def not an excuse tho. I was hurt and I had very toxic qualities I had no sense of remorse or respect, it was a all about me. Luckily I came to my senses. But I believe you’re right, maybe I wasn’t ’Toxic’ I was more hurt and angry. This topic kinda triggered me cause I was labeled as ‘Toxic’ cause of my actions.
I agree with Adrienne.
We need to stop expecting refined behavior from kids that are developing. IF the child is "bad" that's an indictment of the parents/guardians, environment, and circumstances. A lot of parents don't educate their children and expect them to KNOW with no direction. Then write them off as bad without adding context.
Bad ass adults raise bad ass kids.
@@HomeEduSchool The parents create, birth, and prepare kids to be adults in society; it's not the other way around. If the child is a full grown adult participating in bad behavior then I 100% agree with you.
I think some people have children for frivolous/ selfish reasons and don't really understand the responsibility of creating a person (& all that it entails).
That is not true
@@toomuchfourU That's your opinion.
There are kids who are BAD. I have to disagree with Adrienne on this one. I have watched documentaries and tv-shows based on real life events, in which children showed severe signs of being future psychopaths or sociopaths. Other kids are raised to be bad either because the parents are violent or fail to set boundaries.
Yeah there is a difference between being strong willed vs bad. There are kids from all backgrounds (rich, poor, etc) that end up being bad. It’s the fault of the parents for not setting up boundaries or discipline, not necessarily being toxic parents
No it don't always work like that either a parent or guardian can set rules and boundaries and the child refuse to listen and act out no matter what you do I saw this with my own eyes from my nephew he went to counseling family counseling and then every behavioral program possible to now as a teen in jail because he doesn't want to be told what to do no matter the fact he was given everything and we all walked on egg shells when he was around even as a child so sometimes it really is just the kid
Well said
Sometimes it isn't (just) the parents it could be outside influences causing the child to act up or maybe some undiagnosed mental illness.
As a teacher, I can tell you that some children are indeed toxic, and they were raised in toxic environments. There’s a difference between a strong-willed child and a toxic child. Not all strong-willed children are toxic. Some are simply defiant and rebellious, but that does not indicate toxicity. Toxic children are toxic because of how he, she, they or it is raised and the environmental factors that play a crucial role in the child’s life. Fix the behaviors while the child is a kid because those behaviors become harder to fix as the child become older. I’m telling you this from experience as a teacher and my own experience of being the toxic child and having to unlearn A LOT of what was taught. It is not easy.
Lmao naa Adrienne 😂 some kids are just BAD fr
Kids are just not bad for no reason though. 99% of the time it’s due to bad parenting…
And that 1% they're just bad haha 😄
No its not always the parents tho I hate when people just blame them tho can we just agree some kids are just naturally born bad no matter the love and treatment they get from their parents in general like ever watched dateline or thise other crime shows😬😬😕😕
No I just think some kids are just bad asf unfortunately tbh lmaooo 😊😁☺️
I dont agree with Adrienne. Some kids are jus bad and I stand by it. She reframed it, but it's not 100% true in my opinion.
Children are a reflection of how they're raised
Yeah that's true
Ok true but still unfrotunately that's not always the case most times thats true tho I agree
Some of the time that’s true I guess not all the time unfortunately apparently
Absolutely agree with Garcelle. My friend is now 24 and mad at his parents for not setting boundaries when he was younger. He’s amazing person but he said he will never raise his child that way because he learned the hard way from the world.
Some kids are born with disabilities and behavioral issues that they can’t control but a child that grows up toxic overtime is a product of their environment , some parents are enablers then complain when it comes back to haunt them !
I just has a flash back to when my mom left my brother in the Publix parking lot because he refused to get in the car. She didn't go home just far enough away for him to realize she wasn't playing.
Nah, some children are inherently bad, regardless of their environment. You can do everything right when raising them and still have a brat on your hands.
Yeah
Adrienne is so damn beautiful. Such a vibe all around
Adrienne is wrong. My sister was literally a demon child. My mom and dad broke up and would use us as blackmailing each other and she ended up being a demon child forreal.
Whole heartedly agree. I was at my friends daughter's birthday party and her friend's son was going around bullying people. All she did was look. He even started slamming stuff and if someone told him to stop, he swung at them. Later, when no one was looking because they were busy in theor phones he was about to bang something I looked at him and shook my head no. That boy gonna raise his hand and started running up, I immediately held my hand up and gave him at look. By the time he got to me, he put that hand down quick. I wasn't gonna hit him though. But don't play with me lmao I didn't even have to do nothing, so it's not that hard to discipline.
