The mindset that changed my life IMMEDIATELY

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  • Опубликовано: 16 фев 2024
  • I'm not gonna lie I've been in a challenging place the last few months, but this mindset really did change my life right away and has genuinely been helping me move forward and stay dedicated. I hope this helps someone out there as significantly as it helped me.
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Комментарии • 2,1 тыс.

  • @DaSpeedSter
    @DaSpeedSter 3 месяца назад +5685

    “The pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something.” You changed my life with this one. You really did. Once again, thank you man.

    • @GAMEEX1066
      @GAMEEX1066 3 месяца назад +53

      Something similar that i'm always thinking about lately is "pain of regret is always greater than pain of discipline".

    • @Pap3rKoI.
      @Pap3rKoI. 3 месяца назад +6

      I loved that

    • @jackcarpenters3759
      @jackcarpenters3759 3 месяца назад +9

      i enjoy doing nothing.

    • @jindipity4772
      @jindipity4772 3 месяца назад

      @@jackcarpenters3759 But would you enjoy it in the long run?

    • @Random_Ladd__
      @Random_Ladd__ 3 месяца назад +4

      While action is a life giving breath, inaction is a slow death. - Joey Schweitzer

  • @ThrillOfTheFight
    @ThrillOfTheFight 3 месяца назад +6428

    I have a feeling the algorithm will reward you for this

    • @azyysart
      @azyysart 3 месяца назад +98

      Seriously the same feeling

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  3 месяца назад +520

      I hope so but I just hope this reaches the people that need it 🤞

    • @Pompompommm
      @Pompompommm 3 месяца назад +60

      @@sleepycharliee it did, thank you.

    • @Farhan_sav
      @Farhan_sav 3 месяца назад +20

      ​@@sleepycharlieei needed it brother

    • @iemsawant
      @iemsawant 3 месяца назад +12

      ​@@sleepycharlieeit will man.

  • @platchet
    @platchet 2 месяца назад +1579

    “If you get 1% better every single day, you will be 365% better in one year.”

    • @jafarmohammad4653
      @jafarmohammad4653 2 месяца назад +68

      37 times better according to james clear in his book atomic habits

    • @rvanderelstyt
      @rvanderelstyt 2 месяца назад +86

      It's 1% on top of 1% on top of 1% etc. Mathematically it's this: 1.01 ^ 365 which equals to 37.7834343329 times better in one year (like @jafarmohammad4653 said) 😄

    • @platchet
      @platchet 2 месяца назад +13

      @@rvanderelstyt ok thanks that clears it up 😂 im pretty bad with math. The concept still stands though.

    • @converse5874
      @converse5874 2 месяца назад

      @@jafarmohammad4653 I'll take it

    • @michaelbishop9157
      @michaelbishop9157 2 месяца назад

      it's aiming too high

  • @johnwallace9467
    @johnwallace9467 2 месяца назад +710

    I'm 55 years older than you and can say you are on the right track. Of course all geezers have advice so here is mine: 1-Take care of yourself physically. Most people who reach the age where the pressure to 'become something' is behind them are physical wrecks. Eat right and stay strong and you'll get to be the helper rather than the helpless. 2- Forgive yourself when you mess up and others who disappoint you. And yes, your mom was right about the single step (and you were right to thank her). That's it. Have a good life.

  • @riyandreams
    @riyandreams 3 месяца назад +1357

    "Nothing changes, if nothing changes."

    • @GOAT676
      @GOAT676 3 месяца назад +5

      …man”

    • @jtperez657
      @jtperez657 2 месяца назад +19

      "You'll always be who you who've always been if you always do what you've always done"

    • @ajcraft-hello
      @ajcraft-hello 2 месяца назад +1

      May this be seen by those who proudly refuse to change. 😢🎡

    • @christianmills7728
      @christianmills7728 2 месяца назад

      YES YES YES!!!! I came to this conclusion this year YES 🙏

    • @TheSilverShadow17
      @TheSilverShadow17 Месяц назад +1

      Which means that nobody can stop me from being me :D

  • @infinitefather
    @infinitefather 3 месяца назад +929

    "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." ~ Lao Tzu

    • @jackcarpenters3759
      @jackcarpenters3759 3 месяца назад +6

      the step of getting in the taxi cab.

    • @michaelofficial1.l
      @michaelofficial1.l 3 месяца назад

      @@jackcarpenters3759😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @sbs-0055
      @sbs-0055 Месяц назад +1

      It’s not done until it’s over - Lao Tzu

    • @comradekenobi6908
      @comradekenobi6908 28 дней назад

      This is step one
      SECURE THE KEYS

    • @SeekerOnYt
      @SeekerOnYt 7 дней назад

      Is that sun tzu 's brother?

  • @sunside7
    @sunside7 Месяц назад +172

    "The slow, never-ending, subconscious discomfort of remaining dormant will always worse than the temporary and voluntary discomfort of making a change."
    What a great line!

