I love the subtle messages in here as well. She didn't "fix" or "change" him, all of the day-to-day behavior stayed pretty much the same. She just brought out the happy part of him that was dormant without her. Life is better together.
@@monsieurLDN I mean, they love each other. Certainly not subtle. Everything is repeated, but better, also not subtle. But intentionally writing the script in a way that he's not necessarily broken before, and she doesn't "fix" him - that takes balance and subtlety, yeah.
I hate and love this so much. When I think about getting into a relationship, this is what I think about, not sex, not desire, not status, but internal happiness and warmth.
The fact that the light was blue at the end but turned warm when she cuddled with him was also symbolic that he is still himself, but every time her presence is near him, he feels better.
After a shitty childhood, anti-social teen years, uni struggles, coming back to help my dad after my mom left him in hospital... 6 years of grind, depression and porn addiction. I finally got a great career.. I just realized I am 32 and people at the office all have families, I never realized how alone I have gone through life, its always been me, doing the work the grind.
Same here. I have spent my entire life getting good grades, excelling at college, working, creating my own business and after all the struggle, I look around and realize that I put myself into this missery of loneliness, I'm here thinking how I spent most of my twenties grinding and how I forgot to enjoy my life. I'm single thanks to how much I neglected my social life. To anyone out there, remember life is one and you better had a good time.
Yeah... We just live once. It might be too late to turn back time now but I'm sure that you still have wonderful days and tons of opportunities and blessings ahead. I don't know what you think about eternity, but from my point of view - coming from someone who tries its best to be a good disciple of Jesus Christ-, things don't end here. I wish you moments of joy and wisdom to make the best life choices possible from now on ❣️
32 as well, but my 20s were spent being isolated because I was a socially awkward dweeb. It took me until 32 to finally mature and now I have been committing to public events / hobbies to meet people. It's never too late, friend.
@@therebelninja66 all good bro. just looking around at cinematography stuff for inspiration for future vids for the channel and for personal experiments. How are things?
I love the accurate display of the fact that life is so boring when you don't have someone to share it with, simple things become so much better with that special person
Life is only as boring as you make it, but it *is* lonely when you're the only one who remembers the 'not-boring' parts. Don't you think? I don't remember the last time I was bored. 8 musical instruments, a bit of sound engineering, training parkour, cycling (bmx, trials, mtb, gravel, road), building models, flying RC planes, woodwork, fixing everything I can (from a faucet through a washing machine to electronics), reading books, sketching and drawing, sailing, canoeing and kayaking, climbing/bouldering.. All of these are a source of fun, even when there's not a single soul around. Still, playing music is more fun in a band or an orchestra. Sports are much safer, and can be even more fun with others. Even reading books is more fun when you don't have to discuss them with yourself.
@@antonpayne919 Even a good marriage has its lows. Imagine your wife gets into a wheelchair and losing her ability to take care of herself while she is hating her life. Or in another situation you can't have children because of you or your child dies. Or dementia kicks in or you can't make a living for your family because of an external reason like massive economical problems. Even with a good partner your marriage will have it's lows and you have to live with your partners problems, bad habits and qualities and mistakes. It's nothing like paradise but still worth it most of the time compared to being alone.
I like that he wasn't in a bad state without her (as that setup was already pretty personable and clean), the good things were just highlighted by her.
I was there. I prayed deeply so that God would put some nice girl in my life, and eventually it happened. Three things: 1- It took longer than I thought or wished for (but it came), 2- It came after I worked on me, I was supper skinny and I met her after 6 months of workout that made me get to 60kg (way better looking) and 3- It was not exactly what I expected, her body type was different than my desire at the time, it was a distance relationship and I imagined it wouldn't last long, but as time passed, I saw she was special. We are together for 12 years, and I had yonger and more attractive girls approaching me and said "NO", I never forget one day I prayed to be with the woman I am right now. Long text, hope it helps.
She constantly micromanaged him and forced him to change several things she found unacceptable. OK so she allowed him to wear hats (for now)-so what? It's like saying I'm so glad that the warden allows me to have free time in the yard.
@@lucidvibes8133 Because I've been there and can recognize the red flags much easier now. If she's trying to repeatedly change who he is early on, that is a really bad sign. He didn't' do any of that to her in the video, he just enjoyed her company.
@davidm4566 The F are you blabbering about. What did she do that is "micromanaging?" They're having fun together. Playing silly acts. And she bought him new clothes based on what he likes. The man is still the same person but not alone. Your view of red flags are too strict and will make a person disinterested in you. I advise you don't get into a relationship if you're this harsh.
"Home is where the heart is" I've always loved my solitude. But this perfectly summarises just how brighter my world becomes when I'm with my wife and son. They bring me joy and give me purpose. When I'm with them, I'm safe, I'm truly "myself"....I'm truly home.
You can't wait for it to change. You have to get out of the house, exercise, etc. Become a more positive version of yourself because no one's going to be naturally attracted to lonely, negative energy. if you do find someone in your current mindset, it's only going to drag them down, over time. Know yourself before you find someone else.
