Mom Struggles With Her Daughter's Choices | Underage And Pregnant
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- Опубликовано: 20 сен 2024
- Jasmine from Kent got pregnant at 15 and couldn't be happier with her life. But reality hits when after a difficult birth and sleepless nights, Jasmine is diagnosed with borderline postnatal depression.
Sixteen-year-old Kim also battled with baby blues. Once a wild child, Stoke-based Kim had to curb her partying when she fell pregnant at 14 and is now a mum to 7-month-old Heidi. Kim has had to grow up fast and faces big decisions about her future; but it's more typical teen concerns that are preoccupying Kim - like should she stay with her boyfriend.
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That one girl catching a attitude with her mom like she was the one that got her pregnant
I was 19 when I fell pregnant with my son. I was living with my dad and step-mum at the time. When I phoned my birth mum to tell her the first thing she said was...You're having an abortion. I told her I was not having one as I was keeping my baby. She tried and tried and tried to change my mind and even suggested having him adopted. I stuck to my guns and I had my beautiful baby boy. My mum was my birthing partner and she fell head over heels with him the second he was born. I'm so glad I kept my son as he's now 34 years old and so handsome 😍
19 is better than 14!
@@katefevre6222 then it’s too bad I’m stuck with a giant 14 year old and I have a younger sister who’s 19th birthday would and/or will be months later
@katefevre6222 I never said any different
@@karenmclaughlan9128 I had Effy my eldest daughter at 16 my ex abused and raped me.
My dad got me out of that relationship with my ex I told him about the pregnancy and he said the choice of the baby is yours to make abort, keep or adoption.
I chose to keep my daughter.
Bet it was just to keep the father around 😂 but anyway
I was 17 when I fell pregnant with my daughter. Who is now 10. I was homeless. The father kicked me out and wanted nothing to do with the baby. I went back to high school, finished, and worked nights to support myself. I did it. Im now married and so happy with 3 beautiful kids.
So proud of you 💓
Your children probably had to go through a lot 😒
@@TheHiddenSystemrude 😑
Jasmin saying to her mum “take it away, it’s been sick on me again”. Way too immature to be having a child
That, but also she might be suffering from postpartum depression.
Exactly its ridiculous
After a traumatic birth, she's probably suffering from postpartum depression. It's nothing to do with being immature, women of all ages can act like that.
@@alishak9852utter tosh oh post about depression I suffered chronic I couldn't even walk out my door I didn't have support jasmine is a child having child it calls baby it no depression it's teenage attitude
Some of these comments seem to be quite harsh to Jasmin and Kim’s mums for letting the girls fall pregnant young… But they were godsends as grandmothers and doing a really good job helping their teen daughters in a very tough situation
They did'nt let them get pregnant. They did'nt make them lie down with their boyfriends and say. 'Go on , do it, have sex, make a baby for me to help you take care of them. And you. The tax payers will help you too. You can take their hard earned money .'
That one girl said she was out clubbing in her early teens while in Benidorm. Her mother is a terrible parent. You can't be too harsh with someone who raises a child like that.
@@GhastlyCretinyou obviously m8ssed the part where she said she snuck out when Mum was asleep. Must be lovely to be perfect
@@naomidoss1837 And now she's leaving some kid off the estate who's been I trouble with the law, not only into her house to be around her daughter but her infant granddaughter. Must be nice to make terrible parenting decisions and have people make excuses for you.
@@GhastlyCretinHaving lived in that part of Spain, I can tell you that teenagers going out clubbing is actually the norm. I'm not saying it's ok that they do nor that the mom couldn't have done anything better, but according to your comment that would make half of the Valencian parents shitty parents. You're quite harsh on the mom when obviously, there was a lot more going on in that family and the norms are totally different
As a choirboy at 16 i got the neighbouring choir girl pregnant who was 16. The mother was the Church Warden. Didnt sing there again - i was ousted. Stupid bloody mistake i made 30 years ago - and it still haunts me today cos she had an abortion. We were just a couple of randy kids experimenting.
Use a rubber boys.
Hypocritical Christians pressuring their kids into abortion knowing it’s wrong, when I made a similar mistake (I wasn’t pregnant) I told my minister first, he prayed for me I repented the church rallied round me without knowing anything about what happened just that I was going through a hard time then it was done never spoke about again, didn’t feel any judgement from the members thank God. I’m sorry you didn’t get that support
Don’t let it haunt you that’s the devil, he wants you to dwell on the past so you never move forward, if you’ve repented you’re already forgiven ❤️ praying for you
I guarantee you the same people who ousted you have far worse skeletons in the closet, hope you are ok
of course she had to get an abortion. church people would never help a mom and child
@@baxterbunch Abortion is wrong, but children aborting babies would'nt have to face that situation if they were'nt slutting around.