    • @brassboy212
      @brassboy212 Месяц назад +1

      However, there's one other pain that's overlooked here. And it's more painful than both of these combined.
      The pain from realizing you've barely made progress when you thought you were.
      When you think you're doing well after reaching 45 feet, only to realize you SHOULD be past 100 feet at this point.
      Believing for some time you were at least trying to change things, only to realize you're barely any different than what you were when you started. And then the "at least I'm doing something" defense is no longer valid.

    • @zaierkaelt.villas6327
      @zaierkaelt.villas6327 26 дней назад

      ​@@brassboy212 That's failure; and whatever philosophy that comes with it.

  • @theshapeshiftingartist
    @theshapeshiftingartist 3 месяца назад +395

    I’m 17 and my only motivation to never give up is that i want to make sure my parents in the future live a comfortable and carefree life in their old age. They’ve done too much for me and for that reason i will never give up🙇‍♂️my time will come…i can see it, i know it, and i can feel it.

    • @ksalarang
      @ksalarang 3 месяца назад +36

      you set taking care of your parents as your goal at 17? well done pal.

    • @wizzo1351
      @wizzo1351 2 месяца назад +15

      ​@@ksalarang Kudos to you for appreciating him❤️, You got a good heart

    • @ksalarang
      @ksalarang 2 месяца назад

      @@wizzo1351 why, thank you

    • @Ivory936
      @Ivory936 2 месяца назад +3

      All you do needs to be for you, what youll do for you will without any doubt shines your environment. Remember sun doesn’t wake for us or any tree, it is in his purpose to shine us.

    • @butterbiggins2168
      @butterbiggins2168 2 месяца назад +6

      God bless you , but please have some fun and make your own life first. That is all any parent would want for you

  • @jnb-iv6zu
    @jnb-iv6zu 3 месяца назад +961

    What's better than telling youself "just one step today" for people who are hard on themselves: after the day is done, and you habitually look back on your day and think "wow, once again I didn't do enough to reach my goals" you can now think "wow, I took one step today, and that's more than I thought. I _did_ do enough"

    • @VOID_productions_016
      @VOID_productions_016 3 месяца назад +10

      Thank you

    • @La0ha
      @La0ha 3 месяца назад +5

      I just want to say thank you very much from an ambitious person from Iraq.🇮🇶 ❤

    • @heyitsaradia
      @heyitsaradia 3 месяца назад +1

      🖤

    • @shylock1970
      @shylock1970 Месяц назад +1

      I really like this. Thank you 😊

  • @dillonkeller4477
    @dillonkeller4477 3 месяца назад +554

    I don't even have big goals or dreams, I literally just want to take proper care of myself like a regular adult

    • @munyatingz9758
      @munyatingz9758 3 месяца назад +33

      U gotta find your self. U will live with a purpose. Finding yourself comes with everything you need but it’s not an easy journey

    • @prettyteeth
      @prettyteeth 3 месяца назад +34

      Thats as noble a goal as you can get. To just be able to handle life as an adult.

    • @terrysutton8452
      @terrysutton8452 2 месяца назад +7

      Me neither. I just let things slide. But the more I do that, the more overwhelming the task of getting my shit together seems to be. My only goals are to try to keep my home and myself clean. But if I achieve that, maybe I can push on from there. Still a work in progress, but if I can just do a little more each day, maybe I can start to think about what I might like to do to improve my life.

    • @jeancarlodelaluz6415
      @jeancarlodelaluz6415 Месяц назад +1

      As simple as it sounds it's true and in my case all I wanted was a job and figure it out on the road but now I'm stressed and burnt out with these dumb ckwkoecokanwbdbxkakwkdbcnaqalqp holes co workers. It's been years since I felt like this and now that I met 2 new friends I have to leave them and work on my own once again. It's been 3 years since I last worked on myself that good.

  • @michellerobertson874
    @michellerobertson874 2 месяца назад +126

    I heard a comment a long time ago that said “Don’t not follow your dreams because of the time it will take. That time will pass anyway”. I thought that was a very good point.

    • @Priyanshihehe
      @Priyanshihehe 25 дней назад

      Omg, you won't believe it, but I was procrastinating a lot 2 hours ago and that's why I have written "time gonna fly anyway" on my left hand. I mean with a ball pen just to keep reminding myself.

    • @turtlec7140
      @turtlec7140 24 дня назад

      Whoa! Thanks!!! That's such a great point.

  • @user-nh5ze8hq5e
    @user-nh5ze8hq5e 12 дней назад +193

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @HAMZAPINE
      @HAMZAPINE 12 дней назад

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @Somusicais
      @Somusicais 12 дней назад

      Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @FabioPioFersini
      @FabioPioFersini 12 дней назад

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this
      Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @HAMZAPINE
      @HAMZAPINE 12 дней назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @Somusicais
      @Somusicais 12 дней назад

      Yes he is dr.porass.