This goes for adults too… when you turn 18 or 21, you don’t magical become absolved from boundaries lol. Boundaries all around are a good thing
I think society has put kids in this untouchable box where we all just don’t say things when it comes to them and we don’t describe them using the same words we do for adults because we understand they’re still growing and changing BUT secretly we are all thinking it. Some kids are bad , some kids are annoying AF and some kids just ain’t the vibe lmao
Ade shielding kids from words like bad ain’t gonna stop them from being bad. Imagine your kid at 16 goes and robs someone at gun point then tells a judge “ I’m not bad I’m strong willed 😇”
Exactly. The twins who killed their mom. ID extra. Hmmmm. Some children are born with a toxic personality the same way some are naturally empathetic. That's what I think but some research needs to be done. 🧐
I’m with you on that 100% psychopaths, Narcissists, sociopaths and so on aren’t developed that way, if they were, it could be undeveloped or undone, but they’re not. Some kids, sadly, just the angels we want them to be.
@@anonnona6433 it’s that the nature vs nurture convo . How much of who we are is taught vs who we naturally just are by nature
@@queenpotathoe2154 bingo
Mother of 3 here 🙋🏽♀️…#FACTS
Lol now Adrienne...some kids be bad af. Let's call it what it is
Adrienne is so in the clouds lmao
@@MALXCX no she's sensitive about that because she was called bad when compared to her sister.
Exactly
@@MALXCX Exactly I hate how she seems to paint the world as all good fairy and roses I know that shes trying to be postive and all but she has to understand that's not always the case at times unfortunatley
Yeah
Some people raise children well and they become terrible or even criminals. It’s not fair to blame parents in every single situation especially when they try everything. Some kids are just bad and grow up to be terrible adults
But there's more than bad parenting at play when children become criminals. It's different for each crime. I'm not a professional. But there's a lot to it than bad parenting. Poverty can lead to people becoming thieves.
The education system is broken same with all the other systems. Does it excuse people's behavior? No. But there's a connection. There's always a connection.
Most of the time it is bad parenting but there are some instances that the kid has that "bad" gene
@@rubberducky893 I think what this person is sayng ts not always bad parenting meaning its not always their fault which I agree with but i agree it can be something deeper than that in reality apparently
" you are just strong willed"
Most of the time, a normal child, then yes sure. But Tell that to the kid that shocked his parents (good family) on his elaborate abusive/rape-minded behavior at age 6-7. Saying there are no toxic kids is an inaccurate statement.
He was traumatized. A child doesn't come up with such elaborate exploitative ideas without being introduced to it by a sick minded adult.
And sometimes "good families" are really families that try their hardest to keep anything questionable under wraps. There's always more to a childs behavior than meets the eye.
I agree vicky!! I so agree!!
Some kids have neurological issues! Like real severe issues which is very difficult on the parents, who are just trying their best to raise their child.
Some kids are just exceptionally toxic and parents really need to send them to special schools for behavioral differences.
It's so sad!
I like what Garcelle said, and I have a friend who agrees that she would have loved to have been given boundaries growing up, because she was left to her own devices which really affected her. Some parents think not parenting their children is better.
Kids are gonna push boundaries. That's how they learn. They don't come out of the womb understanding the need for boundaries. I can't help but laugh a little because are people's egos that fragile to create an article about "toxic" children instead of admitting that they're incapable with teaching children boundaries? Or is it because they were never taught that & would rather claim their children as toxic before evaluating their own childhoods?
Like is it really the child's fault that you can't say no? Or is it because you knew what was like being so poor that your parents couldn't afford food. Let alone toys.
I think two things can be true. I definitely believe there are some parents that have 0 concept of discipline or boundaries with their children and then there are some that do the best they can and the child is still defiant...as an educator I've seen both
@@ryanb9304 But being defiant is healthy. You should question things & standing up for yourself. Not learning those things makes it easier for abusers to take advantage of them. Especially as adults.
Overall I think calling children "toxic" is really an excuse for not holding yourself accountable for your actions as parents. It's not your children fault if you don't know how to communicate with them. It's not their fault that you don't know how to budget your paychecks & don't know how to say no. At the end of the day, I feel like they're trying to come up with an excuse to not hold themselves accountable for what they are doing.
