I waited 8 years for my ex to start respecting with no success, my mental health was deteriorating and that was affecting my kids. End of my story, gone, out of the door bye.
My husband started an affair with a married woman in December 2017. The first time he moved out was 10th February 2018 and from then until November 2019 he came and left 9 times. I told him every time he came back that I forgave him. Now because of COVID-19 he’s still with her over 4 hours away from our house. I printed divorce papers off and sent them to him asking him to fill them in and send them back to me and that was a month ago now. She’s still not divorced herself and my husband and the woman in question are engaged but he’s told me he doesn’t want a divorce one minute then he does the next. I can’t take the heartache anymore. I’m in limbo. The thought of my husband sleeping with another woman turns my stomach sick.........I’m losing hope 😔😔
I'm divorcing my spouse because I want to be with someone else. Someone that will commit to me, not call me names, and someone that will not cheat on me and say let's go dancing when I find out they have cheated. Yes, I want someone else!
I love your channel, thank you. What are your thoughts on a spouse having an emotional affair, the wife finds out and he instantly starts taking about divorce. He says he loves her but not in love with her. You have a video on this but it goes further. He agrees to stop seeing the other women while he figures things out. He seem fairly content with himself shaving daily (rarely shaves before this) as if he has a choice between two women. The other women interferes by trying to cause the wife to divorce but the wife makes him aware of the other women’s doing. Now he seems shut down and tells his wife he doesn’t know what he wants. He tells her he has no emotions toward anything or anyone. Is this marriage worth saving? He does not communicate and just the sight of his wife stresses him out. Is he possibly going through pain knowing the other women is not who he thought she was? Maybe going through the emotions of a heartbreak? Maybe depression? I would love to hear your insights.
Shes already with her affair partner. And doesnt want to work on things. And the longer it goes the harder for me to fight to get her back. Im so lost. I deserve better and will be fine on my own. However i would be willing to talk and get counseling and everything first. And her anseer is just ya well we can be friends but im seeing someone else. What do i do?
I threw my wife out the day I found out about cheating. For 3 weeks I haven’t been able to eat. I drink coke and have a glass of milk for food. I just can’t choke down any food. I have virtually no contact with her, no fighting, no anything, but I can’t eat. I’m not even that upset or angry. Not really depressed either. Other than not eating I’m my regular old self. But I have to eat or it’s going to damage me and I don’t know what to do. I’m optimistic about my future and doing things I couldn’t do before. I’m optimistic about finding someone new. I’m excited about buying a new Harley after I gave mine up when I had a family. I even have my daughter living with me instead of losing her like most men do. Yet...I can’t eat!
Don't worry, your appetite will return. Don't buy the Harley. You are emotionally damaged and you don't want to make major life decisions in your emotional state that you will later regret. Work on yourself and let time pass before you make any decisions or life changes.
I waited 8 years for my ex to start respecting with no success, my mental health was deteriorating and that was affecting my kids. End of my story, gone, out of the door bye.
Jim’s statement about building something different and new and teach your children how to deal with conflict respectfully !!! Amen
My husband started an affair with a married woman in December 2017. The first time he moved out was 10th February 2018 and from then until November 2019 he came and left 9 times. I told him every time he came back that I forgave him. Now because of COVID-19 he’s still with her over 4 hours away from our house. I printed divorce papers off and sent them to him asking him to fill them in and send them back to me and that was a month ago now. She’s still not divorced herself and my husband and the woman in question are engaged but he’s told me he doesn’t want a divorce one minute then he does the next. I can’t take the heartache anymore. I’m in limbo. The thought of my husband sleeping with another woman turns my stomach sick.........I’m losing hope 😔😔
I'm divorcing my spouse because I want to be with someone else. Someone that will commit to me, not call me names, and someone that will not cheat on me and say let's go dancing when I find out they have cheated. Yes, I want someone else!
Follow God's Word and you will never go wrong. He will lead you and never contrary to His Word.
I love your channel, thank you. What are your thoughts on a spouse having an emotional affair, the wife finds out and he instantly starts taking about divorce. He says he loves her but not in love with her. You have a video on this but it goes further. He agrees to stop seeing the other women while he figures things out. He seem fairly content with himself shaving daily (rarely shaves before this) as if he has a choice between two women. The other women interferes by trying to cause the wife to divorce but the wife makes him aware of the other women’s doing. Now he seems shut down and tells his wife he doesn’t know what he wants. He tells her he has no emotions toward anything or anyone. Is this marriage worth saving? He does not communicate and just the sight of his wife stresses him out. Is he possibly going through pain knowing the other women is not who he thought she was? Maybe going through the emotions of a heartbreak? Maybe depression? I would love to hear your insights.
Shes already with her affair partner. And doesnt want to work on things. And the longer it goes the harder for me to fight to get her back. Im so lost. I deserve better and will be fine on my own. However i would be willing to talk and get counseling and everything first. And her anseer is just ya well we can be friends but im seeing someone else. What do i do?
I threw my wife out the day I found out about cheating. For 3 weeks I haven’t been able to eat. I drink coke and have a glass of milk for food. I just can’t choke down any food. I have virtually no contact with her, no fighting, no anything, but I can’t eat. I’m not even that upset or angry. Not really depressed either. Other than not eating I’m my regular old self. But I have to eat or it’s going to damage me and I don’t know what to do. I’m optimistic about my future and doing things I couldn’t do before. I’m optimistic about finding someone new. I’m excited about buying a new Harley after I gave mine up when I had a family. I even have my daughter living with me instead of losing her like most men do. Yet...I can’t eat!
Don't worry, your appetite will return. Don't buy the Harley. You are emotionally damaged and you don't want to make major life decisions in your emotional state that you will later regret. Work on yourself and let time pass before you make any decisions or life changes.
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How are you bro? Hope you recover from the heartbroke..
This goes against every video you guys have on marriage helper