  • @sybilsabir
    @sybilsabir 3 месяца назад +376

    "You must change your life, in order change your life" MAN THIS HITS HARD!!

    • @inzhuerkin259
      @inzhuerkin259 3 месяца назад

      I still can’t get it

    • @Itadori-fu5me
      @Itadori-fu5me 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@inzhuerkin259 life doesn't change by itself, you change it by taking action

    • @michaelofficial1.l
      @michaelofficial1.l 3 месяца назад

      @@Itadori-fu5meit means you need to change your lifestyle to change your life

    • @Itadori-fu5me
      @Itadori-fu5me 3 месяца назад

      @@michaelofficial1.l similiar to what I said I guess

    • @Psyfi85
      @Psyfi85 3 месяца назад

      nothing changes if nothing changes

  • @h1t1
    @h1t1 3 месяца назад +758

    Needed this thank you bro

    • @Lamara179
      @Lamara179 3 месяца назад +8

      hey void, hope this video helped you, i know its not mine but im trying to give you more motivation, i know you can do it, you will do it its just matter of time, alright stay hard, love your void tho

    • @way2saturn
      @way2saturn 3 месяца назад +8

      I hope this will help you to get out of the void just take small steps

    • @NglAjitesh
      @NglAjitesh 3 месяца назад

      Bro is doing everything he can to escape the void

    • @_0_Deleted_0_
      @_0_Deleted_0_ 3 месяца назад

      Are you gonna edit this one too?

    • @Awesomefy11
      @Awesomefy11 3 месяца назад

      Bros about to leave the void.

  • @nemo6271
    @nemo6271 3 месяца назад +51

    _"you must change your life in order to change your life"_

  • @dream-sn5op
    @dream-sn5op 3 месяца назад +105

    I'm struggling with depression, overthinking, negative thoughts, and my situation just seems too messed up to fix, it feels overwhelming and hopeless. Many times it gets so hurtful, it's hard to keep going, I don't know if I even have goals/dreams anymore, many times I just want to end it, but this idea of one step at a time, even very small, without thinking of the entire mountain your about to climb, that kinda sounds less overwhelming, and more doable. thank you.

    • @user-cv4ew3yl5m
      @user-cv4ew3yl5m 2 месяца назад +9

      Please don't give up

    • @maryrogers7799
      @maryrogers7799 2 месяца назад +8

      Your story isn't over yet. If you have a pulse, you have a purpose. You are loved and needed.

    • @cosbyjackson5053
      @cosbyjackson5053 2 месяца назад +6

      This too, will pass you are loved, and you love. Don’t worry so much. ❤️

    • @carmenl163
      @carmenl163 2 месяца назад +5

      That is actually very brave of you to try and change. I know (trust me, I know) how overwhelming things can be when you have no energy. So, for you to commit to taking one step is a considerable achievement. Well done!

    • @jlockwood65
      @jlockwood65 2 месяца назад +6

      We see you.
      U r not alone.
      Never WERE.

  • @mutskyi
    @mutskyi 3 месяца назад +640

    You deserve more views. Well done

  • @Sims_gaming
    @Sims_gaming 3 месяца назад +187

    You got me out of bed. I’d been on my phone for 2 hours, thinking about how far behind on my goals I am. Now I’m at my PC. When I click send, I’ll work for 30 mins on my script for my game.
    Why is motivation so hard? This phone is like a trap sometimes. But I’m grateful I saw your video. Right now I’m hopeful.

    • @edu2428
      @edu2428 3 месяца назад +5

      I work from 07:30am to 17:30pm and have game dev as a hobby. I know how you feel. Maybe tonight I will push miself into action too😅

    • @shahxad6533
      @shahxad6533 3 месяца назад +1

      I hope you keep doing the work without any motivation. Good luck bro

    • @anxils
      @anxils 3 месяца назад +7

      Use drive instead of motivation, both are two different things of course, but motivation will always disappoint, drive is more like discipline, do it even when you don’t want to. The outcome at the end is more rewarding than waiting for the motivation to do something, even if it’s a small amount. There’s ways of breaking habits and it’s always a cue, crave, reward ordeal, find what’s making you the way you are, study it and you will find more about yourself that you never knew.

    • @ViniuauCP
      @ViniuauCP 3 месяца назад

      ​@@anxils+1
      Motivation is volatile, rely on your drive to do the things that you have to get done. It's easy, but it gets easier.

  • @gorankswarnkar9008
    @gorankswarnkar9008 2 месяца назад +35

    5 years, didn't cried, this last five minutes made me cry like hell, I got so emotional.

  • @hallson9213
    @hallson9213 3 месяца назад +91

    Im 31 this year, still have no idea what im doing right now. Whenever i feel hopeless, this kind of video shows up. By watching it helps me calm down a little bit. So thank you.