We spoke as friends and coworkers for 3 years and up until a month ago we started to become romantically involved. This video hit my heart strings because this was me every day lonely, lost, sad, and depressed. My heart was yearning for legitimate love. The day we became romantically involved was when my life began to feel warm again! She is such a kind, loving, caring woman and everything I ever wanted! I believe she was yearning for legitimate love as well and I’m so glad we finally put our hearts in each other’s hands!
In my 30s experiencing this for the first time in my life. It's an incredible feeling. This was beautiful from start to finish. The way everything just seems more *warm* when she comes into his life is just...yeah. I felt that. Really well done y'all.
That hit me right in the feels. That sense of loneliness in the beginning (and disappointment in Halo:Infinite xD) and the absolute joy at the end. We all want to feel that at some point in our lives.
Is funny cuz usually the material things that u desire are in some kind a way easy to get to, but the desire to be loved and to love is a matter of time, and no matter how hard u get u wont get it if it's not meant to be. And this is the thing that hurts the most, the thing that u cant really get a person to love u at the snap of a finger, and for me what hurts the most is when i see the love in couple's eyes, and i can feel my heart hurting bad, and the saddest thing is that i cant do anything about it, i cant force something, love has to come natural, and i am not sure if i will ever experience true love but if i will, it will be the best thing of my life.
Guys, the vibe, atmosphere and warmth of the video is so cool. Dunno how to describe that. I think those relationships that all people want and deserve. Just little happiness ☺️
I don't know you, and wont pretend I do. But it gets better, I promise. I can't say when, I can't say how, but it does. Those words "I can't even imagine a future with me in it at all", that was me at some point. Still is sometimes. But with time, things got better, and a future with me in is slowly starting to look more realistic. Stay strong ❤
Same, man. Just a short film like this conveys so much. I'm still a teenager. My life isn't even sorted yet, but damn I felt the emotion in this. Life doesn't have to drastically change, but someone else can just bring out that lost happiness inside of you - whether that be friends, a new hobby, a new club - or, very well - a partner like this. Just gives a reason to feel happy, and care for someone and yourself - and be loved and cared for. Just shows how before, life goes on. Normal. Not exciting, not bad - but a bit dull. Then suddenly, something good happens! And your whole world just brightens up. Very good camerawork and techniques as well, in just a small period of time so much detail was given. Very well done.
I'm happy and confused this got recommended to me with less then 700 views. Great video and recognisable. Perhaps the algoritms just knew who we were...
The "before" part is exactly how I live right now, all the shots seem like a recreation of my day-to-day scenes. A guy in his mid 20s living solo. And anytime I imagine dating, the "after" part is how I imagine (and truly hope) it would be. I love this short film so much!
A year ago I would probably cry after watching this. Now Im so dead inside I just said to myself "yup, this ain't gonna happen for you man". But yeah objectively it's a great short film, kudos to the makers.
Yo. Not to be that guy who gives deep emotional advice through RUclips comments… but you’ll meet the right person eventually! God loves you, and he’s got someone special waiting for you. Even in the movie the dude looks dead inside, but then the girl lights a spark in him! Just keep moving one step at a time. Hope this helps!
Amazing! Loving the emotions, the change in mood with lighting and how the ending brings the whole story together. Found this channel through the "killing time" and especially this "before I met you" short film gave me a boost to continue with writing my first short film. Thank you for bringing this story alive :)
I can say this - having had daughters, especially when they are young, brings this kind of simple joy. The lights do get bright from their their smiles and laughs. You are the world to them, a king of the castle. Maybe someday I will see grand-kids and this again.
Okay this is a masterpeice of showing how being loved can affect us and how it can make us feel better, how it changes our perspective. I cried during this video. I felt a past me showing for a second.. a past me that felt this love. this beautiful feeling of joy and seeing world colorfully.