16:50 please never but a baby in a bed with a pillow and blanket. In a cot with absolutely nothing but a mattress. It’s so so so dangerous in that bed
true it leads to sids
When I read this comment I was imagining a baby bed with a baby blanket and a pillow. But when I saw the clip, it's the mum's actual double bed! Babies can't regulate their body temperature so I can imagine the baby getting really hot under that blanket! I just hope he isn't sleeping in the bed with mum during the night just in case the worst happens
@@sarahakua4239 sids is vaccine induced. Do some research.
These are old documentaries. Outdated knowledge on safe sleeping lol
I couldn't watch any more between the blanket and bed and baby not sitting up to eat.
Big enough have a baby big enough to cook a meal
Good for Kim knowing her path in life.
I pity her loss of her sister.😢
But not with the new boyfriend 🫣🤯
These videos are really old, the babies they had are now older than they are in these videos, I wonder how they are
Probably miserable
@02:02 her mother laughing at her 14 yr old out drinking and partying at her age?!?!!??! disgustng
Her parenting was a great example and look how her 14 year old turned out. 14 and a mum. Lovely. (Sarcasm )
@@katefevre6222 Agree.
Exactly my mum would hit the roof
Kim's mum needs to let her take some responsibility.
Meaning what exactly
@@noorbohamad5796 Kim made her bed, she has to lie in it. Okay, so Kim needs support, but it was Kim who had underage sex, Kim, who got pregnant, Kim who had a baby. The key word here is KIM. So KIM is the mum, so KIM needs to pull her weight and look after her baby !
@@noorbohamad5796 perhaps meaning she should be cleaning , cooking and doing the washing
Not rocket science
No way she would be going out like that. Your @ss at home by 9.
i couldn’t imagine my mom being okay with me at 14 going out drinking, how in the world 🤯🤯🤯
My heart hurts for Jasmin, a traumatic birth, a collicky baby, PPD; poor thing 💔
I'm sorry but if you make the decision to keep your baby at 14, you say goodbye to "being a teenager". If parents keeps enabling these underage mothers, no lessons will be taught.
😂my African mother would have kicked me out
Understandable but thats sad. 😢
That's very sad and helps no one.
It was bad enough telling my mum I was pregnant a few months before my wedding.
I was almost 26 and living with my husband.
Mine too, lmao.
Mine would be disappointed in me, but not kick me out. She'd like to think she'd brought me up to know not to sleep around that young, and I did'nt so she never had to deal with that .
I was a teenager when i got pregnant. I was 20 and had ky son at 21. Being a single mother at any age really is hard. I had my parents help, but they also told ke that I was to he the primary caregivers to him. I don't think I couldn't have done it without them. My son in going on 30 and he is a blessing
Dear heavens, sit the baby up to eat. If she can't sit up, you don't feed solid foods.
I had to have medication because my baby cried so much. I was so depressed. I found my baby was allergic to cows milk and so he was changed to goat milk. Did so much better but I was15 and definitely depressed and had to take something for it. It’s so hard when you’re so tired.
Oh that’s rough. My first baby rarely cried. I thought all babies were like that until I had my second. She cried nonstop. I was 34 and gained 50 lbs from stress eating. I can’t imagine being 15. Poor thing.
She is surrounded by support I'm bipolar split personality attachment disorder ptsd and add and postnatal I tried kill myself 7 times eventually I told a stranger at bus stop the relief sorry hear u went through that
All you need to know when she said to her Mum "Take it". Children having children and it still goes on.
Strong Teens having babies mothers are automatically strong teen mothers perhaps even more so
Yeah, nothing to celebrate or being proud of. Poor kid being born into this. Will have no example and do the same .
@@katefevre6222 You do realise this was filmed years ago right probably 2011.
@@DreamaCorbyn1 Like I give a crap when it was filmed.
@@DreamaCorbyn1 Like I give a crap when it was filmed
People saying Kim’s mum spoils her, well yeah she doesn’t want to lose another daughter. Bless the family ❤
I mean. I had no idea how to cook in my teens; I learned in my early 20s. But. Like I didn't really have to? I didn't have a kid? Kim's attitude is really shitty.