@@rubberducky893 true, maybe defiant wasnt the best word, more like disrespectful, cruel, narcissistic....sometimes children take on traits of the former White House resident who's name I refuse to say lol and that could be even with parents that had boundaries and didnt play around when it came to their child's behavior ...kids will test limits but some take it to extremes where there are clear red flags
3:30 No Adrienne. Let's not sugar coat anything. Some children are toxic and their parents have tried to love, set boundaries, discipline, ALL IN VAIN.
A child is what you make them. Necessary dicipline, alot of love! That's the key.
Thank you Loni. Some kids are just bad.
Thank you 🤦🏽♀Right!!!
Adrienne is right, no child is bad.. and this comes from a psychologist and family counceler, kids are little mirrors.. they would act how you tech them, or how you act, because they don't learn from what we say, they learn by example.. this happened to me, my kids were acting really impatient with one another, and when I listen to one of them she sounded exactly like me, the same tone and the same words I say when I reprehend, and it hit me.. I was being the "toxic" one and needed to change, and since then I have been working on better my tone be more patient etc, and they are treating each other better, doesn't mean they don't fight anymore but they are willing to listen to each other's opinion and work to resolve issues in a better way.
And yes, they will test the limits, some more than others, but it doesn't mean they are bad, if you set appropriate limits and follow through with appropriate consequences, they will learn how to take better decisions, and that is what we call good behavior ☺️
Yeah but what about sociopath and psychopath
@@lovelyxu6473 they are behaviors that were not corrected with appropriate limits, and the best age to do so is when kids are little, of course those behaviors develop or we notice them more as we grow older, but that is the importance of discipline and knowing your kids and yourself...
Pls everyone who reads this message go and watch the RUclips channel "live on purpose" with Dr Paul Jenkins and his wife.. they are phycologist and family councelers.. don't take my word.. they are the professionals, I'm just saying what I have learned from them and my couch..
@@abigailzepeda2356 but psychopath have been proven to be born with it
@@abigailzepeda2356 where as sociopath is nature
@@abigailzepeda2356 I thought u said u were a psychologist and family counselor
I really hope they aren’t canceled :(
loving all your hair! so cute!😘
Strong willed and bad are 2 different things 🙄
Your outfit Adrienne is everything
I was a goody good kid. But Some kids are bad, my brother was BAD toxic all of the above. My mom who raised us wasn’t toxic but the issue was she didn’t enforce enough boundaries and discipline on him. He was also extremely spoiled
There is definitely toxic children. I went to school with plenty of them lol But I understand they could have been going through something at home, they could've learned their behaviors from their parents or environment, could have mental issues. I don't think every kid that acts bad is toxic. All kids do something wrong sometimes. Some kids just act bad because they can get away with it or think it's fun lol
There are kids who are bad bec of the parents but there are also kids who have that "bad" gene.
The day I let my kids self discipline themselves is the day pigs fly, and I totally agree with Adrienne no child is toxic, is the environment those kids are raised into, no child was born toxic and I hate it when we criminalise children and teenagers for no reason, instead of helping them, we throw them away to become worse. I personally put the blame on the parents who don’t care how their kids turns.
Working at a daycare I see all different personalities, even starting young now with the babies! And I observe there behavior etc and definitely the kids these days I don’t think they know what boundaries or being disciplined is. It’s like the parents are almost afraid to teach their kids or set up boundaries in order for them to learn & understand. Although I’m not a parent, just watching how these parents interact with their children - makes me want to have those boundaries and discipline. like it’s okay to correct your child & be a parent. I feel it’s always an excuse “because they’re young” etc etc, NO that’s when you start in my opinion. Especially when it comes to the tantrums
a lot of them thinks it's cute when kids have attutiudes or talk back to people nowadays
@@lstarsabb it’s really sad
I know Adrienne means well but I can't wait for her to have her own child and she will see more of what moms are talking about as it relates to kids.
I get what she is saying. As a fellow Christian, I do not think people are good or bad. We do good or bad things.
U can definitely see the older generation approach versus younger generation approach to thinking/word choice in this segment 🤣
no some kids are just bad. don’t try to sugarcoat it 😂😂😂😂
Another thought , what about those people who are good , kind, law abiding people who grew up in toxic abusive poor parenting households . Is their goodness a result of parenting ?
