Hey guys! Thanks for watching and I hope that was helpful. Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited) 💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass 🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions 🗣 Join the FB Group! -> facebook.com/groups/1032426806961329/
It took me about 3 weeks of seeing myself as the victim and I was in a very dark place one day I just looked on youtube to try and help me and your video was the first one that popped up I started watching all of your videos and came out of the fog and saw that I wasnt the victim she was and told her that I was sorry for the way I treated her when she moved to her parents and she actually opened up about how I had made her feel for the last few years she has has even said that she does she a change in me and I told her that she needs to be skeptical about my changes since I have told her I was gonna change a lot of times over the years I told her I want you to hold me accountable to my actions thank you for all the videos they have helped me alot
I am going thru a divorce and trying to save my marriage. I've been watch so many different channels for help and advice. I got to say I think you are the best. I sign up for your Facebook but I have not got excepted yet. But thank you I have a long road ahead of me and I think your knowledge can help me.
I think the hardest thing I hear in this video is that if you fall and fail and don’t follow through how much it hurts her again and she thinks you’re trying to be a trickery even if you are trying to make the changes and you’re working on yourself we’re still human is there anything that we can do when we do mess up since we are human and not perfect that can help address having things fall back in the place without it sounding like an excuse
Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "wife wants to separate" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my buddy got excellent success with it.
You really know what you’re talking about man lol. I’m addicted to your videos. # 1 .. how bad was your situation(s) for you to know ALL of these tips bc I am beyond impressed. You seem young yet still seasoned. Much respect and thanks for the knowledge. It has been helping. I’m in the spot of trying to decide what to communicate in an effort to ask questions while creating a safe space after being stonewalled.
Step 3 also build off of your insecurities from the past. One of my strongest love languages is service. What stinks is when it feels weaponized "I did this for you and you didnt appreciate it the waybI wanted you to" or "I got you this gift and you didn't like it? BUT..." when you do things and it iant the outcome you expected you have to bw prepared for that, especially includes what is going on during separation or divorce process...
Hi again Mark, you can keep telling yourself that it is too late or you can choose to make sure that your previous mistakes never happen again by making the right changes and the massive ones and prove to your partner that you truly did have what it takes. Your choice...
Wow Jeffrey! You're my favorite! I would like to attend your master class. And I will find you on Facebook. Thanks a million! I've been crying every day and you give me hope. Hope in real change amd other ways to save my marriage of 32 years. Thanks another million!
hey you should make a video on how to give space if you are living together still? the best way to plant seeds if you see them everyday. Cant wait to start the program
Hi Kanyon, That's a great video idea! The key principles around giving space still applies if you still live together. The main thing is to have a mutual understanding with your partner. Looking forward to seeing your growth in the program.🙂
Its amazing and really almost unfair how one slip up can set a couple back after they feel they have advanced but it sure does. Its like, "Ah-ha, there's the real you. I knew you were still in there."
I would see it differently -- I would see it as a reminder that any changes you need to make, you need to make it a part of who you are. You cannot use will-power to do it.
There are several factors in improving your partnership. One plan I found which succeeds in merging these is the Pavs partner pundit (google it if you're interested) it's the most incredible guide that I have ever heard of. Check out the incredible information .
Such amazing information! I see now all the mistakes continuely made in my past relationship and can understand why my partner was miserable and hopeless. I feel like a naive loser to have made so many of the same mistakes over and over again while ruminating why she doesn't like me anymore. Anyone have any advice how I can help her find peace again, with or without me involved in her life?
You should tell her about these videos you've been listening to, to better yourself.. let her know about your new epiphanies and deeply apologize for all the pain you caused.. let her know that you're not telling her, to get back with you; you just realized what you were doing and you care about her and youn want her to heal from what you caused.
I accused my wife of cheating.. I told her to leave the house.. she did.. now I want her back.. I acted on jealousy and insecurities of emotions.we both are in a no contact for over a month after I apologized extensively to her. I told her to take all the time she needs for her space. Come home whenever you’re ready.. I got no reply.. it’s been a month now.. help.
She needs space to heal but I can't stop bringing up "us" so this is my BP vest to just become my best me and let her heal cause I cannot fix the damage I caused I make her want to run
Hi sir Geoffrey, I hope you can make a video on how to bring her trust and love back after doing something that has trigger her traumatic past I will be truly grateful to know what to do if you make a vidoe like that.
Great advice. I come from a level of betrayal from my ex where I have no interest in reconciliation and see my side of the grass as greener. However, you and I would make a good team. If you wish, feel free to drop your link on my comments on my channel. Just say that I allowed it so that others don't think I do it with just anyone.