This is incredible. Absolutely and truly incredible. I'm speechless at how beautifully made this video is, and at how little views it has. The story, the acting, the set-mood, and mostly the cinematography. This short-film is better than most full-length features films I've seen. Something about it just feels so- innocent. So real. It hits deep in a wonderful and magical way. Thank you for breathing life into such a beautiful creation, and on a more personal note - as this made me think of her straight away, and how much this reminds me of us - thank you for bringing out that side in me M. I love you💘
oh my gosh this is so endless beautiful!!! amazing use of music, light, colours and just everything!!! thanks for sharing such a nice short movie!! Greetings from Berlin 😍😍
I can justify how this film becomes a reminder for me. About many months, I have now two greatest people in my life, although old and very close friends but I see them as sisters and love them till the end of time. Before, life was feeling dull, persistent, unexciting and dark. After, although everything is the same, I was the same but they made me happier than I never felt in my life. Just as much your a loner or have no one, even beyond that small change can be anything like relationship, new hobby, new place etc
Watching this makes me feel so alone again. I used to have the same feeling with my special someone. She just made my days worth living for. It was the best year and 9 months, but the man upstairs had something else planned for me. I prayed just a week before i found some of the worst news of my life. I saw a text message on her phone from her Guy best friend. So i opened her phone to let him know she was asleep(it was 3 a.m.), usually by this time she would still be awake, and i would be asleep. You can probably see where this is going. I found messages i wish i never would of seen. She told me that this "guy best friend" was different from the rest. I believed her cause i trusted her with my life. For 6 ish months she was cheating on me with him. For context she would go over there often to hangout and i thought nothing of it cause her last 3 relationships she was cheated on. So i didn't think she would put someone else through that pain. But she did, right at the end of the school year. 2 days before school ended. Now I'm not the same anymore. Its been hard for me. She changed my life for the better. She lived with me cause her parents were not great to her.( I'm 17). She was so involved in my life. Almost every second of the day we were together. We both had our problems. I had trouble communicating and she had trouble with overthinking. Just not a great combo. It was also my first relationship with anyone. It feels like all the things we been together were for nothing. But i believe that God has a plan for me, and all i have to do is trust him. To trust the process. This film was great. The cinematic shots were amazing. Stay true to yourself and much love.❤❤❤❤❤
Sorry to hear that :/ It will get better with time. Just trust the process, and do not supress your emotions. If you feel like crying, then do so. But also do not let this impact your daily life. Do what you got to do, hit the gym, study/work and try to build yourself up and keep your mind occupied. Staying at home and drowning in self pity will not do yourself or your future self any favour. As hard as it might be, as good as it seemed, if this person cheats on you then she is not your special one my brother. Get that out of your head. Cheating does not happen in a blink of an eye. It takes so many steps before one sleeps with another. And it also was not once, she did it over months. Im really sorry you have to go through something like this, no one deserves this but you will become stronger and more confident eventually. I believe in that and that is how it has been for most people if they process the break up in a healthy way, reflect on it and do not let it define their future. You got this!
oh bro, that story makes me sad. I went through a similar situation, the person I loved, with whom I lived together for two and a half years, cheated on me with a person she met while playing a computer game. I also got into messages with him and saw something that was better not to be seen, so I understand your pain. After this, my life will never be the same. I've been to both sides of this video. I'm back to the first half of this video again and it's very sad, but I'm trying not to give up. Don't give up either, I know that you are a great person and you deserve better, everything will get better someday. All the best to you
you guys were friendzoned so bad. but if you had more control over this, and showed dominance, she would consider you as your man, instead of some random best friend. Friend. you have no idea what loneliness actually is. you are still a kid.
@@realracing3specter295what do u mean friendzoned so bad! They were in relationship! Its her mistake if she consider him as friend then she shouldn’t be in a relationship from the start, she cheated, and cheating on someone is definitely an awful thing that can’t be justified no matter what
Totally teared up at toward the end. I love the way she brightened up his life and adored and wanted to just care for him and be there by his side. I get it💛💛💛💛💛💛
This is what I want and need the most. People around me don't understand. Almost everything i do alone feels so dull. For me life is meaningless and too cruel but theres nothing i can do about this so its even harder to do anything but the only thing i find a sense in is company, people friends family, spending time with someone who i love and they love me is so important to me. The moment im with my friends im a different person, with a smile and everything feels fun. Whats more im a really clingy person and being alone is really hard for me cuz i have the constant urge to touch someone hug kiss bite whatever. Very often people say to me that i have to learn how to start loving my own company and other things like that. I tried and after some time of pretending i had a breakdown and it was very hard time for me cuz i lost myslef, i didnt know what to think about me because i spent so much time of trying to deny what i feel (a need of company). Since i was a little child my main purposes my biggest dreams were to have a best friend and/or a partner and because of it i was manipulated and mentally abused whole elementary school. In high school it was hard to believe that people can be njce to me and treat me right. After 2,5 i finnaly made friends which still are my best and only friends but very introverted and different from me so our friendship cant fully satisfy my needs and still i feel very very lonely but less ofc than before meeting them, i love them so much and we always have sm fun together. Making friends is very hard for me even though im very open and i feel love for people around me and im always up to chat and anything. I talk about it a lot with my friend, we are both neurodivergent and have the same experience. I am always ready to give my heart to people i smile i am kind but there isnt anyone who would take it and become close with me. It makes me really depressed because as i said earlier friendship relationships people these are the things most important for me and my whole life all i do is try and try and try to make them real but i fail.. im very scared of my future. Im too tired already i feel like i cant live cuz everything in life is hard for me so hard it makes me suffer. I believe a company ive always dreamed of would really help, not make everything perfect but this would make my life meaningfull. Like i said i feel very misunderstood but this video shows how a right companion makes a huge difference which i really need. Ah i said a lot, maybe it sounds pathethic idk thats just the way i feel and think. Gotta go and study, final weeks or my final week..
i feel so encouraged to put my phone away and spend time with God from watching this 😄 that may sound so off topic, but i was feeling down and this reminded me of how much of a hoy it is to just journal to Him, talk to Him about anything & everything, or cook in His presence. tomorrow is gonna be a good day 😊 now i have hope of that again!
How is it I get more storytelling satisfaction from short film and short shows more than any blockbuster? Huh? This was phenomenal little film and I enjoyed all two minutes and four seconds. thanks for making the day for me. Keep making film
Not a surprise that we all feel better with someone that giving us love, attention, good moments... I wish everyone including myself to find this kind of love a day. We all deserve it. Physical appearance doesn't matter. Good luck everyone. Thanks for this insane video with a beautiful message.