More like despite poor parenting they turned out good, kind, etc. In my case I developed empathy and it shows up in my awareness of others and being oodly considerate of people. Some adapt and adopt while others assimilate to survive. It can show up in ppl pleasing, "being good", or going along to get along. The impact can be a lot of things tbh. This is just what I've observed/experienced so far.
@@BlazinGunz4Fun so that means despite good parenting people can also turn out to be bad too right ?
@@mayalicious203 It depends on do we or do we not model behaviors, patterns, coping mechanisms, trauma, etc that influence a human being with a clean slate? As full grown adults we can be held to a certain standard and are responsible for how we deal with childhood trauma/abuse. With kids, we can't deem them bad or good when they have no power or control over their life.
@@mayalicious203 We easily forget kids aren't fully developed self-sustaining adults. Until at least 18 they are under the mercy of who ever is raising them. When it's a toxic, abusive, poor parenting household the situation it's about survival and not setting off the bomb. So "being good" is a response just like "being bad". It's about how we apply all the factors at play to get a full picture of why we consider certain kids bad over another. Are we quick to write kids off with any real context of at home influence? After all, the first place you learn is at home.
I honestly believe kids are born pure. But at the same time different personalities can't be created. Meaning, how the kids are raised CAN and will determine how they turn out to be. However, there are many kids are were raised completely right and love but turns out bad. So, it can't be the parents fault all the time.
Children are the product of their home environment and influences. They have no control over what is or isn't taught and the examples set or not set before them. Toxic is not the same as bad or undisciplined. Let's not get carried away here and remember children are innocent bystanders when it comes to their lives. They don't ask to be here.. They nor we chose our parent(s) and whatever circumstance we're born into. Just kindly redirect the child when observed being naughty.
I have a 2 year old can already see him pushing boundaries slowly. He knows how to act around me, vs my husband who is a little more stern. When he’s doing something he shouldn’t be and I look at him he immediately will make a cute face to make me laugh. Point is, they know and they learn these tactics at a very young age. It’s really confusing to raise children in a society where any form of discipline is seen as abuse. This mama here is sticking to some old rules of raising well mannered kids and not little entitled assholes 😂😂
Toxic, no 🤔 I do think kids pick up bad habits from their parents and surroundings. Kids need to be taught the difference between right and wrong. 🤗
Yes it could be due to a toxic environment. But if that is ruled out, If a child is so difficult consistently in every setting - home, school, out in public, at grandma’s, etc etc parents should speak to their pediatrician or school counselor and discuss their concerns. They may just need some parenting education (setting boundaries; using proper discipline). But sometimes the child might have special needs and may need intervention. In these cases, the child him or herself may be frustrated because they too don’t understand why they behave this way. And if they are constantly getting in trouble or struggling with school work or being shunned by their peers it can really affect their self esteem.
Some kids (especially if they’re adults) are toxic and create disrespectful drama. And yes, some kids are bad as hell 🤣🤣
I LOVE Adrienne but I disagree.
Some people are just bad, simple as that. It is called being a psychopath. That means that they were born that way, which also means they were psychopaths as kids.
Unfortunately, that can’t be fixed. The best parenting skills in the world, the best psychological help, believing in God, whatever you may think could change those types of people/kids, it doesn’t work that way.
Their brains function differently, not to get into the details, but you can definitely get yourself informed about that topic.
My suggestion is dr. Ramani Duvarsula.
Those are the type of children who hurt animals, hurt other kids, etc.
There is a difference between bad parenting and being born a certain way, and that is not a matter of anyone’s opinion, those are facts that we know from psychology today, as terrible as it sounds and as unpleasant as it is to believe. It’s the reality.
On the other hand, sociopaths and narcissists are made as a product of bad parenting, traumatic childhood experiences, etc.
or spoiled children become narcissists
True but not all psychopaths are born bad, that the thing. People have this image of what someone who’s born that way will turn out to be something like in the movies or criminals. But that is not a fact. I truely believe no one is born evil. Also a lot of psychopaths can actually learn to mange and grow up with the right parent willing to help and seek out help.
@@Max-ec2dj I really like your positive approach but yes some people are just born evil. It is just either a will for it to be concealed that many are able to keep their dark inclinations to themselves for so long.
You talking about a small percentage that cannot be changed but I think they are referencing the kids that come from dysfunctional families that were too lazy to set boundaries !