Amazing content and helping me (along with licensed medical professinal) My question to you is, where/how where you educated to have this level of expertise.
Hmm dont agree its still mindgames ... Be upfront that you want to resolve but also be sincere not needy guard the needs of your kids if present in marriage or seperation and have patience and yes better yourself off course
Geoff I only have a day to sign the divorce papers and she is not giving me a chance to fight for her, and in the state of Utah it takes 30 days to finalize a divorce. What can I do please
What if you already made some mistakes at the beginning of the seperation? And didn't follow these steps, but a month later you are trying to do these things? Is it too late?
Hi Devin Duval, I have yet to have a case when it is too late. There is no tipping point in long-term relationships and in marriages. If you prove that you are the best option, then your partner will pick you. Kinda that simple.
Anyway I can get a private phone call with you? Going through a divorce and I want to reconcile, my wife had an affair while I was incarcerated. She has left our home and moved into her own place. She claims she called it off with the guy. I felt like we were making progress and then her brother died. And now she is broken and has distanced herself even more from me. She never would be honest about what was actually going on and I reached out to her friend and got the truth. I confronted her with it but she is even more angry with me because I done that.
I have questions please answer. My wife thinks i cheated on her but i really didn’t and now she wants to divorce immediately and she doesn’t want to fix nothing. I have followed everything you have talked about for 2 months and she still doesn’t want anything to do with me. She wants to move on. Now i got Solid Proof and Evidence that I didn’t cheated on her. Should i try and show her my evidence or should i keep with your process?
Hi dicervo, I have had clients been divorced for several years apply these principles to their relationship and get back together. ruclips.net/video/nxq_UJhlcJ8/видео.html
These tips where really helpful and insightful, but what if you already spoke to your spouse are are just respecting her space, you told her you would change and all, after hearing your point of view, can one still go back and use the new knowledge you just shared in your video, is it not too late to use it?
@@GeoffreySetiawan absolutely man, I just needed for the person to stop texting, I know very well that this is a process. There are no shortcuts in life, I have to trust in the process, the season, thank you for the heads up man, really appreciate that!
Hi Gandolf M. Student, Check out this video and feel free to follow this review up with another question on the first one you just asked. ruclips.net/video/Hr5CR5pb330/видео.html
my husband left me for his ex girlfriend he had before he got married to me I was so eager to get him back because I loved him, my world came crumbling when my husband engaged his mistress ,the fear of sharing my home with a strange woman took the better part of me. I lived in agony and torment, then I decided to seek the help of Dr Aguiyi just to get back my husband. I told him my problem, he promise to reunite my husband back to me and he did exactly what he said. For sure he brought back my husband to me and we two are peacefully together for good. if you have any problem in your home, marriage/relationship and email: aguiyispellcaster@gmail.com or WhatsApp him on +2348151642717.
Hey guys! Thanks for watching and I hope that was helpful. Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
🗣 Join the FB Group! -> facebook.com/groups/1032426806961329/
It took me about 3 weeks of seeing myself as the victim and I was in a very dark place one day I just looked on youtube to try and help me and your video was the first one that popped up I started watching all of your videos and came out of the fog and saw that I wasnt the victim she was and told her that I was sorry for the way I treated her when she moved to her parents and she actually opened up about how I had made her feel for the last few years she has has even said that she does she a change in me and I told her that she needs to be skeptical about my changes since I have told her I was gonna change a lot of times over the years I told her I want you to hold me accountable to my actions thank you for all the videos they have helped me alot
Loved your tip on being vulnerable! It's hard but it helps!
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I am going thru a divorce and trying to save my marriage. I've been watch so many different channels for help and advice. I got to say I think you are the best. I sign up for your Facebook but I have not got excepted yet. But thank you I have a long road ahead of me and I think your knowledge can help me.
Awesome buddy! Glad to hear the videos have been helpful!
Check out rejoice marriage ministries
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Message me on WhaApp.
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I think the hardest thing I hear in this video is that if you fall and fail and don’t follow through how much it hurts her again and she thinks you’re trying to be a trickery even if you are trying to make the changes and you’re working on yourself we’re still human is there anything that we can do when we do mess up since we are human and not perfect that can help address having things fall back in the place without it sounding like an excuse
Such great tips on how to reconcile your marriage! I'm sure so many people will profit from this video! :)
Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "wife wants to separate" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my buddy got excellent success with it.
I got my ex husband back with the help of someone who also solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
Contact him via what's app❤❤❤
I'm trying but it's hard to give space without walking out the door on my kids and family
You explained this really well!