    • @blackhagalaz
      @blackhagalaz 2 месяца назад +10

      Other 31 yo here. Same thing I don't know what I am doing. I had a burnout last year, and can't work since then. Went to a clinic which helped a while and then I fell into a hole again. But honestly? Today I had a good day, and coincidentally this video showed up. Today I just sat down on the balcony and did some pottery work. That kept my mind of the negativity. When I see "The mountain" I am looking at a whole new career path, because I can't return to my old job. But my one step today was just finding something enjoyable and be OK with not having figured everything out jet.
      Let this be your first step tomorrow... knowing that most of us don't have a clue what we are doing. We are all just bull-sh*tting ourselves through life. You are not alone :).

    • @BilobateDrip
      @BilobateDrip 2 месяца назад +4

      32 here and exactly the same. I hope you all find a turnaround, even if slow at first. Charlie, thank you for this video, it means a lot to hear

    • @TheNyhm1
      @TheNyhm1 2 месяца назад +3

      I’m 57 with a really bad back and I don’t want to work in my business anymore. Too painful and everyday in an absolute struggle. I feel trapped and my own wife doesn’t really understand

    • @user-re7wt2yc8b
      @user-re7wt2yc8b 20 дней назад

      I'm 65. My advice to you is, lay the phone down put on your shoes, walk for 30 min each day. It's the best thing to do when you don't know what to do. Oh and, dont waste money buying stuff you dont need. Save hard to go on a world trip that will help you get out of the hole, and who knows who you will meet to enrich your life.

  • @ArchitSinghBais
    @ArchitSinghBais 3 месяца назад +194

    I am in the exact same slump. It's 2:40 AM and after watching this video, i have decided to take my one step. Thank you
    Your new subscriber ✨

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  3 месяца назад +15

      You got this, I’m extremely happy I could help

    • @synappl2479
      @synappl2479 3 месяца назад +4

      it’s 2:38 am for me, swearrr i be getting motivated in the middle of the night. 🙏😭

  • @Sandhya14947
    @Sandhya14947 3 месяца назад +33

    These words ❤"Don't look at the entire mountain you're about to climb just find where you're going to put your foot."

    • @Sorchia56
      @Sorchia56 2 месяца назад

      I wrote that on my refrigerator, in sharpie! The frig is next to my coffee maker, I’ll see it several times throughout the day! ❤ ⛰️ 👟

    • @Sandhya14947
      @Sandhya14947 2 месяца назад

      @@Sorchia56 🤍👍

  • @kikibutterfly1137
    @kikibutterfly1137 2 месяца назад +28

    The simplest advice I ever received “something is better than nothing”👌

  • @WashifAdnan
    @WashifAdnan 2 месяца назад +7

    "The pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something " Hits hard

  • @Spifey
    @Spifey 3 месяца назад +134

    really good video thanks

    • @ReflexXeon
      @ReflexXeon 3 месяца назад +4

      Hey dude! U made my childhood 💙

    • @reynaa3205
      @reynaa3205 3 месяца назад

      Its been a long time since i watch ur vid lol

  • @fujiokakujo
    @fujiokakujo 3 месяца назад +39

    i just say this everyday “i just need to be at least 1% better than yesterday” and it helped me

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 Месяц назад +5

    "Be the change you want to see" That is my prayer of action each day.

  • @elevatewithmettavijnana6170
    @elevatewithmettavijnana6170 3 месяца назад +23

    “You must change your life in order to change your life” Good one

  • @Pretko
    @Pretko 3 месяца назад +77

    This video deserves WAY more views. Thanks for inspiring me.

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  3 месяца назад +6

      Thank you, I’ll always keep striving to inspire

  • @madwhitehare3635
    @madwhitehare3635 2 месяца назад +18

    "If you can't be a blessing to yourself , go out and be a blessing to someone else.
    The reward is immediate. You will hold yourself in greater regard if you have helped another."
    ...God...

  • @valvo3389
    @valvo3389 Месяц назад +4

    Overthinking and cycling through negative thoughts is a tough battle I’ve been going through for years now and I hope that I’ll make it through. I’ve learnt that staying present and not having high expectations helps me a lot.

  • @pandorasbox1658
    @pandorasbox1658 2 месяца назад +17

    I’m sending this to my son. You’ve encapsulated his problem exactly. He needs someone other than me to tell him this. Thank you.❤

  • @callumcruickshank5236
    @callumcruickshank5236 3 месяца назад +9

    Why am I crying watching this? This has been my life since 2019. I’ve just not felt like I’m progressing. I’m in my last year of uni with 2 months left and feel so scared, stressed and like I’m stopping myself from achieving the goal of graduating. But the “just take one step” has really put things into perspective for me. I’m going to consistently study and keep pushing to be better. Thank you ❤️

    • @munmun77kh
      @munmun77kh 17 дней назад

      Hey !! How are you doing now?since you mentioned that your graduation is in 2 months
      Hope you are doing amazing tho.