I have watched more than once and I just love this video so much. It gives me this happy feeling how his life just got way more happier with her and filled what was empty before. Makes me very happy
Nice and heart warming video but it’s all fake. Love doesn’t exist anymore in this world. Been cheated on, left, hurt too many times and now I’m numb. I don’t feel anything anymore. I don’t know what’s wrong with me
Her light is Godly and heavenly.I love the last scene how her touch bought a smile on his face and lit his face so bright.True love can heal anyone at any time.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
To be honest, I’ve always been confused about love and how it works, even when being with someone as of writing this. However, now watching this video, I realize that love isn’t supposed to change your life and how you live it, but make it better. Thanks for this 💜
This flim felt so timeless I didn't realise this was two weeks ago, until I saw the reaction video was just 5 days ago... I assumed that was a great video posted like 8 years ago and and somehow it is still relevant....
I love the subtle messages in here as well. She didn't "fix" or "change" him, all of the day-to-day behavior stayed pretty much the same. She just brought out the happy part of him that was dormant without her. Life is better together.
Subtle?
@@monsieurLDN I mean, they love each other. Certainly not subtle. Everything is repeated, but better, also not subtle. But intentionally writing the script in a way that he's not necessarily broken before, and she doesn't "fix" him - that takes balance and subtlety, yeah.
@@OandCoGamesThat is beta behavior though.
Imagine his mom was reporting to the womens council he was depressed and not worth being around until he learned to love himself better 😂
@@Cussmem07 XD?
I hate and love this so much. When I think about getting into a relationship, this is what I think about, not sex, not desire, not status, but internal happiness and warmth.
Bro, you are like a copy of me!!
Same, I yearn to build a valuable bond and connection with her
@@jaughnekow Good boys are still alive. And, some girls don't understand that.
I feel like more people are like that than we think
Love this view!
loved how the warm light’s intensity increased in the last scene
It was such a perfect choice.
Shot, but yeah.
That was the whole point
Moral of the story - Good lighting is important.
True and good Eating😂
The fact that the light was blue at the end but turned warm when she cuddled with him was also symbolic that he is still himself, but every time her presence is near him, he feels better.
You made a grown ass man cry and reminded me that I'm lucky to be married to a wonderful wife. Thanks.
Same, brother. I’ll go hug my wife, you go hug yours.
Different kind of pain when you've been through both stages of this video, but are back in the first one.
Yeah, my time in the sun is over as well. Even if you travel in a loop it's the journey that changes you not the destination
Same things, man. That's break my soul.
It hits deep when you know what the other side is like. Single is cool but in my opinion it doesn’t hold a candle to a healthy relationship.
Don't ever ever depend on someone else to bring you emotional stability except for yourself.
@@connorduval3977 It's eternal darkness in here...
After a shitty childhood, anti-social teen years, uni struggles, coming back to help my dad after my mom left him in hospital... 6 years of grind, depression and porn addiction. I finally got a great career.. I just realized I am 32 and people at the office all have families, I never realized how alone I have gone through life, its always been me, doing the work the grind.
Same here. I have spent my entire life getting good grades, excelling at college, working, creating my own business and after all the struggle, I look around and realize that I put myself into this missery of loneliness, I'm here thinking how I spent most of my twenties grinding and how I forgot to enjoy my life. I'm single thanks to how much I neglected my social life.
To anyone out there, remember life is one and you better had a good time.
Yeah... We just live once. It might be too late to turn back time now but I'm sure that you still have wonderful days and tons of opportunities and blessings ahead. I don't know what you think about eternity, but from my point of view - coming from someone who tries its best to be a good disciple of Jesus Christ-, things don't end here. I wish you moments of joy and wisdom to make the best life choices possible from now on ❣️
I am just 19, but i have hope for you, that one that you will have a happy family.
My two cents on that is that the greatest people have risen from such bad times.. your time will come cause you my friend have earned it
32 as well, but my 20s were spent being isolated because I was a socially awkward dweeb. It took me until 32 to finally mature and now I have been committing to public events / hobbies to meet people. It's never too late, friend.
bro the cinematography is insane. this short film is great
hey whats up dude did not expect to find you here
@@therebelninja66 all good bro. just looking around at cinematography stuff for inspiration for future vids for the channel and for personal experiments. How are things?
I love the accurate display of the fact that life is so boring when you don't have someone to share it with, simple things become so much better with that special person
Life is only as boring as you make it, but it *is* lonely when you're the only one who remembers the 'not-boring' parts. Don't you think?
I don't remember the last time I was bored. 8 musical instruments, a bit of sound engineering, training parkour, cycling (bmx, trials, mtb, gravel, road), building models, flying RC planes, woodwork, fixing everything I can (from a faucet through a washing machine to electronics), reading books, sketching and drawing, sailing, canoeing and kayaking, climbing/bouldering.. All of these are a source of fun, even when there's not a single soul around. Still, playing music is more fun in a band or an orchestra. Sports are much safer, and can be even more fun with others. Even reading books is more fun when you don't have to discuss them with yourself.