You really know what you’re talking about man lol. I’m addicted to your videos. # 1 .. how bad was your situation(s) for you to know ALL of these tips bc I am beyond impressed. You seem young yet still seasoned. Much respect and thanks for the knowledge. It has been helping.
I’m in the spot of trying to decide what to communicate in an effort to ask questions while creating a safe space after being stonewalled.
This is exactly what I need to respond to my wife right now. Thank you!
@@fishy67chevelle yes, a very positive change. She never filed separation papers and we are working on our marriage for the best.
@@RobSmith awesome!!
i like the tip on following through with your promises. i definitely try my best on that one
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Step 3 also build off of your insecurities from the past. One of my strongest love languages is service. What stinks is when it feels weaponized "I did this for you and you didnt appreciate it the waybI wanted you to" or "I got you this gift and you didn't like it? BUT..." when you do things and it iant the outcome you expected you have to bw prepared for that, especially includes what is going on during separation or divorce process...
Definitely the best advice on RUclips..
Wished I find the videos 6 weeks ago ..
Think I find these videos to late !
Hi again Mark, you can keep telling yourself that it is too late or you can choose to make sure that your previous mistakes never happen again by making the right changes and the massive ones and prove to your partner that you truly did have what it takes.
Your choice...
Wow Jeffrey! You're my favorite! I would like to attend your master class. And I will find you on Facebook. Thanks a million! I've been crying every day and you give me hope. Hope in real change amd other ways to save my marriage of 32 years. Thanks another million!
Thank you. Just what I need, right now ...
hey you should make a video on how to give space if you are living together still? the best way to plant seeds if you see them everyday. Cant wait to start the program
Hi Kanyon,
That's a great video idea! The key principles around giving space still applies if you still live together. The main thing is to have a mutual understanding with your partner.
Looking forward to seeing your growth in the program.🙂
Its amazing and really almost unfair how one slip up can set a couple back after they feel they have advanced but it sure does. Its like, "Ah-ha, there's the real you. I knew you were still in there."
I would see it differently -- I would see it as a reminder that any changes you need to make, you need to make it a part of who you are. You cannot use will-power to do it.
I got my ex husband back with the help of someone who also solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
Contact him via what's app❤❤❤
There are several factors in improving your partnership. One plan I found which succeeds in merging these is the Pavs partner pundit (google it if you're interested) it's the most incredible guide that I have ever heard of. Check out the incredible information .
On-point, Geoffrey!
Thank you Jenny!
Such amazing information! I see now all the mistakes continuely made in my past relationship and can understand why my partner was miserable and hopeless. I feel like a naive loser to have made so many of the same mistakes over and over again while ruminating why she doesn't like me anymore. Anyone have any advice how I can help her find peace again, with or without me involved in her life?
You should tell her about these videos you've been listening to, to better yourself.. let her know about your new epiphanies and deeply apologize for all the pain you caused.. let her know that you're not telling her, to get back with you; you just realized what you were doing and you care about her and youn want her to heal from what you caused.
Is it better to stay in the home giving her space so she can see my changes? Or better to actually separate?
I think this can be applied in othernon-marriage relationships as well. These are good tips.
Right! Definitely can :)
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Great advice 👍🏽 Thanks Geoffrey!
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I accused my wife of cheating.. I told her to leave the house.. she did.. now I want her back.. I acted on jealousy and insecurities of emotions.we both are in a no contact for over a month after I apologized extensively to her.
I told her to take all the time she needs for her space.
Come home whenever you’re ready.. I got no reply.. it’s been a month now.. help.
It's been 4 months since your msm, how have things changed? How has your communication with one another changed?
She needs space to heal but I can't stop bringing up "us" so this is my BP vest to just become my best me and let her heal cause I cannot fix the damage I caused I make her want to run
Hi sir Geoffrey,
I hope you can make a video on how to bring her trust and love back after doing something that has trigger her traumatic past
I will be truly grateful to know what to do if you make a vidoe like that.
I got my ex husband back with the help of someone who also solve my relationship problem❤❤❤
Contact him via what's app❤❤❤
Naa bro, some marriages end over before separation. Specially when their family sow discord in the relationship.
Ih Geoffrey this what I am going through right now so think for this video hopefully this will help me out with this
Great advice. I come from a level of betrayal from my ex where I have no interest in reconciliation and see my side of the grass as greener. However, you and I would make a good team. If you wish, feel free to drop your link on my comments on my channel. Just say that I allowed it so that others don't think I do it with just anyone.
Thanks man!
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bascially don,t break under pressure and make the siuation worse...it,s like kicking a game winning field goal if u don,t make it u lose the game...