  • @kaguraaaaaaa
    @kaguraaaaaaa 15 дней назад +1

    "you must change your life to change your life"
    wow. that really opened my eyes tbh.

  • @mitaasy
    @mitaasy 3 месяца назад +8

    “Don’t look at the entire mountain” love it. I have same problem.

  • @gameingwithredhead2944
    @gameingwithredhead2944 2 месяца назад +6

    “You must change your life to change your life”
    Such truth I so often ignore or disregard. Not disregarding this time

  • @chrisdanner2785
    @chrisdanner2785 3 месяца назад +60

    That film making was great ! Appreciation from France, you deserve more man !

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  3 месяца назад +3

      France?! That’s awesome thank you for the kind words ❤️❤️

  • @minytaur
    @minytaur Месяц назад +2

    "just take one step everyday no matter how small" it really is life changing advice

  • @ShreeyaVNair
    @ShreeyaVNair 3 месяца назад +1

    thanks man, thank you for making this. what all you said really resonated with me and im glad i watched this. sending good energy and support to all, we can do this.

  • @Halal-Man.
    @Halal-Man. 3 месяца назад +6

    Bro I really needed this, Thank you. I pray to God that we all make it in life👊🏻

  • @HNblaz
    @HNblaz 3 месяца назад +9

    I suffer from the constant fear of being not good enough. I would get a pretty good level for art, social skills, even video games...but I would constantly think it's not good enough. I'm so bad at anything. At least that's what my subconscious permanently thinks and makes me believe.
    It is so hard to keep up the pace of my life because I try to do so much things, that I end up exhausted, anxious and often, burnt out. I can make everything in two days, then sleep for weeks after. It's been two months since I haven't drawn anything. I did just one sketch yesterday, yet I feel like it's not enough, it's not a well finished piece.
    I work really hard on myself for years with my loved ones. I really want to feel like one step is enough and be proud of myself for once.
    I will be enough, and that's way sooner than what my brain wants me to believe.
    Thank you for your video.

    • @ShayHarding
      @ShayHarding 2 месяца назад

      I can't draw at all, so you're better than me at it.

    • @HNblaz
      @HNblaz Месяц назад

      @@Starfish125 It's been incredibly better, I've made huge improvements but I still need to work on me. Thank you for the advice, I'll watch it right now !

  • @FluidMotionPictures
    @FluidMotionPictures 2 месяца назад +1

    This is really heartfelt. I watch a lot of youtube and motivational videos and you have your own unique touch. Nice work!

  • @rickflippin1
    @rickflippin1 2 месяца назад

    young man this simple but moving message has changed this old man, thank you from the bottom of my heart, God Bless you always.

  • @timillionaire3724
    @timillionaire3724 3 месяца назад +7

    this was so nicely edited bro thanks for putting out the truth out into the world instead of sugarcoating everything

  • @carmenopitz8825
    @carmenopitz8825 2 месяца назад +9

    I've seen countless videos about Self-Improvement and Goal Achievement - but very few have been as honest and realistic as this one. Realizing that the small Steps bring the Change - is fundamental. And that's something each of us can do. We all have the Opportunity to create what we want. The Challenge is to know what we really want. TY😘

  • @muraciaHQ
    @muraciaHQ 3 месяца назад

    This is honestly the push I needed, at the very least, today. Thank you. I wish your artistry and the amazing aesthetics of your visuals a long and prosperous future.

  • @cloobzy
    @cloobzy 3 месяца назад +2

    legitimately now one of my favorite videos on youtube at this very moment, your words really threw a punch through my chest - from how true it all really is. thank you for this, it's actually so great.

  • @brokenice9471
    @brokenice9471 3 месяца назад +5

    Your cinematography is on point bro! People always be exaggerating online, but your shots actually look movie quality. Thanks for the message too, it’s a good reminder to keep trying.

  • @jacobpoulton3547
    @jacobpoulton3547 3 месяца назад +5

    this is incredible, not only the advice but also the character in the video. The 1:1 ratio, the beautiful color grading, the incredible cinematography. Please keep creating.

  • @gijsbouhuijs
    @gijsbouhuijs 2 месяца назад

    This is fr the best advice i think you could give to anyone. Because when some does take and looks back he can see the progress. Pretty inspiring

  • @pinkychatterjee1052
    @pinkychatterjee1052 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much man you don't know what impact you created in my mind with this "one step" You deserve way more views man hats off!!❤

  • @kevgamble
    @kevgamble 2 месяца назад +5

    Many years ago I came across this quote, which has stuck with me: "Positive anything is better than negative nothing." (Elbert Hubbard) It seems good to place the emphasis on "anything".