I mean they do say only God can heal and help situationslike that that deal with soiopaths or psycopaths in general who knows maybe he can help only by is will😐😕🙏🙏🙏
I was a bad child ! I WISH my Dad disciplined me more & Made me focus on school more ! For not being punished I’m half homeless I messed up I wasn’t raised to be a hard worker 🥺 now it’s hard… bouncing couch to couch …. I don’t even do drugs im sober but can’t figure it out with my life :/
There are some kids that are truly born bad though...even if they were raised by morally decent parents that gave structure and discipline... (Aka my older brother) who had a temper problem and used to KILL brand new born baby kittens... I couldn't believe what I was witnessing...and that's one of many things that even stayed with him till he grew up (cheating on his wife, stealing money from our mother etc)... So yes there are actually bad seeds that are born....but I get what Adrienne was trying to say
Thank you Adrienne, as a mom with an autistic son, many people tell me he just needs to be disciplined, he needs boundaries, he’s to hyperactive. No he is a kid, he has need and he is just different. You can’t paint all kids with same paintbrush
Oh god!! You literally sound like one of those mothers that will excuse ANY behaviour of her precious child while they cause absolute havoc and misery on everyone around!!
We always laugh and joke about mothers like you!! Pretending that your precious child is just that!
If your kid has autistic needs it is ALL the more reason for you to discipline him in a way that he DOES understand! It is UP TO YOU to step up as a mother to meet his needs!
To not, under any circumstances expect the rest of the world to accommodate your child just because he has autistic disability if he is being destructive and unruly! It is not the world's job to tolerate your child!
Teach your child to behave despite his difficulties!! Autistic children MORE than ANY OTHER CHILD needs more discipline and structure!
Maybe your child is horrendous and that's why you getting all those comments?! Stop ignoring people's suffering around your child and excuse his behaviour coz "he's just a child" and "he's autistic"!!!
You are secretly so loathsome if you allow him to run a riot like that!
*Step up mother!!!*
Adrienne hit the nail on the head!
Here in the Caribbean we burst their tail and take away things their like, our moms did it and we are good, no serial killers over here
My show choir teacher used to say, “Kids aren’t bad; they’re busy.”
i cant imagine being a child, and someone calling me toxic LOL
Where would a child learn it from…………………………………..
Exactly! All kids need the right guidance and mentors been a parents isn't just enough. Good knowledge is a must to raise a child but we also know a lot of kids are have toxic parents or no parents. All kids deserve a great parent but not all parent deserve a child.
@@betvdaytime Well said!
People forget that they are raising adults that will have to go to work with rules and we'll have to live in society with rules. people forget their raising someone's husband and someone's wife a disrespectful unruly child is not cute and not attractive and who wants to be excluded from activities social event because nobody wants to see your child coming or always have to tell you know your child can't come or just don't invite you.
Kids cant be toxic because they dont have the intention to be or be evil, bad etc.! Its always the parents!! Or who the kid grows up with!
Adirenne needs to put "bad" in her vocabulary because trust and believe there are some badass kids outchea with demons inside them ... and "strong-willed" is being lied on for them.
I’m learning English with you guys and it just came into mind that you guys do not use a lot of idioms ? Lol so I can learn more..
Okay so I was always told I was a bad ass kid but mind you neither of my parents raised me I was raised and loved by my fathers parents and his sister her husband and plus her daughters and when my parents split it was hard on me because now I lost my sense of safety etc so I acted out in anyway possible to get my parents love and attention they gave it willingly to their other kids but never me I was and still am very strong willed and now go to therapy to work through all those issues and now I’m a way better parent to my own kids
We were created in iniquity…all of us…some of us have certain proclivities.
Jeannie was not a bad child. She went through a lot at a young age. I have family and friends who have been through the same trauma. They were also labeled as bad kids. We have to understand if a child is acting out it’s for a reason. That’s why being a parent is a serious job to take on
Nooo, girl as a nanny I can tell you, there are absolutely bad kids out there and absolutely almost always is because of parents who won’t discipline their own kids. I have left family’s who children didn’t keep their hands to themselves and were dangerous to be around and I would be scared for their younger siblings when I wasn’t around. Bad do kids exist
Is it just me but do they all look like they’re wearing pjs on this episode LOL.
Jeanie’s fit especially amplifies it. Like a stylish slumber party
Comfy & stylish ☺️
I don't agree with Adrienne on this one. Sometimes it can stem from the parents. But some kids can have a nice and loving home and still turn out to be toxic.
Yup
Aren't kids people so yes kids can be toxic.