People say marriage is bad. WRONG! Bad/incompatible partner is bad for you. A good marriage literally can be a paradise..
For how long?
@@csakegybolond264til death do us part
@@csakegybolond264Until he is the woman and she is the man
I don't know man marriage is like a gamble It's all about the woman you marry she could trun your life into paradise or hell
@@antonpayne919 Even a good marriage has its lows. Imagine your wife gets into a wheelchair and losing her ability to take care of herself while she is hating her life. Or in another situation you can't have children because of you or your child dies. Or dementia kicks in or you can't make a living for your family because of an external reason like massive economical problems.
Even with a good partner your marriage will have it's lows and you have to live with your partners problems, bad habits and qualities and mistakes. It's nothing like paradise but still worth it most of the time compared to being alone.
I like that he wasn't in a bad state without her (as that setup was already pretty personable and clean), the good things were just highlighted by her.
I wish I could feel this one day.
It's just endless loneliness...
It will be you bro. But for now, focus on yourself and the right person will come along at the right time
I wish you do! ❤
Same
I was there. I prayed deeply so that God would put some nice girl in my life, and eventually it happened. Three things: 1- It took longer than I thought or wished for (but it came), 2- It came after I worked on me, I was supper skinny and I met her after 6 months of workout that made me get to 60kg (way better looking) and 3- It was not exactly what I expected, her body type was different than my desire at the time, it was a distance relationship and I imagined it wouldn't last long, but as time passed, I saw she was special. We are together for 12 years, and I had yonger and more attractive girls approaching me and said "NO", I never forget one day I prayed to be with the woman I am right now.
Long text, hope it helps.
Relationship or no relationship, having a happy egg like that in your life will surely brighten your days
I love that she didn’t try to make him stop wearing hats, she just got him another one.
Yeah. It fit so well.
She constantly micromanaged him and forced him to change several things she found unacceptable.
OK so she allowed him to wear hats (for now)-so what?
It's like saying I'm so glad that the warden allows me to have free time in the yard.
@@davidm4566 why so serious
@@lucidvibes8133 Because I've been there and can recognize the red flags much easier now. If she's trying to repeatedly change who he is early on, that is a really bad sign. He didn't' do any of that to her in the video, he just enjoyed her company.
@davidm4566 The F are you blabbering about. What did she do that is "micromanaging?" They're having fun together. Playing silly acts. And she bought him new clothes based on what he likes. The man is still the same person but not alone. Your view of red flags are too strict and will make a person disinterested in you. I advise you don't get into a relationship if you're this harsh.
"Home is where the heart is"
I've always loved my solitude. But this perfectly summarises just how brighter my world becomes when I'm with my wife and son. They bring me joy and give me purpose. When I'm with them, I'm safe, I'm truly "myself"....I'm truly home.
I was just sad the whole time watching this. The whole first half is my life currently and never feels like it’ll change
same
It will. Trust me
It will change and get better! It's hard for me to even imagine my life now from my perspective five years ago. Hang in there :)
You can't wait for it to change. You have to get out of the house, exercise, etc. Become a more positive version of yourself because no one's going to be naturally attracted to lonely, negative energy. if you do find someone in your current mindset, it's only going to drag them down, over time. Know yourself before you find someone else.
@@shubhtiwari14 It wont
Everyone nowadays just want freaky relationship, meanwhile i just want true love, understanding each other and helping eachother relationship.
Freaky ahh
@@thefactsminer Shut up.
dude, like
this may have changed a part of my brain
seriously
Same. Changed my perspective towards marriage entirely.
If i'll end up like this with a girl then f*ck it im all in
We spoke as friends and coworkers for 3 years and up until a month ago we started to become romantically involved. This video hit my heart strings because this was me every day lonely, lost, sad, and depressed. My heart was yearning for legitimate love. The day we became romantically involved was when my life began to feel warm again! She is such a kind, loving, caring woman and everything I ever wanted! I believe she was yearning for legitimate love as well and I’m so glad we finally put our hearts in each other’s hands!
Cherish it bro
The fact that this only has 600 views is insane to me. This really struck a chord with me. Thank you for putting this out there. Truly.
was the chord a minorrrrrrr ahah jk jk
It greatly helps that the music is also "reminiscent" of the movie Up. Not to mention the story beats too
It's at 11k now!
14k now
24k
In my 30s experiencing this for the first time in my life. It's an incredible feeling. This was beautiful from start to finish. The way everything just seems more *warm* when she comes into his life is just...yeah. I felt that. Really well done y'all.
This makes me cry
Wait, why isn't this comment pinned yet?
MrBeast
@@ankitmazumder4506 not everyone cries
Me too, mate, me too
The music from Up doesn't help lol. 😅
Dear algorithm, why are you showing me something i will never live ?
Sure feels that way doesn't it?
That hit me right in the feels. That sense of loneliness in the beginning (and disappointment in Halo:Infinite xD) and the absolute joy at the end. We all want to feel that at some point in our lives.