Right! Good analogy -- But treat it more than a field goal, and more like a whole step-by-step play you need to execute.
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Amazing content and helping me (along with licensed medical professinal) My question to you is, where/how where you educated to have this level of expertise.
This guy is way more mature and sober than me and my wife but we're getting there 😂
Hmm dont agree its still mindgames ... Be upfront that you want to resolve but also be sincere not needy guard the needs of your kids if present in marriage or seperation and have patience and yes better yourself off course
This guy is powerful
Thank you for the kind words sir :)
My dear if you want help to get your ex back
Message me on WhatsApp.
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And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex
Great advice. Thanks 🙏
Hi Juan,
Thank you for the comment and your support.
Thanks bro!
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Such good advice!
Love it! Thank you for the comment and support.
Awesome stuff, keep up the good work
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Geoff I only have a day to sign the divorce papers and she is not giving me a chance to fight for her, and in the state of Utah it takes 30 days to finalize a divorce. What can I do please
What if you already made some mistakes at the beginning of the seperation? And didn't follow these steps, but a month later you are trying to do these things? Is it too late?
Hi Devin Duval,
I have yet to have a case when it is too late. There is no tipping point in long-term relationships and in marriages. If you prove that you are the best option, then your partner will pick you. Kinda that simple.
Anyway I can get a private phone call with you? Going through a divorce and I want to reconcile, my wife had an affair while I was incarcerated. She has left our home and moved into her own place. She claims she called it off with the guy. I felt like we were making progress and then her brother died. And now she is broken and has distanced herself even more from me. She never would be honest about what was actually going on and I reached out to her friend and got the truth. I confronted her with it but she is even more angry with me because I done that.
What is you''re tips if she has never learned to express her emotions, she doesn't have a langiuage for it.
I have questions please answer. My wife thinks i cheated on her but i really didn’t and now she wants to divorce immediately and she doesn’t want to fix nothing. I have followed everything you have talked about for 2 months and she still doesn’t want anything to do with me. She wants to move on. Now i got Solid Proof and Evidence that I didn’t cheated on her. Should i try and show her my evidence or should i keep with your process?
Sounds like her excuse to leave. She's built up in her mind what she thinks happened and how. Facts probably won't matter.
Or she's projecting on you.
Can you do this if you’ve been separated for a while?
Hi dicervo,
I have had clients been divorced for several years apply these principles to their relationship and get back together.
ruclips.net/video/nxq_UJhlcJ8/видео.html
Any tips with someone who cheated?
Hi Sora,
Nothing changes. You still must rebuild trust & safety in order for your partner want to heal and be open to the relationship once again.
These tips where really helpful and insightful, but what if you already spoke to your spouse are are just respecting her space, you told her you would change and all, after hearing your point of view, can one still go back and use the new knowledge you just shared in your video, is it not too late to use it?
@@Rosemary-ot4ol that's really good to hear, what was the process
@@Rosemary-ot4ol I will contact him, thank you so much
Brother -- this is a scam. Do not contact this number :) I literally get 100s of these every week on my channel (and anyone's channel for that matter)
@@GeoffreySetiawan absolutely man, I just needed for the person to stop texting, I know very well that this is a process. There are no shortcuts in life, I have to trust in the process, the season, thank you for the heads up man, really appreciate that!
How can one move on from a wife who has badmouthed her husband about private matters to others?
Hi Gandolf M. Student,
Check out this video and feel free to follow this review up with another question on the first one you just asked.
ruclips.net/video/Hr5CR5pb330/видео.html
How do I know those tips are working?
This playlist might help answer your question: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
Geoffrey why do they never come back ?
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These words can be texted to her? If she is in the phase of not picking up the calls and some how built a wall.
my husband left me for his ex girlfriend he had before he got married to me I was so eager to get him back because I loved him, my world came crumbling when my husband engaged his mistress ,the fear of sharing my home with a strange woman took the better part of me. I lived in agony and torment, then I decided to seek the help of Dr Aguiyi just to get back my husband. I told him my problem, he promise to reunite my husband back to me and he did exactly what he said. For sure he brought back my husband to me and we two are peacefully together for good. if you have any problem in your home, marriage/relationship and email: aguiyispellcaster@gmail.com or WhatsApp him on +2348151642717.
My dear if you want help to get your ex back
Message me on WhatsApp.
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And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex
Do women have a logical brain side?? My situation make me wonder. Thanks gor your vid and info.
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I'll never take him back. He hates me and lies and tells me it's his fault. I haven't slept in days
This is good but what about her, does she need to change too, or is just us, this sounds like we are the guilty ones in relationships.