Absolutely there's a such thing as toxic children just look at the Kardashian cousins,the jolie - Pitts,& the Anthony's ( Jennifer & Marc ) all rich ,all spoiled & none of their parents are still together .
Bless you Adrienne, but I am not a parent and I know kids can be bad. We have to stop thinking that kids are innocent little angels being that can do no harm. Some are, but some aren't. That's how they get away with stuff. Any and everyone is capable of anything. Never underestimate your opponent. That is all.
Nice
Yes Loni is right! Ad is swimming in delusion
Some kids are bad Adrienne
Every toxic person is someone's child .. so yes, there are toxic children ... Just my thoughts though
Gotta disagree with Adrienne on this one, I have babysat a literally evil child before. Like a 2 year old demonised kid…oh my…the thing is, parents will never agree that kids can be demonised too. Speaking from a spiritual point of view here.
If there are bad kids out there where do you think they learn it
Is toxic the right word though? Kids misbehave, tantrums, etc.
I think age plays a factor. Ultimately, it's the parents' responsibility to teach and discipline their kids to become civilized and productive adults. HOWEVER, if by the late teens, they refuse to listen and learn from their parents, they're toxic. They need to be put out the house.
The term bad seed exists for a reason 😂
I mean.. it has nothing to do with being a child or adult. HUMANS can be toxic. We’re all human. Child or adult !
There are definitely bad ass kids out there and I didn’t realize it until it happened in my family. My niece would hit, throw stuff at, and take stuff away from her twin brother before they were even 2. Idek why. I don’t believe she was taught to behave that way. Maybe bad isn’t the word but they are definitely more resistant.
Adrienne will cut anyone off to talk, I swear. I have noticed this in most videos- especially recently. At times, some of the women never get to even share their perspective on a topic because she utilizes the whole time slot for herself. We get to hear her opinion of EVERY topic and sometimes the other women get to slip theirs in if there is time. I would prefer to hear and see ALL of their opinions, especially from the ladies the topics are actually relevant to.
Well I ain’t got no babies , I’ll leave this to y’all Lmao ! But I do got nieces and nephews and yes discipline is important !!!
There are bad kids.
I often thought what would be like if one of jeannies brothers came on the real ?
Sometimes kids are just bad tho don't say they strong willed some are bad and stay bad as an adult and it's not always the environment either
Y'all really got to stop blaming parents for every bad kid. Some people just come here (into the world) as bad people. So you really think that all serial killers/murderers/ drug dealers and other criminals all came from bad parenting, no. By that logic then we would have even more serial killers and murderers and other criminals alike. Plain and simple some bad people come from good homes and some good people come from bad homes. It's a mixed bag.
I'm a big fan
I'm loni. Cause some kids be bad asfff
Sorry Adrienne Houghton some kids are toxic not strong will they need discipline
Some children are HORRIBLE!! Nevertheless my Grandma Queen Esther DID NOT allow the term "bad" to be used to describe a child. So, I don't use that word. I believe you can curse someone with the words you choose. So, I choose words like rambunctious, mischievous or busybody. 😂
A toxic child? It would honestly depend on what they see and hear and how they process things… like monkey see , monkey do ! I don’t think children are innately just coming out being toxic but it’s a possibility that it’s learned or processed based on behavior they’ve seen and think is ok in their household
Yeah true. All you are saying is true! Monkey see monkey do!
Except that there are kids who really ARE bad! Despite so many of the parents to control and discipline those kids with love still, and they acting like monsters!
There are kids who are chemically imbalanced! And are violent, aggressive and lashing out!
I know this because I saw a documentary of parents who really did not know what to do anymore with their kids! Who were so violent! They took them to many school but got expelled!
Some kids are real demons! And there has been some studies to show that some kids have a psychopath neurological disturbances! It's true! 😔😓😓
Honestly it's my biggest fear! I feel so sorry for those parents!
Is Jeannie back or is this old. I’ve been asking this and nobody will answer me🙄🙄
Is Jeanie back?
my daughter has toxic ways yup i said it
Ain't no kids toxic it's an excuse for bad parenting. Kids are busybody but not toxic/bad unless they were born with something that's a different story. Kids need guidance, mentors, love, affectionate, respect, and boundaries with healthy disclipline but no abuse
Adrienna being too nice does not mean you necessairly a nice person ...loni is right
Are these episodes new or old? They look kind of old
Is Jeannie back?
Is Jeannie back