  • @tanishka2620
    @tanishka2620 2 месяца назад +5

    Settings big goals, not being able to do all of it, procrastination as an escape, making it a habit, seeing results and getting stressed and anxious, this had been a long loop of habits that I wanted to escape. I was so tired of being tired, that I couldn't hope from myself. Then I set the 80 minute rule just 80 minutes of touching my potential and increasing it every day, I'll implement this from today. Your video came right on time, btw love the cinematography thank you for the lesson, we all needed this, hope we all heal and achieve our happiness. 💛

  • @therecycledpirate
    @therecycledpirate 2 месяца назад

    I freaking love your video. Smooth, soft, inspiring and truthful!

  • @motivation.monkey
    @motivation.monkey 21 день назад +1

    Congratulations on such an outstanding achievement. I can't wait to see your channel grow even bigger.

  • @ryenis
    @ryenis 3 месяца назад +4

    Ive always told myself that each time i think about my goals, the closer i get to actually doing it. If i think about it every day, i am one more day closer to doing what I want to achieve. That was 2 years ago. This year, ive finally made that mark in my life and have been consistently practicing animation which is something i wanted to do for the past 3 years
    Your video was shot beautifully, not only was it inspirational but was masterfully composed. I can see a lot of attention went into the details of the video. I cant wait to see what you cook up next bro fire👨‍🍳

  • @nuitoasis9508
    @nuitoasis9508 3 месяца назад +19

    THIS is what I needed to hear now. This is great, thank you for this.
    I'll be 17 this year in march and I've done absolutely nothing good for me. I am in a loop/cycle of suicidal thoughts, letting myself get worse and waiting to die, or get myself back together and try to live and become happy. In the end, nothing is changing. It's really hard honestly I just want to give up, but at the same time I don't and I don't even know why. Changing my life and my mindset feels really impossible. But this video helps a lot, and I'll try my best to give it a chance.

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly 3 месяца назад +3

      Good luck!! Also a good habit that I got into is downloading affirmation and quote apps!! Don’t give up, good luck :))

    • @nuitoasis9508
      @nuitoasis9508 3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you soso much. :) I will try that habit. I used to read the negatives quotes but I'll try to stick to the positive ones even if I always think the opposite after reading those. But i'll try to change that. Good luck to you too and I wish you the absolute best! Thank you for your time and nice message, it made my day a little brighter :D@@FishWillFly

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly 3 месяца назад

      @@nuitoasis9508 your welcome!!! Also if u ever want to talk or ask for advice u can always ask me! Honestly the last 3 lines really resonated w me yk and I still think that sometimes but we can do this :DD (And remember that nothing’s impossible, we came into this world with no beliefs, nothing, that means we can I learnt things as everything we are now is what we learned. Idk abt u but thinking about this really helps) and u also made my day a little bit brighter, I can tell your an amazing person and I’m glad this helped

    • @djshoots9888
      @djshoots9888 2 месяца назад +2

      @@nuitoasis9508I’ve been feeling the same way recently. Am still here 🙏. I hope you are too. Working out and meditation is a good habit.

  • @jufejahe
    @jufejahe 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this, it's always nice to see the result of the advice as it's given to me, meaning I know making this video required you to take several steps before posting so it's super motivating to see. Thanks for sharing a piece of yourself with the world!

  • @satoukazuma168
    @satoukazuma168 3 месяца назад

    Thanks dude, i was going through it tonight and i felt like I wasn't doing nearly enough of what i should be doing and it just feels so overwhelming. I will keep this in my mind going forward.

  • @jaccco6319
    @jaccco6319 3 месяца назад +40

    I’ve seen many many many videos about productivity and accomplishing goals but this one really struck home, it’s such good advice but people don’t take time to articulate it as you have, much appreciated amazing video 🗣️

  • @knowntoache
    @knowntoache 3 месяца назад +13

    The change begins with your first step out the door 🗣️🔥

  • @jamieraine5555
    @jamieraine5555 8 дней назад

    This is the best video I have seen all years! Love your work! Will watch more and more!

  • @pun15h3r.
    @pun15h3r. 2 месяца назад +2

    The algorithm is pleasing us brother.
    I needed this.
    It's still hard.
    But from what i learned in my 34 years on this planet this is the most important one.
    Consistency is key.
    Just one step at a time, each day man.
    Exactly.
    Thanks 4 reminding me!

  • @Till25Iwillbewaitingforu
    @Till25Iwillbewaitingforu 3 месяца назад +8

    " Pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something."
    ~~~ Wise Words 🖤

  • @gastronomee_
    @gastronomee_ 3 месяца назад +10

    this is gonna blow up, i can feel it. fellow small creator rooting for you.

  • @AAStudiosdesign
    @AAStudiosdesign Месяц назад

    This is exactly the video I was looking for and needed. I already knew and felt all the things you said but you summarized it in the perfect way that I can easily look back on it to remind myself. I am proud of myself that I took some steps today.

  • @isnacahyani2355
    @isnacahyani2355 2 месяца назад

    thank u bro. literally change my mindset. so grateful to find this video

  • @bobabun
    @bobabun 3 месяца назад +3

    This video is amazing, the shots, the colouring and the message. I'm sure you're going to make it, one step at a time!