Wonder how Jasmine is getting on now! They never mentioned her boyfriend after she'd had the baby
Probaby 4 more kids and us tax payers paying for them.
Probably working a Job while you claim to pay taxes more like your jobless harrassing others and taxpayers are paying for your housing, food etc @@katefevre6222
@@katefevre6222 likely
So sorry for their loss 🌸
Jasmin needs to get a grip...big enough get pregnant big enough cope with baby sick on her jumper...no doubt her mum will end up bringing the baby up...
Yep
You spoil Kim?? No way wouldn’t have guessed unless you said 🙄🙄 enabler springs to mind.
Are there not Rec centers or something in the UK? These kids come up pregnant like it's the only thing to do.
There are not as many as there used to be.
However, as a former British teen, there are lots of other things to do
it is so hard to be a single mom I cannot imagine being 15 or 16 and coping with it. when you have a loving partner they do their part caring for the baby and both parents provide financial support. these young girls have their work cut out for them. ive seen lots of really good young moms. hopefully they can do it and work and not live on benefits. that life is hardly a life. you need a purpose and resources that work brings
... And you need protection to stop reproducing, then you would'nt be in that position, or keep your legs shut and have sex and babies when you are mature and finacially stable !
How do people just "fall" pregnant? 😊😊😊
Sex
She got pregnant at 14. Now, she is 16, and the baby is 7 months old.
Someone didn't do their math right. 🤣
If she got pregnant just before her 15th birthday, then it could work. 9 months pregnant + 7 months is over a year
Say she fell pregnant her last day of being 14, was pregnant for 9 months and gave birth at 15 years and 9 months, then she turned 16 three months later and now her baby is 7 months while she is 16 and 4 months. Sounds plausible to me!
She got pregnant at 14 and gave birth at 15.
Yeah and that someone is you 😂😂😂
@@kamilasmosna5821gagged😂😂
Kids having kids. 😵💫
I wish parents would listen to their babies. That kid is force feeding that little baby girl, she's sending clear messages she doesn't want to eat.
I got pregnant at 16 having my first born on my 17th birthday! Fell pregnant within the year and gave birth to my 2nd while I was still only 17. As they say, it's very likely for teens to have subsequent births in rapid succession. I'm not sure why that's so true since you'd think we'd learn AFTER the first one! Only thing I can contribute it to is the brain not being developed enough to foreshadow the awful consequences of our behaviors. This is why I find it hard to punish young teens for breaking the law as adults. It's very obvious that the brain of young ones do not see themselves as vulnerable. We are going to live forever lol! ... dummies!
It's more likely because you're more fertile. It's got nothing to do with mentality
Most teens are smart enough to know the consequences..
@@ENZOxDV9yeah definitely due to fertility
@@nmalele0909 they might know but they don’t fully grasp what the consequences will mean in their lives. That part of the brain isn’t fully developed until around 25
Women are more fertile shortly after giving birth.
They were sitting there laughing at pictures of her out partying and drinking under age that’s the fucking problem right there! she was out of control her mom let her be out partying and drinking all night that’s why she got pregnant!
sigh its nothing to celebrate! so angry with her mother there shouldve been more discipline!
if someone wants to do that, they will, whether it’s behind their parents back or not but i do believe she should’ve been pushed to use condoms or contraception. you can’t change the past i suppose 🤷♀️
@@lhvt.a yeah still awful parents
They were dragged up, not brought up. And these babies will be dragged up, not brought up too !
@@lhvt.aBut when you leave a girl in her early teens go clubbing and drinking every night you are increasing the chances of a lot of bad things happening 10 fold. Terrible parents.
Kim's mom's patience is something else because girrrrlllll
I had my first at 19 and 6th at 42, my mother would'nt let me back home until I got married at 3 months, still together 47 years later.
I wonder what Kim and jasmine are doing these days? Is there any way to find out? Thanks
I’m not sure how I feel about this programme
Yes, it shows the harshness of having babies young but it also normalises it.
Also, in relation to being against abortion, if I got pregnant at 15, my mum would have given me NO choice in the matter.
Is this voice over lady Sonya from eastenders?? HAHAH
Documentaries like this one should be shown at schools with the boys watching too. In these documentaries we never here from the ‘fathers’ side family.