I was vibing with the loneliness 'til I saw Halo Infinite and I just burst out laughing xD
Is funny cuz usually the material things that u desire are in some kind a way easy to get to, but the desire to be loved and to love is a matter of time, and no matter how hard u get u wont get it if it's not meant to be. And this is the thing that hurts the most, the thing that u cant really get a person to love u at the snap of a finger, and for me what hurts the most is when i see the love in couple's eyes, and i can feel my heart hurting bad, and the saddest thing is that i cant do anything about it, i cant force something, love has to come natural, and i am not sure if i will ever experience true love but if i will, it will be the best thing of my life.
No words can describe this feeling better than a video like this.
This is gonna blew up my mate.
Fantastic creation. More of them please
Guys, the vibe, atmosphere and warmth of the video is so cool. Dunno how to describe that.
I think those relationships that all people want and deserve. Just little happiness ☺️
For me, it's *after* we broke up. And the memories of her linger on here and there.
Shit man... sorry. Things should get better eventually tho... for me it is when she's home vs when she's at work / travelling for work
I know the feeling… but the best thing I can tell you is to go and do stuff with your mates… the lads are what got me through my breakups in the past…
Fantastic. The lighting and grade change when he found her laying beside him was just... chef's kiss. Well done sir.
Short and sweet.
Wish my life wasn't stuck on the first half on repeat that much tho.
Man this stings in a way I can't quite define. This is something I'll probably never have...I can't even imagine a future with me in it at all
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I don't know you, and wont pretend I do. But it gets better, I promise.
I can't say when, I can't say how, but it does.
Those words "I can't even imagine a future with me in it at all", that was me at some point. Still is sometimes. But with time, things got better, and a future with me in is slowly starting to look more realistic.
Stay strong ❤
Same, man. Just a short film like this conveys so much. I'm still a teenager. My life isn't even sorted yet, but damn I felt the emotion in this. Life doesn't have to drastically change, but someone else can just bring out that lost happiness inside of you - whether that be friends, a new hobby, a new club - or, very well - a partner like this. Just gives a reason to feel happy, and care for someone and yourself - and be loved and cared for. Just shows how before, life goes on. Normal. Not exciting, not bad - but a bit dull. Then suddenly, something good happens! And your whole world just brightens up. Very good camerawork and techniques as well, in just a small period of time so much detail was given. Very well done.
I love how much this reminds me of my wife and I.
I'm happy and confused this got recommended to me with less then 700 views. Great video and recognisable. Perhaps the algoritms just knew who we were...
You probably watch good content
Homie so sad he sleeps with a hat to feel some form of embrace
It’s crazy how much a women can lighten up a man’s life. (The right women)
Yeah but they’re very rare man lol
I love your representation of emotions through colors!!!!!!!
This called me single in every single language 😂😂
On god 😂
Imma lose it man...
Algorithm out here just catching bodies
And invented 16 new ones and revived 50 old ones.
Thank you RUclips for recommending this after my break up. Like watching a before and after in reverse.
Going through the toughest moments in your life alone truly sucks, this moved me.
The "before" part is exactly how I live right now, all the shots seem like a recreation of my day-to-day scenes. A guy in his mid 20s living solo. And anytime I imagine dating, the "after" part is how I imagine (and truly hope) it would be. I love this short film so much!
Ur naivety and horniness is astounding
A year ago I would probably cry after watching this. Now Im so dead inside I just said to myself "yup, this ain't gonna happen for you man". But yeah objectively it's a great short film, kudos to the makers.
we're on the same road my friend
Yo. Not to be that guy who gives deep emotional advice through RUclips comments… but you’ll meet the right person eventually! God loves you, and he’s got someone special waiting for you. Even in the movie the dude looks dead inside, but then the girl lights a spark in him! Just keep moving one step at a time.
Hope this helps!
All we can be is happy for those who found it
dont give up brothers, lock in. lifes fragile❤❤💪💪
I watch this every night before bed and think to myself “what am I doing wrong” and wonder what it is that needs to change.
Same bro.
I cry every times.
Don't be dramatic guys and just try to do something about it
@@Unknown-bq8tv nah bro I think I’m done
@Unknown-bq8tv is not that easy
Your partner surely won't appear magically like the girl in the video
you gotta go out there and let them girls notice you.
I was expecting a bad ending, but it turned out well, quite refreshing.
I’ve never been happier for two internet strangers. Cheers you two
I forgot how lovely it is to share life's experiences with someone. Thank you ❤
These are my dreams before I wake up
Amazing! Loving the emotions, the change in mood with lighting and how the ending brings the whole story together.
Found this channel through the "killing time" and especially this "before I met you" short film gave me a boost to continue with writing my first short film.
Thank you for bringing this story alive :)
Thanks so much for the support! So fun to see "Killing Time" inspire so many people to get back into their own content! We love that.
I can say this - having had daughters, especially when they are young, brings this kind of simple joy. The lights do get bright from their their smiles and laughs. You are the world to them, a king of the castle. Maybe someday I will see grand-kids and this again.
The lighting design and the facial acting in this was top notch! Wow! This is immediately going into my favorite short films list. ❤️
Okay this is a masterpeice of showing how being loved can affect us and how it can make us feel better, how it changes our perspective. I cried during this video. I felt a past me showing for a second.. a past me that felt this love. this beautiful feeling of joy and seeing world colorfully.