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much this means the world to me 🥹

  • @bullanguages
    @bullanguages 3 месяца назад +8

    The pain of doing nothin will always be worse than the pain of doing smth! Wow! Bro, that brought peace to me! Thnks! 🔥 new sub here!

  • @traviusquestforPHD
    @traviusquestforPHD 2 месяца назад

    Been trying to start content creation consistently but always held myself back. This video is going to be a source of inspiration, thanks bro 🙏🏾

  • @wildopgaming
    @wildopgaming 2 месяца назад

    bro you basically made the perfect video of the video i was planning on making, this sets out everything i thought mid december to tasking myself to take the steps necessary to make everyday from jan 1st and on very productive which i have been doing, its an wonderful feeling, i love this video bro i resonate wit it heavy, i also love the part you said the pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something, big attention grabber and hook, rlly puts your mind to think, i absolutety love that!

  • @Sin5558
    @Sin5558 3 месяца назад +4

    Brother, best wishes and long life! I really needed this, I had been going through challenging times lately, which made it even more tiring for me to start what I had always dreamt of. Unlike other motivational videos, you did not try and sugarcoat the process and actually emphasised what really needs to be done at this very moment. I felt an instinct towards resuming what I've left because, like you said, I'm no more thinking about making up to the mountain for now, I am just thinking about starting. Thank you so much, brother! I sincerely wish the very best for your future endeavors, and I am glad that we're all not alone in this process. :)

  • @NorThenX047
    @NorThenX047 3 месяца назад +4

    "you cannot forward step until you step forward" - some guy

  • @trellbrasi7585
    @trellbrasi7585 11 дней назад

    This was put together so simple and perfect you probably blessed a lot of us. Man thanks 🙏🏾 for making this

  • @sushmitabudha3102
    @sushmitabudha3102 2 месяца назад +1

    Ovethinking and overwhelming myself is all I'm doing these days or months must i say,
    Thankyou i needed this

  • @Jenna_covert345
    @Jenna_covert345 3 месяца назад +16

    This is definitely so underrated! This video changed the way i think about things

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  3 месяца назад

      That means I did my job haha thank you for the kind words 🫶

  • @golden_wallet
    @golden_wallet 3 месяца назад +3

    3:15 is actually very similar to a verse from the Quran that I heard before "(11) Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves..." 13- Surat Al Raad. Well prepared short man 💙

  • @cinemageplt
    @cinemageplt 24 дня назад

    Cinematography and writing are so on point, inspirational

  • @habajaba100
    @habajaba100 3 дня назад

    It is wild how your decision to start taking one step has led you to making this video and dramatically helping people take their first step. Thank you for the time and effort you put into this video. It’s made a difference with me.

  • @prodigion1
    @prodigion1 3 месяца назад +4

    Yeah this is good advice. One thing to add from me: the 'subconscious discomfort of doing nothing' doesn't have to be uncomfortable. It's all in your head. A long time ago, I felt like I had been dealt a good set of cards but my happiness was being limited by my 'discomfort' that I was imposing on myself for a variety of reasons, e.g., knowing how much I had procrastinated, that I wasn't where I wanted to be, that my room was messy, etc. I'm in a much better mental state now where I am infinitely forgiving of myself and instead of basing part of my self worth on my productivity, I pride myself on being able to be happy all the time, now matter how lazy I've been. I prefer to reach this stage first, and then I can work on becoming more productive - it's just chiller. Our instinctive negative feelings are built in to help us survive as animals, but we're not at risk of death anymore so we can let go of all the discomfort:) Thinking about big crazy stuff like the universe and how we are all biologically operating machines also helps me reach this mindset

    • @prodigion1
      @prodigion1 3 месяца назад

      icl, I think I'm slowly becoming Buddha

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly 3 месяца назад +1

      Helloo!! Any tips on getting to that level?? I honestly struggle forgiving myself when I procrastinate so I’d love some loll. Thank uuu :D

    • @prodigion1
      @prodigion1 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@FishWillFly Once you realise that mentally telling yourself off is silly and useless, it's just a question of phrasing things in your mind so those feelings go away. What kind of person is it cooler to be: a person who procrastinates and then starts scolding themselves like everyone else does, making themselves unhappy for no reason, or a person who procrastinates and doesn't care because they see the bigger picture of life and they know that they can't change the past.
      I have phrases I like to go to when I feel baggage, e.g., 'be comfortable with being uncomfortable', sometimes you feel like you're ALMOST really happy but there's just a few thoughts holding you back, but you just have to sit with that discomfort and be ok with it.
      For forgiving myself, there's a song by Deb Never called 'Stupid' with the chorus 'I'm so stupid' and it's sort of a relaxing way of forgiving my past self for being such an idiot. Or as I said before, think BIG. Imagine that you have lived through the life of every human before you and now it's your turn in your body. Would you be stressed out about not being productive enough? I think you'd probably just treat life like a video game and have fun if you can, never stressing about anything. Eventually, the instinctive guilt of laziness start to be less instinctive.