3:57 when the mom said she looks nothing like you kim what kind of mom is she saying that
But this young girl is sitting there saying everything‘s just perfect. I have everything that I want? Give me a break as if this is just OK to do to her herself to her parents. I think it’s time some of these episodes start showing the extreme hardships of many of these young women who become pregnant. How lucky most of these women are to be able to stay in their parents home and have their parents help them or be able to help them. all of these young girls are the exception they’re not the rule. If other young girls and young men keep watching these things they’re gonna think getting pregnant fun
This was about 15 years ago...
I swear the narrator said the doctors think Jessica could be suffering from “ postnatal depression”. Did she mean postpartum depression?
They're the same thing, aren't they?
Same thing, different terms
anyone have a life update on these mums?? i’m soo nosey 😭😭😭
Kids having kids is never a good idea. The baby should be given up for adoption. It forces the rest of the family to raise another baby. The young girl who has the baby never gets ahead in life and the child never gets a break either.
the parents have to give consent for that and they didnt, so now they need to deal with the consequences
This is so untrue it’s alarming 😂
Mum thinks education is so important! Except for the part of drilling into these kids to get one!
That councillor was ridiculous. I left school at 15 through no fault of my own. Passed 13 exams alone. Didn't complete college or uni but certainly have a career which isn't "low paid with no development or prospects". Delusional.
She probably have 3 kids now.
- Yup, all different daddies, and only having them so she does'nt have to work and get the benefit. In my country we call them KFC- Kids For Cash.
@@katefevre6222 I don’t know if you’re in the UK or not, but nowadays you can only get government assistance beyond the basic child benefit (that everyone is eligible for) for the first two children. Obviously at the time this was filmed that wasn’t the case.
@@Norfolkgal22 I am in NZ
@@katefevre6222 I guess it shows there are scroungers all over the world…
I know what this was years ago but the baby in the bed wtf!!! 😤😤😤😤😔😔😔😔
Especially if rolls on baby from being exhausted
Omg baby Tommy is so adorable 😍❤️
There needs to be an update.. where are these girls now!? Anyone know!?
Out of four
One 4 weeks late one 2 weeks late one due date one 2 weeks early.
All labour's the same.
My waters didn't break so each child needed the waters breaking.
Same with my 3 kids
My first was 2 weeks over due , 5 and a half hours of labor . My water broke on its own.
My second was on his due date , my water broke on its own at home, got to the hospital at 8:30 am his was born @ 10:00 am
My 3rd was 5 weeks early , she was born in 2 hours and 17 minutes.
4 weeks late?? You went to 44 weeks?
Whatt??? I had no clue they would let you go so long! Wow. 4 weeks past? My doctors would NEVER allow me to go that far past my due datw
My son was 10 days late and an emergency c section.
Post natal depression is not easy
Kim and her mom calls baby Heidi "it" and also Kim's mom "me daughter". I was always told that British English is what Americans should be speaking because its "proper English".
This is working class English
@@red_rocksie isn't the English working class the middle class?
@@flossyraven Suppose it depends where in the world you're comparing it to... in England there is a distinct difference between how the working class talk and the middle class talk, and then a further difference with how the upper class talk.
Ik that in England &a few other places kids can smoke & drink I believe by the age of 13 I’m not 100% sure about the number of age I stated but ik it’s very young &defitnetly under 18 &21. God bless the girls their babies & their moms🫶🏼🙏🏽
Im 18 with my first baby and 22 years old the second one 😂now they are both high school.
When was this video filmed?
This is an old one, I've seen it before quite a few years ago.
2009-2011 it was filmed if I remember correctly
@@GoatNerdioYeah, 2009. It says it in roman numerals at the very end. Good call.
@@GhastlyCretinroyal numeral? Do you mean Roman?
@@marioncannon9924 Yeah, that's what I meant. I've never heard of "royal numerals" lol. Thanks ✌️
Wonder how she's doing now. This is early 2000's so she's likely 30's/40's. It really was a different world 20 years ago.
this is 2009
First week is tiring honey your whole life will be tiring even when your kids in 30 s
A kid having a kid .
I well never ever having kids before marriage anyways I'm too young and naive so yeah sure I'm gonna wait for both
How old is this
Thinking back to when my boys were born the main thing around that time period that I remember is the tiredness,mits a hard bloody slog and there’s no checking out! You’ve got to match on through it until the baby is in a routine but then the colic starts then the teething, the then the terrible twos 😂 AND then they become teenagers 😱🙄😂 When I hear of girls getting pregnant to “keep” their man I’ve got to laugh at the stupidity of it. It’s the most difficult, challenging time, hormones, sleep deprivation, feeling isolated etc..You don’t have time for yourself let alone a man FFS! Babies are a godsend however but you’ve gotta be one strong woman (which we all are) to battle through and come out the other side with well turned out, respectful, responsible, loving kids.