This is incredible. Absolutely and truly incredible. I'm speechless at how beautifully made this video is, and at how little views it has. The story, the acting, the set-mood, and mostly the cinematography. This short-film is better than most full-length features films I've seen. Something about it just feels so- innocent. So real. It hits deep in a wonderful and magical way. Thank you for breathing life into such a beautiful creation, and on a more personal note - as this made me think of her straight away, and how much this reminds me of us - thank you for bringing out that side in me M. I love you💘
oh my gosh this is so endless beautiful!!! amazing use of music, light, colours and just everything!!! thanks for sharing such a nice short movie!! Greetings from Berlin 😍😍
The effects in this were fantastic, sometimes a change in color can tell the story better than words.
THE USE OF LIGHT IS BRILLIANT. Absolutely insane. This deserves more than a subscribe!
This is phenomenal not even a single line spoken and the message is so strong, incredibly well done
I can justify how this film becomes a reminder for me. About many months, I have now two greatest people in my life, although old and very close friends but I see them as sisters and love them till the end of time. Before, life was feeling dull, persistent, unexciting and dark. After, although everything is the same, I was the same but they made me happier than I never felt in my life. Just as much your a loner or have no one, even beyond that small change can be anything like relationship, new hobby, new place etc
bro learned about color theory and decided to practically apply it. Nice job!!!
Nothing change bro, you just found one to share your time with. Im happy for you man. Really.
Watching this makes me feel so alone again. I used to have the same feeling with my special someone. She just made my days worth living for. It was the best year and 9 months, but the man upstairs had something else planned for me. I prayed just a week before i found some of the worst news of my life. I saw a text message on her phone from her Guy best friend. So i opened her phone to let him know she was asleep(it was 3 a.m.), usually by this time she would still be awake, and i would be asleep. You can probably see where this is going. I found messages i wish i never would of seen. She told me that this "guy best friend" was different from the rest. I believed her cause i trusted her with my life. For 6 ish months she was cheating on me with him. For context she would go over there often to hangout and i thought nothing of it cause her last 3 relationships she was cheated on. So i didn't think she would put someone else through that pain. But she did, right at the end of the school year. 2 days before school ended. Now I'm not the same anymore. Its been hard for me. She changed my life for the better. She lived with me cause her parents were not great to her.( I'm 17). She was so involved in my life. Almost every second of the day we were together. We both had our problems. I had trouble communicating and she had trouble with overthinking. Just not a great combo. It was also my first relationship with anyone. It feels like all the things we been together were for nothing. But i believe that God has a plan for me, and all i have to do is trust him. To trust the process. This film was great. The cinematic shots were amazing. Stay true to yourself and much love.❤❤❤❤❤
Sorry to hear that :/
It will get better with time. Just trust the process, and do not supress your emotions. If you feel like crying, then do so. But also do not let this impact your daily life. Do what you got to do, hit the gym, study/work and try to build yourself up and keep your mind occupied. Staying at home and drowning in self pity will not do yourself or your future self any favour.
As hard as it might be, as good as it seemed, if this person cheats on you then she is not your special one my brother. Get that out of your head. Cheating does not happen in a blink of an eye. It takes so many steps before one sleeps with another. And it also was not once, she did it over months. Im really sorry you have to go through something like this, no one deserves this but you will become stronger and more confident eventually. I believe in that and that is how it has been for most people if they process the break up in a healthy way, reflect on it and do not let it define their future.
You got this!
oh bro, that story makes me sad.
I went through a similar situation, the person I loved, with whom I lived together for two and a half years, cheated on me with a person she met while playing a computer game. I also got into messages with him and saw something that was better not to be seen, so I understand your pain. After this, my life will never be the same. I've been to both sides of this video. I'm back to the first half of this video again and it's very sad, but I'm trying not to give up. Don't give up either, I know that you are a great person and you deserve better, everything will get better someday. All the best to you
you guys were friendzoned so bad. but if you had more control over this, and showed dominance, she would consider you as your man, instead of some random best friend. Friend.
you have no idea what loneliness actually is. you are still a kid.
dude, this is almost my situation rn :/
@@realracing3specter295what do u mean friendzoned so bad! They were in relationship! Its her mistake if she consider him as friend then she shouldn’t be in a relationship from the start, she cheated, and cheating on someone is definitely an awful thing that can’t be justified no matter what
Totally teared up at toward the end. I love the way she brightened up his life and adored and wanted to just care for him and be there by his side. I get it💛💛💛💛💛💛
1:38 Oh we all love this thing about relationships ❤
It takes a special kind of genius to deliver this level of brilliance in under 2 minutes. 🙌
1:20 - Video Title must be changed as: “Before I Met You and a Tabby Cat 😼- Short Film”
That dang cat.
This is genuinely so sweet...
really cool stuff, the lighting is great
This is such a nice short film. I have the feeling this could make many people cry.
I can make the same short film as you..... only difference is that mine ends at 01:00.