    • @prodigion1
      @prodigion1 3 месяца назад

      @@FishWillFly also I don't know who you are but I give you permission to procrastinate all day every day as much as you want idc

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly 3 месяца назад

      Ok thanks!! Honestly I have big dreams but sometimes I get too distracted. I normally procrastinate on studies bc my school sucks and all but I’ll try to implement these tips tyyy

  • @ryanf6671
    @ryanf6671 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m at how much time I feel I waste and mostly yt but it’s also allowed me to find content like this. Felt so overwhelmed and voiceless to my inner thoughts today I’ve woken up and started working on a routine and I feel better than I did 3 hours ago. Avoided yt told my gf I’d be off my phone as I cooked and ate breakfast, read atomic habits and did a bit of studying not much but I’m actually going to school to study and currently making lunch. I don’t know what I’m doing but I can say slowly make on improving %1 everyday and at the end of the year you’d improve by 365% this video spoke volumes to me and I appreciate the message. Have a good day.

  • @germanrudecindo3382
    @germanrudecindo3382 14 дней назад

    I watch this video every single day. It's insane how much feeling you managed to pack in under 3.40 minutes, thank you so much for this video. good luck with all

  • @rookie2048
    @rookie2048 Месяц назад

    Man thank you for helping me stop getting overwhelmed from my dreams.
    Thank you god and thank you charlie!

  • @WumboWumboWumboWumbo
    @WumboWumboWumboWumbo 10 дней назад

    Really needed to hear this right now, thanks man.

  • @BlueBeeMCMLXI
    @BlueBeeMCMLXI 2 месяца назад

    Good man, keeping it all REAL. You come across as genuine.

  • @mikakazakevich
    @mikakazakevich 24 дня назад

    Charlie I cannot thank you enough for making this video. This has motivated me so much, thanks to you! Keep up the good work. 💞☺️

  • @WashifAdnan
    @WashifAdnan 2 месяца назад

    So relatable. Recently realised all these things and started to working on myself. It’s going so well so far.

  • @ianmcqueeney
    @ianmcqueeney 27 дней назад

    This is the best video I‘ve seen so far in 2024, needed to hear this today. Keep up the good work brother!

  • @Cookie12314
    @Cookie12314 2 месяца назад

    I dont know how i got here... but you just described my situation right now.... i cant even tell you how accurate that was.
    And your words kind of motivated me, to do something, to do more !
    Thank you man.

  • @Blev-14
    @Blev-14 24 дня назад

    Watching this video this video has gave me hope to reach my dreams. I never thought I’d watch something on RUclips so inspirational. Thank you man. ❤

  • @infinisourced
    @infinisourced 2 дня назад

    This helped me to realize how I want to refine my content, and uplifted me. Thank you.

  • @gabriellec5962
    @gabriellec5962 3 месяца назад

    Love your cinematic approach. Warm, authentic. Needed this too, like many others. Thank you

  • @TheQuoteCollectivee
    @TheQuoteCollectivee Месяц назад

    This is so inspiring! The "one step at a time" advice is exactly what I needed to hear. Feeling overwhelmed by big goals can be paralyzing, but focusing on just one small step makes it seem so much more manageable. Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @mrsaveabuck5969
    @mrsaveabuck5969 Месяц назад

    I thank you so... much for this this is exactly what i needed to hear today and i thank you for sharing and for being transparent!I look forward to seeing your other videos!

  • @AmB-uj5ou
    @AmB-uj5ou 19 дней назад

    Lately I've been feeling incredibly discouraged by feeling like I'm not getting anywhere with my goals, but this video was the reminder I needed to keep moving--no matter how small, what's most important is taking that step forward.
    Thank you for making this video.

  • @MolootyNest-md6ti
    @MolootyNest-md6ti Месяц назад

    This is just what I have been going through. And I felt very understood when you talk abt how I feel exactly. Thanq for this video. A new subscriber here.

  • @mfarisap
    @mfarisap 3 месяца назад +2

    I needed this. Thanks a lot, brother.

  • @angeliachenoweth2522
    @angeliachenoweth2522 3 месяца назад

    Thank you, Charlie. I know this will help. Such sage advice.

  • @asmayounis3607
    @asmayounis3607 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for making this video😊 I really needed it

  • @zevo8293
    @zevo8293 Месяц назад

    (This is for me, I know I’ll be back)
    I’m finally working again and just two days after starting I find this video. I’ve been positive and motivated to do things for myself and around the house so finding this video was the icing on the cake!
    Today on April 1st I swear to myself and for the future me to follow this videos advice.
    Just take one step everyday. You got this man!❤🙂