Kims mum feels guilty
Contraceptives
Why do some ppl say “fell pregnant” instead of “got pregnant” fell is too close to slipped & fell on the 🍆 😂 idk maybe it’s a language barrier thing because they are in a different part of the world
Jeez. None of you guys used protection?
Why do they keep putting out episodes from like 2008😭
Heidi looks so healthy 🥰adorable baby
Jasmine has parents money to fall on
Watching this video its a great video.
So it's great little slappers are having babies is it ?
@@katefevre6222 so you say that to rape victims too?
@@katefevre6222 It's said women like you tear other women down.
You wouldn't tell an 30-year-old that they are a slapper so why a pregnant teenager?
How immature
I know right! Its almost like shes a teenager with a still developing brain…
I think some comment are very harsh well done mums of the young mums
I was pregnant at 16 and 17 i had 2 kids before the age of 18 but I grew up so fast and didn’t depend on no one just me and my husband
Husband honey not everyone has a partner Husband
4:37 off topic but christ atleast use a cutting mat or a plate, just buttering toast on the bare kitchen worktop
Also panicking over a bit of sick she needs to get used cuz babies tend to do that alot this child is nowhere near ready to be a parent 😮🫤🫤
Its called ABORTION !! And until your considered as adult if your parent says your getting one.. YOUR GETTING ONE!! Full stop
That is called forced abortion and it's just as disgusting as forcing somebody to get birth or forcing someone to give it the baby up for adoption.
It's not up to the parents whether their kids get an abortion or not it's up to the pregnant person.
@@DreamaCorbyn1 i see NOTHING WRONG !! Its disgusting giving birth to a child that you know your going to give away.. WHERE IS THE RESPECT FOR HUMAN LIFE?!?! Where you tell me WHERE?! Go ahead
@@isabellacostantino2497 I won't comment on the abortion thing, but I am sick of @dreamaCorbyn1 acting as if she knows everything !
Where is the respect for human life? Ask yourself that question you force aborter.
Force abortion is just as sick as forced birthing kid Also its the mothers choice not anyone else's..
@@isabellacostantino2497
Nah the only one acting like they know everything is you Katie.
You're jealous salty and jealous because you can't have kids so you take it out on other women.
@@katefevre6222
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I watched this because I am intrigued by anything UK as I was born there eons ago but our family left when I was child. I find this so disturbing I'm unsubscribing. Today there is s-o-o-o-o-o-o much more information about contraception than any previous generation, why is this happening? I want to empathize but am stopped in my tracks by the abysmal ignorance on display, by the teens and parents. Somewhere along the line, parenting and boundaries were abandoned. There's nothing cute about it. This video cites 3,000 teen births/year in the UK. How can the country's social welfare system even sustain this situation? Very very sad.
This is an old show. The world was different then
mate this was yonks ago dont even chat
Please turn to Jesus he loves you so much and died on the cross for you and your family and friends
Gawd... just stop. Really nobody cares about Bible thumping 🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣
I believe, but this is irrelevant and I have a strong faith , but there is no need to preach to people like this.
woah that sounds crazy when did he do that? who's jesus?
That’s not going to help 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
what’s jesus gonna do if he’s hammered to a cross ☠️
I find this new generation of kids walking on clouds in away. They have no fear of not having a roof or not being able to pay bills. they seem to know that their parents will allow them to continue to live under their roof and to continue to pay their bills and to help them with daycare. It just doesn’t seem like there’s a real reason for them to be protecting themselves against pregnancy. I’ve been watching these episodes quite a bit, and all of these girls and men are the same way, there’s no fear in them because they know that they won’t be out on the street. Not that I think that they should but when these little 14 year-old girls sit there and say they’re against abortion well you might think differently if you don’t know where your next meals were coming from and you don’t have a roof for you and your soon to be newborn baby.
This is not a "new generation of kids" and that is not a new problem.
This show is at least 16 yrs old.
this isnt a new generation of kids u mong, ur daft if u think any of this seems like it was filmed recently
Kinda miss my ex gf even though she cheated on me with another adult guy, she was 15 where I was 23 that time.time.
Yeah that’s makes you a nonce mate 🥴
nonce alert
😊 beautiful people love watching the news when its raining outside and sipping a hot Cup of coffee 😊
Very cute little baby 😍
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