Bruhh..😂😂😂
🤣🤣
BRO SAME 💀
The color palette never lies. I simply loved it
This is what I want and need the most. People around me don't understand. Almost everything i do alone feels so dull. For me life is meaningless and too cruel but theres nothing i can do about this so its even harder to do anything but the only thing i find a sense in is company, people friends family, spending time with someone who i love and they love me is so important to me. The moment im with my friends im a different person, with a smile and everything feels fun. Whats more im a really clingy person and being alone is really hard for me cuz i have the constant urge to touch someone hug kiss bite whatever. Very often people say to me that i have to learn how to start loving my own company and other things like that. I tried and after some time of pretending i had a breakdown and it was very hard time for me cuz i lost myslef, i didnt know what to think about me because i spent so much time of trying to deny what i feel (a need of company). Since i was a little child my main purposes my biggest dreams were to have a best friend and/or a partner and because of it i was manipulated and mentally abused whole elementary school. In high school it was hard to believe that people can be njce to me and treat me right. After 2,5 i finnaly made friends which still are my best and only friends but very introverted and different from me so our friendship cant fully satisfy my needs and still i feel very very lonely but less ofc than before meeting them, i love them so much and we always have sm fun together. Making friends is very hard for me even though im very open and i feel love for people around me and im always up to chat and anything. I talk about it a lot with my friend, we are both neurodivergent and have the same experience. I am always ready to give my heart to people i smile i am kind but there isnt anyone who would take it and become close with me. It makes me really depressed because as i said earlier friendship relationships people these are the things most important for me and my whole life all i do is try and try and try to make them real but i fail.. im very scared of my future. Im too tired already i feel like i cant live cuz everything in life is hard for me so hard it makes me suffer. I believe a company ive always dreamed of would really help, not make everything perfect but this would make my life meaningfull. Like i said i feel very misunderstood but this video shows how a right companion makes a huge difference which i really need. Ah i said a lot, maybe it sounds pathethic idk thats just the way i feel and think. Gotta go and study, final weeks or my final week..
i feel so encouraged to put my phone away and spend time with God from watching this 😄 that may sound so off topic, but i was feeling down and this reminded me of how much of a hoy it is to just journal to Him, talk to Him about anything & everything, or cook in His presence. tomorrow is gonna be a good day 😊 now i have hope of that again!
Thank you for reminding me I'm still single...
Ikr 😭😭😭 Super cute short film, tho.
The cinematography is so pleasantly done, and the lighting was precise and meaningly I love this so much 🙏
We jumping on the train tracks with this one 🗣🗣
How is it I get more storytelling satisfaction from short film and short shows more than any blockbuster? Huh? This was phenomenal little film and I enjoyed all two minutes and four seconds. thanks for making the day for me. Keep making film
DUDE THIS LOOKS AMAZING, you guys deserve more views. I’m glad I got this in my recommended.
(Hopefully this’ll strike a chord with me someday 😅)
GOD, I'D GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE THAT AGAIN....💔😭 I MISS THAT FEELING OF CUDDLING AND BEING SO CLOSE WITH THAT PERSON!💔😭
The music from 'Up' is so good!! 🎈
can you link it please
So I’m not the only one who noticed! Awesome!
@@Prowlzercofficially, the song is called “Married Life”. This may be a rearrangement or something similar.
Not a surprise that we all feel better with someone that giving us love, attention, good moments... I wish everyone including myself to find this kind of love a day. We all deserve it. Physical appearance doesn't matter.
Good luck everyone. Thanks for this insane video with a beautiful message.
0:37 off topic but I have those headphones 😂 Turtle beach is the brand
I have watched more than once and I just love this video so much. It gives me this happy feeling how his life just got way more happier with her and filled what was empty before. Makes me very happy
Im single …… and im still going to be single…😔🫠
This is literally why I do not give up. Im just trying to be better for that warm light one day
Nice and heart warming video but it’s all fake. Love doesn’t exist anymore in this world. Been cheated on, left, hurt too many times and now I’m numb. I don’t feel anything anymore. I don’t know what’s wrong with me
a picture is worth a thousand words , but a video is worth even more
Wow what a beautiful story it was, i really love the message this story gives and the cinematography was fascinating as well. I love it so much
This is what I long for. This is home.
This is absolutely beautiful and spot on!
Life is meant to be shared and lived together. I want this man.
Yoo this is so accurate, especially the kitchen scene is exactly what happens at our place every day.
Her light is Godly and heavenly.I love the last scene how her touch bought a smile on his face and lit his face so bright.True love can heal anyone at any time.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I hope and pray that I'll experience this one day. So far it's just been the first half for me. It seems so nice to have someone love you.
To be honest, I’ve always been confused about love and how it works, even when being with someone as of writing this. However, now watching this video, I realize that love isn’t supposed to change your life and how you live it, but make it better. Thanks for this 💜
This flim felt so timeless I didn't realise this was two weeks ago, until I saw the reaction video was just 5 days ago... I assumed that was a great video posted like 8 years ago and and somehow it is still relevant....
If this was ANY LONGER, I would've started crying
I love this, even though it saddens me
MAKE IT HAPPEN!!! You want love? Find someone you like and GIVE them LOVE. It's that simple.
it just actually isn't! But nice sentiment.
Maybe that'll be me one day, but until then, my heart remains under the grave.
The way u use the lights, freak me up and crying and same time... Great job